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  • Top 10 Sexy Christmas Gifts for Men

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    Lovehoney
    14 Nov 2014 | 3:30 am
    Looking for the perfect Christmas gift for your man can be both nerve-wracking and mind-boggling. After all, he never wore the tie you got him last year, he has more bath sets than he knows what to do with and choosing the right video game is more than your life's worth. Whether you're shopping for a lover, boyfriend or husband, we've come up with a list of sexy gadgets that are bound to impress. With something for every budget and taste, we promise you'll be a hit on Christmas morning. With everything from cheap but fun stocking fillers to more advanced masturbation aids, take advantage of…
  • 6 Movie Myths About Sex That Are Totally Wrong

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    20 Nov 2014 | 2:00 am
    People form a lot of their ideas about sex and relationships from movies, but some of what we see is just wrong. We all know the movies don’t necessarily contain the most accurate depictions of actual life. Or do we? Whether we realize it or not, we all pick up subtle things from movies that Continue reading →(Visited 19 times, 5 visits today)
  • Don't Want to Have Sex?

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    Heather Corinna
    1 Oct 2014 | 1:38 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna Introduction:  Then don't! Here's a feast of support and help for those who want to say no, not now, or not-like-this to sex or sexual relationships. Don't want sex, to be in a sexual relationship or to have sex in a romantic relationship? Then don't. You don't have to: sex and sexual relationships are supposed to be optional. For everyone -- of every age, gender, orientation, economic class, in any kind of relationship -- always. When sex isn't something you want or doesn't feel right, you get to opt out. Being part of sex you don't want or that…
  • Are you comfortable with your status quo?

    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.
    Natalie (NML)
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:24 pm
    If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable, you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo. If you imagine that on a scale of 1-10, their status quo is that they like things to be around a 5, whatever they do whether it’s blowing smoke up your bum and promising you the world or insisting that things will be different “this time” (going into 7,8 + territory), or whether it’s at the opposite end and frustrating you to the point where things become mighty tense or you give them the heave ho, if they have their way (they love doing things on…
  • 5 Ways To Make Sure Deal Breakers Don't Ruin Your Relationship

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    drkarenfinn
    21 Nov 2014 | 2:41 pm
    Deal breakers seem like a good idea, but they often serve as barriers to love rather than as healthy boundaries. YourTango expert Dr. Karen Finn puts a spotlight on how deal breakers hurt our relationships more than they help. She shares 5 ways to start a conversation about healthy expectations rather than threatening our partner with our list of demands. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • "1. Trauma permanently changes us. This is the big, scary truth about trauma: there is no such thing..."

    23 Nov 2014 | 7:19 am
    “1. Trauma permanently changes us. This is the big, scary truth about trauma: there is no such thing as “getting over it.” The five stages of grief model marks universal stages in learning to accept loss, but the reality is in fact much bigger: a major life disruption leaves a new normal in its wake. There is no “back to the old me.” You are different now, full stop. This is not a wholly negative thing. Healing from trauma can also mean finding new strength and joy. The goal of healing is not a papering-over of changes in an effort to preserve or present things as normal. It is to…
  • velveteenfur: Red umbrella Diaries. We get to see the final...

    20 Nov 2014 | 1:03 pm
    velveteenfur: Red umbrella Diaries. We get to see the final edit of the documentary on Saturday. I miss being with the other 6, it was a whirlwind few months. Ahhh, #redupdoc storytellers - this pic is ridiculous and awesome! Glad to be gathering with everyone this weekend.
  • redupnyc: Sailor has bartended, waited tables, worked as a...

    12 Nov 2014 | 7:31 pm
    redupnyc: Sailor has bartended, waited tables, worked as a freelance prop-stylist, a bathhouse attendant, go-go bear, schoolteacher, and house painter. Reared in Johannesburg and Tel Aviv, he is now a “freelancer of the night” or “your average next door beefy furry cub for hire.”Sailor is one of the seven featured storytellers in The Red Umbrella Diaries, a feature documentary that will premiere in 2015.Find him on twitter @sailoryboyny and on tumblr at velveteenfur.tumblr.com - both NSFW! Learn more about the film and see the official trailer at http://redumbrelladiaries.com
  • illbegotdamn: darvinasafo: Jim Crow 2.0 nothing’s changed....

    19 Oct 2014 | 5:25 pm
    illbegotdamn: darvinasafo: Jim Crow 2.0 nothing’s changed. it’s just evolved. devil stay pulling tricks.
  • sexworkerproblems: peechingtonmariejust: clarawebbwillcutoffyou...

    15 Oct 2014 | 9:47 am
    sexworkerproblems: peechingtonmariejust: clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead: peechingtonmariejust: We’re just over the $10,000 mark in our fundraiser for Tjhisha Ball and Angelia Mangum’s families to help with the costs of their funerals. We still need $7,000 more. Could you share this and donate? Even $1 helps and you can choose to make your name, donation, both, or neither private! We got this! Here’s the link: http://www.youcaring.com/memorial-fundraiser/help-angelia-and-tjhisha-s-family/238511 Please share you guys! Even if you can’t donate! We are now at $10,449 with 8 days left to go.
 
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  • My memory is worse then my pcos

    21 Nov 2014 | 8:37 am
    So Ive got pcos and Ive been diagnosed for around 3 years now. My only real "symptoms" are a extremely painful and anemia inducing period, and Im fairly overweight. While being treated for pcos I found out also that Im infertile. But this is my issue, I am terrible at remembering to take pills. And while when I remember to take them, birthcontrol usually fixes my pain fairly easy and helps with weightloss. I have tried Depo once and it made me pretty sick feeling all the time and I started to gain alot of weight. I was wondering if anyone knew given my situation if an IUD was a good choice?
  • Allergic reaction, ingrown hair, or pimple on vagina?

    20 Nov 2014 | 8:07 pm
    Okay, I'm at a loss of what to do and can't get into my doctor for months and I'm freaking out. I'm 19 years old and this last month I noticed a flesh colored bump on my vagina. It is located about an inch above my clit so it's still isolated outside of anything super important I suppose. I noticed it during my period and I wear the Always pads. It itches badly sometime and then turns red with a white tip. It started to go down after my period and turned flesh colored again but didn't go away completely. I'm now on my period again and it has swollen more and started itching, and again became…
  • Missing period 6 weeks post IUD insertion with strange discharge

    20 Nov 2014 | 4:02 pm
    I'm freaking out a little bit. I had the copper IUD fitted 7 weeks ago as an emergency due to a condom failure, 3 weeks ago (1 month post insertion) I went back and all looked well, the strings are where they should be and my period had come (with horrific cramps but hey ho) so I was given the all clear to stop using condoms.Since then I've had sex a few times without condoms (1 long term partner, no STIs). I'm now a week late with my period, about 36-7 days into my cycle. I have had sporadic cramping (nothing as intense as the first period with the IUD) and the last 2 days some discharge has…
  • Porn, consent and Sexual slurs

    19 Nov 2014 | 2:14 pm
    Ok. So, me and my boyfriend are ok with each other watching porn. But i have a question about something different entirely, I will put a cut for triggering language (like sexual slurs. I hate them, but I'm here to talk about them)I habe never used a cut before, so please for give me if i mess up.I want to watch porn with consenting, happy partners. And i don't want the girls or guys in the video being called sl*ts or wh*res.At all. These terms not only turn me off like a light bulb, but can be triggering if repeated to often. I also dont feel ok with videos being set up (faked) to look like…
  • hair shedding

    18 Nov 2014 | 9:38 pm
    In the past several months I have been experiencing excessive hair shedding. I fill up a hair brush in less than a week, I can pull about 10 strands of hair out at a time in the shower, and everytime I run my hands through my hair I get at least a couple hairs. My pony tail is about 1/3 less full (used to have to wrap hair tie 2x, now 3). I got off the pill in May and I can't remember if that's when it started. It's very similar to what happened after I had my children but my youngest is now 5. I'm 32, non-smoking, and otherwise healthy. Has this happened to anyone else? Could it be hormone…
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  • 'How To Get Away With Murder' Depicts Painful Truth Of Intimate Partner Violence

    21 Nov 2014 | 11:21 am
    Last night’s mid-season finale of “How to Get Away with Murder" involved not only gasp-inducing plot twists, but also a chilling depiction of domestic violence.
  • 12 Expert Secrets For a Gluten-Free and Allergy-Friendly Thanksgiving (That's Still Delicious!)

    21 Nov 2014 | 10:03 am
    Thanksgiving can be a potentially problematic family meal—and not just because your relatives are going to drill you about your love life. If you’re on a gluten-free diet, have a nut allergy or have trouble digesting dairy, it can be tricky to navigate certain traditional dishes.
  • 5 Energizing Foods In Season Right Now

    21 Nov 2014 | 8:46 am
    From the cup of coffee first thing in the morning to the energy drink and candy bar mid-afternoon, most people treat the symptom, rather than the cause of fatigue. Maca helps support your adrenal glands (which produce adrenaline and cortisol in response to stress).
  • The 10 Healthiest Restaurant Chains in America

    21 Nov 2014 | 7:57 am
    The website, called Grellin, uses nutrition information from meals at 100 of the nation’s restaurant chains, and ranks the restaurants based on the proportion of their meals that qualify as “healthy.”
  • Overdosing on Caffeine: A Deadly Trend

    21 Nov 2014 | 4:11 am
    The sudden death of 18-year-old Logan Stiner grabbed national headlines last May when the high school senior died from a surprising and rare cause: a caffeine overdose. Stiner’s family found a small bag of caffeine powder — sold legally in the U.S. and easily purchased over the Internet — in their home after the Ohio teen’s death. Stiner’s death is only one of several deaths linked to caffeine toxicity in recent years.
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  • De ce să alegeți un scaun de masaj Human Touch?

    James
    21 Nov 2014 | 1:00 am
    După opt ore de muncă grea să te simți ca și cum dumneavoastră umeri, gât, spate și au fost complet abuzat. Care este soluția la această problemă nu pare să se termine + și nu mă refer la călători înainte și înapoi la chiropractician sau terapeut de masaj? Un drept scaun de masaj în confortul de acasă, care vă oferă senzația de atingere umană și pot fi utilizate în funcție de programările de timp, este răspunsul. Dar de ce scaun de masaj Human Touch? Scaune de masaj Human Touch sunt construite de către Interactive Sănătate și dispun de un multi-patentat Human…
  • Promovare website – afla mai multe!

