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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex
    Violet Blue
    25 Sep 2014 | 1:09 am
    Mindy, Jason X – Loving Touch (image above via) Riley Reid, gentleman friend – Forget Me Not Sima, gentleman friend – Cute Ass Fuck Adreena Winters, Marc Rose – Portrait Of A Couple Samantha Bentley, gentleman friend – Sex in Venice (“Intense Anal”) Mira, two gentleman friends – Sex in Venice (“Intense DP”) Ryan Ryder, Satine Spark, Anna Darling – Three is Company, Four’s a Crowd Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal,…
  • 3 Ways Porn Destroyed Sex in My Marriage

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    24 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    One of the lies I often hear is that pornography can be a helpful tool to spice up your sex life—especially in a monogamous relationship like marriage. After all, if you’re getting tired of the same meal, shouldn’t you pick up a cookbook for some extra inspiration? This logic breaks down though, when you realize the purpose of sex (unlike food) goes much deeper than to merely satisfy physical desires. (Tweet This!) The purpose of sex is to bring you and your spouse together in a way that unites your entire selves together; not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually…
  • Sex News: Male virgins over 30, third breast Halloween costume, the butthole zeitgeist

    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex
    Violet Blue
    28 Sep 2014 | 10:09 am
    Miss Georgia by Keith P. Rein, via Sex in Art. Experiencing 100 orgasms a day may sound like the gift that keeps on giving, but a heartbroken man from Wisconsin can assure you — it’s much more of a curse. The living hell of a man who orgasms 100 times a day (NY Post) The owner of Hot Buns burger joint Mathias Kaer believes that “on Friday and Saturday nights there are only two things people want: sex and food.” Hot Buns, based in Copenhagen, Denmark, is now combining both by adding actual sex toys to its menu. Danish Restaurant Hot Buns Selling Sex Toys With Burgers (XBIZ) Thank you…
  • 3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

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    Shawna Lenee
    18 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath! These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life. Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work. The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex…
  • Young Sexuality Activists: Madison Kimrey

    31 Aug 2014 | 1:38 am
    This blog post is part of a series here at Scarleteen profiling young people worldwide who are activists in some way in the fields of sexuality, sex education and sexual health. Madison Kimrey is, in a word, amazing. You might know her from the letter she wrote to Phyllis Schlafly a few months ago, but that's not the only thing she's done that's so fantastic. She contributes regularly to the online magazine Liberals Unite, and maintains her own blog as well: Functional Human Being. While her writing is elegant and thought-provoking, that's not the only form her activism takes; she's not…
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    Audacia Ray

  • iwriteaboutfeminism: Today, Ferguson is prepared to “keep it...

    29 Sep 2014 | 6:29 am
    iwriteaboutfeminism: Today, Ferguson is prepared to “keep it moving.” September 28th
  • thesoundofonebrainthinking: blackfemalejesus: socialjusticekool...

    24 Sep 2014 | 7:35 am
    thesoundofonebrainthinking: blackfemalejesus: socialjusticekoolaid: HAPPENING NOW (9.24.14): The situation in Ferguson is escalating quickly. Protests continue, following this morning’s burning of a Mike Brown memorial, and another frustrating Ferguson City Council meeting.Looks like the same “antagonize over de-escalate” tactics are back online. Prayers to all those out in the street of Ferguson right now fighting for their right to exist. #staywoke #farfromoverPT IPT IIPT III Bringing back the dogs, choppers, charging the crowd, attempting to bottleneck protesters into an area, AND…
  • jessehimself: breelifts: —- socialjusticekoolaid: Protesters...

    17 Sep 2014 | 4:35 am
    jessehimself: breelifts: socialjusticekoolaid: Protesters from across St Louis turned up and turned out for the first St Louis County Council Meeting since Mike Brown’s Death. (Part I) The St Louis County Council wasn’t as bad as Ferguson’s Council, but still very few answers and virtually no accountability from the folks who unleashed unholy hell on the residents of Ferguson, following Brown’s murder. #staywoke #farfromover KEEP POSTING I NEED TO KNOW! DONT STOP POSTING ABOUT THIS. IT IS NOT OVER!
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  • wocinsolidarity: not-homophobic-but: These tweets from...

    29 Aug 2014 | 7:18 pm
    wocinsolidarity: not-homophobic-but: These tweets from @OfRedAndBlue are very important. RIGHT!!!?!?? like we’re not playing a theoretical game here, we’re talking about people’s LIVES
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  • US Healthcare advice on Labiaplasty?

    29 Sep 2014 | 1:10 pm
    I was pleased to see more than one post tagged with this particular tag, with similar posts to what I planned to ask, which means this isn't something I'm imagining as a problem, if you know what I mean, heh.So over the years I've been frustrated by the length of my labia minora, which extend a ways past the labia majora, and now that I'm pregnant I feel like they've either started to swell more or I'm just noticing it more. I'd be delighted to find that my current problem is a pregnancy thing, since I'm due in just about a month and would like the pain and discomfort to GO AWAY ALREADY!I…
  • Copper IUD life span

    29 Sep 2014 | 9:29 am
    Hi everyone,This is my first post to this community, so I hope I don't accidentally break any rules. (If so, sorry...)I have a question about the life span of copper IUDs. In 2005, I got a copper IUD (I forgot which brand). Back then, I was told that the IUD would last for five years. I really liked this form of birth control and I never experienced any problems with it. So after five years, I went to see my GP to discuss a new copper IUD. Apparently medical opinions had changed by then, because she told me that I could keep the same IUD for another five years as long as I wasn't experiencing…
  • i'm very stumped here.

    28 Sep 2014 | 1:34 pm
    hi. so i have noticed for the last month or so that i've got this awful burning / raw / sore feeling on my right upper thigh, like right near the pubic area (basically in the crease and out towards my leg); i've checked and there isnt any kind of redness / rash; nothing yeasty smelling / looking either (which i get from time to time under my boobs and around my bellybutton)..i've shaved today (bc i read that it could be my hair rubbing me raw) but so far it's feeling the same as it was b4. anyway, i thought it was from the mattress, maybe, bc i sleep on my right side most of the time and i…
  • Break-through Bleeding on Microgestin 1/20 (Junel)?

    28 Sep 2014 | 11:40 am
    I started on Microgestin 1/20 a week ago (to the day). My gyn had advised me to do a Sunday start, and Sunday just happened to be the first day of my period.My period typically lasts 5 days, with the heaviest bleeding on the second day. Things seemed to be going according to the norm this time around, with the exception of some really heavy clotting around Day 3. I was kind of surprised to find that I was still bleeding yesterday, but chalked it up to the fact that my period had started pretty late Sunday night. I figured it'd definitely be done by this morning.No such luck. In fact, it seems…
  • Community Categorization

    27 Sep 2014 | 2:16 pm
    Hey, Superstars!LiveJournal recently contacted us about updates made to the Community Directory. With this new update, we'll be categorizing VP so that new folks can find us and get a feel of what we're about. This means that posts to VP with the Security setting set to 'public' will start appearing in the Recent Posts tab at for the topics VP will be categorized under, and VP itself will show up on the Communities tab.This may result in heightened traffic for public posts and is therefore something to keep in mind when choosing to make a…
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    Yahoo Health

  • Aspirin May Reduce Risk of Aggressive Prostate Cancer

    29 Sep 2014 | 7:13 am
    Photo by Stockbyte/Getty Images As many people know, a daily aspirin can help stave off a heart attack. Apparently, your ticker isn’t the only part of your body that may benefit from a dose of the drug: Aspirin significantly reduces men’s risk of prostate cancer, reveals a new Duke University study, presented at the 13th Annual American Association for Cancer Research Frontiers in Cancer Prevention Research Conference , held in New Orleans, La., this week.  The 6,390 men, none of whom had prostate cancer at the start of the study, were part of the Reduce trial, a…
  • Are Bug Bars the New Protein Bars? The Nutritional Value of Eating Insects

    26 Sep 2014 | 9:45 am
    Photo by If you haven’t snacked on a grasshopper lately, you’re missing out on a hefty dose of nutrition. By Harley Pasternak Pasternak is a celebrity trainer and author of “The Body Reset Diet.” For one to stay lean and healthy, every meal must contain protein, fiber, and healthy fat. If you’re the adventurous type, though, there is an extremely affordable, sustainable, and eco-friendly — yet high-quality — protein option you may want to consider: bugs! I’m not talking about the bug parts that unintentionally get into our food in kitchens or factories; More elegantly referred…
  • Build a Home Gym for Under $100

    26 Sep 2014 | 9:45 am
    By Pamela Hernandez We all have the same 24 hours to work with. Craigslist is a great place to find exercise equipment at rock-bottom prices.
  • Tone Your Whole Body On a Park Bench

    26 Sep 2014 | 9:44 am
    Join CosmoBody  trainer Adam Rosante for a calorie-torching bleacher workout that will keep you looking smokin’. Don’t have access to a stadium? No problem! All you’ll need for this insta-hot exercise is a step or sturdy park bench.
  • Why Being Sore After a Workout Isn't Always a Good Thing

    25 Sep 2014 | 9:52 pm
    While we’re all guilty of wearing our soreness as a badge of post-workout pride once in a while (and you totally deserve it for giving your workout your all), experts say the feeling is not, in fact, a reliable measure of your fitness progress. It’s usually just a novel stimulus,” says Peak Performance trainer Ethan Grossman, who’s worked extensively with professional athletes and physical therapists and has degree in exercise science.
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  • Semintele de grau verde si animalul tau de companie

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:22 am
    Cele mai multe mamifere, inclusiv pisici, ai grijă de iarbă pentru a se mentine sanatosi sau recupereaza dupa o accidentare. Daca pisica ta are de buruieni și iarbă sălbatică, tu ar trebui să exercite întotdeauna prudență. Acest lucru poate duce la iarbă pisica ta de a contracta o boală dăunătoare. Uneori, poate dura chiar la plante de apartament de alimentatie, care pot fi, de asemenea, dăunătoare pentru el. În astfel de momente, este mai bine pentru a merge pentru grau verde pe plan intern, care este mai nutritivă decât alte soiuri de iarbă. Semințe organice Grau verde…
  • Jaluzelele exterioare pentru balconul tau

    26 Sep 2014 | 1:31 am
    Popularitatea de rulouri pentru beneficiile de securitate pe care le oferă este larg recunoscut. Ele oferă suport de descurajare împotriva hoți și de a proteja usile si ferestrele de la obtinerea deteriorat din cauza intemperiilor și toate celelalte forme de deteriorare. Ele sunt aproape sinonim cu blondele și le poate rula în jos pentru a expune usi si ferestre, parțial sau complet. Acestea sunt în mare parte realizate din metal robust și puternic pentru a ajuta siguranță la întreaga gospodărie și oamenii din ea. Există o serie de beneficii care ofera rulouri. De asemenea,…
  • Panourile radiante de caldura – ce putem sti?

    23 Sep 2014 | 1:59 am
    Red fierbinte ca în vânzări, care este. Motivele din spatele popularitatea în creștere a panourilor radiante de căldură sunt usurinta de instalare, cald rapid, căldura praf, și low-cost în raport cu alte sisteme de încălzire alternative. Pentru același preț ca o sobă pe peleți, ai putea încălzi un metru patrat de 1.500 domiciliu și nu au de a face cu localizarea, stocarea, și lugging 40 saci de jumătate de kilogram de pelete. O Departamentul de Energie al SUA sponsorizat studiu a concluzionat că panourile radiante de căldură au fost cu 52% mai puțin costisitoare…
  • Rulouri exterioare pentru casa ta

    18 Sep 2014 | 2:34 am
    Un declanșator exterior de rulare nu este limitată la acționează ca o barieră de sunet, bloc de soare, și santinelă siguranță. Ca o înlocuiască pentru obloane din aluminiu bigudiu externe, aceste ferestre remedii dificile sunt concepute pentru a furniza un cost maxim de creștere internă, amestecat cu atracție estetică. Sintetic de la oricare aluminiu, sau PVC, jaluzele ocupa un mod distinctiv de a adăuga sensibil recurs bordură la domiciliu. Investiția în acoperire pentru jaluzele pentru proprietatea ta creste eficienta energetica, prin limitarea pierderilor de căldură la…
  • Panourile solare pentru casa ta!

