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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex
    Violet Blue
    20 Oct 2014 | 4:02 pm
    Russian Beauty – Elena Rae, Matt Ice Finally Home – Taylor Whyte, Ryan Driller (image above via) Sounds Of Passion – Karol Lilien, Matt Fit To Fuck – Alaina Kristar, gentleman friend Summer Carter Casts Erika Devine, plus gentleman friend Ivy and Jonny – Fuck me (video; image below via) Alessandra and Athina – Strapless Toy Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The…
  • Sheri Chiu and Fred Zara in ‘The Hand’

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    Violet Blue
    28 Oct 2014 | 1:57 pm
    I don’t know how I missed this glorious photo set: Sheri Chiu and Fred Zara in ‘The Hand’ was for Bambi Magazine earlier this month. Make sure you click through and see the rest of the set, it’s incredible. And hot. Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S.
  • PW 405: Testing the poly waters with a monogamist

    Polyamory Weekly
    16 Oct 2014 | 8:35 am
    Testing the poly waters with a long-time friend who is also monogamous. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 404: Is he poly or just chicken?

    Polyamory Weekly
    6 Oct 2014 | 8:33 pm
    Is he poly or just chicken? When the point of your vee won't communicate with your metamour, what do you do? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • First Fuck, Then Date – A Recipe for Success (I)

    Nighttime Adventures
    21 Oct 2014 | 8:23 am
    I have to admit I was a bit surprised when Greg called. It had been a week since our (ahem) meeting, so I had already lost hope. But he had a very good reason, work-related, so I didn’t hold it against him. He suggested we meet for drinks in a bar, then had to a restaurant he loved a lot (Indian food). To be perfectly honest, I was hoping for this date to be a complete fail. I wanted to believe there was nothing there besides great sex. Of course, karma hates me and the guy is absolutely charming. His line of work is fascinating, he is a well-read, perfect gentleman and a sight for sore…
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  • illbegotdamn: darvinasafo: Jim Crow 2.0 nothing’s changed....

    19 Oct 2014 | 5:25 pm
    illbegotdamn: darvinasafo: Jim Crow 2.0 nothing’s changed. it’s just evolved. devil stay pulling tricks.
  • sexworkerproblems: peechingtonmariejust: clarawebbwillcutoffyou...

    15 Oct 2014 | 9:47 am
    sexworkerproblems: peechingtonmariejust: clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead: peechingtonmariejust: We’re just over the $10,000 mark in our fundraiser for Tjhisha Ball and Angelia Mangum’s families to help with the costs of their funerals. We still need $7,000 more. Could you share this and donate? Even $1 helps and you can choose to make your name, donation, both, or neither private! We got this! Here’s the link: Please share you guys! Even if you can’t donate! We are now at $10,449 with 8 days left to go.
  • redupnyc: The Red Umbrella Diaries is a feature documentary...

    14 Oct 2014 | 8:54 am
    redupnyc: The Red Umbrella Diaries is a feature documentary that tells the personal stories of seven LGBTQ New Yorkers who work in different sectors of the sex trade and come together to tell their tales on stage at Joe’s Pub.  We’ve been working on the film for more than a year and we are so excited to share the official trailer with you! We’ve been submitting the film to festivals and are aiming for a premiere in 2015. More info about the project and the cast is on our website: Excited. Proud. Sex worker stories on film! A thing I have been working on…
  • decolonizingmedia: #AbolishColumbusDay.  It’s Our Time...

    12 Oct 2014 | 2:34 pm
    decolonizingmedia: #AbolishColumbusDay.  It’s Our Time Now: #IndigenousPeoplesDay Image by: Gregg Deal
  • iwriteaboutfeminism: Today, Ferguson is prepared to “keep it...

    29 Sep 2014 | 6:29 am
    iwriteaboutfeminism: Today, Ferguson is prepared to “keep it moving.” September 28th
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  • Depression and BC

    30 Oct 2014 | 7:05 am
    So, I've been on Tri-Cyclen Lo for a while now. I was on it from about, the beginning of 2013 to last February. During this time I moved away from home for university, and became extremely depressed. I had thoughts of suicide, plenty of crying spells, anxiety, skipped class, stayed in my room, slept a lot, etc. Now, I couldn't tell if this was because of my birth control, or because of school. I was never this depressed before moving away for university, I was fine. However the first BC I was on, Alesse, a couple years ago, made me extremely depressed. I was still in high school, it was my…
  • Residual Itching after Yeast Infection?

    29 Oct 2014 | 8:22 pm
    Hello all,I haven't been on LJ in ages but I've been dealing with this situation, and surprise surprise, I ventured back into LJ to post to this community. No other social media site has something like this. :)There's a lot of medication changes in this, so please bear with me.I'm including the part of my diagnosis change and medicine change in case it impacts your help in any way...The last weekend of September (27th) my diagnosis was changed to Bipolar I and I immediately began the process of weaning off of Zoloft. At this point I was on 450mg of Wellbutrin XL (300mg in the morning, 150mg…
  • Anonymous Post: Masturbation & Clit Pain

    28 Oct 2014 | 7:18 am
    Greetings, fellow Superstars! As you probably know, from time to time the VP Team makes posts on behalf of people who wish to remain anonymous or who do not have LJ accounts. This is one such post. Thanks in advance for your helpful comments. :)P.S. For more info on anonymous posts, see our instructions on how to make them!I masturbate through my underwear with a couple fingers, since direct finger-to-clit contact doesn't work for me (I don't think I get wet enough, so maybe lubrication would help.) I don't own any sex toys. Anyways, I've been experiencing sharp pain in my clit for a day or…
  • have you heard about our new facebook discussion group?

    27 Oct 2014 | 4:17 pm
    Hey VPers!In case you missed our announcement, the VP Team has launched a new space on facebook for conversation, community, questions, and queries. We are almost three weeks into our experimental space, and it's pretty cool so far! We'd love to have you join us -- is the address.Thanks for being awesome!Love,Jenfor the VP FB Group Admins
  • On the verge of tears

    27 Oct 2014 | 3:22 pm
    I'm a single mom of a 2yr old and I haven't had sex since I gotten pregnant. That changed 3 weeks ago when I had sex with my child's father. Like a true dummy I didn't use protection and for almost the last week I've had painful sores develop on my vagina. It's painful to pee and the only way I can do it is sitting in a basin with warm water. I'm afraid that I have herpes. The sores are red and crater like with puss oozing from them (sorry for the gruesome image). Help?
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    Yahoo Health

  • In U.S. Ebola Fight, No Two Quarantines Are Quite The Same

    30 Oct 2014 | 8:36 am
    If they are lucky, the quarantined may get assigned a case worker who can play the role of a personal concierge by buying groceries and running errands. Some authorities are allowing visitors, or even giving those in quarantine permission to take trips outside to walk the dog or take a jog. Some states, such as New York and New Jersey, have gone as far as quarantining all healthy people returning from working with Ebola patients in West Africa. Others, such as Virginia and Maryland, said they will monitor returning healthcare workers and only quarantine those who had unprotected contact with…
  • 6 Head-to-Toe Toning Moves

    30 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    By Amy Gallo for Experts agree that moves that challenge your balance fire muscles in your core, legs and booty in order to stabilize your body. Do the following strength routine in your toning shoes for an even bigger focus on balance. Plus, adding dumbbells to the workout sculpts your upper body for head-to-toe toning. The expert Amy Dixon, group fitness manager at Equinox fitness club in Santa Monica, California, created our plan.
  • 5 Food Label Items You Need to Start Reading

    30 Oct 2014 | 7:05 am
    New food labels are coming to stores near you. First, the bad: If terms on food labels like “all natural,” “free range” and “light,” confused you in the past, they will continue to be confusing. I tried to help clear up some of that confusion by including a whole chapter on these tricky terms in my book, “Read It Before You Eat It,” but I’ll admit, sometimes these health halo words even confuse me! But here’s the good news: New food labels are in store! (Well, not actually in stores, but they will be on supermarket shelves eventually.) Revisions in the nutrients…
  • The Green Drink That Can Cure Nutritional Sins

    29 Oct 2014 | 1:23 pm
    Look for high-grade liquid chlorophyll at your local health food store. Photo by Little Wolf Collective By Dana James Chlorophyll…chlorella…wheatgrass…barley grass… It’s getting confusing. If I believed everything I read about these “green” products, I’d be throwing back chlorophyll and wheatgrass shots, making barley grass concoctions and swallowing chlorella tablets every few hours. Pick one, and you’ll benefit from the ascribed detoxifying and blood alkalizing properties of all four! My personal preference: liquid chlorophyll.
  • The Simple Lunge Fix for a Firmer Butt

    29 Oct 2014 | 11:56 am
    Small changes in your lunge form can turn this leg exercise into a butt-building move. “Simply changing the angle of your torso can help you activate different areas of your lower body,” said Nick Tumminello, owner of Performance University International and author of Strength Training for Fat Loss. Trouble is, most people are already plenty strong there, Tumminello told Yahoo Health. An alternative: “For an all-around lower-body exercise, I recommend hinging at the hips to angle the torso forward about 45 degrees,” Tumminello said.
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  • Ce trebuie sa stiti despre o masa de masaj?

    30 Oct 2014 | 2:13 am
    Un număr mare de oameni sunt de cumpărare în zilele noastre scaune de masaj din motive de sănătate și de relaxare. Dacă sunteți, de asemenea, de gândire de a investi într-o singură, atunci ar trebui cel puțin să fie conștienți de anumite fapte importante despre scaune de masaj. Fotolii de masaj nu sunt ieftine de orice standarde și ar trebui să fie clar despre cerintele dumneavoastra, nevoile și bugetul dumneavoastră înainte de a merge pentru a cumpara un masa de masaj. Unele dintre principalele lucruri pe care trebuie să știți înainte de a cumpăra un fotoliu de masaj…
  • Ce ajutor iti trebuie la infiintarea unei SRL?

    22 Oct 2014 | 7:23 am
    Gândire de a investi într-o afacere de închiriere de proprietate? de ce nu? Printre real estate oportunităţile de afaceri disponibile, inchiriere este cel mai bun. Următoarea întrebare este la ce tip de proprietate de afaceri trebuie să introduceţi? O talpă-proprietorship, parteneriat sau o corporaţie? La care dreptul de proprietate trebuie să vă alăturaţi-vă sau să investească în? În esenţă, primele două sunt similare, proprietarii va propriul fiecare Ban ei colecta din profiturile de afaceri de închiriere, dar va fi riscând totul ei proprii, inclusiv bunurile…
  • Pulberea de lucerna verde

    13 Oct 2014 | 2:46 am
    Au fost multe studii dovedit că arată cât de important este să mănânce sănătos și să utilizeze ajutoare naturale, cum ar fi lucerna verde pulbere pentru a maximiza beneficiile. Obiceiuri sanatoase ar trebui să fie practicat de oameni sa traiasca mai mult si sa se simta mai bine. lucerna verde a fost dovedit pentru a ajuta mai multe persoane a adăuga mai multe elemente nutritive la dieta lor si se vinde, fie sub formă de pulbere, un suc, sau in forma sa naturala. Mulți oameni au folosit aceasta planta minune din 1930, atunci când un chimist agricol este alimentat primul la…
  • Alegerea unui scaun de masaj potrivit pentru tine

    6 Oct 2014 | 1:21 am
    Scaunul de masaj iJoy este un mod minunat de a te trata, sau cineva iti pasa de, la un masaj de lux. Sinele vostru mental cât și fizic dumneavoastră vă va mulțumi. De câte ori ai avea nevoie de timp pentru a vă relaxa la programul nebun de viață modern, care tot suntem obligați să păstreze? Există o șansă bună că răspunsul la această întrebare este, “nu este suficient”. Ei bine, puteți face ceva despre asta, și tu ar trebui. Pentru mai multe informatii: Tehnologia din spatele scaunului de masaj Human Touch iJoy este uimitor. Ea vine…
  • Semintele de grau verde si animalul tau de companie

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:22 am
    Cele mai multe mamifere, inclusiv pisici, ai grijă de iarbă pentru a se mentine sanatosi sau recupereaza dupa o accidentare. Daca pisica ta are de buruieni și iarbă sălbatică, tu ar trebui să exercite întotdeauna prudență. Acest lucru poate duce la iarbă pisica ta de a contracta o boală dăunătoare. Uneori, poate dura chiar la plante de apartament de alimentatie, care pot fi, de asemenea, dăunătoare pentru el. În astfel de momente, este mai bine pentru a merge pentru grau verde pe plan intern, care este mai nutritivă decât alte soiuri de iarbă. Semințe organice Grau verde…
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  • 5 Reasons To Keep It Buttoned Up Until You Are Married

    30 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    Earlier this week Shellie Warren wrote a post talking about the advantages and/or disadvantages of having sex before marriage. It’s definitely worth checking out. Let’s be honest, most people are having sex in some version before marriage (yes, even Christians). To deny that is to live in a bubble. And I want to be transparent with you. I’m a pastor, a Christian, and a guy who had sex before he got married. And I wish I had heard more on this topic when I was younger because maybe it would have spared me some hard life lessons. Don’t get me wrong. When I was…
  • Are You In Love With a Person or Just With Sex?

