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  • Elust #57

    15 Apr 2014 | 3:41 pm
    Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor Welcome to Elust #57 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’ve Got 99 Problems Vasectomy Blues I’ve always wanted to call myself queer.   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • The Dos and Don’ts of Threesomes

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    10 Apr 2014 | 2:00 am
    Celebrity sexpert Emily Morris reveals the dos and don’ts of threesomes. If you think a threesome is going to solve all your problems, you’ve probably watched one too many dirty movies. A ménage à trois between Scarlett Johansson, Javier Bardem, and Penélope Cruz can make even the most monogamous person want to pursue a threesome. Continue reading →(Visited 145 times, 9 visits today)
  • How to Have a Happy Threesome

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    15 Apr 2014 | 10:00 am
    If a having a threesome is one of her fantasies, sex educator Charlie Glickman reveals how to make it a success. Ah, the threesome. Is there anything that inspires so many fantasies? And is there anything as likely to cause complications in your relationship? Threesomes can be amazing fun, but only when you set them Continue reading →(Visited 70 times, 11 visits today)
  • We're Making Vaginas?! Sexuality
    12 Apr 2014 | 2:52 am
    Humans have been making vaginas for a long, long time. Until recently, as far as most of us knew, the manufacturing of these organs took place in uteri around the world, usually finishing up 14 to 16 weeks after receipt of raw materials. Manufacturing may not be the best analogy for this process, at least not the kind of manufacturing that involves machine automated assembly lines pumping out perfectly identical products. Even when humans do it on their own, it's more of a bespoke or artisanal situation. And so it is now that science has delivered us the first, fully tested, tissue-engineered…
  • Lifelong premature ejaculation can be treated by pelvic floor exercises

    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily
    13 Apr 2014 | 10:59 am
    For the first time, researchers have demonstrated that pelvic floor exercises can be effective in treating premature ejaculation in men who have had lifelong problems. Premature Ejaculation (PE) affects a significant minority of men at some point in their lives. There are a variety of treatments, some more effective than others. PE is defined as "ejaculation within a minute."
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  • Claiming The Title Of Sex Educator

    9 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    Half a year ago, I wrote a blog post called “On Being A Sex Educator When You’re Not,” which related my experiences of acting like a sex educator when people in my life needed access to that sort of information. However, as I wrote: “I know that there are specific degree programs dedicated to training [...]
  • Making Sense Of Sex Work

    8 Apr 2014 | 2:10 pm
    In previous posts here on MSP, I’ve struggled to make sense of sex work as a feminist and as a scholar. I’ve discussed why legislating sex work is problematic, and that post sparked a further rumination on how my position as someone who doesn’t have sex work experience means I have to check my privilege [...]
  • Does Being Gay Make You A Minority? Part 4

    24 Mar 2014 | 4:32 pm
    For the final post in this series (here are links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3) we’ll examine the final 3 characteristics of minority groups based on a sociological list of 5 traits that minority groups tend to share. And we’ll discuss some implications for considering LGBT folks a minority group when it [...]
  • Does Being Gay Make You A Minority? Part 3

    21 Mar 2014 | 12:00 pm
    In this post series, I’m defending the idea of giving GLBT people minority status. My first post gives some background on the issue, while my second post documents the oppression they face, thus fulfilling the first of 5 sociological categories that grant minority status to a group. Now we’ll get into the 2nd of these [...]
  • Does Being Gay Make You A Minority? Part 2

    19 Mar 2014 | 12:00 pm
    In the first post in this series, I listed 5 sociological characteristics of minority groups, intending to build an argument that LGBT people are, in fact, deserving of minority status. Here’s where I’ll get into the first – and perhaps most important – of those characteristics. Please note that for the purposes of this discussion, [...]
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  • redupnyc: (via For Victims, Volunteers, a Movement Towards...

    16 Apr 2014 | 9:13 am
    redupnyc: (via For Victims, Volunteers, a Movement Towards Safer Sex Work - The Chicago Bureau) So about that death rate… first of all, its a little unclear how the numbers for that murder rate are arrived at, since there is no option for putting “sex worker” on the census, as most sex work is not legally or culturally recognized as work. So the number itself is likely inaccurate. But more importantly, sex work is almost twice as deadly as being a fisherman BECAUSE it is illegal and stigmatized, BECAUSE the work is largely unregulated and there is no safety standards. When sex workers…
  • loriadorable: [“Prostitution and vampires go arm in...

    30 Mar 2014 | 11:34 am
    loriadorable: [“Prostitution and vampires go arm in arm”] bl0w-up-l0uder: Public Service Poster from 1917 “Vampires have preyed on prostitutes throughout history. Often, they would turn prostitutes and use them to lure men to their doom…” Accurate Want the t-shirt.
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    28 Mar 2014 | 1:48 pm
  • redupnyc: redupnyc: Throughout his mayoral campaign, Bill de...

    27 Mar 2014 | 11:25 am
    redupnyc: redupnyc: Throughout his mayoral campaign, Bill de Blasio promised New York City residents that part of his office’s platform on public health would be ending the incredibly destructive practice of using condoms as evidence. The position showed up on the campaign’s response to PROP’s Voters’ Education Guide; in media inquiries into de Blasio’s positions as Public Advocate; even on de Blasio’s campaign website, Unfortunately the Mayor has not acted on his promise to New Yorkers. Not only has there been no response from the Mayor’s Office about our…
  • redupnyc: Throughout his mayoral campaign, Bill de Blasio...

    27 Mar 2014 | 9:03 am
    redupnyc: Throughout his mayoral campaign, Bill de Blasio promised New York City residents that part of his office’s platform on public health would be ending the incredibly destructive practice of using condoms as evidence. The position showed up on the campaign’s response to PROP’s Voters’ Education Guide; in media inquiries into de Blasio’s positions as Public Advocate; even on de Blasio’s campaign website, Unfortunately the Mayor has not acted on his promise to New Yorkers. Not only has there been no response from the Mayor’s Office about our request for an…
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    NYT > Sex

  • Living With Cancer: Bedtime Issues

    9 Apr 2014 | 10:00 pm
    My cancer support group friends had lost not just sleep, but intimate pleasure and a significant aspect of their identities as women.
  • How to Talk to Your Teenager About Pornography

    30 Mar 2014 | 10:00 pm
    Even researchers who can’t point to definitive evidence that pornography harms teenagers say parents should talk to their children about what they might see online. What should that conversation look like?
  • Does Porn Hurt Children?

    28 Mar 2014 | 10:00 pm
    Research suggesting that teenagers and pornography are a hazardous mix is far from definitive.
  • The Woman Who Gave Up Sex

    25 Mar 2014 | 10:00 pm
    A great show like “The Good Wife” isn’t just something you watch. There is ritual, expectations built up over years. Love.
  • No Monkeying Around for These Partners

    24 Mar 2014 | 10:00 pm
    Genetic analysis supports what observation had already suggested about the steadfast monogamy of Azara’s owl monkeys in South American.
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  • Hysterectomy Photos

    19 Apr 2014 | 10:23 pm
    Well, a couple of people mentioned being interested in seeing pictures from my hysterectomy, so I'll post links to them here. Be aware, they're actual photos taken of my actual innards, so if pictures of internal organs bother you, don't click.Photo of my uterus and one of the fibroidsPhoto of the cervical stump, after cauterizationI have a couple of others, if you're really keen.Stasia
  • Fifth day of period

    19 Apr 2014 | 4:42 am
    Usually on the fifth day of my period I am just passing brown blood with no fresh. There is usually quite a lot of brown as well. However, this month I seem not to be passing any blood onto the pad but when I put my finger inside there is a lot of fresh red blood. Does anyone else still have red blood on this day? Last month I had to take Norethisterone to stop bleeding presumably from my pill which I foolishly backed and therefore bled. Could this be the reason for the longer fresh bleed?
  • Condoms

    18 Apr 2014 | 5:19 pm
    I think that I am having problems with condoms. They are my only form of birth control. I can't take hbc. When we have sex the vaginal opening hurts. Like it's being rubbed wrong I suppose? I'm not really sure how to explain it. We use lube with the condoms and it doesn't really seem to help. I noticed that the condoms we use are ribbed a little bit so are there condoms that aren't ribbed? That are completely smooth? I'm also wondering if maybe my skin doesn't like the latex or the lube on the condoms. So does anyone use Lifestyles Skyn? Do they have large ribs? I'm starting to get really…
  • Tmi: buttcrack

    17 Apr 2014 | 9:05 pm
    This is an incredibly awkward question, and I realize you are not medical professionals, but I have to ask anyway. I realized as an adult that I have a scar running the length of my butt crack. I didn't notice it until my boyfriend asked what it was from and then I realized that it is a scar. It runs from my butt hole to the top of my crack, or even a bit above. It has been there as long as I can remember, and I have no recollection of my family ever mentioning it. Was I born with a tail or something? serious and non-serious answers as to why my crack is a scar are welcome, and I know they're…
  • What day is your period heaviest on?

    17 Apr 2014 | 8:25 am
    Just wondering what days people's periods are usually heaviest on? Mine's typically the second and on the third it will calm down slightly but still cover a pad. Is this the norm?
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    Love + Sex | Women's Lifestyle - Yahoo Shine

  • Drinking and Dating: Too Much Vs. Not Enough

    19 Apr 2014 | 10:01 am
    Should You Lie On Your Online Dating Profile About How Much You Drink? Depending on how long the addict has been in recovery, they might not be interested in, or feel comfortable dating someone who drinks.
  • Most Edgy Wedding Dresses from Bridal Fashion Week!

    18 Apr 2014 | 3:16 pm
    By: Ivy Jacobson for For the brides who aren't afraid to walk down the aisle wearing a little fringe, metal studs or a slinky jumpsuit, these edgy wedding dresses are perfect for making a statement in. Here are our favorites from this season. More from The Knot: 20 Wedding Dresses Under $1,000 A Southern Farm Wedding In Battle Creek, Michigan Wedding Dress Regrets From Knotties A Broadmoor Wedding In Colorado Springs, CO Like us on Facebook: Follow us on Twitter: © 2013 The Knot. All rights reserved.
  • 5 Ways to Tell If Your Husband is Lying

    18 Apr 2014 | 12:26 pm
    Liars are sometimes called "fast talkers," but the speed of their speech varies as much as an honest person's within a conversation. Give yourself permission to follow those whiffs of suspicion and to investigate further.
  • Hilarious Super Mario Bros.-Themed Engagement Photos

    18 Apr 2014 | 11:26 am
    Nathan and Jessica crafted quite the elaborate scenario for their engagement photos! After dozing off in the park, Nathan wakes up alone - dressed as Mario. Jessica is missing, and he quickly realizes she must've transformed into Princess Peach. He sets off on a long journey to rescue her, but he gets a little sidetracked along the way. When he finally reaches her, she's angry that he took so long - but he knows exactly how to cheer her up! He proposes, and the two run back to reality together. Plus, see more of the craziest engagement photo themes we've ever seen. More from…
  • Get the Look: Kate Middleton’s Little White Dress

    18 Apr 2014 | 10:59 am
    By: Ivy Jacobson for If you're obsessed with Kate Middleton's newest look that she debuted today in Australia, you're definitely not alone. The Duchess of Cambridge's little white eyelet number is made by Australian designer Zimmerman and is the perfect inspiration for a springtime wedding dress. More From The Knot: 7 Stylish Wedding Reception Dresses You'll Love Trend Report! Hot New Wedding Dress Trends For Fall 2014 And Spring 2015 A Southern Wedding In Darrow, LA A Luxurious Rustic Winter Wedding Like us on Facebook: Follow us on…
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  • What’s Your Porn Story?

    20 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    Everyone loves a good story. There’s a reason why exercise programs add all of those before and after photos and stories to the end of their sales pitch—because people are inspired by stories. Seeing someone else's success in weight loss pulls you off the couch and sends you running. Why? Because stories enable you to imagine tangible results that before were only intangible dreams. Have you ever watched a superhero movie and left energized? Or a sports movie that left you feeling like practicing? Or a love story that made you want to better your own relationships? That’s…
  • Just Like Jesus Did

    19 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    In January we took our team to AVN Adult Expo for the twelfth year in a row to tell people one simple message … Jesus loves them. This year we tried something new and gave out free T-shirts that said Jesus Loves Porn Stars. These were T-shirts we silk screened right there on the floor of the convention. It was quite the crowd pleaser and attracted a lot of attention. You might wonder why we would do something like this. Why go through the aggravation of setting up a full screen press, dryer, etc? The reason is the same as why we go to the conventions in the first place. It’s the…
  • The Wrong Way To Use a Band-Aid

    18 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    Our pastor recently challenged us to read Romans 8 every day one week, and I love the way The Message puts it. It says the Law is like a Band-Aid (a cover up), where people tried and strived to match up, compare, win, earn their way. This was my problem before Christ. I was always the good girl who earned approval and pleasure by pleasing others and trying to keep the peace. But that only led me into a deep depression where I dabbled in self-mutilation and overeating, drinking alcohol to help me sleep.
 Then I married a guy who was, sadly, addicted to pornography, and I tried, in the name…
  • Jesus Loves The Forgotten - Jerrod's Story (Part 2)

    17 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    [Editor's note: today's post is an excerpt from ‘Jesus Loves You, This I Know’ by Craig Gross and Jason Harper. It was written by Jason. You can read part 1 here.] I quickly jogged the fifty-yard distance from the car to the small sandy beach. I saw the towel spread out. It was right where Jerrod had taken meticulous care to assure there was not a single wrinkle. In the dark, but still able to see from my headlights, the small five inch square bump, the size of the wallet, protruded from under the towel. A quick feel to the right of the wallet revealed the keys to the family car.
  • Porn Crushes Dreams: My Porn Story

    16 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    I have an uncommon--though unfortunately not unique--story when it comes to getting free from porn. It’s a story that’s hard to hear, but like all stories, it begs to be told and demands that lessons be learned from it. I’ve struggled against porn addiction for pretty much all of my adult life. There have been times when I had a lot of victory over it, and there have been times when it dragged me all the way down to the bottom. Unfortunately, my most recent extreme is a trough, the lowest point of my struggle in my whole life. I had to give up my dream job because I’m…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • HIV-positive women respond well to HPV vaccine, study shows

    16 Apr 2014 | 9:56 am
    A vaccine can safely help the vast majority of HIV-positive women produce antibodies against the cancer-causing human papillomavirus, even if their immune system is weak and even if they've had some prior HPV exposure, a three-nation clinical trial found. HPV causes cervical and other cancers. The commonly used HPV vaccine Gardasil had not been tested in seriously immune-suppressed women with HIV. In addition, vaccines are often less effective in HIV-positive people.
  • Computerized counseling reduces HIV-1 viral load, sexual transmission risk

    15 Apr 2014 | 9:55 am
    Computerized counseling is a promising intervention for increased ART adherence and safer sex, especially for individuals with problems in these areas. This is the first intervention to report improved ART adherence, viral suppression, and reduced secondary sexual transmission risk behavior.
  • Community-based HIV prevention can boost testing, help reduce new infections

    15 Apr 2014 | 6:40 am
    Communities in Africa and Thailand that worked together on HIV-prevention efforts saw not only a rise in HIV screening but a drop in new infections, demonstrating that programs such as this can encourage community-wide testing and help reduce HIV transmission, research shows.
  • Awareness campaign shows signs of delaying onset of drug-resistant gonorrhea in UK

