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  • 3 Weird Things That Can Make Sex Better

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 May 2015 | 3:00 am
    Jillian Kramer shares three weird things that can make sex better. It doesn’t take much to elevate sex from good to oragasmically great. Your usual sexual routine can be elevated easily with a few simple changes that heighten the whole experience. Are some weird? Yep. But do they work? Yep. Here are three to try:  Continue reading →(Visited 72 times, 1 visits today)
  • 4 Sex Positions To Make Your Vagina Feel Tighter!

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    Kaylen Jackson
    27 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    Sex positions can make or break how great sex feels. Whether your partner has a small penis or you have a larger vagina, you may have some trouble getting enough friction going for it to feel really pleasurable for both you and your partner. This can also happen after a woman gives birth, because the vagina stretches out and takes some time going back to its original shape. Lots of girls (and guys) want a tighter sensation during intercourse – and finding the right sex position can make all the difference. Try these 4 great ideas TONIGHT for tighter, more satisfying sex for both you and…
  • 9 Things You Didn’t Know About Doggy-Style Sex

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 May 2015 | 2:00 am
    Frank Kobola says tgere are nine things you don’t know about doggy-style sex. 1. It’s a great way to hit the G-spot. Doggy-style sex is perfect for deep penetration that will hit the G-spot, so it’s great for women who like it deep and basically any guy ever. And although manuals as old as the Continue reading →No visits yet
  • How To Give Your Girl An Intense, Full-Body Orgasm That Makes Her Squirt All Over Your Bed… Guaranteed!

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    Dan & Jennifer
    25 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the type of FULL-BODY, screaming-at-the-top-of-her-lungs orgasm that no guy has EVER given her before… whether it’s your first night together or you’ve been dating for years… In this video you’re going to learn a simple trick to give any woman an orgasm so intense and so powerful,  it will dramatically increase the level of dopamine in her limbic system – causing her brain to become sexually addicted to that feeling… making her sexually addicted to you. Why This Is “The Ultimate…
  • 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas

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    Kaylen Jackson
    27 May 2015 | 4:00 am
    Sex is something lots of guys they think they know everything about. They assume they know everything there is to know not only about how to please a woman, but also about her anatomy and how it plays a role in sex.  You may think you know a lot about the body of a woman, but you probably didn’t know these ten things about a woman’s vagina! An Orgasm Is An Excellent Pain Reliever Next time your girl gives you the excuse that she doesn’t want to have sex with you because she has a headache, you can tell her she’s full of it. An orgasm is an excellent pain reliever, and…
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  • phyrecracker: igotkimksbooty: fuckyeavanity: out of all the...

    23 May 2015 | 5:10 pm
    phyrecracker: igotkimksbooty: fuckyeavanity: out of all the protests, shutdowns and demonstrations i’ve ever done, this was the most powerful thing I’ve ever participated in!  Inspiring #femmespiration
  • thisisfusion: Graphic journalist Dan Archer recently spoke with...

    23 May 2015 | 4:24 am
    thisisfusion: Graphic journalist Dan Archer recently spoke with several community members in Baltimore about the unrest there since Freddie Gray’s death. All drawings were done live while people told their stories and shared their thoughts. Archer visited Gray’s neighborhood of Sandtown and nearby areas, retracing Gray’s final steps before being taken into custody.More from this series on
  • actjustly: Don’t ignore this. Trans black lives matter. London...

    20 May 2015 | 4:23 am
    actjustly: Don’t ignore this. Trans black lives matter. London Chanel, a 21-year-old transgender woman, was stabbed to death in North Philadelphia early Monday, a city official told BuzzFeed News.Chanel is the eighth transgender woman of color killed in the United States this year — a trend that anti-violence advocates have called an epidemic. And as in many of the cases, Chanel was misgendered in early reports.Source
  • babesimpson: this is the funniest thing ive seen on the...

    29 Apr 2015 | 8:28 pm
    babesimpson: this is the funniest thing ive seen on the internet all day

    28 Apr 2015 | 7:32 pm
    krxs10: IMMIGRATION OFFICER FATALLY SHOOTS UNARMED 19 YR OLD BLACK MAN 10 TIMES DURING BALTIMORE RIOTS.An Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) officer shot and killed 20-year-old Terrence Kellum, Monday afternoon on Detroit’s northwest side.Police say the agent — part of a fugitive task force involving ICE and officers with the Detroit Police Department — was attempting to serve an armed robbery warrant at a home in the 9500 block of Evergreen near W. Chicago when the shooting occurred.“I am told there was no forced entry into the residence, that they were allowed inside,” said…
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    NYT > Sex

  • After a First Time, Many Second Thoughts

    30 May 2015 | 9:00 pm
    A young woman rejects her religious upbringing’s prohibition against premarital sex and discovers the aftermath isn’t exactly what she anticipated.
  • Infidelity Lurks in Your Genes

    23 May 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Oxytocin and vasopressin affect trust and bonding.
  • Chelsea’s Risqué Businesses

    16 May 2015 | 9:00 pm
    In a famously liberal enclave, residents both gay and straight weigh freedom and acceptance against commercial displays that schoolchildren must walk past.
  • Creep, Version 2.0

    13 May 2015 | 5:26 am
    Metropolitan Diary: What started as an old-fashioned romance, with chocolates and poetry, soon turned into a come-on, and then, two years later, an even kinkier come-on.
  • An Intimacy That Outlasted Dementia

    27 Apr 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Henry Rayhons last week was acquitted of charges that he sexually abused his wife, who has Alzheimer’s, prompting a national discussion about consent between partners.
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  • ovarian cyst burst?

    28 May 2015 | 8:33 pm
    hello all-during the day yesterday i felt sensitivity/pain in my lower abdomen which is usually a warning that my ovarian cysts are acting up and ill be in some pain. usually it goes away, i dont take BC or anything to help control them. that night my boyfriend and I had sex, but during it i felt really sharp pain and we had to stop. i almost couldnt move/walk, my lower abdom. hurt so bad. i layed on the bed and took advil for 20 min, then got into a hot bath. i felt alot better, but now this morning i still feel pain. it almost feels like the cyst pain AND a gas pain at the same time if…
  • Sensitive clit/vagina?

    27 May 2015 | 4:50 am
    Hello!I have a history of yeast infection and BV. Both and/or either have been happening once in a while since last September.Last month I saw my doctor because of vaginal discharge and itching. She prescribed me with anti-biotics for BV and yeast infection. She told me to take the BV meds but not the yeast meds. She instructed I keep the yeast meds as back up in case the symptoms persist or come back since often yeast is best friends with BV. The symptoms went away. I had my period 2 weeks ago. No new symptoms, everything is fine for a week. Last Saturday, I have sex with my boyfriend but we…
  • STD Worry

    26 May 2015 | 9:38 pm
    I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years. We were not working out for various reasons, so I decided to break it off instead of dragging it along longer.I wasn't sure how I felt about the breakup, but then I found out that sometime during our relationship, he cheated on me and had sex with another girl. I found this out from multiple other people, and although I don't have too much information on it (I don't know if I want more, honestly), I know it was 'a while ago'- I'm thinking at least six months ago.I'm slightly worried about STDs. We didn't use condoms during our…
  • Vulva Bump

    26 May 2015 | 10:13 am
    Hi all!So, a few days ago I felt as if I was starting to get a yeast infection from being hot and sweaty (I get them a lot). I was planning on swimming that day so I decided to wait and treat it afterwards. I swam and then I lounged around in my suit for about four hours. When it home I had a hard bump on my inner labia, right at the bottom of my bagina where the lips run back together. At first I didn't freak out as I saw an immediate cause (sitting around in my swimsuit), but now I can't get it out of my head. I think it is because if it is an STI of some sort, I'm dealing with being a bit…
  • Intervals between pregnancies

    25 May 2015 | 1:24 pm
    How quickly can someone get pregnant again after giving birth? How long does it take for the body to get a regular cycle going again, etc.?This is a theoretical question at this point, I'm just curious.Thanks!
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  • Transportul mobilierului poate fi periculos

    6 May 2015 | 6:27 am
    Toată lumea vrea o afacere bună. Tot ce am sunt care intenţionează să achiziţioneze ne-o dorim ca scăzut preţ posibil. Firma transport mobila Bucuresti ieftine este un caz în punct. Mulţi oameni care doresc să furnizeze spaţii în aer liber în căutarea online pentru ieftine mobilier pentru terasa. Problema apare atunci când rezultatele ei a lua sunt pentru prost făcute şi ieftine mobilier de gradina. Adesea ieftine atunci când este vorba de patio mobilier va însemna prost făcute alb mobilier de gradina din plastic. Aceasta este ceea ce mulţi oameni de fapt doresc să…
  • Cele mai mici preturi la centralele termice Vaillant

    29 Apr 2015 | 7:29 am
    Centrale termice preturi vaillant centrale sunt unul dintre centrale termice preturi vaillant standard de mai multe comune, folosite în clădirile publice și casele. Aceste sisteme de incalzire sunt de obicei utilizate în climatele mai reci. Componentele sistemului include, de obicei o unitate de încălzire, cum ar fi o pompă de căldură, cuptor sau cazan într-o locație centrală. Combustibilul pentru unitatea de încălzire poate fi petrol, cărbune, energie electrică, gaze naturale sau alți combustibili. Unitatea centrala se încălzește aer, abur sau apă și dispersează pe…
  • Skoda – cele mai fiabile masini

    31 Mar 2015 | 8:08 am
    Masini Skoda au o reputatie excelenta pentru producerea de automobile de calitate la un preț corect. În Irlanda, Skoda sunt o masina foarte populara pentru utilizatorii de afaceri și drivere de familie deopotrivă. Sunt plecat de zile de glumele Skoda, unde Skoda a fost clasificate cu Lada si Polski Fiat. Skoda este acum parte a grupului Service skoda Pitesti, iar masinile sunt bine concepute si arata grozav. Există doar trei modele de bază, Fabia, Octavia și Superb. Modelele au fost proiectate pentru a se potrivi în între clasele de mărime convenționale, de exemplu Fabia este…
  • Rezerva o trupa de calitate pentru nunta ta

    24 Mar 2015 | 10:19 am
    Live formatii de nunta Bucuresti poate clichet până emoţie şi distracţie ca aproape nimic altceva. O mulţime de a-fi-căsătorit astăzi descoperă că benzile de nunta muzica live sau trupe de dans va adăuga la excitare de o mulţime şi converti o zi comune într-o ocazie memorabila. În ciuda, rezervare Class benzile de nuntă este cu siguranţă nu ca simplu, ca s-ar părea la prima. Vine cu cele mai bune trupe de nunta nu este cât de clar ca rezervarea o trupa de dans locale, este nevoie de unele căutarea sârguincios. Fericit, întreprinderea de localizarea o top dantela trupa…
  • O vacanta in Timisoara, folosind o masina inchiriata

    5 Mar 2015 | 1:07 am
    Trata vizuale acumulată de oameni care au de gând să luaţi o vacanţă in Timisoara nu poate fi comparat cu nimic. Timisoara are de servire ca o casa a numeroase plaje frumoase şi largă peisaje. Este bine cunoscut ca o destinaţie turistică foarte preferat de oameni in orice moment al anului. Explora locatii atractive nenumărate in Timisoara este un vis pentru majoritatea calatorilor. Câştigă o experienţă plăcută in acest teren exotice este motivul de ce vom vedea de mii de oameni flocking aproape toate oraşele luminoase in Timisoara. Sunt de planificare pentru a face un pic…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Study findings linking ovulation, racial bias questioned

    20 May 2015 | 7:04 am
    Is ovulation related to higher racial bias? Despite previous studies, researchers have been unable to find any evidence that there is an increase in racial bias related to conception risk.
  • Health, social inequities drives HIV in young men who have sex with other men

    19 May 2015 | 10:27 am
    Researchers sought to identify the factors associated with incident HIV infection among a cohort of racially/ethnically and socioeconomically diverse young, gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men. Socioeconomic status is key driver of HIV seroconversion, they concluded.
  • Bacterial communities of female genital tract have impact on inflammation, HIV risk

    19 May 2015 | 10:26 am
    The most common bacterial community in the genital tract among healthy South African women not only is significantly different from that of women in developed countries but also leads to elevated levels of inflammatory proteins, which could increase the risk of HIV infection, new research concludes.
  • Text messages can help boost teen birth control compliance

    19 May 2015 | 5:33 am
    Sending teen girls periodic text messages reminding them to follow through on their clinic appointments for periodic birth control injections can go a long way toward improving timing and adherence to contraception in an age group that is notoriously noncompliant, according to a small study.
  • Sexual orientation, gender identity linked to eating disorders

    12 May 2015 | 8:22 am
    Transgender and non-transgender lesbian, gay and bisexual students are at greater risk for eating disorders, finds a new study. The study used data from the American College Health Association–National College Health Assessment, a survey of 289,024 students from 223 U.S. universities. Researchers found that the rates of self-reported eating disorders were highest in transgender people. Heterosexual men had the lowest rates.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Jopen ENVY Fifteen Review – Remote Controlled Panty Vibe

    27 May 2015 | 11:55 am
    I’m reviewing the Jopen Envy Fifteen because I’m on the hunt for a decent remote-controlled vibrator; it’s what people ask for the most, it seems! The thrill of wearing a vibrator in public is a gateway kink for many people; it’s one I can get behind! But sadly when it comes to remote control sex toys the market is lacking. A really great RC vibe needs to nail down these three things:    A remote that allows the remote holder to know what’s going on – what setting the vibrator is one, basically.    A remote connection that stays through clothing, flesh…
  • Real Neat Blog (plus a little life update)

    26 May 2015 | 12:09 pm
    Earlier this month I was nominated by Will and Vixenne as having a “Real Neat Blog”, which was super sweet. I am shamefully behind on blogging much of ANYTHING these days. So by the time I’ve gotten around to writing this, nearly everybody that I planned to nominate has probably already been nominated by someone else and has written their post.  Everybody told me how much “_____” it would be buying/owning a home. You think you know, but you have no idea. We have wayyyyy too much stuff, the house needed quite a bit of work (and still does in many ways) and my…
  • Frisky Business – A Look Behind the Scenes at Lovehoney UK

    5 May 2015 | 11:17 am
    After my recent review of an atrocious Lovehoney product, the Rockbox Finger, quite a few people exclaimed “Oh! That was the pumpkin-knife design!” so I knew I had to watch the short series on Netflix. While I watched I took notes of my reactions to various things. All episodes have one or two situations they’re dealing with but heavily pad the footage by showing the customer service gals on the phone or checking in with the returns department.  Frisky Business, Episode 1:  Well, it’s 3 minutes into the first episode and I’ve already spied more porous sex toys…
  • Are Toxic Sex Toys Still a Problem?