    26 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    It might be a mere coincidence (although I seriously doubt it), but I have yet to counsel a couple who waited until marriage to have sex with each other. Not one. (Tweet This!) Now, that’s not to say that I haven’t had conversations with couples who waited. They’ve experienced challenges within their union, of course, but based on what I’ve heard from them, what they go through tends to sound a lot less… well, “dramatic” is the word that comes to mind.  On the other hand, couples who have had sex with one another before marriage, more than…
  • 5 Things You MUST Do If Your Spouse Is Hooked On Porn

    22 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    A husband’s compulsive pornography use is rarely disclosed voluntarily. Most men addicted to pornography experience deep shame and hide their choices, but despite well-crafted, guilt-ridden lies that mask their behavior, the truth emerges. Regardless how the wife finds out about the pornography addiction, the discovery is devastating for everyone involved. After this discovery, wives often feel caught in a whirlwind of disillusionment, distress, and relational damage. In the bewildering moments that follow such a traumatic event, women rightfully ask themselves, what do I do now? Here…
  • 10 Lies Men Believe about Porn

    19 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    Have you ever had thoughts such as, I’m the only one struggling with porn like this, God must be so ashamed of me, or I just have got to get stronger to overcome my addiction or anything like that? These thoughts are present in almost every case of pornography addiction I’ve seen.  But do you see the problem? These thoughts are all lies! Worse yet, they keep you from discovering the truth that will set you free. This is why my mission over the past few years has been to help men not only recognize the top ten of these lies, but more importantly, to understand the Truth that…
  • Are We Free To Screw Up?

    17 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    My friend Steven wrote a post on Monday about slip up or relapse. My other friend Seth followed it up Wednesday with a different take on things. Now, I guess it is my turn. I appreciate all that has been said and want you to know this has been a huge conversation around XXXchurch recently, especially when it comes to our X3groups. We have a diverse group of people working and writing here at and sometimes we don’t see eye to eye on everything. That is ok. That is how I think we will continue to grow.  We have long had a policy where X3group leaders needed to be sober…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Can social media help stop the spread of HIV?

    29 Oct 2014 | 9:45 am
    In addition to providing other potential benefits to public health, all of those tweets and Facebook posts could help curb the spread of HIV. Although public health researchers have focused early applications of social media on reliably monitoring the spread of diseases such as the flu, a new article tells of a future in which social media might predict and even change biomedical outcomes.
  • Tourism as a driver of illicit drug use, HIV risk in the Dominican Republic

    29 Oct 2014 | 6:49 am
    A new study concludes three thing: (1) local demand shifts drug routes to tourism areas, (2) drugs shape local economies and (3) drug use facilitates HIV risk behaviors in tourism areas.
  • Prostate cancer risk reduced by sleeping with many women, but increased with many men, study finds

    28 Oct 2014 | 5:21 am
    Compared to men who have had only one partner during their lifetime, having sex with more than 20 women is associated with a 28% lower risk of one day being diagnosed with prostate cancer. However, having more than 20 male partners in one's lifetime is associated with a twofold higher risk of getting prostate cancer compared to those who have never slept with a man.
  • High-dose vitamin D not effective for helping women with repeat reproductive tract infections

    24 Oct 2014 | 7:12 am
    Vitamin D appears not to be effective for treating repeat occurrences of bacterial vaginosis (BV), the most common reproductive infection among women worldwide. While earlier studies have shown a correlation between low vitamin D levels and BV, new research shows the difficult-to-treat and frequently symptom-free reproductive infection isn’t altered by high dose vitamin D supplements.
  • CPAP use for sleep apnea does not negatively impact sexual quality of life

    21 Oct 2014 | 8:14 am
    Patients who use a continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) device to treat obstructive sleep apnea often believe that it makes them less sexually attractive, according to researchers. New research shows they need not worry.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Tenga Iroha Mikazuki

    Lilly Dangeroux
    7 Oct 2014 | 12:54 pm
    For as much as I love the Tenga Iroha Minamo, I’m underwhelmed by the Iroha Mikazuki. The Iroha Minamo arrived first on my doorstep; I was so excited about it and liked it so much that I asked Tenga if I could review both. I wanted to be certain that I could recommend them interchangeably. I’m so glad I did because I am more reluctant to recommend the Mikazuki. My first Iroha vibe was the Iroha Midori. I had expected a lot more squish and give than I experienced with the Midori and felt a bit let down but it all. The Minamo delivered on that squish, and how. But the Iroha Mikazuki…
  • Tenga Iroha Minamo

    Lilly Dangeroux
    30 Sep 2014 | 1:00 pm
    Tenga asked me to review their new insertable line, the Iroha Minamo and Iroha Mikazuki, the sisters to Tenga Iroha’s original debut trio of “soft touch” clitoral vibes, the Midori, Yuki and Sakura. This is one of those times where a reviewer needs to be objective and look beyond their own preferences. The Iroha Minamo is not something that I personally would be drawn to, but I have had many people ask about a gentle, soft, pliable silicone vibrator. A number of people with vaginas dislike silicone vibrators because too often they’re a hard plastic vibe with a…
  • Can’t Buy My Love

    Lilly Dangeroux
    22 Sep 2014 | 1:21 pm
    It took 6 years for me to be accused of being bought off. Also, I’m officially notorious. Perhaps I should change my handle to Notorious L.I.L? SheVibe is All That Some people, even other bloggers, have questioned my love for SheVibe. As one of the biggest mouths in the Toxic Toy “hysteria” scene, I’ve had a few question it because they carry stuff that’s porous. They don’t carry anything that isn’t labeled by the manufacturer as “phthalates-free” so in that regard they ARE a non-toxic shop. As you all know I don’t love porous toys…
  • Should we be paid for our reviews?

    Lilly Dangeroux
    20 Sep 2014 | 7:15 am
    Earlier this year I ranted on a topic similar to this; many companies have no idea the sort of effort we put into our sex toy reviews. The testing, the photos, the writing, the editing, and even the promoting. For the cheap toys, we’re getting screwed in the conversion if the sex toy is seen as “payment” for the review.  But many of us spend at least half a day’s work time (if we’re comparing this to an hourly full-time job) if not a full day or even MORE than a full work day’s time on our reviews. So today I saw a post from a blogger, not a sex blogger,…
  • Nominate me, please!

    17 Sep 2014 | 2:58 pm
    I’ve spent the majority of my 6+ years not asking to be nominated; I felt it defeated the purpose (in my mind). That if anybody actually liked my work, they’d nominate it without prompt. I’ve since dropped all stubbornness and “pride” and have no fucks left to give about my previous stick-up-my-ass ways.  I am liberated! Or something. I’m cantankerous, I’m rough around the edges, I’m not all that universally liked. I’m okay with that! I’m proud of the work I do, and if I raise some hackles then I think it means I’m doing my…
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    pretty dumb things

  • a whole lotta shaking

    chelsea g. summers
    13 Oct 2014 | 3:02 pm
    I've been remiss. I've been busily writing elsewhere and neglecting the thing that started it all, this blog. Ok, so I wrote a piece in Adult Magazine on "cocksucker." If you've not read it, you should because it's a swell enough piece of writing that it was passed around the New Yorker office like Are You There God, It's Me Margaret under the lunch tables in middle school.  Also in Adult, I  wrote a thing on fauxgasms. Don't lie to me; you've faked it. I talk about why that's not a bad thing. When Monica Lewinsky was a big deal a couple…
  • on naked pictures, a consideration

    chelsea g. summers
    3 May 2014 | 12:01 pm
    “Why would you assume that everyone needs naked pictures of themselves,” my therapist whose name, like mine, is not Chelsea but the name that is not Chelsea is the same. Don’t they? I ask. “No!” She says, her voice rising. “Many people never feel a need to take naked pictures of themselves.” This is a new perspective I need to consider. I took it as a truth universal: a person in possession of a body must be in want of photos documenting it, naked. It felt incomprehensible that people who had no pictorial evidence of their own fleshy erotics wouldn’t want to have them. If…
  • on cash being king of kink, a consideration

    chelsea g. summers
    22 Apr 2014 | 7:36 pm
    I have a new piece on Adult Magazine on the myriad ways that cash is king of kink. Here’s the opening salvo: “Do you like to be spoiled?” he sexted, one of the first sexts he’d sent, this bisexual dominant dude. He predicated his seduction in part on his hotness, in part on his intelligence, in part on my desire to crawl in worship to his impressive cock, and in no small part on his disposable income. This particular exchange came to nothing but many texts, a lot of masturbation, and a mother lode of empty promises, but his question is standard in BDSM seduction, at least as far as my…
  • on bad sex, a consideration

    chelsea g. summers
    4 Apr 2014 | 11:44 am
    I have a new piece on Adult Mag online. It’s on bad sex. Here’s a quote: In the thirty-five years I’ve been fucking, I’ve had a wealth of bad sex. There have been men who rubbed my breasts like jinn would appear. Lovers, male and female, who would slip beneath the covers, take the token lap, and pop up like whack-a-moles. Men who mistook stamina for artistry, speed for skill, and my patience for pleasure. Threesomes that were blinding in their shared solipsism. Fucking is a lot like poetry. Sometimes it’s epiphanic; sometimes it's merely boring. Other times it’s just awful.
  • public fucking and crespuscular velvet

    chelsea g. summers
    28 Jan 2014 | 9:46 pm
    The very best thing about Gotham is its gossamer predilection for magic. It seems a stalwart city, all great hunkering buildings of glass and metal, peopled by humans who live insular quotidian lives tethered to their white iPhone cords and their Lululemon totes and their thinly veiled misanthropy. On its surface, Gotham is solid and real, and every year I live here, it seems to solidify more. It would be a shame to see Gotham take itself seriously, but gravitas seems its future.  Which is why those moments when the magic spins and reels, drunk as dust motes, shine so bright. The movies…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • Unlearning Unlovability

    Cassandra Leveille
    16 Oct 2014 | 10:39 am
    Author:  Cassandra Leveille Introduction:  I hid my fears and insecurities by desexualizing myself. Now I'm on the path of uncovering ways to unlearn ugliness as an identity. One of the hard things about growing up on suburban Long Island and being the awkward “new girl” at my elementary schools was the endless barrage of taunting I received. I was socially awkward: singing songs I invented in the hallways, drawing and illustrating my own stories in my free time. But I wasn’t sure what brought on the endless barrage of taunts, especially when we first moved. Maybe it was…
  • He Doesn't Want Sex Anymore. I Do. Now What?

    Heather Corinna
    2 Oct 2014 | 12:22 pm
    My partner and I have been dating for over a year now and have just begun to hit some rough patches. We used to have a lot of (what I thought was) really great sex. Then one day he told me that all that sex had been only mediocre for him. I was mortified and also ashamed because it felt like maybe he had never really want to have sex with me, he was just doing it because he knew I wanted to. Recently, he says that he might be asexual, but he isn't sure. He's trans and in the middle of transitioning, so he says his body is changing. He says masturbation "works wonders" for him, and he feels no…
  • Don't Want to Have Sex?

    Heather Corinna
    1 Oct 2014 | 1:38 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna Introduction:  Then don't! Here's a feast of support and help for those who want to say no, not now, or not-like-this to sex or sexual relationships. Don't want sex, to be in a sexual relationship or to have sex in a romantic relationship? Then don't. You don't have to: sex and sexual relationships are supposed to be optional. For everyone -- of every age, gender, orientation, economic class, in any kind of relationship -- always. When sex isn't something you want or doesn't feel right, you get to opt out. Being part of sex you don't want or that…
  • Is 13 the "Right" Age for Sex or Romance?