    James
    18 Nov 2014 | 2:07 am
    Inca de la creșterea în utilizarea internetului, acesta a fost de servire a utilizatorilor în multe feluri. Pentru unii, aceasta este o resursă de cunoștințe și informații, iar pentru unii este un mediu de publicitate. Este o realitate faptul că potențialii clienți caută informații legate de produs înainte de a lua decizia de cumpărare. Cei care sunt savvy internet, ei se cerceteze pe web. Acum, ea este o companie de promovare website, care se potrivește perfect în acest loc. Acest tip de organizare poate fi mai bine cunoscut sub numele de partener de afaceri de promovare.
  • Tratamente naturiste impotriva refluxului de acid

    James
    5 Nov 2014 | 8:22 am
    Problema de acid reflux este o afectiune a sistemului digestiv a anatomiei umane. Acid reflux poate aparea la tineri şi bătrâni, indiferent de vârstă. Deşi noi toţi ar fi uneori experimentat simptome de acid reflux, dar episoade frecvente de acid refluxurile poate ruina viaţa unei persoane, oferindu-i nopţi nedormite. Să ne înţelegem mai întâi ce reflux acid este despre toate. Boala de acid reflux este, de asemenea, cunoscut ca Gastro esofagian Reflux boala (GERD). În acest caz, stomac acizi, adesea însoţită de alimente pot fi aruncate înapoi în conducta de alimentare…
  • Montarea de jaluzele exterioare in casa ta

    James
    4 Nov 2014 | 1:34 am
    Recent, o mulțime de deținători de case sunt de înființare diferite copertine în proprietățile lor pe baza preferințelor lor. Există într-adevăr numeroase modele, felul și volumul deja pe piață care a făcut-o ușor pentru a obține cel mai bun pe care foarte găzduiește alegere si de moda. Prin instalarea ei in casa, tu ești în măsură să ofere un elegant, precum și un aspect elegant pentru casa ta. Nu doar aceste elemente, puteți găsi diverse alte avantaje în același timp. Ca o ilustrare, se va modifica temperatura sfârâit a mediului de către o mult mai mult mai…
  • Alegerea panourilor radiante pentru casa ta

    James
    3 Nov 2014 | 2:09 am
    Panouri radiante este unul dintre materialele cele mai atractive puteţi folosi pentru a acoperi etaje în casa ta. Deoarece este disponibil într-o varietate incredibila de tăieturi, modele si culori, panouri radiante este extrem de versatil şi pot fi folosite pentru a oprit seta orice stil de decor. Se pot adăuga cu adevărat o dimensiune suplimentară la generale aspectul casei tale; este evident că panouri radiante este de a deveni mai mult şi mai popular cu cei care caută modalităţi de a personaliza lor design interior. Una dintre cele câteva plângeri oameni vreodată par să…
 
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    Silvy
    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    Silvy
    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    Silvy
    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    Silvy
    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • In any sex ed that someone else (school, parent, etc) provided for you, what wasn't included you wish had been?

    Sam W
    10 Nov 2014 | 8:43 am
  • Unlearning Unlovability

    Cassandra Leveille
    16 Oct 2014 | 10:39 am
    Author:  Cassandra Leveille Introduction:  I hid my fears and insecurities by desexualizing myself. Now I'm on the path of uncovering ways to unlearn ugliness as an identity. One of the hard things about growing up on suburban Long Island and being the awkward “new girl” at my elementary schools was the endless barrage of taunting I received. I was socially awkward: singing songs I invented in the hallways, drawing and illustrating my own stories in my free time. But I wasn’t sure what brought on the endless barrage of taunts, especially when we first moved. Maybe it was…
  • He Doesn't Want Sex Anymore. I Do. Now What?

    Heather Corinna
    2 Oct 2014 | 12:22 pm
    My partner and I have been dating for over a year now and have just begun to hit some rough patches. We used to have a lot of (what I thought was) really great sex. Then one day he told me that all that sex had been only mediocre for him. I was mortified and also ashamed because it felt like maybe he had never really want to have sex with me, he was just doing it because he knew I wanted to. Recently, he says that he might be asexual, but he isn't sure. He's trans and in the middle of transitioning, so he says his body is changing. He says masturbation "works wonders" for him, and he feels no…
  • Don't Want to Have Sex?

    Heather Corinna
    1 Oct 2014 | 1:38 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna Introduction:  Then don't! Here's a feast of support and help for those who want to say no, not now, or not-like-this to sex or sexual relationships. Don't want sex, to be in a sexual relationship or to have sex in a romantic relationship? Then don't. You don't have to: sex and sexual relationships are supposed to be optional. For everyone -- of every age, gender, orientation, economic class, in any kind of relationship -- always. When sex isn't something you want or doesn't feel right, you get to opt out. Being part of sex you don't want or that…
  • Is 13 the "Right" Age for Sex or Romance?

    Heather Corinna
    22 Sep 2014 | 9:24 am
    I'm wondering what a good age to have a 'relationship' is? I'm 13 and I've sort of began to have stronger attractions both emotionally and physically to boys. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship and I'm scared that if it doesn't work (for example, if I'm frigid or something) it will ruin our friendship. I know it's not much of a big deal but I just want some help and reassurance. read The answer | ask your own
 
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Toy of the Year – Waving the Fairy Wand

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    22 Nov 2014 | 8:20 am
    This is one of those toys! Highly satisfactory for use as a couple and truly exceptional when you’re flying solo. The Fairy Wand from MyPleasure is a mini version of the Hitachi Magic Wand. The same circular spinning end and with a nice range of attachments to slip onto it. But, the most important point to stress [...]
  • Anorexia Rehab

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    19 Nov 2014 | 8:09 am
    It was a strange day. Damp and drizzly with the prospect of an hour in Church coming face to face with God for the first time since I walked away from the vows I had made, followed by the cremation and tears. Not the sort of day anyone would really relish. Add in my impending homelessness and the fact that one of my toes had swollen up to twice it's normal size through some fungal complaint that is directly related to stress... none of these things is conducive to a healthy [...]
  • Voyage Around My Sister

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    18 Nov 2014 | 1:09 am
    For the last 50 years, my sister has been disrupting my life. As an only child for 5 years, I adored my father. I had to learn to share him. This was not so hard. Until my sister began doing things to get more of his attention. She had his nature and would deliberately tease me until I cried. Or she [...]
  • Wolverine… and Kayla

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    16 Nov 2014 | 7:57 am
    I loved watching this film. Not just for the fabulous body and pretty face of Hugh Jackman and the many action scenes, but because of his relationship with Kayla. There are two or three moments which just stop me in my tracks with breathlessness.  I get that echoy, tight feeling in my chest that signifies a strong [...]
  • Voyage Around My Father

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    15 Nov 2014 | 10:58 am
    I love my father dearly. But it is very hard to get around the way that he treats me when he has been drinking. Or when he is being selfish about something else that he might want to do. I was trying to indulge my inner six year old. To try to find out why I have [...]
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  • Top 10 Sex Positions For Deep Penetration

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    14 Nov 2014 | 4:19 am
    Here are our Top 10 Sex Positions for Deep Penetration. All of the positions and many more can be found in our latest book… “The Little Black Book of Sex Positions”    #1 – Viennese Oyster Sex Position The Viennese Oyster sex position is deliciously naughty, although it is difficult to master for most women. However, if you can, the rewards are great! how to do it… #2 – Piston Sex Position The Piston sex position is a great standing position for athletic couples, and affords for super deep and exotic penetration. It’s definitely a must try! how to…
  • How To Get Her To Love Rough Sex

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    12 Nov 2014 | 6:38 am
    Rough sex can be one of the most intense sexual experiences for any couple. This type of sexual play is not only a stress reducer, it can bring your closer to your partner. It must be mentioned that rough sex doesn’t have to be about whips and chains, although it can be, it is mainly about the emotional side of domination and fantasy. There is a barrage of ways that you can pleasure your partner through rough sex. But what if your girl doesn’t like this type of activity in the bedroom? Here are a few ways that you can get her to love rough sex while building intimacy at the same time.
  • 4 Sex Positions To Make Your Vagina Feel Tighter!

    Kaylen Jackson
    11 Nov 2014 | 12:00 pm
    Sex positions can make or break how great sex feels. Whether your partner has a small penis or you have a larger vagina, you may have some trouble getting enough friction going for it to feel really pleasurable for both you and your partner. This can also happen after a woman gives birth, because the vagina stretches out and takes some time going back to its original shape. Lots of girls (and guys) want a tighter sensation during intercourse – and finding the right sex position can make all the difference. Try these 4 great ideas TONIGHT for tighter, more satisfying sex for both you and…
  • 6 Ways To Be The Alpha Male She CRAVES

    Shawna Lenee
    8 Nov 2014 | 5:00 am
    Sex tips show you what techniques to use, but they won’t matter if you’re a wuss who asks permission to do anything. Here’s how to be the ALPHA MALE she wants! There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight! Take Charge! These sex tips start right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction. Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet. Tease her,…
  • Orgasm Tips: The Technique That Will Make Your Partner Orgasm Like Crazy!

    Shawna Lenee
    7 Nov 2014 | 11:41 am
    Orgasm tips can often lack what you need to REALLY make your girl have a powerful orgasm. However, this “triple play” technique just might make your partner SQUIRT! I hope you’re excited, because today I’m going to reveal what is perhaps my VERY BEST technique for making your girl orgasm like crazy! It’s called the “Triple Play” – because it involves stimulating her in 3 special spots at the same time – and creating a “pleasure trifecta” that will have her squirting like crazy in no time! How To Do It Using techniques to…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Being passive and a pleaser can make you a sitting duck for unavailable relationships

    Natalie (NML)
    18 Nov 2014 | 3:32 pm
    Sound familiar? You’re agreeable and try not to be or do anything that would give your date an opinion on you. Unsure of who you are and what you want, you rely on others to direct you. You’re also afraid of who you truly are being wrong and so you align yourself with ‘authorities’ (people with an overinflated sense of their own importance). You typically audition on dates and are more concerned with whether you can get them to like and validate you than you are with whether they’re a good fit. You’re so busy worrying about how awful it would be if these virtual…
  • Some people collect the friendship of exes and love interests – don’t stay in the harem!