    14 Apr 2014 | 4:14 pm
    Gonorrhea threatens to become resistant to all antibiotics used to treat it. Campaigns in the UK to raise awareness of drug resistance have shown some success in slowing onset of treatment failure, a new study shows. The authors provide guidance for safer sex practices to help with the control of STIs.
  • Lifelong premature ejaculation can be treated by pelvic floor exercises

    13 Apr 2014 | 10:59 am
    For the first time, researchers have demonstrated that pelvic floor exercises can be effective in treating premature ejaculation in men who have had lifelong problems. Premature Ejaculation (PE) affects a significant minority of men at some point in their lives. There are a variety of treatments, some more effective than others. PE is defined as "ejaculation within a minute."
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Wood Sex Toys: An Introduction

    18 Apr 2014 | 9:39 am
    WOOD SEX TOYS?!? But won’t I get SPLINTERS?!? When I encounter a wood sex toy newbie, the “splinters” bit is bound to come up right away. Either in an attempt at a joke or said in seriousness, I will admit it makes me roll my eyes a bit. Do you get splinters from the wood furniture you sit on? From the wood salad bowl you use? From the wood bedpost you hump? I’ve yet to run across a wood sex toys crafter on Etsy that didn’t make use of excessive sanding and a finish, because they’re all woodworkers. It wouldn’t make very much sense to just hand over…
  • Regretsy for Sex Toys: Clay and Wax Dildos

    16 Apr 2014 | 11:17 am
    Subtitled: How to make a sex toy activist have a heart attackORStupid Human Tricks: Sex Toy EditionALSODon’t try this at home In research for my post about wood sex toys, I’ve been spending time on Etsy. There are some whackadoodles and many legit crafters on Etsy, and this of course applies to sex toys. Today, Naughty Reenie pointed me to a whackadoodle of the highest order. I’ll link to the shop at the end of the post, but I honestly don’t want to give this guy too much traffic. I’ve screencapped his wares for you, in case he does finally wise up.  You have to…
  • Quickie Review: Tantus Anaconda

    12 Apr 2014 | 12:20 pm
    Despite the fact that more than two years ago I offered up one in a giveaway, and despite the fact that it’s on my “best” list I never managed to do a proper review on the Tantus Anaconda dildo. Because it’s a dildo and doesn’t “do” much, it gets a Quickie Review. What makes the Tantus Anaconda so special? The handle. Often, we use the harness base or the balls (if the dildo has either of these) as a handle, but with the Anaconda (and the Echo Handle, and the Goddess Handle) you have 4″ of nothing but HANDLE! I don’t have tiny hands, so…
  • We-Vibe 4 Review

    10 Apr 2014 | 11:06 am
    I’ve been reviewing the We-Vibe ever since it first came out, so it’s been interesting to watch the changes they’ve made over the years. The first We-Vibe was simple–no remote, no patterns–but lacking in vibration strength. We-Vibe 21 added in a bunch of patterns. We-Vibe 3 added in a remote and a bit of a power increase, along with an easier method of charging–the induction base–which also made it waterproof. So far though, We-Vibes 1 through 3 all looked about the same. Finally We-Vibe 4 is out and the changes are significant2. I admit that the…
  • Throwback Thursday: The Magic Wand

    3 Apr 2014 | 9:01 am
    The Hitachi Magic Wand was one of the first really powerful sex toys I reviewed. Except that it’s not REALLY a sex toy, it’s a back massager. That’s what Hitachi thought, until they caved and let Vibratex distribute it instead but with a rebranding of removing the “Hitachi” because they were so ashamed of its fame.  I loved the Magic Wand for awhile. It was cumbersome and clunky, but sometimes I really needed that power boost in order to orgasm.   Nearly 6 Years Later Update… The more vibrators I try, the more I learn. I learned that although the…
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    Susie Bright's Journal

  • Kate Clinton Goes Deep Inside The Sex Archives (Susie Bright)
    1 Apr 2014 | 4:14 pm
    Radclyffe Hall, "Speaking of Sex Exhibit": The Human Sexuality Collection 25th Anniversary Sometimes at fundraisers when I talk with people about another string of LGBT successes, I feel like I have been Mr. Peabody-ed into a way, wayback machine episode. It's The Beverly Hillbillies and a gobsmacked Jethro has just...
  • Lung Cancer Noir - Ariel Gore's Masterpiece. (Susie Bright)
    6 Mar 2014 | 6:39 pm
    I have this recurring nightmare that my mother is alive. She never died. I've made a terrible mistake. I have to call my editor. We can't publish the book. I don't know how I could have made such a wild mistake. I mean, she looked dead. I signed the papers....
  • Best Doggone Kody Dog Ever (Susie Bright)
    9 Jan 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Kodiak Rest in Peace April 1, 2001- January 9, 2015 Oh have you seen my dear companion For he was all this world to me I hear he's gone to some far country and he fares no more to be I wish I were a swallow flying I'd fly to...
  • My Answers to Professor Larry Gopnik's Post-Hanukah, Pre-Christmas, Post-Schrodinger, Pre-Apocalypse Holiday Movie Quiz (Susie Bright)
    26 Dec 2013 | 3:15 pm
    1) Favorite unsung holiday film? The Ref. Too famous, you say? Well, i would like to take some of the credit for that, because I have flogged it as "best Christmas movie ever" for a very long time. Each year, I shock several people with its discovery, who then take...
  • The Naughty List— Publisher and Agent FAILS No Author Wants to Hear (Susie Bright)
    16 Dec 2013 | 1:47 pm
    As I don my gay apparel and consider whose stocking I will stuff full of treats and girl-crush this year, my tiny dark side has demanded a turn. There is a naughty list. As fair readers know, in addition to my starry-eyed writing adventures, I acquire and produce audiobooks. I...
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  • on bad sex, a consideration

    chelsea g. summers
    4 Apr 2014 | 11:44 am
    I have a new piece on Adult Mag online. It’s on bad sex. Here’s a quote: In the thirty-five years I’ve been fucking, I’ve had a wealth of bad sex. There have been men who rubbed my breasts like jinn would appear. Lovers, male and female, who would slip beneath the covers, take the token lap, and pop up like whack-a-moles. Men who mistook stamina for artistry, speed for skill, and my patience for pleasure. Threesomes that were blinding in their shared solipsism. Fucking is a lot like poetry. Sometimes it’s epiphanic; sometimes it's merely boring. Other times it’s just awful.
  • public fucking and crespuscular velvet

    chelsea g. summers
    28 Jan 2014 | 9:46 pm
    The very best thing about Gotham is its gossamer predilection for magic. It seems a stalwart city, all great hunkering buildings of glass and metal, peopled by humans who live insular quotidian lives tethered to their white iPhone cords and their Lululemon totes and their thinly veiled misanthropy. On its surface, Gotham is solid and real, and every year I live here, it seems to solidify more. It would be a shame to see Gotham take itself seriously, but gravitas seems its future.  Which is why those moments when the magic spins and reels, drunk as dust motes, shine so bright. The movies…
  • mortality will make you its bitch, you might as well enjoy the collar

    chelsea g. summers
    2 Jan 2014 | 8:41 pm
    This is me on New Year’s Eve at a party held in the loft of Molly Crabapple and Fred Harper. It was late, well after 2:00, and though it’s hard to see it, my lipstick is smeared from kissing girls. It has become my custom to ring in the new year at Molly and Fred’s, and to do it in lingerie, pressing my lips to those of other women. I don’t remember the last time I kissed a man on New Year’s Eve. It might have been 2006.  In this photo, I’m kneeling astraddle Molly and Fred’s bed. My friend Najva Sol, a talented photographer, pronounced me “New Years” and said she…
  • fear of falling

    chelsea g. summers
    30 Dec 2013 | 3:35 pm
    I entered puberty the year after Erica Jong published Fear of Flying, the seminal ‘70s novel that's an ode to female sexual liberation and, uh, Freudianism. (That Jong intended the novel to be a comic farce, like a chick-based Tom Jones, is apparent in her narrative bedding of these two ideals.) I didn’t read the novel until I was in college, but it still shaped my sexual identity as a pubescent.  How could it not? The novel was discussed everywhere. And its distillation was the radical concept of the “zipless fuck,” the choice of two (or presumably more) adults to engage in…
  • unmentionables, the second

    chelsea g. summers
    15 Dec 2013 | 10:16 am
    Any good lingerie comes in a set. This is the second part; here's the first. I am, right now, dating one man, occasionally fucking another, and enjoying intense sexting with a couple others whom I may or may not meet. It hardly matters. They give good words, and I careen through the day with a hot, wet, clamoring little knot in my cunt. I could not be happier. I owe it all—this sexual renaissance, this renewed slutification of me, this rebirth of delighted promiscuity—to a $236 set of lingerie and an epiphany.  My therapist’s office has walls the reassuring color of Cream of…
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    The Virginity Project

  • Losing It in the USA....

    The Virginity Project
    15 Apr 2014 | 3:42 am
    It’s not all doom and gloom over here at The Virginity Project. On the contrary, it is a great day. A long held dream comes true. My book,’ Losing It: How we popped our cherry over the last 80 years’ has travelled all the way from two people randomly sharing their virginity loss stories on El Matador beach, followed by a ‘that’s a good idea for a book’ moment….to actually holding a book in my hands that gets published in America today. WAHEY!! To celebrate, here is a story that does actually involve a moment of comedy, not an overly popular theme in your stories over the last 7…
  • Love lies bleeding

    The Virginity Project
    7 Apr 2014 | 8:49 am
    I get sent all sorts of stories, some long, some short, some that I do a brutal edit on. Asides from correcting two spellings, I left this story as it is. I love the sad, short simplicity of it. It doesn’t go into detail. It doesn’t need to. In just one paragraph, the writer paints a picture so much bigger than the 210 words it is built from. 'Me and my best friend were the funny, likable, frumpy girls in high school. Popular but not sexy like the dancers, we made friends of boys rather than lovers. We lived in a small town about an hour away from the city. When we were 16, we jumped…
  • Funny bone...

    The Virginity Project
    2 Apr 2014 | 7:21 am
    So, to celebrate the launch of my book 'Losing It: How we popped our cherry over the last 80 years’ in the USA, if you go onto Goodreads right here, you can win a copy of it today. But to up the ante further, I will personally send a signed copy of my book to the person who can send me the best comedy virginity loss story. I’m thinking parents/friends/family walking in at inappropriate moments, people falling off beds that have been covering in plastic sheeting and olive oil (possibly an urban myth but I did hear it once in reference to a sexual encounter. They had to wait for a…
  • The Sunday Sermon OR why you should try, even when you don't know what you're doing.

    The Virginity Project
    23 Mar 2014 | 2:02 pm
    It’s a truly great day for The Virginity Project because in under one month, ‘Losing It: How we popped our cherry over the last 80 years’ will be published in the USA. Needless to say, that also makes it a great day for me, Kate Monro. Full disclosure: I never had plans to write a book. I never had plans for anything much beyond having a good time and going to a lot of parties for most of my teens and twenties. It wasn’t until I hit my thirties that it occurred to me that 1. I might be good at something else and 2. I better find out what this elusive ‘something’ was because time…
  • First times of another kind...

    The Virginity Project
    13 Mar 2014 | 9:02 am
    So by now you probably know that the ‘first kiss’ viral was allegedly an ad for a clothing company or a cynical plot to extract your money as one British broadsheet puts it….but I still don’t think that takes away from the essence of the content. It remains appealing to the public mostly, I imagine, because content of a more racy, aggressive, frequently devoid of human warmth & emotion, not to mention completely mis-representational of what most of us get up to behind closed doors is par for the course these days. This film taps into the febrile nervousness, vulnerability and…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet he offers to dance with her. Bad sign.  He makes you feel you are overreacting
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze, review, and process information. Not at all. What I am suggesting is that our
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him. If a guy doesn't call back, he is giving you a message loud and clear.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • This is dedicated to...

    Heather Corinna
    14 Apr 2014 | 3:38 pm
    Thanks so much to everyone who has been pitching in with our current fundraising drive. We're getting awfully close to our goal -- to the minimum we need to raise to avoid any shutdowns -- and we could not be more appreciative and excited. Thank you! During the last couple months, we've had quite a few people adding dedications to their donations. Some asked to have them emailed, but most just put them in their form for us to see them. We hate to see such heartfelt dedications only get seen by us, so we wanted to take a little break from the hard parts of fundraising, and share some of them…
  • #Scarleteenalums: Can You Speak Up To Help Out?

    Heather Corinna
    6 Apr 2014 | 11:37 am
    Someone had told me Scarleteen was the best place on the internet for sexual health info, and I see now that they were completely right. It's the scariest feeling in the world to not know what's going on with your own body, and even worse to feel like you have no one you can talk to about it. I am thanking Jeebus, the Easter Bunny and Hare Krishna that people like you exist. - Brigitte We're getting into the final stretches of our current fundraising campaign, the one we very much hope will start to turn things around for us financially, and help us continue all of our services, rather than…
  • You cannot become pregnant when you have pants on.

    Heather Corinna
    27 Mar 2014 | 1:40 pm
    You cannot become pregnant when you have pants or other kinds of clothing on that covers your genitals.   No, seriously, listen up: YOU CANNOT BECOME PREGNANT WHEN YOU HAVE PANTS ON.   No, not even JUST you but no one else, because you think you are some kind of one-in-a-million-something-or-other: Nobody is that special, not even you. (Which is not to say you are not special: I am sure you are.  Just not THAT special.) Not even unicorns. Or magicians. Or flying pigs. Nobody. There IS no one-in-a-million-with this.  Only a none. Last time: Were you wearing pants during…
  • Of Condom Charity and Open Houses

    Heather Corinna
    26 Mar 2014 | 2:36 pm
    As you may have read a few weeks ago, we are in dire straits when it comes to sustaining all that we do here at Scarleteen, and need more support to do so now.  Since we put out that call, we've raised around half of what we need to keep doing all we currently do, thanks to a few hundred generous individuals. Thanks so much to everyone who has given us your help so far! However, halfway there is only halfway there. When I was in my teens, I was offered a 50% scholarship to the college I most wanted to attend: that was one hell of a scholarship, but attending meant I needed 100% of the…
  • Anxiety Lies.

    Heather Corinna
    18 Mar 2014 | 1:24 pm
    Author:  Mary Maxfield Brave Introduction:  The same disorder that makes me feel so insecure, tense, vulnerable and outright petrified, also convinces me that it’s protecting me from harm. The disorder that terrorizes me persuades me to keep it active, as a security system, even though it is anything but. I live with chronic anxiety. I’m intimately acquainted with sweaty palms, flushed skin, and the positioning of heart in throat. I’ve experienced panic attacks, a specific brand of torture, which feel roughly like suffocating, hyperventilating, and having a heart attack,…
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  • We're Making Vaginas?!