    Heather Corinna
    22 Sep 2014 | 9:24 am
    I'm wondering what a good age to have a 'relationship' is? I'm 13 and I've sort of began to have stronger attractions both emotionally and physically to boys. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship and I'm scared that if it doesn't work (for example, if I'm frigid or something) it will ruin our friendship. I know it's not much of a big deal but I just want some help and reassurance. read The answer | ask your own
  • Young Sexuality Activists: Madison Kimrey

    31 Aug 2014 | 1:38 am
    This blog post is part of a series here at Scarleteen profiling young people worldwide who are activists in some way in the fields of sexuality, sex education and sexual health. Madison Kimrey is, in a word, amazing. You might know her from the letter she wrote to Phyllis Schlafly a few months ago, but that's not the only thing she's done that's so fantastic. She contributes regularly to the online magazine Liberals Unite, and maintains her own blog as well: Functional Human Being. While her writing is elegant and thought-provoking, that's not the only form her activism takes; she's not…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Real Toys For Boys

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    10 Oct 2014 | 1:54 pm
    Lawks a Lordy, times have changed. Back in the days when Ruf and I were investigating toys for boys, cockrings were cheap plastic/jelly affairs – very much the poor relations. Whilst we ladies luxuriated in glass and steel objets d’art crafted with architectural prowess. The sort of ornaments that you wanted to display on [...]
  • Blenheim and Woodstock

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    9 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
    Every time I drive up the M40 to and from Ruf, I am reminded. But, particularly so at this time of year. It was such a happy time at the beginning of my relationship with my Husband. He had to do some business in Woodstock, a tiny village near Oxford. Woodstock is a beautiful little place, steeped [...]
  • Things You Should Say To Your Girl Child

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    6 Oct 2014 | 3:37 am
    Great post from iVillage on 20 things to say to your daughter before she’s grown And interesting that I should see it just days after an old blog about my own relationship with my mother was reposted from some years ago. It was Get To Know Your Grandmum that made me falter for a moment. My mother is [...]
  • The 15 Minute Orgasm

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    3 Oct 2014 | 3:29 am
    Only moments before, I had been complaining that everything took so much longer to work properly and worrying that I was somehow defective through my lower oestrogen levels. Ruf smiled at the contrary confirmation from my cunt. "I think everything is in perfect working order," [...]
  • Having her cake

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    30 Sep 2014 | 3:14 am
    He had made her cry yet again. The cumulative consequences of his negative words and actions. Sobbing in the bathroom as he lay helpless in their bed. Returning to the bedroom, she was torn between grabbing her things to run away and the call of his warmth in that bed. Part of her just wanted to be [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 3 Things All Men Need To Know About The G-Spot

    Lee Jenkins
    23 Oct 2014 | 12:13 pm
    If there’s one topic about sexual health which is controversial, that is none other than the female G-spot. Some experts say that there is such a thing as a G-spot which brings a woman earth-shattering orgasms when stimulated. However, there’s this other part of the spectrum wherein skeptics say that the G-spot does not even exist. Tantric sex practitioners believe that this ‘sacred’ spot is like the Holy Grail when it comes to the erogenous spots which turn a woman on. But whether it exists or not, what’s important is that men can use the G-spot to bring his…
  • The 9 Types Of Orgasms – And How To Give Them!

    Shawna Lenee
    21 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Orgasms for a man are EASY to understand. You simply thrust, get aroused, finish, and go to sleep. Most men can only have one type of climax – after which they usually lose their erection temporarily before they can get hard and have another. Women however, can have MANY different kinds! These range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to SCREAMING, TOE-CURLING, even bed soaking squirting orgasms (Woo!) There are also many different ones in between those extremes! Unlike men, the TYPE of climax a woman has is often 100% CONTROLLABLE by her sexual partner (you)! One of the…
  • 21 Short & Sweet Sex Tips You CAN’T Miss!

    Kaylen Jackson
    20 Oct 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips come in all forms – lengthy, detailed and more. But THESE sex tips are easily digestible, so you don’t want to miss out on these sexy little jewels! If You Have Trouble Reaching Orgasm Masturbate before sex first, but don’t let yourself reach climax. Then, when you and your partner start getting it on, you’ll zoom to the peak in no time. If You’ve Never Had An Orgasm Masturbate. Enough said. Use Your PC Muscles During Sex Girls, squeeze his penis with your vaginal muscles as he’s thrusting. Do this one the “out” stroke and it will be…
  • Are These 4 Things RUINING Your Orgasm?

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    19 Oct 2014 | 7:00 am
    An orgasm is the icing on the cake when it comes to sex, but many girls can’t get there. It’s not always easy to reach orgasm, especially if your guy doesn’t have a clue what he’s doing down there. But men aren’t the only culprits here – there are plenty of other factors that contribute to a woman losing out on reaching orgasm during sex. Are these three issues to blame for you not reaching climax? 1. Obsessing Over The Way Your Body Looks Almost all girls obsess over the way their bodies look, especially naked. This is generally due to social conditioning…
  • How To Find The G-Spot

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    18 Oct 2014 | 7:00 am
    Just about everyone has heard of the g-spot. It’s supposedly the “holy grail” of all female sexual stimulation – so why can’t anyone find it? If you do get lucky and find a woman’s g-spot, how to heck are you supposed to stimulate it? Here’s a quick and easy guide to simple, g-spot stimulation that works flawlessly each time and every time. It’s amazing how many men and women don’t know how to find the g-spot! Read on to find out exactly what the g-spot is and how to find it! What Is The G-Spot? The g-spot is a ball of nerve endings inside…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Are you comfortable with your status quo?

    Natalie (NML)
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:24 pm
      If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable, you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo. If you imagine that on a scale of 1-10, their status quo is that they like things to be around a 5, whatever they do whether it’s blowing smoke up your bum and promising you the world or insisting that things will be different “this time” (going into 7,8 + territory), or whether it’s at the opposite end and frustrating you to the point where things become mighty tense or you give them the heave ho, if they have their way (they love doing…
  • ‘I Can Change Him/Her’ syndrome: Don’t tie your worth to trying to control the uncontrollable

    Natalie (NML)
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they’ll change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn’t happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up in whether we can get…
  • When we’re afraid of letting ourselves or others ‘off the hook’

    Natalie (NML)
    15 Oct 2014 | 2:39 pm
    Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don’t want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it’s fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn’t feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we’d opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn’t be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are likely to hold on tight to the negativity…
  • Buffers: When You’re The One That They Turn To When They’re Unhappy With Their Current Relationship

    Natalie (NML)
    9 Oct 2014 | 3:42 pm
    We are creatures of habit and have to pay close attention to where there are running themes in our lives because it points to where we are not only repeating a pattern of thinking and behaviour but that we’re doing so because we’re getting something out of it. A recurring theme that some Fallback Girls/Guys experience in unavailable relationships is being the person who lends a willing ear, a shoulder to lean on, and even a bed to lie in for people who are having doubts about their current relationship, who want to have a bitch and a gripe about their partners, and who essentially…
  • Despite ‘good points’, we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages

    Natalie (NML)
    1 Oct 2014 | 3:22 pm
    Any toxic relationship that I’ve been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship whether romantic or otherwise. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s absence and the sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I’d admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I’d selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always…
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    Mommy Has A Headache

  • Online Bingo is the New Love

    7 Oct 2014 | 8:58 am
    Move over men, this time the ladies got something more interesting going on. OnlineBingo is just not another online games, it is the thing to do. It’s the trend now, they askquestions based on your interaction, have a look here. It’s the normal banter amongstpeople of all age types where people choose the site to play. They make sure that theirfriends also play in these sites as they could shout out bingo together.You could definitely cook up a storm in the chat rooms ( make sure you don’t get intotrouble, follow the chat rules!) these will definitely keep you going through the…
  • What's all the Buzz about the Bouqs?

    9 Aug 2014 | 4:11 pm
    You may well have heard some buzz already about The Bouqs, a flower delivery company that is a little bit different, because they have caught people's attention. Firstly, unlike some other companies I could mention, they only sell really classy bouquets and not tacky multicolored bunches that leave you cross-eyed when you receive them. The Bouqs color palettes are clean, elegant and very pleasing to the eye. Their bouquets cover a whole range of gorgeous hues from deep purple to sunset pink [check em out here] which will leave you very much spoilt for choice when selecting your…
  • A Real Life Mr Darcy?

    2 Mar 2014 | 2:51 pm
    Fans of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice have always known that Mr. Darcy is a fine man. Now scientists have proof.  In scientific lingo: The pheromone that attracts female mice to the odour of a particular male has been identified. Named ‘darcin’ by researchers writing in the open access journal BMC Biology(after Darcy, the attractive hero in Jane Austen’s novel “Pride and Prejudice”), this unusual protein in a male’s urine attracts females and is responsible for learned preference for specific males. – Science DailyBut seriously, even though we can only imagine…
  • Let Me Gently Probe your Mind

    13 Feb 2014 | 6:05 pm
    We're snowed in up to our eyeballs here in Baltimore so time to switch on the computer for some light relief.So, I got challenged by another blogger to share 11 things about meMy 11 questions are:1. What advice would you give your brand new blogging self now?Don't air all your dirty laundry in public.2. What four words would you say to your 18 year old self?David Bowie is never going to marry you. 3. What three things do you think define you as either a Brit or American?Obsession with strong cups of tea  or lack thereofAbility to go for long walks in icy rain and enjoy it because it is…
  • Great Expat-ations

    9 Feb 2014 | 1:14 pm
    I was asked to contribute an expat tip for the HiFX Expat Tip page. And this got me thinking that actually I have a lot of useful info to pass on for peeps looking to move from UK to USA so here goes ....10 things to bear in mind when moving from UK to USA1. Your British accent will go down a storm. Some people even ask you to say a sentence so they can hear your accent. You will feel like a celebrity.2. You will laugh at how Americans complain about the cost of gas as it is three times cheaper than in the UK.3. The weather is a lot nicer.4. I had watched so many episodes of Jerry Springer,…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 406: Negotiating from a "no"

    23 Oct 2014 | 10:17 am
    Negotiating from a "no." Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 405: Testing the poly waters with a monogamist

    16 Oct 2014 | 8:35 am
    Testing the poly waters with a long-time friend who is also monogamous. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 404: Is he poly or just chicken?

    6 Oct 2014 | 8:33 pm
    Is he poly or just chicken? When the point of your vee won't communicate with your metamour, what do you do? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 403: Striking while the iron is cold

    24 Sep 2014 | 6:00 am
    Striking while the iron is cold: should you bring in a new poly partner when your current partner agreed to it years ago and you've become distant in the meantime? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 402: Poly Weekly live at CatalystCon

    18 Sep 2014 | 8:13 pm
    Poly Weekly live at CatalystCon West with special guests Reid Mihalko and Charlie Glickman! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Three Ways You Can Be an LGBTQ Ally

    Kyle Taylor
    10 Oct 2014 | 8:30 am
    I’ve always thought of compassion and consideration for the well-being of others as two necessary qualities for any human. An ally to the LGBTQ community, in my opinion, embodies these characteristics by supporting the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and speaking out against acts of transphobia and homophobia. I consider myself an LGBTQ ally, but some may find it difficult to stand up and speak out, whether it be for fear of being labeled gay themselves or disagreeing with their friends. But I personally find it is more important for a heterosexual and/or…
  • Tampon Run Game Makes Menstruation Less Taboo

    Jessica Yang
    7 Oct 2014 | 8:32 am
    It’s a problem when violence is more accepted and normalized than a healthy bodily function, such as menstruation. This is what motivated two New York City high school seniors to create a tampon video game for their final project at Girls Who Code, a summer coding camp. Andy Gonzales and Sophie Houser created Tampon Run, an online 8-bit video game, to normalize menstruation. In the introduction to the game, a message reads,“The taboo that surrounds it [menstruation] teaches women that a normal and natural bodily function is embarrassing and crude… Hopefully one day menstruation will be…
  • Spermania: Game Fact or Fiction?