    22 Mar 2015 | 9:34 am
    The first official lab test of sex toys happened in 2006, with results confirming that toxic sex toys were a big problem. But the industry has come so far since then. While there are still many stores that stock a lot of gross, crappy sex toys, the overall percentage of porous materials in sex toys is on the decline. Beyond that, it seems like phthalates are on the decline, as well, in porous toys. But does this make them any more safe? Can the major companies be trusted? And really, what proof do we have that the cheap sex toys are safe? In The Beginning… Back in 2006,,…
  • Lovehoney Rockbox Finger: A Supremely Offensive Vibrator

    9 Mar 2015 | 12:22 pm
    No matter how anybody felt about it in use, all reviews about the original Lovehoney Rockbox said the same thing: it was horrifyingly loud. Lovehoney didn’t take that as a negative, apparently, when they created the Rockbox Finger which is shaped like a lazily-crooked giant’s finger which “thrusts”. Thrusting toys somehow had new life breathed into them in the last year or so. The Lovehoney Rockbox Finger is like the Fun Factory Stronic on bath salts – manic, loud, offensive, dangerous and erratic. It is really the polar opposite of the Stronic line. If you…
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  • Where can you get quality safer sex supplies? Right here at Scarleteen!

    Heather Corinna
    14 May 2015 | 2:16 pm
    Want high quality condoms, lubricants and other safer sex supplies? You can now find them right here at Scarleteen, in partnership with the awesome folks at Lucky Bloke!  You can take a look at our brand-spanking new, one-stop safer sex shop on the site here, or follow the graphical ads or link on the left hand sidebar of every page on the site. We've used what we know from working directly with our users to compile and create some hand-picked sample packs just for you: a pack for those who don't know what kind of fit they or their partners like best, a latex-free pack, a pack with…
  • Do you feel like the expert of your own body?

    Sam W
    28 Apr 2015 | 10:55 am
  • My Boyfriend Doesn't Enjoy Oral/Manual Sex, and I Feel Bad About It

    8 Apr 2015 | 5:47 pm
    My boyfriend doesn't enjoy receiving oral or hand jobs, and it makes me feel inadequate, what can I do? read The answer | ask your own
  • The Pregnancy Panic Companion

    Heather Corinna
    1 Apr 2015 | 10:15 am
    Author:  Heather Corinna Introduction:  In the thick of a pregnancy scare? Freaking out? Not sure what to do? Welcome to your virtual pregnancy scare doula. In the thick of a pregnancy scare? Freaking out? Not sure what to do? We know how scary this can be, and we're here to have your back in it. Take a few deep breaths (really: do some good, slow breathing, you'll feel better and be able to think more clearly once you do), and have a seat. Based on your unique situation, we'll walk you through your next steps, give you some extra helps, fill you in on some common…
  • The Pregnancy Panic Companion: When a Pregnancy Test is Negative

    Heather Corinna
    31 Mar 2015 | 9:33 am
    Author:  Heather Corinna This is part of our Pregnancy Panic Companion. Click here to go back to the beginning. You said you are scared about a pregnancy, but you (or your partner) have tested for pregnancy and recieved a negative (not pregnant) result. If you (or your partner) followed the directions of the test you took, or had a test done by a medical professional, we can know you're not pregnant.  You may still feel scared about pregnancy, but you are not pregnant right now. So, as far as managing a possible pregnancy goes, you don't have any next steps,…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Natural Contraceptives

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    27 May 2015 | 5:49 pm
    To have the freedom to make love without fear of pregnancy but know that they could still have a baby as and when they wanted to try? Natural contraceptives for the perfect world!
  • Sugasm #117

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    24 May 2015 | 5:41 pm
    The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #118? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s Picks A … Continue reading Sugasm #117
  • Abortion – A Retrospective

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    21 May 2015 | 5:31 pm
    I often find myself thinking about that baby… that time. It can be the most unlikely things that trigger the memory… and sometimes the most obvious. Visiting Bodies Revealed, there was a section on the development of the foetus and this was illustrated by four glass jars containing examples of what a baby would like … Continue reading Abortion – A Retrospective
  • Sugasm #175

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    18 May 2015 | 5:07 pm
    I feel very honoured to be a pick on the last Sugasm before it goes on hiatus. However, I do think it is time for a rethink. I submit something every week but, so often recently, I have had to wade through 30-40 posts of mind-numbing sameyness and some weeks I just lost the will … Continue reading Sugasm #175
  • Paraphilia

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    15 May 2015 | 4:51 pm
    Richard Von Kraft Ebbing, the father of perversion, undertook the task of defining the difference between normal and deviant sex. He began categorising sexual behaviour and coined the terms – heterosexual, sadist and masochist. He deemed that sex was for procreation and that any type of sexual behaviour which was not directed towards that goal … Continue reading Paraphilia
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 4 Sex Positions To Make Your Vagina Feel Tighter!

    Kaylen Jackson
    27 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    Sex positions can make or break how great sex feels. Whether your partner has a small penis or you have a larger vagina, you may have some trouble getting enough friction going for it to feel really pleasurable for both you and your partner. This can also happen after a woman gives birth, because the vagina stretches out and takes some time going back to its original shape. Lots of girls (and guys) want a tighter sensation during intercourse – and finding the right sex position can make all the difference. Try these 4 great ideas TONIGHT for tighter, more satisfying sex for both you and…
  • 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas

    Kaylen Jackson
    27 May 2015 | 4:00 am
    Sex is something lots of guys they think they know everything about. They assume they know everything there is to know not only about how to please a woman, but also about her anatomy and how it plays a role in sex.  You may think you know a lot about the body of a woman, but you probably didn’t know these ten things about a woman’s vagina! An Orgasm Is An Excellent Pain Reliever Next time your girl gives you the excuse that she doesn’t want to have sex with you because she has a headache, you can tell her she’s full of it. An orgasm is an excellent pain reliever, and…
  • How To Give Your Girl An Intense, Full-Body Orgasm That Makes Her Squirt All Over Your Bed… Guaranteed!

    Dan & Jennifer
    25 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the type of FULL-BODY, screaming-at-the-top-of-her-lungs orgasm that no guy has EVER given her before… whether it’s your first night together or you’ve been dating for years… In this video you’re going to learn a simple trick to give any woman an orgasm so intense and so powerful,  it will dramatically increase the level of dopamine in her limbic system – causing her brain to become sexually addicted to that feeling… making her sexually addicted to you. Why This Is “The Ultimate…
  • 3 Kissing Tips That Will Drive Her Wild!

    Dan & Jennifer
    23 May 2015 | 7:00 am
    Kissing is one of the best ways to turn a girl on – women love to kiss and it ignites their senses immediately. The same isn’t true for guys – they respond better to visual stimulation, such as porn. However, with a kiss, you allow a woman’s imagination to go wild, which will have her all over you in no time. Here’s how to kiss a girl and make her melt. [youtube][/youtube] Wait Until You Know That She Wants To Be Kissed You don’t want to surprise a woman with a kiss when she’s not ready,…
  • Top 10 Female Masturbation Tips

    Jessica Perez
    22 May 2015 | 12:00 pm
    Whether you only have time for a quick feel-good session with yourself, or whether you have all the time in the world, the following list provides a method for every woman to maximize her benefit from a beautiful masturbation experience. Right now, take a little look-see to find out which one(s) fit your personality and schedule. Skin to Skin Contact The Pattie Cake With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your little man in the boat will stand at attention. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky sweet and warm up. The inside of…
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    Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

  • Dismissing those childhood experiences is akin to dismissing you

    26 May 2015 | 2:06 pm
    Many Baggage Reclaimers are dealing with people who have an attitude of, “Yeah, I beat you, cussed you down, ignored you, tormented you, abandoned you, abused your parent or siblings, breached your boundaries and all sorts of malarkey, but we’re family. Blood is thicker than water. Why aren’t you carrying on as if we’re best friends / giving me your money / licking my feet / telling everybody how great I am?” And here’s a good one, “Well your friend Bessy’s mother used to beat her and call her names and they’re very close. Why can’t…
  • It’s Not Fair!

    19 May 2015 | 3:12 pm
    Why am I still stuck?, is a question that I’m asked pretty much every day by people who find it difficult to move past somebody or something not living up to their hopes and expectations. They are gutted by disappointment and struggling to keep their head above water as they struggle against the tide of self-criticism and blame. Sometimes as humans, we fall into the trap of feeling entitled to not be disappointed. We set our hearts on something or we work out, even if it’s subconsciously, a set of conditions under which we feel that we will be ‘OK’ or where we’ll…
  • Are you hoping to strike gold as soon as you get on a dating website?

    12 May 2015 | 2:43 pm
    Back in the day when I first started blogging (can’t believe it’s about to be eleven years – eek!), I briefly dabbled with using a website to meet a potential date. I describe it this way because the term ‘online dating’ is so misleading; they are introduction websites, not some sort of technology that we can use to simulate a relationship, though goodness knows many thousands try. Until we meet and date a ‘prospect’, they are just that and we are essentially at ‘stage 0′ until such time. All the texting, calling, IM’ng, sexting and…
  • We must stop caring too much for those who care too little for us

    5 May 2015 | 3:15 pm
    People who think that they are mighty and powerful and who think that they can force you to oblige their wants and in fact demands even if they are contrary to your own needs etc., and all while encroaching on your rights as a human being, aren’t so powerful and mighty once they realise that you don’t give a beep. It’s at that point that they realise that you just don’t care that much that you’d do you an injustice just so that you can prop up their ego. What you must understand about people who rely on a sense of superiority on their part or obvious signs of you…
  • I’m still standing. You’re still standing. We’re still standing.

    29 Apr 2015 | 1:57 pm
    There’s this falsehood that many people who are in the process of improving their self-esteem, addressing unhealthy or redundant habits, or who are thinking about doing any of these things, subscribe to, and it’s this idea that once we tackle whatever it is that we think has held us back and even “grow up” as such, that we will not be knocked by things anymore. We believe that once we do what we feel that we need to, that we won’t be put to the test. But, how would we know that we have the courage to deal with things and how would we know the length and breadth of what we’ve…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 433: Breaking up is hard to do

    24 May 2015 | 11:05 pm
    Breaking up is hard to do! How to cope with a poly breakup when losing a partner/metamour that you and your hubbie each feel differently about. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 432: Navigating poly vacations

    18 May 2015 | 8:59 am
    Navigating poly vacations. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 431: Dating a dishonest monogamist

    7 May 2015 | 9:29 am
    Takeaways from dating a dishonest monogamist with Minx and LustyGuy. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 430: Don't try polyamory before listening to this

    26 Apr 2015 | 7:22 pm
    Know what everyone fears about polyamory--jealousy, being displaced, change? Those aren't what destroy relationships. Koe Creation and Cunning Minx review what does frak up relationships by referencing Veaux's and Rickert's Relationship Bill of Rights. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 429: OMG Girl Sex with Allison Moon

    19 Apr 2015 | 6:04 pm
    OMG girl sex 101 with Allison Moon Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • Business & Life Coaching for Savvy Women!

    18 May 2015 | 12:05 am
    Do you feel there's a bigger and better life you're meant to live? Is it time you made a living doing what you love or achieved a long-term goal?
  • The Single Gal's Checklist

    16 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    When I went out for cocktails the other night, I took mental notes of my single-girl night out checklist: cash, keys, lip gloss, cell phone. But what else do we need to navigate our single gal lives?
  • Top 10 Men Women Fantasize About

    13 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Why would we want to settle for some dime-a-dozen, regular Joe when we can hold out for our true fantasy? Savvy Miss looks at the top 10 men women dream about.
  • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience

    18 Mar 2015 | 12:00 am
    The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of sexy strangers. After we hung up, I got to thinking...
  • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat

    15 Mar 2015 | 12:00 am
    By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including: “I look fat in this,” (a subtly aggressive form,...
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Pledge to End Sexual Assault With

    Gillian Hatcher
    5 May 2015 | 10:49 am
    It started out the way you would expect a sexual assault public service announcement (PSA) to start: people were at a party, a beautiful girl was stumbling on her way out. From this point, based on all of the other sexual assault PSAs I have seen, I expected the guy to step in at any minute and take advantage of the girl. He did, just like I thought. But something was different this time. It is a campaign that encourages people to no longer be bystanders and intervene when they feel a situation might end in rape or sexual assault. When the camera moved past the guy and the girl and focused on…
  • Expedited Partner Therapy: The BOGO of STD Treatment

    Sumra Alvi
    7 Apr 2015 | 4:00 am
    There is stigma attached to getting tested for sexually transmitted disease (STDs) that tends to steer many people, especially teenagers, away from visiting the clinic. Some of the questions running through a frightened person’s head may range from “Will it hurt?” to “How much will this cost me?” to “What if my parents find out?!” These questions and fears may prevent teens from going to the clinic when they find out their partner has an STD and now they likely have it, too. This public health concern has sparked a new practice in health care called expedited partner therapy…
  • Flo Crit Supports Teen Moms

    David Geng
    31 Mar 2015 | 6:09 am
    Despite a decline in teen pregnancy rates over the past few years, there are still many teenagers who become parents. As you can imagine, teen parents face a lot of challenges. It’s already hard enough to balance things like grades, extracurricular activities, a social life and sleep—now imagine throwing a kid into the mix! Teen moms especially face the stigma surrounding being a teen parent. Pervasive stereotypes include the idea that teen moms are irresponsible and uneducated. A video released by YTH and Florence Crittenton Services—also known as Flo Crit—seeks to challenge those…
  • #LustforLife Makes Condoms More Appealing

