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  • Kink Goes Glam

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    16 Sep 2014 | 11:00 pm
    With the Fifty Shades movie set to release in February, sex toy and lingerie manufacturers are pulling out all the stops.
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    11 Sep 2014 | 8:31 pm
    I was clicking through my porn feeds and this new video stopped me in my tracks. Holy chemistry Batfriends, this is hot. They are both hot. Phew. Mindy, Jason X – As We Lay Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S. Federal Trademark law, and the Federal Trademark Dilution…
  • 10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers

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    Svetlana Ivanova
    16 Sep 2014 | 6:00 am
    The desire for sex is instinctive, but how to do it is not.  Tiffanie Drayton reveals ten things that no one tell men  that will make them better lovers. There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies Continue reading →(Visited 36 times, 4 visits today)
  • 5 Tips for Helping Girls with a Porn Problem

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    12 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    As someone who happens to get a significant amount of emails sent to XXXchurch forwarded my way, I can personally vouch for the fact that young women are battling with porn more than ever. (Tweet This!) In fact, it might surprise you that most of the people I hear from are either married women or girls who are still virgins. Perhaps we’ll get into why so many married women are watching porn at another time; for now, let’s explore what’s up with the young girls these days. Let’s start off with how the girls are struggling with porn. Yes, many watch it on their computer…
  • Female Ejaculation and the Tantric Transfer of Energy

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    10 Sep 2014 | 11:20 pm
    This is going to be a post on female ejaculationa and specifically the tantric energies contained in that fluid.  Forget all about the 'is squirting fake' arguments -- and let's look at the key ingredient that makes shejaculate special: energy.  I am basing this post on tantric texts, tantric teaching and my own personal experience-- and it is going to be highly spiritual in nature.   Hopefully it will explain why girls like to cum this way so much and why men respond so strongly to female ejaculate.Note: If you aren't buying this tantric explanation for female ejaculation,…
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  • jessehimself: breelifts: —- socialjusticekoolaid: Protesters...

    17 Sep 2014 | 4:35 am
    jessehimself: breelifts: socialjusticekoolaid: Protesters from across St Louis turned up and turned out for the first St Louis County Council Meeting since Mike Brown’s Death. (Part I) The St Louis County Council wasn’t as bad as Ferguson’s Council, but still very few answers and virtually no accountability from the folks who unleashed unholy hell on the residents of Ferguson, following Brown’s murder. #staywoke #farfromover KEEP POSTING I NEED TO KNOW! DONT STOP POSTING ABOUT THIS. IT IS NOT OVER!
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  • wocinsolidarity: not-homophobic-but: These tweets from...

    29 Aug 2014 | 7:18 pm
    wocinsolidarity: not-homophobic-but: These tweets from @OfRedAndBlue are very important. RIGHT!!!?!?? like we’re not playing a theoretical game here, we’re talking about people’s LIVES
  • redupnyc: One year after implementation, how are the Human...

    29 Aug 2014 | 11:24 am
    redupnyc: One year after implementation, how are the Human Trafficking Intervention Courts (HTIC) impacting people in the sex trades in NYC? As sex workers concerned with economic justice, human rights, and challenging the prison industrial complex, Red Umbrella Project’s members have been doing observations in the Brooklyn and Queens Human Trafficking Intervention Courts to document what is happening within the system. On October 1, join us at Long Island University in Brooklyn for a free event to learn about our findings and get a copy of our report.  Much more info to come! On October…
  • thebriskconvergence: Amazing. Lifted...

    28 Aug 2014 | 4:32 am
    thebriskconvergence: Amazing. Lifted from: hbcreative: #FERGUSON      I won’t soon forget the events that took place in #ferguson…will you?
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  • Pregnancy Scare Like Whoa

    17 Sep 2014 | 3:34 pm
    Hello fellow VPers!Today I write to you with a tale as old as time: The Dreaded Prengnacy Scare. Let me get to the brass tax of the situation:I fooled around with my friend on August 31st and September 1st. We did not have penis in vagina sex, but there was penis rubbing against vulva and penis rubbing against ass contact going on. The night of the 31st, he did have some precum come out of him but it happened as he was moving around, so it hit the back of my leg, and did not hit near my vagina. He wiped it up, I remember that. I think before that happened though, his penis did fall a little…
  • Worried! waiting results!

    16 Sep 2014 | 7:52 am
    HiI have got 4 pimples on the lower regions of my genital area (on the Labia Majora to be exact) , 3 in a row and the 4th on the other side. To me, it doesn't look like herpes, it looks like really sore pimples. Its not itchy, just sore, i've touched a fair few times now that its began hurting when I pee.I went and had a swab test today ( it really hurt when he swabbed it), and they gave me the medication to be on the safe side, however the doctor just said to "MOST LIKELY IS, YEAH, YEAH" quite abrupt.PICTURES BELOWNow I also have a feeling that I may have another STI such…
  • New Mirena Symptoms

    15 Sep 2014 | 3:06 pm
    I had a Mirena IUD inserted at the beginning of this month and have been crampy/bleedy ever since. I was hoping some people could take an objective look at my symptoms and see if they think they are cause for concern? My follow up appointment is October 10. Symptoms are as follows: I had my Mirena inserted on Wed Sept. 3, and was slated to have my period start shortly after. Insertion day was pretty crampy with moderate bleeding, but only lasted part of the day. I started my period the following night. My periods are usually very light and last 4 days max with no to minimal cramping (Thanks…
  • frequent UTIs

    15 Sep 2014 | 9:36 am
    I've been getting UTIs so frequently over the last ~6 months that sometimes, I have two within the span of one month. They don't seem to have any correlation to a certain point in my menstrual cycle and I'm doing everything "right." I wipe front to back, I urinate after intercourse, I wear cotton underwear. I also get frequent bouts of BV and I assume it's also e.coli, which is what my urine cultures usually show. This 6 month period does match up with when I started dating my new boyfriend (and we're both monogamous), but I had been slowly getting more frequent UTIs before dating him as…
  • language article/blog post

    15 Sep 2014 | 9:31 am
    This is a long shot, but in the last year or so someone posted an article about feminine speech patterns that really resonated with me. It spoke to saying things like "I just think..." as a way to negate what is being said. Or putting smilies in messages and as a result being taken less seriously. Anyway, I had it bookmarked, but lost everything and am trying to find it again. If anyone knows what I'm talking about and could provide a link I would greatly appreciate it!
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    Yahoo Health

  • Half of Cancer Deaths Are Preventable, Report Stresses

    17 Sep 2014 | 12:32 pm
    A lifestyle that includes exercise and healthy eating can reduce your risk of a cancer death. Photo by If knowledge is power, then this tidbit should fire you up: More than half of the cancer deaths in the U.S. Related: Mom of Six Fights Deadly Cancer After Birthing Preemie Infant “The important part here is that it points out gaps that we have in translating knowledge into action by much of the population,” Dr. Ernest Hawk, spokesperson for the AACR, told Yahoo Health. “Part of it is human nature,” said Hawk, who also heads the division of cancer prevention at the University of…
  • Mom of Six Fights Deadly Cancer After Birthing Preemie Infant

    17 Sep 2014 | 10:25 am
    A Utah mom is fighting for her life alongside her premature newborn after receiving a devastating cancer diagnosis at 26 weeks pregnant. Kathy Taylor, 33 — already the mother of five other children — was told she had an advanced form of melanoma earlier this month, prompting doctors to induce her labor so she could start receiving life-prolonging treatments. “He’s about as long as a pencil,” Jocelyn Taylor, Kathy’s mother-in-law, told the Deseret News, adding that Kathy is a devoted mother who has been home-schooling her kids. Baby Luke, who remains on a breathing machine at Salt…
  • The Best Workout for Flu Prevention

    17 Sep 2014 | 5:00 am
    Seriously what can’t this type of exercise do? By K. Aleisha Fetters, Women’s Health You know that vigorous exercise burns fat and builds muscle (and it may even help fight cravings)—and now you might be able to add “fight the flu” to its list of accomplishments, according to research recently released at National Science and Engineering Week. Meanwhile, moderate exercise didn’t seem to have any effect on the flu. While all exercise is known to increase immunity, previous research in the European Journal of Preventative Cardiology shows that high-intensity exercise is better than…
  • Why Being Sore After a Workout Isn't Always a Good Thing

    17 Sep 2014 | 5:00 am
    While we’re all guilty of wearing our soreness as a badge of post-workout pride once in a while (and you totally deserve it for giving your workout your all), experts say the feeling is not, in fact, a reliable measure of your fitness progress. It’s usually just a novel stimulus,” says Peak Performance trainer Ethan Grossman, who’s worked extensively with professional athletes and physical therapists and has degree in exercise science.
  • 5 DIY Fruit and Vegetable Washes

    16 Sep 2014 | 11:00 pm
    By Samantha Dupler A quick rinse of water is so last season. While some of these options sound great, their ingredients can sometimes list an ironically high amount of chemicals (and some have a price point to match!) SEE MORE: 7 Lies That Will Make Your Kids’ Lunches Healthier So before you buy, consider mixing up your own. Not only is it cheap, it’s also crazy easy, and you get to see exactly what ingredients you’re putting into it! Here are five ways to do it. 1) 2 cups of cold tap water, 1/4 cup of white vinegar, and 2 tablespoons lemon juice Mix these ingredients well together…
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  • Panourile solare pentru casa ta!

    9 Sep 2014 | 1:59 am
    Alegerea proiectului știință potrivit pentru tineri de a face ar trebui să includă conceptul de ajutându-i implice mai mult în problemele globale importante de astăzi. Un proiect științific pe panouri solare ar putea fi la fel de lucru pentru a le pentru a obține o mai bună înțelegere a modului în care criza de energie ne afecteaza si ce pot face despre el. Pentru mai multe informatii: Aceste ultimele decenii au fost o perioadă de schimbări incredibile pe planeta. Are nevoie planeta astăzi să fie protejate împotriva creșterii efectelor…
  • Sisteme de alarma potrivite pentru casa ta

    9 Sep 2014 | 1:29 am
    Sistemele de securitate Orlando ADT sunt fabricate și vândute de către Societatea de Servicii ADT Security, care este parte a sistemului de Tyco International, Inc. Uneori, Servicii compania ADT Security este cunoscut doar prin acronimul său de ADT, sau ca ADT Foc și de securitate. Compania ADT Security Services vinde sistemele sale de alarmă de incendiu și electronice de securitate în întreaga lume. Printre gazda de Orlando ADT sisteme de securitate produse pe care le oferă publicului sunt sisteme de alarmă antiefracție, supraveghere video și sisteme de control acces. În…
  • Achizitionarea unui sistem POS

    1 Sep 2014 | 2:21 am
    Ești un retailer care este în căutarea de a crește profiturile dvs. de afaceri? Dacă este așa, tu nu sunt cu siguranta singur. Vânzări mai mari și o creștere a satisfacției clienților sunt două obiective importante, printre mulți comercianți cu amănuntul. Dacă sunteți în căutarea pentru a realiza aceste obiective, este important să luați o privire atentă la echipamente POS, de asemenea, denumit în mod obișnuit ca punct de echipamente de vânzare. La examinarea echipamente POS, veți găsi că este vorba într-un număr de formate diferite. De exemplu, este posibil de…
  • Cum sa cumperi un incarcator de laptop Dell?