    Manish Arora
    30 Sep 2014 | 10:32 am
    Spermania is a game that takes players on a journey through the female reproductive system. Available for use on Android devices, the game follows the main character, the sperm, as it enters the uterus, passes obstacles—including viruses, white blood cells and acid pools—and competes against other sperm to finish either first, second or third. I enjoyed this game because it reminded me of Mario Kart, one of my favorite games as a child. Except, now the vehicles are the sperm, the power-ups and gold coins are sugar, and the racetracks are the insides of the female anatomy. But is the game…
  • Only Yes Means Yes in California

    Ojanae Ellison
    26 Sep 2014 | 2:25 pm
    When it comes to rape on college campuses, schools and the law usually portray both parties as guilty instead of only the person who committed the rape. This is because in most states the standard is “no means no.” If a “no” isn’t given, a “yes” can be assumed. With this line of thinking, unless resistance is shown or an explicit “no” is said, everything else can be considered a “yes.” But what if the attacker prevented the person being attacked from speaking by covering her mouth or pushing her face into something that would make her unable to speak? Under these…
  • Sexual Harassment Is Never OK

    Emma Grant
    23 Sep 2014 | 10:53 am
    In a society obsessed with “blurring lines,” it is important for us to know what sexual harassment is and how to prevent it. You may think you know what it means to harass someone, and you would never do it. Right? It isn’t like you’re a flasher or anything! Well, sometimes you may not realize that something is considered sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is the unwelcome sexual advances or comments that make another person feel uncomfortable. These advances can prevent a person from feeling safe in any environment, especially places a person has to be, like school or work.
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    Silent Porn Star

  • Vintage Celebrity Photographs Auction

    Silent Porn Star
    26 Oct 2014 | 8:13 am
    A collection of vintage (and some more contemporary) celebrity photographs called the “Paris Collection” will be up for auction on October 28, 2014. This is but a sampling. You can bid online via Live Auctioneers here.
  • Helen Mirren Has Always Been Sexy

    Silent Porn Star
    20 Aug 2014 | 6:53 pm
    Helen Mirren and James Mason in Age of Consent (1969). Via; via.
  • It’s Like Magic Mushrooms, Only More Graphic Sexually (Vintage German Porn)

    Silent Porn Star
    15 Aug 2014 | 7:12 am
    Usually, I don’t find there to be a language barrier in porn. But… Well, just watch this: Via Herzog, which claims to be “the one and only original source for the famous Heidi Porn movies from the 70s and 80s.” The Scottish Mc Fizz has left the building! He searches for a special kind of […]
  • Amis Amiss?

    Silent Porn Star
    11 Aug 2014 | 4:16 am
    New York Magazine recently provided a little graphic based on data about the sleeping patterns of “geniuses” (The data came from Daily Rituals: How Artists Work, by Mason Currey.) We’re supposed to be shocked by how much creative types sleep — but I’m completely tossed by seeing Kingsley Amis on the list! Then again, I […]
  • In EROS Magazine, July 1980

    Silent Porn Star
    15 Jun 2014 | 12:21 am
    CR/LF of Sex Is AS Red-Blooded Thing wrote this for Peek-A-Boob, then when he revamped the site a few years ago, this post somehow was cut. I’m pleased to republish it as a guest post here because I think it’s quite insightful. (If you would like to guest here, contact me.) EROS magazine shows it’s […]
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    Simple Marriage

  • How to Date Every Week… Guaranteed!

    29 Oct 2014 | 6:06 am
    How to date every week guaranteed. Really? It sounds like something that you would see on a singles dating website or in your spam filter, right? Not necessarily something that you would see on a website for old married folks like us. But we all know that dating in marriage is just as important, if not more important, than dating in the single life. The Challenge with Dating Every Week The big problem with dating every week is that life gets in the way! The week starts off with a busy Monday and doesn’t usually let up until sometime towards the end of the week. Then the weekend hits. If…
  • Break free from monotony

    27 Oct 2014 | 5:04 am
    The alarm goes off, you get ready for the day. Get the rest of the house up, kids out the door to school, head off to work. Get your job done. Battle traffic. Eat dinner. Go to the kids practice. Get them in bed. Watch a little TV. Go to sleep. Repeat … Repeat … Repeat … It’s no wonder that months pass and you look back and wonder where all the time went. This also is what contributes to many marriages becoming more like a relationship between roommates than lovers. So how does this happen so easily? Largely I think it comes down to expectations and story. Modern…
  • Married Life 911 is now available!

    24 Oct 2014 | 8:21 am
    Right now, our newest online relationship course is available, Married Life 911. I want to personally invite you to take advantage of this course, especially since it’s being offered this time only for $150 (which covers both you and your spouse). Let’s put this into perspective … How much you’d spend: Working with a counselor for a couple of months = $1,200ish Taking a different marriage course online or DVD = $477 Attending a marriage workshop or retreat = $250 OR you can Join Married Life 911 = $150 (this time only) Married Life 911 PLUS three private coaching…
  • How Do You Get In Your Own Way?

    23 Oct 2014 | 5:04 am
    How many times do you find yourself doing something you’ve told yourself you were going to stop doing? Eating that dessert, smoking, turning to porn, gossiping, or whatever it is that brings you struggle. One thing we often say to ourselves when it comes to our vices, “I feel guilty about ________, but it is just so hard to quit.” If we keep telling ourselves it’s hard to quit, it will be. Let me explain. The mind always believes what the mind tells itself is true. Therefore, if our mind tells us that quitting is hard, it will be hard. And since our mind strives…
  • You Are Already In The Right Relationship

    20 Oct 2014 | 12:45 pm
    What does healthy growing up look like in marriage? There are two challenges or dilemmas that have major roles in relationships. The emotional reactivity/rationality challenge and the togetherness/separateness dilemma. These two forces intermix in various and subtle ways to shape your relationship. The togetherness/separateness force is a natural force much like the need plants have for sunshine or water. Every plant requires a certain level of sunlight for healthy development — too much sunshine will kill the plant and too little sunshine will lead to the plant’s death. Marriages…
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  • Good days, bad days, travel fears and Hello Kitty conning anyway

    29 Oct 2014 | 8:41 am
    I often get nervous before trips, not so much about flying, but all the rest of it, especially when it's somewhere I don't know well, like Los Angeles. It's one thing when I attended CatalystCon West, because I mainly stayed within a two-block radius of the conference hotel. I don't know what has sent me into such a tailspin before this one, but I postponed my flight and seriously considered canceling. I didn't, because I had a feeling missing out on Hello Kitty Con would disappoint me more. Partly, I feel guilty, like I shouldn't be going, because the whole reason I let myself book this trip…
  • Open bar NYC book party for Sex & Cupcakes and bloggers wanted for virtual book tour

    28 Oct 2014 | 11:17 am
    4 big pieces of news: my essay collection Sex & Cupcakes is now for sale on iBooks as well as Kindle (both are just $4.99 and if you buy on Kindle and send me your receipt by October 31st, I'll send you any of my other Kindle books free; click here for details), there's an audiobook version coming out and I want to celebrate with you November 17th in New York City! The official book party, sponsored by my publisher Thought Catalog Books, takes place Monday, November 17th from 6 to 8 p.m. at Sweet Revenge, 62 Carmine Street, which if you haven't been to is a delightful and delicious little…
  • 2 sex books for just $4.99 through October 31st

    27 Oct 2014 | 7:42 am
    Through October 31st, if you are a subscriber to my newsletter, you can get any of the books below (Kindle edition) FREE when you buy my new essay collection Sex & Cupcakes: A Juicy Collection of Essays. Why am I doing this? Because this is possibly my most important book, one that gives me the title "Author" after a decade of being an anthology editor. It's a big leap, one that has the potential to make big things happen. Nonfiction has always been my true love, even though I plan to write erotica forever, but getting the chance to dig into the topics nearest and dearest to my heart and my…
  • On personal essay writing and being written about

    24 Oct 2014 | 9:27 am
    Unless you are a hermit who lives alone and never interacts with someone, I venture it would be impossible to write personal essays without including other people in them. After all, our relationships with other people, be they friends, family, lovers, even strangers, are so much of what drives us as humans. While I know that intellectually, there is still always a part of me that's nervous about releasing a personal piece into the world, and even more so knowing the people I've written about will be reading my work. It's hard not to want to apologize, even though for me, writing has always…
  • Why does my vagina shut down after 8 p.m. and other sex timing questions in this week's column

    23 Oct 2014 | 5:52 am
    My Let's Get It On sex column this week is called It's Sex O'Clock, time for a weekend romp and is about how I balance being part of a couple where one person wants sex at different times of day than another person, and how other people do as well, along with some suggestions on compromises. If you like it, I'd love it if you'd pass it on, comment, mention it on Twitter and/or like it at the top! I have tons of ideas for future columns and hope to keep writing it for a long time, but know much is riding on how many people are reading these first columns. That being said, I welcome ideas for…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Sheri Chiu and Fred Zara in ‘The Hand’

    Violet Blue
    28 Oct 2014 | 1:57 pm
    I don’t know how I missed this glorious photo set: Sheri Chiu and Fred Zara in ‘The Hand’ was for Bambi Magazine earlier this month. Make sure you click through and see the rest of the set, it’s incredible. And hot. Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S.
  • Sex News: Ebola and sexual transmission, Titcoin redux, social network teledildonics

    Violet Blue
    26 Oct 2014 | 9:01 am
    Radiation shield boxers: While harm from cell-phone rays has so far been lacking sufficient scientific proof, a US firm wants men to take no chances with radiation. Boxer shorts made with the use of thin silver textile “absorb radiation” will help “protect men’s reproductive organs and maintain fertility health,” according to their producer, Manhattan-based Belly Armor company. Radiation-proof, sperm-friendly boxers launched (RT; also ABC) Kink and seeing your doctor. As more people embrace their inner kinkster, doctors need to know the details to provide quality health care. This…
  • Eye Candy: Quickies

    Violet Blue
    20 Oct 2014 | 4:02 pm
    Russian Beauty – Elena Rae, Matt Ice Finally Home – Taylor Whyte, Ryan Driller (image above via) Sounds Of Passion – Karol Lilien, Matt Fit To Fuck – Alaina Kristar, gentleman friend Summer Carter Casts Erika Devine, plus gentleman friend Ivy and Jonny – Fuck me (video; image below via) Alessandra and Athina – Strapless Toy Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The…
  • Sex News: Mechanophilia, Denmark bans bestiality, sperm bank controversy, a life of alien sex

    Violet Blue
    19 Oct 2014 | 6:10 am
    In case you missed it, there is a giant butt plug in Paris that they are pretending is s Christmas tree. It's October — Kiss Hello (@SugarKovalczyk) October 17, 2014 The giant inflatable ‘Christmas tree’ butt plug appears to have been vandalised overnight on Friday, hours after its creator admitted being partly inspired by a joke about an anal sex toy. Its 80ft high presence immediately drew outcry from some residents, who said Paris had been “humiliated” by the installation. Others dismissed the sculpture as a “provocation” and called…
  • [Video] Arca – Thievery by Jesse Kanda

    Violet Blue
    14 Oct 2014 | 2:06 pm
    Venezuelan producer Arca, aka Alejandro Ghersi, has posted the video for “Thievery” – made by the incredibly talented Jesse Kanda. The video features Xen, a digitally-rendered, gender-ambiguous character who Ghersi calls a fictional alter ego, dancing in front of the camera. I found Kanda in this post on Beautiful Decay. ‘Thievery’ is taken from Arca’s forthcoming album ‘Xen’ available November 3rd (4th in US) on Mute. There’s a great interview with Arca in the current issue of Fader, where he talks about his debut album, his own sexuality…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 418

    Dan Savage
    28 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    It's the triumphant return of Dr. Barak, here to reassure us that drinking pee is still "pretty darn safe."  Is guzzling jizz the equivalent of drinking a protein shake?  Should a man rat out his boss for watching porn on his phone after work?  On the Magnum version, Dan speaks with Katha Pollitt about her new book, Pro: Reclaiming Abortion Rights.  And more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Savage"when you check out. This episode is also brought to you by They make it easy…
  • Savage Love Episode 417

    Dan Savage
    21 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    Delusion and disfunction; this episode has more than it's fair share. Inevitable break-ups, sexless marriages, cheating and scheming. Feast your ears!  On the sweet, sweet Magnum, Dan chats with sex party luminary Polly Superstar! Also, in a "What You Got?" Dan chats with Dr. Rachel Jones from the Guttmacher Institute about the much maligned withdrawal method. 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting This podcast is brought to you by Click on the…
  • Savage Love Episode 416

    Dan Savage
    14 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    It's the Savage Lovecast LIVE from Vancouver BC. Featuring the super-delightful sex researcher Dr. Lori Brotto and the incomparably filthy singer-songwriter Rachel Lark.    You only live once... 206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at…
  • Savage Love Episode 415

    Dan Savage
    7 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    A man is getting a yucky feeling from his best friend's new girlfriend. They've never met, mind you. But she seems kind of superficial? On social media? Should he speak up to protect his friend, or butt out already?  A very naughty woman is sexting with her ex-boyfriend. AND HE DOESN'T KNOW IT'S HER.  On the Magnum, Dan and comedian Cameron Esposito yak about straight men in lesbian bars, pathetic closet cases, and a woman who is trapped in and oppressed by her given name.    Cameron's got a real pretty voice.  206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by…
  • Savage Love Episode 414

    Dan Savage
    30 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week, Dan brings on heavy-hitter advice columnist Margo Howard (daughter of THE Ann Landers…) to cackle and spar about cooking your way into your boyfriend's heart, and TANTRIC SEX of all things.  Also, a very sad call about a woman who can only get off when she watches realistic date rape porn.  On the Magnum, Dan brings on super lawyer Diana Adams to discuss custody battles and whether your open relationship can be held against you in court.  And a lot more.  206-201-2720  This episode is brought to you by Le Tote- the fashion rental service that gives…
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  • My Street Harassment Story

    Damon Young
    29 Oct 2014 | 9:56 pm
    I was in D.C. around this time last year for a screening of our TV pilot. We (my now wife and I) drove down from Pittsburgh that day, and made it to town at around five. Since the screening was at 7:30, we had a couple hours to spare, so we stopped somewhere on U Street to grab something to eat, and eventually met up with our homegirl to walk to Busboys and Poets (where the screening was held) together. It was a 15-20 minute walk from where we were to Busboys. During the trip, I received a text I needed to reply to, so I slowed my stride and stopped for a few moments. They slowed too, but I…
  • Love & Hip Hop Hollywood Ep. 7 Recap: Why Is Ray J Still Here?