    12 Apr 2014 | 2:52 am
    Humans have been making vaginas for a long, long time. Until recently, as far as most of us knew, the manufacturing of these organs took place in uteri around the world, usually finishing up 14 to 16 weeks after receipt of raw materials. Manufacturing may not be the best analogy for this process, at least not the kind of manufacturing that involves machine automated assembly lines pumping out perfectly identical products. Even when humans do it on their own, it's more of a bespoke or artisanal situation. And so it is now that science has delivered us the first, fully tested, tissue-engineered…
  • Sex and Lung Cancer: Missing the Forest for the Trees

    11 Apr 2014 | 2:00 am
    Last month at the 4th European Lung Cancer Conference in Geneva, a professor of urology and a radiation oncologist led a rare morning session that focused on sex. During the one and a half hour workshop, Stephane Droupy and Luca Incrocci spoke about the importance of considering sexual function and satisfaction among patients being treated for lung cancer. I learned about the session through a prepared release about the workshop in which the presenters called for more attention to be paid to sexual dysfunction in lung cancer patients. A few times a year a release like this pops up, calling…
  • What Does Normal Sex Look Like?

    7 Apr 2014 | 3:00 am
    What do you imagine when you think of normal sex? Is having normal sex like getting a gold star, or is it more like a rubber stamp? When taken out of context many may feel as if normal sex equals boring sex. And yet the pull of normal is strong, as it can feel like protection against the shame of our individual sexual desires. When I worked in sex shops I would get this question all the time in different forms. People would disclose something they had done sexually or something they fantasize about and then ask if I thought it was normal. Sometimes they would use those exact words (usually…
  • If You Thought Circumcision Debates Were Heated Before…

    3 Apr 2014 | 2:00 am
    Things are about to get much, much hotter. That's because the authors of a new review of research, which was published online this week and will be in the May issue of the Mayo Clinic Proceedings, have taken the already contentious topic of circumcision and super-charged it by introducing another infant intervention flashpoint, vaccinations. The paper begins with an explanation that rates of circumcision in the US have not been properly reported, and what seems like an increase over time in circumcision rates is actually a slight decrease. But the authors have a lot more on their minds than…
  • How Do I Make Masturbation More Enjoyable?

    25 Mar 2014 | 2:43 am
    Is it the mood lighting? The sweet talk? The touch that seems to always know the right spot, the right pressure, the right next move? Just what is it that makes masturbation enjoyable? For many (most?) of us it's probably none of those things. How many of us sweet talk ourselves into bed? How often is our self touch something magical as opposed to something that works, that gets the job done? If I've learned anything over twenty-five years of talking to people about their sex lives it's that you can't take anything for granted. Including the quality of our self-pleasuring activities. So this…
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    A Sensual Blog: Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Play with Gigi and Iris

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:20 pm
    I was going to post some soul-searching thesis on a dark subject that has resulted from my counselling sessions but, you know what? It’s hot, the sun is shining, my children are being very well behaved and their father is away this week. Ok, so I’m making pocket money the reward for keeping [...]
  • MCW: Best ‘Voyeur’ Movie

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    14 Apr 2014 | 9:13 pm
    It’s Movie Clip Wednesday, hosted here whilst Anonymous Boxer is enmired in work. Just tell me you’re up if you want to play along. I’m hoping my selection of The Lives of Others will appeal to 63mago since it is a German film with English subtitles. But what a film, the subtitles don’t matter, you just [...]
  • Having my cake and eating it too

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    11 Apr 2014 | 9:10 pm
    So many people have asked me why I don’t do something about my situation. Why don’t I leave my Husband? Why don’t I get my own place? Why don’t I take the children to live with Ruf? My reply to them is: But what possible benefit could any individual from this family unit get [...]
  • Putting the Arrrrr into Prostate

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    8 Apr 2014 | 9:08 pm
    When Ruf expressed a desire to investigate his prostate, the lovely people at LoveHoney provided me with two new toys. Nexus Duo Vibrating Unisex G Spot Stimulator Medium This little white pleasure stick was actually much smaller than I expected, which is probably why Ruf was quite happy to insert it into his posterior. We’ve tried before [...]
  • The Karate Wife Whose Husband Is Unhappy

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    5 Apr 2014 | 9:07 pm
    I'm sure all the fighting she does in class makes her so aggressive at home. I just want to be kind to them and not have to have rows all the time. I'm quite happy to buy them things whenever they ask and repair or replace anything that has been broken if it means avoiding a [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 6 “Innocent” Dirty Talk Phrases That Will Make Her Weak In The Knees

    Kaylen Jackson
    16 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    Dirty talk is an excellent way to get your lover turned on and ready to take you all in. Use these six “demure” dirty talk suggestions during foreplay tonight! “I Love How Wet You Are” If she’s already wet, this dirty talk phrase will make her even wetter. A lot of women are self-conscious about being too wet – especially women who are able to ejaculate during orgasm. You’re probably thinking, “Yeah, right – that’s totally hot!” However, she may feel differently about it. Many women are self-conscious about their vaginal…
  • Are These 4 Things RUINING Your Orgasm?

    Dan & Jennifer
    14 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    An orgasm is the icing on the cake when it comes to sex, but many girls can’t get there. It’s not always easy to reach orgasm, especially if your guy doesn’t have a clue what he’s doing down there. But men aren’t the only culprits here – there are plenty of other factors that contribute to a woman losing out on reaching orgasm during sex. Are these three issues to blame for you not reaching climax? 1. Obsessing Over The Way Your Body Looks Almost all girls obsess over the way their bodies look, especially naked. This is generally due to social conditioning…
  • 5 Simple Things To Help You Get In The Mood For Sex

    Dan & Jennifer
    13 Apr 2014 | 12:25 pm
    Getting in the mood is can be a challenge for a lot of women. If you have trouble getting into the mood or you experience low libido, it can be a constant challenge to put yourself into that frame of mind. No matter what your situation is, it’s important for you to realize that there are a lot of women that have trouble getting into the mood. This can cause problems in the relationship and even lead to cheating in extreme cases. Here are a few very simple things that can help you get in the mood for sex. #1 Take A Bath To Get In The Mood It is common knowledge that women feel much more…
  • 3 Sex Positions For Deeper Penetration

    Kaylen Jackson
    10 Apr 2014 | 9:00 am
    Penetrating as deep as possible during sexual intercourse is a great way to connect emotionally and physically with your partner. Mixing sex positions that allow for deeper penetration with other pleasurable sex positions can definitely make your sex life even hotter than it was before! Try these positions if you want to go deep. Doggy Style Doggy style is probably the best sex position for going deep and stimulating the g-spot. It doesn’t allow for face to face contact with your partner, but if you want rough, deep and dirty sex, doggy style is the way to go. If you want to be closer…
  • 21 Short & Sweet Sex Tips You CAN’T Miss!

    Kaylen Jackson
    10 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips come in all forms – lengthy, detailed and more. But THESE sex tips are easily digestible, so you don’t want to miss out on these sexy little jewels! If You Have Trouble Reaching Orgasm Masturbate before sex first, but don’t let yourself reach climax. Then, when you and your partner start getting it on, you’ll zoom to the peak in no time. If You’ve Never Had An Orgasm Masturbate. Enough said. Use Your PC Muscles During Sex Girls, squeeze his penis with your vaginal muscles as he’s thrusting. Do this one the “out” stroke and it will be…
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    Dating, singles, relationships, sex tips and advice blog for men and women.

  • Being you is better than changing to appease someone who is threatened by differences

    Natalie (NML)
    14 Apr 2014 | 3:13 pm
    It’s a pretty bemusing, baffling and sometimes downright annoying experience, when someone expresses discontent with who you are as a person by essentially claiming that who you are is ‘wrong’. It’s like, “You’re doing you wrong. It should be like this and this, not that.” Erm, who says? They’re not you. What you can immediately learn in this situation, is that when person claims that you’re ‘doing’ you wrong, they hold beliefs that people ‘should’ be the same as them, or that they should at the very least be and do…
  • Loneliness happens when we stop expressing how we feel and lose emotional connections (The importance of self-care and safe people)

    Natalie (NML)
    11 Apr 2014 | 3:09 pm
    When we stop expressing how we feel, we lose, not only that all vital connection to ourselves, but we also end up feeling lonely due to a lack of emotional connection with people who are theoretically in our Circle of Trust. We fear that if we’re honest, that they won’t want to know us, will be angry, or will tell us that we’re wrong, so we don’t express our feelings and opinions as we don’t trust them to handle them. It’s a vicious circle. Something similar happens when we determine that we’re not liked, which may not be a statement of fact but more…
  • Why do we want to be liked by people who we dislike?

    Natalie (NML)
    7 Apr 2014 | 3:21 pm
    One of the things that fascinates me about human nature, is our irrational desire and sometimes need to be liked by people who we ourselves do not like. We can be mad at a person and decide that we don’t like him/her but then feel wounded and even rejected when they don’t respond to our dislike in the way that we would prefer. It’s as if we need the validation of knowing that they’re negatively impacted by our opinion. We want them to chase after us for our ‘like’ and when they don’t or it even becomes apparent that the feeling is mutual, we feel…
  • There’s no point in following the ‘trend’ if you don’t end up liking or knowing you

    Natalie (NML)
    4 Apr 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When I was a teenager growing up in Dublin and battling with that very typical desire to ‘fit in’ by being and doing what I thought everyone else was, my mother would trot out her standard line – “Would you jump off a bridge if someone told you to?” As one of only a few black kids around at that time, finding things to help me ‘blend in’ was very high on my agenda. I thought people would overlook my differences or even my ‘flaws’ such as my parents not being together, the big scar on my right leg, and whatever it was that I thought was…
  • “Charming” tends to be a precursor to code red problems

    Natalie (NML)
    31 Mar 2014 | 2:54 pm
    Each and every time someone shares a story with me where the object of their affections (and their pain) is described as “charming”, I already know the rest of the story without them having to utter another word. My spidey senses go “O-oh!” and I know that the rest of the story’s going to be a rollercoaster of pain where much of the relationship is going to be about chasing the beginning (when there was Fast Forwarding and Future Faking) and also about recouping the validation, adoration, and intensity that they get when the charm offensive is switched on.
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 390: How to date a girl

    19 Apr 2014 | 3:08 pm
    How does a girl successfully and safely explore her bisexual side when in an existing heterosexual relationship? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 389: Intro to kink with MOLLENA!

    10 Apr 2014 | 9:17 pm
    How do you safely enter the kink community and find people to play with? Mollena Williams, co-author of Playing Well With Others, gives advice. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 388: It's not about you

    30 Mar 2014 | 7:17 pm
    For those who wrote in to argue on the everyone is doing poly wrong episode, thank you! And I stand by my message of tolerance rather than policing. Here's why! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 387: Is monogamy natural?

    16 Mar 2014 | 8:47 pm
    Are humans biologically or "naturally" monogamous, and why does it matter? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 386: Telling the emperor he has no clothes

    9 Mar 2014 | 10:30 am
    Telling the emperor he has no clothes: how do you bring up to the couple you're dating that you see unhealthy dynamics in their relationship? Is it your business? How do you bring up an outsider's perspective to an intimate relationshipw without looking like a homewrecker? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Facebook Now Offers More Gender Options

    Kelvin Ayora
    31 Mar 2014 | 8:18 am
    Last month Facebook unveiled a feature that allows people to choose from more than two genders on their profile. Up until recently the only choices available for gender were male and female, which actually refer just to sex. These two options excluded many people who didn’t identify either of these ways. Gender has to do with whether someone is masculine, feminine, a combination of both or neither. Gender identity is how someone experiences their gender—how they feel inside as masculine or feminine or something else when they close their eyes. Thanks to Facebook’s new gender…
  • Planned Parenthood App Lets You Hear From Teens Who Have Been There & Done That

    Krystal Barragan
    17 Mar 2014 | 8:46 am
    Imagine hearing from other teens about birth control, condoms and sex with a few taps of your finger, right on your phone! Well, this is now a reality. You can do this through a Planned Parenthood app called Been There, Done That. It’s just one of Planned Parenthood’s new apps for teens that are not only easy to use but also give a lot of great insight on things like preventing pregnancy and STDs and even planning your future. Been There, Done That, is my favorite app. The first screen has simple questions like what is your gender and how old are you. Then the next screen is a page with…
  • Many Doctors Don’t Talk to Teens About Sex

    Krystal Barragan
    10 Mar 2014 | 8:21 am
    A study from Duke University revealed that teens and their doctors are not—or are barely—talking about sex, sexuality and dating. The study showed that teens and their doctors spend approximately 36 seconds talking about these topics. How is 36 seconds adequate time to talk about sex and sexuality? That is just crazy! Doctors know how important sexual health is, so why are so many of them avoiding the topic? If your doctor isn’t bringing the topic of sex up, then you should. I know that talking about sex can be intimidating, but it is important to remember that your doctor is not there…
  • Happy 15th Birthday,!

    Sarah McNeilly
    14 Feb 2014 | 1:21 pm
    Happy birthday, dear Sex, Etc., happy birthday to you! This month, we celebrate the 15th anniversary of! In the last decade and a half, we’ve seen some incredible changes. Our cell phones are smaller, the Internet is faster and our access to information on sexuality and sexual health is nearly unlimited. Though a lot has changed since 1999, teenagers in 2014 have some things in common with teens from 1999, mainly because teens are still asking the same questions. Fifteen years ago, looked a lot different. We didn’t have the awesome formatting, graphics and games we…
  • Why I Joined My School’s GSA

    Tsering Bista
    5 Feb 2014 | 9:03 am
    February 5th is Gay-Straight Alliance Day! This year, celebrate by becoming a member of your school’s GSA or by creating your own. Gay-straight alliances (GSAs) are student-run organizations that work to improve schools for all students regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Just last year, thanks to fellow student Brian Healy, my school finally started a GSA and joined more than 4,000 other ones across the country. The purpose of our organization is twofold: to discuss current events and topics related to LGBTQ issues and to provide LGBTQ teens with a comfortable…
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  • Buy Unique Baby Gifts Online

    7 Apr 2014 | 7:02 pm
    Looking for that perfect gift for baby or christening gifts for the christening of a newborn can be quite a task. There are so many gift ideas and options available, but at varying quality and affordability. If you are experiencing your first ever christening or baby arrival then the task can be ever more daunting. What gift should you choose? Are there traditional gifts that are expected at a christening? How do I find a beautiful gift but not spend too much? These are just some questions you may find yourself asking and while all valid, what choosing christening gifts or baby presents come…
  • Where to Buy Eco Nappy

    5 Mar 2014 | 5:09 pm
    In the case that your baby usually has nappy rashes or has sensitive skin, it will be better if you use buy eco nappy. These nappies are usually hypoallergenic thus do not react with sensitive skin. As you know global warming has been a real issue with the world today and disposable diapers pollute the environment. Help saving environment by buying modern cloth eco disposable nappies. To ensure that you also play a part in maintaining the environment use this nappy since it is reusable. Eco nappy is washable thus it can be used more than once when properly cleaned.It is always hard to…
  • Internet Savings For Baby

    9 Feb 2014 | 7:07 pm
    The Internet. It is a wondrous piece of technology that gives us the freedom to buy whatever we so please and then to have it conveniently dropped off at our house. No fussing around to try and get a car park, just buy things from the comfort of your own house.  So then, when you’ve got a couple of newborn babies to take care of, one can imagine how nice it would be to be able to buy the newborn bubs essentials while simultaneously being able to take care of them. Many new tech savvy parents today are opting to do their baby shopping online, not only because it’s far more…
  • Hire Pure Entertainment For Kids Through Jumping Castle Hire Services