    25 Aug 2014 | 7:15 am
    În cazul în care aveți deja o mână înainte laptop dell, a cumpara o baterie de laptop Dell devine foarte ușor ca sunteti deja constienti de modelul, tipul de baterie și cu toate alte detalii necesare. Pe langa toate, unul dintre factorii majori care trebuie să păstreze un ochi pe este de siguranță și de precauție pe care ar trebui să respecte în același timp, pentru cumpărare Laptop baterie. Deși Dell are produsele sale distribuite la toate magazinele electronice și companii de renume cu toate acestea, dacă vă verificați mai întâi pe site-ul Dell și întreba despre…
  • Panouri solare

    31 Jul 2014 | 6:55 am
    Un panou solar este de fapt un dispozitiv care permite colectarea și transformarea energiei solare în energie electrică sau chiar caldura. Conceptul de panouri solare Panourile solare sunt cunoscute ca panouri radiante fotovoltaice si atomii care sunt prezenti în aceste panouri sunt atrasi prin acțiunea energiei solare. Acești atomi sunt prezenți într-un strat de siliciu, care se află între două panouri cunoscute ca panouri protector. O formațiune de curent electric are loc ca urmare a acțiunii de electroni din atomii menționate anterior,  iar acestea sunt apoi utilizate de…
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  • 3 Things You NEED To Know That Can Hinder A Marriage (Other Than Bad Sex)

    17 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week we’ve been talking great sex. Well, more specifically, great sex in marriage. If you haven’t seen my latest post, check it out now. I really believe the seven things I share with you are going to help your sex life with your spouse immensely. That being said, if a great marriage were only about great sex then things would be simple (Tweet This!). However, we know that great sex is only part of having a great marriage. There are many other things that factor in. Here are 3 quick things that can get in the way if we don’t get them right. 1. Failure to recognize…
  • 7 Keys to Great Sex in Marriage

    14 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    My wife Jeanette and I and our friends Dave and Ashley Willis are working on a brand-new video series called “Best Sex Life Now,” which you’ll see very soon. After 16 years of marriage, I’m more passionate about this than ever: married folks need to be having sex… and great sex at that! (Tweet This!) So here are seven keys to help you unlock that great sex life. #1 Twice a week. Practice makes perfect. Sure, sex is a great chance to have an orgasm, but more than that, sex connects you and brings you closer. You won’t have great sex the first time and…
  • 5 Tips for Helping Girls with a Porn Problem

    12 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    As someone who happens to get a significant amount of emails sent to XXXchurch forwarded my way, I can personally vouch for the fact that young women are battling with porn more than ever. (Tweet This!) In fact, it might surprise you that most of the people I hear from are either married women or girls who are still virgins. Perhaps we’ll get into why so many married women are watching porn at another time; for now, let’s explore what’s up with the young girls these days. Let’s start off with how the girls are struggling with porn. Yes, many watch it on their computer…
  • Bouncing Your Eyes: Part 3 - What's The Point?

    10 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    Not too long ago, Steven Luff wrote about the concept of “bouncing” one’s eyes. I think Steven and I would agree that why we do what we do is more important than what we’re doing. But sometimes behaviors are so destructive that we must first approach the what.  For instance, for many of you reading this, if you want to keep your relationship, you need to stop doing what you are doing. But I am not talking about freedom here – I am talking about control. Sometimes, control is necessary for a while to get a ball rolling toward freedom. (Tweet This!) This is…
  • 5 Reasons Women Are More Into Porn Than Ever

    7 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    Back in the (what I call) “Little House on the Prairie” days, it was a goal for men to get married. Not only did it mark the sign of manhood, but also the time when they could actually "get some." However, thanks to women having, let’s say a different set of standards when it comes to sex and also “thanks” to porn, marriage isn’t that much of a priority anymore. And you know what? Also due to the changes in society, a lot of women have higher-paying jobs than men. They have their own homes and being a housewife isn’t as celebrated as it used to be…
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  • Nominate me, please!

    17 Sep 2014 | 2:58 pm
    I’ve spent the majority of my 6+ years not asking to be nominated; I felt it defeated the purpose (in my mind). That if anybody actually liked my work, they’d nominate it without prompt. I’ve since dropped all stubbornness and “pride” and have no fucks left to give about my previous stick-up-my-ass ways.  I am liberated! Or something. I’m cantankerous, I’m rough around the edges, I’m not all that universally liked. I’m okay with that! I’m proud of the work I do, and if I raise some hackles then I think it means I’m doing my…
  • Jopen Lust L10 Review

    Lilly Dangeroux
    16 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    The Jopen Lust L10 surely is an odd-shaped dual stimulator. Due to the angle the photos were taken on SheVibe, people were imagining a solo use version of the Lelo Ida. Thankfully, not even Jopen feels the need to incorporate a rotating internal arm. But where the Ida’s clitoral portion is shaped like a large, flat-ish disc, the Jopen Lust L10 has a top shaped like a large egg vibrator. And the shape of the Jopen Lust L10 is just odd enough that I figured it could work for me. The Good Due to the way I’m built, I hate vibrators that have a handle that sticks straight out from my…
  • Ask Lilly: Are there any safe, silicone suction cup dildos?

    Lilly Dangeroux
    10 Sep 2014 | 8:49 am
    Like the rabbit vibrator, suction cup dildos are (for me) a great idea in theory but terrible in execution. I’m no spring chicken anymore and I have the knees of a person twice my age. I can’t deny though that plenty of people love these things. One reason why I have trouble with suction cup dildos is the lack of a compatible surface. The surface has to be completely flat and perfectly smooth, no imperfections that would break the suction seal. Bathroom tiles can sometimes work, but they need to be at least 1/2″ bigger than the base on each side to have a chance at working.
  • OVO K2 Rabbit Vibrator

    Lilly Dangeroux
    2 Sep 2014 | 9:00 am
    I’ve been eyeing up the OVO brand for a little while now. Silicone sex toys for less? Could it be true? Could they actually be decent? So far, the only reviews I have seen were for their cock rings which were panned pretty hard. But I didn’t worry, cock rings are usually never the highlight of most manufacturer’s product lines. So my first subject is the OVO K2 Rabbit Vibrator. It’s priced UNDER $50 at SheVibe, which is super good for a rabbit. OVO K2 would have blown the competition away if included in my previous round-up of under-$50 rabbits a few months back. What…
  • Like a AAA Tour Guide for Sex Toy Reviews

    Lilly Dangeroux
    30 Aug 2014 | 11:26 am
    I’m going to start a new little project, and I can’t do it alone. But hey, it benefits you!  My reviews here are a good balance of subjective and objective, but sometimes they tip the scales into more subjective. Which is really why I started reviewing in the first place – I had a hard time figuring out if a sex toy was going to work out for me without reading about other people’s experiences. But when I talk about how well a toy did (or didn’t) work out for me, that opinion isn’t going to apply to everyone. Let’s say I couldn’t love a dildo…
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    The Virginity Project

  • Coke is the real thing

    The Virginity Project
    28 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I’ve been brewing this metaphor for years. Or perhaps the word ‘season’ might be more appropriate. Because its usually around this time of year when, in a fit of pre-winter dread and the realization that my summer short/sandal combo is going to make me look a bit simple within a matter of weeks, I panic buy an item of clothing that I am convinced is going to make me look like a French fashion editor for the entirety of winter. Only to discover shortly afterwards that 1. I hate it and 2. It doesn’t suit me. It doesn’t transform me in the way I imagined. The fashion police are not…
  • Chicks dig nerds

    The Virginity Project
    29 Jul 2014 | 9:00 am
    ‘I stumbled across your blog today after hearing about your book on Dan Savage's podcast. I think your project is a really cool idea. I wanted to tell you my virginity loss story because it's a good one and there isn't much occasion to tell it.’ Never a truer word spoken. How often do you get the chance to regale a total stranger with the story of your first fumbling attempts at sexual intercourse?  Not often enough in my opinion. Not only that, but in another first, we feature that rarer-than-hen’s-teeth-tale today: the amusing virginity loss story. I won’t bang on…
  • What it feels like for a girl....and a boy

    The Virginity Project
    13 Jun 2014 | 6:37 am
    The Virginity Project has been away sunning itself on a Greek island again and exploring the beautiful graffited ruins of down town Athens.  Whilst it was gone, bad things happened. The Virginity Project has sat down on at least 16 different occasions to write about the so called ‘virgin shootings’ in Isla Vista and beat an uncomfortable retreat each time due to a case of severely conflicting emotions. These events have unleashed a storm of words, discussions, vitriol and verbal scraps. On balance, it’s a positive thing that we’re having these ‘discussions’. These are challenging…
  • Welcome to Camden

    The Virginity Project
    15 May 2014 | 9:59 am
    This story seems fitting for several reasons. One: its teller comes from North America, home of the USA, where my book has just been published (WOOHOO) and two; he lost his virginity not 500 yards from the desk I sit at as I write this. Chalk Farm. Or the Borough of Camden to you. If you are ‘a punkish arty kid’ as Tom paints himself, there could be no more appropriate backdrop than the beer stained (amongst other things) streets of Camden Town. As an aside, I took against Camden for the longest time but I’ve come to slyly like it. As gentrification saps the life blood from London,…
  • What happens abroad probably won’t stay abroad

    The Virginity Project
    27 Apr 2014 | 10:54 am
    For once, I won’t intro a story. Ok, just a little one. Some stories you just want to chuck right out there, fresh off the press, pretty much the moment they land in your inbox and tell the world about them. A lot of shitty things happen in this world. Here is a story that doesn’t include any of them. Please listen to ‘La Isla Bonita’ for added atmosphere. ‘Dear Kate,  I'm an American almost-woman (although now maybe more woman than girl), age 21, currently studying abroad in Europe. I lost my virginity just about two weeks ago. This is how it happened:  I am what some people…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Relationship Fat Traps

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    15 Sep 2014 | 2:42 am
    Relationship Fat Traps is not a term I have really heard before but it does resonate. When Ruf comes to live here, he starts assimilating some of my diet and losing his own rigorous exercise protocols. When Ruf comes to live here, I forget to do my own exercise regimes. We both end up getting bloated and doing [...]
  • Involuntary

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    12 Sep 2014 | 2:30 am
    He reached out to me that night. For the first time in a while. His finger tips, hard and nubbly against my back. I shook him off as best I could. It’s uncomfortable… even when they’re not quite touching. Knowing that they’re there, millimetres away from my body. Like a forcefield that I’m about to [...]
  • OverRated: Brokeback Mountain Syndrome

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    9 Sep 2014 | 2:07 am
    ‘…I understand that a lot of people find the sight of two grown men kissing in public really creepy…’ Nick Griffin, BNP, on Question Time, October 2009 In our politically correct society, it is not something that people necessarily admit to, even though that might be how many of them feel. Teenagers today are far more [...]
  • St Patrick’s Day

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    6 Sep 2014 | 2:05 am
    Nineteen years ago today, I was lying in a hospital bed enduring the pains of an induced labour. They insisted on interfering because they said I was ten days overdue. I kept bleating on about my five-week cycle and the fact that the labour, which had started at about midnight, was pretty much spot on [...]
  • When Words Lose Their Meaning

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    3 Sep 2014 | 1:57 am
    From Moggie at Time to tell the truth: Michaal Parkinson asked the poet Auden ‘..what was the purpose of a poet’ and he said, ‘‘As a poet one has a political duty, which is to try, by one’s example, to protect the purity of the language. Because when words lose their meaning then I’m quite sure [...]
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  • 10 Things You DIDN’T Know About SEX!