    Elena Hooper
    27 Mar 2015 | 7:46 am
    Condoms are an important part of practicing safer sex, but sometimes, some people see them as more of a hassle than a necessity. In turn, not using condoms can lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV. A new campaign called #LustforLife  from ONE—a condom company—wants to encourage safer sex, particularly the prevention of HIV transmission, by making condoms look appealing. Working on this campaign are street artists, including Billi Kid, who lives in New York City. The idea is to make condom wrappers look really awesome. If condom wrappers look…
  • Scientists Make Progress on Potential HIV Vaccine

    Joyce Canela
    24 Mar 2015 | 6:20 am
    Scientists have created a potential vaccine for HIV that may one day prevent the spread of the disease. This vaccine helps muscles make proteins that block HIV from taking hold in the body and the immune system does the rest of the work by clearing out the virus. The vaccine study, done at the Scripps Research Institute in Florida, has now completely shielded four monkeys against several strains of SHIV, which is an adapted version of HIV used in animal studies. After multiple attempts to infect the monkeys with the virus, who had received the vaccine, the monkeys remained SHIV free. Although…
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    Simple Marriage

  • Commit to a path

    28 May 2015 | 4:04 am
    Over the last several years I’ve invested a lot of effort in the area located between professional therapy in an office with a trained therapist and the information you would learn if you were to buy a book. The picture in my mind is like creating the Legal Zoom of the mental health/marriage therapy world. This path has involved many failures, but also several successes. Simple Marriage definitely is among the successes. Now, all the successes can be found in one resource that takes all the information from the prior courses and condenses it in to one easy to use, self paced, fully…
  • The resent-repeat syndrome

    25 May 2015 | 5:14 am
    If you grew up in a family where you experienced injustice, abuse, or a sense of hurt, you’re at a high risk of developing a resent-repeat syndrome in your adult life. You may end up repeating a familiar pattern from your past or you may go 180 degrees to an opposite pattern. These actions result in your own children being deprived in a way that carries your emotional scars forward into the next generation. The rule is this: The more we resent something our parents did, the more likely we are either to unknowingly repeat it, or to try so diligently NOT to repeat it that we go to the…
  • Entitlement in Marriage

    21 May 2015 | 4:04 am
    My main belief is that marriage is designed to grow us up. If you look at married life this way, you’ll see that growth comes from the pressure a relationship with a spouse creates. Pressure to chart your own course in life and be your own person while at the same time pressure to connect with your spouse and enjoy the benefits marriage has to offer. Many people fall victim to believing marriage is about happiness. That you will meet your soul mate, fall madly in love, have a romantic wedding then be swept off into a rose petal covered existence together for the rest of your…
  • Marriage Made Easy With The 6 C’s

    18 May 2015 | 5:28 am
    Remember when you first met your spouse? It may have been one of those fairy-tale moments. Everything around you faded into the background and the only thing that existed was them. You mustered up the courage to introduce yourself and your relationship was born. Or it may have been a friendship that eventually transitioned into a romance. Regardless how it began, married life is different than dating. And nothing can really prepare you for marriage, but marriage. Marriage may be the most difficult thing in your life – it can also be the best thing in your life – likely both.
  • Create More Intimacy In Your Marriage

    15 May 2015 | 6:54 am
    One of the major things marriage provides is it’s the best chance to create an intimate connection with another person. It’s part of marriage’s elegant design. You and your spouse can create an entire part of life that only the two of you know about. Yet, this intimate connection is also a source of major frustration. Why? Because the marriage of your dreams is very likely not the marriage of your spouse’s dreams! One of the hurdles to creating a close intimate connection with your spouse is an unrealistic togetherness expectation. Stated another way, this is idealized or…
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    Ellie Lumpesse: A Pretentious Pervert

  • Class Notes for “Connection From the Start”

    4 May 2015 | 7:59 am
    This is an easier to navigate version of my class handout from “Connection From the Start: Beginning Rope Bondage” Quick Start Guide to Rope Bondage Resources Online There are many excellent bondage videos and resources on the Internet. However, it is important to focus on using ones that come from reputable sources. The following list contains videos that I’ve found to be excellent for learning and finding inspiration. This is not meant to be an exhaustive list but rather was carefully curated to include a broad-based by manageable starting point for acquiring basic skills to…
  • Protocol

    18 Apr 2013 | 8:38 pm
    Mr. Vanilla and I have a power-neutral relationship. That means that while we consider ourselves kinsksters and engage in BDSM play, we do not have a permanent power dynamic that we operate under. He always tops me and I always bottom to him but when we aren’t doing a scene, we aren’t doing any power exchange. Being power-neutral can sometimes mean that we feel like we’re on the outside looking into the kink community. We also run into lots of assumptions. People that don’t know us will assume that we have some sort of protocol in action when we do not. Mr. Vanilla…
  • Community Building

    24 Sep 2012 | 7:45 pm
    Recently I’ve been involved in relaunching a kink group in my town. It has been . . . challenging to say the least. I’ve realized that in the sex blogging world, I always so easily gravitated to the people I had something in common with. It was never just sex but some sort of nerdiness about sexuality, a concern with feminism, an academic interest in kink. One of those things usually lined up and bam, new friend. In the kink community, especially locally, it isn’t so easy. I don’t have a repository of writing to learn about someone from. Fet stalking can get you part…
  • Mr. Vanilla?

    12 Aug 2012 | 6:48 am
    So, remember when I first told you about Mr. Vanilla? My life was pretty different then. I had just had a miserable breakup with Michael. I was still in a relationship with Jay. And he seemed so simple to me. I wasn’t really fair in the way I described him. The “vanilla” moniker was only a piece of what made my description incomplete. During this past year, Mr. Vanilla and I were married. Best decision I’ve ever made. Furthermore, he has been joining me in participating in the kink community. Best decision he ever made? Well, he might not go that far. But the…
  • Elust #28

    6 Aug 2011 | 6:56 am
    Photo courtesy of Delilah Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #29 (Which will be in September, taking a short summer break)? Start with the rules and subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for updates and submission reminders. ~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~ What makes me a woman? - It’s a stumper, this question. There must be something that makes…
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    Girl with a one-track mind

  • Run

    27 May 2015 | 3:13 pm
    I used to be very cynical when I read how depression could be improved through exercise. So many writers of articles seem to claim that they have magically and instantly overcome their depression... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Eleven

    1 Jan 2015 | 1:00 pm
    I realise that posting this on here today now just marks an annual event, not another of what used to be my daily writings, and I do feel sad about that. I miss having this as a regular outlet for my... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Ten

    1 Jan 2014 | 12:32 pm
    Ten years ago today, I posted my inaugural entry on this blog. It makes me feel quite old and very nostalgic to be looking back to then; a lot has changed in my life since that initial moment I... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • BuzzFeed

    27 Nov 2013 | 6:05 am
    I wrote a post for BuzzFeed, critiquing the utterly stupid sex advice found in men's magazines. (Obviously, the sex advice in women's magazines is just as awful.) It's so annoying to see this shit... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Antonia

    28 Oct 2013 | 8:27 am
    As many readers will know, before I wrote books, or even this blog, I worked in the film industry; I spent many years working as a runner and assistant director. Before that, however, I was an... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
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  • BEA = Books Everywhere, Aaaaahh!

    27 May 2015 | 7:26 am
    I'm heading into New York today for Book Expo America at the Davits Center, where I'll be signing free copies of Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica at 2:30 in the autographing area and, I believe, 3:30 at the Cleis Press booth. However, if you've been following my Instagram account or blog, you know I'm moving very soon to South Jersey. Which means I am purging books left and right. Considering the fact that free stuff is catnip to my hoarder lust, the prospect of being in a convention center full of free books and not being able to take them feels utterly masochistic. Good thing I am a masochist in…
  • 25 women orgasming - read all about it for 99 cents in Orgasmic

    26 May 2015 | 7:28 am
    Orgasmic is only 99 cents right now on Kindle! I believe the sale lasts until Thursday, so act fast. It remains one of my favorite of the 50+ anthologies I've edited. Why? I think it's one of the hottest and certainly most varied. I made sure that none of the 25 female orgasm erotica tales were too similar, and it has a story I read from in all my writing classes, "Chemistry" by Velvet Moore, which I consider a model of how to write an intriguing erotic tale about an unusual fetish. Want to read my BDSM story "Belted" for free? Visit Goodreads, and I hope you'll also enjoy the other 24. At 4…
  • Why the Girl Scouts were right to allow transgender girls and the hate behind the petition to stop them

    23 May 2015 | 5:03 am
    I wrote 10 pieces for Salon this past week; this on the Girl Scouts and transgender girls is one of them. I think my personal favorite is on the fat-shaming inherent in dadbod (which Blogger keeps wanting to autocorrect to "deadwood").
  • Free femdom from Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica

    23 May 2015 | 4:56 am
    It's been quite the week, so to celebrate the weekend and Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, here's a free excerpt from my story "Claws Out," inspired by actual claws I saw but never bought at Purple Passion. By the time I was able to buy them, they no longer stocked them! I can't find a good photo that does justice the ones I had wanted to buy, but if I do, I will post it. In the meantime, here's part of my story; read the rest along with 20 other creative, hot, sexy varied stories of sex toys in Come Again. Read more about "My Life as a Vibrator" by Livia Ellis and "Must Love Dolls" by Giselle…
  • Rebel Wilson, Maggie Gyllenhaal, Hollywood and age discrimination at Salon

    22 May 2015 | 5:54 am
    I've written a lot for Salon this week, and have been linking the articles mainly on Twitter. It's been a crazy week, which I'll share more about as soon as I have time, but I wanted to share this piece on why women lie about their age, Rebel Wilson, Maggie Gyllenaal and Hollywood age discrimination.
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Eye Candy: Quickies

    Violet Blue
    29 May 2015 | 2:09 am
    These are dirty, dirty couples: Filthy Housewives and Bisexual Husbands. Adriana Chechik, Kylie Kalvetti, Ryan D. – Come Kisses (commentary video) Aruna Aghora, Denis Reed – Give Me Your Love Content copyright © 2015 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S. Federal Trademark law, and the…
  • Sex News: A robotic butt, risky penis decisions, sextech, Bill Cosby’s statute legacy

    Violet Blue
    27 May 2015 | 2:17 am
    Meet indie erotica’s perfect couple: Filthy Housewives and Bisexual Husbands. The result of four years of hard work? A robotic butt named Patrick, who delivers instantaneous feedback to students about the prostate exam he’s receiving. Patrick comes equipped with four sensors, and its highly-visual software can inform students whether they’re applying optimal pressure. He might inform the student if the pressure is too soft or if they have neglected to cover the whole prostate. Robotic Butt Helps Medical Students Learn Professional Intimacy (KQED, thank you Cyrus!) Congrats, UK. It…
  • Hot continuous shot in new Four Chambers video – flux : tease

    Violet Blue
    26 May 2015 | 1:30 am
    Four Chambers is one of my favorite erotic art groups, and their video work continues to amaze, arouse and make you generally want to celebrate the power of bold art and artists. flux : tease is their brand-new work, a compelling four-minute video that has a riveting continuous shot in the beginning, then artfully takes us through a domination scene starring Joey Minx and Nenetl Avril, framed by artful (and emotional, narrative, tasteful) editing, perfect timing, and some really hot set-to-music action. Find Four Chambered on Twitter here. Their mantra is indie DIY erotic cinema, and if you…
  • Vanilla Whip: A Documentary About Love (and a great video)

    Violet Blue
    25 May 2015 | 3:37 am
    I love, love, LOVE this gleefully cute video, Vanilla Whip: A Documentary About Love. The language, I believe, is fairly universal. They have a Facebook page (I hope they get a real website before Facebook deletes them), and I found AKTUALNY PROJEKT: KLIMAT I WANILIA // VANILLA WHIP. I hope to see more of this fun project, even though Google doesn’t seem to return any accurate results for it… I’ll be on the lookout. Content copyright © 2015 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only…
  • Sunday Sex Reads: AdultFriendFinder breach, Ex Machina, libertarian porn

    Violet Blue
    24 May 2015 | 6:26 am
    Meet indie erotica’s perfect couple: Filthy Housewives and Bisexual Husbands. Two of Britain’s top creatives have teamed up to make one of the most extravagant erotic brand films ever — a frenetic two-and-a-half-minute film for London adult retailer Coco de Mer. Ad of the Day: Adult Retailer Makes Probably the Craziest X-Rated Ad Yet (AdWeek) This Friday the news hit that 3.5 million personally identifiable records were leaked from systems belonging to the adult oriented website, AdultFriendFinder. The really interesting part wasn’t so much the tenting of fingers and overly…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 448

    Dan Savage
    26 May 2015 | 1:00 am
    Mom has been having an affair for 17 years, and dad just found out about it. How can this beleaguered daughter support both of her parents?  A gold star lesbian fell into bed with a man, and discovered that…she liked it. A lot. Now what?  On the Magnum, what makes people rat out their friends or family for infidelity?  Dan speaks with Dr. Dan Kruger for a “What You Got?” about why people blow the whistle.   Also, a woman is dating a man who happily accepts blow jobs, but won’t go down on her because he only does that for “slender ladies.”  And tons more.  206-201-2720 The…
  • Savage Love Episode 447

    Dan Savage
    19 May 2015 | 1:00 am
    A woman finds herself in the middle of a poly free-for-all when she falls for a guy who is sleeping with every woman he can get his mitts on. Is this the poly lifestyle, or just a dude with a harem?  A woman is nursing a crush on a man she suspects to be gay. Is there any way she can divine the truth?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. Andreas Baranowski for a “What You Got” on what happens to women when you take fear out of casual sex in a sexy, sexy laboratory. (Warning! The sound quality in this interview is pretty bad. But we can’t help it when science happens in Germany!)  And…
  • Savage Love Episode 446

    Dan Savage
    12 May 2015 | 1:00 am
    This week we delight in welcoming the incomparable poet, writer and filmmaker Sherman Alexie. He and Dan discuss white chicks who embrace “Native American spirituality,”  how to pretend to be abstinent to placate your psychopathic preacher, and whether it’s creepy to ask your younger girlfriend to call you “daddy.” Sherman is a treasure and this is not to be missed.  This episode is brought to you by NatureBox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting The Savage Lovecast is also sponsored by SmartMouth Activated…
  • Savage Love Episode 445