    9 Sep 2014 | 1:59 am
    Alegerea proiectului știință potrivit pentru tineri de a face ar trebui să includă conceptul de ajutându-i implice mai mult în problemele globale importante de astăzi. Un proiect științific pe panouri solare ar putea fi la fel de lucru pentru a le pentru a obține o mai bună înțelegere a modului în care criza de energie ne afecteaza si ce pot face despre el. Pentru mai multe informatii: Aceste ultimele decenii au fost o perioadă de schimbări incredibile pe planeta. Are nevoie planeta astăzi să fie protejate împotriva creșterii efectelor…
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  • 2 Reasons My Addiction Evolved From Fantasy To Reality

    28 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    My addiction isn’t hurting anyone. It’s only pictures on a screen. It’s not like I’m cheating on my wife. There’s no way I could ever do that. At least that’s what I told myself. Right up until I had my first affair. I never would have considered myself capable of being unfaithful to my wife. I loved her, found her attractive, and honestly wanted to be a Godly husband. I simply couldn’t fathom the thought of hurting her in that way. So what happened? How did my addiction to pornography erupt out of the computer and evolve into multiple real-world…
  • 3 Ways Porn Destroyed Sex in My Marriage

    24 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    One of the lies I often hear is that pornography can be a helpful tool to spice up your sex life—especially in a monogamous relationship like marriage. After all, if you’re getting tired of the same meal, shouldn’t you pick up a cookbook for some extra inspiration? This logic breaks down though, when you realize the purpose of sex (unlike food) goes much deeper than to merely satisfy physical desires. (Tweet This!) The purpose of sex is to bring you and your spouse together in a way that unites your entire selves together; not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually…
  • 7 Reasons WHY Great Sex Is A Must In Your Marriage

    21 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    Last week I wrote a blog that was called 7 Keys To Great Sex (if you missed it go ahead and read that one first). I heard from a number of people and even talked about some of the reactions that the post got on my podcast “Craig’s Car Ride.” One thing I noticed is: when you talk about sex, it gets a big reaction. (Tweet This!) Some good and some bad, and while I totally understand this is a sensitive topic, ultimately we want to see people having great marriages, and an important part of having a great marriage is having great sex. Why? Here are 7 reasons: #1. Sex Helps…
  • 3 Things You NEED To Know That Can Hinder A Marriage (Other Than Bad Sex)

    17 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week we’ve been talking great sex. Well, more specifically, great sex in marriage. If you haven’t seen my latest post, check it out now. I really believe the seven things I share with you are going to help your sex life with your spouse immensely. That being said, if a great marriage were only about great sex then things would be simple (Tweet This!). However, we know that great sex is only part of having a great marriage. There are many other things that factor in. Here are 3 quick things that can get in the way if we don’t get them right. 1. Failure to recognize…
  • 7 Keys to Great Sex in Marriage

    14 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    My wife Jeanette and I and our friends Dave and Ashley Willis are working on a brand-new video series called “Best Sex Life Now,” which you’ll see very soon. After 16 years of marriage, I’m more passionate about this than ever: married folks need to be having sex… and great sex at that! (Tweet This!) So here are seven keys to help you unlock that great sex life. #1 Twice a week. Practice makes perfect. Sure, sex is a great chance to have an orgasm, but more than that, sex connects you and brings you closer. You won’t have great sex the first time and…
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Can’t Buy My Love

    Lilly Dangeroux
    22 Sep 2014 | 1:21 pm
    It took 6 years for me to be accused of being bought off. Also, I’m officially notorious. Perhaps I should change my handle to Notorious L.I.L? SheVibe is All That Some people, even other bloggers, have questioned my love for SheVibe. As one of the biggest mouths in the Toxic Toy “hysteria” scene, I’ve had a few question it because they carry stuff that’s porous. They don’t carry anything that isn’t labeled by the manufacturer as “phthalates-free” so in that regard they ARE a non-toxic shop. As you all know I don’t love porous toys…
  • Should we be paid for our reviews?

    Lilly Dangeroux
    20 Sep 2014 | 7:15 am
    Earlier this year I ranted on a topic similar to this; many companies have no idea the sort of effort we put into our sex toy reviews. The testing, the photos, the writing, the editing, and even the promoting. For the cheap toys, we’re getting screwed in the conversion if the sex toy is seen as “payment” for the review.  But many of us spend at least half a day’s work time (if we’re comparing this to an hourly full-time job) if not a full day or even MORE than a full work day’s time on our reviews. So today I saw a post from a blogger, not a sex blogger,…
  • Nominate me, please!

    17 Sep 2014 | 2:58 pm
    I’ve spent the majority of my 6+ years not asking to be nominated; I felt it defeated the purpose (in my mind). That if anybody actually liked my work, they’d nominate it without prompt. I’ve since dropped all stubbornness and “pride” and have no fucks left to give about my previous stick-up-my-ass ways.  I am liberated! Or something. I’m cantankerous, I’m rough around the edges, I’m not all that universally liked. I’m okay with that! I’m proud of the work I do, and if I raise some hackles then I think it means I’m doing my…
  • Jopen Lust L10 Review

    Lilly Dangeroux
    16 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    The Jopen Lust L10 surely is an odd-shaped dual stimulator. Due to the angle the photos were taken on SheVibe, people were imagining a solo use version of the Lelo Ida. Thankfully, not even Jopen feels the need to incorporate a rotating internal arm. But where the Ida’s clitoral portion is shaped like a large, flat-ish disc, the Jopen Lust L10 has a top shaped like a large egg vibrator. And the shape of the Jopen Lust L10 is just odd enough that I figured it could work for me. The Good Due to the way I’m built, I hate vibrators that have a handle that sticks straight out from my…
  • Ask Lilly: Are there any safe, silicone suction cup dildos?

    Lilly Dangeroux
    10 Sep 2014 | 8:49 am
    Like the rabbit vibrator, suction cup dildos are (for me) a great idea in theory but terrible in execution. I’m no spring chicken anymore and I have the knees of a person twice my age. I can’t deny though that plenty of people love these things. One reason why I have trouble with suction cup dildos is the lack of a compatible surface. The surface has to be completely flat and perfectly smooth, no imperfections that would break the suction seal. Bathroom tiles can sometimes work, but they need to be at least 1/2″ bigger than the base on each side to have a chance at working.
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    Susie Bright's Journal

  • Transparent Behind the Scenes -- Listen Up! (Susie Bright)
    29 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    Listen to the Behind-the-Scenes Features! I produced them, and they're pretty darn cool. Spoiler Alerts: Major and delicious. Watch Season 1 first, if you want to let the surprises unfold naturally-- your binge is our pleasure. Needless to say, I didn't do it alone. I'm lucky enough to produce this...
  • Kate Clinton Goes Deep Inside The Sex Archives (Susie Bright)
    1 Apr 2014 | 4:14 pm
    Radclyffe Hall, "Speaking of Sex Exhibit": The Human Sexuality Collection 25th Anniversary Sometimes at fundraisers when I talk with people about another string of LGBT successes, I feel like I have been Mr. Peabody-ed into a way, wayback machine episode. It's The Beverly Hillbillies and a gobsmacked Jethro has just...
  • Lung Cancer Noir - Ariel Gore's Masterpiece. (Susie Bright)
    6 Mar 2014 | 6:39 pm
    I have this recurring nightmare that my mother is alive. She never died. I've made a terrible mistake. I have to call my editor. We can't publish the book. I don't know how I could have made such a wild mistake. I mean, she looked dead. I signed the papers....
  • Best Doggone Kody Dog Ever (Susie Bright)
    9 Jan 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Kodiak Rest in Peace April 1, 2001- January 9, 2015 Oh have you seen my dear companion For he was all this world to me I hear he's gone to some far country and he fares no more to be I wish I were a swallow flying I'd fly to...
  • My Answers to Professor Larry Gopnik's Post-Hanukah, Pre-Christmas, Post-Schrodinger, Pre-Apocalypse Holiday Movie Quiz (Susie Bright)
    26 Dec 2013 | 3:15 pm
    1) Favorite unsung holiday film? The Ref. Too famous, you say? Well, i would like to take some of the credit for that, because I have flogged it as "best Christmas movie ever" for a very long time. Each year, I shock several people with its discovery, who then take...
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • Is 13 the "Right" Age for Sex or Romance?

    Heather Corinna
    22 Sep 2014 | 9:24 am
    I'm wondering what a good age to have a 'relationship' is? I'm 13 and I've sort of began to have stronger attractions both emotionally and physically to boys. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship and I'm scared that if it doesn't work (for example, if I'm frigid or something) it will ruin our friendship. I know it's not much of a big deal but I just want some help and reassurance. read The answer | ask your own
  • Young Sexuality Activists: Madison Kimrey

    31 Aug 2014 | 1:38 am
    This blog post is part of a series here at Scarleteen profiling young people worldwide who are activists in some way in the fields of sexuality, sex education and sexual health. Madison Kimrey is, in a word, amazing. You might know her from the letter she wrote to Phyllis Schlafly a few months ago, but that's not the only thing she's done that's so fantastic. She contributes regularly to the online magazine Liberals Unite, and maintains her own blog as well: Functional Human Being. While her writing is elegant and thought-provoking, that's not the only form her activism takes; she's not…
  • What would/do you need to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?

    Heather Corinna
    7 Aug 2014 | 8:49 am
    Welcome to our new way of polling, so you can express yourself and get a sense of how your peers feel about certain topics in their own words, too! We love having polls on our site so you and others can speak for yourselves -- rather than the media or older adults doing it in your stead -- and see how others feel, too. But our favourite part of the polls were always the comments, where we could all read what you had to say, rather than just seeing what short answer you chose of the options we wrote for you. So, we've swapped out the multiple-choice format and built a graffiti-wall where what…
  • I Want To Be a Sex Educator. Er, How do I do That?

    Sam W
    28 Jul 2014 | 9:33 am
    I will be a junior in high school next year, and because I've been lucky to stumble on a lot of really great sex-positive resources, I've learned I have a pretty strong interest in sexuality--as in, studying it/doing something in it as a career. However, getting information about this field is much more difficult than, say, engineering or law. What are jobs within this field, what are areas in college/majors you'd advise, and what are some ways I can get involved now, as a minor? My areas of interest are not really in the medical field--I'm more interested in counseling, giving advice,…
  • Words Mean Things. Specific things.