    Natalie (NML)
    11 Nov 2014 | 2:36 pm
    Talking with a friend recently who was rather enamoured with a chap who was super ambiguous, a little probing revealed that this guy has a hell of a lot of female friends. A lot. Like when you see those shows about hoarders and then can barely move for all of the stuff piled up around them and they feel super attached to stuff that they’re never going to use or appreciate for that matter. This guy collects exes, love interests that he’s turned down as well as becoming friends with the exes of his friends. As soon as I heard about this, a code red alert went off for me.
  • Moving past ambiguous situations: It’s OK to take a step back when they say that they’re not interested

    Natalie (NML)
    3 Nov 2014 | 3:08 pm
    When two people are romantically interested in each other, they make it known and it doesn’t turn into this long, drawn out, ambiguous rigamarole of wondering whether or not they’re interested. It’s because one or both parties are being ambiguous why these ‘Whatchamacallit situations’ where people aren’t sure whether they’re “just friends” or whether whatever they’ve been doing is building towards dating or a relationships are happening in the first place. I’m still waiting for that email/comment/story that goes, “Our…
  • Are you comfortable with your status quo?

    Natalie (NML)
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:24 pm
    If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable, you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo. If you imagine that on a scale of 1-10, their status quo is that they like things to be around a 5, whatever they do whether it’s blowing smoke up your bum and promising you the world or insisting that things will be different “this time” (going into 7,8 + territory), or whether it’s at the opposite end and frustrating you to the point where things become mighty tense or you give them the heave ho, if they have their way (they love doing things on…
  • ‘I Can Change Him/Her’ syndrome: Don’t tie your worth to trying to control the uncontrollable

    Natalie (NML)
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they’ll change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn’t happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up in whether we can get…
 
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 409: Poly and disabilities

    Minx
    20 Nov 2014 | 9:08 pm
    What you need to know about polyamory and disabilities with special guest Shanna Katz. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 408: Time enough for love?

    Minx
    6 Nov 2014 | 6:00 am
    Is he not that into me or is this how secondaries are treated? Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 407: Poly ethics with Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert

    Minx
    30 Oct 2014 | 2:29 pm
    A chat on ethics, the book tour and more with the co-authors of More Than Two, Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 406: Negotiating from a "no"

    Minx
    23 Oct 2014 | 10:17 am
    Negotiating from a "no." Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 405: Testing the poly waters with a monogamist

    Minx
    16 Oct 2014 | 8:35 am
    Testing the poly waters with a long-time friend who is also monogamous. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Transgender Awareness Week Highlights the T in LGBTQ

    Joyce Canela
    14 Nov 2014 | 11:12 am
    Transgender Awareness Week runs from November 14th through November 20th. This week is about highlighting the T in LGBTQ. The T stands for transgender, which is someone whose gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth. This week was created to increase the visibility of trans people and raise awareness about the issues they face on a daily basis. These issues range from challenges around the right to choose which bathroom to use to dealing with transphobic slurs and violence. The final day of Transgender Awareness Week is the Transgender Day of Remembrance, which…
  • Emma Watson Wants Guys to Fight for Gender Equality

    Elena Hooper
    11 Nov 2014 | 8:39 am
    A few of weeks ago, I heard that Emma Watson was speaking at the United Nations headquarters about her new feminist campaign called HeForShe. I later watched the video of her speech on YouTube and was moved by her approach to getting people on board with the project. She stated that gender inequality is not only women’s problem; it’s also men’s. The same thing could be said about sex ed. Too often guys are seen as sexual beings, but they aren’t expected to know as much about reproductive health. And often times, safer sex and birth control are seen as something that mainly concerns…
  • NYC Wants to Make It Easier to Change Birth Certificate Gender

    Sumra Alvi
    10 Nov 2014 | 8:35 am
    The simple act of filling in a bubble asking whether I am male or female on an exam or on a job application is something that I never think twice about. But for some, answering the question “What is your sex?” brings on a flood of emotions. For many transgender people, it can be difficult to fill in a bubble that emphasizes the sex they were assigned at birth over their gender identity. Currently, if someone wants to make an official change to any documentation regarding their sex, most states require formal papers showing that he or she has or is in the process of transitioning—through…
  • Colorado Voters Reject Personhood Amendment

    Elena Hooper
    6 Nov 2014 | 7:45 am
    There was something big happening in Colorado on Tuesday—something very serious. Colorado was trying to pass Amendment 67, which is a “personhood” amendment. What “personhood” means is that a fertilized egg would have the same human rights as a fully developed, coherent, living person. Sounds crazy, right? It doesn’t stop there. This is what Amendment 67 would have done if it passed: It would have outlawed abortion in Colorado, even in cases of rape and incest. It would have banned some of the most common forms of birth control, including the Pill and intrauterine devices (IUDs).
  • Long-Acting Birth Control for Guys Coming in 2017

    Krystal Rodriguez
    4 Nov 2014 | 11:50 am
    We’ve heard of birth control methods that are long-acting, meaning they are effective for three months or up to 10 years without a girl or woman having to do anything. These birth control methods, like intrauterine devices and implants, are for girls and women. But are there long-acting, reversible birth control options for men? The Parsemus Foundation is developing Vasalgel, a gel which is injected into the vas deferens (the tube that the sperm travel through from the testicles to the urethra). When the gel hardens, it blocks sperm from mixing with the fluids that are released during…
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    Silent Porn Star

  • Of Sex Work, Censorship & George Bernard Shaw

    Silent Porn Star
    14 Nov 2014 | 9:09 am
    Thanks to Lynn’s article about the history of stag films, I was able to find this fabulous bit by George Bernard Shaw. It’s from his “Author’s Apology”, a rather heated preface to one of his plays, Mrs. Warren’s Profession, the third play in Shaw’s Plays Unpleasant. Mrs. Warren’s Profession was most definitely about sex — […]
  • What I’ve Been Reading & Looking At

    Silent Porn Star
    6 Nov 2014 | 1:08 pm
    Sophia Loren explains the look she gave Jayne Mansfield in this iconic pic. (Note how Eonline blurs even the suggestion of a dreaded nipple!) Defiant burlesque legends. Amen! Gloria Steinem’s Pop Art Protests. Original paintings by LeRoy Neiman created for Caesars Palace go up for auction. (Circa 1980s.) Bacchus ponders this dynamic nude duo. Ideas? […]
  • Erotic Netsuke Auction Buyers Beware?

    Silent Porn Star
    5 Nov 2014 | 8:38 am
    Darryl writes in about some Netsuke up for auction: Hey, SPS, I found a few naughty Netsuke up for auction and I can’t believe the auction estimates are $10-$20 — I’m guessing they are fakes. But I’m also freaked out that they are not able to ship to California… Is that because there would be […]
  • How Your Parents Did It

    Silent Porn Star
    3 Nov 2014 | 2:12 pm
    There’s a cute little vintage amateur porn video showing a couple from the 50s or 60s making out. There’s lots of kissing, and when it comes time for second base, she removes her bra beneath her top. Yes, there’s the formulaic cock sucking before the fucking; but first she undoes his pants while they are […]
  • The Obligatory Nude Witch For Halloween

    Silent Porn Star
    31 Oct 2014 | 12:52 pm
    Olga Solarics, from the Manassé Foto-Salon in Vienna, 1922. There’s a Tumblr site devoted to the salon with quite a collection of photos. Olga Solarics (1896-1969) and her husband Adorja’n von Wlassics (1893-1946) ran the Manasse’ Foto-Salon in Vienna from 1922-1938. Olga seems to have been the one interested in the photographic nude. She (or […]
 
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    Simple Marriage

  • How to Get the Perfect Present for Your Spouse

    Sean
    21 Nov 2014 | 4:04 am
    The holidays are here and the gift giving season is upon us. Finding the perfect present for your spouse can be a tricky thing. It’s easy to get caught up simply buying stuff and forgetting the real spirit of the season. So what’s the secret to getting your loved one the perfect present this year? It all starts with one word: intent The goal of gift giving is to show your intent – that you care. There’s the famous saying, “it’s the thought that counts”. And it’s true. But when it’s followed up with a genuinely cool present, it makes it the perfect gift. It All Comes Down…
  • The resent-repeat syndrome

    Corey
    16 Nov 2014 | 12:53 pm
    If you grew up in a family where you experienced injustice, abuse, or a sense of hurt, you’re at a high risk of developing a resent-repeat syndrome in your adult life. You may end up repeating a familiar pattern from your past or you may go 180 degrees to an opposite pattern. These actions result in your own children being deprived in a way that carries your emotional scars forward into the next generation. The rule is this: The more we resent something our parents did, the more likely we are either to unknowingly repeat it, or to try so diligently NOT to repeat it that we go to the…
  • Great Marriage Quotes

    Corey
    13 Nov 2014 | 4:04 am
    “To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.” — Chinese Philosopher Lao Tzu “You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” — Sam Keen “Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that’s a real treat.” — Joanne Woodward “Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet to see who they really are.” — Will Ferrell “I didn’t marry you because you were…
  • The Minimalist Marriage

    Corey
    10 Nov 2014 | 4:04 am
    I’ve been married to Pam for 21 years. We’ve had our shares of ups and downs, but through it all, one thing remains very clear — when you can keep it simple, it allows the important to not get lost among the immediate. If you boil down marriage and role it plays in life, it is personal development bootcamp. Yes, it offers up happiness, pleasure, support and encouragement – but that’s not what it’s designed to do. At the end of the day, marriage is designed to help you grow up. When you can see what happens in your relationship through that lens,…
  • Spousal Complaining Can Be Healthy, And Normal

    Mandy
    6 Nov 2014 | 5:04 am
    Recently my dear friend stopped by my house for a visit to let her children play with mine. Over coffee we sat and talked. She vented for a long time about her husband. In her rant she said he was not being very romantic. My friend commented that her man is often lazy and unhelpful around the house. She even called him a big jerk. I simply sat and listened to my friend. I didn’t offer her any advice. I didn’t draw any drastic conclusions that she was having any marital problems. I wasn’t about to look up divorce attorneys or suggest a wild girls night out. Why? I know better than that!
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    LUSTY LADY