    Kaylen Jackson
    13 Sep 2014 | 5:00 am
    Sex is pretty cut and dry, right? Wrong! There are tons of things about getting it on that you probably don’t know – are YOU savvy when it comes to sex – or not? 1. You And Your Partner Can Be A “Mismatch” A penis doesn’t always fit into a vagina perfectly. Yes, they’re generally “made to fit together,” but that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes, a man can be much smaller than a woman, resulting in reduced pleasure for both of them because his penis is too small to stimulate the walls of his partner’s vagina. Also, a man can be…
  • 10 Blowjob Mistakes You DON’T Want To Make!

    Kaylen Jackson
    12 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    A blowjob can be incredible pleasure for a man – sometimes, it can be even better than traditional intercourse. But you don’t want it to turn into an epic fail and even if you think you know it all when it comes to oral sex, you could still probably use to learn a few things. Just follow these simple blow job “do nots” and he’ll be wild with passion instead of cringing in discomfort! 1. Using Your Teeth Using your teeth is probably the worst blowjob faux pas you could make. This always hurts and never, ever feels good. Even under the “right”…
  • How To Make Sex Over 40 GREAT! (Ladies Only)

    Kaylen Jackson
    11 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips specifically for women over forty can help older women have a super hot, satisfying orgasmic sex life! Sex tips for these women differ slightly than sex tips for younger women, because as the body ages, it is important to realize that sex can be different too. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have AWESOME sex! It could be better sex than you ever had! Use Plenty Of Lubrication A lot of couples assume that if they’re turned on, they don’t need additional lubrication during intercourse. Having plenty of lubrication, natural or otherwise, is essential for great…
  • The Incredible, Brand-New Sex Move You Have To Try – Tonight!

    Kaylen Jackson
    10 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips can help improve your bedroom routine, but many of them are still “run of the mill” stuff that gets boring after awhile. Even new things can seem old after some time, if you’ve been doing them regularly during sex. However, there are SOME sex tips are so hot they can only be used every now & then. These are the things you want to save for those nights where you really want to get crazy. They are the sex tips that are so awesome, you don’t want to use them every night for fear of burning them out. Do THIS brand new move – it’s so scorching…
  • How Your Girl Acts When You’re Amazing In Bed

    Shawna Lenee
    5 Sep 2014 | 4:00 pm
    Most sex tips tell you the “how” – few sex tips actually tell you how your partner responds when you’re actually doing it right! Are you on the money? I’ve talked to thousands of women about their intimate lives and I have seen it all – the great, the mediocre, and unfortunately the most common – the unfulfilled and unsatisfied. But the most surprising thing is that most guys are completely unaware of how they stack up in the bedroom. So how big of a deal is it anyway? And how do you know where you stack up? Let me tell you something - it is a HUGE…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • You can change your version of normal at any time

    Natalie (NML)
    17 Sep 2014 | 3:03 pm
    When you’ve witnessed or been through a lot of stuff as a child, a chunk of adulthood is spent trying to work out what’s normal because it quickly becomes apparent that what was ‘normal’ to you isn’t how things are in general or what you want to continue with, especially as you’ll be feeling the pain of putting your pattern on repeat. Normalising what may be really poor behaviour and dynamics only really equips you for abusive and dysfunctional relationships. It trains you to be a pleaser devoted to trying to influence people’s feelings and behaviour…
  • Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

    Natalie (NML)
    10 Sep 2014 | 2:53 pm
    Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For example, a few months back, I met up with a business acquaintance and when parting and discussing another meeting, they quipped that I’d better not be giving them any of that “sh*t” and pointed to my herbal tea. I felt slightly disconcerted. It niggled because it felt over the line. Now some people might think I’m crackers…
  • Are you sabotaging yourself by not allowing you to be happy?

    Natalie (NML)
    3 Sep 2014 | 2:32 pm
    Penny intended to feel on top of the world but ended up getting in her own way. She aced it when she’d showcased her work to respected people within her industry but enjoyed that feeling for all of a hot minute because she ended up ‘celebrating’ with Mr Miserable, her sometimes charming Mr Unavailable who from the moment that he knew he’d won her over, he started up with the sniping, criticism and other such passive aggression before his pants had hit the floor. Penny’s achievements were quickly forgotten and barely acknowledged. Sonya raves about her boyfriend who for the…
  • Understanding why an ex is spreading misinformation about you (or building a case against you to break up)

    Natalie (NML)
    25 Aug 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Breakups, even expected and mutual ones, often feel like a kick a teeth, but a breakup feels like a mugging when it comes to light that our ex has been in effect, poisoning the waters by saying things about us that are not true or are certainly exaggerated. Why would somebody who we shared a relationship with and who we believe that we were loving to, choose to spread misinformation designed to discredit us?  There’s a common misconception that breakups only happen to ‘bad’ people or where something terrible happened, which is akin to suggesting that breakups are an…
  • Are you inadvertently dimming your light? When you have a pattern of being afraid of outshining

    Natalie (NML)
    18 Aug 2014 | 2:41 pm
    Last week I had what I refer to as a ‘punchbulb moment’ – a lightbulb moment that punches you in the head, aka an epiphany. I have them every once in a while, like when I suddenly clicked that what had happened to me with my father and his family (being frozen out and the Chinese whispers) was part of a bigger pattern that had existed before I was even born and the grief anguish dried up, or when a series of incidences related to having failed my driving test twice while pregnant with Nia along with a few work-related things, had shone a light on the fact that I am a…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 401: Fuzzy landmines

    8 Sep 2014 | 4:01 pm
    Fuzzy landmines and invisible fences that the person entering an existing relationship often encounters--and how to make sure you're not the one making them! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 400: Polyamory for introverts

    1 Sep 2014 | 2:05 pm
    Being poly with introverts with guest Dan, dawn and Karen of Beyond the Love! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • Poly Mythbusters

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:18 pm
    Your favorite myths about polyamory, busted once and for all! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 398: Poly-mono mix

    14 Aug 2014 | 5:04 pm
    How do you cope with the challenges of polyamory when you self-identify as monogamous? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 397: Relationship land mines

    29 Jun 2014 | 8:20 pm
    Minx and LustyGuy gives a few examples of relationship land mines for pre-pondering. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Simple Marriage

  • 6 Marriage Myths Debunked

    15 Sep 2014 | 5:07 am
    The only thing perfect about marriage is the airbrushed wedding photo. ~ Anonymous Marriage, even the best of marriages, can take effort and work. In fact, based on the research I conducted regarding the essential elements necessary for a marriage to thrive, commitment, trust, and respect were in the top five – and each of these require some work to make happen. Many people still enter into marriage wearing rose-colored glasses. We long for the Hollywoodization of relationships. Where everything goes smoothly and passionately and all our disagreements are resolved before the credits…
  • The art of non-sexual touch

    10 Sep 2014 | 6:07 am
    If you are neanderthal or cro-magnon man reading this, your reaction may be “What? Me must procreate!” If you are somewhat more enlightened you may be saying, “Yeah right, like there is such a thing.” And if you’re a female, you may be saying, “It’s about time!” We are all sexual beings. It’s part of our design. Sexuality plays a role in most everything we encounter. Our society has become more and more sexualized. But in a marriage, there’s more to life than sex. Did I really just say that out loud? A major component of a fulfilling…
  • Be a Fan, a Team Player and a Coach to have a Successful Marriage

    8 Sep 2014 | 6:31 am
    Football season is here. Most people I know are overjoyed to let the upcoming games consume them. I have some serious pigskin fans in my family. Compared to those fanatics, my spouse and I are the weird ones. We don’t actually follow any particular team or sport. In fact, it’s one of the things that attracted me to my husband – that I wouldn’t be forced to watch the big screens or attend tail-gating parties when deep down, that just isn’t my passion. However, that being said, I do admire the enthusiasm that goes behind football fandom. In fact, I think the principles can be applied…
  • The Most Important Relationship You’ll Ever Have

    3 Sep 2014 | 5:14 am
    Do a Google search of the word relationships and you’ll find about 178,000,000 articles, links and sites on the topic. Interestingly though, you won’t find many links and articles on the most important relationship you’ll ever have – the one you have with yourself. The relationship you have with yourself has a tremendous impact on your life. Your self esteem, personal outlook, drive, and even mental health is largely shaped by this relationship. Why is this the most important relationship you’ll ever have? Your external world tends to be a reflection of your internal…
  • It Doesn’t Take Two

    1 Sep 2014 | 5:17 am
    It doesn’t “take two,” as the old saying goes. It takes two to keep your marriage the same; it only takes one to change it. When you change, the relationship changes. It Doesn’t Take Two is written by Corey from: Simple Marriage ----------- A FEW THINGS WE LOVE: Simple Marriage's eCourses - marriage help from the comfort of your own phone. Sexy Marriage Radio
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  • Thank you, CatalystCon

    15 Sep 2014 | 6:18 am
    I started this last night, saying I was too tired to do full justice to CatalystCon in one post, and in the midst of a book tour (see you tonight at 7:30 at The Booksmith, 1644 Haight Street, San Francisco!), I still am this morning, except to say that I am so glad I attended. It was a busy long weekend, and a lot to take in. I talked to old friends and made new ones, had the honor of sharing rooms with two groups of wonderful attendees in my writing workshops, learned and asked questions and talked about everything from slut-shaming to kilts to theater to sex work to purses to The Story of O…
  • Snapshots from Portland She Bop reading and see you again at Q Center September 18th

    11 Sep 2014 | 8:20 am
    I'm off to the airport to get to Los Angeles but wanted to share two photos from last night's reading at She Bop in Portland, Oregon and let you know there's now a huge stack of signed books and I will go back and sign more next week when I'm in the neighborhood for my September 18 erotica writing workshop at Q Center. Advance tickets are preferred but you can get them at the door as well. Details below. Thank you to everyone who packed She Bop! It was a pleasure and a lot of fun. Readers Emily Bingham, Stella Harris, me (Rachel Kramer Bussel), Laurel Isaac and the appropriately…
  • CatalystCon West is here - see you in Los Angeles!