    Dan Savage
    5 May 2015 | 1:00 am
    Conservatives smile with their mouths. But liberals smile with their eyes. So says social psychologist Andreas Wojcik in a "What You Got" proving once and for all that lefties are happier than right-wingers.  A young man suffers from CUNNILINGUS LOCKJAW. Although Dan has never experienced this particular ailment, he nonetheless  has some advice to give. On the Magnum, Dan chats with trans rights activist Chelsea Poe about straight cis men who are attracted to transwomen.  A woman used to cut herself when she was depressed. She's better now, but has many scars to show from her dark times.
  • Savage Love Episode 444

    Dan Savage
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:00 am
    A priest and a rabbi come onto a podcast… This week Dan welcomes the retired gay Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire, Gene Robinson, as well as a Rabbi Jeremy Gerber to tackle some thorny religion/sex issues.  How should straight men act at gay pride parades?  Are facials inherently misogynist? A woman has just discovered that her husband had an affair. But when they finished fighting about it, the sex was hotter than ever! A married man notices that when he and his wife fight, she tends to withhold sex. Is this a strategy, and how can he make it stop? And a ton more.   206-201-2720 The…
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  • Significant Moments In Black History That Never Really Happened Pt. 2

    Panama Jackson
    29 May 2015 | 7:34 am
    Back in the days after I was a teenager and well after I had a Skypager (I never had a Skypager) I wrote about significant moments in Black history that never really happened. By no means a definitive list, it included such landmark and hallmark moments as the death of Ricky on the streets of South Central Los Angeles in Boyz N The Hood and Dwayne and Whitley getting married on A Different World. These things mattered and always will. Ricky taught dudes that if you’re running from somebody with a gun, you best hit that zig zag motion and be unpredictable. Don’t zig when you need…
  • 10 Completely Separate Times Nia Long Proved She’s The Best And Baddest Actress Who Ever Lived

    Damon Young
    28 May 2015 | 2:02 pm
    According to several sources, Nia Long, the baddest actress who has ever lived, is apparently engaged to long-time boyfriend Ime Udoka. I am happy about this. Because, by doing things like “existing” and “sitting while appearing on screen,” Nia Long has been making me happy for over 20 years. So being happy about her happiness is the right thing to do. Now, I imagine some of you are thinking “Wait. Nia Long is bad. But the baddest? I don’t think so. What about Halle Berry? Kerry Washington? Lisa Nicole Carson? Stacey Dash before she got all Santorum? That…
  • Why The “Grown-Ass Black Man With Cornrows” Is The Greatest Hairstyle Ever

    Damon Young
    28 May 2015 | 7:17 am
    1. Because aside from being… A) an inmate B) a grip on a porno set C) a gang member in LA (and only in LA) D) a pimp in a randomly bizarre location like Sioux Falls, SD, Punxsutawney, PA, or Saturn E) a light skinneded daytime TV star in a Tyler Perry movie …there’s no valid reason for a grown-ass Black man to have cornrows in 2015. None whatsoever. That said… 2. From Kawhi Leonard to “that guy who always comes in the barbershop to pass out flyers about all-white boat rides and next month’s Gemini cabaret at the Elks” every grown-ass Black man who…
  • Poignant-Ass Simple Shit My Mom Used To Say To Me, Ranked

    Vontilla Steven
    27 May 2015 | 11:40 am
    (My mom grew up on a farm and has 13 siblings. I love her.) 10. “I don’t know them people.” This was usually stated when I asked her to sleep over at a new friend’s house. The answer was always no, but she told me that my friends could sleep over at our place any time. Her reasons for declining my request included: unkempt homes, terrible food, unsafe surroundings, and the possibility that my friend’s terrible behavior might rub off on me somehow because of his, unknown at this point, terrible parents. To this day, I’ve never experienced a terrible casserole made by…
  • I’m Thinking About Getting Rid Of My Physical Music Collection. Hold Me.

    Panama Jackson
    27 May 2015 | 7:30 am
    I own a lot of CDs. You remember those things, don’t you? After the cassette tape and before Apple changed the music game, CDs were what was hot on the streets. I still remember my first few purchases. After seeing the movie Juice, I talked my dad into buying me Cypress Hill’s debut album. Then came TLC’s Oooh…On The TLC Tip. I still have those CDs, some 20-plus years later. That’s the problem. I still have all of my CDs. And I’m thinking about getting rid of them. All of them. See, for the past five years, I’ve been travelling with unopened boxes of…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • 10 Teeth-Care Commandments To Keep Your Mouth Makeout-Ready

    28 May 2015 | 8:44 pm
    weheartit Because if you're not taking care of your pearly whites, prince charming isn't going to stick around for long. Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 10 Ways To Ensure Your Kids Don't Become Victims Of Your Divorce

    the good men project
    28 May 2015 | 8:24 pm
    weheartit While you are moving through your emotional pain, you also need to remember that your children did nothing to cause your divorce and therefore should be shielded from your “animosity” towards one another. Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 16 Straightforward Diet Tips That ACTUALLY Work

    28 May 2015 | 1:44 pm
    weheartit By Lizzie Fuhr Exercise plays an essential role in any weight-loss journey, but how you fuel your body is just as — if not more — important. If you're ready to embrace new lifestyle changes and even more ready to stop feeling like food is a constant struggle, here are the straightforward tips we live by that really work. 1. Lose the mind-set that foods are off-limits.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • If Your Guy Does These 7 Things, He Probably Hates Your Family

    28 May 2015 | 1:20 pm
    weheartit How do you know when your man’s hard exterior is less about his personality and more about your family? Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 12 Reasons Marrying My H.S. Sweetheart Was The Best Decision EVER

    28 May 2015 | 12:48 pm
    weheartit 17 years into our relationship and seven years into our marriage, I can pretty safely say that marrying the first person I ever seriously dated was the best decision I've ever made. Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • 8 Sexy Role Play Ideas to Spice Up your Sex Life

    29 May 2015 | 6:40 am
    Ever feel like your sex life could do with a bit of a kickstart? It's natural in relationship to fall into the same routine night after night, but luckily there are plenty of ways of spicing up your fun with minimal effort. Sexy role play is a wonderful way to get out of a rut in the bedroom, and it's a great opportunity to try some new moves and techniques you may have been too shy to broach otherwise. Putting on a sexy costume helps you step out of your own shoes and into another character, with a new set of personality traits and fantasies. In fact, in our recent Forbidden Fantasies…
  • Sex Position Challenge: Say Hello to The Hammock

    22 May 2015 | 5:56 am
    Are you looking for some bedroom inspiration? Trying a new position is a great way to keep your encounters with your partner fun and fresh, and this one is a winner! If you tried our last Sex Position Challenge then you should be prepped and ready for something a little trickier. Introducing... The Hammock. This position requires a prop so remember to get it ready beforehand to reduce the mid-flow kerfuffle. How to achieve The Hammock: Begin with the man sitting on some form of foot rest or pouffe. A sturdy stool or the side of the bed would probably suffice. The woman then straddles him…
  • Masturbation May: Win a Male Sex Toy Bundle (Worth Over £100!)

    15 May 2015 | 5:15 am
    Male readers of this blog occasionally grumble that we focus on female sex toys too much. The truth is, between sex selfie sticks and diamond vibrators, there tends to be more fun female toys appearing on the market than those aimed at men. Having said that, we've decided that it's high time to treat you boys to a special giveaway just for you. Given that we're currently half way through Masturbation May, we've designed an amazing sex toy bundle that you fellas can enjoy solo or with your partner. The prize includes: Lelo Billy Luxury Rechargeable Vibrating Prostate Massager (£69.99)…
  • Design a Sex Toy Competition is Back: Could Your Idea be Worth £100,000?

    12 May 2015 | 8:27 am
    Lovehoney's Design a Sex Toy is back! Are you an engineer, graphic designer, inventor or even just a kinky doodler? Could your revolutionary idea bring endless orgasms to the masses or have you come up with a cunning take on a classic? Send us your sex toy idea and you could see your dreams turned into reality. There are three categories you can enter: Sex Toys for Men, Sex Toys for Women and Sex Toys for Couples. You can enter one idea per category, which means you have three chances to win. The winner of each category will receive £1,000 and the Judges' Pick will receive an extra…
  • "Great Beginners Rabbit" Review of the Month, April 2015

    11 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    If you write a sex toy review for Lovehoney, you could be in with a chance to win a rather brilliant £100 Lovehoney voucher to spend on whatever you like. After last month's winning review of the Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, we're continuing the rabbit trend with April's grand prize... This month we're giving the top prize to alleyxandra who reviewed the Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator (£39.99). An experienced rabbit aficionado, she explained the merits of rabbit vibes and evaluated this budget option with consideration: "I need a combination of both…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex


    29 May 2015 | 6:58 am
    New Answer - I am Heather Jason from USA i want to share my great experience to the whole world about how i got my lover back to my arms after we departed for 4 years i never taught that i could have him back in my life until i met this great man named Dr Marvel who showed me true powers of spell, Me and my lover Broke up 4 years ago ever since i have not been my self although i have been in several relationship i have not seen who is as good as Jason, so ever since i have been thinking about him, so i had to tell my friend about how i feel for Jason that i wish if i can have him back to my…
  • How i got back my love

    29 May 2015 | 3:13 am
    New Answer - This is Angel Sean from USA, am sharing this article to give thanks to Dr. Ebakor who helped me to bring back my EX lover that broke up with me for 2 months. I was searching for advise on what to do to get back my EX lover and i came across a post of a woman in USA called Angela Shuane giving thanks to Dr. Ebakor for helping her to get back her lost HUSBAND who left her for years with her kids. I contacted the spell caster for help due to the fact that i needed my EX lover desperately because he is my lover and my life. To God be the glory, my EX lover came back to me within 12…
  • How i got back my love

    28 May 2015 | 6:27 pm
    New Answer - This is Angel Sean from USA, am sharing this article to give thanks to Dr. Ebakor who helped me to bring back my EX lover that broke up with me for 2 months. I was searching for advise on what to do to get back my EX lover and i came across a post of a woman in USA called Angela Shuane giving thanks to Dr. Ebakor for helping her to get back her lost HUSBAND who left her for years with her kids. I contacted the spell caster for help due to the fact that i needed my EX lover desperately because he is my lover and my life. To God be the glory, my EX lover came back to me within 12…
  • Testimony on how i got my lover back

    28 May 2015 | 3:52 pm
    New Opinion - This is Angel Sean from USA, am sharing this article to give thanks to Dr. Ebakor who helped me to bring back my EX lover that broke up with me for 2 months. I was searching for advise on what to do to get back my EX lover and i came across a post of a woman in USA called Angela Shuane giving thanks to Dr. Ebakor for helping her to get back her lost HUSBAND who left her for years with her kids. I contacted the spell caster for help due to the fact that i needed my EX lover desperately because he is my lover and my life. To God be the glory, my EX lover came back to me within 12…

    28 May 2015 | 2:03 am
    New Answer - This is wonderful testimony that i most share to you all the people in the world.i got married to my Husband about 3 year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the father of my child and i don't want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today.few month ago he now decided to live me and the kids,being a single mother can be…
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  • Save on Sex Toys This Memorial Day

    23 May 2015 | 1:04 pm
    Good Vibes Good Vibes has a sliding scale going on. The more you spend, the more you save! What does that get you? The Magic Wand Rechargearable for $106 Stronic Drei Pulsator for $144 Mimi Soft for $85.5   The sale is going on right now so click the banner to shop!   Babeland Enjoy a flat 20% off your order with code 20EMDW. Ends 5/25 Mina Limon for $95 Boss Lady or Naked for $55 Mona 2 for $111 Laid D1 for $96 Lovehoney Save 25$ when you spend $25! This is a great coupon if you don’t plan to spend hundreds of dollars! For starters, you can get the Stronic Eins for $146 or…
  • Boss Dildo

    6 May 2015 | 9:13 pm
    Boss Silicone Dildo 60 from Good vibes I’m not sure I can describe how excited I was over the prospect over own the Boss dildo. I own the original AAA-powered Boss, which I described using the word “love”, and the larger and rechargeable Big Boss, though the latter is one of those toys I really should use more! I saw no reason why I wouldn’t love this new offering from Fun Factory. Each of the toys in the Boss lineup varies slightly. The Big Boss was larger than the original, and the “stub” is a dildo with a suction cup base that doesn’t curve in a…
  • Have Fun With New Toys and Partners – No Strings Attached

    25 Apr 2015 | 10:52 pm
    Guest post from Holly Rose Sex toys and escorts are a great way of exploring your sexuality with no commitment. Right now, sex is all about you. We ladies have often be expected to take a back seat in the bedroom. After all, it’s often men who are shown to be the ones initiating sex and women either falling for their manly charms or crying off with a headache. Well, I think it’s high time for that kind of thing to stop! I’m pretty sure that I can speak for all women when I say that I want to experience pleasure on my own terms, whether it’s with a hot guy or a shiny…
  • 12 Sex Toys I Need to Use More

    22 Apr 2015 | 1:25 am
    It’s not that I do it on purpose, it’s just that I’m not very thoughtful about cycling through all my sex toys and accessories to make sure they get use and prevent them from picking up dust. I mean, it’s bound to happen sooner or later as a sex toy reviewer, right? I only have one clit and one vagina and two hands, and it’s fairly easy for me to get off, so I don’t need to use a bunch of toys every time I masturbate. However, the truth of it is that I simply don’t use toys all the time. Or even most of the time. I usually pop open Tumblr, find a…
  • Joyboxx

    20 Apr 2015 | 10:44 pm
    Joyboxx $34.99 from Joyboxx Sex toy storage is such an interesting search. Many companies have tried to be the end-all and be-all of storage. They’ve created lighted boxes, pillows and tissue boxes that hide toys, locking cases and more. Up to this point, I think my favorite has been the Lovehoney deluxe sex toy case. It has everything I was in storage: ease of use, versatility and mobility. In fact, so many storage options fail in that regard, that I don’t really use any of the ones I have. I have empty boxes sitting in multiple places. One of them I simply use as a bag for my…
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  • 9 Almost-Relationships of the Modern Dating World

    Michelle Escultura
    29 May 2015 | 7:00 am
    By definition, an almost-relationship is headed in the right direction, but falls short of anything that involves a real emotional investment. These days, relationships are no longer seen as a yes or no thing. There are tons of gray areas between not being a couple and being an actual, official couple. The funny thing is that the gray area seems to be getting bigger and bigger, as more types of almost-relationships pop up. You may wonder why people don’t just man up and make things official. But with the advent of technology giving singles so many options, there will always be that nagging…
  • Marry, Date or Dump? How Do Women Decide This?

