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  • How To Give Your Girl An Intense, Full-Body Orgasm That Makes Her Squirt All Over Your Bed… Guaranteed!

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    Dan & Jennifer
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:29 am
    This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the type of FULL-BODY, screaming-at-the-top-of-her-lungs orgasm that no guy has EVER given her before… whether it’s your first night together or you’ve been dating for years… In this video you’re going to learn a simple trick to give any woman an orgasm so intense and so powerful,  it will dramatically increase the level of dopamine in her limbic system – causing her brain to become sexually addicted to that feeling… making her sexually addicted to you. Why This Is “The Ultimate…
  • 5 Weird Dildos I Totally Want to Try

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    Adriana
    25 Jul 2014 | 4:11 am
    Yea, okay. Weird is a subjective term, especially when you’ve purchased a tentacle dildo for a friend as a Christmas gift, and you’ve use multiple glass dildos that look like undersea creatures. 1. Cthulhu Necronomicox makes the “Myths” dildo, which is everyone’s favorite creature from a horror story. This one’s made of silicone while many strange dildos I’d try are made of questionable latex. His tentacle tail is super adorable. You can get customize the dildo in one, two or three colors. Buy it for $125. The Xeno art dildo from the same company is…
  • Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Sunday

    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex
    Violet Blue
    20 Jul 2014 | 1:19 am
    Candy S., Coco – Artist Loft Coco, Sylvia – Black and White (bondage) Bailey Bradshaw, India Summer, gentleman friend – Study session turns sexual Brandi Love, Kiera Winters, Seth – Caught With Your Pants Down Samia Duarte, others – Crossfit orgy (“Sadistic Trainer”), X-Confessions Katy, Denis and Medina – Two good reasons Lutro and Medina – Get back to me asap Megan Coxxx, Kai Taylor, Aleena Jonez – Busty milf in her first threesome Jassie Gold, Ben – Natural Beauty Jasmine James, gentleman friend – The Club Content…
  • Links Round Up: Week Ending 26 July 2014

    (( VaginaPagina ))
    26 Jul 2014 | 11:08 am
    Welcome to the latest edition of our Links Round Up! For folks who don't know, the LRU is a compilation of items from the past week that may be of interest to VPers and is intended to broaden the kinds of conversations we have here.To submit articles for next week's round-up, e-mail vpteam@vaginapagina.com. If you have additional articles you'd like folks to know about this week, feel free to comment directly to this post.As a reminder, in lieu of trigger warnings, I use keywords describing the themes of the piece. Please skim these before deciding to read the excerpt or click through for the…
  • Comfort Sex

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    Corey
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:09 am
    One thing that separates humans from all other species is our ability to make meaning out of things. The meaning we place on the things in our life are often more important than the things themselves. It’s not money, it’s safety from poverty or a way to get what you want. It’s not just a job, it’s a calling or it’s a means to an end. There is one area where meaning runs rampant … sex. It’s how you express love, experience pleasure, demonstrate power, connect, bond, play, submit, manage anxiety, confirm your sexiness, and on and on. So is it possible…
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    Bound, Not Gagged

  • “SAVE” Bill would Help Traffickers and Hurt Youth, Homeless and Other Vulnerable Groups – Take Action!

    Serpent
    21 Jul 2014 | 4:03 pm
    Originally posted on Sex Worker Outreach Project - Chicago: Senator Kirk (IL) and Senator Feinstein (CA) recently introduced a bill (S. 2536) to the federal senate which would change requirements for placing adult advertisements, as well as record-keeping requirements for adult advertising websites. The bill, titled the “Kirk-Feinstein Stop Advertising Victims of Exploitation (SAVE) Act”  can be found here. The bill would impact any individual who places an online ad for any adult service (fetish, stripping, body rub, escort, and adult film), as well as all websites that contain…
  • Medical Survey of Human Trafficking Victims

    Amanda Brooks
    9 Oct 2013 | 10:34 am
    I’ve been asked to pass this along. The survey looks at medical care recieved by victims of human trafficking in the US during the time they were trafficked. It recognizes both sex and labor trafficking. The survey is available in English, Spanish, and Haitian Creole. The intro letter: Hello, I am an emergency medicine physician (currently at Columbia-NY Presbyterian, but still affiliated with Mount Sinai Medical Center) in NYC, conducting an anonymous survey of human trafficking survivors. The survey was designed with Dr. Susie Baldwin and the aim is learn more about survivors’…
  • Selling Consensual Sex Means Jail. Doctor Sexually Assaults 7 Women, No Jail

    jillbrenneman
    31 May 2013 | 3:31 pm
    This is so wrong on so many levels.  From USA Today  31 May 2013 Seven women tearfully recounted in court how their doctor abused their trust to sexually exploit them.  Then they watched a judge sentence him to probation Thursday instead of prison. http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/2013/05/31/iowa-doctor-sexual-abuse/2376235/ ALFRED, Maine (AP) — A Zumba fitness instructor who pleaded guilty to using her Maine studio as a front for prostitution is going to jail, bringing to an end a scandal featuring sex videos, adultery and exhibitionism. Alexis Wright was sentenced Friday under a…
  • Cleveland Kidnapping

    jillbrenneman
    8 May 2013 | 10:09 am
    I understand this is a bit off topic as there hasn’t been information released, to my knowledge, isn’t inherently related to sex work. Although as sex workers we are all vulnerable to this kind of situation. Some of us have faced it first hand ourselves. But for anyone who knows me or knows of me these events obviously touch me on many levels very deeply. These girls are heroes beyond imagination. While the man who helped get them out is being called the hero and he is. His efforts still are tiny in comparison to what these girls endured for ten years. If they ever stumble on to…
  • Sex Worker Conference in Las Vegas- Register and/or Submit Your Proposal!

    scarlotharlot
    7 Dec 2012 | 4:07 pm
    5th Desiree Alliance Conference-The Audacity of Health: Sex Work, Health, and Politics July 14-19, 2013 Las Vegas, NV   http://desireealliance.org/conference.htm Registration is Now Open for the 5th Desiree Alliance Conference Please read the registration details below to begin the process. http://www.desireealliance.org/conference/Registration.htm Submit proposals for presentations by April 1, 2013 http://www.desireealliance.org/conference/CFP.htm The Desiree Alliance is a national social justice organization that is led by current and former sex workers in coalition with health…
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    Audacia Ray

  • best. dog shaming. ever.

    16 Jul 2014 | 8:34 am
    best. dog shaming. ever.
  • RedUP is hiring a PT Community Organizer in Brooklyn!

    8 Jul 2014 | 11:41 am
    RedUP is hiring a PT Community Organizer in Brooklyn!: redupnyc: The Red Umbrella Project (RedUP) is a small peer-led organization based in Brooklyn, New York, which amplifies the voices of people in the sex trades to take greater control of their lives and livelihoods through sustained and structured peer-mentoring initiatives, multimedia storytelling… Oh hey, RedUP is hiring and you should take a look, pass it on, help me find one badass person (sex workers highly preferred) in NYC who can help me keep RedUP awesome.
  • ""“The jury has the right to judge both the law as well as the fact in controversy.” And it remains..."

    7 Jul 2014 | 8:11 pm
    “"“The jury has the right to judge both the law as well as the fact in controversy.” And it remains entirely legal for a jury to acquit, regardless of the evidence, as a means of resisting unjust laws and sentencing. Juries have nullified to protest injustices throughout American history—in defense of the Boston Tea Party, against the Fugitive Slave Act, against Prohibition. Despite this proud tradition, nullification has been a well-kept secret since 1895, when the Supreme Court ruled that while juries had the right to nullify, judges were not required to inform them of this power.
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    4 Jul 2014 | 6:57 am
  • thekateblack: On June 21st, I broke my ankle. Like a lot of...

    1 Jul 2014 | 8:48 pm
    thekateblack: On June 21st, I broke my ankle. Like a lot of people, I live hand to mouth and have no insurance. The hospital and doctor visits are expensive. Medical devices are expensive. Cabs to/from my medical visits are expensive. Losing wages while I can’t work is expensive. Life without the mobility to do all the things I used to do to have a decent quality of life is expensive. Asking for help is depressing as fuck, and I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t have to. What I need MOST is money. If you’d like to donate, click here. I also need mobility. If you are in NYC and have a car and…
 
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  • Periods After Stopping HBC/Delaying Periods

    28 Jul 2014 | 2:25 pm
    I have been on HBC (ortho-tricyclen lo and its generics) for 8 years now, continuously. Before I was on HBC, I had periods that lasted 8-9 days and were pretty heavy, as well as painful ovulation before and cramping before/during my period. On HBC, my periods were 4-5 days, light, and pain-free. I recently moved to a different city 4 hours from home, and as luck would have it, it happened to coincide with my annual PAP/BC prescription renewal. I already used my "free pass" on the annual exam to get my BC for another month, and neglected to see a doctor where I am now, and my gyno back home…
  • Lube recommendations?

    26 Jul 2014 | 2:46 pm
    Hi, Superstars!The BF and I are on the hunt for a new brand of lube. We've previously had problems with glycerin-containing lubes, as well as coconut oil, so we are looking for a non-coconut oil, non-glycerin-containing, relatively affordable brand of lube.We generally don't use condoms, so we don't have to worry about products that can break them down. Flavored and non-flavored lubes are both fine.If you have any recommendations for sample packs, we'll take those as well! I browsed through the lube tag, but most of the links (especially to sample packs) are dead since the…
  • Links Round Up: Week Ending 26 July 2014

    26 Jul 2014 | 11:08 am
    Welcome to the latest edition of our Links Round Up! For folks who don't know, the LRU is a compilation of items from the past week that may be of interest to VPers and is intended to broaden the kinds of conversations we have here.To submit articles for next week's round-up, e-mail vpteam@vaginapagina.com. If you have additional articles you'd like folks to know about this week, feel free to comment directly to this post.As a reminder, in lieu of trigger warnings, I use keywords describing the themes of the piece. Please skim these before deciding to read the excerpt or click through for the…
  • Silly question about pregnancy risk

    26 Jul 2014 | 9:27 am
    Hey people!I have a really stupid question, but I don't know where to find accurate info about this (Google search comes up with things like yahoo answers mostly). I'm terrified of getting pregnant, in order to avoid that my boyfriend and I use condoms and pull out, and we avoid doing it during ovulation week (which I know is not as accurate as online trackers predict, but it's an extra tiny layer of safety). Problem is, boyfriend wants to ejaculate on my ass and I'm wondering if somehow semen could drip and get me pregnant somehow? It seems like a super paranoid reasoning but what if?! He…
  • Ideas on delayed ovulation?

    25 Jul 2014 | 2:51 pm
    This was me http://vaginapagina.livejournal.com/21870131.htmlthat was, a year and a half ago. my periods have been totally normally during this time. This month the same thing happened again. Again no risk of pregnancy. I can't think of much to add, perhaps there was not fertile mucus at the correct time. (or certainly not a lot) on both occasions my period arrived 2 weeks after fertility symptoms (which is normal for me) , and with worse cramping than than normal, but nothing else out of the ordinary. I'm 36, so perhaps its my ageing ovaries, a hormone imbalance I'm open to ideas. thanks
 
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    Blogul Lu' Mihai

  • Aplicații pentru iPhone

    James
    24 Jul 2014 | 7:06 am
    Telefonul inteligent și iPhone-ul par a fi în competiție foarte strâns unele cu altele. Telefonul inteligent se pare ca este cel mai apropiat comparația cu iPhone-ul cu aspectul său, design si caracteristici. Există totuși unele caracteristici care trage cele două în afară. Cea mai tare iPhone gadget mână este, fără îndoială, cel mai bun telefon pentru toți oamenii de internet savvy din lume. Aici sunt unele dintre sfaturile de care se va adăuga doar până la distracție de a folosi acest obiect gadget extins mână. Gândiți-vă la a fi, fără a iPhone-ul de ceva timp…
  • Cum coenzima Q10 poate beneficia sanatatii tale

    James
    24 Jul 2014 | 6:33 am
    Știați că există un supliment care poate întări inima, muschi si organe? Coenzima Q10 a început să primească o mulțime de atenție, datorită beneficiilor sale de sănătate potențiale. Cu toate acestea, mulți oameni care ar trebui să fie luat aceasta nu sunt, deoarece acestea nu au nici o idee despre efectele sale. Ce este Coenzima Q10? Înțelegerea CoQ10 va face îți dai seama cât de important această substanță este de a ajuta mentine corpul activ și sănătos. Celulele au o structură numite mitocondrii, care are grasimi si zaharuri și le transformă în energie. Este…
  • Fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz

    James
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:21 am
    Mercedes-Benz este de fapt un producător german de automobile high-end, autobuze, camioane și autocare. Inca de la Organizatia a fost fondata in 1886, a fost o divizie a societății-mamă, Daimler AG. Mercedes-Benz este bine cunoscut din cauza calității lor și robustețe de automobile lor. Cantitatea de caracteristici tehnologice și de securitate care Mercedes a adus la industria este incomensurabil și a devenit o caracteristică necesară în aproape toate celelalte vehicule. Enumerate aici sunt unele fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz. Automobile Mercedes-Benz au fost observate…
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    All Blogs - XXXchurch

  • Craig's Car Ride - Coming To You August 5th!