    Heather Corinna
    23 Jul 2014 | 11:19 am
    Just a brief request from us to the world-at-large, primarily with the aim of making our users lives a little easier. Secondarily, it'd also make the lives of those of us who work to help them daily in these areas easier, too, which would sure be nice. Please do us and everyone else a favor and stop using certain words with very specific meanings as general shorthand. Often some of these words and frameworks just really aren't shorthand for what you mean, and they confuse the heck out of people and make something even less clear that's already confusing enough. We do have clear, specific…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Botched Up Bodies

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    27 Sep 2014 | 3:03 am
    I think all women who are considering going under the knife for plastic surgery should be made to watch Botched Up Bodies. Gruesome and heart breaking! Women – and they seemed to be mainly female – who were determined to ‘improve’ their appearance and saw the wrong plastic surgeon – whether here or abroad. And now [...]
  • HNT: Icy Feet

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    24 Sep 2014 | 2:58 am
    Ruf complains bitterly about my frozen extremities. We’ve tried hot water bottles and socks but, on the coldest of winter nights, neither is enough and even Ruf’s layer of blubber cannot maintain the warmth in the bed. One evening, we both had to wear a tshirt and socks, whereas we naturally prefer naked. So, whilst shopping [...]
  • Rolling In The Deep

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    21 Sep 2014 | 2:51 am
    There’s a fire starting in my heart Reaching a fever pitch and it’s bringing me out the dark Finally I can see you crystal clear Go ahead and sell me out and I’ll lay your ship bare See how I’ll leave, with every piece of you Don’t underestimate the things that I will do The scars of your love they leave [...]
  • Sex Helps You Live Longer

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    18 Sep 2014 | 2:43 am
    Recent studies have also found that having sex three times a week could halve the risk of heart attack or stroke and women who have two orgasms a week are up to 30 percent less likely to have heart disease than their sisters who don't have such a good [...]
  • Relationship Fat Traps

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    15 Sep 2014 | 2:42 am
    Relationship Fat Traps is not a term I have really heard before but it does resonate. When Ruf comes to live here, he starts assimilating some of my diet and losing his own rigorous exercise protocols. When Ruf comes to live here, I forget to do my own exercise regimes. We both end up getting bloated and doing [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 5 Things Guys Really DON’T Want In Bed

    Kaylen Jackson
    21 Sep 2014 | 4:00 am
    Sex tips tell you what to DO in the sack, but how do you find out mistakes to avoid? While men want to do a lot of different things in the bedroom, there are some things that just don’t strike his fancy and may very well turn him completely OFF. You don’t want to do that! Here are the things that your guy would really rather you leave OUT. He Doesn’t Want To Try “Butt Stuff” This applies to “butt stuff” on HIM. Most guys enjoy anal sex with women, but the street doesn’t go both ways. Although you can give him a totally fierce orgasm via…
  • 7 Oral Sex Tips That Will Have Her SCREAMING Your Name!

    Kaylen Jackson
    21 Sep 2014 | 4:00 am
    Oral sex is probably one of the easiest – and best – ways to make a woman orgasm. If you’re not skilled at cunnilingus and there’s another guy who is – even if you’re better looking – the other guy will win out again and again. So shape up your game with these seven oral sex tips – they are hotter than hot! Slow Pressure Make your tongue as broad and as flat as you can. Put pressure on her clitoris and lick slowly – like, very SLOWLY. Mostly what you’re focusing on here is the pressure and very little movement. Let up on the pressure…
  • 3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

    Shawna Lenee
    18 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath! These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life. Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work. The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex…
  • Striptease Tips: How To Give Him A Lap Dance He Won’t EVER Forget!

    Kaylen Jackson
    18 Sep 2014 | 4:50 am
    A striptease can be a super hot gift to give to your guy. Men are almost solely visual creatures and by taking advantage of this, you can really kick your sex life up a notch and get your fella lusting after you like never before. Learn how to give him a lap dance that he will think about for a LONG time! Song Choice Song choice is actually very important when it comes to doing a striptease. You want to choose a song that sounds sexy and makes you think of sex as soon as you hear it, but also one that has a beat that works well with your current dancing skills. If the beat is too fast and…
  • Sex Tips: The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make In Bed

    Shawna Lenee
    16 Sep 2014 | 1:00 pm
    Sex tips will guide you in the right direction, but you also want to make sure you’re not actively ruining your own sex life as well. Are you ruining your sex life? Even the best lovers are often guilty of flubbing up in the bedroom, often WITHOUT ever knowing it. It’s just a fact of life. But that doesn’t mean that YOU have to be! Discover the most common issues men have in the bedroom – and what to do INSTEAD to drive your woman WILD with pleasure. Avoid these 10 sex life ruiners and you’ll have better sex the very NEXT time you make love, guaranteed! Thinking She…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered

    Natalie (NML)
    24 Sep 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Picture this (adopts Sophia from Golden Girls voice): You meet somebody on a dating website (read: introduction website after all, you can’t actually ‘date’ on it), you exchange a few emails and texts, maybe you chat on the phone a few times and then you meet up, hopefully within the first week or two because beyond that you get into building sandcastles in the sky territory. Between reading their profile, viewing any photos and these initial exchanges, you glean information about that person but at some point, maybe when you meet up, it comes to light that this person…
  • You can change your version of normal at any time

    Natalie (NML)
    17 Sep 2014 | 3:03 pm
    When you’ve witnessed or been through a lot of stuff as a child, a chunk of adulthood is spent trying to work out what’s normal because it quickly becomes apparent that what was ‘normal’ to you isn’t how things are in general or what you want to continue with, especially as you’ll be feeling the pain of putting your pattern on repeat. Normalising what may be really poor behaviour and dynamics only really equips you for abusive and dysfunctional relationships. It trains you to be a pleaser devoted to trying to influence people’s feelings and behaviour…
  • Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

    Natalie (NML)
    10 Sep 2014 | 2:53 pm
    Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For example, a few months back, I met up with a business acquaintance and when parting and discussing another meeting, they quipped that I’d better not be giving them any of that “sh*t” and pointed to my herbal tea. I felt slightly disconcerted. It niggled because it felt over the line. Now some people might think I’m crackers…
  • Are you sabotaging yourself by not allowing you to be happy?

    Natalie (NML)
    3 Sep 2014 | 2:32 pm
    Penny intended to feel on top of the world but ended up getting in her own way. She aced it when she’d showcased her work to respected people within her industry but enjoyed that feeling for all of a hot minute because she ended up ‘celebrating’ with Mr Miserable, her sometimes charming Mr Unavailable who from the moment that he knew he’d won her over, he started up with the sniping, criticism and other such passive aggression before his pants had hit the floor. Penny’s achievements were quickly forgotten and barely acknowledged. Sonya raves about her boyfriend who for the…
  • Understanding why an ex is spreading misinformation about you (or building a case against you to break up)

    Natalie (NML)
    25 Aug 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Breakups, even expected and mutual ones, often feel like a kick a teeth, but a breakup feels like a mugging when it comes to light that our ex has been in effect, poisoning the waters by saying things about us that are not true or are certainly exaggerated. Why would somebody who we shared a relationship with and who we believe that we were loving to, choose to spread misinformation designed to discredit us?  There’s a common misconception that breakups only happen to ‘bad’ people or where something terrible happened, which is akin to suggesting that breakups are an…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 403: Striking while the iron is cold

    24 Sep 2014 | 6:00 am
    Striking while the iron is cold: should you bring in a new poly partner when your current partner agreed to it years ago and you've become distant in the meantime? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 402: Poly Weekly live at CatalystCon

    18 Sep 2014 | 8:13 pm
    Poly Weekly live at CatalystCon West with special guests Reid Mihalko and Charlie Glickman! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 401: Fuzzy landmines

    8 Sep 2014 | 4:01 pm
    Fuzzy landmines and invisible fences that the person entering an existing relationship often encounters--and how to make sure you're not the one making them! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 400: Polyamory for introverts

    1 Sep 2014 | 2:05 pm
    Being poly with introverts with guest Dan, dawn and Karen of Beyond the Love! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • Poly Mythbusters

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:18 pm
    Your favorite myths about polyamory, busted once and for all! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Simple Marriage

  • Why You Should Never Say the “D-word” in Your Marriage

    29 Sep 2014 | 5:59 am
    The other night, my wife and I were visiting with some friends. At one point, a funny but hypothetical situation was brought up and my wife said, “I don’t know, I’d…” She couldn’t finish her sentence. After some coaxing, we finally got her to say what she couldn’t before. She said, “I don’t know, I’d probably divorce him”. Even joking with friends it was hard to say. The reason it was so hard for her was because early on in our marriage, we both decided that we would never even mention the “D-word”, not even in joking. We’ve both conditioned ourselves to avoid the…
  • The secret to a lasting marriage

    22 Sep 2014 | 6:12 am
    Divorce is an all too common thing. There is even a belief among some that if marriage becomes too much work or is too difficult or if you are not happy enough, get a divorce. My opinion of this idea: why take the easy way out? Marriage is work. Marriage is struggle. But then again, any close relationship is. And for that matter, so is anything of value in life. There are times I have been asked, “What makes a marriage last?” “What’s the secret to a lasting marriage?” The answer is actually simple (simple is not to be confused with easy). Before I divulge the…
  • 6 Marriage Myths Debunked

    15 Sep 2014 | 5:07 am
    The only thing perfect about marriage is the airbrushed wedding photo. ~ Anonymous Marriage, even the best of marriages, can take effort and work. In fact, based on the research I conducted regarding the essential elements necessary for a marriage to thrive, commitment, trust, and respect were in the top five – and each of these require some work to make happen. Many people still enter into marriage wearing rose-colored glasses. We long for the Hollywoodization of relationships. Where everything goes smoothly and passionately and all our disagreements are resolved before the credits…
  • The art of non-sexual touch

    10 Sep 2014 | 6:07 am
    If you are neanderthal or cro-magnon man reading this, your reaction may be “What? Me must procreate!” If you are somewhat more enlightened you may be saying, “Yeah right, like there is such a thing.” And if you’re a female, you may be saying, “It’s about time!” We are all sexual beings. It’s part of our design. Sexuality plays a role in most everything we encounter. Our society has become more and more sexualized. But in a marriage, there’s more to life than sex. Did I really just say that out loud? A major component of a fulfilling…
  • Be a Fan, a Team Player and a Coach to have a Successful Marriage

    8 Sep 2014 | 6:31 am
    Football season is here. Most people I know are overjoyed to let the upcoming games consume them. I have some serious pigskin fans in my family. Compared to those fanatics, my spouse and I are the weird ones. We don’t actually follow any particular team or sport. In fact, it’s one of the things that attracted me to my husband – that I wouldn’t be forced to watch the big screens or attend tail-gating parties when deep down, that just isn’t my passion. However, that being said, I do admire the enthusiasm that goes behind football fandom. In fact, I think the principles can be applied…
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  • See you soon in Chicago, Milwaukee, New York and at my first online only erotica writing class

    26 Sep 2014 | 6:20 am
    I've got a lot going on and am doing my best to make sure each event is as wonderful as it can be. I've been so inspired by the classes I've been teaching and the writing that's come out of them. I'll also be sending out my newsletter closer to the beginning of each month and am giving away free books to subscribers, so if you want in on the free book action and to get my monthly musings and updates in one email, subscribe on the left-hand side of I'm home very briefly in between travels and on deadline, so I will share more as soon as I can about my very first library…
  • I don't sleep naked

    24 Sep 2014 | 3:56 am
    Find out what I do instead in the Vice issue of TueNight.
  • See you in Portland, Maine September 23 and 24

    19 Sep 2014 | 8:30 am
    My Tuesday September 23rd 7:30-9 pm erotica writing workshop at Nomia in Portland, Maine is on its way to selling out, so get your tickets now by calling 207-773-4774 ($25/person, limit of 20 people). And for Banned Books Week, I'll be discussing erotica, porn and Fifty Shades of Grey with Nomia owner Gina Rourke at Portland Public Library on the 24th. I'm looking forward to both events and if you know anyone in or near Portland, Maine, please let them know. See also my interview in Maine Today about erotica writing and the genre as a whole (yes, you can write erotica about anything, and I'll…
  • Sexy Chicago scavenger hunt and my erotica writing workshop September 28th

    18 Sep 2014 | 3:16 pm
    I'm looking forward to returning to Chicago on September 28th and lo and behold, there's a fabulous sounding Filthy Scavenger Hunt at the Field Museum being put on by Sex Geekdom Chicago that I plan to attend! Thanks to Cooper of podcast Life on the Swingset for the heads up. Here's part of the official description: Sex Geeks Unite! We're going to be scouring the Field Museum looking for filthy, suggestive, and legitimately educationally sexual objects and exhibits. Your mission is to wander the glorious halls of one of the greatest museums on Earth, armed with your trusty cell phone, and…
  • Portland, Oregon erotica writing workshop tonight (9/18)!