    Danielle Anne Suleik
    29 May 2015 | 6:47 am
    A woman’s mind makes lots of tiny decisions to come to a conclusion for what to do with your relationship. So is she going to marry, date or dump you? Everyone arrives at a point in their life where they have to decide whether they are ready to settle down or forge on towards that journey to find their lifelong mate. But how do women decide what they want at a specific time of their life? Are they going to date you or dump you? Could they possibly see you as the one they’ll be spending the rest of their life with? We’ve all played that game. Although the words are too obscene to display…
  • What to Do When Your Guy’s Friends Are a Bad Influence

    Charley Reid
    29 May 2015 | 6:47 am
    If your guy has been putting his friends first, and they are negatively influencing him, keep reading and learn how you should handle this situation. You are the sum of the people you hang out with. Frat-mentality is a real thing, and girls do things to impress other girls, such as dress trendy, and guys do things to impress other guys, such as lift weights, or challenge one another to beer chugging contests. There are hundreds of reasons as to why one seeks approval from others, and although it might seem silly, or immature, it happens all the time, and at any age, and in both men and women.
  • Should You Take Your Husband’s Last Name?

    Minot Pettinato-Little
    29 May 2015 | 6:41 am
    Tradition says that when you get married, you take your husband’s last name and assume a family as a couple, but what if that’s just not for you? In Western society, women are to assume their husband’s last name after marriage, but why? In 1921, early feminist Lucy Stone won an appeal to keep her maiden name post-marriage, stating that her name was her identity “and must not be lost.” Since her attempt, many modern-day feminists have made it their mission to preserve their maiden names, post nuptials. Why is a woman to assume a man’s name, just because they are now legally bound…
  • Are You Satisfying Your Girl in the Bedroom?

    Danielle Anne Suleik
    28 May 2015 | 11:48 am
    How can you positively, definitively know if your girl is satisfied with your sexual prowess? Find out with these signs. The satisfaction of a woman when it comes to sex is not just isolated to achieving an orgasm. It is a combination of foreplay, emotion and flexibility. If you know exactly what you are doing, you won’t have a problem with giving your girlfriend what she wants. If, however, you are not sure about your abilities, there is a chance that your girlfriend might be faking it. What do you need to satisfy a woman in bed? There are different ways to pleasure a woman, but there are…
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  • Close to the End

    Tai Fenix Kulystin
    1 May 2015 | 8:39 pm
    Not quite there yet, but I’m working on it. I need to be done with writing my thesis soon. In the next few days, really. I will still have editing and other sorts of work to be done for it, and I will have to get on the task of figuring out what I will do for my symposium, so I will be far from completely done in the next few days, but I will have the writing of it completed and be in the home stretch. Of course, I’ve thought this before, and every time I think I’ll be done something happens to get in my way. I had set aside all of this past week, from Sunday to Saturday,…
  • Protected: Two Months

    Tai Fenix Kulystin
    24 Mar 2015 | 12:05 am
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  • On Writing a Thesis Focused on Embodiment and Emotions (thesis excerpt)

    Tai Fenix Kulystin
    28 Jan 2015 | 10:12 am
    This is an excerpt from my Master’s thesis titled “Erotic Embodiment and Integration of Soul, Spirit, and Body: Toward a Sacred Erotic Psychology Healing Praxis,” it is a piece from the Introduction To say it is difficult to write about embodiment is an understatement. Writing is a tool of the mind and splits us off from bodily experience. Language cannot fully capture the essence of being embodied, of being in a body, or of bodily sensations and emotions, but it can try. For the most part, language brings us out of our bodies and puts us apart from ourselves, especially language in…
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    Tai Fenix Kulystin
    26 Jan 2015 | 8:20 am
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  • TWiB After Dark – As Seen on Buzzfeed!

    20 May 2015 | 7:11 pm These Might Tickle Your Fancy: TWIB AFTER DARK GIVEAWAY – Flash Brown Cock! TWiB After Dark Returns! White Washing the Sex Field & 50 episodes of #TWiBAfterDark A Special TWIB After Dark
  • New (ish) Interviews with ME!

    2 Apr 2015 | 10:29 pm
    So its been awhile. I’ve come down with a very bad case of “Everything I Write is Poops” but working on that to bring you guy more delicious content.  If you have missed me I wanted to give you a chance to listen or read to some of my latest interviews. I had the honor of being interviewed by the Asian American Writers Workshop’s  Ester Wang, talking about everything from race to sex work and my love of New York City. If you missed my February appearance on the awesome Sex Love Joy podcast hosted by Anaín Bjorkquist  now is the time to get some more…
  • TWIB AFTER DARK GIVEAWAY – Flash Brown Cock!

    18 Feb 2015 | 7:40 pm
    I’ll be welcoming Flash Brown (@flashbrownxxx) as a guest on Twib After Dark on Feb. 25th and to celebrate one of my favorite performers we are giving away one of his toys!  Molded from his impressive 11.5 inch penis, these toys come in several varieties, squirting vibrating and always filling.   Flash Brown hails from Memphis, and played professional basketball overseas and semi-pro basketball in the United States before entering the world of adult entertainment. His impressive 11.5” cock has made him a hit with fans around the globe, earning him an XBIZ Best Male Newcomer…
  • TWiB After Dark Returns!

    8 Jan 2015 | 12:35 pm
    Its the first After Dark of the year and Aaron and I have a whole heap of fuckery to wade through.  Not only did we talk about the various sex tech debuting at CES 2015 but we talked about what apps and doodads will help your future relationship. A screengrab from Bangbro’s “Protestor Exercises Her Right to Take Cock!” because they have never been shit and they never will be. Yeah, that’s a thing that several people agreed to do. Yes, that’s a woman holding a sign with Eric Garner’s last words misspelled on them.  You can hear me flip out below These…
  • White Washing the Sex Field & 50 episodes of #TWiBAfterDark

    8 Dec 2014 | 9:20 am
    I’m so excited that TWiB After Dark has made it through 50 amazing episodes! Thank you all so much for listening and supporting. We welcomed two very special guests for this episode both members of the Women of Color Sexual Health Network , Aida Manduley (@neuronbomb) and Tamara Williams Van Horn (@TamVanHorn).   We talked about the new UK porn bans, 3-D printed sex toys, and had an in depth discussion on supporting and boosting the voices of women of color in the sexual heath field and how our absence directly impacts society’s view on human sexuality. Listen Below  …
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  • 9 Things You Didn’t Know About Doggy-Style Sex

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 May 2015 | 2:00 am
    Frank Kobola says tgere are nine things you don’t know about doggy-style sex. 1. It’s a great way to hit the G-spot. Doggy-style sex is perfect for deep penetration that will hit the G-spot, so it’s great for women who like it deep and basically any guy ever. And although manuals as old as the Continue reading →No visits yet
  • The 8 Stages of a Typical Sex Life

    Svetlana Ivanova
    26 May 2015 | 2:00 am
    Tracey Cox reveals the eight stages of a typical sex life. What’s coming next for you? A sex therapist once told me if someone tells him they know a couple married 20 years whose sex life is as good as it was at the start, there are only three possibilities. The first, they’re lying. The Continue reading →(Visited 35 times, 1 visits today)
  • 3 Weird Things That Can Make Sex Better

    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 May 2015 | 3:00 am
    Jillian Kramer shares three weird things that can make sex better. It doesn’t take much to elevate sex from good to oragasmically great. Your usual sexual routine can be elevated easily with a few simple changes that heighten the whole experience. Are some weird? Yep. But do they work? Yep. Here are three to try:  Continue reading →(Visited 72 times, 1 visits today)
  • 3 Great Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

    Svetlana Ivanova
    21 May 2015 | 2:00 am
    For men, sex equals orgasm most of the time. For women, it’s a bit more complicated than that. Although movies and porn make it appear that most women climax within the first minute of penetration, many women actually have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse. In fact, studies indicate that only 3o percent of Continue reading →(Visited 268 times, 8 visits today)
  • How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life with Someone New

    Svetlana Ivanova
    19 May 2015 | 2:00 am
    Ian Kerner reveals four ways to make the first time with a new partner amazing. That first roll in the hay with a new guy can be mind-blowingly hot…if you’re in a movie. But in reality, there’s usually something that doesn’t quite click and you’re left wondering what you could have done to minimize the fumbling. Continue reading →(Visited 53 times, 1 visits today)
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  • Early blooms

    Molly Moore
    27 May 2015 | 3:17 am
    Robert had not had much luck with women over the years but then he had never been very good at giving them the attention they seemed to crave. That is not to say that Robert didn’t attract women, quite the opposite in fact, attracting them in the first place and even getting them into his…
  • The Bigger Picture

    Molly Moore
    23 May 2015 | 3:49 pm
    “I see myself through others eyes and I am made anew” Do you know where this comes from? Tsk, tsk, if the answer is no, as it is on the homepage of my blog right up at the top. They are my words and reflect what taking and sharing my self portraits has done for…
  • Elust #70

    Molly Moore
    21 May 2015 | 3:07 pm
    Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the…
  • Revelations

    Molly Moore
    20 May 2015 | 6:35 am
    Tell me your secret desires, whisper them into my ear. I want to hear them, in your words with your voice no matter what they are or who they are about. I want to know them, all of them. The dirtier the better, don’t hold back, give me every last droplet of filth that you…
  • Stained

    Molly Moore
    16 May 2015 | 3:40 pm
    Beyond the window, up on the road, I can see the shadowy figures of people hurry past. Can they see my silhouette through the glass or is the light outside to bright. Do they wonder about what the pretty glass conceals. A hotel room, that much is obvious, but what of the rest. Could they…
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  • Accepting Sessions in Glasgow June 1-3 and Edinburgh 4-7

    Ms. Justine
    19 May 2015 | 3:22 am
    Come here, my slave. Let me pick out a couple of toys for you. I will be visiting Scotland for the first time this June! I am accepting sessions in Glasgow June 1-3 in my upscale hotel. Dungeon sessions at Glasgow Dungeon. In Edinburgh, I will be accepting sessions June 4-7 either at my upscale hotel or Maison de Debauch. Of course, I am accepting doubles with Mistress Natalie West in both Glasgow and Edinburgh. Yes, we are the original Lesbian Cuckoldresses. I would love suggestions for places to eat and things to do. Some things already on my list: *Arthur’s Seat *Willow Tea Rooms…
  • European Tour 2015

    Ms. Justine
    18 May 2015 | 2:34 am
    I look good anywhere. Very excited to be going to Europe again this Spring with Mistress Natalie West! Our dates and cites are below: Budapest – May 21-26 Split – May 26-29 Dubrovnik – May 29-31 Glasgow – June 1-3 Edinburgh – June 4-7 We have never been to any of these cities before so we welcome all suggestions. In Budapest we plan on going to ruin bars, baths . . . and? In Split we plan on taking a boat to one of these many islands, maybe yours? 😉 We are driving from Split to Dubrovnik to check out Plitvice Lakes. In Dubrovnik, we already got many…
  • New photoset: Servitude

    Ms. Justine
    15 May 2015 | 9:52 am
    I was inspired by the elegance of my new Downtown Los Angeles dungeon, La Douleur Exquise, so I wanted to shoot my slave in his amazing custom suit. I know if you had the choice, you would prefer to see me in less and him in more! I’d never done a shoot in black n Personally, I think every shoot should end with expensive champagne that everyone gets to enjoy together. Except for the slave, of course. Enjoy! Servitude at La Douleur Exquise. Lingerie: I.D. Sarrieri MUA: GlamourLush Photog: Better Than Your Photographer Shoes: Louboutins Slave’s Suit: Sharpe Suiting The post New…
  • Double Domme Sessions with Mistress Celeste di Nixi

    Ms. Justine
    12 May 2015 | 8:20 am
    Who doesn’t love a hot, vicious blonde? If you want to double your trouble, you better book us both while we are both in town! Mistress Celeste di Nixi will be visiting Los Angeles from May 12-15. Read more about her below: LA Domina who will inspire your devotion. Sessions at Dungeon West. Precise, intelligent, fierce, mischievous, and uncompromising. Let’s see how deep you’ll go. I bring my years of experience in the sex industry plus my personal love of BDSM to all my sessions. Each submissive is unique, and I love to find your limits, keep you enthralled, and then surprise you…
  • I’m Gonna Spank You Like a Mutherfucker this Mother’s Day

    Ms. Justine
    8 May 2015 | 1:30 am
      This Sunday, I will be running a spanking both at The Eagle LA’s Premier Leather, Levi, and Fetish Bar in to help raise money for Dyke Day. It’s no secret that I love the Ladies so I can’t think of a better way to spend my day!       But, if you are reading this, it’s very likely that you are not a dyke and probably not in LA, so if I can’t spank you like a mutherfucker this Mother’s Day, you can always make the Mistress happy by donating to my Keep A Breast fundraiser donation page, dedicated to the memory of my mother who died of…
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  • Elust #70

    15 May 2015 | 10:01 am
    Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Exposed! My Mom Knows! Flash Fiction: “A Taste” I am a Sex Blogger & I Reject Pseudonymity ~ Featured Post…
  • ELust #70 Open for Submissions

    1 May 2015 | 8:04 am
    Elust #70 Open for Submissions It’s May Day! An event that means yet another holiday here in England (oddly on Monday) So rescue us with your best post and make Spring really stand up and pay attention. After many requests I have finally written up what happens here at Elust after you make your submission. Have a read and marvel that we manage it at all. How it all happens. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit…
  • Elust #69

    15 Apr 2015 | 2:05 pm
    Photo courtesy of Sex Is My New Hobby Welcome to Elust #69 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #70? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bully for you Watching Me Red in Tooth and Claw ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ He’s Got Her…
  • Elust #69 Open for Submissions

    1 Apr 2015 | 5:04 am
    Elust #69 Open for Submissions April 1st and a day for tricks. Why not show us your best trick, or treat… wait that is the wrong holiday. Oh well, either way we can’t wait to see what you have for us this month! We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be…
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  • Review: (Hitachi) Magic Wand Rechargeable