    28 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    // Over the years we have had several different Podcasts. Let me take you on a throw back tour. Dirty Little Secrets -  100 episodes with amazing guests (Audio only)X3TV - 45 video episodes X3’s Company - 13 video episodes and over 200 of your questions answeredXXXchurch Voices -  19 episodes on video with your favorite rock starsPorn Kills - Video and a lot moreOpen 24/7 - 13 extended video sit down interviews with some amazing friendsAnd now. The simplest one to date. Launching August 5th every other Tuesday we are bringing you Craig’s Car Ride. That’s me.
  • Don’t Look at the Parts. Look at the Whole.

    27 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Being that I’m a writer who works from home, I tend to catch a lot of television---and then I go online to research things about it. After taking a writing break recently and watching a rerun of one of my all-time favorite shows (and yes, this is about to reveal my age-LOL) Family Ties, the one when Alex P. Keaton gave his virginity to a college girl who kicked him to the curb the very next day. Even I had to process that it was a (wow!) 1982 episode. I had to take in just how much has changed. I say that because later that day I tried to watch some of the series premiere of…
  • 5 Ways to Build Integrity

    26 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    One thing I find in short supply at times is, unfortunately, integrity. I think that’s part of the reason we value it so much when we find someone who actually displays it. It’s a breath of fresh air. However, it’s one thing to know you might lack integrity in certain areas (like your sex life), but something else entirely to learn how to develop it. Integrity is about more than just doing the right thing (Tweet This!); it’s about building the kind of character that can survive a crisis intact. In the same way that a building with integrity can survive a storm, a life…
  • Another successful Strip Church Training in the books!

    25 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    We had close to 20 women come from all over the country-including a couple ladies from Canada!   We always get a variety of women that have a heart for this ministry.  Some are ex-industry, while others have never even stepped foot into a strip club! This training was unique from our past trainings because we ran it in conjunction with the Exxxotica Porn Convention outreach where XXXChurch set up the famous "Jesus Loves Porn Stars" booth. The first day of training we decided last minute to take the trainees across the street to the convention since it was "ladies night.”…
  • Do You Think You’re Valuable?

    24 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    What do you find valuable? Maybe an heirloom that’s been treasured for generations in your family? Or maybe a new car, with all the latest technology in it? Or perhaps you look at something less material as valuable, like social status or popularity? Now think about this: what if I smashed your heirloom against the wall? Or drove that car off an overpass? Or gossiped about you and damaged your social status? Would you be angry? Of course! Something you found valuable was damaged in some way! So now here’s the next question: Do you think of yourself as valuable?

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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Incomplete HPV vaccination may offer some protection

    24 Jul 2014 | 11:43 am
    Minority women who received the Human Papillomavirus Vaccination even after becoming sexually active had lower rates of abnormal Pap test results than those who were never vaccinated, researchers report. According to the researchers, continued surveillance of HPV vaccination is necessary to identify clinical benefits, particularly given the low rate of vaccine uptake and completion and vaccination of many young women after sexual debut.
  • Linking microbial, immune environment in semen to HIV viral load, transmission

    24 Jul 2014 | 11:42 am
    HIV infection re-shapes the relationship between semen bacteria and immune factors which in turn affects viral load, suggesting that the semen microbiome plays a role in sexual transmission of HIV, researchers report. While HIV is found in many body fluids, sexual transmission through semen is the most common route of infection.
  • Link between ritual circumcision procedure, herpes infection in infants examined by analysis

    24 Jul 2014 | 11:14 am
    A rare procedure occasionally performed during Jewish circumcisions that involves direct oral suction is a likely source of herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) transmissions, a literature review has found. The practice -— known as metzitzah b’peh -— and its link to HSV-1 infections have sparked international debate in recent years, yet no systematic review of the literature has been published in a peer-reviewed journal examining the association and potential risk.
  • Control of HIV pandemic will not be achieved without radical improvement in support for sex workers

    22 Jul 2014 | 6:17 am
    Across the world, in high- and low-income countries, women, men, and transgender people who sell sex are subjected to repressive and discriminatory law, policy, and practice, which in turn fuel human rights violations against them, including violence and discrimination. All of these factors are preventing sex workers from accessing the services which they need in order to effectively prevent and treat HIV infection, according to a major new Series on HIV and sex workers.
  • Communication about female condom vital to young adults, researchers say

    21 Jul 2014 | 11:22 am
    Communication researchers examine sexual health messages aimed at young college adults about the female condom. The first female condom was introduced in the U.S. in 1993, but drew little interest due to several reasons including mixed or negative portrayals in the media. The Food and Drug Administration approved the second version of the female condom in 2009.
 
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • I need a class in Time Management

    Lilly
    27 Jul 2014 | 9:54 am
    Maybe you’ve noticed, maybe you haven’t, but I haven’t been as active on social media much in the last few weeks. I’ve slowed down a little on the blog posts. The answer is quite simple: I had to get a civilian job. I didn’t want to, but I’m just not making enough from all of this right now. Luckily, I managed to snag a part-time job where I’m alone basically babysitting an office and the office isn’t very busy. In my two weeks so far, many days I had no customers coming in. So, once I get myself all set up (now that I’m past the training,…
  • Jimmyjane Form 4

    Lilly
    20 Jul 2014 | 12:02 pm
    The Jimmyjane Form 4  seems to be suffering a case of mistaken identity. Everything it claims to be, it is not.  I don’t have a good history with the brand; in fact it’s well-known that I will never recommend one of their products. I fondled their Iconic line at a Babeland a few years ago and was extremely underwhelmed. Don’t even get me started on those bumblebee-in-a-can Little Something vibes. I hated the Hello Touch and I wanted to set fire to the Form 3. The Form 6 bored me so much that I never found the fucks to give to review it. I tend to think that everything made…
  • Vixen! Medium Realistic Bent vs Vixskin Tex

    Lilly
    16 Jul 2014 | 8:14 am
    The Medium Realistic Bent and Vixskin Tex are the same size, length and design – modeled after an average-sized cock with foreskin. The only difference between the two is that one is dual-density Vixskin and comes only in flesh tones, while the other is more firm and comes in colors like black and a gorgeous purple. I’m not a fan of super-realistic dildos, but the realistic design squick can be offset for me with non-realistic color options, hence why I chose the Medium Realistic Bent as my single-density Vixen to try out. Probably the only real issue I have with these two dildos…
  • 5 Things Every Sex Toy Reviewer Should Know

    Lilly
    11 Jul 2014 | 10:30 am
    This got to be a little more complicated than just 5 simple things, but more knowledge is good…right?? Right. I’ve also asked some veterans to weigh in. Epiphora made this great post for sex toy reviewers but I wanted to see if we could narrow it down and make it less about being a newbie and more about “continuing education”. So Tip #4 comes to you from Piph! I want to be clear and say that a lot of these things don’t apply to your average blogger who is just blogging to have an outlet, a writing voice, etc. That type of blogging is no less valid; you’re…
  • Contest Winners!

    Lilly
    10 Jul 2014 | 9:31 am
    I had anywhere from 80-140 people vying for EACH prize in the big 6 year giveaway which is awesome but sad at the same time. Why sad? Because I wish I could pick more than one winner per item. Also: Welcome newbies! Next contest, if you stick around, you won’t be a new visitor anymore and will get bonus Loyalty Points for the next giveaway. How? This past contest, one way I was able to do that was with my Google Plus page. There was a special post on there only visible to those following my page, which is something I’ll do again so if you’re not already following me on…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    Silvy
    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet he offers to dance with her. Bad sign.  He makes you feel you are overreacting
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    Silvy
    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze, review, and process information. Not at all. What I am suggesting is that our
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    Silvy
    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him. If a guy doesn't call back, he is giving you a message loud and clear.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    Silvy
    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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    Scarleteen

  • Words Mean Things. Specific things.

    Heather Corinna
    23 Jul 2014 | 11:19 am
    Just a brief request from us to the world-at-large, primarily with the aim of making our users lives a little easier. Secondarily, it'd also make the lives of those of us who work to help them daily in these areas easier, too, which would sure be nice. Please do us and everyone else a favor and stop using certain words with very specific meanings as general shorthand. Often some of these words and frameworks just really aren't shorthand for what you mean, and they confuse the heck out of people and make something even less clear that's already confusing enough. We do have clear, specific…
  • Represent! What are you most hoping for from your sexual life?

    Heather Corinna
    3 Jul 2014 | 8:54 am
    Welcome to our new way of polling, so you can express yourself, and get a sense of how your peers feel about certain topics, in their own words, too! We love having polls on our site so you and others can speak for yourselves -- rather than the media or older adults doing it in your stead -- and see how others feel, too. But our favourite part of the polls were always the comments, where we could all read what you had to say, rather than just seeing what short answer you chose of the options we wrote for you. So, we've swapped out the multiple-choice format and built a graffiti-wall where…
  • Everything Old is New Again: A Brief History of Casual Sex and Cultural Attitudes

    Heather Corinna
    12 Jun 2014 | 2:29 pm
    Author:  Samantha Benac and Heather Corinna Casual sex is one of those things that, so far as we know from the study of people and sex in history, people have always done. Given that for most of human history, basic survival was seriously tough, people's lives and interactions often were more brief than either are now, and many people or cultures were nomadic, it's pretty safe to say there's probably been as much, if not more, "casual" sex as "relationship" sex in all of human history. So, casual sex isn't new: it didn't only start happening in the 1960s in America or in the last five…
  • Data from the Multigenerational Experiences With and Attitudes About Casual Sex Survey (2010 - 2014)

    Heather Corinna
    6 Jun 2014 | 10:28 am
    Author:  Heather Corinna The charts below are excerpts from the far larger, ongoing Multigenerational Experiences With and Attitudes About Casual Sex Survey I have been collecting responses to since 2010. The data below reflects responses given  as of 6/8/2014. It is a broad, international survey, with the age of respondents varying from as young as 16 to over 90 years old, representing a diverse array of genders, orientations, and other kinds of identity. It includes both people who have taken part in casual sex and those who never have. At the current time, over 10,000 people have…
  • Do I need to come out as asexual?

    Molias
    27 May 2014 | 3:43 pm
    I first learned asexuality existed around a year ago. I decided to research it simply because it was something I had never heard about and wanted to be informed. I came across AVEN and several blogs with people telling about their own experiences with asexuality and debunking myths. After some time of reading about it and kind of forgot about the matter, kept the information I had researched as something to remember when talking to people. Several months later, the Sunday newspaper featured an article about asexuality. Like before, I didn't think much beyond that it was good asexuality was…
 
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • MCW: Best Period Drama

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    26 Jul 2014 | 12:50 am
    It was BuzzKill who came up with the next two weeks' themes but I was delighted to select Best Period Drama from his list. My first thought was for A Room With A View and the delightful Helena Bonham Carter or the Remains of the Day with Anthony Hopkins. But then I remembered a piece that stirred both my imagination and my [...]
  • e[lust]#5

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    23 Jul 2014 | 12:41 am
    Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #6? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s [...]
  • A Century At Twickenham

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    20 Jul 2014 | 12:34 am
    To the English, Twickenham is Rugby. The stadium’s first rugby match took place on October 2, 1909 between original tenants Harlequins, and Richmond. January 15, 1910 saw Twickenham’s first international, England vs Wales. To celebrate a century of English rugby at Twickenham, this afternoon, England strode out onto the famous turf to face Wales in the RBS 6 [...]
  • Naughty Meme of Sexual Firsts

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    17 Jul 2014 | 12:28 am
    As well as tinkering with her Blogbunnie web design to keep this site up to date with all the latest technological developments, Isabella has also tagged me to do the latest of her infamous sex memes. Here are the rules to Isabella’s Naughty Meme of Firsts: 1. Please post them at the beginning of your meme.2. [...]
  • Blog Action Day 2010 – Water

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    14 Jul 2014 | 12:24 am
    Petitions by Change.org|Start a Petition » The people running Blog Action Day’s Water campaign sent me these five salient facts. 1. Unsafe drinking water and lack of sanitation kills more people every year than all forms of violence, including war. Unclean drinking water can incubate some pretty scary diseases, like E. coli, salmonella, [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • How To Give Your Girl An Intense, Full-Body Orgasm That Makes Her Squirt All Over Your Bed… Guaranteed!

    Dan & Jennifer
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:29 am
    This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the type of FULL-BODY, screaming-at-the-top-of-her-lungs orgasm that no guy has EVER given her before… whether it’s your first night together or you’ve been dating for years… In this video you’re going to learn a simple trick to give any woman an orgasm so intense and so powerful,  it will dramatically increase the level of dopamine in her limbic system – causing her brain to become sexually addicted to that feeling… making her sexually addicted to you. Why This Is “The Ultimate…
  • What Women Who Can Have Multiple Orgasms Won’t Tell You

    Kaylen Jackson
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:00 am
    Multiple orgasms can be had, but only if a girl really knows how to let go. Here’s what girls who can have more than one orgasm know that you don’t! They Have Self Confidence Self confidence is a must when it comes to having multiple orgasms and you might could even say the same about just one orgasm. A girl who has multiple orgasms is very self confident – she knows she’s sexy, she knows you like what you see and she knows how to let go. She’s not worried about her cellulite during sex, and she’s most certainly not worried about her O-face, because she…
  • Are You Naughty Enough To Try These Bad-Girl Only Moves?