    11 Sep 2014 | 7:51 am
    I've been a whirlwind of activity since I got to the West Coast on Friday night, so if you want to see photos and little updates, you can follow me on Instagram (rachelkramerbussel) and Twitter (@raquelita) and Tumblr. Today I'm heading to Los Angeles and then you can get all the details of my other events at my website (one update I have to add there is the Portland Public Library 9/24 Banned Books Week talk is now 6:30-8:30 pm). I'll be doing events in San Francisco (9/15), Portland, Oregon (9/18), Portland, Maine (9/23 & 9/24), Chicago (9/28), Milwaukee (9/30), New York (10/24) and my…
  • 5 sexy excerpts of what you'll hear tomorrow at She Bop in Portland, Oregon

    9 Sep 2014 | 2:27 pm
    Please join me, Tiffany Reisz, Stella Harris, Emily Bingham and Laurel Isaac tomorrow, September 10th at 7:30 for a free erotica reading from 4 of my books at She Bop, 909 N. Beech Street, Portland, Oregon, and if you can't make it, tell your friends (that's easy to do on Facebook). Here's 5 snippets of what you'll be hearing, and if there's time I may sneak in a bonus reader favorite story from The Big Book of Orgasms. Can't make the reading? Order online from She Bop. (not pictured: Laurel Isaac) Hungry for MoreA tiny bit of "Bringing the Heat" by Tiffany Reisz - read more at her website.
  • Greetings from Seattle, where I'm in bed with books and a cookie

    6 Sep 2014 | 10:32 am
    I'm savoring the chilly air while wearing the hoodie my boyfriend got me in my hotel bed in sunny Seattle. It looks like it'll be a gorgeous day out and I'm excited about today's 3 pm reading (see below), the first of my month of events. But first, I'm taking a little time to enjoy the quiet in the room and my head. It's been a stressful and hectic few weeks, with new opportunities dangling before me but not finalized yet, and the logistics of coordinating flights, train rides, events, hotels, housing, but now that I'm here, I feel more focused and ready. I'm on a working vacation, and want…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Starting Thursday: A weekend of kinky sex-ed classes at The Armory for BondCon

    Violet Blue
    16 Sep 2014 | 2:40 pm
    On September 18, opens its doors for BondCon — a really one-of-a-kind open house with workshops, near-constant very adult Folsom-flavored tours of The Armory, parties and the Bondage Awards. The events and classes start this Thursday, and continue through the weekend. If you’re in town, definitely check *something* out at The Armory — and if you’re here for Folsom weekend, definitely pick a reason to go by and hang out. Aaaand, I talked to Kink — anyone who uses my code VioletBlue gets 15% off any workshop! You have no excuse! Go get some smutty…
  • Sex News: Jihadism porn, Oculus Rift grope sim, Alaska: rape capital

    Violet Blue
    14 Sep 2014 | 3:53 am
    The new Oculus Rift program includes a pair of realistic feeling breasts supposed to interact with the virtual world of the headset. Upon squeezing the breasts – which are actually foam from a novelty mouse pad, the girl squeals with shock, covers her chest with her arms, and turns her eyes to the ground. Sex Pest Simulator Developed For Japanese Gropers (Austrian Times) In light of the many ISIS propaganda videos that have circulated this summer, Burleigh’s point deserves further analysis and refinement. One of the most striking aspects of the more violent among these videos is their…
  • Eye Candy: Quickie

    Violet Blue
    11 Sep 2014 | 8:31 pm
    I was clicking through my porn feeds and this new video stopped me in my tracks. Holy chemistry Batfriends, this is hot. They are both hot. Phew. Mindy, Jason X – As We Lay Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S. Federal Trademark law, and the Federal Trademark Dilution…
  • Sex News: Male sex work, evangelical ‘penis homes’, porn for net neutrality, fake Fleshlight bust

    Violet Blue
    10 Sep 2014 | 1:49 am
    Jon Millward got to analyze data from the U.K.’s number one retailer of sex toys (Lovehoney), and did some incredible data visualization based on one million sex toy sales. Down the Rabbit Hole: An Analysis of One Million Sex Toy Sales (Jon Millward) Two of the world’s biggest porn sites have promised “in-your-face” support for today’s “battle for the net” protest against proposals by US regulators to create online fast lanes for some companies. Pornhub and Redtube, two of the world’s largest pornography sites, on Friday announced they would join the “go-slow” day of…
  • Photography by Shuji Kobayashi

    Violet Blue
    5 Sep 2014 | 1:17 pm
    The photography of Tokyo-based Shuji Kobayashi is a lovely way to spend a moment of distraction as we hit the end of a very bizarre week. C-Heads has a short interview with him in Catching The Light, and he also maintains an erotic Blogspot blog, re-flection. Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 412

    Dan Savage
    16 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    Hey Dan Savage! What do you think about waiting to have sex until marriage? Dan? Good idea?  A woman enjoys sharing naked photos of herself. Her friends warn her against it. But it gets her off, so why should she listen to them?  On the Magnum, we welcome Debby Herbenick to discuss the vibrator addiction epidemic plaguing ladies across the land.  And, a ton of kind, thoughtful responses from our listeners to the lass who was trapped in a hot & cold relationship with a cold-blooded sociopath. This is not to be missed.  You listeners are some kind of wonderful. …
  • Savage Love Episode 411

    Dan Savage
    9 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    A woman is shocked to learn that her best friend is a trans woman. Why did she keep it secret? Should the caller feel betrayed?  Hear the tale of the French maid outfit that destroyed a relationship.  A college lesbian is horrified to discover that her roommate is an aggressively anti-gay Christian. A woman's former rapist continues to harass her online. In both cases the archangel Dan Savage raises his mighty sword to do some smiting.  We love a good smiting. 206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you…
  • Savage Love Episode 410

    Dan Savage
    2 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    What do you do when your potential new roommate comes with his very own stalker?  Dan chats with Dr. Vy Chu about the real risks of sleeping with honest, HIV-pos guys. On the Magnum, we are delighted to bring back fashion force-of-nature Simon Doonan, to discuss the feminist implications of camel toes.  And a ton more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting This episode is also brought to you Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the…
  • Savage Love Episode 409

    Dan Savage
    26 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and his old co-host Mary Martone talk about cat jealousy, mate poaching, and have an epic, drag-out battle over fat-shaming.  This episode is brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This podcast is also brought to you by Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.
  • Savage Love Episode 408

    Dan Savage
    19 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week, Dan welcomes author Joan Price to talk about sexuality for older folks. Meanwhile, back in high school, a gay lad is suffering because his boyfriend has suddenly decided he's straight.  On the Magnum, Dan chats and spars with prolific freelance writer Jillian Keenan about whether kink is a sexual orientation.  And, how can a gentle giant figure out how to dominate his lady in the way she really wants?  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • The Definitive List Of The 20 Best Times To Be Black

    Damon Young
    17 Sep 2014 | 8:39 pm
    20. When you want to go on a cruise to the Bahamas and get discount conch 19. When you have a baby and you really, really, really want to name her Keisha 18. When you want to grow a beard and not have everyone think you’re a gotdamn hipster 17. When you want to date a Black woman 16. When you’re at a work event with a bunch of White people and you see another Black face 15. When you’re at a party and “Nigga What Nigga Who” comes on and you want to repeat the chorus 14. When you want to drive a Cadillac and you don’t want people to think you’re a…
  • Love & Hip Hop Hollywood Ep. 1: Here’s What Happens To Dreams Defferred

    Panama Jackson
    15 Sep 2014 | 7:47 pm
    In what can only be described as the best thing to happen to Monday nights since the introduction of Monday Night Football, the next installment in Black excellence debuted (on TV at least, it’s been available online for days) on VH1. Yes, Love & Hip Hop has returned and this time we’re coming live and direct from Hollywood, Los Angeles, California. Not for nothing, when I think Hollywood, I think celebrities, yet in LHH fashion, we’ve scratched the bottom of the barrel of celebrity here, but the pinnacle of fuckery at the same damn time. Let’s start with the…
  • Shit Bougie Black People Love: 21. Panels, Conferences, And Conventions

    Damon Young
    15 Sep 2014 | 5:14 pm
    If you ever happened to be in dire need of 300 or so Bougie Black People and had no idea how to find them, go to Kinkos and create a flyer for a panel, conference, or convention. When done at Kinkos, create an Eventbrite page. And make sure to have a registration fee. Then, create a Facebook event page and hashtag for it. And don’t worry about the subject of the panel, conference, or convention. It doesn’t matter. As long as the panel, conference, or convention exists and Bougie Black People are aware of it, they will attend. Although Brunch remains the fulcrum for the Bougie…
  • Actress Arrested For…Kissing While Black

    Damon Young
    15 Sep 2014 | 9:06 am
    Keeping score, we have documented proof that the following are legal offenses: Driving while Black. Walking while Black. Waiting while Black. Going home while Black. Sitting while Black. Losing your keys while Black. Being near a White Person while Black. Now, after Daniele Watts — a young actress who made her film debut in Django Unchained — was recently arrested by LAPD after being mistaken for a prostitute after being seen kissing her (White) boyfriend, we have proof “Kissing while Black” is now apparently illegal as well. I wonder how much farther down this…
  • Poussey Too Bomb: Orange Is The New Black Writer Divorces Husband; Dates Samira Wiley

    Roll Call
    15 Sep 2014 | 6:43 am
    I’ve had many conversations about the Poussey Effect, which is basically the voodoo that Samira do so well that puts even straight girls in a spell. I’m definitely in that camp. It’s that mischievous smile, yo. Apparently, OITNB head writer, Lauren Morelli divorced her husband after realizing she was a lesbian. She admitted that writing lead character, Piper’s sexual arc with Alex caused her to realize how much she could relate. Art imitating life like a mug. And of course, the specialized bonding that working on set formulates led to a romance with Samira Wiley. Look,…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • Alex Trebek's Mustache Is Making A Comeback (And I'm In Love)

    17 Sep 2014 | 2:42 pm
    After more than a decade of being clean-shaven, Jeopardy host Alex Trebek is bringing his iconic mustache back and we couldn't be more in love! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 9 Surefire Signs He's The Guy You Should Marry

    17 Sep 2014 | 1:55 pm
    9 surefire signs he's the marrying type. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • The Top 10 Reasons People Get Divorced

    17 Sep 2014 | 1:39 pm
    If you think that sexual infidelity is the leading cause of divorce, you've got it all wrong. YourTango experts share the real causes of divorce. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • My Boyfriend Still Can't Get Over My Past — What Can I Do?

    em and lo
    17 Sep 2014 | 1:15 pm
    Woman seeks advice on how to console her boyfriend, who's insecure about sexual past. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Top 10 Reasons To Give Up On Men And Become A Lesbian

    17 Sep 2014 | 11:57 am
    As a bisexual woman, I spend a lot of time considering the positive and negative qualities of both men and women. Each group has their pros and cons, but there are definitely some days when guys become such a hassle that I think, "Screw it, it's girls only for me from now on."  All of us bisexual ladies have those days. And I won't lie; there are times when a date with a guy is going so poorly that we just want to pull one of these: Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • Brand in Focus: Je Joue (Plus Win a MiMi Vibrator Worth £65!)