    26 May 2015 | 10:47 pm
    IS THAT A CORDLESS HITACHI????? —everyone on earth whenever I post a photo of the Magic Wand Rechargeable Yes. Yes, it is. The time has come, my friends. The legendary Hitachi Magic Wand, widely regarded as the most powerful vibrator of all time, now comes in a rechargeable version. It can finally be there for you during power outages. While camping. On your porch. In your treehouse. On your top bunk. Or simply when you’re too damn lazy to get up and plug something in. (Me, all the time.) The world has been holding its breath, as have I, because there are many ways this new version…
  • Um, No: BlissMe vibrators with… personalities

    20 May 2015 | 6:54 pm
    Whatever could be so offensive about vibrators that look this boring? FORT LAUDERDALE, Fla. — BlissMe founder Daniel Mederos says his new sex toy business concept is a bit different from others because the company doesn’t just market a product, it provides a service as well. “At BlissMe Vibrators we wanted to encompass the idea of infidelity being an option through our vibrators,” Mederos said. “So what we have created is a service where consumers buy our products and we provide them with an e-mail from our list of vibrators since each of our five vibrators have…
  • Review: Joyful Pleasure glass dildos

    1 May 2015 | 5:29 pm
    These glass dildos from Joyful Pleasure presented me with a few obstacles. See, I have this thing with insertable objects where I feel frustrated if I can’t conquer them. Whether it’s sheer size, extreme heft, repetitive bloops, every imaginable electrostim setting, or simply a bulge just out of reach, I feel the uncontrollable urge to experience all that a toy has to offer. Combine this with the fact that I’m a texture slut, and you have a recipe for vaginal disaster. When presented with the opportunity to review dildos from Joyful Pleasure, I of course ignored…
  • Review: Bro Sleeve (Good Head Helping Head sleeve)

    21 Apr 2015 | 4:15 pm
    As exciting as my vagina is to you people, I know it’s not the be-all-end-all of genitals. There are certain toys that I just can’t accurately review, and one of those is the Doc Johnson Good Head Helping Head, also known as the Bro Sleeve. It’s inexpensive ($12) and favored by some trans guys for its shorter length. I was thrilled when my friend Sid Need volunteered to write about his experience with it. I originally read about the Bro Sleeve in a review through Early to Bed. They market it as a masturbation sleeve for trans men, although its other purpose (and its…
  • Review: Diva Cup

    15 Apr 2015 | 5:54 pm
    The Diva Cup is the greatest thing I’ve put in my vagina that has not resulted in orgasm. Whenever I use it, I emerge from the bathroom wanting to spread the gospel of the menstrual cup to anyone within a half mile radius. One time I excitedly gushed to my mom about them in Target. I don’t care that I’m 10 years behind the times. I don’t care at all. My life is better now, and everything that came before has just faded away. If you’re new to menstrual cups, here’s the deal: they are silicone (usually) bell-shaped receptacles that sit in the vagina, up…
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  • exposure, pseudonymity, and fat-shaming: may- e[lust] 70

    27 May 2015 | 11:54 am
    Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Exposed! My Mom Knows! Flash Fiction: “A Taste” I am a Sex Blogger & I Reject Pseudonymity ~ Featured Post…
  • the first kiss is overrated

    24 May 2015 | 12:08 pm
    Everyone’s waiting for that first kiss. That pregnant moment tingling with anticipation when suddenly neither of you can hold in your desire one second longer and you explode toward each other in passion. Or else that slow, deliberate moving together, compelled forward as you stare hypnotically into each other’s eyes. Or else that mid-sentence impulsive interruption that neither of you were expecting but just magically happened.Or some other similar kiss trope that we probably saw in a movie. We’ve all seen too many movies.The problem with the first kiss is that it is a…
  • squirting is not a science

    10 May 2015 | 5:08 pm
    Yet.Maybe someday female ejaculation will be a science, or maybe it will always remain somewhat mystical.Maybe it’s an art.Flood of InformationMaybe someday, enough educated explorers will perform sufficient sexological studies on a great enough volume of valiant volunteers so as to enable humanity to thoroughly understand this fascinating phenomenon.But for now, the scientific facts about squirting are still (surprisingly, for this supposedly over-exposed age of information) quite vague. 10 to 40 percent of women ejaculate. Fluid volume ranges from two to 150 milliliters. Squirting is…
  • the benefits of peeing after sex

    2 May 2015 | 1:46 pm
    or The Runaway FirehoseThey say that when a girl comes over for a drink and suddenly she excuses herself to use the bathroom, that’s when you know you’re in.Girls pee before sex. Guys should not. Here’s why.I have always postulated that girls have better sex than guys. They basically control the entire interaction. They usually have the last word on consent. Multiple orgasms. And what guy can just take off his dress or put your hand on his breast and in one fell, instant, unequivocal sweep, drive you completely crazy?But that’s a theme for another article.Another…
  • bullies, claws, and dancing: april- e[lust] 69

    29 Apr 2015 | 12:01 pm
    Photo courtesy of Sex Is My New Hobby Welcome to Elust #69 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #70? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bully for you Watching Me Red in Tooth and Claw ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ He’s Got Her Subject/Object/My…
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  • Beauty Queen

    28 May 2015 | 2:32 am
    Mrs. Iseult Kelly — Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain, 1955. Three judges looked carefully at 30 girls filing past them during a contest to choose the Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain. 23-year-old housewife, Mrs Iseult Kelly, mother of a six-months-old daughter, was chosen the winner. Her parents founded the Spielplatz Nudist Club at Bricket Wood, near Watford, where the contest was held on 1st August 1955. Being a member of Spielplatz, Pamela Green was friends with Iseult. Not sure of the year but Pamela Green once won a Miss Venus contest at the club. Share
  • Vicki Martin: The Unluckiest Showgirl

    24 May 2015 | 2:20 pm
    Vicki Martin was the older sister of George’s second wife Vivienne Warren. She died in a car crash in 1955 more of which you can read about here. Thanks to Casper for the following scans. Vicki Martin, the unluckiest showgirl dies in car crash number 13.Daily Mirror Jan. 10th 1955 Share
  • Out of Step (1957) – Spielplatz

    24 May 2015 | 8:56 am
    Out of Step was a documentary series made by Associated-Rediffusion in 1957. Episodes lasted approximately 15 minutes, and were shown on ITV at 10.30pm on Wednesdays. The series was presented by investigative reporter Dan Farson (who was once patted on the head by Adolf Hitler). In this episode he takes a look at nudism (the term “naturism” had yet to become commonplace). The most humorous part is the objections voiced by the infamous reactionary James Wentworth Day. What is interesting to readers of this blog, however, is that Dan visits Spielplatz Naturist Club in Bricket Wood…
  • Modelstudier

    21 May 2015 | 9:20 am
    A photo of Pamela Green by Zoltán Glass on the cover of Modelstudier no. 63, vol. 15. Modelstudier was a long standing Danish magazine that was distributed in the States as well as Blighty. Format wise it’s American letter, although I think some issues were smaller and had more pages. From the blurb on the inside cover the aim of the magazine was to “… bring pleasing and clear reproductions of diversified and characteristic models” to artist that “reside beyond the pales of great art centres.” Date unknown, but unlike British magazines of the time pubic hair is clearly visible…
  • Spring Shower

    7 May 2015 | 1:50 am
    Pamela Green enjoying a spring shower. Pamela Green passed away five years ago today. To mark the occasion I’ve selected a photo to post from her personal collection. It is a rather fun photo with a certain amount of joie de vivre to remember her by. I’m afraid I don’t know much about it other than it was probably taken in between 1948 and 1951. No idea who the photographer is or her two friends. If you have any idea please let me know. The garden looks to formal to be the naturist camp at Spielplatz. Pam’s Book of Condolences is still up…
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    The Swingers Blog

  • Mobile-Friendly Software For Swingers!

    18 May 2015 | 5:38 pm
    At Swingersocial we are excited to announce that we have released our Mobile-Friendly software. We had expert software designers make our new software very user friendly and easy to navigate, allowing our current members and future members to easily use Swingersocial from their mobile device to instantly find current members. It was important for us […] The post Mobile-Friendly Software For Swingers! appeared first on The Swingers Blog.
  • Now let’s set up our profile on Swingersocial

    12 Mar 2015 | 10:36 am
    It’s very important to put a lot of thought into writing your profile.  This will prevent you from receiving  an endless number of generic emails. The goal is to get emails from a person(s) that fit what you are looking for.  Swingersocial registration has been set up by Swingers.  So it’s very effective in attracting […] The post Now let’s set up our profile on Swingersocial appeared first on The Swingers Blog.
  • Becoming Swingers, Is The SwingerSocial Site The Place To Start?

    27 Feb 2015 | 10:58 am
    Well, a few things to make sure of before you move forward in your relationship and decide to engage in swinging. You need to make sure you’re in a non- monogamous relationship. Which I’m sure you have already decided that if you are looking at this article. Also, I’m guessing to arouse your curiosity you […] The post Becoming Swingers, Is The SwingerSocial Site The Place To Start? appeared first on The Swingers Blog.
  • Why I Became a Swinger

    23 Feb 2015 | 1:44 pm
    Not that there was anything wrong with my monogamous relationship with my wife. Not because the sex was infrequent. It didn’t have to do with boredom. It was all about new experiences. My wife and I would talk at night about our fantasies, and different things we’d like to try in the bedroom—sometimes with other […] The post Why I Became a Swinger appeared first on The Swingers Blog.
  • Here Are 4 Reasons How Swinging Can Liven Up Your Love Life

    20 Feb 2015 | 10:23 am
    The most contentious part of a closed relationship is the loss of freedom. Sometimes, you or your significant other can be overbearing without even noticing; a feeling that can debilitate each of you from enjoying that love to the fullest. Unfortunately, this is usually the reason why couples cheat or lie to each other: because […] The post Here Are 4 Reasons How Swinging Can Liven Up Your Love Life appeared first on The Swingers Blog.
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    Sugarcunt Writes

  • Kinky Fuckery 101: What Does BDSM Stand For?

    27 May 2015 | 11:18 am
    I wrote several pieces about kink approximately two years ago when I was writing for GetLusty, but it occurred to me recently that I don’t think I’ve ever really addressed kink for beginners here on my blog. I realize that some of my readers are vanilla, some are seasoned BDSM practitioners, and some of you may consider yourself kink-curious. If you’re kink-curious you might have thought about light bondage in the past, or may have a fantasy that revolves around servitude. Maybe you have sexy dreams where you boss people around and punish them for misbehavior. Maybe you’ve read 50…
  • The Word of the Nonporous

    21 May 2015 | 10:10 am
    It’s time, folks. Time that someone told you the truth about your sex toys.   JELLY TOYS ARE A GIFT FROM LUCIFER. IN THE FINAL DAYS JELLY SEX TOYS SHALL DESCENDETH INTO HELL TO CLAIM THEIR PLACE ON THE THRONE OF EVIL. — Sugarcunt (@SugarCunt) May 9, 2015 Only in silicone shall you find sex toy righteousness and a path to sex toy nirvana. — Sugarcunt (@SugarCunt) May 9, 2015 The Sex Toy Bible is very clear. The Four Manufacturers of the Apocalypse shall come and you shall know them by name: California Exotics, Doc Johnson, Pipedream, and Topco. When the first four seals are…
  • Sale Time~ 5/16/2015

    16 May 2015 | 12:31 pm
    Here’s the sale, it never fails, it makes me wanna wag my tail, when it comes I wanna wail, “SAAAAALE!” Shevibe 20% off select Tantus products But 30% off their Connoisseur harnesses. (While supplies last.) Left to right: The Amazon, the Black Widow, and the Nurse. You can also get some other toys, in particular the little Amsterdam and the big Amsterdam!   15% off Fuze Silicone until 5/26/15   Left to right: Fuze Rebel, Fuze Tango, Fuze Velvet.   40% off She-Stim while supplies last. Left to right: Electro Butt Plug, Halo Clitoral Stimulator, Rocket Electro…
  • The Bodispa Almighty

    13 May 2015 | 6:11 am
    Blogger life: “Where does this massager go? Does it say anything about how to fuck it? Does it say NOT to fuck it? Do I care enough to not?” — Sugarcunt (@SugarCunt) May 9, 2015 Me: “So… it’s gonna be a fun time. Maybe not for my clitoris, but for my readers, at least.” I selflessly do this for you, people. — Sugarcunt (@SugarCunt) May 9, 2015   This is your genital guinea pig reporting in with a new vibrator after my long absence. I asked SheVibe for a Bodispa wand vibrator because I was intrigued by it. For starters it’s called “The…
  • A Real Neat Blog

    10 May 2015 | 1:05 am
      The awesome Mr. Will from Mr. Will’s House of Thrills “nommed” me as a “Real Neat Blog.” I am touched, because I never get over hearing how awesome I am. Apparently once we answer the questions we “nom” people now and even though I read the post over an hour ago I JUST realized that “nomming” is short for nominating. It’s roughly the same length so I’m not sure why we’re calling it “nomming.” I’m just gonna call it nominating because I can’t keep up with you darn kids and your slang. The…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Beauty's Kingdom

    24 May 2015 | 3:27 pm
    OMG  OMG OMG! Anne Rice aka A.N. Roquelaure published another book in the Claiming of Sleeping Beauty Series!!  If you don't know The Claiming of Sleeping are really missing out! It is one of the best BDSM erotic novels ever written (in my opinion...then again, I also like Anne Rice's style.)   But Beauty's Kingdom was released in 2015 and I am so excited to read it -- and get my slaves to read it as well.  I am very happy that the trilogy now has a 4th book!The previous 3 novels were written 20 years ago and they are: The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Beauty's…
  • My Two True Loves

    21 May 2015 | 7:50 pm
    I was sent a link to this by my slave as she both new it would make me smile...and she also reminded me of some of the loving threesomes we have had together.  Of course, she missed an important one and so I had to remind her of that one as well ;)My Two True Loves is a 'comedy' song from College Humor but it doesn't seem like a joke to me. It makes me smile.  I am by nature, Poly. I just don't believe that I or any of my partners could be truly happy with just one lover to attempt to satisfy all our needs.   I know lots of people think that polyamory 'cannot' work because some…
  • Dangerous Masters