  • Oral pleasure: Blowjob kings and queens in my new sex column

    Rachel
    20 Nov 2014 | 9:04 am
    My working title for this latest Philadelphia City Paper sex column was "Pleasure In My Mouth: Talking To Blowjob Kings and Queens," which, as you'll see, got changed to "When it comes to sex, don't tell me where to get pleasure". I still like my original so I'm using it here (blog editorial power, yay!). But the point was that in mainstream writing, "blowjob" is all too often equated with women delivering them to men, often just to please them, and I wanted to explore other configurations. Thank you to Raul Queue for a gay male perspective on blowjobs (or as he calls them, "blowjoys") and…
  • Essay on dating a fat man at YouBeauty

    Rachel
    19 Nov 2014 | 11:07 am
    Yes, size is something that comes up in a lot of my work, from my erotica, such as in my new story "Big Bottom" in The Big Book of Domination to my book Sex & Cupcakes. It's something that's personal and political and that I think touches so much of society. So my latest essay is "What I’ve Learned About Size and Body Image by Dating a Fat Man" at YouBeauty. It's my first piece for them, so if you like it, I'd love it if you'd share/comment there. Jessica Wakeman is an editor there now (formerly at The Frisky) and is bringing lots of fascinating content around looks, gender, body image and…
  • Open bar tonight 6-7 for my Sex & Cupcakes book party in NYC!

    Rachel
    17 Nov 2014 | 7:22 am
    Tonight's the night! Yes, it's dreary as can be outside but inside Sweet Revenge at 62 Carmine Street, NYC (subway to West 4th Street) at my Sex & Cupcakes book party tonight from 6-8 (open bar 6-7) it will be sweet and cozy and sexy and fun. Can't make it? Let a friend know! Here's the Facebook invite. Sweet Revenge owner Marlo Scott had this to say. I have to say a giant thank you to Thought Catalog Books for sponsoring this. Here's me there on Saturday enjoying their ridiculously delicious brunch (if you go, while my burrito bowl was delicious, with wonderful hot sauce, do get the red…
  • Registration open for my erotica and sex writing workshops at CatalystCon, March 27, Arlington, Virginia

    Rachel
    17 Nov 2014 | 6:33 am
    CatalystCon is a very special event; yes, it's a conference, but it's so much more. It's the only place I've taught my nonfiction sex writing workshop so far, and where I will be again, along with erotica writing (2 three-hour workshops that you can sign up for separately, or save money and sign up for both), on March 27th, 2015 in Arlington, Virginia, and that's because those attending CatalystCon attend with a knowledge and passion about sex. I'm not saying that others can't also write well about sex, but that there's a base level of empathy and openness that you don't always find, which…
  • The naked lady beat: me on Kim Kardashian's ass and other body parts in Paper magazine

    Rachel
    14 Nov 2014 | 5:46 am
    "Kim Kardashian Butt Fame" is what shows up in the URL of my latest Time.com article, "I Can’t Help But Admire Kim Kardashian’s Devotion to Staying Famous", about her enduring popularity, flaunting of her sexuality and those glossy, gorgeous photos in Paper magazine. Apparently, I'm the go to girl for naked lady coverage, as I was asked to comment on Kim based on my previous piece, "Jennifer Lawrence's Breasts Aren't Sending Mixed Messages." That one I cold pitched them, and at the bottom of both pieces is more information about pitching them, for the writers reading this. photo by…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Sex News: Dirty emoji, Dear Straight People, porn tag data, Taye Diggs space dinosaur porn

    Violet Blue
    21 Nov 2014 | 2:32 pm
    My new book is on sale: get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct; authors split all revenue! Four designers in California have come up with dirty emoji, and they’re calling it “Flirtmoji” that you can paste into messaging apps as needed. The project launched on Tuesday. These are NSFW emoji for sexting (The Verge) One of the detrimental truths about Silicon Valley is that while the sex industry is enormously lucrative, it’s ghettoized to the point where it’s totally separate from the tech world at large. But the gap is being gently bridged thanks to…
  • Eye Candy: Best of Babes, and really hot new porn

    Violet Blue
    20 Nov 2014 | 1:24 am
    My new book is on sale: get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct from me! Kira W – Roses Are Red Taking Control – Blue Angel, Cindy Hope Loretta A – Banani Ivy – After Party Delight Alexa and Joel – Spanish Jewel Danoe, gentleman friend – Breakfast in Bed Samantha Bentley, gentleman friend – Samamtha Sucks and Fucks Chelsea Poe, Daisy Ducati, others – Fucking Mystic Silvia, Bettina, Claudia – Finger Fucking On The Bar Livia Choice, gentleman friend – Tied up and Fucked Lexi Belle, Megan Coxxx, gentleman friend…
  • Sex News: Leslie Feinberg, sex auction problems, rapey fur seals, Bill Cosby

    Violet Blue
    17 Nov 2014 | 4:30 pm
    Vocativ.com posted a highly unique photo essay titled, “I’m in Love With a Sex Doll.” While the mainstream media has become increasingly wont to cover the popularity of realistic sex dolls for their sexual purposes, Vocativ’s photos highlight men — and women — who feel a deeper bond with their silicone mates. Photo Essay Depicts Men Who Are in Love With Sex Dolls (XBIZ) Leslie Feinberg was a pioneer in trans and lesbian issues, workers rights, and intersectionality long before anyone could define the phrase. Feinberg’s partner, Minnie Bruce Pratt, and family offered…
  • Pam Poovey will #FixTheInternet

    Violet Blue
    14 Nov 2014 | 12:58 am
    Our savior! The only appropriate response to Paper’s Kim Kardashian stunt is a salve of Archer’s number one “foul-mouthed, ass-kicking cocaine enthusiast” Pam Poovey. Thank you Uproxx! See also: The Troubling Racial History Of Kim K’s Champagne Shot (Refinery 29) Psst: My new book went on sale three hours ago! Get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct from me! Psst 2: I haven’t announced my Privacy Stickers yet, but we *just* finished the website tonight, half an hour ago! Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for…
  • Sex News: Superhero Uterus Man returns, AdSense doesn’t give a shit, libertarian James Deen, intersex life

    Violet Blue
    13 Nov 2014 | 5:23 pm
    Paper’s successful publicity stunt involved Kim Kardashian’s ass, and then her breasts. (FWIW, I think she looks great.) PAPERMAG: #NOFILTER: An Afternoon With Kim Kardashian (Paper) Google’s AdSense has told San Francisco news outlet The SF Appeal that it has three days to remove editorial content that violates its advertising policy, alleging — but not specifying — adult content. A Google spokesperson avoided the issue when contacted, which is that the advertising and search giant is in dangerous territory policing and penalizing the content of news organizations,…
 
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 421

    Dan Savage
    18 Nov 2014 | 1:00 am
    Wait. You haven't yet heard "My Brother, My Brother and Me?"  Well, we've rectified that situation, as Dan joins forces with the Brothers McElroy for a Second Opinion on how to change your boyfriend's look, the cruel practice of "sexile" and a cold hard look at the institution of the "dude's night out."    On the Magnum, hear Dan try to talk some sense into a young man whose fuckbuddy is a heroin enthusiast. She's twitchin' and scratchin' but he's "leaning toward eating her pussy." Hhhhot!  This is kind of one of our favorite shows. Listen in, won't you? 206-201-2720…
  • Savage Love Episode 420

    Dan Savage
    11 Nov 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week Dan speaks with Janet Yassen from the national rape support organization RAINN about recovering your sexuality after a sexual assault.  A father struggles to explain his affair to his 12 year old daughter. On the Magnum, Dan dishes with Dan Pashman, host of WNYC's The Sporkful on the connection between food, sex, and general deliciousness.  And, does the HPV really vaccine work? The answer is yes. But in case you are still skeptical, Dan brings on an expert to confirm.   206-201-2720 Get tickets to our Christmas Extravaganza!!  December 5, at Seattle's Neptune…
  • Savage Love Episode 419

    Dan Savage
    4 Nov 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and the incomparable RuPaul chat about Drag Race, foot fetishes and living in Wyoming.  A man's girlfriend wants to seize control of his alcohol intake. But… he's a brewer.  A woman's boyfriend has a nasty, ill-tempered dog that licks and licks and licks him. Yuck?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. Brock Bastian about his study which shows how pain brings people together. Awwww.  And, the developing story of "The Cuddle, the Nipple and the Ask. " 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking.
  • Savage Love Episode 418

    Dan Savage
    28 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    It's the triumphant return of Dr. Barak, here to reassure us that drinking pee is still "pretty darn safe."  Is guzzling jizz the equivalent of drinking a protein shake?  Should a man rat out his boss for watching porn on his phone after work?  On the Magnum version, Dan speaks with Katha Pollitt about her new book, Pro: Reclaiming Abortion Rights.  And more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Savage"when you check out. This episode is also brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy…
  • Savage Love Episode 417

    Dan Savage
    21 Oct 2014 | 1:00 am
    Delusion and disfunction; this episode has more than it's fair share. Inevitable break-ups, sexless marriages, cheating and scheming. Feast your ears!  On the sweet, sweet Magnum, Dan chats with sex party luminary Polly Superstar! Also, in a "What You Got?" Dan chats with Dr. Rachel Jones from the Guttmacher Institute about the much maligned withdrawal method. 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • Last Day For “Bougie Black Girl” And “I Love Bougie Black Girls” Tees And Hoodies

    VSB
    21 Nov 2014 | 11:40 am
    As our latest Teespring campaign comes to an end, let me remind you of a couple things: 1. There is a VSB store where all of our active campaigns are housed. 2. Although the hoodie options don’t initially appear on the page, they do if you click on a campaign and then go to “additional styles.” 3. The hoodies are fly as hell. (Seriously.) 4. There are gray options for the Bougie Black Girl shirts and hoodies. 5. If you have any pics of yourself in one of these shirts, please email them to us at contact@verysmartbrothas.com 6. Teespring.com/stores/the-vsb-store 7. Look at how…
  • #GetWellMeechy

    Damon Young
    21 Nov 2014 | 10:03 am
    After making the final edits yesterday on the latest in the Shit Bougie Black People Love series, I went to Google to find a picture to go with the post. I searched “natural hair,” “natural hair conference,” and “natural hair meetup” until I found an appropriate pic — a shot of three women with natural hair who looked to be at some type of event. Soon after publishing the post — and sharing it to Facebook and Twitter — I went back to Google. The woman in the middle (named “Meechy Monroe”) bore a striking resemblance to a friend…
  • Rapper Drops Mixtape. Just May Pay For It With His Life.