    29 Dec 2013 | 8:36 pm
    Jumping castles or inflatable castles are structures or buildings created and rented temporary for entertainment of children mainly at school, festivals and homes. These are mainly hired on rent as they are little bit costly and also difficult to handle. But as they are very easy to store and transport they can be easily hired and rented whenever required. These budget castle hire in Brisbane or inflatable castles are known with different names all over the world. In Australia, they are at times known as jumping palaces or inflatable castles too. Jumping castles are made from thick PVC or…
  • The Right Kind Of Clothing And Toys For Kids

    18 Nov 2013 | 10:36 pm
    When babies are growing, then you need to provide with the best types of clothing and toys. For toddlers, they have a habit of chewing whatever comes on their way be it toys, furniture of clothes. This is the time a mommy needs to take special care so that the childhood of the toddler is not affected and he remains healthy at the same time. A very attractive type of toy for the child is the wonderful wigwam tepee tents. This looks like the primitive conical shaped tent where the natives used to stay. Toys made of wood are much friendlier and scientific than plastic one. Plastic toys are…
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    Silent Porn Star

  • When Risque Meant Sexist

    Silent Porn Star
    12 Apr 2014 | 8:41 am
    Risque vintage comic and cartoon illustrations, mostly from Humorama magazine, for sale at Koch Comic Art. Found via.
  • What Silent Porn Star Has Been Reading This Past Week

    Silent Porn Star
    8 Apr 2014 | 7:43 am
    Apparently Peter Tupper (aka ptupper72) didn’t stop blogging, writing, or researching; he just moved his site. You can now find him at The History of BDSM, where he has an interesting post about 1930s bondage. In Of Feminism & Inequality In Porn & Sex Work, Gracie hits the nail on the head regarding porn & […]
  • “She Loses Her Clothes As She Glows In The Dark”

    Silent Porn Star
    4 Apr 2014 | 12:36 pm
    Throughout the 1940s, at least, these ads for risque neckties for men filled magazines — including mainstream magazines published for America’s clean-cut youth, such as Hit Parader. In fact, in one issue of Hit Parader alone I found multiple ads for these glow in the dark strip-tease ties. (Note: the girls only strip down to […]
  • Sailor Drawn To The Rapture

    Silent Porn Star
    3 Apr 2014 | 3:55 am
    A vintage photo of a sailor man perusing Rapture magazine.
  • Vintage Petty Girl Glasses Ad

    Silent Porn Star
    27 Mar 2014 | 8:47 am
    Circa 1948.
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    Simple Marriage

  • The Art of Contentment

    17 Apr 2014 | 6:36 am
    A majority of struggle in married life is in our head. We wonder why we can’t find time to connect with loved ones because we’re caught up in our to do lists, or struggling with an inadequacy, or striving to create a life like we see other’s living in their Facebook feed. This struggle is normal … as it is part of the process of becoming. It’s the path to creating a more solid, flexible self. Someone who knows who they are and is comfortable in their own skin. A great step forward in this process is to learn the art of contentment. Contentment is not easy –…
  • 5 Ways to Help Ensure a Happy Marriage

    15 Apr 2014 | 6:00 am
    This is a guest post from Ken Myers. In today’s world, people get married for a variety of reasons. Sometimes a couple really doesn’t put into perspective just how much work could go into developing a happy marriage. Getting married for the wrong reasons could make the experience much more difficult to obtain happiness. However, this isn’t saying that it’s impossible. Being a couple is about unity.You’re no longer separated by complete individuality but are together as something special and unique. What can you do to help ensure the marriage is a happy one that…
  • Ask Me Anything … Answers

    13 Apr 2014 | 1:46 pm
    Last week was an open mic format – I partnered with a Harvard-MIT start-up called Six Questions. Now the answers to the top six questions are available. So if you asked a question, or voted for some, or are simply interested in several 1 minute clips that will help your relationship – watch them below. Ask Me Anything … Answers is written by Corey from: Simple Marriage ----------- A FEW THINGS WE LOVE: Simple Marriage's eCourses - marriage help from the comfort of your own phone. Sexy Marriage Radio
  • The Science of Happy Relationships

    10 Apr 2014 | 1:07 pm
    What do we know today about happy relationships? A lot actually. This infographic from the happiness training app Happify sums up several important findings from studies on what makes couples happy. For example, happy couples have 5 positive interactions for every negative one, versus the 0.8 positive interactions for every negative one that divorced couples go through. And how about this tidbit: When it comes to strengthening your relationship, studies show the most crucial factor is how you celebrate your partner’s good news. In one study, people who did this 3x a day for 1 week…
  • How To Choose A Shrink: Part 2

    8 Apr 2014 | 5:04 am
    If you happened to miss the initial guide, be sure to check it out. One reader asked a few very good follow up questions based on part one. Here is an excerpt: Finding a therapist, especially when there isn’t anything catastrophic wrong, is a challenging thing. There just seems no good way to find someone without a referral from a friend, which most people (including myself) are too uncomfortable asking for. How do you do a phone screen? How do you know if the counseling is “working”? How long is a fair trial? Allow me to attempt to tackle the stigma of going to counseling.
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  • Sign up for my may 30 erotica writing workshop in NYC (during BEA)

    15 Apr 2014 | 9:18 am
    I'm excited about next month's NYC workshop on May 30 at 7:30 p.m., Writing Erotica for Pleasure and Money, at the extremely well stocked sex toy store The Pleasure Chest on the Upper East Side, 1150 Second Avenue, where I'll be giving you plenty of exercises to get you writing and sharing how and where to sell your erotica. Click here to register ($25/person). And here's what Ducky Doolittle of New York Academy for Sex Education, who's organizing the workshop, has to say about my workshops: "Rachel Kramer Bussel's love of erotic creativity, the craft of writing and her desire to support…
  • Free aural erotica about a London bus hookup: listen to Rose Caraway read "Pushing Boundaries on Public Transport"

    14 Apr 2014 | 9:25 am
    You can now listen to the glorious Rose Caraway, narrator of The Big Book of Orgasms audiobook (and the Gotta Have It audiobook) read a story to you called "Pushing Boundaries on Public Transport" by Victoria Blisse, about some sexy fun on a bus. Not only that, Rose created this adorable image, with me (!!) as the driver, her looking on while two people hook up, and the London Eye in the background. Love it! There are 68 other hot stories waiting for you in The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories, out now in print, ebook and audiobook form. Listen to the story here and subscribe to The Kiss…
  • Watch sexy face slapping erotica "Manners" read by me from sale book Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex

    9 Apr 2014 | 6:40 am
    Yes, I wrote a politeness and face slapping erotica story called "Manners" in Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex, which you can buy for only $1.99 for the Kindle edition, through the end of April. You don't need to own a Kindle to read Kindle ebooks; just download Kindle for PC or Kindle for Mac (which I use even more than I use my Kindle) and boom, your book purchases are almost all a lot cheaper. (My other $1.99 Kindle ebooks this month are spanking anthology Bottoms Up and femdom erotica Yes, Ma'am.) If you want to hear a professional reading all 69 stories, pick up the Audible…
  • April $1.99 Kindle ebook sale: Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories, femdom erotica in Yes, Ma'am and flash fiction in Gotta Have It

    8 Apr 2014 | 11:20 am
    3 more of my Cleis Press anthologies are on sale during April: Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories, Yes, Ma'am: Erotic Stories of Male Submission and flash fiction bonanza Gotta Have it: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex. Bonus: if you buy the Kindle edition for $1.99, you can then buy the Audible audiobook for only $5.99 from Amazon. My bet is on the best audiobook of the bunch: Rose Caraway killing it with Gotta Have It. Don't believe me? Listen to free stories: "Veronica's Ass" by Matt Conklin (scroll to bottom of screen, pun intended) and listen right here to these stories: "Laugh" by Sommer…
  • 69 erotica stories for only $1.99 on Kindle through April in Gotta Have it

    8 Apr 2014 | 8:31 am
    The Kindle ebook edition of Gotta Have It: 69 Stories of Sudden Sex is only $1.99 through April 30th. That's a major bargain! Want to get a free sampling? Listen to some of the audiobook excerpts read by Rose Caraway, and you can buy the whole audiobook at Audible.
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  • B-Classic: Dvořák – Symphony No. 9 Allegro con fuoco

    Violet Blue
    20 Apr 2014 | 3:53 am
    Belgium based B-Classic has started The Classical Comeback Video: “a new music video format that gives classical music the same recognition as pop and rock music by combining the timeless emotion of classical music with the visual talent of a contemporary director.” It’s open to submissions. “The Classical Comeback is a creative format open to anyone” and they have just a few rules, such as submission length under five minutes. Above is the first entry for the project, Dvořák – Symphony No. 9 Allegro con fuoco in E-Minor (From the new world –…
  • Sex News: Beards and sexual selection, Atari porn, crush fetish arrests

    Violet Blue
    18 Apr 2014 | 7:32 pm
    Don’t get hacked. Make safe online profiles. Fight back against harassment. Learn how in my new book The Smart Girl’s Guide to Privacy (also on iTunes). One of the strangest of the early trial-and-error home game phases came in the 1980s when a number of pornographic titles hit the market for the Atari 2600. Red Hot Blocky Porn: Atari’s Lost Adult Titles (PC Mag) Right now, beards are in, but a team of scientists suggest we may be nearing “peak beard.” This is more than just a bit of a fashion advice—the fact that we’re so fickle about facial hair says something…
  • Davide Ambroggio’s Dominant Femme in Bambi Magazine XVI

    Violet Blue
    17 Apr 2014 | 8:44 pm
    Fashion porn alert: Davide Ambroggio’s Dominant Femme in Bambi Magazine XVI begins here at image 83, and the whole set is pretty fucking sexy. Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex breaches copyright, violates U.S. Federal Trademark law, and the Federal Trademark Dilution Act. If this content is not in your…
  • Eye Candy: Pretty New Porn

    Violet Blue
    16 Apr 2014 | 9:19 pm
    Peter O’Toole, Paige Turnah – The Bookworm Seth Strong, Tiffany Doll – Pleasure Professionals (image above) Den and Josephine – Made for Each Other Junia and Martin – Chess Companion Moni – I Pegged My Boyfriend (more, image below via) Chelsey, Nick – 22:23 UCTA EROTIKA (video) Clair Brooks, Meg. M., Nick – UCTA EROTIKA Poppy Morgan, two gentleman friends – Young Harlots In London Alicia Rhodes, Teena Fine, gentleman friends – Young Harlots In London (more) Jenanvive Jolie, gentleman friend – Young Harlots In London Full Body…
  • Sex News: Tits for Bitcoin, Wu-Tang penisectomy, lab-grown vaginas

    Violet Blue
    16 Apr 2014 | 3:19 pm
    Don’t get hacked. Make safe dating profiles. Fight back against online harassment. Learn how in my new book The Smart Girl’s Guide to Privacy (also on iTunes). Find out more at Smart Privacy. Hooray for Naughty Nerdy! “Ms Walker knew another porn star called Maisie Dee, having interacted with her online. Ms Dee appeared in three Game of Thrones episodes during the show’s second season. She (half-jokingly) told Ms Dee about her desire to get a role in Game of Thrones, and the pair talked more at work that evening.” Meet Aeryn Walker, the feminist Aussie porn star in…
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  • Savage Love Episode 390

    Dan Savage
    15 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan counsels a woman in yet another a conservative small town on how to help her lesbian daughter make it out of there alive.  A gay man has gone above and beyond to fulfill his partner's fireman fantasy. How can he get a little reciprocation? For the Magnum version's "What You Got," Dan speaks with Amy Muise on why women monitor their partners on Facebook.  Fat, nerdy virgin seeks super-model: Men kind of think they can have anything they want, don't they? And more! Lots more!  206-201-2720  This podcast is brought to you by Go buy something, and be…
  • Savage Love Episode 389

    Dan Savage
    8 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    Bisexual erasure no more! Dan interviews Benoit Denizet-Lewis on his recent piece in the NYT Magazine.  Dan councils a heart-broken lesbian with universal advice for the recently rejected.  A woman's mother over-shares about her sexless marriage. What is a helpful daughter to do?  And finally! Concrete, informed answers to the question of whether it is bad for a dog to lick your moisturized face.  206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting…
  • Savage Love Episode 388

    Dan Savage
    1 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    This episode is riddled with parents creeping out their kids.  A man in an established open relationship is horrified to learn that his step-daughter caught him chatting with other ladies. How can he explain to her that he's playing by the rules?  It gets much worse. We won't reveal all here, but let's just say that your father might be into panties.  And finally in our trilogy of parental distress, how the hell do you tell your kids that your family is…special? Dan brings on poly lawyer Diana Adams to help.  Over in Magnumtown... In this week's "What You Got?" Dan…
  • Savage Love Episode 387

    Dan Savage
    25 Mar 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan speaks with Seattle sex workers Mistress Matisse, Savannah Sly and Dehlia DeLions about the biz. Topics covered: proper client etiquette, telling people in your life that you have done sex work or see sex workers, how to hire your unicorn, and what to do if a client has a really weird looking dick.  The Magnum has a ton more this week, so indulge. 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting This episode is also brought to you by Get 10…
  • Savage Love Episode 386

    Dan Savage
    18 Mar 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week, bizarrely, Dan welcomes 74-time Jeopardy! winner Ken Jennings to banter and chat. Sure, Jeopardy boy can handle minute details about the Spanish-American war, but how does he fare when confronted with questions about naked men running through the halls? Listen to the Magnum to find out.   An obese gay man finally learns about chubby chasers!  A man discovers that the dream woman he's been dating has a body very altered by cosmetic surgery. It creeps him out. Can he get over it?  And more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is also brought to you by Click on…
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  • Ride Along DVD Giveaway!

    Panama Jackson
    18 Apr 2014 | 10:37 am
    The good folks from Universal Home Entertainment sent us over 10 Blu-Ray copies of the movie Ride Along, starring Kevin Hart and Ice Cube, for us to give out to our readers. So with that in mind here’s how you win a free copy of the Ride Along Blu-Ray. Be the first 10 people to email me the answers to the following 5 questions: 1. What is Ice Cube’s birth name? 2. What is the name of the first film (not TV movie) that Kevin Hart starred in? 3. Where is Kevin Hart from? 4. What was the name of the character Ice Cube played in Boyz N The Hood? 5. What city did the movie Ride Along…
  • I Don’t Understand Why Puff Speaking at Howard University’s Graduation Is A Thing.

    Panama Jackson
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    So Sean “Puff/Puff Daddy/P.Diddy/Diddy” Combs, possibly Howard University’s most famous dropout has been summoned to speak at their commencement exercise in May. This has apparently ruffled some feathers. And by some I mean way less than a lot. But enough to garner debate and discussion as if it were a thing so let’s pretend its a thing. Assuming its a thing, I honestly cannot understand for the life of me why anybody would have a problem with this. This can’t be because he’s a college dropout. Should Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates or Steve Jobs (RIP) be…
  • Shit Bougie Black People Love: 15. ’90′s Nostalgia

    The Champ
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:00 am
    Aside from Bill Clinton’s penis and Michael Douglas’ penis in movies starring Michael Douglas, nothing had anything good happen to them in the 90s. It was a truly awful decade. The clothes were shitty, everyone started drinking coffee, and everyone cool got shot or got AIDS. Perhaps you remember this. Bougie Black People, however, do not. Bougie Black People love the 90s more than anyone loves any other decade, easily surpassing White people’s love for both the 1980s and the 1830s. This love for all things 90s is only matched by their passion for bringing the 90s back. Hence the reason…
  • If No More Race Cards, Then No More Racism. Right.