    Panama Jackson
    29 Oct 2014 | 10:23 am
    Better late than never. But never late is better. But who gives a shit. It’s time for a recap of the shenangans courtesy of your favorite cast of misfits strolling the mean streets of Hollywood, CA. Nearly everybody makes apperances this week: Ray J, Berg, Hazel E, Teirra Mari aka TMurda, Apryl + Omarion + TMI, Omarion’s mother with some amazing clarity, Masika and her lips, and Soulja Boy and Teddy Riley chat with Nia. Let’s focus on Ray J for a moment because RRS-ONE came thru like gangbusters on this episode in terms of his Shenanigans Quotient. He’s been slacking…
  • Why I Love NBA Basketball (…And Why You Don’t If You Don’t)

    Damon Young
    29 Oct 2014 | 8:10 am
    ***Although originally posted a year ago, everything said here still rings true. So I’m saying it again (with some minor edits)***  As I type this, the remnants of a fried egg and bacon sandwich sits on a plate to my left. What was once a towering piece of sandwich art has been reduced to a dozen or so desolate crumbs and two lone strands of grated Parmesan cheese. If you squint, it looks like a map of Rhode Island. I live within a two mile radius of a supermarket and (at least) 20 different restaurants, and my refrigerator is (surprisingly) stocked. My food options are limitless. I…
  • Fireball Whiskey Has Some Stuff In It That They Use To Make Anti-Freeze. So?

    Panama Jackson
    29 Oct 2014 | 6:43 am
    I read a story yesterday that Fireball Whiskey is being recalled in Europe. Why? Here’s why: Late last week, the whiskey’s European bottler informed the makers of Fireball that they were out of compliance with European regulations. The Fireballers prepare two versions: a recipe for Canada and the United States containing the chemical, propylene glycol, and a European version that has less of the stuff. Propylene glycol is used for a variety of industrial, cosmetic, and food production uses. In your Prestone Low-Tox, it’s an antifreeze. In Fireball, it’s used as a…
  • Five Black Superheroes We Need To See

    Damon Young
    28 Oct 2014 | 1:44 pm
    Earlier today, Marvel Studios announced that Chadwick Boseman – who seems poised to play every Black man who’s ever existed — will be cast as Black Panther, a movie that’s set to be released in 2017. While that’s great news for Boseman, here are a few more Black superheroes we’d like to see on screen. 1. Super Uncle Superpowers: Leaps tall buildings while rocking house slippers and tube socks. Can smoke an entire pack of Newports in 0.6 seconds. Enhanced eyesight can actually see asses from the front. Weaknesses: Diabetes. And credit reports. 2.
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • 20 Important Life Lessons We Learned From '90s Cartoons

    30 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    People who grew up in the '90s really lucked out in life because it's the sweet spot in time when we grew up as the Internet came into the world. We aren't completely emerged in the technology culture, but we also aren't confused by it like our parents. We grew up with the best toys and most of all, the best cartoons. read more
  • 11 Reasons Justin Timberlake Will Crush It As A DILF

    30 Oct 2014 | 5:45 am
    Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel are a relatively low-key Hollywood duo. The pop singer/actor and actress are reportedly expecting their first child together. O to the M to the F to the G! Baby Timberlake? A Justin Timberlake spawn? The 'Lake has procreated and sired? read more
  • My Husband And I Waited A Year To Have Post-Baby Sex—Here's Why

    29 Oct 2014 | 9:14 pm
    Sex post-baby is more of an effort than you'd think. It took me a year to get back in the saddle with my husband! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 100 Memories I Can't Wait To Share With My Son Once He's Born

    29 Oct 2014 | 6:11 pm
    A father's touching open letter to his unborn son. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 13 Telltale Signs Your Relationship Is Over

    29 Oct 2014 | 3:37 pm
    Clayton Olson lists the 13 signs that point to your relationship being over. Read on to see if you're experiencing any of these things to tell if a breakup is in your future. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • Not Just For Halloween: Top Five Sexy Costumes!

    29 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    Halloween is coming up this weekend and we're excited to get dressed up and enjoy some spooks. Looking to invest in a costume you can wear more than once a year? Why not pick up one of our gorgeous sexy costumes for a versatile look you can wear to the bedroom or dress up for a daring Halloween outfit? Whether you choose to dress as a lusty wench, naughty nurse or sexy secretary, we have plenty of fancy dress choices to excite and delight! Check out our top five versatile sexy Halloween costumes below. Best of all, every single costume featured below is 10% off for a limited time! [More]
  • How to Create the Perfect Bedroom for Seduction

    22 Oct 2014 | 7:21 am
    Planning the perfect romantic evening in with your lover is all in the details. Creating an environment suitable for seduction and lovemaking isn't difficult, it just takes a little planning. This guide talks you through creating the perfect romantic bedroom in five easy steps. Pictured above: Fashionistas Feather Bunny Tail Small Glass Butt Plug (£49.99) [More]
  • Giant Butt Plug in Paris is a Christmas Tree... Apparently!

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:06 am
    Now, we all love a good giggle, but it seems Paris has ended up being the 'butt' of this joke with their somewhat artistic 2014 Christmas butt plug... err, I mean tree! Funnily enough though, France haven't suddenly decided to announce a love for all things anal, even though it really does looks like it. They've collaborated with American contemporary artist Paul McCarthy (no... not the Beatle. Read it again) to reveal this year's rather eye-catching Christmas tree. Featuring a tapered tip, elongated, bulbous body, and flat flared base... Hang on... Does this remind you of something?
  • Vexed by Vibrators? We Can Help.

    17 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Straight, curved, narrow, wide, shaped like a rubber duck and not shaped like a rubber duck... Let's face it, there are so many different types of vibrators that it can be tough to know where to begin. Luckily, we're experts in vibrators*, and we're here to help. Allow the lovely Lisa to take you through the different features of G-spot vibes, USB rechargeables and more in the video below: *We're also experts in dildos. And butt plugs. But now we're just bragging. Saw a shape that caught your eye? Read on for a full product list. [More]
  • Introducing Lovehoney Lingerie: Discover Sexy Knickers, Stockings and Bodystockings

    15 Oct 2014 | 9:19 am
    After months of planning and preparation, we're thrilled to reveal the debut of Lovehoney lingerie! This collection of sexy bodystockings, alluring knickers and slinky stockings have been designed with comfort and, of course, seduction in mind. Our customers have long been asking for flattering, pocket-friendly lingerie that looks great in the bedroom, and we're proud to deliver exactly this with the exclusive Lovehoney collection. Choose from all-in-one bodystockings and raunchy crotchless knickers in classic black with elegant lace detailing, and don't forget to finish your bedroom look off…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • Wild Wipes intimate wipes

    29 Oct 2014 | 7:59 pm
    New Answer - My husband and I recently started Wild Wipes and we love them! They're really soft and smell really husband and I can get messy, and these are great for cleaning up after a good time ;-) I suggest you go to, we used promo code "wild" and got free shipping, so you should try it in case it still works.

    28 Oct 2014 | 3:07 am
    New Answer - Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also asured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and…

    28 Oct 2014 | 3:06 am
    New Question - Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also asured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and…

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    of Sex and Love

  • Scandal Corset with Cuffs

    26 Oct 2014 | 11:37 pm
    Scandal Corset with Cuffs $47.63 from OF Sex and Love Store I’ve kept my eye out for the pieces in the Scandal line because I love love love the black and red design — even if it matches nothing in my bondage drawer! The control cuffs worked well, and the “corset” is pretty sexy. Unfortunately, the corset is also once-size-fits-most. What do we know about this kids? That one size never fits all and rarely fits most and usually pisses reviews like me the fuck off. But let’s back up. This corset is really a small waist cincher. There’s no boning, either…
  • Best Sex Writing 2013

    19 Oct 2014 | 7:37 pm
    Best Sex Writing 2013 $13.83 from Amazon I’ve been a fan of the Best Sex Writing series for years, The most recent edition is Best Sex Writing 2013 because it doesn’t come out every year. This one  was edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel with a foreword by Carol Queen, two names you’re probably familiar with if you follow sex education or erotica — or even if you’re just a fan of other Cleis Press publications. This edition offers 20 different stories about the “state of sexual culture.” Each of the pieces is supposed to represent the sex writing about…
  • Svakom Leslie

    17 Oct 2014 | 10:45 pm
    Svakom Leslie $175 from Svakom So let’s talk about the shape. Leslie is a gently curved vibrator that will provide subtle G-spot stimulation. It has no hook a la Ella or Gigi, so you’re not going to get intense stimulation of your G-spot. The silky smooth silicone feels quite nice in my hand. Yet, it’s not the shape or size of this toy that is its main appeal. Leslie is a self-heating vibrator that has the ability to raise temperature on its own and either in combination with or separately from vibrations. A separate button enables you to turn on this function, which in and…
  • Wrapped Around Your Finger

    16 Oct 2014 | 8:55 am
    Wrapped Around Your FingerA Story of Submission $16.95 from Cleis Press I don’t know that I’ve ever reviewed a full-length piece of erotica before. I tend to stick to anthologies, and most of those stories are quite short indeed. I’ve avoided 50 Shades of Grey for reasons of sanity.  I’ve read the first book in the Sleeping Beauty series, but it’s not very long at all. In comparison the approximately 225 pages of Wrapped Around Your Finger seems like a Tolkien tome. However, it’s really not that long. I read this cover to cover in 3 or 4 sittings, and in…
  • Uberkinky Bondage Tape

    15 Oct 2014 | 8:26 am
    UberKinky Bondage Tape $6.36 from Uber Kinky I don’t often talk about my family, but I’d like to start this post with an anecdote. My sister is in her tween years and loves to spend time at my apartment playing video games. I am more than happy to oblige, but if I don’t have notice, I might forget to remove something that she doesn’t need to see. She has now twice discovered Uber Kinky’s bondage tape — which I have in both black and red — and asked what it was for. I had to explain that, no, it wasn’t duct tape. On the second occasion, I hope I…
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • 7 Resolute Ways to Resist the Urge to Call Your Ex

    29 Oct 2014 | 12:07 pm
    A breakup is like quitting cold turkey from a pleasant addiction. It sucks and it has a slew of withdrawal symptoms like calling your ex. Find out how you can avoid the sticky situation with these 7 tried and tested tips. By Danielle Anne Suleik Breaking up is a difficult experience. The pain and humiliation of one or both parties endures until circumstances allow it to diffuse. It can arrive slowly or suddenly. It all depends on how you handle the situation. Why you want to call your ex Most people who are fresh from a break-up go through the five stages of grief. These include denial,…
  • The 24 Worst Things for Guys to Say or Do on a First Date

    28 Oct 2014 | 1:02 pm
    Have you ever been guilty of these things guys say or do on a first date? These 24 absolute deal breakers will bring a first date to a screeching halt! By Eli Walton A first date can be a nerve-wracking experience. Everyone is at least a little bit nervous before one, but excited too. After all, there are so many ways the evening can go badly, but so much promise if it goes right! The good, the bad and the great of a first date First dates are exciting experiences. If the date goes well, there’s the potential to meet the one you’d be spending the rest of your life with. And even if you…
  • Should You Settle For Less When You Can Have Much More?