    Panama Jackson
    21 Nov 2014 | 9:11 am
    What will follow is the most ridiculous thing I think I may have read in life. I don’t even mean that in a cavalier fashion. I mean that in the most sincere way possible. Like, when I say that I don’t like J. Cole, like, at all, I say with the utmost sincerity. That’s how I feel about how ridiculous this story is. A rapper named Tiny Doo (nee Brandon Duncan)- no you haven’t heard of him – out of San Diego, California, is facing the possibility of life in prison. Why is he facing the possibilty of life in prison? I’m glad you asked. Is it because he…
  • Shonda Rhimes Tries To Make “Bitch Baby” Happen. What Is A Bitch Baby?

    Damon Young
    21 Nov 2014 | 7:51 am
    The number of times in my life I’ve heard the word “bitch” used as an insult? Countless The number of times in my life I’ve heard the word “baby” used as an insult? Also countless. The number of times in my life I’ve heard the words “bitch” and “baby” both used in a sentence or phrase (ie: “Stop being a bitch-ass baby.” or “Stop being a baby, bitch.”) intended to insult someone? Several dozen. The number of times in my life I’d heard the words “bitch” and “baby” combined as…
  • My Big K.R.I.T. Conundrum

    Panama Jackson
    20 Nov 2014 | 10:00 am
    I really want to like Big K.R.I.T. I keep trying. But it’s not working. Everybody sings his praises. He’s one of the more highly touted artists out right. His album Cadillactica is getting rave reviews. I enjoy his interviews since he seems to actually have something to say. He’s personable. I’ve even met him and he was cool as a fan. And yet, I find myself not enjoying his body of work at all. This greatly perplexes me for a few reasons: 1) he’s a true southern artist, cut from the cloth of the Scarfaces and Outkasts, etc; 2) he is a producer who has crafted…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • For The Love Of The Game: 10 Celebs Who LOVE Dating Athletes

    jessicabooth
    22 Nov 2014 | 7:46 pm
    Congratulations are in order to Erika Christensen and cyclist Cole Maness—Us Weekly confirmed their engagement this past weekend. The couple has been dating for a while, although you may not have realized it because they keep their relationship relatively quiet. read more
  • 10 Ways Smart Women Choose To Be Really, Truly, Simply HAPPY

    brendadellacasa
    21 Nov 2014 | 4:07 pm
    Lately, I’ve been on a happiness kick, which has resulted in a number of things: the purchase of several Oprah-approved self-help books, Tony Robbins screaming so loud through my computer speakers that my neighbor texted me, and yes, the annoying feeling that my happiness gene had the ability to "jump-start" itself the same way a rusted 1957 Chevy would if it had not been moved since 1957. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 5 Ways To Make Sure Deal Breakers Don't Ruin Your Relationship

    drkarenfinn
    21 Nov 2014 | 2:41 pm
    Deal breakers seem like a good idea, but they often serve as barriers to love rather than as healthy boundaries. YourTango expert Dr. Karen Finn puts a spotlight on how deal breakers hurt our relationships more than they help. She shares 5 ways to start a conversation about healthy expectations rather than threatening our partner with our list of demands. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Need A Good Rom-Com? Check Out 'All Relative' This Weekend

    tom
    21 Nov 2014 | 2:28 pm
    But on to rom-coms. The genre is often unfairly maligned due to formulaic plots, unrealistically dumb decision-making and groan-worthy dialogue; but the same can be said for fair from any cinematic category. Look at the universally beloved Love, Actually or the cult hit The Hammer; formula can be overcome with snappy writing, clever direction and editing and, of course, good acting. That's where the All Relative comes in. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 5 Sneaky Ways Your S.O. Says I Love You (Without Saying A Word)

    kiarras
    21 Nov 2014 | 2:20 pm
    We all know that in the beginning of a relationship, we can feel weird actually saying the words "I love you". So here are are the different ways you show your love for your significant other once you've gotten past that awkward phase! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
 
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • Introducing the Happy Rabbit 2: New Shape and More Power to Make You Even Happier!

    Nicole
    19 Nov 2014 | 6:50 am
    Introducing the Happy Rabbit 2: Natural and G-Spot rabbit vibrators that are even better than the originals. We launched the original Happy Rabbit vibrators in 2012, and they quickly became your favourite Rabbit Vibrators. A welcome change from battery powered vibes, the Happy Rabbits were mains rechargeable and made of silky smooth silicone. So how could the Happy Rabbit get even better? Well, we looked at your customer reviews and took on board your feedback to make an improved, happier rabbit. The new Happy Rabbits are USB rechargeable, have 150% more power, and an improved shape for…
  • Could This Diamond Be Your New Best Friend?

    Lovehoney
    19 Nov 2014 | 3:00 am
    There are already as many types of vibrators as there are ways to use them, but we've found a new shape that's so obvious we can't believe it hasn't been done before. The Bijoux Indiscrets 21 USB Rechargeable Vibrating Diamond (£49.99) is shaped, you guessed it, like a diamond. It also delivers really, really powerful vibrations. Use the pointed tip to deliver precise clitoral stimulation, or let the flat top massage everything from your labia to your neck and shoulders. The possibilities are endless! If your lover's been nagging you for some bling this Christmas, this could be the…
  • Top 10 Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gifts

    Lovehoney
    18 Nov 2014 | 2:00 am
    There's nothing wrong with being a little selfish this Christmas by picking up some sexy lingerie you can both enjoy for under the tree! Lingerie is the classic Christmas present for a reason, whether you're the one dressing up or not. Don't know a bustier from a basque? Check out our Lingerie Guides which are packed with advice on body shape, sizing and buying lingerie as a gift. We've handpicked 10 of our most delectable lingerie sets to have you looking and feeling your sexy finest for the big night. Whether you prefer the flirty look of a cute babydoll or prefer to sizzle in raunchy…
  • Which is the Best TENGA Flip Hole?

    Lovehoney
    17 Nov 2014 | 3:30 am
    When it comes to male sex toys, chances are you've heard of TENGA. This Japanese brand is renowned for making high tech, well-designed toys for men that offer pinpointed stimulation. The most famous TENGA creation has to be the Flip Hole, which is an expertly-designed male masturbator that offers intense, but discreet pleasure. What makes TENGA Flip Holes different from most other male masturbators is that they're not anatomical-shaped and don't try to replicate the female body - instead, their engineers have focused on creating a specialised pleasure system to enhance male pleasure.
  • Top 10 Sexy Christmas Gifts for Men

    Lovehoney
    14 Nov 2014 | 3:30 am
    Looking for the perfect Christmas gift for your man can be both nerve-wracking and mind-boggling. After all, he never wore the tie you got him last year, he has more bath sets than he knows what to do with and choosing the right video game is more than your life's worth. Whether you're shopping for a lover, boyfriend or husband, we've come up with a list of sexy gadgets that are bound to impress. With something for every budget and taste, we promise you'll be a hit on Christmas morning. With everything from cheap but fun stocking fillers to more advanced masturbation aids, take advantage of…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • GREAT SPELL CASTER DR PEACE THAT HELPED ME BRING BACK MY HUSBAND

    19 Nov 2014 | 5:46 pm
    New Opinion - Hello everybody, My name is MORGAN STELLA, I'm fro USA. I am happy given this testimony on this forum on how DR. PEACE of DRPEACRLOVESPELLTEMPLE help to restore my son on drug addiction and getting my husband back to me. My son nearly wreck my happiness,I have super market which he assist on not knowing he has his motives,every night he comes back drunk,it became a big problem to the extent that my husband have to park out of the house,he abandoned me and his siblings, every night I cried seeking for Gods will, until a friend of mine introduce me to a spell caster,she introduced…
  • GREAT SPELL CASTER DR. PEACE THAT HELPED ME BRING BACK MY EX HUSBAND

    19 Nov 2014 | 5:45 pm
    New Answer - Hello everybody, My name is MORGAN STELLA, I'm fro USA. I am happy given this testimony on this forum on how DR. PEACE of DRPEACRLOVESPELLTEMPLE help to restore my son on drug addiction and getting my husband back to me. My son nearly wreck my happiness,I have super market which he assist on not knowing he has his motives,every night he comes back drunk,it became a big problem to the extent that my husband have to park out of the house,he abandoned me and his siblings, every night I cried seeking for Gods will, until a friend of mine introduce me to a spell caster,she introduced…
  • LORD SHINNOK BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST 24 HOURS.