    Tony Sanskrit
    22 Jul 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips can help good girls go naughty and your man will LOVE it! Are you bad enough to try these kinky sex tips? Every good girl knows that bad girls have the best sex ever. Every man loves a bad girl, just like girls love bad boys. But the reality of being with one or being one isn’t as good as the fantasy. So if you’re a good girl, what can you take from bad girls to spice up your life? I’ve got some bad girl only sex moves, but can you handle them? Are you ready to get that naughty? Take Him So many times men have to make the first move. And while many men enjoy being dominant and…
  • 10 Ways To TEASE A Woman

    Shawna Lenee
    22 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    Foreplay is crucial for a woman to reach orgasm. Here are ten incredible ways to tease and please your girl, so you can give her the best climax of her life! The LONGER you take to get a woman’s clothes off, and the LONGER you wait to go down on her, and the LONGER you wait to have sex with her – the MORE likely she is to have an orgasm! Why & How Women Need Foreplay We’ve all heard the phrase “women are like an oven, they need to be warmed up” – but what most guys don’t know is WHY and HOW. “Why” Foreplay Is Important Guess what…
  • 6 Ways To Be The Alpha Male She CRAVES

    Shawna Lenee
    21 Jul 2014 | 10:00 am
    Sex tips show you what techniques to use, but they won’t matter if you’re a wuss who asks permission to do anything. Here’s how to be the ALPHA MALE she wants! There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight! Take Charge! These sex tips start right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction. Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet. Tease her,…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Sometimes the self-compassionate thing to do is to count your stresses so that you gain perspective

    Natalie (NML)
    25 Jul 2014 | 4:26 pm
    Over the past couple of months, I’ve become increasingly aware of counting your stresses. Sometimes we get so caught up in getting through the day to day and with the nitty gritties of the individual issues and situations, that we don’t step back and see not only the bigger picture, but also how big our stress load is. If we don’t register the magnitude of what may be high level stresses, we become acclimatised to that particular stress level until we get tipped too far. I’ve seen many a BR reader struggle with stress and it’s specifically amplified by the sense…
  • When someone’s imposing something upon you, they’re trying to remove your choice (and overstepping your boundaries)

    Natalie (NML)
    21 Jul 2014 | 3:15 pm
    Over the past few weeks, I’ve frequently used the terms ‘imposing’ and ‘imposed’ and it clicked that you always know that there is a major breach of boundaries and that you’re dealing with somebody who just doesn’t gel on the core values front, when they introduce something in a fashion that directly or indirectly communicates that you must do it ‘or else’, or where they try to force you to accept their inappropriate or downright shady behaviour, and when they combine these efforts to attempt to take advantage of you. I don’t like…
  • Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

    Natalie (NML)
    14 Jul 2014 | 2:58 pm
    One of the issues that many people who have felt burned by a relationship experience, especially those where the other party unfolded into something dramatically different to what they’d envisaged or believed, is that sense that due to having misjudged this person, they don’t feel that they can trust themselves. They worry that they’re going to invest trust in someone else who turns out to be a heavyweight bullsh*tter or who just quite simply cannot live up to the picture that they’ve painted in their minds. They relive the experience over and over again and beat themselves up for not…
  • Be careful of basing your self-esteem on the speed and content of text replies

    Natalie (NML)
    11 Jul 2014 | 4:08 pm
    I’ve witnessed a lot of tensions and conflicts between people due to the expectation that they should have got an immediate or fairly swift reply to text messages. When a person perceives a reply to be ‘slow’, it can trigger a spiral of anxiety where they wonder what they did wrong or start berating themselves for not being “good enough”, or they deem the person to be a bad friend or inconsiderate person. Do we have the right to expect an immediate or swift reply to our texts? I’ll hold my hands up and say that I’m not always Mrs Speedy with the ‘ole…
  • For some us, if we don’t have to hustle, we don’t feel interested

    Natalie (NML)
    7 Jul 2014 | 2:57 pm
    I feel for the men and women of this world who are bagged and tagged as ‘nice’ – a very vanilla term incidentally – and either discarded for not being ‘exciting’ (this is often fear, uncertainty, drama, ambiguity, and anxiety mislabeled ), or are held on to as passing time candidates aka fallback options. “I don’t really feel that interested in him/her and I don’t feel the chemistry / fireworks that I did with [the unavailable ex who may even have mistreated them] but I’m going to keep dating them in case I start to feel it soon and/or…
 
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    Simple Marriage

  • Listening to be present

    Corey
    28 Jul 2014 | 6:03 am
    Listening to be present is written by Corey from: Simple Marriage ----------- A FEW THINGS WE LOVE: Simple Marriage's eCourses - marriage help from the comfort of your own phone. Sexy Marriage Radio
  • Comfort Sex

    Corey
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:09 am
    One thing that separates humans from all other species is our ability to make meaning out of things. The meaning we place on the things in our life are often more important than the things themselves. It’s not money, it’s safety from poverty or a way to get what you want. It’s not just a job, it’s a calling or it’s a means to an end. There is one area where meaning runs rampant … sex. It’s how you express love, experience pleasure, demonstrate power, connect, bond, play, submit, manage anxiety, confirm your sexiness, and on and on. So is it possible…
  • I wish you would stop …

    Corey
    21 Jul 2014 | 5:04 am
    Every marriage, every relationship, is fraught with perpetual problems and issues. It’s common that I will counsel a couple for several sessions, they reach their desired goals, and leave with renewed hope and energy for the marriage – then come back several years later still arguing about the same issues. While each person has changed and gained (or lost) a few pounds and wrinkles, they’re still having the same argument. Perhaps you’ve even seen this in your parent’s marriage, or in your grandparent’s. They fought about the same thing their entire life. One of the leaders in the…
  • Marriage Help, When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested

    Corey
    14 Jul 2014 | 7:51 am
    I regularly receive emails from readers looking for help with a struggle in their marriage. They disclose the issues they are having as well as their desire to work on making things better. The biggest reason many people in this type of situation fail to go to counseling is their spouse is uninterested in joining the process. Perhaps they have tried counseling before and not seen any results. Or they may have no interest in counseling since it’s only for “crazy” people. At least that’s what they think. You want to work on the marriage, but your spouse isn’t…
  • Enjoy life

    Corey
    11 Jul 2014 | 5:42 am
    I had this story sent to me recently. It’s worth sharing. A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them. “Not very long,” answered the Mexican. “But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the American. The Mexican explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family. The American asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?” “I sleep late, fish a little,…
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    LUSTY LADY

  • Sex toy store mini tour photos

    Rachel
    27 Jul 2014 | 8:53 am
    I've had a wonderful time at all my events in Maryland, Virginia and Washington, DC! Here are a few photos, and I hope to return to the area in the next year. Thank you to Sugar, Lotus Blooms and Secret Pleasures for having me! These stores are the first places aside from Barnes & Noble where I've seen The Big Book of Submission in the flesh and the first time I got to sign copies for people buying them. All three stores were wonderful and I'm honored I got the chance to work with them and explore new neighborhoods. Plus, I generally have no idea how my books are doing and am biting my nails…
  • Washington, DC erotica writing workshop Saturday night

    Rachel
    25 Jul 2014 | 9:06 am
    I'll post photos soon of my events the last two nights, which have gone wonderfully. Today I'm catching up and enjoying a little downtime in the Washington, DC area before I see Capital Fringe show The Dish tonight. I wanted to repost the details about Saturday night's erotica writing workshop at sex toy store Secret Pleasures - if you know anyone in the area who might be interested, please let them know! Doing writing workshops fires me up to want to put out new calls for submissions, which I hope to do later this year. July 26, 7-8:30 pmErotica 101 writing workshop, Secret Pleasures,…
  • How many books makes you a book hoarder?

    Rachel
    25 Jul 2014 | 8:35 am
    I answer that question as well as whether you can own "too many books" in my latest essay at The Toast, which got picked up by the LA Times blog Jacket Copy! I also shouted out some of my favorite books by authors such as Dylan Landis, Matt Logelin, Mark Haskell Smith and Frank O'Hara. I'm always traveling with several print books as well as many on my Kindle, and it's a struggle sometimes to sit and enjoy one without wanting to immediately also start the next one. If only I had two heads and two sets of brains!
  • See you tonight in Baltimore at Sugar!

    Rachel
    23 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    I'm on my phone again heading to Baltimore for the first stop on my mini tour so can't do links properly but wanted to post about tonight's writing workshop. If you know anyone in the Baltimore area, please let them know. Register at the door, by calling or at http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/727184 and get more info on Sugar's site at http://sugartheshop.com/classes.htmlJuly 23, 6:30 pmErotica 101 writing workshop, Sugar, Baltimore, MarylandProfessional erotica author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, editor of over 50 anthologies such as The Big Book of Orgasms,…
  • Best Bondage Erotica 2014 now available on audio

    Rachel
    23 Jul 2014 | 3:49 am
    My latest in the annual series, Best Bondage Erotica 2014, is now available as an audiobook. Sample it free by using that link (all Audible audiobooks offer a free sample; here are the rest of mine). Happy listening!
 
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Sex News: Scissoring, Brits shun porn filters, sex geckos in space, online sex games (review)

    Violet Blue
    27 Jul 2014 | 5:52 pm
    Having Beyoncé rework her gigantic hit “Crazy in Love” for the 50 Shades trailer is a stroke of genius all the more impressive because “genius” is adamantly not a word that one would normally associate with E.L. James’s original series. It makes the chemistry-free setup between the actors almost interesting. 50 Shades of Grey’s Trailer: Genius (The Atlantic; see also: Here’s Why You Should See “Secretary” Before “Fifty Shades Of Grey”) A United Nations officials’ statement on militant group Islamic State in Iraq and Greater Syria (ISIS)…
  • Eye Candy – Best of Busty Babes

    Violet Blue
    24 Jul 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Bella O. – Pink Caprice – Just Watch Vanea H. – Touching Myself Vanea H., Vanessa O. – Just That Good (image above via) Liza Del Sierra, gentleman friends – House of Sin (image above via) Kerry, Louise, Ebony Goddexxx – Oral power play Anissa Kate – Lip Service (image below via) Lucy – Magic Massage Megan Coxxx, Kai Taylor, Aleena Jonez – Busty milf in her first threesome Maryjane Johnson, gentleman friend – Morning Seduction Jasmine James, gentleman friend – The Club Darisha – Enjoy my pussy Connie Carter – Playing…
  • Sex News: Men who hate women’s erotica, Comic Con trans panel, polyamory study

    Violet Blue
    22 Jul 2014 | 9:08 pm
    VB note: My sweetie is running the SF Marathon this Sunday to raise money for The Trevor Project, an LGBT youth suicide prevention organization. Help us meet (or beat!) our goal! While American generals have been criticized for their handling of an epidemic of sexual assaults, Australia’s army chief, David Morrison, is getting rave reviews for a blistering video he released this week demanding, through clenched teeth, that sexists in his country’s military mend their ways or find another place to work. WATCH: Australia’s army chief demonstrates how you address sex abuse (The…
  • Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Sunday

    Violet Blue
    20 Jul 2014 | 1:19 am
    Candy S., Coco – Artist Loft Coco, Sylvia – Black and White (bondage) Bailey Bradshaw, India Summer, gentleman friend – Study session turns sexual Brandi Love, Kiera Winters, Seth – Caught With Your Pants Down Samia Duarte, others – Crossfit orgy (“Sadistic Trainer”), X-Confessions Katy, Denis and Medina – Two good reasons Lutro and Medina – Get back to me asap Megan Coxxx, Kai Taylor, Aleena Jonez – Busty milf in her first threesome Jassie Gold, Ben – Natural Beauty Jasmine James, gentleman friend – The Club Content…
  • Sex News: Airbnb’s dirty logo, TSA groper, Google and Russia censorship fallout

    Violet Blue
    19 Jul 2014 | 4:07 pm
    Airbnb unveiled its new logo, which you can see above, and the consensus on Twitter is that it looks like a vagina. I wonder if they’ll run into problems on Google AdWords, Facebook or Instagram. There’s already a Tumblr dedicated to illustrating the new Airbnb logo in compromising positions. Everyone Thinks Airbnb’s New Logo Looks Like A Vagina (Except Airbnb) [Updated] (SFist) In a dramatic reversal from hardline policy created three years ago, Google — the most powerful controller of information and identity in human history — will now allow users to use any…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 404

    Dan Savage
    22 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and his buddy Lucy chat about spanking, cheating, pervy cousins and sleeping with the cab driver.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage
  • Savage Love Episode 403

    Dan Savage
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    When a guy uses concert tickets to entice you to spend time with him, should you accept, even if you feel no attraction? Or would that make you mercenary?  A lesbian wonders how to let her potential employers know that she's gay during her job interview.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Japanese bondage trailblazer Midori, about getting what you want out of a kink relationship.  Also, is the X-men character Mystique bisexual or what?  And more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by ExtremeRestraints.com. Go buy something, and be sure to enter SAVAGE2014 at…
  • Savage Love Episode 402

    Dan Savage
    8 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan welcomes special guest ranter Martha Plimpton to talk about Hobby Lobby. A gay male couple were locked in a pattern of cheating to get revenge on each other. Now that they've cut it out, how can they bring in some trust?  On the Magnum, how much do little children remember? WIll they remember the trip to Disneyland? Will they remember their first day of kindergarten? Will they remember the home video of mommy they stumbled on where she shows her bum-bum? Also, Dan chats with perversity expert Jesse Bering on people who just LOVE animals.  And so much more.  206-201-2720…
  • Savage Love Episode 401