    27 Oct 2014 | 11:06 am
    Whether it comes to work, love, life or sex, should you settle instead of yearning for more? 3 women ponder over their fates and question themselves. By Lianne Choo Meet Carol, Elena and Darcy. They are three women who share nothing save for the same zip code. Single, sensational and savvy, Carol is your atypical career driven woman with her sights set on world domination, or at least domination at the publishing house she works at. Elena is a graphic designer in a 6-year relationship with a man whom she thinks is ‘the one’. Finally meet Darcy, a stay-at-home mother with a spouse and two…
  • 7 Insanely Easy Halloween Costumes for Couples

    26 Oct 2014 | 6:18 am
    Wondering how to show off your creative selves as a fun couple this time around? Here are 7 wicked Halloween costumes to look sexy, naughty or just plain awesome! By Michelle Escultura Halloween’s just around the corner! It’s the perfect time of the year where you can be as ghastly or as glamorous as you want to be. Are you and your honey ready to show off your creative costumes? You may think that Halloween costumes require a lot of work or a lot of spending on a costume you’ll only use for one night of the year. But in reality, there are tons of costumes out there that only require a…
  • 11 Sure Signs the Guy You’re Dating is a Real Keeper

    25 Oct 2014 | 4:59 am
    Have you ever wondered if your boyfriend’s a keeper? Use these 11 signs to know for sure if the guy you’re dating is a catch who’s worth keeping forever! By Michelle Escultura When you’re in the dating game, you may sometimes ask yourself if you’ve already found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. We keep looking for signs that the guy we’re with is “The One.” But is there really a clear-cut formula for knowing if you’re with a keeper? Do you just feel it deep down or do you have to think it over to know for sure. 11 sure signs your boyfriend is a real…
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    Phone Sex Secrets

  • Oh For Gawd’s Sake, Learn How To Properly Blog

    Phone Sex Secrets
    12 Oct 2014 | 5:34 am
    Not to be all bitchy-mcbitch-pants or beat a dead horse or anything, but… I don’t think NiteFlirt (or whoever is in charge of their blog) really understands what they are doing with a blog &/or social media. I mean it is a chronic problem. And it’s starting to work my last nerve. This latest example […]
  • Phone Sex Secrets — Three Years A Superhero?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    4 Oct 2014 | 9:57 pm
    When I started Phone Sex Secrets nearly three years ago, I had no idea how important the site would be — or how busy I would be! In honor of nearly three years, I’ve decided to make the time to take my own advice and brand myself better. Step One: revamped the site — the […]
  • Magic Numbers?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    10 Sep 2014 | 8:13 am
    During yesterday’s consultation, a client asked a common question: Is there a best age for a PSO to be? While platform sites often have a “member since” date showing in your profile (making math possible!), here’s some data on ages men find “attractive”: Charts from OKCupid, showing how straight women and men rate each other […]
  • Phone Sex Operator Advertising Sale

    Phone Sex Secrets
    23 Aug 2014 | 10:16 am
    In order to give you a last chance bump this summer to build your PR etc. for the busy phone sex season ahead, I’ve decided to run a little sale on the Tumblr ads / promotion spaces. Actually, it’s a huge sale in terms of discount; just short in length of time. I suspect I […]
  • What Do I Think Of Phone Sex Platform TalkToMe?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    16 Aug 2014 | 6:32 pm
    I am often solicited to join other phone sex platform sites — if only just to try it out & review them here at Phone Sex Secrets. But why would I create an account, market myself etc., just to get a few callers to review the platform service? That’s a lot of work for a […]
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    Sex Secrets

  • Make Love Like a Pro with These 6 Stellar Moves

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    If your sex life is lacking a certain special something, try one of these six stellar moves, says Nadia Langworthy. When you first start dating a guy, things in the bedroom are so fun and exciting, right? He’s a new body and you have some discovering to do together. You (hopefully) let each other know Continue reading →(Visited 41 times, 2 visits today)
  • 6 Hot Blow Job Techniques

    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Doing the same old thing every time you give a blow job will quickly get boring to your man, so it’s important that you vary your technique. That said, the most important technique you need to give a great blow job is not a technique, but an attitude. Show your enthusiasm! Men don’t just want Continue reading →(Visited 164 times, 3 visits today)
  • 4 Ways to Make a Man Climax Quickly

    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 Oct 2014 | 2:00 am
    Making love all night long is great when you have the time and energy, but sometimes you may just want him to hurry up and finish.  Maybe the kids are on their way home from school, you have to hurry off to work, or maybe he’s just taking too long and you need to get Continue reading →(Visited 243 times, 1 visits today)
  • Male Brains Are Wired to Choose Sex Over Food

    Svetlana Ivanova
    21 Oct 2014 | 8:00 am
    Males can suppress their hunger in order to focus on finding a mate, a new scientific study of a species of worm has shown. Male brains are wired to make them ignore food and look for a mate instead, according to new research. The study by the University of Rochester Medical Centre points to how Continue reading →(Visited 28 times, 1 visits today)
  • A Little Rough Sex?

    Svetlana Ivanova
    18 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    Sarah Rae Vargas gives tips on how to explore BDSM without doing anything too painful or scary.(Visited 71 times, 1 visits today)
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    Molly's Daily Kiss

  • The First of Many

    Molly Moore
    29 Oct 2014 | 10:29 am
    “Good afternoon madam, how can I help you” “Checking in” I replied, pushing my reservation confirmation across the desk towards the young man. He immediately busied himself with his computer screen, tapping away at the little keys for what seemed like an incredibly long time. I couldn’t help the little sigh of frustration that escaped…
  • Reveling in it

    Molly Moore
    27 Oct 2014 | 8:31 am
    I have not been shy about my general apathy towards vibrators in the past. I used to be completely addicted but that was the problem because I suddenly realised that I couldn’t actually cum without one and that scared me. So I gave them up, it took about 3 weeks for my body to relearn…
  • She’s got legs

    Molly Moore
    26 Oct 2014 | 4:12 pm
    So I am going to start this post with a bit of Brit to American translation. If you went into a shop in the UK and asked someone where you would find the pantyhose, I think you would have a fairish chance they would know what you were talking about, but even if they did…
  • Fertile Fields

    Molly Moore
    25 Oct 2014 | 4:56 pm
    “There is not a sprig of grass that shoots uninteresting to me.”  ~ Thomas Jefferson Related Posts: Adam’s Apple Sweet Spring, Cummings Lingering Give me shelter Forget The World
  • Not playing the game

    Molly Moore
    22 Oct 2014 | 6:50 am
    I have thought long and hard about writing this post but I have never been one for shying away from tricky subjects and so I decided that not writing it would be taking the chicken way out and that doesn’t sit well with me. So here I am, with a large empty word document, something…
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    Justine Cross

  • I Heart Boobies! Keep a Breast Fundraiser

    Ms. Justine
    10 Oct 2014 | 3:17 am
    Hello subs, slaves, kinksters and supersexyshiny people! Last year, I tried to raise $1000 in a month through Keep a Breast fundraiser. Thanks to the generosity of my clients, slaves and friends, I raised $750. My goal was $1000. This month I am trying to raise $1250. Please go to my Keep a Breast donation page. This is a terrible disease that took the life of both my mother and best friend–they both died way too early. I dedicate this fundraising to them and hope to raise money to help others. So please donate because Mistress says so! As I did last year, I am also running some…
  • Visiting Philadelphia Oct. 12-14 and NYC Oct. 15-18

    Ms. Justine
    6 Oct 2014 | 9:43 am
    No matter the city, no matter the dungeon–you will always be expected to OBEY. It’s been too long since the last time that I visited the East Coast so don’t miss me this time. I am also traveling with Mistress Natalie West. Mistress Natalie West and I specialize in lesbian cuckolding scenes. You can read more about our sessions, reviews and lesbian cuckolding here. Some of my favorite sessions with her involved tying up a slave to our four poster bed at Dungeon West and taking turns single tailing him and making out–we had a pretty epic double overnight session the…
  • Copycat Ads on Backpage again

    Ms. Justine
    28 Sep 2014 | 7:24 am
    ***Update: As of now, the copycat ad is down. Unfortunately, the person who stole my photos and copy has done it to other people as well. I hope the individual was banned from Backpage. Thank you to my loyal clients and fellow Dommes who spotted it and reported it.*** Someone else has stolen my photos and ad copy on Backpage AGAIN. Here is a link to the original ad: BOW DOWN EXPIRENCE TRUE DOMINATION. Professional Expirenced Dominatrix avaliable latenights – 27 Here is the ad text that she has copied from me: You deserve an experience like Me. Tell me your fantasies, relax and I’m…
  • The Naughty Show: Slave Jack of All Trades

    Ms. Justine
    23 Sep 2014 | 9:01 am
    What a little show stealer! Considering slave jack was the reason we were late to a live show, he certainly got his 15 minutes of fame on the Naughty Show Big Jay Oakerson joins Sam Tripoli, Gareth & Vicky at Playboy Studios for this very special episode featuring Dominatrix Justine Cross & Slave Jack! Big Jay talks about being a driver/security guard for an escort service in Philly. Justine tells us about her experiences as a Dominatrix and Mistress, and her LA location Dungeon West. Slave Jack lets us examine his chastity belt, gets whipped, and picks up web work. Literally slip…
  • Los Angeles Footnight September 18

    Ms. Justine
    16 Sep 2014 | 4:45 am
    I will be at” target=”_blank”>Los Angeles Footnight on September 18th! It is the 12th Anniversary Party. I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West, if you can handle a double. I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out more photos in my Foot Fetish Gallery. Can’t come to Los Angeles Footnight? Contact me for a private foot fetish session at Dungeon West instead. If you can’t…
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  • Elust #63

    15 Oct 2014 | 1:27 pm
    Photo courtesy of A to sub Bee Welcome to Elust #63 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am Sexy at Every Size Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM Hovering ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Show Me, Daddy The…
  • Elust #63 Open for Submissions

    2 Oct 2014 | 4:12 pm
    Elust #63 Open for Submissions Welcome to the October Edition of Elust. We do apologize for the delay in having Elust open but our hosting company was subjected to a DDOS attack that could have been stopped by paying ransom. While we are very pleased that they decided not to pay and work out another solution the result was that we have been down until just a few hours ago, since it has been a two day delay we have decided to extend the submission deadline until the 10th. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on…
  • Elust #62

    16 Sep 2014 | 4:19 am
    Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk Selfies, Shame and Safety ‘Dress me like a slut and punish my cock’ ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • Elust #62 Open for Submissions

    1 Sep 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Elust #62 Open for Submissions Welcome to the September Edition of Elust. The kids are back to school and the leaves are starting to turn, now it’s time for you to turn us on with your latest writing. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to…
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    Hey Epiphora

  • Review: Sqweel Go

    29 Oct 2014 | 4:03 pm
    “IT’S SO GODDAMN CUTE,” I stammered upon opening the Lovehoney Sqweel Go. I actually cooed over it, like an idiot. I don’t normally care if sex toys are “cute,” but this toy reminded me of a hamster or hedgehog or something. It was actually smaller than I’d imagined, which pretty much never happens. There was another reason for my excitement as well. It appeared Lovehoney had taken my advice, FINALLY, after YEARS. I wrote about the first Sqweel in 2009: . . . to really excel as a clitoral stimulator, the Sqweel would need to shrink by 50%,…
  • 6-year blogiversary giveaway — 37 sex toy prizes!