    18 Sep 2014 | 7:24 am
    Tonight the final stop on the West Coast leg of my month of events is at Q Center, 4115 N. Mississippi Avenue in Portland, Oregon from 6 yo 8 p.m.; more details below, but you can register online or at the door using cash or credit card. After that, I'll be heading home to New Jersey followed by events in Portland, Maine, Chicago, Milwaukee, New York and my first online only erotica writing class with LitReactor starting October 16th. A few other events are in the works. Get my calendar information on my website and sign up for my monthly newsletter on the left hand side of my site's main…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Nicole Kidman’s rough sex fashion photo editorial

    Violet Blue
    29 Sep 2014 | 12:38 am
    Thought this might be of interest, in case you missed it: Nicole Kidman was photographed by Steven Klein for Interview magazine, in a very intense and erotically supercharged fashion editorial that is all about rough sex and consent edgeplay. Afterward, Kidman commented about her experience during the photo session in a conversation with Klein saying, “I do believe that there are many different realms we can exist in, and a lot of this is just a dream state anyway.” Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This…
  • Sex News: Male virgins over 30, third breast Halloween costume, the butthole zeitgeist

    Violet Blue
    28 Sep 2014 | 10:09 am
    Miss Georgia by Keith P. Rein, via Sex in Art. Experiencing 100 orgasms a day may sound like the gift that keeps on giving, but a heartbroken man from Wisconsin can assure you — it’s much more of a curse. The living hell of a man who orgasms 100 times a day (NY Post) The owner of Hot Buns burger joint Mathias Kaer believes that “on Friday and Saturday nights there are only two things people want: sex and food.” Hot Buns, based in Copenhagen, Denmark, is now combining both by adding actual sex toys to its menu. Danish Restaurant Hot Buns Selling Sex Toys With Burgers (XBIZ) Thank you…
  • Sex News: Condom cookbook, Hustler IPO, actual prison sex, invisible bi men

    Violet Blue
    26 Sep 2014 | 10:00 am
    Condom Meals I Want to Make for You is a genuine cookery e-book co-created by Kyosuke Kagami. This novel cookbook contains eleven easy to make recipes, including such tempting delights as “Condom Push Sushi,” “Condom Meat Stuffing,” “Condom Escargot Cooked with Butter” and “Condom Cookies.” The Condom Cookbook: For those intimate boil in the bag meals (Dangerous Minds) If there’s anything we know, it’s that any good technology will be used either for spying or sex. Ello wants nothing to do with the former, but when it comes to NSFW content, they’re all for it.
  • Eye Candy: Hardcore Quickies

    Violet Blue
    25 Sep 2014 | 1:09 am
    Mindy, Jason X – Loving Touch (image above via) Riley Reid, gentleman friend – Forget Me Not Sima, gentleman friend – Cute Ass Fuck Adreena Winters, Marc Rose – Portrait Of A Couple Samantha Bentley, gentleman friend – Sex in Venice (“Intense Anal”) Mira, two gentleman friends – Sex in Venice (“Intense DP”) Ryan Ryder, Satine Spark, Anna Darling – Three is Company, Four’s a Crowd Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal,…
  • Photos from last night’s ‘Eyes Wide Shut’ dinner

    Violet Blue
    20 Sep 2014 | 9:55 pm
    Last night’s dinner at Kink’s Upper Floor wasn’t actually called ‘Eyes Wide Shut’ — it was the BondCon 2014 awards dinner — but it felt like an Eyes Wide Shut dinner, so I’m calling it that. The evening was amazing, and I had the very sexy privilege of sitting at a table with Midori, @banirapai, legendary Shibari instructor Takeshi Nagaike, Norio Sugiura, and Juliette March. I didn’t actually know if I’d see anyone I knew there, so being with my friend Midori was a relief, and meeting Juliette was a sexy fangirl moment, for sure. It…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 413

    Dan Savage
    23 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    A man's wife uses their dom/sub relationship as ammo when they are fighting. And THAT AIN'T FAIR!  Should it be a deal-breaker if your boyfriend doesn't like your sense of humor? (Hint: YES.)  A gay man is having some complicated orgy issues. Don't we all?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Sarah Mirk- the online editor of Bitch Magazine about feminist-friendly porn; how to find it, and how to avoid the bad stuff.  And more, more, more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Le Tote- the fashion rental service that gives women access to an infinite closet of…
  • Savage Love Episode 412

    Dan Savage
    16 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    Hey Dan Savage! What do you think about waiting to have sex until marriage? Dan? Good idea?  A woman enjoys sharing naked photos of herself. Her friends warn her against it. But it gets her off, so why should she listen to them?  On the Magnum, we welcome Debby Herbenick to discuss the vibrator addiction epidemic plaguing ladies across the land.  And, a ton of kind, thoughtful responses from our listeners to the lass who was trapped in a hot & cold relationship with a cold-blooded sociopath. This is not to be missed.  You listeners are some kind of wonderful. …
  • Savage Love Episode 411

    Dan Savage
    9 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    A woman is shocked to learn that her best friend is a trans woman. Why did she keep it secret? Should the caller feel betrayed?  Hear the tale of the French maid outfit that destroyed a relationship.  A college lesbian is horrified to discover that her roommate is an aggressively anti-gay Christian. A woman's former rapist continues to harass her online. In both cases the archangel Dan Savage raises his mighty sword to do some smiting.  We love a good smiting. 206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you…
  • Savage Love Episode 410

    Dan Savage
    2 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    What do you do when your potential new roommate comes with his very own stalker?  Dan chats with Dr. Vy Chu about the real risks of sleeping with honest, HIV-pos guys. On the Magnum, we are delighted to bring back fashion force-of-nature Simon Doonan, to discuss the feminist implications of camel toes.  And a ton more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting This episode is also brought to you Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the…
  • Savage Love Episode 409

    Dan Savage
    26 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and his old co-host Mary Martone talk about cat jealousy, mate poaching, and have an epic, drag-out battle over fat-shaming.  This episode is brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This podcast is also brought to you by Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • The One Great Thing About Moving? Getting Rid Of Old Shit

    Damon Young
    29 Sep 2014 | 10:30 am
    There are few things that inspire the type of unanimous hate that moving does. Sure, living in a new space can be fun and exciting. But the process of transporting each of your earthly possessions from your old place to you new place is a fucking drag. Gathering boxes sucks. Collecting your items together sucks. Packing sucks. Labeling sucks. Renting a moving van — or hiring movers — sucks. Asking friends and family to help you do something you don’t want to do and you know they don’t want to do sucks. Moving boxes on the van sucks. Moving the things like couches and…
  • When Did Miles Per Gallon Become So Sexy?

    Panama Jackson
    29 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    This past weekend I was in Atlanta, Georgia. Unlike 90 percent of visitors to Atlanta, I was not there for the #ATLast Outkast show. I was there to attend the funeral of a cousin of mine who passed away unexpectedly at age 45. Do not cry for me Argentina. The service was beautiful and I held strong until my family decided to gut punch every single person in the church at the end of the service. See, my cousin who passed, Rod, was a singer. Like a sanger singer. He sang at what seems like a million funerals because he had one of those voices that got you emotional. He was a great guy all…
  • REMINISCE | Saturday, October 4th

    29 Sep 2014 | 6:45 am
      REMINISCE | SATURDAY, OCTOBER 4TH ON THE R&B TIP! We’re bring you the best of uptempo R&B, hip-hop remixes of your favorite songs, and all the thug love you can handle! FREE BEFORE 11PM w/RSVP | OPEN BAR 930-1030 LIV NIGHTCLUB | 2001 11th Street, NW | Washington, DC RSVP:
  • The Definitive List Of The 10 Most Under-Appreciated Black People

    Damon Young
    26 Sep 2014 | 9:47 am
    10. Condoleezza Rice Ok. So maybe she was a part of an administration that fabricated reasons to start a war, bankrupt the entire country, and stole the election. But, who didn’t have a shitty year or two? Shit, in 2001 many of us purchased entire IceBerg jean suits and wore them outside like four times, so we should forgive someone who might have contributed to the deaths of thousands of people. 9. That second cousin who shares waaaaaaay too much intimate information about family on Facebook Yes. It annoys the hell out of you that your timeline is dominated everyday by intimate…
  • Growing To Appreciate Steve Harvey’s Shuckey Jivey Charm On Family Feud

    Alex Hardy
    25 Sep 2014 | 9:22 pm
    I like to pretend that, after Steve Hightower went the way of Judy Winslow, Steve Harvey went to live in a cave with post-Emancipation of Mimi Mariah Carey, only to reemerge as the shucky jivey host of Family Feud back 2010. In a perfect world, nothing else—not the Cedric The Entertainer co-signing and certainly not that shirtless photoshoot—happened before or aside from that. Everything else was all a dream nightmare. You see, Mr. Harvey’s He Man/Woman-Guiding steelo doesn’t exactly jibe with my non-medieval view of the world. I will never grasp why wives, girlfriends, and a metric…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • 11 Things White Collar Men Find Sexy (HINT: It's Not A Red Room)

    29 Sep 2014 | 9:23 pm
    It's the simple things that get me every time. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • I Was A Teen Bride And Blamed My Husband For My Failed Career

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:27 pm
    This teenage bride blamed her husband for her lack of success in her thirties, what she learned by leaving. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • My Longest Relationship Is With My Dog And I Have To Say Goodbye

    29 Sep 2014 | 6:45 pm
    It is my longest relationship with a boy, and he's dying. I'm not ready for the death of my beloved dog! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Hey, Stress Junkie: Stop Giving Your Body The Silent Treatment

    marina pearson
    29 Sep 2014 | 5:44 pm
    We run around doing a million and one things, entirely forgetting to take care of ourselves. Slowing down can seem almost impossible but Your Tango Expert Marina Pearson has some surprisingly simple and effective wisdom to share about dealing with anxiety in a way that quickly shifts you to a space of ease and peace. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • He Said, She Said: Why You Each See Your Fight SO Differently

    29 Sep 2014 | 2:19 pm
    When couples argue, each person's perception of "the truth" feels very real to them (even if they're off the mark entirely). And couples typically focus more energy on trying to prove their interpretation is right (and the other's is wrong) than focusing on the actual matter that caused the disagreement. Learn how a shift in mindset can help couples quickly resolve conflict and get them communicating effectively again. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • When's Your Anniversary? Win a Luxury Gift Hamper!

    26 Sep 2014 | 2:30 am
    Here at Lovehoney we love a good survey, and this time we're asking you all about your anniversary. Do you have the Red Arrows spell out "I LOVE YOU HONEYBEE" in the sky to mark the date that you first kissed? Or do you prefer to keep it simple with a card and a cuddle? Perhaps you're somewhere in between, but if you let us know by answering our survey below then you could win a luxury gift hamper worth over £100! The hamper includes: Lovehoney Mains Powered Deluxe Magic Wand Vibrator Lovehoney 10 Function Dream Bullet Vibrator Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Vibrating Cock Ring…
  • How to Increase Your Penis Size

    25 Sep 2014 | 1:00 am
    There are lots of reasons men want to increase the size of their penis. Some want a bigger package for visual purposes, whilst others feel that their partner would benefit from a fuller erection. Whatever your reason, we have a range of products to suit your whim. From pocket-friendly quick-fix options to permanent penis enlargement investments, you'll find the answer here. This guide will talk you through the A-Z of penis enlargement, from the humble cock ring, right through to the high-tech Bathmate Hydromax. But remember  when all's said and done, it's not the size of your penis…
  • Brand in Focus: Je Joue (Plus Win a MiMi Vibrator Worth £65!)