    Dan Savage
    1 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    A gay man appears to be a straight man magnet. Straight men declare their love for him more than gay men do. Why? And how can he make it stop?!  Meanwhile, in the mountains of Alaska, a couple have reached the divide where one of them wants kids and the other doesn't. One of them will win. One will lose.  On the Magnum, it's our second Second Opinion! This time, with "Ask Amy's" Amy Dickinson who braves some raunchy territory with naughty Dan Savage.  Also, Alice Dreger on talking to your kid about pornography.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by…
  • Savage Love Episode 400

    Dan Savage
    24 Jun 2014 | 1:00 am
    A woman discovers through dubious sources that her step-mother might be cheating on her father. Dan walks her through a way to deal with this unpleasantness.  A woman still living with her ex-husband and son wonders how poly people balance all those boyfriends and girlfriends.  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes philosophy professor and gay marriage diplomat John Corvino to discuss ethics and the state of the gay rights movement. And more.  This episode is brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This episode…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • Nicki Minaj’s Completely (And Unsurprisingly) Noncontroversial Ass

    Damon Young
    28 Jul 2014 | 1:59 pm
    Nothing. Not awe. Not anticipation. Not offense. Not shock. Not intrigue. Not arousal. Nothing. Admittedly, this kinda surprised me. After hearing about Nicki Minaj’s controversial new cover art for “Anaconda”, and clicking on a link to show me Nicki Minaj’s controversial new cover art for “Anaconda”, I expected to feel..something. I wasn’t quite sure what. Just something. Anything. But aside from the recognition of Nicki Minaj in a thong (“Oh. That’s Nicki Minaj right there. She’s in a thong.“), there was nothing there.
  • 10 Things The NFL Cares Even Less About Than It Cares About Women

    Damon Young
    27 Jul 2014 | 8:47 pm
    After giving star running back Ray Rice a paltry two game suspension for punching his then-fiancee (now wife) unconscious and dragging her body through the hotel they were staying at — an act caught on film — the NFL has proven again that it gives less than two fucks about the demographic that comprises over 50% of its fanbase. (If I had to guess, I’d say the NFL gives exactly .16 fucks.) To wit, here’s a small list of things that, through their actions, the NFL has kinda, sorta, said are far more important to them than women. Dogs. The NFL shield. Weed. Fertility…
  • What Did We Learn From Robin Thicke?

    Jozen Cummings
    25 Jul 2014 | 10:10 am
    I promise you, I did not want to write about Robin Thicke and Paula Patton. My man Alex already gave Robin that work on here. Also, I spent more time than I’m comfortable admitting talking about their whole situation in the week leading up to the release of his recent album, which he named after his estranged wife. When you make a name for yourself writing about R&B and relationships, people ask you to go on their shows and discuss. That’s how I ended up on Billboard’s “Juice” podcast, NPR’s “Tell Me More”, and The PopLife Podcast. Not to mention it had all the elements to…
  • Husband Makes Spreadsheet of Wife’s Excuses for Not Having Sex

    Roll Call
    25 Jul 2014 | 10:07 am
    In the most meticulous display of bitchassness you may see this month, a frustrated husband made a spreadsheet with details of every time he asked his wife for sex and her excuses for saying no. Somehow, none of these excuses were “you’re a passive-aggressive assclown,” but the data sort of speaks for itself here. They ended up having sex three times over the course of the month and a half that he was collecting data, which is pretty amazing given how easy it is to find and watch good TV at any time. You have to love the thinking here—how could you say no to hard facts like this? Er,…
  • Fifty Shades of Bey*

    Roll Call
    25 Jul 2014 | 10:05 am
    Beyonc has set the internet on fire… again, this time by re-recording “Crazy in Love” for the soundtrack of the upcoming film adaptation of Fifty Shades of Grey. The new version is slower, breathier, and sexier, and it’s pretty much the exact sort of thing you’d overlay sexually tense shots of two okay-looking White people with. The song seems to be getting more buzz than the movie itself, though that isn’t terribly surprising. *Jay-Z would probably call that a triple entendre. He’d be wrong, but we’re still cleverer than thou. Booyashaka.
 
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • Courtney Love Dishes Some Exciting News On The Kurt Cobain Biopic

    huffington-post-celebrity
    28 Jul 2014 | 2:18 pm
    Courtney Love released some (very exciting!) news regarding the biopic centered around Nirvana frontman Kurt Cobain. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post
  • 11 Secrets To Being Uh-mazing In Bed

    womenshealth
    28 Jul 2014 | 1:17 pm
    Contrary to popular belief, you don't need a working knowledge of 52 sex positions or a background in porn to be ridiculously good in bed. Instead, it comes down to more subtle (and realistic) factors that you may already posses. And if you don't, we're here to help you hone the skills you really need to blow your partner's mind. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 8 Celebrity Women Who Earn More Than Their Guys

    macydaniela
    28 Jul 2014 | 1:10 pm
    Sometimes the woman makes more than the man. There's nothing wrong with that! And it even happens in Hollywood. From Nicole Richie to Oprah, we've rounded up 8 celebrity women who make more than their significant other.
  • Show Just Enough Skin With These Sexy Off-the-Shoulder Styles

    kgranero
    28 Jul 2014 | 11:53 am
    From sweet crop tops to sexy minis, this season is all about showing off some serious shoulder. Scoop up one (or all six) of these breezy styles to make a statement tonight.
  • 10 Ridiculous Things Women Have To Put Up With On A First Date

    kristen_d
    28 Jul 2014 | 11:43 am
    Both men and women go into dates with a set of preconceived notions. Today, let's examine the ones that tend to screw women when it comes to dating. These are the expectations that make us tired, frustrated and a little cranky. So do yourselves a favor, and drop certain ideas. It'll do us all a solid. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • The First Official Fifty Shades of Grey Film Trailer

    Stephanie
    24 Jul 2014 | 9:03 am
    Anastasia Steele stumbles out of the lift and into a world of sex, love and power play, guided and dominated by the infallibly dressed Christian Grey. The first official trailer for the Fifty Shades of Grey movie was aired this morning in the USA, and it. is. steamy. Featuring a flogger, restraint set, riding crop, and a whole lot of smouldering sexual tension, the trailer is a torturous tease for the film, due to be released Valentine's Day 2015. Until then, fans of Fifty Shades and of bondage in general have the chance to win a luxury weekend break for two in Europe's biggest ever sex…
  • Lovehoney Hits 75,000+ Sex Toy Reviews!

    Nicole
    24 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    If you're subscribed to our mailing list you'll already know that we recently hit 75,000 sex toy reviews! That's a lot of opinions on sex toys, lingerie and bondage gear! We're really excited about reaching 75,000 reviews, because we love hearing what you have to say about your latest purchase. We're very proud that Lovehoney is the biggest database of sex toy reviews, because we know that helps our customers make informed decisions about what to buy. Whether it's short and sweet or long and detailed, we love to see you submit your review of sex toys, lingerie or gifts and games. Read on for…
  • Enroll in the Official Fifty Shades of Grey Internship Program... Yes, You Read Correctly!

    Nicole
    22 Jul 2014 | 6:14 am
    Great news for fans of Fifty Shades of Grey this week! NBC Universal have just released an official app which allows you to get up close and personal with Christian Grey in advance of the movie release. With the free app you can register for the Fifty Shades of Grey Internship Program and "complete weekly assignments, earn badges, and unlock exclusive official content related to the upcoming Fifty Shades of Grey movie." Features of the new app include weekly assignments, photo filters inspired by the books and "exclusive rewards". Although only available on iTunes at…
  • Stone Dildos, Rectal Dilators and Olive Oil Lube: The Long History of Sex Toys

    Nicole
    16 Jul 2014 | 6:05 am
    The thing about working at a sex toy company is that conversations about inflatable butt plugs and vibrating cock rings become everyday occurrences, and even products as innovative as the Sqweel Go (left) become nothing out of the ordinary. Earlier this week, however, I took a moment to marvel at the sheer range and variety of products Lovehoney stocks - thousands upon thousands of dildos, butt plugs and cock rings - and it got me thinking about the human urge to seek sexual pleasure. The amount of technical expertise and hours of planning that go into developing each bullet vibrator begs the…
  • Oh là là: Top Five French Maid Costumes!

    Nicole
    14 Jul 2014 | 2:00 am
    It's July 14th, which means we're wishing our neighbours across the pond a happy Bastille Day. Funnily enough, over the past few years we've noticed a spike in sales of sexy French Maid costumes around Bastille Day. It's not difficult to see the appeal of these frilly outfits: they're short, skimpy and make housework fun! We're not alone with this opinion - the French Maid has been voted Britain's favourite bedroom dress up outfit - beating sexy schoolgirl, naughty nurse and sultry secretary to the top spot. Do you own a sexy French Maid costume? Do you actually get any dusting done while…
 
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. TAJU THAT HELPED ME BRING BACK MY EX LOVER

    27 Jul 2014 | 7:35 pm
    New Answer - GREAT DR. TAJU THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, my names is ALEX BECKY, am from the United State of America, i want to give thanks and honor to Dr. Taju for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hour which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. Taju proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend in the USA who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry…
  • GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. TAJU THAT HELPED ME BRING BACK MY EX LOVER

    27 Jul 2014 | 7:35 pm
    New Answer - GREAT DR. TAJU THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, my names is ALEX BECKY, am from the United State of America, i want to give thanks and honor to Dr. Taju for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hour which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. Taju proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend in the USA who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry…
  • HERBAL CURE FOR CANCER AND HIV/ADS

    24 Jul 2014 | 10:35 pm
    New Opinion - Hello everyone am julian from Ontario Canada i will like to tell everyone the help Dr Osorba renders to me i was suffering from a long time liver cancer i met someone on the internet who tell me about a great spell caster that can help me get cured and i asked for the contact of this great spell caster and i actually did contact him because i need to get cure of this deadly disease and told him about my health and i needed cure at first i thought it would work i decided to give it a try and today am cancer free and it was all with the help of Dr Osorba he sent me the medicine…
  • HERBAL CURE FOR CANCER AND HIV

    24 Jul 2014 | 10:33 pm
    New Question - Hello everyone am julian from Ontario Canada i will like to tell everyone the help Dr Osorba renders to me i was suffering from a long time liver cancer i met someone on the internet who tell me about a great spell caster that can help me get cured and i asked for the contact of this great spell caster and i actually did contact him because i need to get cure of this deadly disease and told him about my health and i needed cure at first i thought it would work i decided to give it a try and today am cancer free and it was all with the help of Dr Osorba he sent me the medicine…
  • GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. IYAYI THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX HUSBAND

    22 Jul 2014 | 9:41 pm
    New Answer - I am Mrs ANDERSON ANN from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband Barry Morgan, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara who en charm him with his beauty, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend Miss Rose and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to…
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  • HedoVibes Round Up #52

    Adriana
    28 Jul 2014 | 8:22 am
    Photo courtesy of Celaya Smash Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition. CONTESTS Giveaway: Red,…
  • 5 Weird Dildos I Totally Want to Try

    Adriana
    25 Jul 2014 | 4:11 am
    Yea, okay. Weird is a subjective term, especially when you’ve purchased a tentacle dildo for a friend as a Christmas gift, and you’ve use multiple glass dildos that look like undersea creatures. 1. Cthulhu Necronomicox makes the “Myths” dildo, which is everyone’s favorite creature from a horror story. This one’s made of silicone while many strange dildos I’d try are made of questionable latex. His tentacle tail is super adorable. You can get customize the dildo in one, two or three colors. Buy it for $125. The Xeno art dildo from the same company is…
  • Finding My Place In All This (Re: Not So Alone)

    Adriana
    20 Jul 2014 | 4:37 pm
    I have many thoughts in my head, including a fun post I want to write about weird dildos, but took took an unexpected turn on Twitter when I posted this: The loner in the crowd of sex toy reviewers — Adriana (@adriana_r) July 20, 2014 Several dozen replies, some new follows, a couple LOLs and one cuddle pile/cuddlePUDDLE (get the Liberator throe!) later, I feel reconnected with many bloggers. In fact, I think I got some perspective. Despite having done this thing for 6 years (help my celebrate by entering to win awesome sex toy prizes!), I sometimes feel like I am so not part of the…
  • 6 Year Blog Anniversary Giveaway (Multiple Prizes)

    Adriana
    16 Jul 2014 | 10:38 pm
    Perhaps it is fitting than for the six years I’ve been writing Of Sex and Love, I will be able to celebrate with six prizes to six different winners. It was unintentional. And I may throw in some Babeland gift cards, too. And I may get a few more sponsors before I finally post this, so it’s not that I can’t count, you guys. So, this is my way of saying thank you. For visiting. Commenting. Emailing. Following through broken domains and weird Tumblr situations. For sticking it out even when I wasn’t sure that I wanted to. Thank you for listening to me even when I…
  • Jopen Key Comet II

    Adriana
    14 Jul 2014 | 11:46 am
    $79.99 from Burlesque Toy Shop Have you ever just wanted something so bad? You couldn’t help but think about it? In this case, it wasn’t that I wanted the Comet and the followup, the vibrating Comet II. I wanted to love them the way that other people did. The way that people loved the Pure Wand. Perhaps I should have known better. Why wasn’t my love affair meant to be? Perhaps it’s because the curve of the Comet II is so round. I guess I prefer an angle. And the shaft is so rigid. There’s no give at all to make it work with my anatomy. There’s no give or…
 
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • The Good and the Bad of Dating a Younger Man

    Lovepanky
    28 Jul 2014 | 10:30 am
    Have you considered dating a younger man? Are you falling in love with one? Read the good and the bad sides to know if you’re actually ready for it. By Erica Roberts As you’ve in all likelihood come to notice, people often tend to be romantically interested in others within their own age group. That being said, men dating women five or even seven years younger has generally been accepted, while a woman dating a man more than a year younger than them has been looked upon as quite odd. Recently though, as women have become more socially, psychologically, and sexually liberated, some have…
  • 14 Charming Ways to Impress Her on the First Date

    Lovepanky
    28 Jul 2014 | 4:40 am
    Do you want to make a great first impression on the very first date? Just keep these 14 tips in mind, and there’s no way you’ll go wrong again! By Nathan Richer You only get one chance to make a good impression on the first date. Now, of course, some lovers have had an awful first date, and still ended up staying together to laugh about it later! But in today’s hectic and fast paced world, most people don’t have the time or the luxury for second chances. That may be unfortunate, but it’s a bitter pill that you need to swallow whether you like it or not. 14 ways to ensure your first…
  • The 8 Kinds of Friends Everyone Needs in their Life

    Lovepanky
    27 Jul 2014 | 6:33 am
    Are you missing the perfect friendship you’ve always fantasized about all your life? Having these 8 kinds of friends in your life will change all of that! By Briallyn Smith I grew up reading about best friends in novels and watching them on TV – no matter what crazy events happened, they would always have each other’s backs, and no fight was ever too big to be resolved. As a result, I found that I expected a lot from every single one of my friendships – I’d want each of my friends to be there for me all the time, to want to do things with me no matter what, and to invest as…
  • 11 Sexy Ways for Men to Get Way Better in Bed!