    21 Oct 2014 | 3:02 pm
    October is the month when the leaves start turning, my sweaters finally get put to good use, and I celebrate that one time 6 years ago I thought it might be fun to start a blog. As has become tradition, I launch an epic blogiversary giveaway each October. Each year I have outdone myself, and last year I gave away 18 prizes. Naturally, this year, I’m giving away 37… 52 if you count all the bottles of lube. Because that’s not setting myself up for failure next year or anything. So quoth my friend, “one of these days you’ll just give away a whole store.”…
  • An abridged guide to decoding horseshit articles about the G-spot’s existence

    11 Oct 2014 | 12:23 pm
    Less than a month ago we were attacked by headlines screaming that the G-spot doesn’t exist, and here we are again, with yet another news source “reporting” (I use that word quite loosely) on yet another “study” “proving” that the G-spot is a “myth” and EVERYONE CALM DOWN AND TOUCH YOUR CLITORIS. It’s not the first, and it will never be the last, but it’s the one that broke me. My soul has been cracking, little by little, each time this happens. Like that time a sex educator drew a question mark on an anatomy chart in place…
  • Review: Lovelife Adventure, Smile, Discover, and Cuddle

    30 Sep 2014 | 12:17 pm
    OhMiBod is commonly known as the sex toy company that makes music- and app-responsive vibrators, but their Lovelife line is a departure, and a valiant effort. It’s a line of less expensive rechargeable toys that do not care whether you’re blasting Meatloaf. Usually, for a rechargeable vibrator, you’ll spend at least $90, and up to $200 depending on size, functionality, and arrogance of the brand. In the Lovelife line, you can get a rechargeable vibe for as low as $59. Which is not to say that you should — each toy falls in a very different place on the scale of…
  • Review: G-Vibe

    22 Sep 2014 | 4:35 pm
    There are some failtastic sex toys that I keep around simply so I can lug them out in the future and confirm my previous findings. But in the case of the disastrous Split Dildo, I gave it away long ago and never looked back. Until, apparently, the Fun Toys G-Vibe. Different company, same exact shape. I had to laugh when I read the “about us” page on Fun Toys’ website, which is the typical origin story of any ~revolutionary~ (not at all) sex toy. It follows the usual formula: Twee intro about huck-a-huck life, slathered with no understanding or knowledge of the sex (toy)…
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  • scream to me

    25 Oct 2014 | 11:07 am
    #3: Scream to – Replica SeriesPreviously – #2 Afterglow This is not a replica of a painting but a graphite-and-ink line art representation of a photo of an emo singer back in the genre’s 2000-ish glory days. To my discredit, I couldn’t find the original photo or who it is or what exactly he’s saying, but it probably has something to do with his profound care of and desire toward his fellow bandmates. Which is sexy.The simplicity and intensity of this piece makes it one of my favorites I’ve ever done.
  • sex hangover

    19 Oct 2014 | 11:30 am
     Possible Symptoms:Tired, aching limbsScratch marks down the chest and backMultiple bite marks on the shoulders and neckHoarse voiceStinging scalp, particularly at the roots of the hairFatigued tongue musclesWrinkled fingertipsTenderness in the genital areaMissing clothing or jewelry items or footwearA deep-seated feeling of peace and that all is well with the world
  • censorship, daddies, and bipolar sex: october- e[lust] 63

    16 Oct 2014 | 10:03 am
    Photo courtesy of A to sub Bee Welcome to Elust #63 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am Sexy at Every Size Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM Hovering ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Show Me, DaddyThe…
  • the racism of motherhood

    11 Oct 2014 | 1:18 pm
    or The Last Socially-Acceptable EvilMothers are racists.Becoming a mother automatically turns perfectly fair, tolerant citizens into racists.Having a child that was once a part of you seems to have the instant side effect of making you a complete bigot toward all other races besides your own bloodline. From that moment on, any creature that is not direct flesh and blood to you is seen as inferior and inconsequential.Great mothers are usually terrible human beings, and terrible mothers are great human beings.Think of it this way: if you would be willing to torture and kill every other man,…
  • penetrational dysfunction

    5 Oct 2014 | 11:36 am
    or The Woman’s EDIf occasional erectile dysfunction may affect 1 in 4 (young) men and even more older men, then occasional penetrational dysfunction almost definitely affects 99% of women.Penetrational dysfunction is when the vagina is not sufficiently lubricated to accommodate intercourse. Name sound unfamiliar? That’s because not being aroused enough is a very real yet usually very solvable sexual dysfunction in women, similar to erectile dysfunction in men, that until now has never been given a proper name.Both erectile and penetrational dysfunctions are mental. There is…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Pilots, Porn at Work and the Assumption of Misogyny

    29 Oct 2014 | 11:02 pm
    Sexy, but probably can't fly for realA news report came out today that Air Canada pilots have had the habit of keeping porn in the cockpit (not that kind of cockpit!)   Now the issue itself seems to have lit a fire and gotten a lot of people upset. The allegations were made after an internal Air Canada document was leaked to the CBC.  The porn was apparently found on flights from Los Vegas and a female pilot had to deal with seeing it.I find this interesting because having porn at work and in the workplace is seen as both misogyny and as grounds for dismissal.  And I am…
  • Sex and the Law: BDSM and Consent

    28 Oct 2014 | 6:25 pm
    A recent article in the news today was Jian Ghomeshi (former host of CBC radio's show Q and a celebrity in Canada) was fired for his sexual preferences. You see, apparently he practiced BDSM and has the balls to admit it.  Well, he was fired because of that and his jilted ex-girlfriend's allegations that they practiced kinky sex. He says all the sex they had was consensual and that he used things like safe words.Specifically he said:We discussed our interests at length before engaging in rough sex (forms of BDSM). We talked about using safe words and regularly checked in with each…
  • What Really Happened to Bettie Page?

    26 Oct 2014 | 8:35 am
    [Continued from The Resurgence of Bettie Page and The Mysterious Disappearance of Bettie Page] So what REALLY happened to Bettie Page?Bettie Page, the Queen of Bondage and pin up icon of the 1950 suddenly disappeared at the height of her career.  No one had any idea of what happened to her.Why did she disappear? Because she 35 years old and wanted the world to remember her a gorgeous pin up in her prime -- to be remembered as flawless and perfect. Yes, it seemed as if Bettie had dropped off the face of the planet. She was an icon and it is hard to believe she could so completely…
  • Resurgence of Bettie Page

    25 Oct 2014 | 12:31 pm
    Bettie Page suddenly disappeared from the the world in 1953.  But the world didn't forget.In the 1980s, Dave Stevens published a comic book called the Bettie Pages. It sold out instantly in new stands and comic book stores. It didn't take a marketing genius to figure out that Bettie Page was still a hot item. Suddenly an entirely new generation was exposed to the perfection that was Bettie Page.So many tattoos of Bettie PageSince the 80's all sorts of things bear the likeness of Bettie Page from lighters, calendars, guitars, coffee mugs, figurines, buttons, keychains and t-shirts. Some…
  • The Mysterious Disappearance of Bettie Page

    21 Oct 2014 | 6:17 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page: Bondage Queen]Bettie Page began modelling at the age of 27. She hit her stride and became the Queen of Pinups and a Bondage Queen by the age of 32. But buy now Bettie had been harassed by the law and seen her good friend Irvin Claw ruined by draconian law enforcement. She also realized that she was 34 and wanted to leave the pin up world at her peak so the whole world would remember her in her prime. And so...she just disappeared. She left New York City and left only mystery in the wake of her peak."I would like people to remember me how I was in the…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • Watch the Video: How I masturbated in public and became a teacher of Sexual Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    14 Oct 2014 | 10:03 am
    Here’s the video of my Mystery Box Story!  Enjoy!  Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Practice, Masturbation, Reclaiming Sexuality, Resistance, Sexual Liberation Tagged: masturbate, masturbation ritual, mystery box, sexual liberation
  • How I masturbated in public and became a teacher of Sexual Liberation: PART ONE

    Pavini Moray
    13 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    My job is walking with my clients on their path to sexual liberation.   I meet my clients where they are in terms of their sexuality, and together we discover the blocks, traumas, and limiting beliefs that stand between them and the deeper erotic life that is possible for them.   It’s a process.  Along the way, there […]
  • La Pocha Nostra Performance

    Pavini Moray
    9 Sep 2014 | 11:29 am
    NEW BARBARIANS 3.0:  A Pocha Nostra X-treme Fashion Show & Photo-performance karaokeSaturday, September 13th  7:00 PM. On Saturday, September 13th, I will be performing in this. La Pocha Nostra’s two-week residency at Fort Mason ends with an exciting evening public performance in two-parts. Part one will include a live “photo karaoke” session in collaboration with […]
  • Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    6 Aug 2014 | 2:19 pm
    With great pleasure that I announce: My new 40-page ebook called “Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation” is now available for free download!    This book contains 16 of the best tools I know to help you deepen into pleasure, and get the intimacy and transformation you need in your sexuality.   I hope you […]
  • Erotic Experiment Update #3: Somatic Erotic Learning and the Queer Oil Action

    Pavini Moray
    14 Jul 2014 | 1:51 pm
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Desire, Erotic Energy, Erotic Practice, Intimacy, pleasure, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation, Sexuality Education Tagged: erotic, oil action, Queer, somatic learning
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  • The Best Sex Toys for Couples

    Anida Leeds
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:30 am
    Cutting edge vibrators are all the craze these days. Why keep all the fun to yourself? Here's how to play together with the best sex toys for couples. "Not only do women who use toys report a host of pleasure perks, but guys say vibes increase sexual desire, erectile and orgasmic function, and intercourse satisfaction," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a Women's Health Magazine sexuality advisor. This increase pleasure has made his-and-her vibrators the hottest trend in sexy accessories. Ready to move beyond the rabbit vibrator? These new options are fun to enjoy solo but were created…
  • Six FREE guides for better sex, by Doc Johnson

    Anida Leeds
    6 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    An informed shopper is a happy customer. We are pleased to offer Six Free Guides for your reading enjoyment. These helpful pamphlets will help you make an informed shopping decision for your adult toys, by one of the best companies in the industry, Doc Johnson. Oral Sex Guide Good-Head for Him and Ora-love for Her, The Oral Sex Guide provides tips, tricks, and product picks for satisfying your lover into absolute gratification! Complete with diagrams of the female & male anatomy 'down there', with pleasure points for hitting the spot right for a night filled with oral delight! Click to…
  • Sexual Education - 3 Steps to Sexual Success

    Anida Leeds
    25 Aug 2014 | 12:17 pm
    Summer is coming to an end and you need that last bit of advice before the crazy daze of college are here. We put together 3 steps to help fulfill your sexual desire. Follow these steps and you are sure to succeed. Step 1 - About Penis Size It’s a common misconception, and widely held fear, that large penises rule the world of sexual happiness. In the reality of biology, 90% of erect penises measure 5-7 inches in length, and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're concerned that your penis is too small, you can rest assured that you are in good company. In a land led by Texans, our media and…
  • 10 Life Hacks for Better Sex

    Anida Leeds
    11 Aug 2014 | 11:57 am
    Life hacks are everywhere. There are hacks on folding your shirts, hanging up dry clothes, etc. Those are all fine and dandy but the life hacks I enjoy are the sexual life hacks. Bellow are 10 to get you started, have your own? Let us know in the comments bellow. 1. Headphones and blindfold during oral sex. - Before going down, put on some music and put the headphones on her. Blindfold her or cover her eyes with a towel. Try turning off all the lights if its dark and keep the music going. The sensory deprivation magnifies the sensations she feels as you pleasure her. 2. It’s all about the…
  • Want Your Own Red Room of Pain?

    Anida Leeds
    28 Jul 2014 | 8:51 am
    The clock is ticking and this Valentines Day the 50 Shades of Grey movie will be released. Will you be ready? Restraints... Check! Nipple Clamps... Check! Pleasure Balls... Check! Leather... Check! Even if you haven't read the books yet we got you covered. Do you want to have your own red room just like Christian has? Here are some of the items you need to get that started. Delicious Pleasure Silicone Pleasure BallsToning and pleasuring your body in unison, these official Fifty Shades of Grey silver balls wriggle and jiggle inside you. Massaging your G-spot with expert skill, Delicious…
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    The Love Hawk

  • When Things Go Awry, Don’t Go Away

    19 Oct 2014 | 7:01 pm
    Writing, at first glance, seems pretty easy but in reality it takes time, thought, and a decent amount of guts. Putting yourself out there to be judged by people you know and strangers alike can be a daunting experience, and often times it takes courage and a few deep breaths to post an article you know may ruffle some feathers. My life has taken many drastic turns in the past few months and while I always thought writing was my outlet I actually found myself shying away from it. I had so many thoughts but none that I could articulate and when I was finally able to put words on paper, my…
  • Grow Some What!!?

    19 Oct 2014 | 6:04 pm
    Not happy in your relationship anymore? Grow some balls and get out. Listen to The Love Hawk’s advice on “Lifestyles with Sue” on 1045 Fresh FM. Hopefully this can give you or someone you know a push in the right direction. Listen Now:
  • Do You Got Game?