    19 Nov 2014 | 1:48 am
    New Answer - Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also asured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and…
  • I NEED MY EX LOVER BACK CONTACT DR. PEACE FOR HELP +2348110496031

    17 Nov 2014 | 8:35 pm
    New Answer - Hello everybody, My name is MORGAN STELLA, I'm fro USA. I am happy given this testimony on this forum on how DR. PEACE of DRPEACRLOVESPELLTEMPLE help to restore my son on drug addiction and getting my husband back to me. My son nearly wreck my happiness,I have super market which he assist on not knowing he has his motives,every night he comes back drunk,it became a big problem to the extent that my husband have to park out of the house,he abandoned me and his siblings, every night I cried seeking for Gods will, until a friend of mine introduce me to a spell caster,she introduced…
  • THANK YOU DR. PEACE

    17 Nov 2014 | 8:33 pm
    New Answer - Hello everybody, My name is MORGAN STELLA, I'm fro USA. I am happy given this testimony on this forum on how DR. PEACE of DRPEACRLOVESPELLTEMPLE help to restore my son on drug addiction and getting my husband back to me. My son nearly wreck my happiness,I have super market which he assist on not knowing he has his motives,every night he comes back drunk,it became a big problem to the extent that my husband have to park out of the house,he abandoned me and his siblings, every night I cried seeking for Gods will, until a friend of mine introduce me to a spell caster,she introduced…
 
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  • Svakom Gaga

    Adriana
    22 Nov 2014 | 1:25 pm
    Svakom Gaga $180 from Svakom Sex toys and innovation. Sex toys. and. Innovation. Those words sounds really great when you put them together. Indeed, any number of companies want to take your money in exchange for whatever “innovation” they’ve added, even if you’re already seen it before. (-cough- I’m talking to you, Lelo, CEN and Doc Johnson -cough-). I suspect I’m not the only reviewer who cringes whenever she reads the word “innovation.” The thing is, some companies are innovative. My experience with Svakom has generally been that this is one…
  • Love, Yourself

    Adriana
    19 Nov 2014 | 6:39 am
    They say you have to love yourself before others can love you. Or maybe they say you need to love yourself first, before you can love another. And no doubt that a love shared between people who love and respect themselves with be a truer and more respectful love, but they don’t tell you how people will love you anyway. And you’ll love others, too. It will be messier because you’re so far from self-actualization, but this won’t make it any less powerful. And you won’t be able to let people truly love you as long as you don’t believe you’re deserving of…
  • The Girls Bestie Vibe

    Adriana
    10 Nov 2014 | 5:09 am
    Bestie $90 from Good Vibes reviewer’s remorse noun 1. overwhelming regret upon using or opening a sex toy for the first time and knowing instantaneously that there’s no way you can like it — and you can’t even send it back for a refund because it was free! 2. theme of this post Let’s set the stage shall we? I am so excited for new brands that sometimes I let my excitement get the best of me. I forget to check all-important stats such as length or girth or, God forbid, power source! of a toy. Or I forget that I really don’t like clitoral stimulators shaped…
  • JO So Fresh! Hygiene Cream for Women

    Adriana
    5 Nov 2014 | 7:06 pm
    JO So Fresh! Hygiene Cream for Women $14.99 from System Jo I generally like System Jo’s lubes and massage products, but my experience with their bath and body products has been hit or miss. For example, their feminine spray? Pretty good. Their shaving cream and pheremone deodorant? Meh. I was excited to hear about some of their new products and reached out to see if I could do a review. The folks over there kindly said, “Yes.” Thanks, guys! One of the products I received was the Hygiene Cream for Women. The site describes it as a product that ” delivers long lasting…
  • Why You Should Design Your Own Bondage Accessories

    Adriana
    4 Nov 2014 | 1:12 pm
    Wearing collars, cuffs or ankle restraints is often an expression of your style and personality if you’re into the bondage scene. Not everyone wants to wear spikes or plain black leather, however; some wearers like different colors or ornaments that reflect their personality or even make a comment about their BDSM relationship. Unfortunately, not everyone is blessed with leather or metalworking skills to customize their leather goods. Purchasing these personal accessories generally means taking whatever happens to be in vogue or available, new or used, even if those items don’t…
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • 10 Clear and Sneaky Signs You’re About to Get Dumped

    Lovepanky
    23 Nov 2014 | 5:20 am
    Just when you thought everything’s okay, your man decides to quit his job… as your boyfriend. Save your relationship by looking out for these signs! By Danielle Anne Suleik People break up in different ways. It can happen gradually, but more often than not, people are victims of sudden and heartbreaking separations. The fault does not always lie with the person leaving. After all, it does take two to tango. Breakups are inevitable when the happiness you used to feel at first is no longer there and cannot be salvaged. Being aware of the problems in your relationship is important. If…
  • 30 Honest Life Truths You Must Know Before Hitting 30

    Lovepanky
    22 Nov 2014 | 11:32 pm
    Hitting the big 3-0 is a monumental step for anyone. Are you equipped with the essential life lessons to make it in the next decade of your life? By Michelle Escultura Let that little factoid sink in for a moment… The transition from your 20’s to your 30’s will not come in predictable increments. Instead, you’ll wake up one day, look in the mirror, and realize, “I’m in my 30’s.” It will feel as if time flew by in the blink of an eye, and you feel as if you’re in a different path. The lessons you learn won’t suddenly come rushing into your head like a tidal wave of wisdom.
  • 10 Foolproof Sex Tips that Every Girl Should Know

    Lovepanky
    22 Nov 2014 | 9:26 am
    Do you feel like you’re not getting the most out of your sex life? Make every steamy session much more enjoyable with these incredibly simple tips! By Michelle Escultura It’s amazing how so many women still feel completely clueless about sex. There are tons of magazines, online articles, video guides and sex gurus out there who are willing to share free information, and yet some women still feel perpetually stuck with enduring jackhammer sex. It shouldn’t be in our nature to just endure bad sex. But we can’t pin the blame solely on the men. Some of them can be just as clueless as we…
  • 8 Taboo Topics to Avoid in a New Relationship

    Lovepanky
    22 Nov 2014 | 4:37 am
    When you’re in a new relationship, some things are better left unsaid, at least for the meantime. Here are the 8 topics you should avoid at all costs. By Danielle Anne Suleik It’s understandable that when you first start dating someone, you want to know everything about them. They probably feel the same way. The best part about dating someone new is getting to know that person until you both grow to like each other more. What should you talk about when you first start dating? First dates are usually accompanied by questions surrounding your work, goals and general interests. You discuss…
  • 9 Most Effective Ways to Be a More Romantic Guy

    Lovepanky
    21 Nov 2014 | 10:58 pm
    Whether you’ve been together for years or you’ve just started seeing each other, you’ll be sure to sweep her off her feet with these romantic moves! By Eli Walton When most guys decide they want to do something romantic for their wife or girlfriend, they usually just buy her flowers or chocolates and take her out to dinner. While there’s nothing wrong with these things, they do lack creativity. They aren’t exactly original. [Read: Spice up your usual dinner date with these 13 ideas] But there’s so much more a man can do to show a woman how he feels. It can range from…
 
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    Peck and Call Girls: Modern Courtesans, Virtual Assistants Of Sex

  • Feel Free To Substitute “Detective Police Officer” With “Phone Sex Operator” *wink*

    Peck and Call Girls
    9 Nov 2014 | 2:43 pm
    “You seem to have quite a taste for discussing these horrible subjects,” she said, rather scornfully; “you ought to have been a detective police officer.” “I sometimes think I should have been a good one.” “Why?” “Because I am patient.” Mary Elizabeth Braddon, Lady Audley’s Secret
  • It’s Constitutional

    Peck and Call Girls
    10 Aug 2014 | 2:14 am
    Why, I can’t help smiling at people, and speaking prettily to them. I know I’m no better than the rest of the world; but I can’t help it if I’m pleasanter. It’s constitutional. Mary Elizabeth Braddon, Lady Audley’s Secret
  • What’s Sexiest?

    Peck and Call Girls
    13 Jun 2014 | 8:17 pm
    There was a time when men thought it was sexy to have a housewife waiting for him to come home from work in her slippers, but in modern society, I think an independent woman is even more sexy. — Katerina Graham We would ask you which one was sexist to you — but then why choose? *wink*
  • The Full Return Of Secondhand Rose

    Peck and Call Girls
    4 Apr 2014 | 4:27 pm
    Those of you have been eagerly awaiting the return of Secondhand Rose and her new blog may rejoice! She’s just launched her new website, Ruined Boudoir. Stop by and say “Hi”, why don’t you?
  • New Digs!

    Peck and Call Girls
    19 Feb 2014 | 2:51 am
    As you likely noticed, we’re updating our website! We heard your requests for a site that would be easier to read, including on mobile devices, and true to our innermost desire to meet your needs, we’re working on it! To be notified when the site is completely updated (and to keep in the loop with other Peck & Call Girls news), please sign up for our new newsletter. Yes, we’ve also fixed the newsletter issues by finding a better newsletter service. If you had subscribed to the old newsletter, you will need to resubscribe. (Sorry about that extra step.) [wysija_form…
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  • Voice Actors & Actresses Needed For Paying Audio Erotica Gigs

    Phone Sex Secrets
    17 Nov 2014 | 8:42 am
    I’ve been contacted by a new company to give them a hand finding voice talent for their recorded erotic stories. They are looking for voice talent — especially male voice talent — to create (record) their erotic audio fantasies for women. While I’ve no experience with this company, this could be a great source of […]
  • Work Your Phone Sex Blog Like A Vintage Stag Film

    Phone Sex Secrets
    13 Nov 2014 | 4:18 am
    You’ve probably heard about the old stag films, maybe even seen a few. But do you understand their magic? Naughty and even nudie films have a long history, dating back to the early 1900s. While all these forerunners of today’s porn are sometimes referred to as “blue” movies, stag films held a specific audience and […]
  • Ignore Lines, Financial Domination & Other Femdom Phone Sex Games

    Phone Sex Secrets
    12 Nov 2014 | 10:43 am
    For those of you interested in understanding financial domination, ignore lines, and other erotic humiliations in phone sex, there’s a great article at Sex Kitten: Ignore Me, I’ll Pay You; Blackmail Me, I’ll Pay You Again. I would have linked to this article, even if I hadn’t been included in it. Really!
  • Oh For Gawd’s Sake, Learn How To Properly Blog

    Phone Sex Secrets
    12 Oct 2014 | 5:34 am
    Not to be all bitchy-mcbitch-pants or beat a dead horse or anything, but… I don’t think NiteFlirt (or whoever is in charge of their blog) really understands what they are doing with a blog &/or social media. I mean it is a chronic problem. And it’s starting to work my last nerve. This latest example […]
  • Phone Sex Secrets — Three Years A Superhero?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    4 Oct 2014 | 9:57 pm
    When I started Phone Sex Secrets nearly three years ago, I had no idea how important the site would be — or how busy I would be! In honor of nearly three years, I’ve decided to make the time to take my own advice and brand myself better. Step One: revamped the site — the […]
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  • 6 Movie Myths About Sex That Are Totally Wrong