    Lovepanky
    26 Jul 2014 | 11:20 am
    Do you want to get into a woman’s mind and understand everything she desires and wants in bed? Read these 11 sexy ways to get there right now! By Michelle Escultura Do you want to understand a woman’s needs and desires better? For starters, what you need to know is that women can get turned on by the strangest of things. And at times, by the most contrasting of ideas! No style or sex move is a one-fits-all scenario, and only experience and communication can help you understand just what arouses a woman. Some ladies like it when men are dominant and assertive in bed. Other women are turned…
  • 20 Unmistakable Signs your Friend is Crushing on You

    Lovepanky
    25 Jul 2014 | 9:31 pm
    Do you ever feel like a friend of yours has a crush on you? Use these 20 signs, and they’ll clearly reveal if your friend is crushing on you! By Emma Spencer As much as we can read a good friend like a book, sometimes things get pretty unpredictable when love enters the equation. Have you ever felt like a friend who was just a friend has more than just friends on their mind? As hard as it can be to decipher the subtle and secret kind of love that exists when infatuation enters the picture, there are always a few clear and obvious signs that friends give away when they’re crushing on you.
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  • DARK SIDE #147 - BDSM and Religion/Spirituality PART 1 OF 2

    thedarksidepodcast
    26 Jul 2014 | 12:15 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #147 - BDSM and Religion/Spirituality PART 1 OF 2 Yes we BROKE a cardinal rule - or just getting ourselves into deep doo doo - LOL…. but WITH RESPECT - we did a Threadcast on a potentially thorny topic - but happily it was heavily discussed with respect. You, our listeners answered the following post on www.Fetlife.com ; There are NO RIGHT ANSWERS,,, this is about you and what works for you. We are wondering if we have any listeners who self identify as being both into BDSM as well as being Religious or Spiritual. - Please elaborate on your…
  • DARK SIDE #146 - Topic of More Mighty Need

    thedarksidepodcast
    9 Jun 2014 | 12:27 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #146 - Topic of More Mighty Need We received great feedback based on the last podcast - then gave our follow-up. The original topic was as follows;A listener wrote us in a question/topic about how she could encourage her Dom to dominate her more. DA and KN dance delicately around this can of worms - but dissect the topic and answer all of her questions - as best they can. -Have you ever been in a similar situation? -How do you ask for more without being disrespectful? -Are there any subtler ways that don’t require that much confidence? ^.^…
  • DARK SIDE #145 - Topic of Mighty Need

    thedarksidepodcast
    14 May 2014 | 6:04 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #145 - Topic of Mighty Need A listener wrote us in a question/topic about how she could encourage her Dom to dominate her more. DA and KN dance delicately around this can of worms - but dissect the topic and answer all of her questions - as best they can. -Have you ever been in a similar situation? -How do you ask for more without being disrespectful? -Are there any subtler ways that don’t require that much confidence? ^.^ -Do you have any good resources for new doms? -Any suggestions on how to present those resources? (My particular case…
  • DARK SIDE #144 - Topping from the bottom - Part 2

    thedarksidepodcast
    28 Apr 2014 | 7:16 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #144 - Topping from the bottom - Part 2Based on a well thought out feedback message from a listener - DA and KN answer specific questions this listener had after listening to #143 Topping from the bottom. We end with a quick discussion of twitter and read some listener tweets to DA.  _____________________________  Sponsor: TEASE_____________________________ The Dark Side is FREE to get and share with others; * Listen OR Download at TDS Webpage * alternatively you can do the same at our Podbean TDS Webpage The Dark Side is also available on…
  • DARK SIDE #143 - Topping from the bottom

    thedarksidepodcast
    23 Apr 2014 | 12:41 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #143 - Topping from the bottom The return of KnotNice ! DA and KN start with  quick update and explanation of DA being sick with a bad cold - followed by beginning to read some listener’s feedback. The first listener correspondence is a question from a submissives about what topping from the bottom is - and how to handle it. Of course this seed turns into an almost 2 hour discussion on topping from the bottom; so we will have to get to the remaining listeners messages another time. LOL - What is legitimate “topping from the bottom”.-…
 
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    Phone Sex Secrets

  • PSO Help: Dealing With Negative Feedback, Ratings &/or Reviews

    Phone Sex Secrets
    4 Jul 2014 | 9:27 am
    After a few months of running the phone sex review site, some things have become quite clear: some phone sex operators don’t know how to properly handle less than glowing reviews. Just as you can make the most of your positive reviews, you can make a real mess out of less than favorable reviews. In […]
  • The Problem With NiteFlirt Social Shouts

    Phone Sex Secrets
    30 Jun 2014 | 10:26 pm
    NiteFlirt has just launched Social Shouts, a way to “broadcast important NiteFlirt-related updates to your social media followers and customers.” Simply link your social media profiles with your NiteFlirt account and select the events that will trigger posts, such as availability changes and new content additions! And you can customize your posts to make them […]
  • “Are there certain fetishes that pay better?”

    Phone Sex Secrets
    19 Jun 2014 | 5:35 pm
    The best thing in this interview with a phone sex operator is this quote: Rule of thumb: fetishes pay better than vanilla. Vanilla (and female submission) don’t take a lot of brain power, presence or originality to pull off, but fetish and domination are best executed by someone who puts the effort into reading her […]
  • Phone Sex Operator Promo Opportunity

    Phone Sex Secrets
    22 May 2014 | 1:49 pm
    I was just contacted about a site that wants to feature some flash fiction erotica at their website. This is a great free opportunity for phone sex operators to get some exposure and links to their profiles, listings and websites/blogs. Contact me for details.
  • Getting Phone Sex Reviews & Making The Most Of Them

    Phone Sex Secrets
    18 Apr 2014 | 5:27 am
    As promised, I’m back with some more details regarding the phone sex review website. This is a free service. Yes, it is free to be reviewed. However, because Tom is just one man (who already has a long list of favorite PSOs), it is advised, though not required, that you offer him a few free […]
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  • Tienes un nuevo mensaje

    26 Jul 2014 | 2:38 am
    Hola, melchior.ibiza ha comenzado a utilizar IQ Elite y te ha escrito un mensaje. Para leer el mensaje antes de que caduque, haz click en este enlace: a.iqelite.com/entry/new_message/2fdc5f6b7dae20c1f44e1b0e258a8c2d3fda9e1f544b80bfb/2cd3d49746d83c489c32f35fdb0f71f44b80bfb/?hg=3IYRhrysGw ¡Lee tu mensaje antes de que caduque! Saludos, El equipo de IQ Elite
  • Tumblr, tienes un mensaje de Melchior Arnold

    25 Jul 2014 | 9:06 pm
    Hola Tumblr, Tienes un mensaje de Melchior Arnold en IQ Elite para ti. Haz click aqui a.iqelite.com/j/hRfp5O/4ln/?hg=PmklaT1nWs para leer el mensaje El equipo IQ Elite
  • It still feels like 2013 never really started. That’s...

    31 May 2013 | 1:18 pm
    It still feels like 2013 never really started. That’s probably a sign that I am still fucked up. Five months into the supposedly new year, the year my life is supposed to begin anew or something like that, and I have been living in standstill since I don’t even know when. Berlin is lovely and depending on who you ask, I have been waiting weeks, months, years to be here. Moving countries wasn’t a mistake, yet I can’t shake this persistent feeling that I have arrived too late to a party thrown in my honor. The perfectionistic side of me will not relent. She says I would have been…
  • The Saudi Marathon Man : The New Yorker

    17 Apr 2013 | 12:50 pm
    The Saudi Marathon Man : The New Yorker: A twenty-year-old man who had been watching the Boston Marathon had his body torn into by the force of a bomb. He wasn’t alone; a hundred and seventy-six people were injured and three were killed. But he was the only one who, while in the hospital being treated for his wounds, had his apartment searched in “a startling show of force,” as his fellow-tenants described it to the Boston Herald, with a “phalanx” of officers and agents and two K9 units. He was the one whose belongings were carried out in paper bags as his neighbors watched; whose…
  • Boston

    15 Apr 2013 | 1:51 pm
    I couldn’t get out of Boston soon enough when I was in the midst of leaving the country in January. I wanted nothing to do with the city any longer, and I felt like there was nothing left for me there. But of course there’s something I left behind, or I wouldn’t be this upset, this much of a wreck that I interrupted a family dinner to shove a smart phone in my boyfriend’s face. Surprisingly right now, I actually miss Boston. I even wish I were there. I feel something I didn’t think I was capable of feeling anymore. Homesickness. Powerlessness. I don’t know,…
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    Sex Secrets

  • 5 Great Positions for Deep Penetration

    Svetlana Ivanova
    26 Jul 2014 | 2:00 am
    When vaginal penetration is deep, both men and women tend to enjoy sex more. The feeling of longer, deeper strokes can be really exciting and pleasurable. There are many sex positions that you can try to get deeper penetration. These five great positions for deep penetration may be positions you are already using, just not Continue reading →(Visited 186 times, 20 visits today)
  • Be a Tease: Give a Lap Dance

    Svetlana Ivanova
    24 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Strap on your stilettos because it’s time for class – lap dance class. Have you ever fantasized about transfixing your guy with a slow striptease? Do you want to tap into your inner diva and master the art of seduction? As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the Continue reading →(Visited 28 times, 2 visits today)
  • The 12 Different Kinds of Sex Defined

    Svetlana Ivanova
    22 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Tammy Black defines the twelve kinds of sex. I got to thinking; how many kinds of sex are there? Oh, come on, you know you were wondering too! Let us begin. First Time Sex — It’s usually clumsy at best and unless you are a good communicator (screaming God’s name doesn’t count) then you will Continue reading →(Visited 89 times, 2 visits today)
  • 4 BDSM Relationship Tips for Beginners

    Svetlana Ivanova
    19 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Elizabeth Mitchell gives four BDSM relationship tips for beginners. So you devoured all three Fifty Shades of Grey books, and now you think you might be interested in a BDSM relationship yourself? Before you go out and find your very own Christian Grey, peep these tips to ensure your safety. Read more(Visited 83 times, 2 visits today)
  • 4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

    Svetlana Ivanova
    17 Jul 2014 | 4:00 am
    Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.(Visited 169 times, 4 visits today)
 
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  • Cherry Delight

    Molly Moore
    26 Jul 2014 | 2:16 pm
    Anyone want to pluck my cherries…. Related Posts: In The Dark Bad Girl Constant Yearning Three S’more porn
  • Witnessed

    Molly Moore
    22 Jul 2014 | 7:59 am
    The last chance, the last wait, the last pause, the last date The last look, the last touch, the last kiss, it’s all too much The last dance, you and me, witness by this very tree . The last breath, the last word, the last goodbye, the last thing heard The last time, the last…
  • Blank Canvas

    Molly Moore
    19 Jul 2014 | 4:16 pm
    Me: Hmm I might post this for Sinful Sunday, what do you think? Him: I think it looks like a beautiful blank canvas just waiting for me to leave my mark on. Me: *whimpers What would you want to do with a blank canvas? Related Posts: Hook, Line and Spanker Halo Hand it to me…
  • Just one look

    Molly Moore
    16 Jul 2014 | 5:11 am
    I guess it all started with a selfie. As I mentioned on Twitter the other day I think I was about 36 when I took the first one using the mirror on my landing and a very crappy camera phone I had at the time. I still have the picture on my computer. I am…
  • Elust #60

    Molly Moore
    15 Jul 2014 | 8:46 am
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the…
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  • How to Contact a Dominatrix

    Ms. Justine
    25 Jul 2014 | 6:05 am
    I am happy to announce that my favorite sadistic Southern Belle, Mistress Erin, has decided to resume ruling the Quarter with perfect elegance and dominance. I look forward to playing with her when I return to New Orleans in September with Mistress Natalie West. Domme double trouble, triple trouble–you are so fucked and lucky if you can experience any combination of us three! I could have rewritten something about this subject matter myself, but my lovely friend Mistress Erin put it so well, I decided to just repost what she wrote on the subject of contacting a dominatrix: I have, over…
  • Nominated Best Female Dom by Bondage Awards!