    17 Sep 2014 | 3:55 am
    When it comes to luxurious rechargeable vibrators, Je Joue immediately springs to mind. The London-based company has built up a reputation amongst Lovehoney customers for producing top-quality pleasure products for women and couples. The most well known item in their range is the MiMi Rechargeable Vibrator, which was recently voted the #1 vibrator by Good Housekeeping. With silky smooth curves, focused vibrations and 10 modes of play, it's easy to see why the MiMi has made such a big impression. We're giving you the chance to win a Je Joue MiMi Rechargeable Vibrator (worth £65!) Just…
  • How to Choose a Strap-On Feeldoe Dildo

    12 Sep 2014 | 3:11 am
    If you're looking for hands-free fun without the need for a harness, Feeldoe is the strapless strap-on for your next adventures. Offering all the pleasure of strap-ons without any straps, buckles, or snaps to slow you down. Self-made sexpert Mia created the Feeldoe in Florida back in 2002, although the project had been in development since the 1980s. With her background in research and development of mechanical equipment, machinery design and chemical material processing, Mia was able to invent this useful and innovative couples sex toy. After years of committed research (and a patient…
  • 36 Miles of Cock? The World's Biggest Analysis of Sex Toy Sales Says So

    10 Sep 2014 | 6:14 am
    If you've been reading the Lovehoney blog for a while, you'll remember us raving about Jon Millward's studies in the past (we've talked about his analysis of porn stars, as well as his survey of call girls in Britain). This "Ideas Detective" really impressed us by taking mind-boggling data and presenting it in a simple but fun way. In fact, we were so amazed by his fascinating articles that we got in touch to see if he'd be interested in doing an analysis of Lovehoney, and - you guessed it - he said yes! We're so pleased and proud to present the world's biggest analysis of sex toy…
  • "So Incredibly Powerful" - Review of the Month, August 2014

    8 Sep 2014 | 3:01 am
    Yet another month has been and gone, and so without further ado, it's time we announced our favourite sex toy reviews from August! As always, we want to say a big thank you to everyone who takes the time to leave us feedback, whether it's for our products, our service, or something else. We couldn't keep things running so smoothly without you. This month's winner is shades111 for his outstanding review of the L'Amourose Rosa Rechargeable Prostate and G-Spot Vibrator. Describing every detail, from his initial impressions on opening the box, to his first experience using this vibrator,…
  • Jimmyjane On The Big Screen In "Sex Tape"

    5 Sep 2014 | 5:26 am
    Luxury sex toy company Jimmyjane hit the cinema this week with a cameo in the comedy Sex Tape starring Cameron Diaz and Jason Segel. The film follows the story of a married couple (Diaz and Segel) who try to re-invigorate their love life by making a sex tape. Unfortunately, the video syncs with the iPads of their family, neighbours and bosses. Sex toy geeks will be delighted to see the Jimmyjane luxury vibrators FORM 2, FORM 4 and FORM 6 make an appearance in the movie. Check out what our customers think of these rechargeable vibes below. We love seeing sex toys go mainstream - in fact,…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

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    of Sex and Love

  • It’s That Time Again

    14 Sep 2014 | 3:42 pm
    The last time I went through a big toy overhaul was before I moved into my current apartment. Last month, I signed the lease for the next year, meaning I’ve already been here two. That’s two years to review a lot of toys, and not all of them suited my tastes or anatomy. I’ve got at least a drawer full of toys that I have no need for. This is good news for you. If there’s something that’s sterilizable — silicone, plastic, metal or glass — or can be safely transported — books and lube — that I didn’t love, it can be yours. Some stuff…
  • Svakom Echo

    5 Sep 2014 | 4:48 am
    Echo $110 from Svakom Who loves to discover and try toys from new companies? This reviewer! And the newest company on my radar is Svakom, an American company with a European office. The company makes toys that are, at first glance, similar to Lelo. However, Svakom has some original designs that really make this brand worth looking at a second time… and I totally plan to write about those toys. For this post, however, I’ll focus on the Echo. Echo is a tiny clitoral vibrator that is remarkably similar to Lelo’s Lily. Lily was one of those toys that I lusted over for months,…
  • Sex Store Profiles: OJT Sex Toys

    4 Sep 2014 | 12:35 am
    With the recent closing of a popular affiliate program that catered yo my Canadian readers, I am on the lookout for a new Canadian superstore to fill the void. I’m certainly not settled on any one Canadian sex toy store — feel free to leave a suggestion in the comments or on Twitter — but one of the sites I’ve recently discovered is OJT Sex Toys. Selection is always one of the things that I check out when looking for a new store/affiliate program. Do they have toys I would recommend to my readers in addition to those that I want to try? OJT Sex Toyscarries some of my…
  • Labor Day Sales

    1 Sep 2014 | 12:06 pm
    It’s a rainy Labor Day. Not so good for grillin’ out. Just fine for staying inside and playing, whether you’re alone or not. Perhaps shopping. Lucky thing I’ve compiled this handy list of Labor Day Sales. Save 15% at Lovehoney. 15% off $75, 20% off $100, and 25% off $150 at Good Vibes 33% off orders from Sinclair; free shipping on $39+, free gifts when spending %60+ Adam & Eve – 50% Off One Item plus Free Mystery Gift with Code: AFFHOT12 20% off for Babeland email subscribers. Sign up here. I’ll add a couple more sales over the course of the day, so…
  • Fetish Fantasy Gold Ben-Wa Balls

    18 Aug 2014 | 2:42 am
    Fetish Fantasy Gold Ben Wa Balls $12.51 from Of Sex and Love Store As I sit here writing this, I am awaiting one heavy, golden ball to reintroduce itself to gravity and make its way down my vaginal canal so I can finish this review and go to sleep. I am not afraid that this ball is lost forever. I have a cervix. I know that there is an end to my vagina. I am not worried. I am simply annoyed. Other people might be worried, however. They may not understand how the the female anatomy works or, perhaps. In my case, I struggled to push the small ben wa balls past my pubic bone, pinching myself…
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  • 8 Very Obvious Signs You’re a Serial Monogamist

    17 Sep 2014 | 12:20 pm
    Do you jump from one romance to another all the time? Use these signs to know if you’re a serial monogamist who gets bored of old love very quickly! By Jamie Oakes Are you someone who has had a series of long-term relationships? Are you hanging on to an unhappy relationship because you fear being alone? Do you notice a pattern when it comes to the people you date? If you have been dating someone for a while now, but the two of you still haven’t been able to take the next step together, it’s possible that you’re actually a serial monogamist. Who is a serial monogamist? If you’ve…
  • 9 Sure Ways to Tell if You’re Really Bi-Curious

    16 Sep 2014 | 10:51 am
    Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex? It’s completely natural, and acceptable, to be bi-curious. Use these 9 signs to find out more! By Gemma Middleton Okay girls, let’s admit it, many of us have thought about what it would be like to at least kiss another girl, and some of us probably have at some point, but does that mean you are bi-curious? Not necessarily. Nearly all of us can appreciate a girl with a nice body or fantastic boobs, but do your thoughts wander a bit further than how nice she looks? What is bi-curiosity? Bi-curiosity is described as a phenomenon in…
  • 18 Things You HAVE to Avoid Doing on Your First Date!

    14 Sep 2014 | 8:36 am
    Want to awe the person you’re meeting on your first date? Just focus on having a good time, and make sure you avoid these 18 things that are best avoided! By Emma Spencer Every first date you have is potentially the last first date you will ever have! It only takes one time to meet the perfect person and once you find them, well, you don’t carry on looking, do you? So you need to make sure that you make the best impression every time. After all, a first date is certainly not an assurance that you will get a second, so you need to make sure that you make that assurance while you’re at…
  • 14 Awkward Questions You Should Never Ask a Guy

    13 Sep 2014 | 10:41 am
    Asking your guy a list of questions can be fun, but not if you leave him feeling uncomfortable! Here are 14 awkward questions that are best left unasked! By Michelle Escultura Women are, admittedly, quite the inquisitive bunch. We always want to know things, especially if it’s about the guy we’re dating. Whether it’s by snooping, by spying or by outright asking, we always seem to find a way to learn what we want to know. The problem with this though, is that sometimes we ask some questions that are better off not being asked. Due to our insistence on knowing anything and everything, we…
  • 12 Obvious Signs You Have Big Commitment Issues!

    12 Sep 2014 | 12:22 pm
    If you’re a commitment-phobe, stop the maddening cycle of hurting others. Use these signs, learn to come to terms and make a change for the better. By Lianne Choo Browsed through your Rolodex and realized that all your friends are either married, having children, or in serious relationships whereas the biggest decision you have to make right now is whether you want to take home the Merlot or Pinot Noir? If you are successful, sociable and a ball of fun to be around but still single, there is a chance that you may be a commitment-phobe. This term simply refers to someone who is terrified of…
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  • Stream of Consciousness Life Thoughts

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    14 Sep 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Instead of attempting to do a catch-up post before I write the “real” post by trying to recap all the things that have happened since the last time so many ages ago that I posted on here, I just need to write. I’ve been doing so much writing the last few years, but so little personal writing. Grad school has sucked up all my writing time and now that I’m writing my thesis I’m going a little bit insane. I am having a difficult time getting words down on the page, however, and I’m hoping that a bit of a free write will assist with that. I’m struggling.
  • Protected: Slow Change

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    29 Apr 2014 | 5:33 am
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  • Light at the End of the School Tunnel

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    23 Feb 2014 | 2:48 am
    For those of you who don’t know, I have been attending Antioch University since the Fall of 2011 working on a self-designed Masters program in Psychology. Last Wednesday, the 12th, I had my Application Project Plan Approval Degree Committee Meeting (yes, apparently the name is that long). I met with the three other people who will be assessing, evaluating, and helping me through the process of my Applied Thesis in my last three quarters at Antioch. My plan for my thesis was approved, which means that today I am submitting the syllabus for the next three quarters of my Application…
  • Sexual Identity Story

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    28 Jan 2014 | 3:31 pm
    I was recently answering a question in a queer poly FAAB/woman/feminine-oriented group I’m part of and thought it would make good blog fodder. I have a ton of posts I keep working on and meaning to finish, but keep putting off, so I figure I could slap this one up. I have no idea what my readership is like these days (not that there’s many of you since my writing gap has grown larger and larger), but I imagine this might not be new information. Oh well! Question posed: What is your story with your sexual identity? What’s your relationship with being queer? My post: (tl;dr,…
  • On Longing to Meditate on the Will of Someone Else

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    5 Dec 2013 | 5:07 am
    I miss the feeling of steel encircling my neck. The weight of it made it difficult for me to sleep on my back, and I still have difficulty sleeping that way, even though it has now been over nine months since I last wore it. It lost its meaning long before that, though. The garnets inlaid in the steel ring began falling out of it months before it stopped living on my neck. We replaced them, one by one, but they never stayed in place for very long. I knew that their falling out marked that the power dynamic we had crafted and worked to forge over so many years was beginning to end. We were…
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  • Magic Numbers?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    10 Sep 2014 | 8:13 am
    During yesterday’s consultation, a client asked a common question: Is there a best age for a PSO to be? While platform sites often have a “member since” date showing in your profile (making math possible!), here’s some data on ages men find “attractive”: Charts from OKCupid, showing how straight women and men rate each other […]
  • Phone Sex Operator Advertising Sale

    Phone Sex Secrets
    23 Aug 2014 | 10:16 am
    In order to give you a last chance bump this summer to build your PR etc. for the busy phone sex season ahead, I’ve decided to run a little sale on the Tumblr ads / promotion spaces. Actually, it’s a huge sale in terms of discount; just short in length of time. I suspect I […]
  • What Do I Think Of Phone Sex Platform TalkToMe?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    16 Aug 2014 | 6:32 pm
    I am often solicited to join other phone sex platform sites — if only just to try it out & review them here at Phone Sex Secrets. But why would I create an account, market myself etc., just to get a few callers to review the platform service? That’s a lot of work for a […]
  • TalkToMe’s Unfair & Unethical Attack On NiteFlirt

    Phone Sex Secrets
    13 Aug 2014 | 7:23 am
    Clearly trying to capitalize on NiteFlirt’s latest policy announcement , TalkToMe (TTM) sent an email alert of their own members, or at least to their PSOs (called “Talkers”), entitled Your Voice, Your Choice! [Normally, I modify the font -- but since they sent their email in comic sans (which is a much mocked and even […]
  • Is NiteFlirt Really Playing Fair With Their Latest Play Fair Linking Policy?