    19 Oct 2014 | 5:56 pm
    The Love Hawk is proud to be part of ‘Lifestyles with Sue’ on 1045 Fresh FM! Sometimes you just need a bit of confidence to be successful in the dating world. Do you got game? Listen Now:
  • Don’t Let Things Get Stale

    19 Oct 2014 | 5:38 pm
    The Love Hawk is excited to be part of a new Relationship Segment for ‘Lifestyles with Sue’ on 1045 Fresh FM! Take a listen to the first one now and find out how to get that spark back into your relationship and make sure to check back every Thursday morning for more advice:
  • Real Love Never Ends

    8 Jul 2014 | 1:28 pm
    I’m convinced that most people in the world have never experienced true love. I am certain that many people are very well loved and care deeply for those in their lives but what I’m talking about is that soul mate kind of stuff. That fire. That passion. That moment when you look at someone and you are positive your heart will absolutely burst. I don’t mean the love that parents have for children or best friends have together or even the love you have for your pets. This is the feeling between two people that gives both of them butterflies and makes them goofy smile like children. They…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Dear Annie: Making a Profile

    Lazlo Toth
    30 Oct 2014 | 7:26 am
    Dear Annie, I am a single submissive looking for a dominant partner. I am definitely “for real” but I hesitate to put my picture out in public because of my job. What tips do you have for creating an attractive profile that will still keep me safe? Anonymous in Atlanta Dear Anonymous, Privacy is the number one concern for all people in the kink community. If you can’t have your own pictures on your profile, why not use someone else’s? Google images is full of attractive people and if you pick one that kinda looks like you, what is the harm? You also might want to…
  • Chainsaw Fetish Play “Fun But Dangerous”

    Chance Berquist
    29 Oct 2014 | 7:14 am
    KANSAS CITY, UTAH A new fad is sweeping the Utah BDSM community–chainsaw play. “It’s really hot,” says submissive KittyKatKlaws, 22. “I love the sounds, the smells of the burning oil and gasoline, and the effects. It is like artistic cutting, but edgier. I am all about edge play.” Master Quint Zingerbacker, 57, says he got the idea after spending a few months working in Oregon as a lumberjack. “I thought, hey, these things are cool. I wonder if I could use a chainsaw in a BDSM scene.” Zinergbacker started by just bringing his Husqvarna 460…
  • Study Finds 86% of Rapists Also “Douchebags”

    Lazlo Toth
    28 Oct 2014 | 7:19 am
    SAN ANTONIO, NEVADA Researchers from San Antonio University have recently completed a survey of convicted rapists serving time at the San Antonio Men’s Correctional Facility. According to the study’s principal researcher, Jennifer Lawndale, Ph D, most rapists also rated as either “mostly douchebag” or “complete douchebag” on the study’s scale. “I guess it isn’t really surprising. I mean they are rapists, so the fact that they are douchebags shouldn’t really shock anyone,” said Lawndale. The response from douchebags has been one…
  • Movie Review: The Hobbit

    Emily Devonshire
    27 Oct 2014 | 7:04 am
    Hi Emily here, with my review of Peter Jackson’s awesome movie The Hobbit. First off, as a disclaimer, I am a huge fan of both The Lord of the Rings movies and the JRR Tolkien books. I’ve read all of them about a dozen times, including The Hobbit. I love this movie so much, I was desperate to see it. I would do anything. Anything. So when the movie came out, I decided not to see it in the theaters, but to wait until it came on cable so I could watch it on a really small screen with bad sound. Of course, every time I wanted to watch it, I couldn’t find it and whenever it was…
  • Dear Annie: Metric System

    Annie Cumswallow
    26 Oct 2014 | 7:20 am
    Dear Annie, My master insists that I refer to his penis in metric terms (he thinks it makes it sound better to say 5 cm or 50 millimeters).  But I am afraid if I keep doing it, people will think I am Canadian (or worse).  It has spilled over into other areas of my life as well.  Yesterday, I referred to the speed limit in kilometers per hour.  Help! Not Canadian in Norfolk Dear Not Canadian, I can understand your misgivings about being confused with our neighbors to the north.  Being Canadian makes people think you are polite and don’t mind the cold.   If you are like me, neither…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • We Must Teach Our Sons to Take Breaks From Internet Porn During Masturbation

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    30 Oct 2014 | 6:50 am
    Boys after about 13 years of age usually masturbate daily. If they are anywhere near the internet (smart phone, tablets, family computer or friends) they are using internet porn during masturbation. If no one tells our sons to balance their masturbation with different types of imagery and sensory input, how will they know of the potential risks? The post We Must Teach Our Sons to Take Breaks From Internet Porn During Masturbation appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Everybody’s Marriage Stinks Sometimes, Including Mine

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    29 Oct 2014 | 6:55 am
    Last week we had a BIG fight. The big chill lasted for several days. During these days we read, separately, Jed Diamond’s new book Stress Relief for Men, and then discussed it together (once we were speaking and not accusing each other of all the evil in the world). The post Everybody’s Marriage Stinks Sometimes, Including Mine appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Debunking The Myths of Sexual Pain

    Guest Author
    28 Oct 2014 | 7:34 am
    Guest author Dr. Heather Jeffcoat clears up some common myths of sexual pain based on the stories she has heard from her patients and colleagues. These comments have been repeated time and time again; and at least one will sound familiar to you. I wish I had known about Dr. Jeffcoat years ago! The post Debunking The Myths of Sexual Pain appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Male chastity play: What is it?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    24 Oct 2014 | 6:07 am
    Q& A with Dr. E this week answers a question on male chastity play: My husband has a hot new boss who is always hitting on him. I told him I don't trust him when he has to work late. He suggested a "male chastity device" that I hold the key to. What is he talking about? The post Male chastity play: What is it? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Should you have sex with someone you fear this much?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:50 am
    This new scrotal condom reduces skin-to-skin contact in the scrotum and pubic region. What do you think of the Scroguard? The post Should you have sex with someone you fear this much? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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    Nighttime Adventures

  • First Fuck, Then Date – A Recipe for Success (I)

    21 Oct 2014 | 8:23 am
    I have to admit I was a bit surprised when Greg called. It had been a week since our (ahem) meeting, so I had already lost hope. But he had a very good reason, work-related, so I didn’t hold it against him. He suggested we meet for drinks in a bar, then had to a restaurant he loved a lot (Indian food). To be perfectly honest, I was hoping for this date to be a complete fail. I wanted to believe there was nothing there besides great sex. Of course, karma hates me and the guy is absolutely charming. His line of work is fascinating, he is a well-read, perfect gentleman and a sight for sore…
  • Hands Only, Please (II)

    13 Oct 2014 | 6:22 am
    [Part 1 here] His apartment was definitely the coldest home I had ever stepped into. Everything was black & white and there was a lot of glass. However, his living room suddenly seemed warmer to me when I noticed the huge piano. That’s when it all started to make sense to me. He wasn’t just a neophyte, a snobbish guy who bought a piano just to make his home look fancier. He told me he was a concert pianist for the city’s philharmonic orchestra. Hence, his skilled hands, of course. He was a man of few words, so we got down to business quite fast. He told me he had always…
  • Hands Only, Please! (I)

    6 Oct 2014 | 1:19 pm
    In my last post, I spoke about being on the wonderful subreddit called “Dirty PenPals“. The chats I had there with random people from all over the world made me want to explore even more kinks. I’m not talking about hardcore fetishes (well, not only), but also about things that are out of the ordinary. And, since the best things come to those who wait, I recently had a very pleasant surprise. Yours truly was at a bar, not necessarily looking for sex, but rather keen on observing people. Some sort of real life DPP. Just like every good story, this one also starts when a girl…
  • Sexual (n)Etiquette

    1 Oct 2014 | 3:23 am
    This post is long overdue, but, hey, better late than never. In fact, it was prompted by some people’s comments on this blog and by my activity in a wonderful subreddit called DirtyPenPals. In a nutshell, it’s a place for people to share their fantasies and role play them with other redditors. I’ve been using this subreddit for several months now. Of course, there have been good times and bad times, I’ve met wonderful people with delightful, sick fantasies, as well as scums. I know I can’t ask too much from strangers looking for a quick fix on the Internet, but I…
  • To Fuck Or To Date (II)

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:30 am
    [Part 1 here] From the moment I saw Dan looking at the feast I had prepared, I know this was one terrible mistake. Of course, he enjoyed it and he said that he couldn’t believe I was capable of doing that. Then he started talking about my sexually free spirit. He put the two together and concluded I was amazing. I could see he wanted to say “perfect” initially, but decided to tone it down a bit. Not enough, by my standards. It was just like being in a frickin’ relationship. We finished the meal, then he needed some downtime. I’m sure that, had I owned a TV, he…
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    The Sin Doll

  • The Virginity Review

    Sin Doll
    26 Oct 2014 | 1:45 pm
    I lost my virginity when I was in my mid-teens. SGirl and I had a lot of friends. We traveled from one group to another. Different groups, different schools, different ages, we were in it. We were there. We did a significant amount of socializing, drinking, and hot-boxing in bathrooms. We were stupid teenagers. Best [...] The post The Virginity Review appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Daddy’s Little Liar A New Technique You Deserve It
  • Doll In Chains

    Sin Doll
    25 Oct 2014 | 4:36 pm
    He fucks me hard. He holds my throat He pulls my chains as my thighs explode. Click the kiss to see who else is being sinful this Sunday. The post Doll In Chains appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Panty Dropper Frenzy Roll Over
  • Sex Toy Gun

    Sin Doll
    24 Oct 2014 | 8:39 am
    Yesterday I was on my Fetlife account. I was scrolling through someone’s pictures. One popped up with the caption “Daddy’s new prize for me!” Her new prize was a bit. It was covered in some type of yellowed, plastic-ish thing. What… wha… o.O. So it’s brand new, and it’s yellow-ing-ish. I wish I had the [...] The post Sex Toy Gun appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
  • The Warehouse

    Sin Doll
    22 Oct 2014 | 5:27 pm
    She was barefoot. The busty brunette thrashed at her handlers. Her sandals flew off her feet when she kicked. She was through the back of a strip-mall office and into an empty warehouse. They pushed her against a dark, dusty van and frisked her thoroughly. A man’s hands wove around her. They dove beneath her [...] The post The Warehouse appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Instincts
  • T.M.I. Tuesday – What’s in Your Car?

    Sin Doll
    21 Oct 2014 | 9:10 am
    TMI Tuesday: Oct. 21, 2014 Posted on October 20, 2014by TMI Tuesday blog What’s In Your Car? Answer these questions as they pertain to your personal mode of transportation. 1. What CD is in your Cd player? I don’t usually listen to my CD player. Most of the time I bluetooth music from my phone through [...] The post T.M.I. Tuesday – What’s in Your Car? appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
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    Wiz's Daily Dose

  • Althea Heart @Althea_Heart featured in Blackmen Magazine

    Words by Henny
    29 Oct 2014 | 7:35 pm
    One of the stars of VH1’s Love and Hip Hop Atlanta Althea Heart is featured in Blackmen Magazine. Checkout scans of Althea’s spread from the issue courtesy of Follow Althea via @luvheraltheaheart and she’s also on twitter @Althea_Heart
  • Ashlee Monroe @ashleymonroe_ag – poolside images by @cclarkfotos

    Words by Henny
    29 Oct 2014 | 10:20 am Here’s dope throwback set seen first at featuring the sensational Ashley Monroe and if you haven’t seen her worldstar video, click the link Checkout one of ATL’s finest collabing with C Clark Photography creating magic poolside. Awesome!! Follow Ashley on twitter @ashleymonroe_ag and you can also find her on instagram @iamashleemonroe also check a quick clip from her shoot here
  • Presenting Tresee @tresee “ink candy Selections” images by @b_classic_ent B. Classic Photo

    Words by Henny
    28 Oct 2014 | 8:10 pm
    Here’s a lovely discovery courtesy of B. Classic Photo, checkout aspiring model Tresee residing out of the DC area. Sexy ink candy For more info follow her on instagram @Tresee
  • Presenting London Bugatti – Show Magazine Issue #27

    Words by Henny
    28 Oct 2014 | 10:09 am
    London Bugatti PHOTOS BY: Sean Cummings, @SHOW_MAGAZINE HAIR & MAKEUP BY: Christian, @Christianthemua BOOKING INFO:: Visit: for exclusive images and video from this issue IM London Bugatti an exotic dancer & aspiring model ! What I want to accomplish in my lifetime … I want to be sexy, rich & famous with a lot of structured businesses behind me. How Im going to get there .. Im working very hard on schooling & exotic dancing to branch off into being a young black sexy single woman in the field of real estate,…
  • Presenting Fitness model Amanda Ruller @Ruller2a images by @fftv1 Ramon Vincent

    Words by Henny
    27 Oct 2014 | 8:06 pm
    Name: Amanda Ruller Height: 5’1 Weight: 125lb Waist: 25 inches Size: Small, 0-2 Facebook: Twitter: @Ruller2a Instagram: @amandaruller Web: Bio: I have an extreme passion for speed and power. I dedicated my university career to competing in CIS track and field for the University of Regina as a sprinter. While competing, I captured many national standards and university sprint records as well as achieving my Bachelors of Kinesiology degree. Being one of the top CIS 60meter sprinters in Canada I was approached by the Canadian Bobsleigh and…
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