    17 Sep 2014 | 3:55 am
    When it comes to luxurious rechargeable vibrators, Je Joue immediately springs to mind. The London-based company has built up a reputation amongst Lovehoney customers for producing top-quality pleasure products for women and couples. The most well known item in their range is the MiMi Rechargeable Vibrator, which was recently voted the #1 vibrator by Good Housekeeping. With silky smooth curves, focused vibrations and 10 modes of play, it's easy to see why the MiMi has made such a big impression. We're giving you the chance to win a Je Joue MiMi Rechargeable Vibrator (worth £65!) Just…
  • How to Choose a Strap-On Feeldoe Dildo

    12 Sep 2014 | 3:11 am
    If you're looking for hands-free fun without the need for a harness, Feeldoe is the strapless strap-on for your next adventures. Offering all the pleasure of strap-ons without any straps, buckles, or snaps to slow you down. Self-made sexpert Mia created the Feeldoe in Florida back in 2002, although the project had been in development since the 1980s. With her background in research and development of mechanical equipment, machinery design and chemical material processing, Mia was able to invent this useful and innovative couples sex toy. After years of committed research (and a patient…
  • 36 Miles of Cock? The World's Biggest Analysis of Sex Toy Sales Says So

    10 Sep 2014 | 6:14 am
    If you've been reading the Lovehoney blog for a while, you'll remember us raving about Jon Millward's studies in the past (we've talked about his analysis of porn stars, as well as his survey of call girls in Britain). This "Ideas Detective" really impressed us by taking mind-boggling data and presenting it in a simple but fun way. In fact, we were so amazed by his fascinating articles that we got in touch to see if he'd be interested in doing an analysis of Lovehoney, and - you guessed it - he said yes! We're so pleased and proud to present the world's biggest analysis of sex toy…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • Spell casting is real, Only when you contact the real spell caster and not fake.

    28 Sep 2014 | 7:48 pm
    New Opinion - Thanks to Dr.Ajayi Ololo the great spell caster who brought back my lover and restore to me my Job. I want to tell everyone about my meeting with Dr.Ajayi Ololo who has brought peace, happiness and joy into my home and now i can hit hand on my chest to say i have my own child. Am the most happiest person on earth now, Because what this great spell caster did for me in getting the love of my life back to me and restoring back to me my Job is so amazing that i cant keep the testimony to my self alone, Because deep inside i know there are so many people in the world today that are…
  • are you ready

    27 Sep 2014 | 9:54 pm
    New Question - inbox me ill let you know

    27 Sep 2014 | 4:15 pm
    New Answer - Seriously i was flattened when my Husband of 8 years left to be with another woman in Texas. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I couldn't bear it anymore. and i reached out to the Internet for help, until i hit on the real thing, and that is you Lord Lugard. I almost gave up trying to get my Ex Husband back and having a contented family again.. I had tried the whole lot I knew, and with your spells, blessings and extraordinary magical powers, you did all the work, and immediately after 24 hours, my Ex Husband came back to me and he was penitent for everything…

    27 Sep 2014 | 3:29 pm
    New Opinion - Seriously i was flattened when my Husband of 8 years left to be with another woman in Texas. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I couldn't bear it anymore. and i reached out to the Internet for help, until i hit on the real thing, and that is you Lord Lugard. I almost gave up trying to get my Ex Husband back and having a contented family again.. I had tried the whole lot I knew, and with your spells, blessings and extraordinary magical powers, you did all the work, and immediately after 24 hours, my Ex Husband came back to me and he was penitent for…
  • Did you mean you want to do seo for your...

    26 Sep 2014 | 12:18 am
    New Answer - Did you mean you want to do seo for your site? Yes means,You can do seo with a help of any one of the online service provider.Nowadays there are lot of providers who offer cheapest seo service.Consider that the main reason for hiring a professional SEO firm,It increases the odds that your business venture will succeed. You might succeed on your own but there will be a lot less certainty when you go solo.They will provide lot of service like Keyword research,Submit business on local directories. Here i list of some tips while considering to choose a professional seo service. 1.Do…
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  • Entice Emilia

    23 Sep 2014 | 3:49 am
    Entice Emilia $58.96 from Of Sex and Love Store CEN’s Entice line is attractively designed. Sleek boxes and toys that come in purple or pink silicone with clean lines attracted my eye. I opted to try the Emilia. It’s a dual stimulator that’s almost-but-not-quite a rabbit. While I may have loved rabbits once upon a time, they’re not a favorite of mine anymore. I actually first tried the Emilia externally. This was where I found myself curious about the flexible neck of the shaft. It’s not exactly floppy, but it’s not good for pressure that I like externally.
  • It’s That Time Again

    14 Sep 2014 | 3:42 pm
    The last time I went through a big toy overhaul was before I moved into my current apartment. Last month, I signed the lease for the next year, meaning I’ve already been here two. That’s two years to review a lot of toys, and not all of them suited my tastes or anatomy. I’ve got at least a drawer full of toys that I have no need for. This is good news for you. If there’s something that’s sterilizable — silicone, plastic, metal or glass — or can be safely transported — books and lube — that I didn’t love, it can be yours. Some stuff…
  • Svakom Echo

    5 Sep 2014 | 4:48 am
    Echo $110 from Svakom Who loves to discover and try toys from new companies? This reviewer! And the newest company on my radar is Svakom, an American company with a European office. The company makes toys that are, at first glance, similar to Lelo. However, Svakom has some original designs that really make this brand worth looking at a second time… and I totally plan to write about those toys. For this post, however, I’ll focus on the Echo. Echo is a tiny clitoral vibrator that is remarkably similar to Lelo’s Lily. Lily was one of those toys that I lusted over for months,…
  • Sex Store Profiles: OJT Sex Toys

    4 Sep 2014 | 12:35 am
    With the recent closing of a popular affiliate program that catered yo my Canadian readers, I am on the lookout for a new Canadian superstore to fill the void. I’m certainly not settled on any one Canadian sex toy store — feel free to leave a suggestion in the comments or on Twitter — but one of the sites I’ve recently discovered is OJT Sex Toys. Selection is always one of the things that I check out when looking for a new store/affiliate program. Do they have toys I would recommend to my readers in addition to those that I want to try? OJT Sex Toyscarries some of my…
  • Labor Day Sales

    1 Sep 2014 | 12:06 pm
    It’s a rainy Labor Day. Not so good for grillin’ out. Just fine for staying inside and playing, whether you’re alone or not. Perhaps shopping. Lucky thing I’ve compiled this handy list of Labor Day Sales. Save 15% at Lovehoney. 15% off $75, 20% off $100, and 25% off $150 at Good Vibes 33% off orders from Sinclair; free shipping on $39+, free gifts when spending %60+ Adam & Eve – 50% Off One Item plus Free Mystery Gift with Code: AFFHOT12 20% off for Babeland email subscribers. Sign up here. I’ll add a couple more sales over the course of the day, so…
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  • The 9 Unspoken Relationship Rules Couples Need To Follow

    29 Sep 2014 | 7:30 am
    Find out how to dodge the puzzling arguments and strange disapproving glares by familiarizing yourself with the 9 unspoken rules of every relationship. By Danielle Anne Suleik When looking for the unspoken rules in a relationship, you will encounter phrases describing what happens in a relationship. The real unspoken rules in a relationship are those that can help a couple survive a nuclear argument that stems from a tiny transgression. The honeymoon stage of every relationship blinds couples into thinking that their significant others are perfect in any light. Mistakes are overlooked and…
  • 21 Things You Do that’ll Make Your Girl Adore You More!

    26 Sep 2014 | 2:08 pm
    Want to make your girlfriend fall more in love with you with each new day? Use these 21 tips suggested by women, and you’ll make her day, every day! By Lianne Choo It is an urban myth that women are hard to please. Just because your last relationship involved the Wicked Witch of the West does not mean that all women should be pegged as evil bloodsucking creatures. When you find the perfect woman for you, you will know just what it means to be in a grownup relationship. Only then will you be able to appreciate the genius and grace of the female race. The same way women struggle to find the…
  • Help! My Friends Don’t Like My Boyfriend!

    24 Sep 2014 | 12:22 pm
    Do you ever get the nagging feeling that your friends don’t like the guy you’re dating? Well, here are 5 clear signs and 7 things you can do about it! By Michelle Escultura Friends can sometimes feel like the family you chose for yourself. They’re there to support you. They’re there to care for you. And your closest ones will be there to comfort you when you’re depressed and eating a tub of ice cream alone. Yes, it’s a great feeling to have friends that you can always count on… That is, until they don’t approve of your current boyfriend. This is where trouble starts. Now, take…
  • 9 Reasons Your Ideal Man Wish List Isn’t Working For you

    21 Sep 2014 | 9:56 pm
    Do you have an ideal man wish list to find the guy who’s perfect for you? Well, here are 9 reasons why doing that may not really work for you! By Alice Tucker So many of us are searching for Mr. Right. In our minds, we usually have a vision of exactly what our very own Mr. Right would ideally be like. For some, this vision is clearer than others, but more often that not, if you ask a woman what she would wish for in an “Ideal Man”, they could give you at least a couple of different ideas. But the question is, is our “Ideal Man” the same as Mr. Right? How many people who have settled…
  • 16 Signs to Know if it’ll be a One Night Stand Date

    20 Sep 2014 | 10:28 pm
    Worried if it’s a fling thing? Use these signs to know if a date is a one night stand before you decide to wait for the call that will never come after! By Danielle Anne Suleik Sleeping together on the first date does not make you less of a person, but is it really a good idea? Why wait to know if you and your partner have sexual chemistry? You can always get to know each other better later, right? Wrong. Although some will attest that sleeping on the first date went well for them, many people had to go through the humiliating experience of realizing that the person who they thought would…
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  • Protected: Personal Gender Praxis

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    27 Sep 2014 | 10:21 am
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  • Dying, Dying, Dead

    Tai “Scarlet” Kulystin
    26 Sep 2014 | 2:22 am
    I am dying. I am dying. I am dead. Pulling parts of myself away from the tangled mess I have weaved together throughout all these years. Endless pain and discomfort in the name of growth and abundance. What needs to die? What needs to be reborn? Strips of self that I have taken the time to mold out of experiences now need to be carefully separated from the rest of me, the parts that are useful stay, the parts that hold me back must go. Where do I go? My back is hurting from stress, from the weight of the words that need to come out of me, but that I am having a difficult time getting onto the…
  • Stream of Consciousness Life Thoughts

    Tai “Scarlet” Kulystin
    14 Sep 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Instead of attempting to do a catch-up post before I write the “real” post by trying to recap all the things that have happened since the last time so many ages ago that I posted on here, I just need to write. I’ve been doing so much writing the last few years, but so little personal writing. Grad school has sucked up all my writing time and now that I’m writing my thesis I’m going a little bit insane. I am having a difficult time getting words down on the page, however, and I’m hoping that a bit of a free write will assist with that. I’m struggling.
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  • Light at the End of the School Tunnel

    Tai “Scarlet” Kulystin
    23 Feb 2014 | 2:48 am
    For those of you who don’t know, I have been attending Antioch University since the Fall of 2011 working on a self-designed Masters program in Psychology. Last Wednesday, the 12th, I had my Application Project Plan Approval Degree Committee Meeting (yes, apparently the name is that long). I met with the three other people who will be assessing, evaluating, and helping me through the process of my Applied Thesis in my last three quarters at Antioch. My plan for my thesis was approved, which means that today I am submitting the syllabus for the next three quarters of my Application…
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  • A Special TWIB After Dark

    Njaila Rhee
    26 Sep 2014 | 7:27 pm
    This week I had the pleaser of co-hosting TWiB After Dark with the actress and TWIB contributor Pia Glenn!  Let me tell ya’ll about Pia, she’s awesome she is proof that we are all made of stars. ( Of course me and you are made of that trash planet from Transformers the Movie, she is made from a planet that’s all diamonds like that episode of Dr. Who)  She is genetically superior being who is gracing us with the chance to be in her presence. Not only can you be aurally pleasured by Pia’s voice on this week’s After Dark we got to speak to some of the ladies of…
  • Black Women, Sex Work & Stigma #TjhishaAndAngelia

    Njaila Rhee
    24 Sep 2014 | 11:40 am
    When I was interviewed for an article about Black sex workers last week,  it wasn’t the story of an actress and her white boyfriend that was on my mind. It was the murders of AngeliaMangum and TjhishaBall. “the bodies of Angelia Mangum, 19, and Tjhisha Ball, 18 were spotted on the side of a road around 1 a.m. yesterday. The bodies were reportedly bound with zip ties, naked and on top of one another. Read more at EBONY Donate to the families of#TjhishaAndAngelia HERE It wasn’t just the ghastly way they were discovered or the brutal way they were murdered it the reaction of…
  • Sex, Sex Work and the Web #TtW14

    Njaila Rhee
    28 Apr 2014 | 1:13 pm
    I had the distinct honor of being a panelist at this year’s Theorizing the Web conference which too place in Brooklyn NY April 25& 26th. My panel “Sex Work and the Web, was moderated by the amazing Melissa Gira Grant, author of Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work  . My fellow panelists included Emma Caterine of Red Umbrella Project , adult film actress and writer Stoya,  and CEO and owner of Hookonline Hawk Kinkaid. You can watch the panel here : Our panel dealt with sex workers and clients adapting to new digital technology and the hardships or progress gained by…
  • N’jaila’s Mailbag: Is Porn Sexist?