    19 May 2015 | 6:29 pm
    First off, this post is not for the rancid queefs who came to 'the lifestyle' to get laid and 'smack bitches around'.  There is no teaching for those types as they need to go back and learn the core lessons from kindergarten again. This is for those that call themselves 'Sir' or 'Master.' The Dominant should know that every other Dom in watching/judging them at parties. How do I judge? First off, I classify any bad Dom as one who is unsafe. That is your primary fucking job: keep the submissive safe! If you don't do that, you've failed as a Dom and it doesn't matter one baked queef…
  • Most Men Are Dogs

    18 May 2015 | 2:38 pm
     Most men are dogs. I don't say this as a feminist or man hater. No, it is simply an observation. Most men are dogs. They try to please. They worry and fret over the approval of others. Many of their actions are driven by the desire to prove something to other guys -- so you see the childish behaviors like challenging each other to jump off higher and higher cliffs.  The guy who takes the biggest risk (successfully) gets the most respect. And it is the respect of others that most men crave. Like a dog.I don't believe most men are even aware of this kind of behavior. But I am certain…
  • My BDSM Test Results

    16 May 2015 | 12:19 pm
    I have seen BDSM test results for years posted on people's profiles on Fetlife. So I finally decided to take the test myself and see what the results were.100% Bondage Giver100% Dominant100% Master/Mistress100% Non-monogamist96% Degradation Giver96% Sadist88% Exhibitionist84% Primal (Predator)71% Primal (Prey)70% Voyeur66% Switch62% Masochist40% Bondage Receiver33% Submissive29% Degradation Receiver11% Slave5% All-Rounder5% VanillaIt's not too surprising. Mostly Dom (duh) with some switch leanings (for the right Domme.) You see, I had the pleasure of meeting a 6'2 Domme who was really fit and…
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  • Sex, Jealousy, men, and women

    9 May 2015 | 1:32 am
    Jealousy occurs when you feel a valued relationship is threatened. In an evolutionary perspective, jealousy function as a way to motivate people to fight of threats against their relationships. Men feel a stronger sexual jealousy than women do. The reason in an evolutionary perspective is that female infidelity and hence the risk that other men impregnates their partner reduces the man’s possibility to reproduce himself. For women the strength of the feeling of sexual jealousy is dependent of the risk she feels there is that it will make her lose her partner to another woman. The sex itself…
  • Consensual non monogamy – a stigmatized way of life

    25 Mar 2015 | 11:18 am
    For many years, romantic love have been associated with monogamy and people living in different kinds of open marriages are met with suspicion. This is still very much true even though a growing number of people now are living in relationships based on Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) and more people have an open mind in this area. The most famous couple in a CNM relationship is probably actor Will Smith and his wife. They acknowledged from the beginning of their marriage that they are going to be sexually attracted to others. They both accepts this and they have made the agreement that it is ok…
  • Sexual selection and mating

    6 Mar 2015 | 1:58 pm
    Human mating strategies are very diverse and often change over time. Some mating relationships last for only a few hours some for a whole lifetime, some people a very monogamous some are very polyamorous, most of us have changing strategies in different periods of our life depending on our moral beliefs, life-situation, cultural background etc. However, there are some general characteristics of men and women’s mating strategies. Men want youth, women want money The selection criteria’s are different across cultures. In many Asian countries, both men and women are supposed to be virgins in…
  • Breaking news on penis size :-)

    5 Mar 2015 | 10:23 am
    In a new paper, scientifically correct measurements of penis size have been collected in order to find out what the average penis looks like once and for all. The researchers measured 15,521 men and all measurements were made by a health professional. Flaccid or erect length was measured on the upper side of the penis from the root (pubo-penile junction) to the tip of the glans (meatus), where the pre-pubic fat pad was pushed to the bone. The conclusions was as follows: The average length of the flaccid male penis is 9.16 cm +- 1.57 cm. (7.59 – 10.73) The average length of the erect pens is…
  • What attracts women and why do they want sex?

    10 Jan 2015 | 8:30 am
    When you approach a woman, you must have an open body language and not be afraid of touching her. Touches make her feel that you are a dominant strong person also when you touch other men e.g on the shoulder while talking to them. Dominance is sexually attractive to most women. The way you move is also important. You must walk and dance in a coordinated way and men who have larger and more sweeping movements are more erotic. Some women actually have sex with men solely because they are good dancers. When you have moved up to a woman in a coordinated way, you must engage in conversation. Here…
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    Naughty Reenie

  • 2-Year Blogiversary Giveaway Winners!

    28 May 2015 | 2:16 pm
    Wow! Do you know there were almost 400 of you that participated in this celebration? Meaning that there are almost 400 of you that are sex nerds with sexy and healthy sexual lives. Props to you all, peeps. Seriously, props to you all. Now, before getting to the winners, I have a couple of very important announcements to make: 1) You bunch sent me a whole lot of amazing questions in the survey. Since it’s anonymous, I have no way of emailing you the answers. As a solution, for the next couple of months, or year, or however long it’s going to take me, I’m going to answer them here, in…
  • Life of a Sheltered Child: Menstrual Sex

    20 May 2015 | 7:53 am
    Menstrual sex. Is it safe? I still don’t know. I had it three times. The first time it happened to me was, well…I don’t even know what was happening to me. I was at my partner’s house and we were having our weekly fuck session. As he was repositioning himself, he looked down at his penis and he let out a loud slow gasp. I, on the other hand, was lying on the bed and I didn’t know what was going on. So I, casually, asked him “What’s wrong?” He looked at me, mouth opened wide, with a much panicked look on his face. After a moment of silence, he stuttered…
  • Achievement Unlocked: I WON AN AWARD!

    13 May 2015 | 8:46 am
    So I apparently have a Real Neat Blog – according to Insatiable Desire, Sugar Cunt, BlissfullyOrgasmic, Carnal Chameleon & Tease For Two – and these awesome bloggers have nominated me to the Real Neat Blog award! Can you believe this? This tiny little blog of mine actually got an award! Wow. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Now that I’m standing on this award stage, I have to undergo the consequences of winning an award – answering very personal questions. So here we go! THE QUESTIONS: WHY DID YOU START BLOGGING? To do something that I want to do. Since I was born, my life…
  • 2-Year Blogiversary Sex Toys Giveaway

    5 May 2015 | 9:19 pm
    Can we just pause for a moment and realize that it’s been two years already? Two years since I became King of Sextopia and started shoving things in me. Anyway, to celebrate this event, I’m forcing you all, to commemorate this date with an unforgettable giveaway of 15 toys that I personally loved during my ruling. To enter: Read about the different prizes offered. Choose your top 3 prizes (make sure it can be shipped to you). Enter the giveaway using the widget below. The giveaway ends on May 27th, 2015 at 11:59 pm EST. I also want to give a special thanks to all the companies…
  • Review: Idee du Desir Papillon – A 5-in-1

    29 Apr 2015 | 8:49 am
    I’m on a mission. A mission to make the Papillon enter the league – the league of the best sex toys out there in the world, along with the Hitachi, Pure Wand, and all those majestic toys. I thought about creating a rainbow dildo confetti explosion in your room while a Papillon popped out from your computer screen or hypnotizing you into feeling the need to grab one now to make this toy go viral – because you know, these are some easy way – but heh. I have not acquired those magical skills yet, so I can only resort to the old fashion way – converting you into buying the…
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    The Love Hawk

  • Things I Learned from Being Single in my Late-Twenties

    6 May 2015 | 12:59 pm
    Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be almost thirty and as single as a devoted Catholic nun. Funny thing is, I’m happier than I’ve been in a long time and I have no clue if it’s because I’m older and wiser or because I have no one to answer to but myself. Maybe it’s a combination of the two. It’s been almost a year since my husband woke up one morning, packed his bags and left me without so much as the courtesy of a reason why. Months afterwards, he told me it’s cause he “just wasn’t having fun anymore”. Something happens to a person when they go through…
  • 5 Life Struggles That Actually Make You Stronger

    28 Apr 2015 | 8:20 am
    We all know by now that life gets hard sometimes. Circumstances arise that test our strength and make us feel like we may not make it out alive but when times get tough it helps to remember that without these struggles we wouldn’t truly appreciate life when it actually is going our way. Think of these life struggles as a workout for your character; just like going to the gym, you won’t see results unless it hurts a little (a lot) and makes you sweat really hard. In the end, just know you’ll be a better, wiser, stronger person who can look back and say you got through it. 1) Breakups The…
  • Make It Happen

    9 Mar 2015 | 1:36 pm
    Relationships and the people we surround ourselves with should always encourage us to follow our hearts, chase our dreams, and be the best version of ourselves possible. But too often, we stay with partners or keep friends around who don’t help us to “Make It Happen” and instead keep us doubting our abilities and what we are capable of. Take a listen to The Love Hawk’s segment on 1045 Fresh Radio and remember to never let anyone or anything hold you back. Listen here:
  • The Necessity of Closure

    7 Feb 2015 | 12:44 pm
    Doors. We walk in and out of them every day. They protect us from the weather outside and from possible intruders who could turn our houses upside down. Without doors we would all be a little less safe and a lot more cold. So why do we sometimes leave the doors of our hearts so wide open and in so much pain before we realize that we just can’t do it anymore? Why does it take us so long to shut the door on past relationships, bolt it down, and walk away. Why is closing the door on a broken heart so difficult and why don’t we seek the closure we need, when we need it? Closure is a scary…
  • 7 Internal Struggles of the Modern-Day Single Girl

    11 Jan 2015 | 3:42 pm
    This day and age, being single comes with a mass amount of internal contradictions and for the ladies in this predicament it can become a tad overwhelming. Not only do we have to worry about daily life struggles like dying to eat a whole pizza to ourselves on Friday night but also wanting to look good in a bikini for our vacation next month but now we have to worry about the dating game as well. The following is a list of struggles and thoughts that cross some (most) single girls’ minds these days: 1. I Want to Be Single but I Hate Being Alone Being an independent woman is a super sexy…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Fetish Woman Paralyzed by Own Hotness

    Annie Cumswallow
    29 May 2015 | 7:24 am
    BERLIN, MARYLAND When Marilyn Martin, 38, missed the annual DelMarVa Fetish Fashion Ball, concerned friends visited her at her upscale DC apartment to find the fetish model transfixed by her own reflection.  Mick Turner, 57, said that the model had to be physically pulled away from the mirror and that she did not go willingly.  “There was a lot of crying and sobbing and trying to break free,” Turner said.  “She would just sob and repeat ‘It’s so beautiful’ over and over again.” Medical professionals consulted at the time said that Martin suffered…
  • BDSM Party Themes Deemed Offensive

    Karyn Paine
    28 May 2015 | 6:58 am
    SAN FRANCISCO, IOWA Dungeon Owners Mary Trink and George Grabbo have announced that all parties for the the foreseeable future will be “themeless.” The couple, who own the Bastille, one of Iowa’s premiere dungeons and play spaces have been able to come up with a single theme for a party that isn’t offensive to someone. Sparked by controversy last year when local sex workers picketed their “Pimps and Hos” annual party carrying signed and chanting “Hey Hey Ho Ho, Pimps and Hos has got to go!,” the couple has decided to eliminate the use of themes…
  • Dungeon Voices: Global Warming

    Lazlo Toth
    27 May 2015 | 6:51 am
    Do you think global warming is being caused by humans? Yes, but I also think we are being punished for having too much fun. I always get punished, so it fits with my worldview. -Kim Jenns, 25, Jeweler I do. The answer is simple. If we all just used more air conditioning, we could cool this place down in no time. Why do I always have to come up with these answers? -Kim Bratch, 29, TV Spokesmodel It is all these hot women. You see them everywhere. Everywhere except my bedroom. Any advice on how to fix that problem? -Fred Finkle, 61, Wallpaper Meta-Critic Photo credits: Jasper Gregory, (cc), HM…
  • BDSM Statement Featured in Republican Platform

    Jane Jameson
    26 May 2015 | 7:37 am
    CHICAGO, LOUISIANA With 10 Republicans already announced as vying for the 2016 Presidential nomination, a group has some up with a list of positions that all Republicans are expected to accept as part of their official platform. The Conservative Values Coalition has, for the first time, specified BDSM, Kink, and Fetishism on their list of activities that are “Practiced Privately and Denied Publicly.” The document details kinks and fetishes that should be “publicly ridiculed” and encouraged the use of words like “freaks, weirdos, perverts, and abominations”…
  • Disney Shelves BDSM Remake of Cinderella

    Lazlo Toth
    25 May 2015 | 7:19 am
    HOLLYWOOD, MONTANA Leaked memos from Disney’s Touchstone Pictures division reveals plans to release a remake of the Cinderella story told from a “50 Shades of Grey” point of view, featuring a Prince with “tastes that are very singular” and wicked step sisters that participate in activities that range from whipping and torture to “water sports” and “that cool thing that the Japanese do with rope.” While Disney has no official comment on the plans for the film, insiders say it is unlikely to happen. The memo pairs George Clooney with actress…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Cliteracy and women’s sexual satisfaction

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    27 May 2015 | 12:26 pm
    Understanding the actual anatomy and physiology of a woman's clitoris is a key step in optimizing sexual satisfaction for women. The post Cliteracy and women’s sexual satisfaction appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Safety testing and monitoring of vaginal products

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    26 May 2015 | 8:18 am
    Too many "everyday" products that are put inside the vagina have not undergone adequate safety testing or regulation by the FDA. The post Safety testing and monitoring of vaginal products appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Gender and Power in Sex Ed

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    20 May 2015 | 9:14 am
     Teaching teenaged girls how to talk about sex and about masturbation (so they understand what feels good and what doesn’t) improves their reproductive health. Sex Ed Works Better When It Addresses Power in Relationships … while 17% of the traditional sex education programs lowered rates of pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease, 80% of the programs […] The post Gender and Power in Sex Ed appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Lubricants and trying to conceive in the news

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    18 May 2015 | 4:20 pm
    Happy to see information being shared about the need to avoid most lubricants when trying to conceive, and the safety of Pre-Seed. But I have concerns about the new Astroglide TTC which contains propylene glycol. The post Lubricants and trying to conceive in the news appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Would you rather watch porn than have sex?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    18 May 2015 | 1:57 pm
    This is a growing complaint among men (and some women) in the age of instant internet porn. If you are out of control (and you know if you are) and want to regain an adventurous, exciting REAL sex life, check out these resources ... The post Would you rather watch porn than have sex? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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  • F*&k Yes or No? (Caution: Profanity to follow)

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    27 May 2015 | 12:15 pm
    I really enjoyed reading this blog post.  The author, Mark Manson, created a “law” to follow when establishing relationships with people.  Whether the relationship is romantic or a friendship he recommends following his Law of “Fuck Yes or No”.  I think it is hilarious and absolutely correct! “The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them. The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” also states that when you want to get…
  • When ‘Someday’ is Turning into ‘Never’

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    20 May 2015 | 1:09 pm
    Most women we see have been struggling with their sexual functioning for a significant amount of time. It’s not uncommon for us to meet women who have spent years- even decades- trying to figure out why they can’t have a normal sex life and what they need to do to fix it. As many patients have shared, they kept hoping and believing things would get better. That the perpetual low desire would resolve itself once they found the right partner, or got pregnant, or had a baby, or stopped breastfeeding,  or lost weight, or took a vacation together, or made a pledge…(the list goes on). And as…
  • NYC Sex Therapist Responds to New York Times Opinion Piece on Sprout Pharmaceuticals’ “Pink Viagra”

    Stephen Snyder, MD
    15 May 2015 | 12:00 pm
    As a sex therapist who also happens to be a medical doctor, I’m used to disagreeing with a lot of what I read about sexual pharmacology. But the recent New York Times opinion piece “Nothing Is Wrong With Your Sex Drive” — regarding Sprout Pharmaceuticals’ new FDA application for flibanserin (so-called “Pink Viagra”) — seemed especially in need of a systematic rebuttal. For those of you who haven’t read the article, I encourage you to go take a look at it here.  I counted seven major errors. Here they are, in the order they appear in the text itself: ERROR #1:…
  • Is Couples Therapy Really About Creating Better Communication?