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    10 Aug 2014 | 3:02 am
    In the August edition of NiteFlirt‘s FlirtBuzz newsletter, there was an update regarding Play Fair, the phone sex platform’s department which enforces the NiteFlirt Member Agreement and NiteFlirt’s policies. Along with encouraging Flirts (& other members) to bully and report their fellow phone sex operators (as if more of that was actually needed!), the important […]
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  • 10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers

    Svetlana Ivanova
    16 Sep 2014 | 6:00 am
    The desire for sex is instinctive, but how to do it is not.  Tiffanie Drayton reveals ten things that no one tell men  that will make them better lovers. There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies Continue reading →(Visited 36 times, 4 visits today)
  • 10 Surefire Tricks for Better Sex – According to Science

    Svetlana Ivanova
    13 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    The world’s foremost doctors reveal to Esquire their surefire tricks for better sex. You can try all the sex positions you want, or you can call up the world’s foremost doctors for sex advice on their one surefire trick in the bedroom. And then the positions get better. Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great Continue reading →(Visited 71 times, 1 visits today)
  • How to Take Your Sexual Pleasure to Another Level

    Svetlana Ivanova
    11 Sep 2014 | 4:00 am
    Adding variety to your sex life on occasion will keep her interested and excited to be having sex with you, AskMen’s Wing Girl Marni shares seven exciting sex positions that will leave her begging for more.(Visited 46 times, 1 visits today)
  • What Should You Do with Her Breasts?

    Svetlana Ivanova
    9 Sep 2014 | 4:00 am
    You can think of a million things to do, but these is is what  she’ll love. Breasts are affectionately referred to as “fun bags” for a reason: They’re really freaking fun to play with. They’re round! They’re perky! They’re soft! They’re squishy! But for as much glee as you receive from her breasts, you want Continue reading →(Visited 80 times, 1 visits today)
  • Learn How to Make Sex Coffee

    Svetlana Ivanova
    6 Sep 2014 | 2:00 am
    Learn how to make sex coffee – the recipe that boosts libido. You already have a morning cup of coffee. Why not make it count? Wake up your vroom-vroom with this suprisingly simple recipe: a cup of java, maca, cacao, and cinnamon. That’s it! These raw foods have been used since ancient times to support Continue reading →(Visited 83 times, 1 visits today)
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  • Stripping Away the Shadows

    Molly Moore
    17 Sep 2014 | 3:30 pm
    This weeks prompt on wicked Wednesday is communication. The prompt actually made me want to write a couple of different posts but today has been my sons 15th birthday and so time for writing has been rather limited however time for thinking, as I got ready for a family dinner, was abundant. As I considered…
  • Picnic Lunch

    Molly Moore
    16 Sep 2014 | 1:41 pm
    At the beginning of this week I set myself a task; to take a new location during this week to post on the final day. However when I set myself that challenge I had temporarily forgotten our weekend plans which were truly fabulous but very time-consuming and as a result I have not managed to…
  • Elust #62

    Molly Moore
    16 Sep 2014 | 4:20 am
    Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the…
  • Painted Words

    Molly Moore
    15 Sep 2014 | 2:43 pm
    Day 6 and for this one I am using a selection of different images taken at a variety of different times and locations. The unifying theme though is graffiti. We have managed quite a few different location for this Scavenger Hunt and after spending quite a while trying to decide which ones to use I…
  • Plugged In

    Molly Moore
    14 Sep 2014 | 4:55 pm
    Before I start writing about Butt Plugs I just want to say that I am so very happy that Kink of the Week has finally returned. I know that Jade has been going through some big real life changes, hence her decision to KOTW on hold for a while, but I will happily admit that…
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  • Los Angeles Footnight September 18

    Ms. Justine
    16 Sep 2014 | 4:45 am
    I will be at” target=”_blank”>Los Angeles Footnight on September 18th! It is the 12th Anniversary Party. I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West, if you can handle a double. I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out more photos in my Foot Fetish Gallery. Can’t come to Los Angeles Footnight? Contact me for a private foot fetish session at Dungeon West instead. If you can’t…
  • Double your Decadence, Triple your Titillation

    Ms. Justine
    3 Sep 2014 | 10:04 am
    I will be in New Orleans September 12-15, joining me will be Mistress Natalie West –lesbian dominatrix of Los Angeles and we are both visiting Mistress Erin–New Orleans’ finest dominatrix, a sadistic Southern Belle. Mistress Erin and I have known each other for over five years–we met at a dungeon here in Los Angeles and have tormented many the fine, Southern gentlemen during her time of ruling the Quarter with an iron fist. We have had some pretty memorable sessions both in Los Angeles and New Orleans: there was that time in the “Riot Hyatt” in LA that…
  • Long Beach Footnight September 5

    Ms. Justine
    2 Sep 2014 | 8:39 am
    I will be at Long Beach Footnight on September 5th! The theme is “Roaring Tootsies.” I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West, if you can handle a double. I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out more photos in my Foot Fetish Gallery. Can’t come to Long Beach Footnight? I will also be at Los Angeles Footnight on September 18th. If you can’t come to either, enjoy my foot fetish clips instead: Copyright @ Mistress…
  • The Best is Coming Through the Southwest Again!

    Ms. Justine
    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    The South is my guilty pleasure. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? I am starting in Dallas–it’s my first time there, so please give me a warm Texas welcome! Then to Houston, where I already have a few eager regulars waiting for me. Finally, I am ending in one of my favorite cities, New Orleans. So if you missed me earlier, you can catch up with me in NOLA. For the first time, I will also be offering double sessions with Mistress Natalie…
  • Naughty Circus at Dungeon West

    Ms. Justine
    21 Aug 2014 | 9:15 am
    Epic. Fucking. Party. What didn’t happen would be shorter to describe this amazing night! Sienna Sinclaire, Hostess and Organizer of Naughty Guide to Los Angeles on Meet-up, out did herself for throwing an amazing party. Dungeon West was decorated and decked out like a circus! I was decked out in a Syren latex corset and thong with custom latex kitty ears by Jane Doe Latex. Meow! Sienna Sinclaire as sexy Snake Charmer and myself as a wild cat with a single tail.Food: hot dogs, popcorn, cotton candy, cracker jacks, animal crackers and candy.Body PainterWacko the MagicianSexy Bartenders…
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  • 7 Reasons Why “Secretary” Is 100% Better Than “50 Shades of Grey”

    Devany Wolfe
    27 Aug 2014 | 11:02 am
    By now we’re all probably at least peripherally familiar with the trio of smutty books by E. L. James featuring innocent Ana and smoldering Christian Grey. As a lover of erotica, I ate these books right up, despite the fact that they were pretty ridiculous. If you’re planning on seeing the movie when it comes out, I highly recommend seeing what could be called its predecessor, Secretary, which came out in 2002first – and these are the reasons why. 1. Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader have the most intense chemistry. They are both quirky, awkward and you can almost cut the…
  • 5 Signs He’s into You

    Devany Wolfe
    3 Jun 2014 | 5:45 am
    If a guy is into you, there are several ways to tell. Unlike women, most men are more open and obvious about their interests, so if you are paying attention, it is easy to spot a blooming romance. Here are 5 signs he’s into you. 1. If you’ve just met him, do you find that he looks at you often while you’re with your group of friends? He’s not just trying to catch a peek at you, but he’s trying to gauge what you find funny, interesting, what you laugh at – he’s analyzing what you’re taking part in socially. He wants to get to know you better so…
  • Why Spring Cleanses Are Important

    Devany Wolfe
    10 Apr 2014 | 7:07 pm
    After a long, dark winter, there’s nothing better than feeling the warm sunshine and seeing the grass emerge from beneath the snow. Everything is being rejuvenated – and it’s important to give our bodies the same cleaning as we do our houses, our cars and our wardrobes.   Why? Because most of us, if we live in cold climates, are eating a lot of heavy, carb-dense,  fatty foods for six months in order to keep warm. It is the body’s instinct, after all. Even as far as winter vegetables go – most seasonal fare comes from the root and is very starchy.   Transitional…
  • Sexting – A modern day seduction

    Devany Wolfe
    17 Mar 2014 | 9:26 am
    “The numbers that survive in my phone don’t belong to those boys and men who were best at fucking me, but the ones who were, and are, best at telling me how—and why, and where, and also in which places—they would fuck me. I know where my priorities lie; here is where they tell the truth. Good sex is a miraculously dependent and alchemic performance, never with one author. It could take more than two, but never fewer. Good sexting, though, is an uncommon skill, almost concrete, not improved by lighting or blood alcohol content or desperate circumstances or any other measures. It is…
  • How To Optimize Your Dating Profile Like an Online Marketer

    CT Moore
    6 Feb 2014 | 11:53 am
    Getting people to go to websites and then do stuff (buy something, sign up for something, or whatever) is what I do for a living. I’ve been doing for almost a decade, and I’ve gotten pretty good at it. Part of it is making sure that a website doesn’t suck, part of it is making sure that the people you’re sending to said website are the right kinds of people (us marketers call them “targeted users” or “qualified leads”), and part of it is having a whole bag of tricks to use when needed. I know, right! So when I started online dating a couple…
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  • Elust #62

    16 Sep 2014 | 4:19 am
    Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk Selfies, Shame and Safety ‘Dress me like a slut and punish my cock’ ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • Elust #62 Open for Submissions

    1 Sep 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Elust #62 Open for Submissions Welcome to the September Edition of Elust. The kids are back to school and the leaves are starting to turn, now it’s time for you to turn us on with your latest writing. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to…
  • Elust #61

    15 Aug 2014 | 8:11 am
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His &…
  • Elust #61 Open for Submissions

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:11 am
    Elust #61 Open for Submissions Welcome to the August Edition of Elust. Our dear friends from Google (and other freemail providers) have decided to make life more difficult for us in their never ending war on Spam. In spite of the fact that all the email from Elust is an opt in system they have marked us as Spam. We have moved to a domain name based email system and a different hosting server to attempt to address this issue. If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You…
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  • The great Mona summer party winners

    9 Sep 2014 | 11:08 am
    It wouldn’t be enough to call my great Mona summer party giveaway a success. Over 1,000 humans entered via the widget, with even more reblogging, posting in the comments section, and joining the Twitter party, for well over 10,000 individual entries. This giveaway was a whirlwind — and rightfully so. I asked for the unthinkable: to give away 10 of my favorite vibrator, the LELO Mona 2, open to international readers. Generously, LELO said yes. Then it got better. When the giveaway wrapped, I found myself at an impasse trying to choose just one winner for “best artistic…
  • Giveaway: the great Mona summer party!