    Njaila Rhee
    7 Jan 2014 | 8:59 am
    Many moons ago I got an interesting Ask in my tumblr. While this submission wasn’t actually a question so much as a person trying to BLOW MY MIND with their amazing logic. I thought I should share it. “The porn industry is male dominated (made up primarily of male pornographers/film directors/producers/editors/casting directors) and is geared towards a straight male audience. Just because some women and some queer individuals consume pornographic content (much of which is becoming increasingly violent and aggressive, especially towards women) does not make it…
  • Beyoncé Cums Fancy, as Expected.

    Njaila Rhee
    31 Dec 2013 | 12:43 am
    This isn’t another Beyoncé think piece, it’s a thinly veiled excuse to think about expensive things sliding in and out of Beyoncé. Folks are clutching their pearls after married adult Beyoncé allegedly spent over $6,000 USD on Boxing Day at sex shop Babeland New York.  Let me tell you, its REALLY easy to drop term bill or two there. Personally I love Babeland, they’re the only brick and mortar sex shop I recommend in my area, I also know that while welcoming to beginners it’s a candy shop for those of us with genitals that require nothing but the best. As I wrote…
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  • Magic Numbers?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    10 Sep 2014 | 8:13 am
    During yesterday’s consultation, a client asked a common question: Is there a best age for a PSO to be? While platform sites often have a “member since” date showing in your profile (making math possible!), here’s some data on ages men find “attractive”: Charts from OKCupid, showing how straight women and men rate each other […]
  • Phone Sex Operator Advertising Sale

    Phone Sex Secrets
    23 Aug 2014 | 10:16 am
    In order to give you a last chance bump this summer to build your PR etc. for the busy phone sex season ahead, I’ve decided to run a little sale on the Tumblr ads / promotion spaces. Actually, it’s a huge sale in terms of discount; just short in length of time. I suspect I […]
  • What Do I Think Of Phone Sex Platform TalkToMe?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    16 Aug 2014 | 6:32 pm
    I am often solicited to join other phone sex platform sites — if only just to try it out & review them here at Phone Sex Secrets. But why would I create an account, market myself etc., just to get a few callers to review the platform service? That’s a lot of work for a […]
  • TalkToMe’s Unfair & Unethical Attack On NiteFlirt

    Phone Sex Secrets
    13 Aug 2014 | 7:23 am
    Clearly trying to capitalize on NiteFlirt’s latest policy announcement , TalkToMe (TTM) sent an email alert of their own members, or at least to their PSOs (called “Talkers”), entitled Your Voice, Your Choice! [Normally, I modify the font -- but since they sent their email in comic sans (which is a much mocked and even […]
  • Is NiteFlirt Really Playing Fair With Their Latest Play Fair Linking Policy?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    10 Aug 2014 | 3:02 am
    In the August edition of NiteFlirt‘s FlirtBuzz newsletter, there was an update regarding Play Fair, the phone sex platform’s department which enforces the NiteFlirt Member Agreement and NiteFlirt’s policies. Along with encouraging Flirts (& other members) to bully and report their fellow phone sex operators (as if more of that was actually needed!), the important […]
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  • A Fellatio Technique to Get a Man to Climax Fast

    Svetlana Ivanova
    27 Sep 2014 | 2:00 am
    There may be times when you want to finish a blow job quickly. You may be concerned about being discovered, you may need to get home or back to work, or your jaws may be getting tired after performing fellatio for a long time. My post A Fellatio Trick to Make a Man Climax Quicker Continue reading →(Visited 133 times, 26 visits today)
  • 6 Sex Moves that Will Ruin Your Chances for a Second Lay

    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    Things that a long-term partner might allow you to do in bed because she wants to please you are not always a good idea to try with a new woman. These six sex moves could ruin your chances for a return engagement. Gettin’ down with someone new for the first time is exciting and nervewracking. Continue reading →(Visited 124 times, 7 visits today)
  • Having Sex? Try These 7 Kinky Spots

    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 Sep 2014 | 2:00 am
    Sex shuldn’t be confined to the bed or the bedroom. Try these seven kinky spots to have sex. Most people are used to having sexual intercourse in the bedroom (and on the same bed). There are many exciting places where couples can share intimacy and give pleasure to each other. Most people fantasize about sex Continue reading →(Visited 103 times, 6 visits today)
  • 10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers

    Svetlana Ivanova
    16 Sep 2014 | 6:00 am
    The desire for sex is instinctive, but how to do it is not.  Tiffanie Drayton reveals ten things that no one tell men  that will make them better lovers. There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies Continue reading →(Visited 205 times, 10 visits today)
  • 10 Surefire Tricks for Better Sex – According to Science

    Svetlana Ivanova
    13 Sep 2014 | 7:00 am
    The world’s foremost doctors reveal to Esquire their surefire tricks for better sex. You can try all the sex positions you want, or you can call up the world’s foremost doctors for sex advice on their one surefire trick in the bedroom. And then the positions get better. Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great Continue reading →(Visited 127 times, 2 visits today)
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  • Suggestion of Innocence

    Molly Moore
    28 Sep 2014 | 5:03 pm
    School uniforms? I HATE them, I mean absolutely passionately loath the things. Ask me about them outside of a kink context and you will literally see the steam of rage flow from my ears. I truly believe that they are all part of the Establishment’s agenda to make good little conformist consumerist citizens out of…
  • Might as well jump

    Molly Moore
    27 Sep 2014 | 3:12 pm
    This week I spent a rather happy hour or so in my garden taking photographs inspired by the current Kink of the Week topic; School Uniforms. After a discussion with @malflic on the subject I offered to make his an image to use in his post on the topic. He seemed to rather like the…
  • White Lace

    Molly Moore
    24 Sep 2014 | 5:05 pm
    White lace makes the heart race… Related Posts: Mother’s Ruin Stripping Away the Shadows We Didn’t Start the Fire Born to be wild Guts and Grit
  • Silent Witness

    Molly Moore
    20 Sep 2014 | 4:07 pm
    Teddy watches me playing but he is not the only one. In the shadows a more sinister audience waits. If only I could warn her, thinks Teddy. But Teddy can’t even cover his eyes, let alone warn me. All he can do is be a silent witness. To your thief of his little girl. Related…
  • Stripping Away the Shadows

    Molly Moore
    17 Sep 2014 | 3:30 pm
    This weeks prompt on wicked Wednesday is communication. The prompt actually made me want to write a couple of different posts but today has been my sons 15th birthday and so time for writing has been rather limited however time for thinking, as I got ready for a family dinner, was abundant. As I considered…
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  • Copycat Ads on Backpage again

    Ms. Justine
    28 Sep 2014 | 7:24 am
    ***Update: As of now, the copycat ad is down. Unfortunately, the person who stole my photos and copy has done it to other people as well. I hope the individual was banned from Backpage. Thank you to my loyal clients and fellow Dommes who spotted it and reported it.*** Someone else has stolen my photos and ad copy on Backpage AGAIN. Here is a link to the original ad: BOW DOWN EXPIRENCE TRUE DOMINATION. Professional Expirenced Dominatrix avaliable latenights – 27 Here is the ad text that she has copied from me: You deserve an experience like Me. Tell me your fantasies, relax and I’m…
  • Los Angeles Footnight September 18

    Ms. Justine
    16 Sep 2014 | 4:45 am
    I will be at” target=”_blank”>Los Angeles Footnight on September 18th! It is the 12th Anniversary Party. I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West, if you can handle a double. I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out more photos in my Foot Fetish Gallery. Can’t come to Los Angeles Footnight? Contact me for a private foot fetish session at Dungeon West instead. If you can’t…
  • Double your Decadence, Triple your Titillation

    Ms. Justine
    3 Sep 2014 | 10:04 am
    I will be in New Orleans September 12-15, joining me will be Mistress Natalie West –lesbian dominatrix of Los Angeles and we are both visiting Mistress Erin–New Orleans’ finest dominatrix, a sadistic Southern Belle. Mistress Erin and I have known each other for over five years–we met at a dungeon here in Los Angeles and have tormented many the fine, Southern gentlemen during her time of ruling the Quarter with an iron fist. We have had some pretty memorable sessions both in Los Angeles and New Orleans: there was that time in the “Riot Hyatt” in LA that…
  • Long Beach Footnight September 5

    Ms. Justine
    2 Sep 2014 | 8:39 am
    I will be at Long Beach Footnight on September 5th! The theme is “Roaring Tootsies.” I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West, if you can handle a double. I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out more photos in my Foot Fetish Gallery. Can’t come to Long Beach Footnight? I will also be at Los Angeles Footnight on September 18th. If you can’t come to either, enjoy my foot fetish clips instead: Copyright @ Mistress…
  • The Best is Coming Through the Southwest Again!

    Ms. Justine
    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    The South is my guilty pleasure. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? I am starting in Dallas–it’s my first time there, so please give me a warm Texas welcome! Then to Houston, where I already have a few eager regulars waiting for me. Finally, I am ending in one of my favorite cities, New Orleans. So if you missed me earlier, you can catch up with me in NOLA. For the first time, I will also be offering double sessions with Mistress Natalie…
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  • Elust #62

    16 Sep 2014 | 4:19 am
    Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk Selfies, Shame and Safety ‘Dress me like a slut and punish my cock’ ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • Elust #62 Open for Submissions

    1 Sep 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Elust #62 Open for Submissions Welcome to the September Edition of Elust. The kids are back to school and the leaves are starting to turn, now it’s time for you to turn us on with your latest writing. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to…
  • Elust #61

    15 Aug 2014 | 8:11 am
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His &…
  • Elust #61 Open for Submissions

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:11 am
    Elust #61 Open for Submissions Welcome to the August Edition of Elust. Our dear friends from Google (and other freemail providers) have decided to make life more difficult for us in their never ending war on Spam. In spite of the fact that all the email from Elust is an opt in system they have marked us as Spam. We have moved to a domain name based email system and a different hosting server to attempt to address this issue. If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You…
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  • Review: G-Vibe

    22 Sep 2014 | 4:35 pm
    There are some failtastic sex toys that I keep around simply so I can lug them out in the future and confirm my previous findings. But in the case of the disastrous Split Dildo, I gave it away long ago and never looked back. Until, apparently, the Fun Toys G-Vibe. Different company, same exact shape. I had to laugh when I read the “about us” page on Fun Toys’ website, which is the typical origin story of any ~revolutionary~ (not at all) sex toy. It follows the usual formula: Twee intro about huck-a-huck life, slathered with no understanding or knowledge of the sex (toy)…
  • The great Mona summer party winners

    9 Sep 2014 | 11:08 am
    It wouldn’t be enough to call my great Mona summer party giveaway a success. Over 1,000 humans entered via the widget, with even more reblogging, posting in the comments section, and joining the Twitter party, for well over 10,000 individual entries. This giveaway was a whirlwind — and rightfully so. I asked for the unthinkable: to give away 10 of my favorite vibrator, the LELO Mona 2, open to international readers. Generously, LELO said yes. Then it got better. When the giveaway wrapped, I found myself at an impasse trying to choose just one winner for “best artistic…
  • Giveaway: the great Mona summer party!