    Panama Jackson
    16 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Even Michelle Obama pulls the Black card with a smile. Do you know what I legitimately hate? I hate it when people (namely white people, not all obviously considering my, ahem, pedigree) imply that if Black people stopped making race an issue, then race would cease to be an issue. As if every Black person refrained from assuming that racism existed and stopped making any associations between the color of our skin and the conditions that exist in America (and/or globally) then things would magically be…okay. Not even better, but okay. Are there times when some Black folks run the race…
  • REMINISCE Tees & Tanktops For Your #SummerTimeFly

    Panama Jackson
    16 Apr 2014 | 10:43 am
    Cop your REMINISCE tee in honor of the best damn 90s party happening in DC right about now. It’s that super fly Carolina blue for the cool summer breeze that has to come. And even if you aren’t in DC, its just a fly tee anyway. We’re livin’ in the last days right now…. Shouts to the Boogiemonsters. REMINISCE Tees: And for the fly lady (or man actually as well ) out there, we’ve go the the fly tank top swagu going on as well. For those days its warm outside and especially warm in Liv at REMINISCE! Cop you one and join…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • Idris Elba Is A Dad Again!

    19 Apr 2014 | 8:31 am
    Yesterday, Hollywood leading man Idris Elba shared great news on Twitter, announcing that he and girlfriend Naiyana Garth welcomed a bundle of joy into the world. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 'Game Of Thrones' Season 4 Spoilers: Is Tyrion The Murderer?

    19 Apr 2014 | 6:43 am
    Is Tyrion responsible for the "Purple Wedding" murder? Warning, this article contains episode 3 spoilers! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Couple Alert? Tom Cruise Is Reportedly Dating This TV Actress

    fox news
    18 Apr 2014 | 4:34 pm
    Reports claim that the Top Gun actor is dating a fellow scientologist who also happens to be a recurring cast member of 'Orange Is The New Black.' A match make in Scientology heaven? We think so. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 49 Percent Of People Would Skip Sex For A Year To Have This

    18 Apr 2014 | 2:40 pm
    There are very few things that some women would actually be willing to give up sex for — like a lifetime of happiness with Ryan Gosling or cheese, apparently. But now you can add overall health to that list: A whopping 49 percent of people in the U.S. would give up sex for a year for this. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • About That Time I Made My Jewish BF Meet My Parents — On Easter

    18 Apr 2014 | 2:26 pm
    The first time I brought my boyfriend home to meet my parents was also Easter. And my boyfriend is Jewish. Whoops. Looking back on it, I give him credit for putting up with so much craziness on such a religious-oriented holiday. But the first time I brought my boyfriend home to my parents wasn't just Easter Sunday, it was also the first time for another milestone in our relationship. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • Round Up: Episode 4 of Frisky Business, Plus Win the Toys You Saw on Telly!

    17 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week on Frisky Business we got to grips with all things international! From researching the Australian consumer to launching a German website, the team at Lovehoney HQ showed they are certainly a well-travelled bunch. Sarah took the plunge and moved down under in order to help recruit Aussies for our Brisbane office, and customer care couldn't believe how powerful two Magic Wand vibrators were in their staff training meeting. We also followed Stephanie on her German journey, from her first days and trial tasks (an interview here is a little bit different from what you might be used to!)…
  • This Is The #1 Vibrator: From Somewhere You Weren't Expecting

    16 Apr 2014 | 2:13 am
    Looking for a top-rated vibrator? Well, Good Housekeeping might not be your go-to magazine for sex toy advice, but this month the publication, which is generally better-known for other household appliance recommendations, has conducted its most intimate product test ever. A panel of 100 women put a selection of vibrators to the test, including the Rocks Off Bullet (£9.99) and Mini Discretion Vibrator (£9.99). Coming top of the bunch was the Mimi by Je Joue (£64.99): “A silicone pebble that fits in your palm for external use, with a range of settings from subtle pulsing…
  • Coming up in Tonight's Frisky Business - Episode 4

    16 Apr 2014 | 1:00 am
    Tonight sees episode four of Frisky Business hit our screens and we're all asking the same thing: where has the time gone?! In and amongst the ongoing saga that is the amazing Returns Department, this Frisky episode covers all things international, letting viewers in behind-the-scenes of our mission to deliver sexual happiness to the whole world! The team get to grips with the Australian market and make some hilarious discoveries, whilst Customer Care Manager Sarah is sent Down Under to kick-start the Aussie recruitment process. We follow intern Stephanie as her placement comes to an end.
  • Bettie Page on TV! Plus, WIN a Luxury Paddle in Our Twitter Competition!

    15 Apr 2014 | 3:30 am
    Launching in the UK in October last year, The Bettie Page Official Pleasure Products Collection made it's first appearance (and sale) at the London Tattoo Convention, sponsoring the national 'Miss Pin Up UK' competition. Since then, sales have been consistently strong, with positive feedback from Bettie Page fans and seasoned bondage enthusiasts alike, which has got us grinning from ear to ear! As an official piece of Bettie Page merchandise, it's very important to us that we please the 'original' Bettie fans, as well as those who have only just discovered her, and the rest who are just…
  • "The Best, Most Unique, Most Amazing Feeling" - Review of the Month, March 2014

    14 Apr 2014 | 3:00 am
    Another month has passed and your product reviews have been pouring in left, right and centre - thank you! We've hand-picked 3 of our favourite reviews from March to get prizes in this month's Review of the Month competition. This month's overall winner is Ungifted's for his review of the Kinklab Hammerhead Male Stroker Magic Wand Attachment (£18.99). Congratulations - you've won yourself a £100 Lovehoney voucher to spend on whatever you like! "...once you feel like you're about to reach your climax, kick the wand up to anywhere from 66-100% power and keep it there until you…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • Testimony about my life Hello my name is Lewis Cheney from USA

    6 Apr 2014 | 8:36 am
    New Opinion - Hello my name is Lewis Cheney from USA, My life is back!!! After 6 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our 2 kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr ONIHA I explained my problem to him. In just 2 day, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr ONIHA i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing…
  • The federal exchange platform is a means to attain cheaper health insurance

    14 Mar 2014 | 2:46 am
    New Answer - In a single word – subsidies. The federal exchange platform is a means to attain cheaper health insurance for people falling in the low income group. It does not matter if you are self-employed or not, these subsidies are available to people falling in 400% of the poverty level, and if you are eligible for those, you will receive major discounts on health insurance purchase.
  • What is the impact of federal exchange platform for low-income, self-employed groups?

    14 Mar 2014 | 12:35 am
    New Question - What is the impact of federal exchange platform for low-income, self-employed groups?
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    7 Mar 2014 | 3:38 am
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  • private healthcare exchanges is definitely one way to reduce the load and take some pressure off the federal marketplace, i

    6 Mar 2014 | 2:23 am
    New Answer - While direct enrollment capability for private healthcare exchanges is definitely one way to reduce the load and take some pressure off the federal marketplace, it isn’t a lasting solution for the problem. The best solution at this moment is to make the federal site capable enough to handle the load of signups.
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    of Sex and Love

  • Lelo Ora

    18 Apr 2014 | 8:01 am
    Lelo Ora $169 from Lelo Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I love oral sex. Now, you’d figure that’s a given, but I have met many women who say they can take it or leave it. I’m told that I should accept this as their preference, but it is not mine. I like the feeling of tongues, which can be pointed and hard or broad and soft, against my clit and between the folds of my labia. Oral sex is awesome, and I hold my breath, almost afraid to break the spell, as I wait for whoever is begin to my legs to make contact with my body and claim it in the name of oral sex. Yes, I…
  • Love Rider Butterfly Lovers

    7 Apr 2014 | 10:17 am
    Love Rider Butterfly Lovers $49.95 from Of Sex and Love Store My body has changed since I first started reviewing. At one time, rabbit vibrators were my favorite type of vibes despite the fact that so many people seem to have so many problems with them. 6 years ago, my g-spot hadn’t yet awakened. I couldn’t squirt and I wasn’t familiar with that acute pain that occurs when my g-spot needs to squirt but can’t because something is blocking the vaginal canal. If this sounds weird, well, it is. So I would use rabbits to get intense external stimulation with a little…
  • 101 Vagina Giveaway

    4 Apr 2014 | 6:39 am
    I was rather impressed with the coffee table book, 101 Vagina, that I received to review. Now, maybe I am not a coffee table book person (actually, I have an ottoman that’s generally filled with electronics LOL), but it was a nice change of page. I didn’t want to give too much away in my review. Otherwise, you wouldn’t read it, would you? But the experience of reading it was almost.. magical. That sounds a whole lot less pragmatic than I normally am, but there you have it. In order to spread the word about this project, I have teamed up with the photography/creator to give…
  • The shield of shame surrounds these everyday male issues

    31 Mar 2014 | 4:45 am
    When broaching any mention of a medical concern, men find it too embarrassing to discuss. These problems are common and should be aired to remove the taboo. Men prefer not to discuss Premature Ejaculation This topic provokes a great deal of unease with men but this ailment is very normal and occurs in practically every man at one stage in their lives. They find it belittling that they are unable to be in control of their ejaculation. The more often it happens, the less they are able to deal with it and can become, to their detriment, more introverted and it may even lead to depression. The…
  • 101 Vagina

    24 Mar 2014 | 3:24 am
    101 Vagina $13.68 from Amazon When I first received the pitch to review and give away this book,  I wasn’t quite sure what it was. Perhaps that’s because it’s such a simple concept that describing it takes away some of the.. “magic” of it.  I’m normally more pragmatic than that, but the description causes it to lose something special. You see, 101 vagina is a book featuring 101 photos of vulvas and 101 pieces by the owners of those vulvas. The book is printed completely in black and white, and it has a sleek white hard cover to boot. See? You can sum up…
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    The Daily Affair

  • My Knitted Boyfriend

    9 Apr 2014 | 9:44 am
    Knitted boyfriend substitutes are ‘hot’ stuff My Knitted Boyfriend is today’s version of a Pet Rock. In other words – it has enormous…
  • Ratings may sink Ronan Farrow’s show on MSNBC

    1 Apr 2014 | 7:16 am
    Have you noticed that most of the articles one finds about celebrities are full of harsh criticism and are generally mean spirited? It’s all…
  • Digital Boyfriends Vs. Real Life Boyfriends

    22 Mar 2014 | 2:00 am
    Japan, the country that brought you Tamagotchi, a small handheld digital pet that was popular in the 90s, now brings you an app that…
  • Keeping Your Marriage Fresh

    8 Mar 2014 | 11:55 am
    Happy New Year! Last month, The New York Times ran an article about the dissipation of passion in long-term relationships. It seems that the…
  • Academy Awards

    3 Mar 2014 | 9:31 am
    As an actress, I have religiously watched the Academy Awards since I was nine years old – practicing my acceptance speech should I ever…
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • Why Isn’t He Asking Me Out Yet? – 17 Reasons Why!

    16 Apr 2014 | 5:55 am
    He does everything that proves he likes you, but he isn’t asking you out yet? Here are 17 most common reasons why a guy may be holding himself back. By Gerry Sanders Is he giving all the right signs, but not really doing anything about it? Does he flirt with you, stare at you, but hold back from asking you out or telling you that he likes you? As frustrating as the circumstance could seem like, it’s a lot more common than you think! Girls may assume that just batting their eyelids at a guy or smiling at him is enough of a sign for him to approach them. But to a guy, there are a million…
  • 16 Signs You’re Not Ready for a Serious Relationship

    14 Apr 2014 | 7:52 am
    Should you keep it casual or are you ready to make a serious commitment in love? Use the 16 signs to know if you’re ready for a serious relationship. By Amelie Lee It’s not always your fault if you feel like you’re not ready for a serious relationship. You could be dating someone who truly loves you, but as much as you try, there may be circumstances when you just can’t fall in true love with them, even if you really like them a lot and love dating them! Have you ever been there? Have you ever dated someone who seems perfect for you, but you just couldn’t see him or her as a…
  • Is Your Partner Still in a Relationship with Their Ex?

    10 Apr 2014 | 6:03 am
    Is your partner’s relationship with their ex making you uncomfortable? Is it paranoia or is there a real reason for you to be worried? Find out here. By Francesca Marie Is your boyfriend or girlfriend still in touch with their ex? Are you okay with that? In most circumstances, you should be accepting of that relationship. Figuratively speaking, staying in touch with an ex is never a problem. The problem only arises when the staying in touch translates into reality, literally! Is your partner in a relationship with their ex? Does your boyfriend meet his ex all the time? Does your girlfriend…
  • 16 Signs It’s Time to Move On and End the Relationship

    7 Apr 2014 | 10:30 am
    Do you ever wonder if you’re in an unhappy or wrong relationship? Use these 16 signs to find out if it’s time to move on and end your relationship. By Cheryl James When you enter into a romantic relationship with someone, you don’t expect it to fail. You walk into the relationship with your hopes high, and look forward to a promising future with the one you’ve fallen in love with. But not all relationships work out perfectly, even if the two people involved seem perfect for each other, do they? What would you do if you find yourself in a relationship that’s just so wrong for you?
  • 15 Essential Relationship Tips for Single Women

    6 Apr 2014 | 3:09 am
    Ever wondered what makes the difference between a bad fling and a perfect relationship? These 15 relationship tips for women will show you the way! By Keith Brown Being a single woman in a world full of couples and hitched folks can be rather annoying, especially if you’re looking for the one in all the wrong places. It may even leave you wondering if you’re just unlucky, especially if all your friends seem to be dating somebody who seems perfect. Have you been dating a string of guys, all of who seem perfect to begin with, only to find that they’re just so wrong for you? [Read: 25…
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    The Dark Side

  • DARK SIDE #142 - rabbit speaks (part 2 of 2)

    8 Apr 2014 | 4:39 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #142 - rabbit speaks (part 2 of 2) Dark Angel sits down with white_rabbit (first heard on DS #78 - Oral Fixation) - and talk about their D/s part time poly relationship - as well as rabbits input on a few previous podcasts done by DA and KnotNice. rabbit’s thoughts on the following;DS # 1 - D/s ProtocolDS# 78 - Oral Fixation (an addendum)DS# 114 - ExhibitionismDS# 115 - SpankingDS# 123 - Orgasm Control This is the Part 2 of a 2 part podcast.  _____________________________ Sponsor: Spyder Design_____________________________ The Dark Side is…
  • DARK SIDE #141 - rabbit speaks (part 1 of 2)

    2 Apr 2014 | 1:34 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #141 - rabbit speaks (part 1 of 2) Dark Angel sits down with white_rabbit (first heard on DS #78 - Oral Fixation) - and talk about their D/s part time poly relationship - as well as rabbits input on a few previous podcasts done by DA and KnotNice. rabbit’s thoughts on the following;DS # 1 - D/s ProtocolDS# 78 - Oral Fixation (an addendum)DS# 114 - ExhibitionismDS# 115 - SpankingDS# 123 - Orgasm Control This is the Part 1 of a 2 part podcast - look for Part 2 next week.  _____________________________ Sponsor: Spyder…
  • DARK SIDE #140 - Listener’s Speak

    18 Mar 2014 | 11:33 am
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #140 - Listener’s Speak Dark Angel and KnotNice go over a backlog of Listeners feedback, stories, and questions. This is the FIRST DS Podcast done in DA’s new home - as well as the VERY FIRST TIME ever - where DA and KN record with both in the same room. The EXCELLENT sound quality shows how you - the listeners have given back. _____________________________ Sponsor: Franklin The Fet Jeweller_____________________________ The Dark Side is FREE to get and share with others; * Listen OR Download at TDS Webpage * alternatively you can do the…
  • DARK SIDE #139 - Podcast Party

    17 Mar 2014 | 2:07 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #139 - Podcast Party DA is joined by Owen & joni of the OrangeMonkeyCast - for a few beers and a mixed bag of discussions on various BDSM topics. Lots of interesting discussion, lots of laughs.  _____________________________ Sponsor: TEASE _____________________________ The Dark Side is FREE to get and share with others; * Listen OR Download at TDS Webpage The Dark Side is also available on I-Tunes - please listen as well as rate us !
  • DARK SIDE #138 - Breast Torture

    19 Feb 2014 | 5:06 pm
    THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #138 - Breast TortureDA and KnotNice discuss a form of play that they both enjoy and have a vast amount of experience doing.BOOBIES !!! Everyone loves boobies - but some really love focusing play - hard, soft, or somewhere in the middle - on these wonderful parts. Types of play on breastsMethods of nipple tortureWays to take it to new levelsTricks and tipsSafety and ways to keep it fun _____________________________ Sponsor: TEASE_____________________________ The Dark Side is FREE to get and share with others; * Listen OR Download at TDS…
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    Peck and Call Girls: Modern Courtesans, Virtual Assistants Of Sex

  • The Full Return Of Secondhand Rose

    Peck and Call Girls
    4 Apr 2014 | 4:27 pm
    Those of you have been eagerly awaiting the return of Secondhand Rose and her new blog may rejoice! She’s just launched her new website, Ruined Boudoir. Stop by and say “Hi”, why don’t you?
  • New Digs!