    Svetlana Ivanova
    20 Nov 2014 | 2:00 am
    People form a lot of their ideas about sex and relationships from movies, but some of what we see is just wrong. We all know the movies don’t necessarily contain the most accurate depictions of actual life. Or do we? Whether we realize it or not, we all pick up subtle things from movies that Continue reading →(Visited 19 times, 5 visits today)
  • How to Escalate Sex and Talk Dirty to Women

    Svetlana Ivanova
    13 Nov 2014 | 4:00 am
    Marni reveals how men can escalate sex and talk dirty to women.(Visited 116 times, 4 visits today)
  • 11 Sex Things Women Don’t Care About

    Svetlana Ivanova
    8 Nov 2014 | 2:00 am
    Men can relax a bit. Lane Moore reveals eleven sex things women don’t care about (too much). 1. If you have ripped abs. Let me tell you, some girls find that seriously overwhelming. Sometimes guys are so cut and toned it looks like they have some sort of disturbing growth coming from their lower body. Continue reading →(Visited 290 times, 7 visits today)
  • Make Love Like a Pro with These 6 Stellar Moves

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    If your sex life is lacking a certain special something, try one of these six stellar moves, says Nadia Langworthy. When you first start dating a guy, things in the bedroom are so fun and exciting, right? He’s a new body and you have some discovering to do together. You (hopefully) let each other know Continue reading →(Visited 215 times, 2 visits today)
  • 6 Hot Blow Job Techniques

    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Doing the same old thing every time you give a blow job will quickly get boring to your man, so it’s important that you vary your technique. That said, the most important technique you need to give a great blow job is not a technique, but an attitude. Show your enthusiasm! Men don’t just want Continue reading →(Visited 655 times, 11 visits today)
 
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  • Losing Track

    Molly Moore
    22 Nov 2014 | 5:53 pm
    Me: I am going out for a walk, I will be about an hour Him: OK, see you soon Three hours later…. Text Message: Where are you, this is way over an hour? Me: Sorry, I wandered off the track and lost my panties over a tree Related Posts: Tomboy Write On… Fertile Fields Adam’s…
  • 20 of 2014

    Molly Moore
    20 Nov 2014 | 7:45 am
    As I said last year it seems a tradition has been born as this will be my third year of publishing a list of my favourite blogs of the year. As part of my job as editor of Elust and Sinful Sunday, as well as just being an active member of the sex blogging community…
  • Un-Holey

    Molly Moore
    16 Nov 2014 | 1:32 pm
    I seem to have almost missed the Kink of the Week deadline for this topic so with that in mind I am going to rattle through this topic as quickly as possible. For the first 30+ years of my life the only piercings I had were my ears. Pretty standard stuff really, I am fairly…
  • Elust 64

    Molly Moore
    16 Nov 2014 | 12:30 pm
    Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust #64 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #65? Start with the…
  • Tomboy

    Molly Moore
    15 Nov 2014 | 4:24 pm
    Sometimes lady, sometimes Tomboy but always woman…. Related Posts: Losing Track Write On… Fertile Fields Adam’s Apple Forget The World
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  • Bondage Award Best Female Dom Results

    Ms. Justine
    22 Nov 2014 | 3:19 am
    Let’s play. The complete list of the Winners of the Bondage Awards 2014 was finally released–and I was 5th! Up from 10th from the 2012 Bondage Awards (They did not run in 2013.) I’m happy to place at all with so many talented and lovely dommes that were nominated. Also my playspace Dungeon West won 2nd place! Up from 3rd from the 2012 Bondage Awards. Thank you for all your votes! The post Bondage Award Best Female Dom Results appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • Los Angeles Footnight November 20

    Ms. Justine
    20 Nov 2014 | 12:20 am
    You know what to do. I will be at
  • Keep A Breast Fundraiser Update

    Ms. Justine
    14 Nov 2014 | 1:18 am
    Thank you everyone who donated to my fundraiser! I raised $910 total, a little short of my $1250 goal but I’m still very happy. You can still donate to the cause, but my incentives have ended. The winner of the free session with me is: JH. Please contact me to schedule an appt. This makes me really happy, again, I thank you! The post Keep A Breast Fundraiser Update appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • New Photoset: Los Angeles Footnight September 2014

    Ms. Justine
    7 Nov 2014 | 8:51 am
    I do love to tease you. Check out my latest photoset from Los Angeles Footnight September. The next Footnight will be November 20 and yours truly will be there. Of course, I enjoy making out with Mistress Natalie West even more. And don’t forget how much fun doubles with Me and Mistress Natalie West are! Can’t worship my feet in person? Worship me from afar by purchasing my foot fetish clips here: Copyright @ Mistress Justine Cross I also sell used socks, nylons and shoes. Contact me for more details. The post New Photoset: Los Angeles Footnight September 2014 appeared first on…
  • Los Angeles dominatrix: New Photoset Rubberdom

    Ms. Justine
    31 Oct 2014 | 5:25 am
    Everything you do is wrong. Prepare to be punished for it. I’ve shot more photos in Los Angeles as a dominatrix this year than ever before so I hope you are enjoying my constant content. I shot this set in Dungeon West in the beginning of this year and I’m really excited to finally show them to you! View the rest of the set on my Gallery. Credits: Location: Dungeon West Latex: Syren The post Los Angeles dominatrix: New Photoset Rubberdom appeared first on Justine Cross.
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  • Elust #64

    E[lust]
    16 Nov 2014 | 12:29 pm
    Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust #64 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #65? Start with the rules, come back December1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! On a special note I want to mention that the judges voting on Elust is often very close, this month more than most. You all do such fine work that it is very hard for us…
  • Elust #64 open for Submission

    E[lust]
    1 Nov 2014 | 7:39 am
    Elust #64 Open for Submissions Welcome to the November Edition of Elust. As always you continue to impress us with the breadth and depth of your amazing writing and we expect November to continue that fine tradition. Keep us warm this Autumn with your very hot writing! We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show…
  • Elust #63

    E[lust]
    15 Oct 2014 | 1:27 pm
    Photo courtesy of A to sub Bee Welcome to Elust #63 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am Sexy at Every Size Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM Hovering ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Show Me, Daddy The…
  • Elust #63 Open for Submissions

    E[lust]
    2 Oct 2014 | 4:12 pm
    Elust #63 Open for Submissions Welcome to the October Edition of Elust. We do apologize for the delay in having Elust open but our hosting company was subjected to a DDOS attack that could have been stopped by paying ransom. While we are very pleased that they decided not to pay and work out another solution the result was that we have been down until just a few hours ago, since it has been a two day delay we have decided to extend the submission deadline until the 10th. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on…
 
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  • 6-year blogiversary giveaway winners!

    Epiphora
    21 Nov 2014 | 10:22 pm
    I say this every year, but HOLY FUCK, PEOPLE. You went nuts in my 6-year blogiversary giveaway. Over 3,600 individual souls entered, 2,200 people reblogged on Tumblr, and I lost count of the number of tweets long ago. Also, 1,900 of you filled out a survey about my blog, which blows my mind. I haven’t had a chance to go through the responses yet, but I’m sure they will be invaluable in my blog’s growth. So thank you! A lot of you have been asking what the most popular prize packs were. The top three were the Stronic Eins + Ako, Magic Wand + Pure Plug,…
  • Review: Hula Beads

    Epiphora
    19 Nov 2014 | 11:53 am
    Imagine a cat with its head tilted to the side in puzzlement. That is me whenever I use the LELO Hula Beads… only a lot less cute. It’s a head tilt that turns to a subtle wince that melts into a side eye and ends with a weary sigh. The confusion begins with the fact that the Hula Beads are not kegel exercisers, I guess, but are still called Beads, just like LELO’s wonderful Luna Beads kegel balls. The Hula Beads are shaped like conjoined orbs, but that’s where the similarity ends. So what are they? They’re rechargeable, waterproof, remote-controlled…
  • 15 things I learned buying a house as a sex blogger

    Epiphora
    10 Nov 2014 | 5:35 pm
    Most of my summer was spent in the throes of buying a house, an experience that was completely new to me. As a person who earns most of their income through nefarious and elusive internet means, as well as a person who masturbates frequently and more peculiarly than most, I had some… unique considerations as a home buyer. My sex blogging played an interesting role not only in income verification and loan approval, but also in house hunting and logistically moving my 400+ sex toys safely from point A to point B. Here’s what I learned along the way. Those spreadsheets and…
  • Review: Sqweel Go

    Epiphora
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:03 pm
    “IT’S SO GODDAMN CUTE,” I stammered upon opening the Lovehoney Sqweel Go. I actually cooed over it, like an idiot. I don’t normally care if sex toys are “cute,” but this toy reminded me of a hamster or hedgehog or something. It was actually smaller than I’d imagined, which pretty much never happens. There was another reason for my excitement as well. It appeared Lovehoney had taken my advice, FINALLY, after YEARS. I wrote about the first Sqweel in 2009: . . . to really excel as a clitoral stimulator, the Sqweel would need to shrink by 50%,…
  • 6-year blogiversary giveaway — 37 sex toy prizes!