    Ms. Justine
    16 Jul 2014 | 7:36 am
    Vote for me and then crawl into your cage, where you belong! Honored that I was nominated again as Best Female Dom by the Bondage Awards! Please show your support by voting for me Best Female Dom. Spacious. Modern. Upscale. Dungeon West features over 1400 sq. ft. of space, polished concrete floors, 15′ ceilings, BDSM furniture, toys, four poster canopy queen size bed, full bathroom and kitchenette. Perfect for personal or professional rentals, photo shoots, filming, overnight stay and plays and parties. Also, my dungeon, Dungeon West got nominated as best playspace! Please vote for it…
  • Los Angeles Footnight July 24

    Ms. Justine
    15 Jul 2014 | 4:10 am
    Kiss . . . lick . . . worship I will be at Los Angeles Footnight on July 24! The theme is “”SEXY SUMMER SOLES ‘N TOES”” Any requests for what kind of sandals and attire I wear? Myself and Mistress Natalie West enjoying the hot tub and the view. I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West and other Ladies of Dungeon West, if you can handle a double, triple . . . more?! I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out…
  • Visiting Chicago July 10-13

    Ms. Justine
    3 Jul 2014 | 2:26 am
    I love sitting pretty while you’re kneeling, slave. I will be visiting Chicago and taking sessions at The Studio or my upscale hotel in downtown. Please contact me BEFORE I arrive in order to book a session as I tend to be fully booked upon arrival. Address Me as Mistress Justine. When would you like to make an appointment? How were you referred to Me? (i.e. what website) What about Me interested you? How long have you been playing? When was the last time? Provide references if you have them. (Yes, I check them.) Of course, if you really want to impress me, I would love a dungeon dinner…
  • Brand Spanking New Website!

    Ms. Justine
    1 Jul 2014 | 8:50 am
    It’s been a long time coming, but I am so happy to finally have my new Los Angeles dominatrix website up and running! Besides a totally new layout and design, please check out the new stuff: *Mobile and iPad optimized *More pictures on every page *New photo sets by Ed Fox, Tommy Cuellar and shoots in Dungeon West *New Dungeon West page *New About page and sub categories: —-Travel Plans —-Wishlist *Newly formatted Gallery page with larger photos and updated sub categories: —-Dungeon West —-Parties & Events —-Fetish Unicorn —-Foot Fetish *Updated…
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  • Elust #60

    E[lust]
    15 Jul 2014 | 8:44 am
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck…
  • Elust #60 Open for Submissions

    E[lust]
    1 Jul 2014 | 1:43 am
    Elust #60 Open for Submissions For Americans this is the month to celebrate their independence, for the rest of us it is time to watch the World Cup, or, maybe take some time and come together in a big sweaty writhing heap of smutty writing and unite in a new edition of Elust! We do hope you like the new site design and we have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers…
  • Elust #59

    E[lust]
    15 Jun 2014 | 4:46 pm
    Photo courtesy of Frisky in the 916 Welcome to Elust #59 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Considering Cocks I Love Interrogation, or Diabolical Genius Yes all Women but Not All Men Rant ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~…
  • Elust #59 Open for Submissions

    E[lust]
    1 Jun 2014 | 7:16 am
    Elust #59 Open for Submissions June is upon us and in the UK that means people pretend it is summertime. So even if it isn’t hot where you are, send us something to warm us up in all the right (or wrong) ways. We do hope you like the new site design and we have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what…
 
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  • Hell Yes: kGoal

    Epiphora
    21 Jul 2014 | 8:45 pm
    Everyone pause and bask in this moment. I have found a sex toy crowdfunding campaign that isn’t shitty. It’s a squeezable silicone bulb — er, they’re calling it a pillow — that measures the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles, and it’s called the kGoal (get it? Sounds like “kegel”? If you pronounce “kegel” that way?). It charges via USB and wirelessly communicates with an app on your phone, which serves up your exercise history, suggested workouts, and “max squeeze.” I see a community scoreboard coming on. As added…
  • The girl I call Aerie

    Epiphora
    12 Jul 2014 | 1:38 am
    She greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites, with green pipe cleaner stems. On the romance scale, this may surpass the CD that my boyfriend made for one of our anniversaries which included a Tegan & Sara cover and 5 minutes of our cat purring into a microphone. - – - Aerie lives in a swanky condo on the third level. It has sparkling wooden floors, kitchen appliances that beep at you if you don’t do their bidding, and best of all, air conditioning. We make delicious coffee in the morning with a hand grinder and…
  • I’m teaching a class!

    Epiphora
    25 Jun 2014 | 11:39 am
    Ever since I started speaking on panels with other lovely industry peeps, I’ve been energized to spread the gospel of the sex blog further and wider. This September, I will be doing just that in the form of my first ever online class, taught alongside the unsinkable Lauren Marie Fleming. Lauren is one of the finest people I’ve become friends in recent years. She has a really exceptional brain and enviable drive for what she does. She’s also a big deal: when I was eating a burrito at a food cart pod with her mere days ago, someone came up to us and said, “e-e-excuse…
  • Um, No: Teddy Love

    Epiphora
    19 Jun 2014 | 10:45 pm
    This is not cute. This is not adorable. This is not acceptable. A teddy bear with a vibrating muzzle? Really? This is condescending, infantilizing, and damaging. This is not how we get over the stigma around sex toys. This product is WHY THERE IS A STIGMA AROUND SEX TOYS. Completely overlooking logistical issues such as how the fuck do you clean vag juice off it (the muzzle is made of thermoplastic elastomer, which is porous, and the body is covered in FUR), I am deeply offended that these people are expecting me, as a woman, to coo over this. It’s “inspired by every…
  • Review: Wild Stripes dildo

    Epiphora
    17 Jun 2014 | 2:04 pm
    Finally, a manufacturer is going balls-to-the-wall with their silicone sex toy designs — and I love how flamboyant and playful they are. Spanish company BS Atelier makes a dildo for everyone: one for vegans and/or those who miss Gateway computer boxes, one for horror fans, another for people who like to splatter paint, and even one for that dude who keeps his socks on during sex. I chose none of those dildos. I chose the uncategorizable Wild Stripes, which is striped diagonally with black, white, orange, pink, purple, red, and grey. I chose it solely based on how attractive it…
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  • bigotry

    SexyLittleIdeas
    26 Jul 2014 | 2:22 pm
    #7: BigotrySexyLittleIdeas.com – Seven Less-Deadly Sins SeriesPreviously – #6 Relapse Summer 2013 Karosso campaign in Leon, GtoProduction: Gerardo NavaModels: Ana Paola Robles, I.It is probable that this was a terribly misguided photo for a terribly misguided campaign and that putting it up here is a terribly misguided idea. But that is, after all, the definition of deadly sin.
  • real bodies, shame, and sex workers: july- e[lust] 60

    SexyLittleIdeas
    24 Jul 2014 | 10:05 pm
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck…
  • the wasted punchline

    SexyLittleIdeas
    20 Jul 2014 | 12:48 pm
    Of the Unbearably Long JokeSo last week we realized (ha ha) that life is long and becomes tiresome.Grinds.Life is a tangled popcorn string that goes on for miles, and the happy man’s only solution/recourse is to waste it on happy little things.Don’t spend your time under an assumption of scarcity, hoarding it like a college kid’s coins. Spend it like the tower of breadcrumbs that it is. Toss it to whichever featherbrained sparrow crosses your flight of fancy; scatter it to the wind or let the pavement take it; spend it like Netflix spends its TV shows.(Life is better…
  • the unbearably long joke

    SexyLittleIdeas
    13 Jul 2014 | 10:46 am
    With No PunchlineWhen you think about it, life is extremely,Exhaustingly,Devastatingly,Long.For the intents and purposes of this thought, there are two types of people- the satisfied and the unsatisfied.If you’re a malcontent, brimming with ambition, always pushing to go further, and never satisfied about your lot in life or your rung on its ladder, life may seem short to you. There’s never enough time to do all the hurrying you want to do, to shoot for all the stars you have it in for.The malcontent’s legacy is stuck in a perennial race against his/her timeline, a mad dash…
  • nasty

    SexyLittleIdeas
    10 Jul 2014 | 9:50 am
    or The Sexual She-Beast vs. the Average Maleor Are Men Just Nastier Than Women?I want answers.The modern woman insists that she is a sexual beast. She insists that, contrary to what man has believed for so long, her sexuality and hunger rivals that of the male. That if only you knew the filthy, salacious things going through her mind, which she represses due to the role in which society tries to pigeonhole her, you would be shocked to find that she matches you in raw sexuality pound for pound.She is, in other words, just as nasty as any man.I want to believe that’s true.I, however, am…
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  • Teri Martine (1944- )

    meisteryak
    15 Jul 2014 | 12:01 pm
    Here’s a bit of info about the ever-popular Teri Martine. I sure lots of my readers can add to this. I think Pamela Green and Teri Martine only met once. By the time Teri was modelling for George Harrison Marks Pam had taken a back set in the business. Teri Martine was born in 1944, in Southend, Essex. In her late teens she answered a modelling ad in the local newspaper The Southend Standard. At the interview in front of the lens she felt awkward, but luckily she was very photogenic and it led to her first booking. It was an amateur camera club at the same studio she was interviewed in.
  • Pam and George

    meisteryak
    27 May 2014 | 10:36 am
    Pamela Green and Toulouse-Lautrec (George Harrison Marks), on the set of The Window Dresser, 1961.
  • Zoltán Glass (1903-1981)

    meisteryak
    25 May 2014 | 2:25 pm
    Self-portrait by Zoltán Glass (1903 – 1981) Pamela Green modelled for numerous photographers. My favourite by far was Zoltán Glass. He was born in Budapest on April 26, 1903. He began his career as a cartoonist and retoucher for a local newspaper, but in 1925 he moved to Berlin, where he found regular employment as the picture editor of a Berlin evening paper, before moving on to the Berliner Tagblatt as a photojournalist. Zoltán prospered and was soon able to develop a thriving freelance business as a commercial photographer and journalist. He established Reclaphot, a photographic…
  • In Loving Memory…

    meisteryak
    7 May 2014 | 6:10 am
    In loving memory of Pamela Green who passed away four years ago. I miss her terribly. I must apologise to readers of this blog for my poor posting rate of late. Something I hope to rectify in the coming weeks. The online book of condolences is still up by the way. Pamela Green
  • Costumier Hugh Skillen

    meisteryak
    4 Jan 2014 | 9:21 am
    Here’s another picture of Pamela Green taken by the female photographer Joan Craven. The mask is by costumier Hugh Skillen. Don’t know much about Hugh Skillen. From what I can gather he worked for the ballet and theatre in London’s West End. One of the plays he worked on was Bell, Book and Candle (1954-55). The film of which was a favourite of Pam’s. I wonder if she saw the play. You can read more about Joan Craven on my earlier post. Pamela Green by female photographer Joan Craven. Mask by costumier Hugh Skillen. Related Post Joan Craven  
 
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  • Seawank

    Blacksilk
    24 Jul 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Seawank appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Good news, everyone! Not only are you now reading this in Professor Farnsworth‘s voice, but also my computer is working again! You may not have realised that it wasn’t working, but of course it’s hard to tell you on here that I can’t really make any blog posts when I can’t really make any blog posts. Sure, technically I could blog from my phone, but ew, no. Anyway, I’m back, though honestly still likely to be intermittent as this summer has really caught me in a hands-off sort of mood. Although,…
  • Nerding Out

    Blacksilk
    8 Jun 2014 | 1:29 am
    This post Nerding Out appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Have I mentioned how much I love phone cameras? Man, I love phone cameras. It’s amazing how you can get quite decent and quite sexy shots without needing, or certainly getting, professional quality. I don’t know about you, but I grew up with dial-up, so I’m used to my porn not being the most HD you can get. Like my recent Very Short Stories, it’s all about fitting blogging in where I can at the moment. Time is at a premium. In any case, here are some hopefully sexy, and yet everyday, photos of yours truly…
  • Very Short Stories – Take Me

    Blacksilk
    6 Jun 2014 | 8:17 am
    This post Very Short Stories – Take Me appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ It’s time for another of my Very Short Stories! If you haven’t read any of mine yet, I encourage you to go and check out Covered in Cream, Prometheus, If We Hadn’t Had Sex and The Quoit, if you have time. And they each fit on a single Post-It note, so I’m thinking you definitely have time. And since we’ve established that time is a thing you have, here’s another one! Just in case you can’t (or don’t want to) read my handwriting: I’m too wise to give myself…
  • My Writing Process

    Blacksilk
    12 May 2014 | 3:19 pm
    This post My Writing Process appeared first on Being Blacksilk. I’ve been tagged in a meme-style thing that’s going around at the moment by SheBoppin. And it was really fun to do! I definitely enjoyed writing about writing, even if my writing at the moment is a bit different to how it might be normally. I believe I’m supposed to tag people at the end to carry on the meme, but frankly I’ve no idea who hasn’t already done one and I’ve also always hated singling people out for stuff like this in case I leave someone out and upset them. So, if you’re…
  • Purple Worm