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:12 pm
    Put on your sunhats, make your best lemonade, and fill up the pool, because the time has come for the greatest party of the summer. It involves ORGASMS. This is the party I’ve been wanting to throw ever since I fell in love with the LELO Mona 2 vibrator years ago. I am bringing Mona to the masses and giving away ten of them, thanks to the amazing generosity of LELO. Not only is the Mona 2 the best vibrator on earth, but this giveaway is open to everyone on earth. Yes, my dear international readers! You too! The Mona 2 is a deceptively simple-looking toy, but it succeeds…
  • Of houses and stone eggs

    30 Jul 2014 | 1:29 pm
    The stone egg of my dreams showed up at work the other day. I’ve been waiting patiently for it, ogling the eggs with each new shipment. But I knew this egg was the one the moment I laid eyes on it. Buying a house is not like that. No matter what those delusional (and/or extremely lucky) people say, you will not know a house is “the one” when you see it. You will not be filled with immense, undeniable joy. You will, instead, look around, nod, and say, “yeah, this could work.” Then spend the next week wondering if you’ve made a grave error in submitting an…
  • Hell Yes: kGoal

    21 Jul 2014 | 8:45 pm
    Everyone pause and bask in this moment. I have found a sex toy crowdfunding campaign that isn’t shitty. It’s a squeezable silicone bulb — er, they’re calling it a pillow — that measures the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles, and it’s called the kGoal (get it? Sounds like “kegel”? If you pronounce “kegel” that way?). It charges via USB and wirelessly communicates with an app on your phone, which serves up your exercise history, suggested workouts, and “max squeeze.” I see a community scoreboard coming on. As added…
  • The girl I call Aerie

    12 Jul 2014 | 1:38 am
    She greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites, with green pipe cleaner stems. On the romance scale, this may surpass the CD that my boyfriend made for one of our anniversaries which included a Tegan & Sara cover and 5 minutes of our cat purring into a microphone. - – - Aerie lives in a swanky condo on the third level. It has sparkling wooden floors, kitchen appliances that beep at you if you don’t do their bidding, and best of all, air conditioning. We make delicious coffee in the morning with a hand grinder and…
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  • bipolar sex

    7 Sep 2014 | 11:40 am
    or Variety Vs FamiliaritySome nights I need variety.Some nights I need to say, “Look over there, let’s fuck on that thing!” Some nights I need to find out how new things feel, try out new kitchen counters and living room couches. Some nights I need to swing from new chandeliers.Some nights I need to explore. I need danger and adventure. Some nights I need public places. Some nights I need days.And some nights I just need the tender comfort of familiar intimacy.And fun as it is to sometimes just go all out crazy with the Kama Sutra and the road head and the beach sex and the…
  • the promise

    31 Aug 2014 | 11:20 am
    #1: The – Replica SeriesPreviously – Seven Less-Deadly Sins Series I learned to draw at 14 by using colored pencils to replicate the work of famous artists that I admired. This series is called Replicas, and it will be all about my early attempts.Original by Lee Bogle.
  • poly: the nuts and bolts

    24 Aug 2014 | 11:17 am
    In summary, this month:Polyamory is a lot more widespread than many think.Some form of it is practiced by about a quarter of heterosexual and lesbian couples and about 2/3rds of gay male couples.Polyphobia shames poly-oriented individuals to cheat on their partners instead of being honest about their sexual orientation.This is in part the fault of the upstanding polyphobes in Hollywood.Despite it being a normal part of nature and human nature, multi-partner union remains illegal nearly everywhere, and multi-partner attraction continues to be vilified nearly everywhere.Poly aversion therapy is…
  • touching, stunt porn, and nasty: august- e[lust] 61

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:09 pm
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His &…
  • how to become poly

    17 Aug 2014 | 12:47 pm
    “How do you do it?”How do I do what?“When you’re seeing a girl, how do you keep from falling madly in love with her?”I do fall madly in love with her.“So then you stop seeing other girls?”No, because I’m also madly in love with them.***I get asked this regularly.“I wanna be single, but I keep falling in love. How do you keep yourself from falling in love with just one person?”How does grass grow.How are gay men attracted to men.The answer is: you don’t do ‘it.’ There is no ‘it’ to do.You…
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  • Beautiful Domina for obedient slaves

    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    Before you visit Mistress Monica: Open your mind .. empty your thoughts and say this outloud : My kink drawer will be open, I will enjoy my spankings and look forward to obeying every command Miss... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
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    20 May 2014 | 2:51 pm
    I am your deepest desire, your secret fantasy, and of course your wildest dreams come true. I am your mistress, and I will take pleasure in you giving me everything I want. Of course with your money,... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • Webcam BDSM chat with Mistress Sandra

    10 May 2014 | 3:20 pm
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    Being Blacksilk

  • Flappers, Jazz and Valentino

    21 Aug 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Flappers, Jazz and Valentino appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ As you may already have heard if you follow me on Twitter, I’ve been published again! Hurrah! This marks the sixth time that’s happened, which I’m pretty certain makes me officially addicted. The book in question is Flappers, Jazz and Valentino, edited by my friend Jillian Boyd who is amazing. It’s an anthology of erotica set in and inspired by the 1920s, which is one of my favourite decades. Here’s the blurb: Step back in time to a decade full of glamour, glitz and decadent sin with…
  • Seawank

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Seawank appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Good news, everyone! Not only are you now reading this in Professor Farnsworth‘s voice, but also my computer is working again! You may not have realised that it wasn’t working, but of course it’s hard to tell you on here that I can’t really make any blog posts when I can’t really make any blog posts. Sure, technically I could blog from my phone, but ew, no. Anyway, I’m back, though honestly still likely to be intermittent as this summer has really caught me in a hands-off sort of mood. Although,…
  • Nerding Out

    8 Jun 2014 | 1:29 am
    This post Nerding Out appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Have I mentioned how much I love phone cameras? Man, I love phone cameras. It’s amazing how you can get quite decent and quite sexy shots without needing, or certainly getting, professional quality. I don’t know about you, but I grew up with dial-up, so I’m used to my porn not being the most HD you can get. Like my recent Very Short Stories, it’s all about fitting blogging in where I can at the moment. Time is at a premium. In any case, here are some hopefully sexy, and yet everyday, photos of yours truly…
  • Very Short Stories – Take Me

    6 Jun 2014 | 8:17 am
    This post Very Short Stories – Take Me appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ It’s time for another of my Very Short Stories! If you haven’t read any of mine yet, I encourage you to go and check out Covered in Cream, Prometheus, If We Hadn’t Had Sex and The Quoit, if you have time. And they each fit on a single Post-It note, so I’m thinking you definitely have time. And since we’ve established that time is a thing you have, here’s another one! Just in case you can’t (or don’t want to) read my handwriting: I’m too wise to give myself…
  • My Writing Process

    12 May 2014 | 3:19 pm
    This post My Writing Process appeared first on Being Blacksilk. I’ve been tagged in a meme-style thing that’s going around at the moment by SheBoppin. And it was really fun to do! I definitely enjoyed writing about writing, even if my writing at the moment is a bit different to how it might be normally. I believe I’m supposed to tag people at the end to carry on the meme, but frankly I’ve no idea who hasn’t already done one and I’ve also always hated singling people out for stuff like this in case I leave someone out and upset them. So, if you’re…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Is it Safe to Drink Female Ejaculate?

    16 Sep 2014 | 7:45 pm
    I received a private email asking the question of, 'Is it safe to drink female ejaculate.'  This is an interesting question and frankly I am somewhat surprised that people are worrying about this. So this article is to put all of your worries at ease.  Female ejaculate is one of the safest fluids produced by the human body. It is produced primarily in the Skene's glands and contains no bacteria in it's usual form. It is naturally virus free although it is possible for it to pick up viruses from the the vagina as it passes out of the body. That said, the mouth is on of the fastest…
  • Bettie Page Poses Nude

    16 Sep 2014 | 12:11 am
    [Continued from Bettie Page invents the Modern Bikini]Girly MagazinesWith Bettie Page being a rockstar of modelling and bringing her own sense of impeccable fashion to the was no wonder that she soon became a sensation amongst the men's magazines at the time. Keep in mind that 'men's magazines' didn't exactly mean porn magazines really weren't a thing yet. Hugh Hefner was just coming on the scene but had not yet sparked that aspect of the sexual revolution. Bettie Page soon was being paid to do a variety of girly magazines such as Titter, Wink, Eyeful, Flirt and…
  • Female Ejaculation and the Tantric Transfer of Energy

    10 Sep 2014 | 11:20 pm
    This is going to be a post on female ejaculationa and specifically the tantric energies contained in that fluid.  Forget all about the 'is squirting fake' arguments -- and let's look at the key ingredient that makes shejaculate special: energy.  I am basing this post on tantric texts, tantric teaching and my own personal experience-- and it is going to be highly spiritual in nature.   Hopefully it will explain why girls like to cum this way so much and why men respond so strongly to female ejaculate.Note: If you aren't buying this tantric explanation for female ejaculation,…
  • Bettie Page Invents the Modern Bikini

    25 Aug 2014 | 10:10 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page and the Camera Clubs]Bettie Page was completely unsatisfied with the 'unflattering swimwear' of her day. It was just 1950 and they would advertise awful things like swimsuits with built in girdles. So Bettie Page turned her high intelligence into crafting a series of unforgettable bikinis.  She invented the string bikini and numerous other bikini designs because she wanted to wear bikinis that she felt sexy in.The results helped propel her to become a pin up legend and a sex symbol. Unfortunately, inventing the design of the modern bikini is rarely credited to…
  • Bettie Page and the Camera Clubs

    20 Aug 2014 | 11:24 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page Starts Modelling]Bettie Page discovered that she loved modelling and felt alive in front of the camera. She'd wanted to model by had be shot down by the top modelling agency. So when she was approached by Art Amsie who was a member of a camera club, she was intrigued. You see, a camera club was a group of amateur photographers who couldn't really afford to hire models but would pool their funds and hire a model as a group. Well, Bettie was hooked and so were the camera club members!The camera clubs would consist of 30-40 members and 3-4 models who would take…
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  • Women needs changing sex partners – regularly

    17 Sep 2014 | 10:50 am
    For years, it has been acknowledged that men have a need for variety when it comes to sex partners – they need to spread their semen. Most people also accept than men have a greater need for sex in general and a stronger sex drive than women have. This is often used as an excuse for male infidelity. However, is this true? An American and a German study have analyzed how men and women react sexually when they are exposed to habitual sex and when they are in long term relationships. Sexual boredom In the American study, the researchers wanted to find out whether there is a difference…
  • Swinging in Norway

    4 Sep 2014 | 12:35 pm
    In a recent study, the swinging community in Norway was researched. Swingers participate in consensual non-monogamous behavior. They are often privileged, stable and otherwise ordinary people. Motivation Most of the swingers are motivated to join the swinging communities because of sexual fantasies. In the beginning, they just talk about the fantasies and then gradually they start to live them out. In the swinging community, it is possible for both parties in the marriage to explore sexual desires and needs with several partners either as a couple or separately. Satisfaction In general sexual…
  • Do you want to have a truthful conversation? Get drunk!

    23 Aug 2014 | 6:26 am
    We all know that we behave differently and express ourselves differently when we are drunk. Often we even use intoxication as an excuse for our behavior. Something like “I am so sorry, I didn’t want to have sex with her, but I was so drunk” or “I really don’t think your mother is a stupid bitch it was just something I said because I was drunk”. The question is whether being drunk is a valid excuse. Do we actually say or do things we didn’t really want to when we are drunk? A group of scientist have investigated this and their conclusion is clear: No, we can’t use being drunk…
  • The sexual behavior of men and women is not that different

    17 Aug 2014 | 11:56 am
    We have quit different expectations to men and women with regard to sexual behavior. Men in general are expected to be more active and women to be non-promiscuous. Men who doesn’t comply to the expectations can feel they are less masculine and women can feel pressured in to a submissive role that ultimately constrains their sexual functioning. Women who express a sexuality that is similar to what is normally expected of men can easily be stigmatized and called sluts and the like. Stigmatization based on your sexuality can be very damaging for your life. Studies find that people who feel…
  • Different types of casual sex

    12 Aug 2014 | 10:58 am
    In the recent year’s casual sex has become more widespread in particular among college students. We have seen many new expressions for casual sex and new ways of participating in casual sex. There seem to be four main types: One-night-stand. You meet someone typically in a nightclub and you decide to have sex and never see each other again. Booty call. You have an acquaintance you can call if you impulsively want to have sex and you only meet them for sex. Fuck Buddy. You have a friend who you also have sex with from time to time. Friends with benefits. You have a friend who you see on a…
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    Naughty Reenie | Naughty Reenie