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:12 pm
    Put on your sunhats, make your best lemonade, and fill up the pool, because the time has come for the greatest party of the summer. It involves ORGASMS. This is the party I’ve been wanting to throw ever since I fell in love with the LELO Mona 2 vibrator years ago. I am bringing Mona to the masses and giving away ten of them, thanks to the amazing generosity of LELO. Not only is the Mona 2 the best vibrator on earth, but this giveaway is open to everyone on earth. Yes, my dear international readers! You too! The Mona 2 is a deceptively simple-looking toy, but it succeeds…
  • Of houses and stone eggs

    30 Jul 2014 | 1:29 pm
    The stone egg of my dreams showed up at work the other day. I’ve been waiting patiently for it, ogling the eggs with each new shipment. But I knew this egg was the one the moment I laid eyes on it. Buying a house is not like that. No matter what those delusional (and/or extremely lucky) people say, you will not know a house is “the one” when you see it. You will not be filled with immense, undeniable joy. You will, instead, look around, nod, and say, “yeah, this could work.” Then spend the next week wondering if you’ve made a grave error in submitting an…
  • Hell Yes: kGoal

    21 Jul 2014 | 8:45 pm
    Everyone pause and bask in this moment. I have found a sex toy crowdfunding campaign that isn’t shitty. It’s a squeezable silicone bulb — er, they’re calling it a pillow — that measures the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles, and it’s called the kGoal (get it? Sounds like “kegel”? If you pronounce “kegel” that way?). It charges via USB and wirelessly communicates with an app on your phone, which serves up your exercise history, suggested workouts, and “max squeeze.” I see a community scoreboard coming on. As added…
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  • afterglow

    28 Sep 2014 | 12:27 pm
    #2: – Replica SeriesPreviously – #1 The Promise I learned to draw at 14 by using colored pencils to replicate the work of famous artists that I admired. This series is called Replicas, and it will be all about my early attempts.Original by Lee Bogle.
  • victory lap

    21 Sep 2014 | 12:09 pm
    or That Moment When You’re Driving around Naked and Your Heart Jumps into Your Throat Because You Didn’t See the Police Car behind YouShe always wanted to drive.Leaving aside the fact that she’d never driven automatic, much less manual, and that it was the dead of night and unfamiliar road, Victory had definitely had more to drink than was probably wise. Even for an experienced driver.I hurtled down the pockmarked highway, chasing down the beams of my own headlights, and said to her sideways, “Okay, but only if you’re naked.”She didn’t say anything,…
  • selfies, sluts, and polyphobia: september- e[lust] 62

    18 Sep 2014 | 10:57 am
    Photo courtesy of Bawdy Bloke Welcome to Elust #62 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #63? Start with the rules, come back October1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex Blogger Life: Real Talk Selfies, Shame and Safety ‘Dress me like a slut and punish my cock’ ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • bipolar sex

    7 Sep 2014 | 11:40 am
    or Variety Vs FamiliaritySome nights I need variety.Some nights I need to say, “Look over there, let’s fuck on that thing!” Some nights I need to find out how new things feel, try out new kitchen counters and living room couches. Some nights I need to swing from new chandeliers.Some nights I need to explore. I need danger and adventure. Some nights I need public places. Some nights I need days.And some nights I just need the tender comfort of familiar intimacy.And fun as it is to sometimes just go all out crazy with the Kama Sutra and the road head and the beach sex and the…
  • the promise

    31 Aug 2014 | 11:20 am
    #1: The – Replica SeriesPreviously – Seven Less-Deadly Sins Series I learned to draw at 14 by using colored pencils to replicate the work of famous artists that I admired. This series is called Replicas, and it will be all about my early attempts.Original by Lee Bogle.
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Bettie Page, Bunny Yeager and Playboy

    28 Sep 2014 | 12:38 pm
    Bettie Page and Bunny YeagerWhen Bunny Yeager approached Bettie Page about doing swimsuit modelling, Bettie said, "I also do nudes." Well Bunny was intrigued. She'd never worked with a professional nude model before. The two hit it off like wildfire. Bettie got exactly what Bunny was going for and she also felt very comfortable shooting with Bunny because they were both females.  They went on to create some of the most iconic photos ever taken of Bettie Page.Bettie Page did lie to Bunny about her age however. Bettie claimed to be 24 when in reality she was 32 when she did her first photo…
  • Is it Safe to Drink Female Ejaculate?

    16 Sep 2014 | 7:45 pm
    I received a private email asking the question of, 'Is it safe to drink female ejaculate.'  This is an interesting question and frankly I am somewhat surprised that people are worrying about this. So this article is to put all of your worries at ease. Female ejaculate is one of the safest fluids produced by the human body. It is produced primarily in the Skene's glands and contains no bacteria in it's usual form. It is naturally virus free although it is possible for it to pick up viruses from the the vagina as it passes out of the body. That said, the mouth is on of the fastest healing…
  • Bettie Page Poses Nude

    16 Sep 2014 | 12:11 am
    [Continued from Bettie Page invents the Modern Bikini]Girly MagazinesWith Bettie Page being a rockstar of modelling and bringing her own sense of impeccable fashion to the was no wonder that she soon became a sensation amongst the men's magazines at the time. Keep in mind that 'men's magazines' didn't exactly mean porn magazines really weren't a thing yet. Hugh Hefner was just coming on the scene but had not yet sparked that aspect of the sexual revolution. Bettie Page soon was being paid to do a variety of girly magazines such as Titter, Wink, Eyeful, Flirt and…
  • Female Ejaculation and the Tantric Transfer of Energy

    10 Sep 2014 | 11:20 pm
    This is going to be a post on female ejaculationa and specifically the tantric energies contained in that fluid.  Forget all about the 'is squirting fake' arguments -- and let's look at the key ingredient that makes shejaculate special: energy.  I am basing this post on tantric texts, tantric teaching and my own personal experience-- and it is going to be highly spiritual in nature.   Hopefully it will explain why girls like to cum this way so much and why men respond so strongly to female ejaculate.Note: If you aren't buying this tantric explanation for female ejaculation,…
  • Bettie Page Invents the Modern Bikini

    25 Aug 2014 | 10:10 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page and the Camera Clubs]Bettie Page was completely unsatisfied with the 'unflattering swimwear' of her day. It was just 1950 and they would advertise awful things like swimsuits with built in girdles. So Bettie Page turned her high intelligence into crafting a series of unforgettable bikinis.  She invented the string bikini and numerous other bikini designs because she wanted to wear bikinis that she felt sexy in.The results helped propel her to become a pin up legend and a sex symbol. Unfortunately, inventing the design of the modern bikini is rarely credited to…
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  • Women needs changing sex partners – regularly

    17 Sep 2014 | 10:50 am
    For years, it has been acknowledged that men have a need for variety when it comes to sex partners – they need to spread their semen. Most people also accept than men have a greater need for sex in general and a stronger sex drive than women have. This is often used as an excuse for male infidelity. However, is this true? An American and a German study have analyzed how men and women react sexually when they are exposed to habitual sex and when they are in long term relationships. Sexual boredom In the American study, the researchers wanted to find out whether there is a difference…
  • Swinging in Norway

    4 Sep 2014 | 12:35 pm
    In a recent study, the swinging community in Norway was researched. Swingers participate in consensual non-monogamous behavior. They are often privileged, stable and otherwise ordinary people. Motivation Most of the swingers are motivated to join the swinging communities because of sexual fantasies. In the beginning, they just talk about the fantasies and then gradually they start to live them out. In the swinging community, it is possible for both parties in the marriage to explore sexual desires and needs with several partners either as a couple or separately. Satisfaction In general sexual…
  • Do you want to have a truthful conversation? Get drunk!

    23 Aug 2014 | 6:26 am
    We all know that we behave differently and express ourselves differently when we are drunk. Often we even use intoxication as an excuse for our behavior. Something like “I am so sorry, I didn’t want to have sex with her, but I was so drunk” or “I really don’t think your mother is a stupid bitch it was just something I said because I was drunk”. The question is whether being drunk is a valid excuse. Do we actually say or do things we didn’t really want to when we are drunk? A group of scientist have investigated this and their conclusion is clear: No, we can’t use being drunk…
  • The sexual behavior of men and women is not that different

    17 Aug 2014 | 11:56 am
    We have quit different expectations to men and women with regard to sexual behavior. Men in general are expected to be more active and women to be non-promiscuous. Men who doesn’t comply to the expectations can feel they are less masculine and women can feel pressured in to a submissive role that ultimately constrains their sexual functioning. Women who express a sexuality that is similar to what is normally expected of men can easily be stigmatized and called sluts and the like. Stigmatization based on your sexuality can be very damaging for your life. Studies find that people who feel…
  • Different types of casual sex

    12 Aug 2014 | 10:58 am
    In the recent year’s casual sex has become more widespread in particular among college students. We have seen many new expressions for casual sex and new ways of participating in casual sex. There seem to be four main types: One-night-stand. You meet someone typically in a nightclub and you decide to have sex and never see each other again. Booty call. You have an acquaintance you can call if you impulsively want to have sex and you only meet them for sex. Fuck Buddy. You have a friend who you also have sex with from time to time. Friends with benefits. You have a friend who you see on a…
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    Naughty Reenie | Naughty Reenie

  • Review: Exotic-Erotics Phoenix Small

    9 Sep 2014 | 4:31 pm
    It took me two months to finally decide to shove the Phoenix inside of me. Not because the 2” bulb was traumatising. Well, ok, maybe a little bit. But it was mainly because I’ve learned that my body was able to orgasm through penetration only. Since that day, I’ve been craving for…actually more addicted to smooth, non-textured, thrustable dicks. And the Phoenix looked like a big mood-killer with those two huge bulbs sticking out on the shaft. It looked no where even near thrustable, and so I just left it there, sitting at the corner of my desk. However, it didn’t leave me in peace.
  • Hedovibes: Roudup #55

    20 Aug 2014 | 8:15 am
    Photo courtesy of Property Of Potter Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition. CONTESTS Can’t Get Enough…
  • Review: Picobong Moka

    9 Aug 2014 | 8:18 am
    Picobong Moka spiked my curiosity when I first saw it. My mind was immediately like: “OMG! A VIBRATING LELO ELLA?! Deal! It’s mine!” But when I noticed that it required two AAA batteries to operate, my brain shoved the Moka out of my memory, and I carried on with my life. I mean… There’s no way that a toy requiring AAA battery was going to be powerful or rumbly or even feel good, right? But I was wrong. The Moka actually feels very good. So good, in fact, that I love it more than I love the Ella. The Moka is like the ultimate evolution of it – the shape is better, the curve…
  • Review: Jopen Comet Wand

    26 Jul 2014 | 4:52 am
    It took me eight months, eight freaking months to conquer the Comet Wand. My vagina is finally becoming a boss, but damn did it take a lot of crying, bruised vagina, and courage. It was somewhere in August 2013 when the Comet Wand entered Sextopia. Back then, the Comet Wand and I just didn’t click. I hated it: I hated how it made my body felt, I hated how it made me scared, and I hated how it made my body react. If I had published my review back then, I would have trashed it. It just didn’t work for me. The number of times I curled into a ball in tears and the number of times I just…
  • Review: Doxy Massager