    Peck and Call Girls
    19 Feb 2014 | 2:51 am
    As you likely noticed, we’re updating our website! We heard your requests for a site that would be easier to read, including on mobile devices, and true to our innermost desire to meet your needs, we’re working on it! To be notified when the site is completely updated (and to keep in the loop with other Peck & Call Girls news), please sign up for our new newsletter. Yes, we’ve also fixed the newsletter issues by finding a better newsletter service. If you had subscribed to the old newsletter, you will need to resubscribe. (Sorry about that extra step.) Email
  • Voices

    Peck and Call Girls
    6 Dec 2013 | 8:24 am
    If you have a voice like that, you should listen to our voices instead.
  • What We Already Know

    Peck and Call Girls
    12 Jul 2013 | 8:56 am
    But perhaps it’s news to you? Health myth: Do men really hit their sexual peak at 18? Chances are you’ve heard that men hit their peak at 18. But is it really true that men are at the height of their sexual prowess when they’re too young to know what to do with it? It depends on your definition of peak. Around age 18, a guy’s organs (read: his testicles) are producing the most sex-revving testosterone they ever will, according to Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a Los Angeles sexologist and founder of Research shows that barely legal men have the fastest and…
  • Spend A Couple Of Hours With Us!

    Peck and Call Girls
    5 Apr 2013 | 5:30 am
    According to a paper by Sebastian Pokutta and Christian Kroll published in the Journal of Economic Psychology, you we should be having sex for 106 minutes a day. If you want to be happy, that is. That 106 minutes a bit shy of our average call rate (which is roughly 210 minutes) — but then again, we are the experts in tease and edging. *wink* And, hey, if you factor in the recommended time for phone calls and socializing…
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    Phone Sex Secrets

  • Getting Phone Sex Reviews & Making The Most Of Them

    Phone Sex Secrets
    18 Apr 2014 | 5:27 am
    As promised, I’m back with some more details regarding the phone sex review website. This is a free service. Yes, it is free to be reviewed. However, because Tom is just one man (who already has a long list of favorite PSOs), it is advised, though not required, that you offer him a few free […]
  • News & Links Phone Sex Operators Can Use

    Phone Sex Secrets
    7 Apr 2014 | 10:19 pm
    Last week at Sex Kitten, Gracie interviewed Tom Cat about the new phone sex review website. It’s a great look not only at the man behind the site, but about phone sex mega users. While you’re there, you may want to check out another one of Gracie’s articles, Of Feminism & Inequality In Porn & […]
  • Buy A Phone Sex Ad At Tumblr

    Phone Sex Secrets
    5 Apr 2014 | 4:15 pm
    As some of you know, I have a Tumblr site that promotes phone sex and phone sex operators. As you can from this screenshot, this site currently ranks #1 (or thereabouts) for Google searches for phone sex Tumblr. For PSOs who want a little extra bump in attention, I’m offering the chance to promote yourself […]
  • Update On NiteFlirt Goodie Bags

    Phone Sex Secrets
    1 Apr 2014 | 3:18 pm
    Goodie Bags have officially gone into Beta for all Flirts on the phone sex platform. I’m not going to provide a detailed tutorial (NF has provided a decent one of their own), but I will highlight some key things to note. * Goodie Bags are like payment buttons (aka PTV or PPV messages), except that […]
  • Today’s Phone Sex Tip: Places For Phone Sex Operators To Advertise

    Phone Sex Secrets
    30 Mar 2014 | 12:30 am
    There’s no such thing as a free phone sex call, right professional phone sex operator? So what makes you think advertising and promoting your phone sex business will be free? The Marketing Whore has an excellent post about advertising options for adult websites, including phone sex operator websites, listings, and profiles here. PS I already […]
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    Sex Secrets

  • My Female Orgasm Ebook Has Been Published!

    Svetlana Ivanova
    17 Apr 2014 | 6:00 am
    Let’s face it; one of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he had given his woman a orgasm. You think you have it. You think you were stimulating the right spot. She seems to be enjoying herself. Yet somehow, you feel she’s secretly disappointed although she won’t Continue reading →(Visited 90 times, 15 visits today)
  • How to Have a Happy Threesome

    Svetlana Ivanova
    15 Apr 2014 | 10:00 am
    If a having a threesome is one of her fantasies, sex educator Charlie Glickman reveals how to make it a success. Ah, the threesome. Is there anything that inspires so many fantasies? And is there anything as likely to cause complications in your relationship? Threesomes can be amazing fun, but only when you set them Continue reading →(Visited 70 times, 11 visits today)
  • The 5 Best Things About Having a Friend with Benefits

    Svetlana Ivanova
    13 Apr 2014 | 4:00 am
    A friend-with-benefits relationship doesn’t have to be complicated and messy, says D.A. Wolf.. Do you believe that “friends with benefits” is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women go through when they’re young, purposely avoiding a committed relationship? Some of us believe that friends with benefits can be mutually enjoyable Continue reading →(Visited 87 times, 5 visits today)
  • The Dos and Don’ts of Threesomes

    Svetlana Ivanova
    10 Apr 2014 | 2:00 am
    Celebrity sexpert Emily Morris reveals the dos and don’ts of threesomes. If you think a threesome is going to solve all your problems, you’ve probably watched one too many dirty movies. A ménage à trois between Scarlett Johansson, Javier Bardem, and Penélope Cruz can make even the most monogamous person want to pursue a threesome. Continue reading →(Visited 145 times, 9 visits today)
  • Why You Forget Your Hook-up’s Name After Sex

    Svetlana Ivanova
    8 Apr 2014 | 4:00 am
    If you forget your hook-up’s name after sex, you may be suffering from transient global amnesia – which means it’s not your fault! So, you met a cute guy or girl at a bar and things went well enough that you woke up next to this stranger the following morning, only to realize you forgot Continue reading →(Visited 28 times, 1 visits today)
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  • New adult toys that are found from innovative sellers

    30 Mar 2014 | 5:30 am
    New adult toys that are found from innovative sellers There have been some intriguing revelations in the realm of adult toys and sexual enhancement devices that may lure curious shoppers. The innovations and realistic features of personal vibrators and dildos found are a far cry from the toys found previously in adult boutiques or bookstores. Many of the most unconventional products located seem to be online, through internet sellers, and the pricing is quite viable for practically any budget. The best way to find something new and exciting to bring some flair and zest to current sex lives is…
  • Teen fucks veggie

    28 Sep 2009 | 5:00 pm
    Hell yeah Vlaska is fucking a huge cucumber and her pussy is singing with joy! This bald pussy teen starts off using her fingers but finds that fucking veggies is better for you, or at least for her orgasms.
  • Teen fucks her veggie

    28 Sep 2009 | 5:00 pm
    Yes this adorable teen girl is using a long fat cucumber on her tight wet pussy and yes it works. Fucking that veggie is exactly what this cutie needs to make her quim quiver itself to orgasm.
  • Teen gets off

    28 Sep 2009 | 5:00 pm
    Tory is horny as fuck and once again using her slender fingers on her tight little pussy just is not satisfying this cute teen nearly enough. Luckily she happens to have a pink vibe that does wonders on her snatch, she fucks it deep and hard before managing to have quite a memorable orgasm.
  • Teen fucks veggie

    28 Sep 2009 | 5:00 pm
    Hell yeah Vlaska is fucking a huge cucumber and her pussy is singing with joy! This bald pussy teen starts off using her fingers but finds that fucking veggies is better for you, or at least for her orgasms.
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    Molly's Daily Kiss

  • Heaven Scent

    Molly Moore
    20 Apr 2014 | 4:13 pm
    I don’t have an armpit fetish or kink. That was my initial thought when present with this week’s Kink topic but then as I thought about writing this post I realised that this statement might not be completely accurate because the thought of armpits made me smile. My armpits I love my armpits being caressed.…
  • Wabbit Season

    Molly Moore
    19 Apr 2014 | 4:02 pm
    Hunting for a hiding…. Mollyxxx Related Posts: The Tail End Bouquets Sweet Spring, Cummings Because You Lingering
  • Capturing the moment

    Molly Moore
    16 Apr 2014 | 10:11 am
    It seems that my photography is starting to attract some small amount of attention within my local kink community. A couple of months ago I was asked by one person if I would be interested in taking some images for their profile on Fetlife. They were not the first person to have approached me and…
  • Elust #57

    Molly Moore
    15 Apr 2014 | 3:43 pm
    Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor Welcome to Elust #57 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start…
  • Pinched Nerve

    Molly Moore
    13 Apr 2014 | 2:58 pm
    I have come to the conclusion that kink of the Week is a risky business at it quite often leads to me expressing an interest in some sort of activity in order to help inform my writing with recent memories. On more than one occasion this has resulted in me getting a lot more reminders…
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    Los Angeles Dominatrix | Mistress Justine Cross

  • Head Cheerleader Bitches of Femdom U

    Ms. Justine
    9 Apr 2014 | 7:54 am
    Check out my new photo set with Mistress Natalie West. We are the Head Cheerleader Bitches of Femdom U and we’re taking the star quarterback and making him our bitch! What better way to celebrate victory than to make-out in a hot lesbian cuckolding session? View rest of the latex cheerleader set on my gallery page.. The post Head Cheerleader Bitches of Femdom U appeared first on Los Angeles Dominatrix | Mistress Justine Cross.
  • Visting Lafayette and New Orleans: April 17-20

    Ms. Justine
    1 Apr 2014 | 8:42 am
    Miss me? Heading back to my the Crescent City for Easter weekend. If you are religious, let me give you something interesting to confess. If you need to get away from your family, I’m the perfect distraction. If you love fine dining, I’m the finest domme to entertain you both in the dungeon and restaurant. If you’ve seen me before, you already know how amazing I am and want to experience it again. If you haven’t had a chance to session with me, don’t hesitate to call me for an appointment–I book up fast. I will be taking appointments at an upscale hotel in…
  • Visiting Philadelphia March 14 – 17 and NYC 17- 21

    Ms. Justine
    3 Mar 2014 | 12:05 pm
    Have flogger, will travel Los Angeles dominatrix off to the East Coast for a tour! Already off to a good start this year with my new year’s resolution to travel more! I will be on the east coast for a couple of weeks. When I travel, I require deposits and/or references–and I check them. I will also be accepting appointments for doubles with Mistress Natalie West in both Philadelphia and NYC. **Philadelphia March 14-17. I will be taking appointments at Mistress Destiny’s Chambers and select outcall. **Visiting NYC March 17-21. I will be taking appointments at Mistress…
  • Covergirl for Nylonzine!

    Ms. Justine
    28 Feb 2014 | 9:31 am
    My first cover! Check out Nylonzine magazine for more photos of me by Ed Fox as well as an article I wrote. More fun st article about Footnight International Awards and interview with the amazing Isabella Sinclaire. Photos by Ed Fox (Foot Factory, Kicking Off My Heels) Hair and Make-up by Erika Diehl Glamour Lush Lingerie & stockings by Agent Provocateur Location Dungeon West The post Covergirl for Nylonzine! appeared first on Los Angeles Dominatrix | Mistress Justine Cross.
  • Blurred Lines: love, seduction & erotica

    Ms. Justine
    17 Feb 2014 | 5:48 pm
    Please join us at the exclusive Spare Room at the Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel on Wednesday February 26th at 8pm for an evening of exciting discussion, performance and experience. It’s all about those Blurred Lines! Love, seduction and erotica. . . Mistress Justine, LA’s hottest dominatrix, will be in discussion with LA Weekly contributor, Amanda Lewis, about the art of seduction in sadomasochism. Chris McKinlay, math super genius, will be sharing his story of how he hacked into OkCupid to find a girlfriend. The results are more surprising than you think! Eric Balfour will be reading…
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  • Why Spring Cleanses Are Important

    Devany Wolfe
    10 Apr 2014 | 7:07 pm
    After a long, dark winter, there’s nothing better than feeling the warm sunshine and seeing the grass emerge from beneath the snow. Everything is being rejuvenated – and it’s important to give our bodies the same cleaning as we do our houses, our cars and our wardrobes.   Why? Because most of us, if we live in cold climates, are eating a lot of heavy, carb-dense,  fatty foods for six months in order to keep warm. It is the body’s instinct, after all. Even as far as winter vegetables go – most seasonal fare comes from the root and is very starchy.   Transitional…
  • Sexting – A modern day seduction

    Devany Wolfe
    17 Mar 2014 | 9:26 am
    “The numbers that survive in my phone don’t belong to those boys and men who were best at fucking me, but the ones who were, and are, best at telling me how—and why, and where, and also in which places—they would fuck me. I know where my priorities lie; here is where they tell the truth. Good sex is a miraculously dependent and alchemic performance, never with one author. It could take more than two, but never fewer. Good sexting, though, is an uncommon skill, almost concrete, not improved by lighting or blood alcohol content or desperate circumstances or any other measures. It is…
  • How To Optimize Your Dating Profile Like an Online Marketer

    CT Moore
    6 Feb 2014 | 11:53 am
    Getting people to go to websites and then do stuff (buy something, sign up for something, or whatever) is what I do for a living. I’ve been doing for almost a decade, and I’ve gotten pretty good at it. Part of it is making sure that a website doesn’t suck, part of it is making sure that the people you’re sending to said website are the right kinds of people (us marketers call them “targeted users” or “qualified leads”), and part of it is having a whole bag of tricks to use when needed. I know, right! So when I started online dating a couple…
  • Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom Should Have Become Friends First