    Blacksilk
    29 Apr 2014 | 11:59 am
    This post Purple Worm appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Gosh, it’s been a while since I’ve participated in Toy With Me Tuesday, hasn’t it? I love good pictures of good sex toys and I have plenty lying around that I’d love to post as well as ideas for several more in my head. But I have, you may be surprised to learn, a relaxed schedule for this blog and whilst that includes minimum posts per time (ideally one a week, one a fortnight as an absolute low if I can’t help it), it also includes maximum posts per time. Whilst I don’t have a set number for…
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  • Top 5 Best Condoms

    balmmaker
    2 Jul 2014 | 2:45 am
    None of these are best. They all look way to thick to me. Something I wish I was taught in school is that not all condoms are created equal.  I'm gonna talk about good condoms and bad condoms and what makes them good or bad-- and then give you my Top 5 Best Condoms List.  I'll cover recognizing the good or bad ones (the easy way is to look at the pictures of the good ones!) And hopefully this will transform your experience because sex with a good condom is WAY better. I have personally used ever single condom I mention and many many others as well...I know my shit and I'm…
  • World Pride Toronto 2014

    balmmaker
    25 Jun 2014 | 9:27 pm
    Toronto is hosting the 4th Annual World Pride event  year from June 20-29 ...which means it is going on right now! This coming weekend looks like it will be a doozy too!  For those of you unfamiliar with it, Toronto normally hosts a yearly Pride Week that is fucking massive on any level. Millions of people come out to the gay pride parade and literally fill the streets. The parade itself goes down Yonge Street (Toronto's biggest street)  and terminates on Church Street in the middle of the Gay Village.Well, this year Toronto is not only hosting the Canada's biggest Pride…
  • You might be a masochist

    balmmaker
    17 Jun 2014 | 5:16 pm
    *Note: Read this in the tone of Jeff Foxworthy saying, "you might be a redneck."If someone plays with your hair and you wish they'd just pull it hard...you might be a masochist.If going to hardware store gets you excited by all the evil sex toys there...you might be a masochist.If someone nibbles on your ear and you'd prefer them clamping so purple teeth marks appear...you might be a masochist.If pain triples the intensity of your orgasm...you might be a masochist.If you sleep better when rolling over makes new parts hurt...you might be a masochist.If you love the way fingernails leave red…
  • The Fault in Our Stars (Amputee Sex)

    balmmaker
    12 Jun 2014 | 1:09 am
    I recently saw the movie The Fault in Our Stars by John Green. People often say the book is better than the movie and this is true here but the movie was FUCKING AWESOME! I was so impressed. It's rare that a movie engages me emotionally this much. It kicked ass, 5/5 and all that.(It currently has a 92% audience liked it on Rotten Tomatoes and 82% of critics). But that's not why I'm writing this. I'm writing this because as part of kicking ass, it included a sex scene with an amputee!! <3 -- and that's goddamn rare!Now, I've done another post on another John Green book, Looking for Alaska…
  • On Sex with Married Women

    balmmaker
    10 Jun 2014 | 11:16 am
    I am writing this in part because a particular situation is pending.  So let's talk about married women for a bit. Is it unethical for me to date a married woman? Let's talk this one out a little. Did I ever promise not fuck anyone in particular? I don't think so. In fact, I openly admit to not being very good at being monogamous.  So if I didn't make any promises to do or not do anything, am I not a free agent who can do what I want?  This works pretty well with my polyamorous viewpoint.Well, the key element here is the girl I am considering DID make just such a promise.
 
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  • Sexual desire – the difference between the sexes

    eroticzeitgeist
    17 Jul 2014 | 3:34 am
    Men and women have different expectations when it comes to sex and relationships. This has been the subject of a Norwegian study among students. In a relationship Single men and women both seek long-term partners and there is no difference between the sexes in their wish for a long-term relationship. The differences occurs when it comes to sex in the relationship. Men in long-term relationships take the initiative to sex more often than their female partners and they are less satisfied with the frequency of sex than their female partners are. Casual sex Men seek short-term partners to a…
  • Why do we have sex?

    eroticzeitgeist
    10 Jul 2014 | 3:30 am
    People have sex for many different reasons. Meston & Buss have made a list of these reasons and this can be used for research purposes when people want to study differences between e.g. the sexes or age groups. It can also be used as a tool to consider your own or your partners reasons to have sex in different situations. You can see the full list at the end of this blog. The top 20 reasons for having sex divided on gender is in the table below (click to enlarge). Men are in general significantly more likely to have sex for pure physical reasons or simply because the opportunity presents…
  • Women prefers a fat penis

    eroticzeitgeist
    3 Jul 2014 | 11:33 am
    A group of researchers has investigated whether women prefer a long or a wide penis. The study was based on responses from under graduate students, which means young women. However, the results could very well be the same if the study was conducted among elderly women. The overall result was that 90% preferred girth (a fat penis) to a long penis. No one said that they could not tell any difference. It is interesting that when people, in particular men, discuss penis size they usually refers to length even though the vast majority of women seem to prefer girth over length. It is not possible…
  • Monogamy – It is a choice, not a truth

    eroticzeitgeist
    24 Jun 2014 | 10:31 am
    Woolard Weaver has made a paper were he takes us through the modern arguments for monogamy and contests their validity. I will present the essence of the discussion here. The first norm in monogamy requires two partners to refrain from any sexual activity outside the relationship. How this is interpreted is very different. In some relationships, you must refrain from any kind of physical contact with others while in other relationships you are allowed to dance, kiss, flirt etc. Often the rules are never discussed it is something you are expected to understand subconsciously. This can…
  • Are you a guy looking for casual sex? Go for a woman with a big butt

    eroticzeitgeist
    14 May 2014 | 10:55 am
    It is well known that it is women who decide whether a sexual encounter is going to happen or not. Most men are willing if the opportunity arises. It is also well known that the waist-hip-ratio is an important indicator of the attractiveness of a woman. This ratio influences the number and quality of men available for a woman. However, women with a small hip width have a much bigger risk of getting serious problems when giving birth. You could expect that the evolutionary consequence of this is that women with a small hip width are less interested in sex because of the higher risk if they get…
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  • REVIEW: JOPEN COMET WAND

    NaughtyReenie
    26 Jul 2014 | 4:52 am
    It took me eight months, eight freaking months to conquer the Comet Wand. My vagina is finally becoming a boss, but damn did it take a lot of crying, bruised vagina, and courage. It was somewhere in August 2013 when the Comet Wand entered Sextopia. Back then, the Comet Wand and I just didn’t click. I hated it: I hated how it made my body felt, I hated how it made me scared, and I hated how it made my body react. If I had published my review back then, I would have trashed it. It just didn’t work for me. The number of times I curled into a ball in tears and the number of times I just…
  • REVIEW: DOXY MASSAGER

    NaughtyReenie
    17 Jul 2014 | 8:47 am
    I changed Doxy Massager Wand’s name to Doxy the Clown. I can’t help it. It keeps fooling me – from the moment it was born to the moment I received it, and until the moment I started using it. But our relationship isn’t pure hatred either. It’s more complicated than that. First, Doxy Massager has been marketed as THE world’s MOST powerful wand massager. Is it true? Well, if your opinion is only based on the number of Rotations Per Minute (RPM), which, on the highest speed, is approximately 9000 RPM 1, then I guess this is quite true. However, you’re a fool if you base your…
  • REVIEW: SHIBARI HALO WAND

    NaughtyReenie
    23 Jun 2014 | 8:23 am
    Three minutes. That’s how long Shibari Halo Wand took to make me orgasm. Three tiny little minutes. If you’ve been sticking with me for long enough, you’d know that it takes me bazillion of years to just have one freaking orgasm. Three minutes is a world record for me. And I’m surprised a wand was able to make me orgasm like this. I mean, my first wand, which I bought, was shitty as hell. It broke my heart, brought me to depression, and it made me lose all hope and interest for wands. That’s why I stopped them from entering Sextopia – I was just not into wands anymore. Halo…
  • REVIEW: VIXEN SPUR

    NaughtyReenie
    14 Jun 2014 | 7:35 am
    When the Vixen Spur first showed up in my office and stood there in the middle of my desk, I freaked out. I was never a fan of skin-toned dicks, and looking at the Spur gave me chills down my spine. It looked like a small chopped off ball-less dick, and I felt a bit creeped out by it. Of course, my feelings for the Spur have changed since then. Greatly. If I had to update my Bumbook 1 relationship status with the Vixen Spur, it would have went from “Massively complicated” to “Massively in love”. But our first encounter wasn’t a great one, and Spur didn’t doubt my dislike for it.
  • REVIEW: HIPPOCAMPUS SMALL (AGAIN?!?!)

    NaughtyReenie
    3 Jun 2014 | 11:22 am
    Behold my pervy non-girth loving friends! I’m bringing a rare and exciting news from Sextopia! There’s a new born baby in town! Back in August 2013, I reviewed the Hippocampus Small. However, it was a known fact that the Hippocampus Small was way too big to be actually called small. So the wonderful folks at Exotic-Erotics started researching a way to help the Hippocampus Small breed. After months of sweating and well…attempted reproducing, the new baby is now finally born! Those out there (*cough me cough*) that couldn’t handle the girth of the original Small can now enjoy the…
 
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  • Want Your Own Red Room of Pain?

    Anida Leeds
    28 Jul 2014 | 8:51 am
    The clock is ticking and this Valentines Day the 50 Shades of Grey movie will be released. Will you be ready? Restraints? Check! Nipple Clamps? Check! Pleasure Balls? Check! Leather? Check! Even if you haven't read the books yet we got you covered. Do you want to have your own red room just like Christian has? Here are some of the items you need to get that started.Delicious Pleasure Silicone Pleasure BallsToning and pleasuring your body in unison, these official Fifty Shades of Grey silver balls wriggle and jiggle inside you. Massaging your G-spot with expert skill, Delicious Pleasure can be…
  • Bondage isn't all whips, chains and medieval torture. Or is it?

    Anida Leeds
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:34 pm
    "Bondage" covers a very wide spectrum of sex acts, and can mean something different to every person. Whatever it is, as long as you both agree on the boundaries, anything goes. From the tame to the extreme. We are all curios about this subject from one level to another, or you wouldn't be reading right now, so let’s get started. Safety First - Although it's often more tempting to play sex games when you're feeling a bit tipsy, it's best not to try bondage when you're under the influence alcohol or drugs, as you might misjudge how tightly to tie the knots. Make sure that you keep a pair of…
  • School Is Back In Session.

    Lady Guinevere
    25 Jun 2014 | 11:01 am
    School might be out for summer, but we have some exciting tips to teach you. We put our minds to work and came up with two of the most exciting and uninformed parts of a man and women. The clitoris (women) and prostate gland (men), both unique in their own ways but similar too. The Clitoris The clitoris is often the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. The clitoris, like the head of the penis, contains numerous concentrated bundles of nerve endings that respond gratifyingly to touch and other types of stimulation. Recent research has shown that the sensitive clitoral tissue is…
  • Give him the best Father's Day ever!

    Anida Leeds
    19 May 2014 | 1:16 pm
    Some men are so easy to shop for: bow tie/six pack of beer/gift card to Home Depot and then there are the others who require days devoted to thinking of some clever and unexpected Father's Day gift ideas. Need some suggestions? We've come up with a sure fire way that will show him he's number one and how lucky he is to have you. Good Morning, wakey wakey, start the day off right for you and for him. Slide under the covers while he is still asleep and go down on him like he has never felt before. Check out the Ultimate Guide to Fellatio. Don't stop there, why let him have all the fun? Slide up…
  • 10 Best Tips for Spring

    Anida Leeds
    27 Mar 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Ice Ice Baby. Put coffee in an ice tray so when you make an ice coffee it doesn't get watered down. Jump out of bed? Don't Go Back to Sleep If You Wake Up Before Your Alarm. You will feel more refreshed if you wake up naturally. Unfriend! Clean out your social media account of people you thought were friends or just don't like to much. You know you have them. A splash of color. Update a room in your house with a new paint color, or just paint your partner. Say bye to winter blues. Change your sheets. Get rid of those warm weather wraps and slide into some satin. Breath. If you live in the…
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  • Real Love Never Ends

    Shannon Ferguson
    8 Jul 2014 | 1:28 pm
    I’m convinced that most people in the world have never experienced true love. I am certain that many people are very well loved and care deeply for those in their lives but what I’m talking about is that soul mate kind of stuff. That fire. That passion. That moment when you look at someone and you are positive your heart will absolutely burst. I don’t mean the love that parents have for children or best friends have together or even the love you have for your pets. This is the feeling between two people that gives both of them butterflies and makes them goofy smile like children. They…
  • 5 Ways Dating in a Small City is Unique

    Shannon Ferguson
    10 Jun 2014 | 12:18 pm
    Growing up in a small town or city surely has its benefits: Knowing your neighbours and becoming friends with them, perusing the streets and feeling safe, and seemingly being connected to everyone in some way or another. But how does living in a smaller community affect the dating scene? Well, unlike New York, LA, or even Toronto dating around in a small city is sure to make headlines and your past is never to be forgotten. Here are five things people who live in a small city know to be true about dating. 1. There are no secrets Small cities thrive on gossip. Since most people know (or know…
  • What Would You Do For Someone You Love?