    17 Jul 2014 | 8:47 am
    I changed Doxy Massager Wand’s name to Doxy the Clown. I can’t help it. It keeps fooling me – from the moment it was born to the moment I received it, and until the moment I started using it. But our relationship isn’t pure hatred either. It’s more complicated than that. First, Doxy Massager has been marketed as THE world’s MOST powerful wand massager. Is it true? Well, if your opinion is only based on the number of Rotations Per Minute (RPM), which, on the highest speed, is approximately 9000 RPM 1, then I guess this is quite true. However, you’re a fool if you base your…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • La Pocha Nostra Performance

    Pavini Moray
    9 Sep 2014 | 11:29 am
    NEW BARBARIANS 3.0:  A Pocha Nostra X-treme Fashion Show & Photo-performance karaokeSaturday, September 13th  7:00 PM. On Saturday, September 13th, I will be performing in this. La Pocha Nostra’s two-week residency at Fort Mason ends with an exciting evening public performance in two-parts. Part one will include a live “photo karaoke” session in collaboration with […]
  • Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    6 Aug 2014 | 2:19 pm
    With great pleasure that I announce: My new 40-page ebook called “Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation” is now available for free download!    This book contains 16 of the best tools I know to help you deepen into pleasure, and get the intimacy and transformation you need in your sexuality.   I hope you […]
  • Erotic Experiment Update #3: Somatic Erotic Learning and the Queer Oil Action

    Pavini Moray
    14 Jul 2014 | 1:51 pm
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Desire, Erotic Energy, Erotic Practice, Intimacy, pleasure, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation, Sexuality Education Tagged: erotic, oil action, Queer, somatic learning
  • Calling Queer, Magickal Musicians for submissions to Eco-sexual Film Project

    Pavini Moray
    9 Jul 2014 | 11:39 am
    Are you a queer magickal musician or song-writer? Are you up for a radical community project? Do you feel called to work in a sacred way, an erotic way, and allow Spirit to guide your music?  Would you like to compose a song for a film that supports liberation of the Earth and liberation for […]
  • Erotic Experiment Update #2: BDSM, Sacred Kink and what happens when I suspend my disbelief

    Pavini Moray
    20 Jun 2014 | 10:11 am
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Practice, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation Tagged: BDSM, erotic experiments, Sacred Kink
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    The Daily Flogger

  • DomCo: Adjustable Kinbaku Rope

    Annie Cumswallow
    29 Sep 2014 | 7:01 am
    BELLINGHAM, WASHINGTON After years of scientific research and the creation of a new “magic fiber,” DomCo is proud to introduce a new line of shibari rope which adjusts to the riggers hand pressure to lengthen or shrink depending on the particular needs of the person tying. “With just a little hand pressure you can add or subtract up to 2 feet for rope to either finish off a tie nicely or not have to worry about extra length,” said Nawashi Donald, resident rope master and production designer for DomCo’s line of signature rope bondage products. New York rope master…
  • Michael Bey Set to Direct BDSM Film

    Lazlo Toth
    28 Sep 2014 | 7:01 am
    HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA In a surprising announcement from Paramount, Michael Bey, director of the Transformers franchise, as well as Armageddon and Pearl Harbor, is scheduled to direct a yet untitled film set in the world of BDSM. An executive at Paramount told The Daily Flogger that the studio is looking to capitalize on the recent wave of publicity surrounding the 50 Shades of Grey series of novels. The film is rumored to take a revolutionary tactic to movie making, foregoing a script entirely and simply combining fast cuts between women tied up and being whipped with images of things…
  • Dungeon Voices: Israel and Palestine

    Lazlo Toth
    27 Sep 2014 | 7:45 am
    What is your position on the Israeli/Palestinian Conflict? Position? You mean like sexual position? I would say reverse cowgirl. I really like that one. -Kimmy Jones, 22, Cupcake Engineer I don’t know either of them, are they new to the scene? Maybe they need to try poly, that fixes most conflicts. -Patty Pringle, 28, Kale Farmer I am one of those guys who like to oversimplify things. I’d tell them to just cut it out and be peaceful. Problem solved. -Chuck Goggins, 55, Crowdsourcing Expert Photo credits: Jasper Gregory (cc), HM Revenue & Customs (cc)
  • Saran Wrapped Woman “Stays Fresh for Days”

    Jane Jameson
    26 Sep 2014 | 7:17 am
    LAS VEGAS, WEST VIRGINIA A new fetish is sweeping the small town of Las Vegas, WV:  “saran wrapping.” According to Master Kevin Gross, 28, the technique is not a new form of bondage, but a way of locking in that “submissive attitude and new relationship energy.” Slave ginny, 22, agrees, “I have found that in the past, my relationships always drifted to vanilla, boring, and non sexy routines, but with the saran wrap, I feel like my submission is all locked in and wrapped up and he can let it out a little at a time.” Gross says he has tried all sorts of…
  • Old Pranks Work on TNG Crowd

    Chance Berquist
    25 Sep 2014 | 7:05 am
    AUSTIN, MONTANA Prankster Colby Urquist, 48, is old enough to remember some of the more popular T-shirts and pranks from the 1970s and has found a new audience in the BDSM TNG crowd. This weekend, Urquist set him up as the “Official Boob Inspector” at Montana’s largest fetish, BDSM and kink event, the Montana Fetish Fair. Event organizers were not impressed and posted signs indicating that this year’s event had no “Official Boob Inspector.”  Still, Urquist’s ploy was mostly successful. Kimber P, 18, said she “wasn’t sure if she could even…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • When Guys “Can’t” Use Condoms

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    25 Sep 2014 | 6:39 am
    Many men have problems with erection loss either while applying condoms or during intercourse with condoms. These are called condom associated erection problems (CAEP). Dr. E covers what does and doesn't cause the loss of arousal, and offers couples tips for breaking the cycle. The post When Guys “Can’t” Use Condoms appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Protecting the DNA in Healthy Sperm

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    23 Sep 2014 | 6:26 am
    Protecting the DNA in healthy sperm is one of the most important things a future dad can do for his potential kids. Things you can to do reduce the risk of sperm DNA damage: The post Protecting the DNA in Healthy Sperm appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Always the Intern, Never the Hire

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    18 Sep 2014 | 6:12 am
    Internships and graduate school can make or break a woman’s life and career. But poorly structured training programs can dramatically interfere with a woman’s romantic, sexual and life goals. Women in these settings can end up without partners or their fertility (after age 35) as a fact not as a lifestyle choice. The post Always the Intern, Never the Hire appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Mate Selection and the Pill

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    16 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    Over half of women who use hormonal contraceptives do so in their mate selection years, between 16 to 34 years of age. But the pill can change how a woman “sees” the world and interfere with our biologic and instinctual ability to choose the man with the best genes for our future children. The post Mate Selection and the Pill appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • A Journey Through the Mystery of Sex

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    10 Sep 2014 | 7:06 am
    After over a year and a half of research and writing, my first book is finally almost here! With my book I want to make the science of sex more accessible. Sex impacts every person’s life. Most of us shift between feeling confident and content with our sexual selves to feeling naive and flawed. But we commonly ask these same questions about human sexuality. The post A Journey Through the Mystery of Sex appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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    Nighttime Adventures

  • To Fuck Or To Date (II)

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:30 am
    [Part 1 here] From the moment I saw Dan looking at the feast I had prepared, I know this was one terrible mistake. Of course, he enjoyed it and he said that he couldn’t believe I was capable of doing that. Then he started talking about my sexually free spirit. He put the two together and concluded I was amazing. I could see he wanted to say “perfect” initially, but decided to tone it down a bit. Not enough, by my standards. It was just like being in a frickin’ relationship. We finished the meal, then he needed some downtime. I’m sure that, had I owned a TV, he…
  • To Fuck Or To Date? (I)

    23 Sep 2014 | 4:06 am
    Dan complained about my going MIA lately. He was right, I had a lot on my mind and…in other places. We had a “friends with benefits” type of relationship, but a relationship nonetheless, so I put everything on hold and agreed to a meeting that very night. So far, so good. Dan is a more than decent lover, so the night looked promising. But alas! stupidity hit. I realized it had been more than a month since I last cooked. I never went this long. In fact, I used to have a cooking blog until a year ago. So, I decided to cook him dinner and I texted to let him know of that. My…
  • A Doll

    21 Sep 2014 | 12:00 am
    I felt like a doll in his hands. He lifted me up, sat me down, moved his hands and mouth all over my trembling body, pushed my head down towards his crotch and shoved himself in my mouth. There was a sort of gentleness combined with roughness that made me go mad. He didn’t really need to force me to do anything, not even push me very hard. We were in complete sync. We moved and touched as if i was the 100th time we were fucking. But it was only the first. You could easily tell that by the way we marveled at each other’s body. He looked at me with a mixture of fascination, lust and…
  • The Stories

    19 Sep 2014 | 12:45 am
    I met Kevin sooner than I had expected, the very next day in fact. I could see that he was feeling better outside that atmosphere. I didn’t want to push him to talk about how he felt anymore, so I just asked for stories. Stories of what and who he had seen and known. This is what I got: 1. The CEO He came at every single party, always accompanied by his driver. He would touch no one, instead he had his driver fuck fat women and men, several people at once, get whipped and tortured in every conceivable way. The driver once told Kevin that he was paid like royalty for what he did, but he…
  • The Afterparty

    17 Sep 2014 | 5:45 am
    I waited for Kevin to get dressed and then we went to the lounge. I wanted to pick his brain about this type of parties, as well as find out why he had such an amazing appetite for pain, sheer pain and no pleasure. In a nutshell, he told me that he was sick of being a Dom, he never really liked it, he only did it for the money. I kinda felt that in the dungeon we first met. I could sense that he wasn’t into it, but his great looks and amazing cock made up for it. Earning money from the sex industry was fairly easy for him. He had also worked as some sort of “guard” for these…
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    The Sin Doll

  • Dead Chicken

    Sin Doll
    28 Sep 2014 | 5:28 pm
    Todd and Courtney. Quarterback and Head Cheerleader. Prom King and Queen. They married out of high school without ever knowing a thing. Todd was lucky enough to be the eldest of the Tucker Brothers. All he had to do was play it straight and his Dad’s construction company was his. He worked hard every day [...] The post Dead Chicken appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
  • Beatings and Blue Jean Cut-Offs

    Sin Doll
    27 Sep 2014 | 7:14 pm
      Beatings and blue jean cut-offs. See who else is being Sinful this Sunday. The post Beatings and Blue Jean Cut-Offs appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
  • Feel Free!

    Sin Doll
    26 Sep 2014 | 7:17 pm
    Everyone says “It’s that time of year!” What’s happening is that people are listing their favorite blogs and posts that stood out in 2014. It’s “Nomination Time.” I said that like it was fancy. Anyway, Twitter gets all all gossipy about whether one should or should not post and ask their readers to nominate them. [...] The post Feel Free! appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
  • His Girls

    Sin Doll
    24 Sep 2014 | 10:46 am
    Emily tapped the four digit security code onto the pad outside the door to the large condo. The three high-toned beeps announced her entrance home. Smells wafted from the kitchen. Her routine carried her into the office. She took a seat in Master’s leather chair and emptied her briefcase. Emily rolled her fingertip around the [...] The post His Girls appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: Try again?
  • T.M.I. Tuesday ~ Marriage

    Sin Doll
    23 Sep 2014 | 8:37 am
    TMI Tuesday: September 23, 2014 Posted on September 22, 2014 by TMI Tuesday blog Happy Monday!  On this week’s TMI Tuesday we discuss marriage. The majority of the questions were submitted by Virtual Sin but I added one of my own. Guess which one?   -H Marriage 1. Do you believe in marriage? The Husband would expect [...] The post T.M.I. Tuesday ~ Marriage appeared first on The Sin Doll. Related posts: T.M.I. Tuesday 7.2.2013 – Sexy Blankety Blank
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