    Georgia Woodbine
    18 Dec 2013 | 1:21 pm
    Building a strong foundation in a relationship can only be established during the period of dating, courtship  and really spending time with someone.  It comes as no surprise to me why Khloe Kardashian and Lamar  Odom’s marriage has been surrounded by so much negative drama and marital problems. Khloe Kardashian famously married Lamar Odom within a month of meeting him. Do you really think you can  get to know a person after only 30 days?  A good friendship can develop into love, if you allow the process to  happen. Friendship is very important to establishing any type of solid…
  • Online Dating Tips for Single Moms

    Sean Gillespie
    4 Dec 2013 | 8:07 pm
    Being divorced and having children can feel like a dating double whammy but reality isn’t so harsh. First of all, you’re in good company. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, in 2012 there were more than 10.3 million single moms in America and more than 30 percent of those moms were divorced. Second, meeting someone through non-traditional dating sources like the Internet can turn into lasting love for those entering the dating scene again. A recent study revealed marriages that began online were actually less likely to end in divorce and were also rated as having higher marital…
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  • Elust #57

    15 Apr 2014 | 3:41 pm
    Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor Welcome to Elust #57 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’ve Got 99 Problems Vasectomy Blues I’ve always wanted to call myself queer.   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s…
  • Elust #57 Open for Submissions

    1 Apr 2014 | 1:57 am
    Due to circumstances beyond our control we are going to need to start charging for Elust.  As you may know we spend a great deal of time putting together each new edition and our time is precious. So starting from today all submission entries must be accompanied by a slightly sticky rolled up $5 bill stuffed in our G-string ;-) Happy April 1st and we hope you will excuse our little April Fools joke. All the usual rules and conditions apply. Show us your filth! Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and…
  • Elust #56

    16 Mar 2014 | 6:07 am
    Photo courtesy of Understanding Flutterby Welcome to Elust #56 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #57? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Trick of the Light What Does Porn Lead To The Posh Life of a Sex Toy Reviewer? ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Eleven…
  • e[lust] #56 Open for Submissions

    1 Mar 2014 | 1:54 am
    March is here, and the daffodils are showing their first hint of yellow and that means that Spring (and hopefully an end to all of the rain) is on its way. What do you have for e[lust] that will perk up our weather weary readers? Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to e[lust] be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules. Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission. We are looking at,…
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    Hey Epiphora

  • Review: Comet II Wand

    19 Apr 2014 | 6:01 pm
    Bloggers created a wave of hysteria following the release of the Jopen Key Comet G Wand. “It effortlessly strokes the fuck out of my G-spot and makes me thank my lucky stars I was born with a vagina,” Girly Juice raved. “I was 38 years old and found my G-spot for the first time in my life with the Key Comet and the blended orgasms I can get with it completely blow my mind,” Dizzygirl wrote. I ranked it as the #1 sex toy I tried in 2013 and explained, “this is simply a toy that comes very, very, disturbingly close to usurping one of the greatest G-spot dildos of…
  • Giveaway: the runaway dildo

    11 Apr 2014 | 2:19 pm
    Back in October, we mourned the discontinuation of some of the loveliest neon dildos from Vixen Creations, including the green Mustang and all neon versions of the Maverick. I thought they were all gone forever. BUT THEN this email from SheVibe happened: Dude, you’ll never guess what I found in the warehouse. A GREEN MUSTANG!! It had rolled underneath a low shelf, we don’t even have them on the site anymore. It must be the last living one — wanna do a giveaway? If I do nothing else in my life, at least I can be the person who gives away rare dildos in a color that may…
  • All the names I dropped on Sex Out Loud radio

    4 Apr 2014 | 7:20 pm
    It occurred to me, 30 minutes after my interview with Tristan Taormino for Sex Out Loud Radio aired today (and I was finally able to breathe again), that perhaps I should compile a list of links to all the stuff I mentioned on the show. My brain is not used to talking about stuff without using links for context! Such a millennial. So first, download the episode or stream it right here, and follow along below with the relevant links. Then, leave me a comment with your thoughts on the show. Any glaring omissions? Want to berate me for not having had anal sex yet (POSER, RIGHT)? Go right ahead!
  • Say hi to my new sponsors!

    1 Apr 2014 | 12:16 am
    [Edit: Although I do love these companies, this is an April Fool's joke. GOTCHU.] Being a niche blog, and one dedicated to something that a percentage of inhabitants of earth refuse to even talk about, I’ve spent years growing relationships with companies in the adult industry alone. But a few months back, one of my friends suggested reaching out to more “mainstream” places, like those who make my favorite non-dildo products. The idea sounded just crazy enough that it might work. Heaps and heaps of emails and wishful thinking later, I’m happy (and surprised) to report…
  • Jack-off Journal #17

    28 Mar 2014 | 1:09 pm
    May 17th, 2013 The boyfriend went to the convenience store for beer, and Survivor was downloading at a snails’ pace, so I whipped out my Mona 2 and had the quickest orgasm before he returned. Incredibly, the toy died literal seconds after my orgasm wore off. Fate? Summer 2013 Can I just take a moment to tell you about porn I’ve seen recently that was glorious and/or weird? Because holy shit, Belladonna Sexual Explorer. I’ve realized that I always love watching Sinn Sage. She was great in Strapped Dykes, she was great in No Warning 7, she was great in Sinn Sage Loves…
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  • morning sex

    19 Apr 2014 | 10:04 am
    or I Dream of RainMorning sex is an enigma to me.Supposedly it is common knowledge that testosterone levels in men peak in the morning. Interestingly, though, I could not find an actual study to back this up, just a lot of people saying, “As we all know….” I guess if we all know it, it must be true.My personal testosterone levels, however, most definitely do not peak in the morning. When I wake up all I feel is groggy, slightly nauseated, and just completely used from a hard night of battling my subconscious.When I wake up I literally immediately enter a thick phase of…
  • vasectomies, queers, and prostitution: april- e[lust] 57

    17 Apr 2014 | 9:48 am
  • the shaming of slut-shaming

    13 Apr 2014 | 11:39 am
    or A Short Study of Slut-Shaming’s Criminal OriginsThroughout history, slut-shaming has been commonly partnered with violence, racism, witch-hunting, and terrorism. And although today those criminal cronies have finally received the social disapproval and penalization that they have long deserved, slut-shaming itself has only grown stronger and more acceptable. Here are a few surprising examples.(This article is filled with links to corroborative and very interesting/eye-opening articles and books that I highly recommend you take a look at if you’re interested in this topic.)The…
  • battle of the sex… writers

    6 Apr 2014 | 12:21 pm
    Jon Pressick from SexinWords interviewed me (and two others) for an article he wrote for Kinkly about male sex writers. You can read his full article here at Why Is It Mostly Women Who Write About Sex? And here is my full interview, published below. (His questions in italics.)1. What got you into blogging about sex and what are your favorite topics?I love sex. And I love writing. Me, writing, and about sex was a logical threesome.My favorite topic is irony. I like writing about things from the ‘duh‘ perspective. I love turning topics on their heads with titles like ‘Real Men…
  • drunkenness

    30 Mar 2014 | 12:44 am
    #3: – Seven Less-Deadly Sins SeriesPreviously – #2: Blasphemy Just me, drinking beer.At the beach.Drowning my surfing injuries in the bottle.
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    Kinky Play


    30 Mar 2014 | 6:57 am
    Join Mistress Blackmail in darkness! Come to meet the hotesst mistress ! Turn-Ons: s/m bondage, discipline, cum control, trampling, financial domination, humantoys, body worship, blackmail, role... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • How to get into BDSM

    14 Mar 2014 | 7:47 am
    A Very Brief Primer on Getting Started in the BDSM Community Step 1: Are you interested in BDSM? Well? Are ya? This is something you just have to answer for yourself. A lot of kinksters feel like... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • BDSM Mistress - My personal beliefs are not negotiable!

    13 Mar 2014 | 6:19 am
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    19 Feb 2014 | 4:21 am
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    19 Feb 2014 | 4:00 am
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    Being Blacksilk

  • e[lust] #57

    15 Apr 2014 | 9:10 am
    This post e[lust] #57 appeared first on Being Blacksilk. Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor Welcome to Elust #57 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’ve Got 99 Problems Vasectomy Blues I’ve always wanted to…
  • Consent, Kink and Community

    9 Apr 2014 | 9:58 am
    This post Consent, Kink and Community appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ I mentioned recently that I’d been to the Bristol Alternative and Burlesque Fair and had a few qualms with the compering of the event. Now (especially as the compère himself left a comment and seems like a really nice guy), I don’t want to badmouth what must be a very hard job that I likely couldn’t do, but I want to set out what it was I had a problem with and why. Because (although I didn’t like his style anyway) it isn’t about personal taste, though it may be about personal ethics.
  • Bristol Alternative and Burlesque Fair

    5 Apr 2014 | 6:36 am
    This post Bristol Alternative and Burlesque Fair appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Last Saturday I, plus Crush and Alt, decided to pop over to Bristol (it’s been too long!) for the Heresy n Heelz Alternative and Burlesque Fair, which also covers fetish and steampunk stuffs. We found our way there, helped in part by my sense of direction, in part by big orange posters on the Bristol Bierkellar and in in part by the staff clearly knowing how to spot one of their own and waving us inside. There was a bar in front of some seating and a main stage with fetish stalls on the far side of…
  • View From A Blowjob

    30 Mar 2014 | 12:46 pm
    This post View From A Blowjob appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ I took a Sinful Sunday recently that mentioned how I’d gotten both tips and confidence from Molly’s Eroticon 2014 session about photography. I took that photo the very morning after her talk and put her words into practice. But I didn’t tell you yet how that very morning I’d also turned them completely on their head too. We were told, and rightly so, that shots from above down the body tend to be far more flattering than shots from below going up the body. As I say, she’s completely right,…
  • Very Short Stories – If We Hadn’t Had Sex

    27 Mar 2014 | 5:38 am
    This post Very Short Stories – If We Hadn’t Had Sex appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ It seems my Very Short Stories idea has been catching on! When I last told you about them, one other, the lovely Innocent Loverboy, had joined in. Since then, four more have cropped up! So please go and read the wonderful posts by Jilly Boyd, Girl on the Net, Lady Pandorah and Ruby Goodnight. I am, I have to say, absolutely thrilled and humbled that so many lovely people are joining in! Thank you, all! For those who’ve missed what this is all about, it’s very simple. I started…
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    Sex For Thought


    Davira Rayne
    29 Mar 2014 | 1:17 pm
    Hello my sexy readers! I am sooooo excited for the launch of a new site called Inkbok. It is a social community and digital library of all literature for writers and readers. It is a great platform for us writers to get our work out there to the world. I believe this website will help to change the world and combat our issue with literacy as a whole. Not only does the site pay writers competitive royalties out of their monthly gross income, and give 10% to charity, but it also provides access to unlimited reading of material on its site for just $4.95 a month. You can buy a book for $30 and…
  • Eroticism

    Davira Rayne
    27 Feb 2014 | 5:07 pm
    Exploring every nook and cranny that encompasses ones   sexual appetiteReleasing inhibitions that lead you into another realmOpening ones’ mind to the vast world of eroticaTeasing senses sensually for an orgasmic reliefInviting feelings of unforgettable pleasureCultivating priceless memories of lustInvigorating the body, mind, and soulSeducing the spirit for a never-ending journeyMaking every sexual encounter more than just it’s name
  • It's Yours

    Davira Rayne
    29 Jan 2014 | 4:58 pm
    I can tell you that this pussy is all yoursBut would you believe me?Look at me differently then all those whoresAnd maybe, just maybe you can feel meI am not a onetime thingNor no summer or spring time flingI hold my head highBut my pussy higherI choose to say it is all for you‘Cuz there is no one else that I want to stay trueSo I’ll say it over and overUntil you know what I knowYou are my one and only loverAnd this is not some nighttime reality showWhat do I have to do to prove to you?You may not be my beau but you’re surely my booYou make claims that it’s yoursBut all of a sudden…
  • First Time

    Davira Rayne
    19 Jan 2014 | 1:44 pm
    Hello Loves,Here I have my very first written erotic poem. The name ironically suits its context. Check it out and let me know what you think.  As always be sure to follow me on Twitter @NoFilter_Davira, Instagram, and give me a K+ on Klout. Stay tuned for more great works. XOXODavira Bear with me, it’s my first timeI know you’ve probably heard that one lineBut please be mindful and take it real slowTurn this little affair into mesmerizing showMake me feel like I’m floating on a bed of flowersSerenade and praise my holy temple for hoursTeach me how it’s doneMake…
  • The Mind of a Wayne Head

    Davira Rayne
    7 Jan 2014 | 10:51 am
    Hey Luvs,Sorry for being MIA, but I'm back on the scene now.  I've been cooking up some good projects for ya.  This next story I will break into three parts because of the length.  Simply put, its a story about daydreaming about a sexual encounter with rapper Lil Wayne.  If you like the story please do me a favor and @ the link to Lil Wayne's twitter page.  I wrote the story in hopes of receiving his feedback.  So please show your appreciation for the story by tweeting @LilTunechi and telling him to READ THIS STORY!Download Full Version - PDFDriving to my first…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Safety: Dried Blood and Bloodplay

    19 Apr 2014 | 10:25 pm
    Safety should always be in the forefront of your thoughts when performing BDSM activities. Obviously, if blood is released then the level of play is much higher and requires a lot stricter attention to detail to keep it safe. Bloodplay is intentionally releasing blood -- the Some of the harshest play can result in blood -- and this blood can be released as spatter as well as impregnate toys. Now you might think that this blood could be dangerous only for a short time -- and that after it dries it's pretty much safe. But that is NOT the case. Dried blood can harbor bacteria and nasty viruses…
  • Top 10 Rules for BDSM Play Parties

    16 Apr 2014 | 9:18 am
    These are some great general rules for noobies to take to heart and I'm sure most experienced players wold agree with all of them.  If you follow these rules, you will probably gain respect within the community. If you don't -- you will almost certainly gain a negative reputation over time.1)  Use  a 'Safe Call'  -- Inform someone that you are going off to play with someone new (the really applies to meeting someone in a non-public space/play party but can easily apply to public parties where you may go home with them afterwards.)  Let them know when and where you are…
  • Bargain Bondage - Cheap Microbikinis! (Summer Slutwear)

    15 Apr 2014 | 11:31 am
    Now every Dom knows it's important to keep his slut dressed properly in slutty clothing. It's a given. And can you imagine how embarassing it would be to show up at the beach with your slaves and they had on way bigger bikinis than the other people there?  That would be awful!A good little slut should be trained to be proud of showing off her body  -- and then given ample opportunities to do so. What better place than the beach or a public pool to take a slut out wearing a daring and eye catching bikini.  Summer slutwear is an important part of any slave's wardrobe so it's…
  • Changes in Female Masturbation and Sexuality

    14 Apr 2014 | 9:53 pm
    I recently did a post on how girls are 7 times more likely to masturbate 'several times a day' than she is to masturbate just once. Let's explore this wonderful world of female masturbation -- and I'll tell you all about how female masturbation habits are changing -- with the biggest difference being the massive increase in the usage of pornography.  (EDIT: Holy crap! I've got a ton of info on female porn use that I haven't touched yet and this article is already massive so I'm changing the focus to just changes and increase in female masturbation habits and sexuality.   I'll…
  • Vomerophilia