  • Review: Exotic-Erotics Phoenix Small

    9 Sep 2014 | 4:31 pm
    It took me two months to finally decide to shove the Phoenix inside of me. Not because the 2” bulb was traumatising. Well, ok, maybe a little bit. But it was mainly because I’ve learned that my body was able to orgasm through penetration only. Since that day, I’ve been craving for…actually more addicted to smooth, non-textured, thrustable dicks. And the Phoenix looked like a big mood-killer with those two huge bulbs sticking out on the shaft. It looked no where even near thrustable, and so I just left it there, sitting at the corner of my desk. However, it didn’t leave me in peace.
  • Hedovibes: Roudup #55

    20 Aug 2014 | 8:15 am
    Photo courtesy of Property Of Potter Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition. CONTESTS Can’t Get Enough…
  • Review: Picobong Moka

    9 Aug 2014 | 8:18 am
    Picobong Moka spiked my curiosity when I first saw it. My mind was immediately like: “OMG! A VIBRATING LELO ELLA?! Deal! It’s mine!” But when I noticed that it required two AAA batteries to operate, my brain shoved the Moka out of my memory, and I carried on with my life. I mean… There’s no way that a toy requiring AAA battery was going to be powerful or rumbly or even feel good, right? But I was wrong. The Moka actually feels very good. So good, in fact, that I love it more than I love the Ella. The Moka is like the ultimate evolution of it – the shape is better, the curve…
  • Review: Jopen Comet Wand

    26 Jul 2014 | 4:52 am
    It took me eight months, eight freaking months to conquer the Comet Wand. My vagina is finally becoming a boss, but damn did it take a lot of crying, bruised vagina, and courage. It was somewhere in August 2013 when the Comet Wand entered Sextopia. Back then, the Comet Wand and I just didn’t click. I hated it: I hated how it made my body felt, I hated how it made me scared, and I hated how it made my body react. If I had published my review back then, I would have trashed it. It just didn’t work for me. The number of times I curled into a ball in tears and the number of times I just…
  • Review: Doxy Massager

    17 Jul 2014 | 8:47 am
    I changed Doxy Massager Wand’s name to Doxy the Clown. I can’t help it. It keeps fooling me – from the moment it was born to the moment I received it, and until the moment I started using it. But our relationship isn’t pure hatred either. It’s more complicated than that. First, Doxy Massager has been marketed as THE world’s MOST powerful wand massager. Is it true? Well, if your opinion is only based on the number of Rotations Per Minute (RPM), which, on the highest speed, is approximately 9000 RPM 1, then I guess this is quite true. However, you’re a fool if you base your…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • La Pocha Nostra Performance

    Pavini Moray
    9 Sep 2014 | 11:29 am
    NEW BARBARIANS 3.0:  A Pocha Nostra X-treme Fashion Show & Photo-performance karaokeSaturday, September 13th  7:00 PM. On Saturday, September 13th, I will be performing in this. La Pocha Nostra’s two-week residency at Fort Mason ends with an exciting evening public performance in two-parts. Part one will include a live “photo karaoke” session in collaboration with […]
  • Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    6 Aug 2014 | 2:19 pm
    With great pleasure that I announce: My new 40-page ebook called “Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation” is now available for free download!    This book contains 16 of the best tools I know to help you deepen into pleasure, and get the intimacy and transformation you need in your sexuality.   I hope you […]
  • Erotic Experiment Update #3: Somatic Erotic Learning and the Queer Oil Action

    Pavini Moray
    14 Jul 2014 | 1:51 pm
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Desire, Erotic Energy, Erotic Practice, Intimacy, pleasure, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation, Sexuality Education Tagged: erotic, oil action, Queer, somatic learning
  • Calling Queer, Magickal Musicians for submissions to Eco-sexual Film Project

    Pavini Moray
    9 Jul 2014 | 11:39 am
    Are you a queer magickal musician or song-writer? Are you up for a radical community project? Do you feel called to work in a sacred way, an erotic way, and allow Spirit to guide your music?  Would you like to compose a song for a film that supports liberation of the Earth and liberation for […]
  • Erotic Experiment Update #2: BDSM, Sacred Kink and what happens when I suspend my disbelief

    Pavini Moray
    20 Jun 2014 | 10:11 am
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Practice, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation Tagged: BDSM, erotic experiments, Sacred Kink
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  • Sexual Education - 3 Steps to Sexual Success

    Anida Leeds
    25 Aug 2014 | 12:17 pm
    Summer is coming to an end and you need that last bit of advice before the crazy daze of college are here. We put together 3 steps to help fulfill your sexual desire. Follow these steps and you are sure to succeed. Step 1 - About Penis Size It’s a common misconception, and widely held fear, that large penises rule the world of sexual happiness. In the reality of biology, 90% of erect penises measure 5-7 inches in length, and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're concerned that your penis is too small, you can rest assured that you are in good company. In a land led by Texans, our media and…
  • 10 Life Hacks for Better Sex

    Anida Leeds
    11 Aug 2014 | 11:57 am
    Life hacks are everywhere. There are hacks on folding your shirts, hanging up dry clothes, etc. Those are all fine and dandy but the life hacks I enjoy are the sexual life hacks. Bellow are 10 to get you started, have your own? Let us know in the comments bellow. 1. Headphones and blindfold during oral sex. - Before going down, put on some music and put the headphones on her. Blindfold her or cover her eyes with a towel. Try turning off all the lights if its dark and keep the music going. The sensory deprivation magnifies the sensations she feels as you pleasure her. 2. It’s all about the…
  • Want Your Own Red Room of Pain?

    Anida Leeds
    28 Jul 2014 | 8:51 am
    The clock is ticking and this Valentines Day the 50 Shades of Grey movie will be released. Will you be ready? Restraints... Check! Nipple Clamps... Check! Pleasure Balls... Check! Leather... Check! Even if you haven't read the books yet we got you covered. Do you want to have your own red room just like Christian has? Here are some of the items you need to get that started. Delicious Pleasure Silicone Pleasure BallsToning and pleasuring your body in unison, these official Fifty Shades of Grey silver balls wriggle and jiggle inside you. Massaging your G-spot with expert skill, Delicious…
  • Bondage isn't all whips, chains and medieval torture. Or is it?

    Anida Leeds
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:34 pm
    "Bondage" covers a very wide spectrum of sex acts, and can mean something different to every person. Whatever it is, as long as you both agree on the boundaries, anything goes. From the tame to the extreme. We are all curios about this subject from one level to another, or you wouldn't be reading right now, so let’s get started. Safety First - Although it's often more tempting to play sex games when you're feeling a bit tipsy, it's best not to try bondage when you're under the influence alcohol or drugs, as you might misjudge how tightly to tie the knots. Make sure that you keep a pair of…
  • School Is Back In Session.

    Lady Guinevere
    25 Jun 2014 | 11:01 am
    School might be out for summer, but we have some exciting tips to teach you. We put our minds to work and came up with two of the most exciting and uninformed parts of a man and women. The clitoris (women) and prostate gland (men), both unique in their own ways but similar too. The Clitoris The clitoris is often the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. The clitoris, like the head of the penis, contains numerous concentrated bundles of nerve endings that respond gratifyingly to touch and other types of stimulation. Recent research has shown that the sensitive clitoral tissue is…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Rope Conference Draws Criticism

    Karyn Paine
    17 Sep 2014 | 7:32 am
    HOT SPRINGS, NORTH DAKOTA Organizers of this year’s largest rope conference, RopeFest, are coming under fire today after holding their annual conference. Many attendees were very vocal in their complaints. While all agreed the conference was beautiful, many complained that it “took too long and was way too complicated.” “Conference going should be fun and easy. I don’t like that I had to learn a bunch of terms and history before going to classes. What the hell is ‘active listening’ anyway?” asked rope enthusiast Tim King, 43. “For some…
  • Local Man “Too Dominant” for Munch

    Jane Jameson
    16 Sep 2014 | 7:36 am
    TULLA, NEBRASKA Dom Juan won’t be attending the local Tulla BDSM Munch for the foreseeable future.  The dominant man has declared himself “too dominant” to hang out with what he called “a group of poseurs, wannabes, fake submissives, and loser doms.” The announcement came after Saturday’s munch where Dom Juan was accused of inappropriate behavior, excessive drinking, and, according to munch organizer Kris Jensen, a 22 year old submissive woman, “generally being a complete douchebag.” In his post to the munch group on Fetlife, Dom Juan…
  • It’s OK to Judge Other People’s Kinks

    Chance Berquist
    15 Sep 2014 | 7:12 am
    When it comes to kink, everyone is always so fond of saying that it is wrong to judge. “Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK.” Well, I am here to call bullshit on that. Not only do we have a right to judge, we have a responsibility, both to the community and to ourselves. Let’s start with ourselves. Face it. Judgment is fun. It allows us to feel superior and in today’s world there is precious little of that. With the decline of crazy talk shows and bad TV dramas, we have fewer and fewer places to render moral judgments and feel superior to others. Now the…
  • Publisher Announces Erotic Children’s Books for Littles

    Lazlo Toth
    14 Sep 2014 | 7:05 am
    HALLIFAX, NEW YORK Children’s publishing giant Scholastic has announced a new line of erotic children’s books aimed that the BDSM “littles” community. Donna Milbank, 47, has written the first book in the series called “Anna the Cum Faced Girl,” which follows the “little” around the streets of New York, trying to match the cum on her face to a potential master.  She encounters firemen, police officers, street urchins, and many others, in her effort to locate the man who first came on her face and who she calls “Master.” “It is…
  • Dungeon Voices: Education

    Karyn Paine
    13 Sep 2014 | 7:46 am
    Do you attend any BDSM Conferences? No, I usually meet my play partners at the local Church Youth Group I run. -Lewis Lapsky, 51, Piano Mover Does my local Church Youth Group count? -Kelly Quint, 19, Sherpa I did a phone sex conference call with two guys once. They made me pinch my nipples. You mean like that? -Princess B., 18, Volleyball Inspector Photo credits: Jasper Gregory (cc), HM Revenue & Customs (cc)
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Mate Selection and the Pill

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    16 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    Over half of women who use hormonal contraceptives do so in their mate selection years, between 16 to 34 years of age. But these the pill can change how a woman “sees” the world and interfere with our biologic and instinctual ability to choose the man with the best genes for our future children. The post Mate Selection and the Pill appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • A Journey Through the Mystery of Sex

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    10 Sep 2014 | 7:06 am
    After over a year and a half of research and writing, my first book is finally almost here! With my book I want to make the science of sex more accessible. Sex impacts every person’s life. Most of us shift between feeling confident and content with our sexual selves to feeling naive and flawed. But we commonly ask these same questions about human sexuality. The post A Journey Through the Mystery of Sex appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Virginal Bleeding on the Wedding Night

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    8 Sep 2014 | 7:15 am
    In cultures where female virginity is critical prior to marriage, a great deal of pressure is placed on the couple’s wedding night, including the need to show ‘first night’ blood on the sheets as evidence of the bride’s purity. But not all virgins bleed at their first intercourse. The post Virginal Bleeding on the Wedding Night appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • How to Select a Fertility Clinic

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    5 Sep 2014 | 10:12 am
    What factors should you consider when you select a fertility clinic? 6 important points to think about when making your decision. The post How to Select a Fertility Clinic appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • When Love Is Irritating

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    4 Sep 2014 | 6:56 am
    There are 26 approved medications for male sexual dysfunction and as of this writing zero for women with low sex drive. HSDD -low sex drive- is the most common sexual complaint among women. We are all sexual beings and we all deserve the best chance possible of living exciting and fulfilling lives. The post When Love Is Irritating appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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