    Shannon Ferguson
    3 Jun 2014 | 3:38 pm
    Love is funny isn’t it? Everyone is out searching for it like it’s the oxygen they need to keep them alive not even realizing how much love they already have in their life. We maintain that we’re independent then contradict ourselves after a few drinks at the next girl’s night when we reveal we’re actually desperate for a boyfriend. “Why can’t IIII find a good guy?”, “What’s wrong with me?”, “I haven’t got flowers from a guy in ages, I just want flowers!”, “Is it too much to ask for a nice guy for a change, one who remember the little things”. Oh yes, we’ve…
  • Stop Settling, Start Living

    Shannon Ferguson
    29 Apr 2014 | 9:30 am
    Settling. Ugh. I despise that word. Yet, it is such a common fucking trend these days. We all do it and while some of us are fine with settling for “okay” others are sick of it. I fall into the latter category. It’s like we’ve all been conditioned to live this contradictory lifestyle: they tell us we can have it all but then they scorn us when we express a desire to reach for our goals; to live our dreams. Who are “they”, you ask? “They” can be anyone who has influence in your life; a parent, a friend, a partner, even an acquaintance. These people can be fabulous human beings,…
  • Carry Each Other Through Your Darkest Days

    Shannon Ferguson
    23 Apr 2014 | 10:42 am
    It’s easy to fall into a downward spiral, sometimes. When we aren’t paying attention and we’re too consumed by the shitty things going on in our life, we somehow end up submerged in a black hole, too deep to get out of alone. Worse, we often pull those closest to us down into the hole with us making it hard for anyone to see the light ahead. Whether it be our relationships, our friendships, our families, those closest to us always seem to bear the brunt of our heartaches and see firsthand how deep those dark holes really can be. It’s no wonder so many problems arise when the dark days…
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  • How To Have A Perfect Quickie – 6 Tips And 8 Places You Need To Try Out

    James Buzinko
    21 Jul 2014 | 4:57 am
    Having a quickie can be an amazing experience, but many people do not know how to move a good one into an amazing 5 minutes of passion! While sex shouldn’t be complicated, everything has to be just perfect to make the pure pleasure of a quick passionate intercourse reach its maximum potential. Whether she is […]
  • The 10 Best Male Sex Toys That Are Worth Your Money

    James Buzinko
    21 Jul 2014 | 12:00 am
    As a man, you have probably seen a myriad of sex things dedicated for her and have been wondering, “What happened to all of the male toys?” After all, men like to have fun too – right? When your hand simply is getting too boring or your arm is killing you from overuse, there are things that […]
  • 8 Reasons Why Sex Is Good For Your Body

    James Buzinko
    19 Jul 2014 | 1:56 pm
    For most of us, sex is all about the pleasure, emotion and experience. We rarely think about any health benefits, if any, that may be associated with a good romp in the sack. Aside from the obvious physical benefits, there are many other things going on behind the scenes that are helping make our bodies […]
  • 10 Most Popular Female Sex Toys

    James Buzinko
    18 Jul 2014 | 7:11 am
    Female sex toys are meant to pleasure her and allow her to climax on her own. Whether you are simply a spectator that likes to watch her masturbate or you want these for yourself, you need to know the most popular brands on the market. When the night is cold and you have nothing to keep you […]
  • Top Penis Extenders – Do These 7 Devices Really Work?

    James Buzinko
    17 Jul 2014 | 2:51 am
    Penis extenders are just one of the many different types of penile enlargement products on the market today. These help you perform stretches and exercises that increase your size and girth. Men of all ages turn to these devices to grow their measurements. These are non-invasive, easy to use and relatively inexpensive. Extenders use traction to stretch and elongate […]
 
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  • PrEP Pill Doesn’t Increase Risky Sexual Behavior, Study Says

    Rate A Condom
    23 Jul 2014 | 9:01 pm
    The Calgary Herald published a surprising statistic from the same sexual study that investigated the performance of the anti-HIV pill Truvada. And guess what? According to the results, the pill doesn’t lead to an increase of risky sexual behavior and its effective even when missing regular doses. The study noted two aspects: none of the participants […] The post PrEP Pill Doesn’t Increase Risky Sexual Behavior, Study Says appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Gummy-Tip and VivaGel Condoms To Kill STDs and Sperm

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    23 Jul 2014 | 8:46 pm
    More innovations have arrived in the condom category. While other industrial researchers are focused on improving the pleasurable aspects of condoms, two condom manufacturers are focused on two different areas: one that limits unplanned pregnancies due to condom breaks, and another that’s destroying STD-causing microorganisms. The first condom, called the Gummy-Tip condom, will hit shelves […] The post Gummy-Tip and VivaGel Condoms To Kill STDs and Sperm appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Kink.com Opens Nevada Office

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    18 Jul 2014 | 10:13 pm
    Kink.com is one company protesting the passage of AB 1576 in California. This measure requires pornography production companies to supply condoms to sexually explicit actors. Lawmakers introducing the regulation were responding to a rash of HIV positive outbreaks occurring throughout the industry in the beginning of the year. Surprisingly, some famous adult entertainment celebrities question the sincerity […] The post Kink.com Opens Nevada Office appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Coming Soon: An Automated Blow Job Robot Sex Toy

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    16 Jul 2014 | 7:23 pm
    The fleshlight will soon have competition from another coveted male masturbation sex toy. What started on Indiegogo has transformed into the prospect for an interesting device that will soon hit customer homes. BetaBeat.com interviewed the creator of the AutoBlow 2 Blow Job machine. The creator, Brian Sloan, created the sex toy in response to the […] The post Coming Soon: An Automated Blow Job Robot Sex Toy appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Aphrodisiac Foods That Induce Sex: Ginger, Oysters, and more!

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    13 Jul 2014 | 12:58 pm
    Apples are the newest aphrodisiac it seems, but they’re not the only sex stimulants. The following foods below are infamous for increasing your sex drive and improving performance. It’s believed that the compounds in these plant-based (and two meats) foods benefit your sex life. Ginger Ginger is thought to stimulate the excitement feelings of sex. […] The post Aphrodisiac Foods That Induce Sex: Ginger, Oysters, and more! appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
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  • Heal Energy Disorders by Understanding how our Parents’ Genes Affect us

    KC Avnayt
    22 Jul 2014 | 10:00 am
    Every baby conceived has his or her individual unique destiny and spirit purpose. The baby is attracted towards parents whose primal energy fields match their destiny. The following article is not so much about how we can make or break our baby’s chance of health and success, or how our parents’ genes affect us, as much as it is about the scenario a person has to negotiate when the parents’ genetics are compatible or incompatible, harmonious or clashing. In every situation, simple awareness of the truth of the situation brings healing. Where our parents’ genes go in…
  • The Scent of a Human – Hormonal Affirmation for Sexual Energy Rehabilitation

    KC Avnayt
    7 Jul 2014 | 3:15 am
    Hormonal Affirmation is what we get when we’re with people or nature that acknowledges as legitimate the hormones and pheromones we are exuding and being affected by. Hormonal Rejection or suppression is what we experience when we are in an atmosphere populated by living beings that do not acknowledge or allow as good, the natural chemicals, the smells, we are exuding. The hormones and pheromones we exude are our body’s way of speaking to other bodies around. When we are given the impression we have to suppress, hide, manipulate our emanations, its the same thing as being rudely…
  • Stop linking sexual excitement with Stress (Change the way your sexual energy flows)

    KC Avnayt
    24 Jun 2014 | 10:26 am
    Stress is a big part of our lives everyday. Perhaps it always was as survival in any environment has its hardships and conflicts. Sexual excitement was one way humans naturally de-stressed. Every scientific study ever done has demonstrated that stress has a negative effect on libido, on sexual performance, on sexual enjoyment and on the health of our sexual make-up. Strangely enough, culturally we seem to go in completely the opposite of our common sense and natural instinct. We are every day coming out with books, and movies and music that associate sex and sexual excitement with stress. Its…
  • Increase your emotional range for recovery from abuse

    KC Avnayt
    16 Apr 2014 | 3:05 am
    Snow White and the Evil Queen disguised as a country women selling apples. Emotional range happens to be one of the most important needs for recovery from abuse of any kind, whether sexual or even bullying. It specifically helps in dealing with escapist or suicidal tendencies, dissociative behavior and addiction to drugs. Fairy-tales – the old unedited versions of stories like Hansel and Grettel, Snow White, Rapunzel, they brought up generations of people who were emotionally expanded. In those old fairy tales there would be someone completely pure and beautiful, and then someone…
  • How to release pent up Sexual Tension

    KC Avnayt
    12 Apr 2014 | 6:59 am
    Pent up sexual tension is energy that has been blocked or suppressed. Its great when you are aware that you have this because you can work on releasing it. When you are unaware of pent up sexual energy, it literally burns and consumes the energy field just to stay where it is, causing a whole lot of physical and mental illnesses, metabolic and hormonal disorders. The first step to releasing pent up sexual energy is to be aware of it. Awareness begins the releasing process right there. Besides being mentally aware of having pent up sexual energy, allow yourself to physically feel the movement…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Dominant Diagnosed with First Case of “Florentine Elbow”

    Nigel Slainsbottom
    28 Jul 2014 | 7:54 am
    BOSTON, MA: Sports orthopedic doctor Miles Slandish at Boston Medical Center today reported the first diagnosed case of “Florentine Elbow.” FLOGGINGDOM12 (not his real name) is considered “patient zero” for the the degenerative problem. “Mr. Floggingdom 12 suffers from the injury in both his right and left elbows,” said Dr. Slandish. “It’s similar to tennis elbow, or lateral epicondylitis, but with greater risk of permanent injury because the subject just doesn’t give a shit.” FLOGGINDOM12, after being told he would require up to…
  • Woman Fired for Being Phone Sex Operator

    Lazlo Toth
    27 Jul 2014 | 9:00 am
    MILWAUKEE, WISCONSIN Tina Henderson, 26,  found herself down one job as she was let go from her position as a customer service representative from a major flooring manufacturer this week.  The problem was Henderson’s second job, employment as a phone sex operator for a Dominatrix hotline. “Working two jobs was taking its toll.  8 hours on the phone in customer service at Home Flooring, followed by another 8 at Mistress Kali’s, really wore me out. I wasn’t getting enough sleep and it became overwhelming.” Things hit a crisis point when Henderson got confused…
  • Kink.com Well Positioned in Upcoming Porn Wars at Armory

    Lazlo Toth
    26 Jul 2014 | 9:56 am
    SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA When Kink.com bought The Armory in San Francisco in 2006 for more than $14 million, they may have been showing just how much foresight they had about events to come. Less than a decade later, things in the porn world have turned ugly, mostly as a result of piracy and the deluge of free content on the internet. As media consultant Martin P. Bruber said, “The pie is shrinking and everyone is scrambling for the few people still willing to pay money for porn.” Reports abound in the adult video production community of underhanded business tactics, strong…
  • MIT Professor Explains “Energy Play”

    Jane Jameson
    25 Jul 2014 | 7:47 am
    CAMBRIDGE, MASSACHUSETTS Dr. Erik Klienschmidt, professor of Astrophysics and Applied Cosmology at MIT, gave a seminar this past week to a group of more than two dozen kinksters who gathered to hear the professor’s explanation of what is commonly called “energy play” in BDSM circles. “Both Maxwell and Fermi were really kinky fucks,” Professor Klienschmidt began, “Maxwell was something of a bondage fetishist and Fermi loved a good golden shower. So it isn’t surprising that we find a connection between the work they did in physics and kink and…
  • BDSM Mistress Can “Teach Anything”

    Annie Cumswallow
    24 Jul 2014 | 5:33 am
    LINCOLN, NEBRASKA A BDSM Mistress who works under the name Mistress Melinda has the uncanny ability to teach classes on any topic, even those she has no knoweldge of or experience with. “I realized when I was giving a weekend workshop on ‘Cold Fusion’ that I had a rare gift,” Mistress Melinda told The Daily Flogger.  “I am not even sure what that is or what it means, but I did two six hour sessions on it.  Not only did no one complain, I got rave reviews.  People said I really gave them a lot to think about.” The so-called “Mistress of…
 
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Sex Drive: The Bell Curve of Human Sexual Desire

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    28 Jul 2014 | 7:00 am
    Our sex drive is individually unique based on the amount of sex steroids our body makes. Humans by their very DNA and biology are sexual, but there is a bell-curve. The post Sex Drive: The Bell Curve of Human Sexual Desire appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • TTC Tips for Men: Increase Sperm Count, Quality, and Motility

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    25 Jul 2014 | 5:52 am
    Improve sperm count, quality, and motility with these tips for men in TTC couples. Dr. E shares positive life changes that may help as you are trying for a baby. The post TTC Tips for Men: Increase Sperm Count, Quality, and Motility appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • 5 Things We All Want To Make Sex Better

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    24 Jul 2014 | 6:30 am
    Many of us want the same things to make sex better. A large study of men and women, ages 33-43, paints a picture of how we all would like to change our intimate lives. The post 5 Things We All Want To Make Sex Better appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • How To Give and Receive More Oral Sex

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    22 Jul 2014 | 6:29 am
    About 60% of married Americans give and receive oral sex, but many want to more than they are getting. Find out the top 3 reasons we're not getting as much as we want, plus Dr. E shares tips on how to receive more oral sex! The post How To Give and Receive More Oral Sex appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Hormonophobia: Media Hysteria & The War Against Hormone Therapy

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    21 Jul 2014 | 6:53 am
    Instead of reporting a life saving benefit of testosterone supplementation for men as found in study after study, media coverage highlights studies contrarily suggesting a risk of hormone therapy. The post Hormonophobia: Media Hysteria & The War Against Hormone Therapy appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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