    10 Apr 2014 | 11:26 pm
    And the word of the day is vomerophilia! Yes, there's a word for it!What is vomerophilia? It's not the name of a Shakespearean character (that's Ophelia).  No no, vomerophilia is the love of and sexual arousal by vomit.  I bet you didn't know that was a thing. God bless the internet.So happy they named it such a pretty name too! <3Ok, but how is it possible to be erotically aroused by someone throwing up? I mean, most people gag themselves when they see someone throwing up -- so how the hell can it become erotic. Well first off, there is a very good reason when we throw up when…
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    Naughty Reenie | Naughty Reenie


    19 Apr 2014 | 9:14 am
    You’ll face three possible scenarios after purchasing the LELO Ora. The first one is: you buy the Ora at $169 to find yourself with a mega expensive vibrator that’s weaker than a $60 vibrator. Then your brain will suddenly realize you just wasted a $109 that could have been spent on NINE customized Boston Pizza with changes left. You cry for an entire day, and go into depression. The second scenario is: you buy the Ora at $169 to find yourself with only ONE setting, among nine others, that actually feels sort of like a tongue circling your clitoris. But after about a minute, you’ll…
  • E[LUST] #57

    16 Apr 2014 | 9:14 am
    Welcome to Elust #57 Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’ve Got 99 Problems Vasectomy Blues I’ve always wanted to call myself queer. ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~…

    2 Apr 2014 | 8:34 am
    Pink invasion. It was a Friday night; I was masturbating peacefully when suddenly the doorbell rang. “Who the hell is ringing at 10 p.m. and not letting me masturbate in peace!”. I growled, dressed up, and stomped out of my room. I was about to yell at whoever was at the door, when I suddenly noticed it was the UPS dude standing there smiling warmly with a mega huge box. My anger drifted away like it never came. I smiled. How can I possibly get angry when I’m receiving sex toys (I don’t get anything else in the mail)! I quickly signed the thing and went back into my room. I hurriedly…

    26 Mar 2014 | 5:54 am
    When I saw the Je Joue G-Kii 2, I had to pause for a moment. HOW COME NO ONE EVER MENTIONED AN ADJUSTABLE CURVED DILDO? Come on people… The shape. Oh that shape. It’s shaped like the small bulb of the Pure Wand, the holy grail of sex toys. But the best of all? I can curve it at any degree my g-spot would like to have it so that it hits bulleyes every single time. It’s like an upgraded version of the Pure Wand. So why the hell is nobody talking about this beauty? My vagina answered my question by yelling “STFU AND GO GET THIS NOW!” But when the G-Kii got into my hands, I…

    18 Mar 2014 | 8:01 am
    My clitoris has been crying. Its dream of owning the same magnificent beatbox as its fellow vagina faded away with the wind. A couple of months ago, my vagina got provided a great beatbox – the Minna Ola. I thought it would have been fair to provide this same greatness to my clitoris. So I investigated into the newly released Minna Limon…just to find how disappointing it is. It’s too…how to put this…rumbly. Weird eh? Because from my knowledge, the rumblier, the better. Not in this case though. PACKAGING The Limon arrived in the same fashion as the Ola. Except, without the most…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • Dean speaks about Geography of Pleasure

    Pavini Moray
    8 Apr 2014 | 12:24 pm
    Listen to a participant talk about the power of communal erotic learning. Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Energy, Genderqueer, Geography of Pleasure, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation, Sexuality Education, Trans, Trauma Tagged: erotic communal learning, geography of pleasure, trans workshop
  • What happened at Geography of Pleasure? One man’s experience (guest post)

    Pavini Moray
    10 Mar 2014 | 11:20 am
    The Circle Holds Us By Marcus, a participant in the “Geography of Pleasure” workshop.  After the last day of the workshop, I was driving home meditatively, feeling the edges of my being. Not clicking from one radio station to the next, and blasting my senses with distracting stimuli. I wanted to allow myself to feel. […]
  • Participating in a Revolution: A Trans Guy’s experience at Geography of Pleasure (Guest Post)

    Pavini Moray
    3 Mar 2014 | 10:57 am
    (The following is a Guest Post by Roman Rimer, describing his experiences at the Geography of Pleasure: Embodiment for Trans Guys workshop. Enjoy! ~ Pavini) After the Geography of Pleasure workshop I was able to talk about the experience ad nauseam, maybe even brag a little bit, to my inquiring cis-gender friends.  Finally, a place where […]
  • Revolution happens when trans-masculine people invite pleasure into their bodies, just as they are.

    Pavini Moray
    27 Feb 2014 | 2:20 pm
    I dip my pen into the blood of my heart, and begin to chronicle the myriad of thoughts, sensations, feelings, body epiphanies and erotic somatic learning that happened this past weekend. It is only now, four days out, that I can bring myself to write of the beauty, the heartbreak, the joy, the community and […]
  • A Valentine’s Day Love Letter to My Fat Body

    Pavini Moray
    14 Feb 2014 | 10:44 am
    Dear Body, I write to you from the garden of the home we share.  The radiant oranges and yellows of the nasturtiums splashing their outrageous beauty everywhere remind me of you.  I thought I’d write and tell you the truthful yearnings of my heart. When I see you walking with your back straight, your chin […]
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    My Pleasure Box - Undercover Pleasures

  • 10 Best Tips for Spring

    Anida Leeds
    27 Mar 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Ice Ice Baby. Put coffee in an ice tray so when you make an ice coffee it doesn't get watered down. Jump out of bed? Don't Go Back to Sleep If You Wake Up Before Your Alarm. You will feel more refreshed if you wake up naturally. Unfriend! Clean out your social media account of people you thought were friends or just don't like to much. You know you have them. A splash of color. Update a room in your house with a new paint color, or just paint your partner. Say bye to winter blues. Change your sheets. Get rid of those warm weather wraps and slide into some satin. Breath. If you live in the…
  • 5 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues

    Anida Leeds
    10 Feb 2014 | 6:00 am
    By now most of us have had enough with winter. The cold weather, the snow and the shorter days can make the most die-hard snow bunnies beg for summer. With less than 40 days till the first day of spring, it's time for some tips to get through the end of winter and embrace the coming of spring. 5. Embrace the Season If your not looking at palm trees on a daily basis you are probably like me and hiding in your house right now. Instead of always avoiding the cold and the snow, look for the best that it has to offer! Take up a winter sport like ice skating, snowboarding, hockey, or even sledding!
  • Romance Is In The Air

    Lady Guinevere
    13 Jan 2014 | 7:01 am
    It's that time of the year again. Valentine's Day, it's one of my favorites. I take the occasion to gather my thoughts and make it a magnificent event. Others around the world are doing the same, using their imaginations and wits to show their love, affection, appreciation, and lest we forget, lust for one another. Valentine's Day is a holiday that is centuries old and many celebrate the whole month of February, including me. Romance is in the air. Drives to work don't seem so mundane any more. They are excursions of delight. At each twist and turn of the road, I am a princess, galloping thru…
  • What do you consider romantic?

    Anida Leeds
    12 Dec 2013 | 7:45 am
    The holiday season is here, families are gathering, and it's real cold outside. This is the perfect time of year to be romantic, but what exactly is being romantic? This is a question we are asking people that are entering to win in our latest Facebook Giveaway. So far we have gotten some great responses and lots of them brought a smile to my face. What is romance? The definition is: (a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love, and remoteness from everyday life. - "in search of romance" - love, passion, ardor, adoration, devotion; an exciting, enjoyable love affair, esp. one…
  • Happy Holiday Humor - Elf on a Shelf Style

    Anida Leeds
    3 Dec 2013 | 5:23 am
    What are the holidays without a little inappropriate humor. Elf on a Shelf has taken Christmas by storm. This little guy makes parents jump out of bed in the middle of the night faster than a fire drill, all because they forgot to move him. Kids wake up the next morning expecting to find this guy in a new spot every day.If we had this when I was a kid there is no way I would go to bed without spying on this creepy little guy. I would bet money on it he is also responsible for my one missing sock every time I do laundry. This blog post we wanted to make you laugh so we searched the web and…
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    The Love Hawk

  • Don’t Let Stress Ruin Your Relationship

    Shannon Ferguson
    8 Apr 2014 | 1:26 pm
    Stress can be the root of all relationship evil, if you let it. Stress can turn even the sweetest people into monsters and crumble the strongest spirits. It’s no wonder so many relationships fail during some of life’s most challenging times making partners, who once loved each other so much, want to claw each other’s eyes out. The challenge comes not in eradicating stress but instead finding love for each other even when you come to believe it no longer exists. Love is not about sunshine and butterflies, rainbows and multi-coloured unicorns. So often, we mistake love for the happiness…
  • Always Say “I Love You”

    Shannon Ferguson
    19 Mar 2014 | 8:27 am
    This week I learnt how short life really is and how strong love can be. It’s safe to say most of us take life for granted and allow minor things to consume us. We stress out over things we have no control over, we worry about how others feel about us, and we let our pride get in the way of telling people how we much we really love them. In the end, we won’t be remembered for the stress we carried or the petty arguments we had, instead it will be the happy memories, the smiles, the laughter, and the good we did that will shape our memory and that’s what we should all work on while…
  • Respect Yourself and Get Out of That Bad Relationship

    Shannon Ferguson
    11 Mar 2014 | 11:47 am
    I have been that Dumb Girl; the one who stays in a relationship long past its expiration date, convincing herself that things really aren’t so bad. A part of me understood things were never going to change and I knew in my gut that I was never going to get the love that I so desperately sought out. But a part of me still believed it was possible, still remained hopeful that change would come. So I ignored my instincts. I could feel the heavy hearts of my friends when I would cry to them and I could see the sadness in their eyes each time I told them about another heartbreak revolving around…
  • We Are All Bullies

    Shannon Ferguson
    25 Feb 2014 | 8:34 am
    People are critical. We compare ourselves to others and magnify the flaws of those around us, often times not even intentionally. We’re assholes, not only to other people but to ourselves. In recent years, bullying has become a huge topic of conversation and everyone is scrambling to try to stop it, to prevent it, to mask it but the problem doesn’t lie in bullying itself and the answer isn’t to just “Stop it”. We all become crusaders when bullying is brought up; talking like self-righteous Mother Theresas who care for the children of today. One minute we are discussing how awful it…
  • Dating is like an Olympic Event

    Shannon Ferguson
    21 Feb 2014 | 8:48 am
    Dating is hard work and getting it right can take years of practice and lots of stamina. Love can lift you up in a matter of seconds or break your heart with one small misstep. It’s actually a lot like the Olympics. Your relationships may not be featured on an international pedestal but making them work or finding “The One” can take a certain type of dedication and determination. All Olympians share one thing: perseverance. Sure they are also in amazing shape and gifted in the sport they excel at but they also have an innate will to not give up when the going gets tough. Many of them…
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  • 10 Effective Ways To Get A Girl To Like You

    James Buzinko
    2 Apr 2014 | 12:21 am
    How do you get a girl to like you? That is the question that millions of boys ask every day, and is it any wonder? Putting yourself out there and telling a lady you like her is one of the hardest things to do, so it makes sense that you would want to be prepared […]
  • The Perfect Lap Dance: 4 Tips & 5 Moves That Will Get Him

    James Buzinko
    1 Apr 2014 | 2:51 am
    You don’t have to be a professional stripper to give your man a lap dance he’s going to remember for a long time to come. All you really have to do is do 4 simple tips and 5 easy moves. These are a great way to drive him into a sexual frenzy, show him how […]
  • 8 Character Traits Of The Perfect Dominatrix

    James Buzinko
    31 Mar 2014 | 2:27 pm
    Being a dominatrix can provide you with the utmost amount of confidence and a clear understanding of discipline. As a woman who takes the primary dominant role in a sexual relationship, you can either be a paid one or you can simply participate in the act for fun. Either way, there are several characteristics that […]
  • 4 Vital Tools For Every Dominatrix

    James Buzinko
    31 Mar 2014 | 6:53 am
    There is a ton of fun to be had when you’re into the kinkier side of sexuality. The practice of BDSM has been around for many, many decades, even before it was officially given that well-known four-letter acronym. [Save Your Money! America’s Top 13 Sex Shops That Rock] It encompasses a wide spectrum of practices and […]
  • 8 Sure Signs That A Girl Likes You

    James Buzinko
    29 Mar 2014 | 12:32 pm
    Sometimes when the genders try to communicate, they give new meaning to the old adage that says “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars”. Dudes and chicks simply communicate in different ways. This leaves room for a lot of confusion to anyone trying to explore the inter-gender “galaxy”. There is no worse time for this […]
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    Inverse Field Energy Medicine » Sexual Energy Rehabilitation

  • Increase your emotional range for recovery from abuse

    KC Avnayt
    16 Apr 2014 | 3:05 am
    Snow White and the Evil Queen disguised as a country women selling apples. Emotional range happens to be one of the most important needs for recovery from abuse of any kind, whether sexual or even bullying. It specifically helps in dealing with escapist or suicidal tendencies, dissociative behavior and addiction to drugs. Fairy-tales – the old unedited versions of stories like Hansel and Grettel, Snow White, Rapunzel, they brought up generations of people who were emotionally expanded. In those old fairy tales there would be someone completely pure and beautiful, and then someone…
  • How to release pent up Sexual Tension

    KC Avnayt
    12 Apr 2014 | 6:59 am
    Pent up sexual tension is energy that has been blocked or suppressed. Its great when you are aware that you have this because you can work on releasing it. When you are unaware of pent up sexual energy, it literally burns and consumes the energy field just to stay where it is, causing a whole lot of physical and mental illnesses, metabolic and hormonal disorders. The first step to releasing pent up sexual energy is to be aware of it. Awareness begins the releasing process right there. Besides being mentally aware of having pent up sexual energy, allow yourself to physically feel the movement…
  • Holistic Treatment of Low Libido in Women

    KC Avnayt
    2 Apr 2014 | 10:07 am
    There’s been a lot written about how to increase libido and sexual function through the centuries. Its seems to have been the focus of every single human civilization, and also the secret dream of every woman and man. In reality, peoples’ libido levels vary so greatly there’s no such thing as ‘normal’ libido levels. Its a strictly personal thing, and only you know if you have balanced sexual function. In the body, if the reproductive organs have developed properly and are functioning well, then the only thing affecting sexual function is the Endocrine…
  • Holistic Treatment of Low Libido in Men

    KC Avnayt
    2 Apr 2014 | 10:01 am
    There’s been a lot written about how to increase libido and sexual function through the centuries. Its seems to have been the focus of every single human civilization, and also the secret dream of every woman and man. In reality, peoples’ libido levels vary so greatly there’s no such thing as ‘normal’ libido levels. Its a strictly personal thing, and only you know if you have balanced sexual function. In the body, if the reproductive organs have developed properly and are functioning well, then the only thing affecting sexual function is the Endocrine…
  • The connection between Sexual Energy and Skin, Hair and Nail health.

    KC Avnayt
    2 Apr 2014 | 3:54 am
    There are four main types of energy in the body at any time; Vital Energy (in the center of the body, also called ‘Prana’), Emotional or Perceptive Energy (around the heart and spleen), Mental Energy (along the spine and around the brain) and Physical energy (in the abdomen, muscles and lungs). Sexual Energy is nothing but Vital energy that has moved out from the center.Sexual Energy is the form of energy that is stored in our body, that is readily accessed in any emergency, or for any other task. It is the energy currency of the body. Now there are some parts of the body, and…
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