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    13 May 2015 | 4:25 pm
    Is couples therapy really about better communication? No! It is not. This is a commonly held misconception. A therapist named Linda Engelman wrote an excellent article on her blog called, “Four Reasons Communication skills wont save your relationship.” The gist is that the best communication in the world won’t heal the wounds that partners in distress cause each other.  Engelman beautifully describes what is really necessary for healing. It often involves individuals being able to touch real vulnerable emotions and hear one another. It is through that process that healing…
  • Stood Up By Your Sex Life

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    8 May 2015 | 12:27 pm
    Imagine you have a close friend with whom you’ve enjoyed years of good times. Some years were better than others, but you knew that no matter what, when you called on this friend or made plans, she showed up. Then one day you get stood up. She doesn’t call, she doesn’t write. Nada. That’s weird, you think to yourself, something must be going on, but I’m sure all will be fine. But then it keeps happening. Every time you make plans, she doesn’t show up, and you’re left feeling disappointed, betrayed, angry, and confused. Eventually, you’ll just stop making plans altogether. She…
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    Sex Talk About

  • How to Report Internet Sex Crimes

    Michael Arangua
    25 May 2015 | 9:26 pm
    When one is watching porn, and not that we’re going to ask for a show of hands on that, the usual response is to ignore any feelings of guilt and concentrate on the taboo. But what happens when someone crosses the line? Victimizing someone is never sexy and the sad fact is that illegal pornography continues to be distributed, sometimes even against a searcher’s wishes. It might surprise you to know that the legitimate sex industry, even the amateurs, take ethical obligations seriously. All sex scenes, even the “reality” ones, are scripted, choreographed, and are made with all…
  • The Benefits of Korean Red Ginseng for Menopausal Women

    Genesis Davies
    20 May 2015 | 4:17 pm
    By Shizhao Chances are, you’ve heard that ginseng is an aphrodisiac, but it’s most often touted as being beneficial for men. If you’re a woman facing menopause or premenopause, however, Korean red ginseng could be the natural enhancement you’re looking for. Not only does it add a little zing to your food, it spices up your sex life. Common effects of menopause include vaginal dryness and a reduced interest in sex, thanks to a natural drop in estrogen produced by the body. Your doctor may prescribe estrogen to help you to combat these effects, but many women prefer to look for a…
  • X2 Orgasmatron, We Tried It!

    Editorial Team
    10 May 2015 | 3:31 pm
    The first time we saw the X2 Orgasmatron in the Orgasmatronics store, we were curious about it. X2 seemed to have a very state-of-the-art design, and was created by a PhD from Yale University. We wanted to try it, and so we did! Did it disappoint us? Keep reading to find out… X2 Orgasmatron 101 After a lot of anticipation, the X2 finally arrived. The package was composed of four items: X2 Orgasmatron was created by Doctor X. Treme User manual Polly attachment Pink Jane dildo The X2 itself, and its power cord User Manual The user manual is an illustrated booklet in English that contains all…
  • Talking About Sex with Dr. Elmari Mulder Craig

    Sex Talk About
    7 May 2015 | 1:07 pm
    Dr. Elmari Mulder Craig Sex Talk About had the honor of interviewing Dr. Elmari Mulder Craig. She is the president of The Southern African Sexual Health Association, and one of the most prestigious sexologists in South Africa. Here she talks about her work and gives quick tips for those who want to improve their sexual life. What drove you to become a sexologist? People and their relationships fascinate me. But I believe that if you really want to be a successful couples therapist, you have to be skilled in the dynamics of relationships and sexuality. I have been blessed to be able to study…
  • Hot Chilies & Sex Drive

    Genesis Davies
    26 Apr 2015 | 6:34 pm
    By chrizzel_lu The next time you start picking the jalapeños off your nachos, you might want to consider leaving them. There are distinct benefits to eating any hot chili, particularly if you’re looking to give your sex drive a boost. Hot peppers contain capsaicin, the active ingredient in the peppers. Capsaicin has been studied intensely over the years and has been proven to have a number of benefits. One of those benefits is in the bedroom. While there are capsaicin capsules, the real thing is the best way to get your sex drive racing. When you eat a bite of any hot pepper, you’ll…
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    Hush-Hush Adult Directory

  • Brooklyn Chase graces 2 covers this week

    Anthony West
    29 May 2015 | 3:50 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. In New Sensations’ “The New Stars of XXX Vol. 10”, she also has some prime real estate on the front cover with the largest picture on the DVD box. The post Brooklyn Chase graces 2 covers this week appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Demon Seed Radio gets even kinkier

    Anthony West
    29 May 2015 | 3:39 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The two-hour, highly original adult show hosted by Bobby G, Whitney Morgan and the crew is breaking records in the amount of new listeners each week. The post Demon Seed Radio gets even kinkier appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Join Karen Fisher’s Panty of the Month Club

    Anthony West
    29 May 2015 | 3:25 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. At you get a membership to her official site, plus a pair of Karen’s used panties every month that you’re a member of the club. The post Join Karen Fisher’s Panty of the Month Club appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • ArchAngel signs new contract star

    Anthony West
    29 May 2015 | 3:11 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Kendra Lust's showcase film, “True Lust” was director Tori Black’s directorial debut and is one of their top-selling movies and #1 in AVN's Top 150 List. The post ArchAngel signs new contract star appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Karmen Karma on cover of Kink-E magazine

    Anthony West
    29 May 2015 | 2:59 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The interview is her first with the publication and Karman Karma will also be a guest on their radio show, KEM Top Talk Radio, in the near future. The post Karmen Karma on cover of Kink-E magazine appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
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  • Starry mourning: An homage to Malene Arpe

    Jennifer Villamere
    25 May 2015 | 10:41 am
    Toronto Star entertainment writer Malene Arpe died suddenly last Thursday following a massive heart attack. She was 50.She was the voice of the Sunday Star's Stargazing, where she demonstrated a slick capability for deflating the pomposity of celebrity, plus the sharp sense of the absurd that characterizes the finest Canadian humour.In her final, unfinished column which appeared in the Star yesterday, we see Arpe at her finest: mocking Harry Styles, making fun of Alce Baldwin and scoffing at Tayler Swift.In homage to Arpe's great talent, Jenny Villamere presents these celebrity digs in…
  • Here's the Globe & Mail article about how ugly my face is

    Jennifer Villamere
    22 May 2015 | 6:49 am
    Big article in the Globe & Mail today about how people are always telling me I'm ugly. You can read it online here.ENJOY.
  • Consent: It's as simple as tea! [VIDEO]

    Jennifer Villamere
    21 May 2015 | 7:55 am
    Awesome blogger Rockstar Dinosaur Pirate Princess wrote a post to demystify the very, very, very confusing concept of consent.Her content inspired this video, which explains consent in terms of serving tea. FINALLY! Consent simplified. For simpletons. Share this if you think it's sad to pour tea on sleeping people.
  • Here's your new favourite song: Donovan Woods' Put On Cologne

    Jennifer Villamere
    13 May 2015 | 12:44 pm
    Donovan Woods is from Sarnia, Ontario. Here he is on iTunes.And he's on the Villamere Rdio playlist here, eh?
  • The guy behind 'Fuck her right in the pussy' is a total Ralph Wiggum

    Jennifer Villamere
    13 May 2015 | 8:45 am
    I was really looking forward to dismantling the douche behind the original 'Fuck her right in the pussy' video hoax, but it turns out he's slow and dumb like Ralph Wiggum and you end up kind of feeling sorry for him rather than revelling in the satisfaction of taking him down.Observe his bio:John Cain loves to make people laugh.2014 was a success. Exclamation point.He's up for anything, anytime.He likes connecting with people."Maybe in a deep conversation about life, or laughing about something completely ridiculous," he says."I love music!" says John. Good for you, John!"I am very out going…
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    The MaleQ

  • How to Stop Canker Sores Once and For All

    Loren Couse
    26 May 2015 | 12:13 pm
    Canker sores suck.  They are painful, frustrating and downright pointless.  I have had my run around with them since I was young and was convinced that they were just a part of life.  Then, during my college years things got really bad.   It wasn’t long before my canker sores started to come in in waves, sometimes of 5 or more at a time.  Often they took days, sometimes even weeks to heal fully. Then, it was like before I knew it, a new round of mouth sores was on the way. This kind of narrative is probably familiar to most readers.  Canker sores are frustrating because they can…
  • This Hot Bel Ami Photoshoot will Make your Mouth Water

    Loren Couse
    17 Apr 2015 | 9:57 am
    Summer is just around the corner. You know what that means – hot boys in bathing suits. To get ready for the season Bel Ami has released a new swimsuit photoshoot with some of the hottest Bel Ami models. I hope you brought some tanning oil cause its getting hot in here.  View Gallery or Scroll Down       The post This Hot Bel Ami Photoshoot will Make your Mouth Water appeared first on The MaleQ.
  • Top 5 Best Cock Rings

    Loren Couse
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:49 am
    Do you want to spruce up your sex life and add something new to the mix.  Toys and accessories are a great way to mix things up and add some excitement whether you are walking alone or having sex with a partner.  So why use a cock ring? First of all, they help you last longer and can let you go that extra mile.  They will also give you stronger orgasms and most importantly, make your erections rock solid.  Here are the MaleQ’s picks for the top 5 best cock rings. Best Stainless Steel Cock Ring There are a lot of reasons that Stainless steel rings are my go to option.  They are…
  • This One Factor Makes You Twice as Likely to be Gay

    Loren Couse
    28 Feb 2015 | 11:59 am
    If you are a man, then there is one factor that makes you way more likely to be gay.  It’s not playing with barbies or listening to too much Spice Girls as a kid (although that might help). No, it is actually something more common than that.  The real answer is something scientists have long predicted but were never able to prove until recently – that something as simple as having an older brother can drastically increase your chances of being gay. It might sound crazy but there are years of research and multiple studies which suggest that that this is actually true. Anthony…
  • Men’s Body Shaving: The Complete Guide

    Loren Couse
    27 Feb 2015 | 4:01 pm
    Hair is natural.  We all have it, but that is no excuse to let things run wild.   You most likely already cut the hair on the top of your head and keep that beard in check – that is, unless you are a cave man, or a hipster from Portland, Oregon.  So why is it that so many people forget to maintain everything else? Trimmed or clean shaven.  It is really a matter of preference, but doing nothing?  Well, that’s just not cool. So stop making excuses and start looking your best, with and without your clothes. Trim the Bulk First If you are like me then your body hair is spread out…
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    Senses Private Club

  • 5 Tips For Planning The Ultimate Adult Vacation

    Senses Private Club
    26 May 2015 | 8:25 am
    It’s time for you to leave the stress of work and the daily grind behind and take a great adult vacation. What makes it great? Simple. No stress, perfect climate, plenty of activities and as little clothing as possible. The old adage of a picture being worth a thousand words can be a little misleading. […] The post 5 Tips For Planning The Ultimate Adult Vacation appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Swing Life Style and Open Relationships For Couples

    Adley S.
    19 May 2015 | 1:15 am
    The swing life style can offer some very exciting possibilities for couples with an open mind. Do you know a couple who still has the same sexual energy they had in the early stages of their relationship? They still flirt and play with one another like teenagers experience their first love. In any long term […] The post Swing Life Style and Open Relationships For Couples appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Planning Your First Sex Vacation? Read This First!

    Adley S.
    13 May 2015 | 5:40 pm
    Your guide to the perfect sex vacation. If you stopped the average Joe on the street and asked them to describe their perfect get away, you can be guaranteed it would include a whole list of clichés. Beaches, swim up bars, pool side service, maybe even a visit from a famous cartoon character or two […] The post Planning Your First Sex Vacation? Read This First! appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • How To Have A Sexy Threesome – A Couples Guide

    Adley S.
    8 May 2015 | 1:43 am
    Climbing Mount Everest. Swimming with dolphins. Visiting the Pyramids. Have a sexy threesome? There’s no doubt that among the other common life goals, experiencing a sexy threesome is right up there among the most coveted and the #1 fantasy for men, for a reason. We all have friends who’ve had them and if you’re honest […] The post How To Have A Sexy Threesome – A Couples Guide appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • 10 Bachelor Party Ideas For Big Boys

    Senses Private Club
    5 May 2015 | 7:10 pm
    Looking for bachelor party ideas for a one-of-a-kind experience? The almighty bachelor party. A rite of passage for men all over the world. For some, it can be a low key affair and for others it can be one last chance to experience the freedom of single life. From golf destinations to gambling to something […] The post 10 Bachelor Party Ideas For Big Boys appeared first on Senses Private Club.
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