    Epiphora
    21 Oct 2014 | 3:02 pm
    October is the month when the leaves start turning, my sweaters finally get put to good use, and I celebrate that one time 6 years ago I thought it might be fun to start a blog. As has become tradition, I launch an epic blogiversary giveaway each October. Each year I have outdone myself, and last year I gave away 18 prizes. Naturally, this year, I’m giving away 37… 52 if you count all the bottles of lube. Because that’s not setting myself up for failure next year or anything. So quoth my friend, “one of these days you’ll just give away a whole store.”…
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  • my metastatic mind

    SexyLittleIdeas
    22 Nov 2014 | 7:23 pm
    or Rambling Ideas About the 2 Sides of HumanityI’m 30. What does 30 feel like? I’m not sure. I guess I don’t know what other 30 year olds feel like. I know good and well that I’ve been alive and doing things and thinking for 30 years. I don’t feel “established” or settled down in any way in that thinking or in my mind. It’s always changing depending on new information and circumstances.Some people already know what they think and how they think.Me, not yet.It’s like the difference between science and religion. Science is 100% sure about…
  • feminist rape

    SexyLittleIdeas
    9 Nov 2014 | 12:45 pm
    or MonstersEvery time I sit down to write, I struggle with whether to just keep it fluffy and sticky sweet or to go off on some crusade. I’m no crusader, but there are things that bug me about men and about women and about the way they stick it to each other.Today’s crusade is against feminist violence toward men. Feminist violence against men is a particularly ironic kind of violence due to a few easy-to-grasp concepts.First, let’s keep a few things clear from the beginning. Rape is evil. I don’t rape. Men are always raping women, and women rarely rape men.
  • blind sex

    SexyLittleIdeas
    1 Nov 2014 | 11:27 am
     or The Dark Side of SexThe last thing I see is the lamplight glinting yellow off her bronze body as the blindfold falls over my eyes.I find her in the darkness. My fingertips whisper to me the softness of skin but they can’t tell me where they’ve landed. Lost in a jungle of skin on a foreign planet of skin. The only thing to do is to explore.It’s a neck. Her neck. My fingers trace her jaw line up to her ear and then along her cheekbone where they tell me that her blindfold is also firmly in place. Eyes have been extinguished for the night.Her hands on both sides of my head…
  • scream to me

    SexyLittleIdeas
    25 Oct 2014 | 11:07 am
    #3: Scream to MeSexyLittleIdeas.com – Replica SeriesPreviously – #2 Afterglow This is not a replica of a painting but a graphite-and-ink line art representation of a photo of an emo singer back in the genre’s 2000-ish glory days. To my discredit, I couldn’t find the original photo or who it is or what exactly he’s saying, but it probably has something to do with his profound care of and desire toward his fellow bandmates. Which is sexy.The simplicity and intensity of this piece makes it one of my favorites I’ve ever done.
  • sex hangover

    SexyLittleIdeas
    19 Oct 2014 | 11:30 am
     Possible Symptoms:Tired, aching limbsScratch marks down the chest and backMultiple bite marks on the shoulders and neckHoarse voiceStinging scalp, particularly at the roots of the hairFatigued tongue musclesWrinkled fingertipsTenderness in the genital areaMissing clothing or jewelry items or footwearA deep-seated feeling of peace and that all is well with the world
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  • Lucy Devil

    meisteryak
    22 Nov 2014 | 9:29 am
    Left to right: Bridget Leonard, Pamela Green, Roy Pointer, Jackie Salt, Angela Jones and Petrina Forsyth Rare photo of Roy Pointer (1923–2004), the cinematographer of Naked As Nature Intended, with the stars of the film. Roy Pointer went on to work with Pamela Green and George Harrison Marks on Chimney Sweeps (1963). In the 1970s he worked on several British Sex Comedies, such as Suburban Wives (1972), Girl from Starship Venus (1975) and Secrets of a Superstud (1976). Eventually Roy ended up working alongside Douglas Webb on the hit TV show The Sweeney before moving on to Minder. Share
  • Jean Straker: Figure Studies

    meisteryak
    10 Nov 2014 | 8:42 am
    A couple of intriguing photos by the underrated Jean Straker (1913-1984). His work remind me a little of the American photographer William Mortensen. To find out more about Jean Straker read my earlier posts. Thanks to Nigel W. for the scans. Photo by Jean Straker Venus by Jean Straker Share
  • The Camay Complexion

    meisteryak
    9 Nov 2014 | 8:05 am
    At the start of her modelling career Pamela Green used to do magazine ads for Lily of France, Cidal Soap and others. Here’s a rare photo that was taken for Camay Soap. This is a very early photo as Pamela still had long dark hair. Would love to see the advert if any one has a scan. Pamela Green models for Camay Soap. Share
  • Otto Und Die Nackte Welle (1968)

    meisteryak
    30 Jul 2014 | 11:03 am
    One of George Harrison Marks’s lesser known movie credits is for the German comedy Otto und die Nackte Welle (Otto and the Nude Wave). I’ve not seen the film but from what I gather Otto makes wildlife documentaries. Out filming one day he comes across a Von Noeltinghoff filming some nude girls. In revenge for some slight Noeltinghoff incorporates shots from his film into Otto’s wildlife documentary. It’s all a bit of a farce. From the lobby cards below there seems to be several clips from the Naked World of Harrison Marks (1967) in the German film. If anyone knows more please…
  • Teri Martine (1944- )

    meisteryak
    15 Jul 2014 | 12:01 pm
    Here’s a bit of info about the ever-popular Teri Martine. I sure lots of my readers can add to this. I think Pamela Green and Teri Martine only met once. By the time Teri was modelling for George Harrison Marks Pam had taken a back set in the business. Teri Martine was born in 1944, in Southend, Essex. In her late teens she answered a modelling ad in the local newspaper The Southend Standard. At the interview in front of the lens she felt awkward, but luckily she was very photogenic and it led to her first booking. It was an amateur camera club at the same studio she was interviewed in.
 
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Bettie Page: last years and Hugh Hefner

    balmmaker
    21 Nov 2014 | 10:22 am
    [Continued from Bettie Page's Mental Breakdown ]The notorious Bettie Page, found herself released from a mental institution years after stabbing her landlord multiple times in a schizophrenic episode. When she was released, she found herself completely broke and destitute.  It was around this time that she was contacted by the President of the Bettie Scouts of America who had been searching for her -- informed her that she was loved and adored by millions. She had no idea. Steven, president of the Bettie Page fan club took her to a book store and showed her an entire end cap…
  • Bettie Page's Mental Breakdown

    balmmaker
    3 Nov 2014 | 8:45 am
    [Continued from What Really Happened to Bettie Page]Part of the explanation for how and why Bettie Page went from a pin up icon, bondage queen and playboy centerfold to disappearing completely was she found religion and went into a very religious surrounding. Beyond that, her life took a turn for the worse with mental illness that kept her out of the spotlight.Bettie Page went to Peabody's Teacher's College in 1965. Then she got tired of it all and in 1966 went to Miami and started going out dancing again. One night she met Harry E. Lear, "She didn't look like a model of any kind. But she was…
  • Jian Ghomeshi

    balmmaker
    1 Nov 2014 | 11:58 pm
    I did a post a few days ago on BDSM and Consent and the Law and apparently I was completely mistaken. My sexpet informed me that she's seen multiple incriminating reports about CBC Radio host Jian Ghomeshi pointing to him being, in the words of my slave, 'a douche dom'.First off his PR firm dropped him...which is never a good sign considering they will generally help smooth over that appearance you had at a Klu Klux Klan meeting (sidenote: those ignorant hillbillies should have checked the dictionary in order to spell clan correctly before getting their stationary printed up and then saying,…
  • Women like Porn (Porn Survey Results)

    balmmaker
    1 Nov 2014 | 8:33 am
    There is a persistent myth out there that women don't like porn and that women are not turned on by visual media in the same way as men are.  This fact is completely wrong and clearly disproven by science however.With women not being turned on by visual stimulation...it has been shown with magnetic resonance imaging (MRIs) that women actually respond more to sexual images than men. That's right. The sexual areas of the brain light up brighter and significantly faster when women are shown porn compared to men.  In fact, flash a penis on the screen for the briefest amount of time and…
  • Halloween Slutwear vs. Slut-Shaming

    balmmaker
    31 Oct 2014 | 3:54 pm
    This is my favorite costume on this page!Yes, Hallowe'en is upon us again and the truth of female nature is allowed to express itself as Halloween is the one day that any girl can wear any slutty costume she chooses without risk of judgement.And what happens? Girl come out in force wearing skimpy, sexy clothes that show off their assets so they can get laid.  Why? My theory is that girls love cock, love getting laid and want it to happen often -- and yet society represses them and judges what they wear so the amount they get laid is diminished.  But come Halloween night, girls are…
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    EroticZeitgeist

  • Sexual fantasies of men and women

    eroticzeitgeist
    21 Nov 2014 | 9:44 am
    Everybody have sexual fantasies. No reason to be ashamed of that. In this blog, I will give you the main results from a study published in 2014 about the subject. One of the overall findings is that both men and women have many sexual fantasies but men have significantly more than women do. Many of the fantasies are the same but they have different popularity among men and women. Unusual fantasies Two sexual fantasies are very unusual for both men and women. That is sex with a child under the age of 12 and having sex with an animal. Besides these very rare fantasies, the study found nine…
  • This is what is sexually arousing for women

    eroticzeitgeist
    20 Nov 2014 | 10:07 am
    Women get sexually aroused when they are exposed to different cues. In general women don’t (as opposed to men) experience spontaneous feelings of sexual desire very frequently. There has to be some kind of triggers present before women get sexually aroused These triggers can both be internal and external. The different cues are divided in to four main categories: Emotional bonding cues: women respond to situations where they feel close to, and loved by a (potential) partner. Explicit erotic cues: being in a sexual situation, feeling a partner’s sexual excitement or watching/reading…
  • Can online actions be called cheating behavior?

    eroticzeitgeist
    14 Nov 2014 | 9:42 am
    In the modern world the potential temptations when it comes to other partners than the one at home is increasing. The internet has for years offered chat rooms and dating sites of all kinds and now we are also increasingly tempted by app’s on the smart phones which makes potential new partners accessible 24/7. I have written a blog before about what people regard as infidelity. This focused on the difference between emotional and physical infidelity. In a recent study, online actions are included and the difference between genders are analyzed. Definition of infidelity In The Cambridge…
  • Danish men have many sex partners

    eroticzeitgeist
    12 Nov 2014 | 10:28 am
    In a Danish study with more than 22.000 participant’s male sexual behavior were analyzed. The men in the study have had an average of 8 sex partners during their life time. About 40% have had sex with more than 10 partners and 9% have only had sex with one partner. Not surprising the number of sex partners increases with age and for men above 40 of age 50% have had sex with more than 10 partners. The study finds that 11% of the Danish men have had sex with a prostitute. Again, this raises with age and for men above 40 it is 14% who have visited a prostitute. Profile of men with many sex…
  • Women needs changing sex partners – regularly

    eroticzeitgeist
    17 Sep 2014 | 10:50 am
    For years, it has been acknowledged that men have a need for variety when it comes to sex partners – they need to spread their semen. Most people also accept than men have a greater need for sex in general and a stronger sex drive than women have. This is often used as an excuse for male infidelity. However, is this true? An American and a German study have analyzed how men and women react sexually when they are exposed to habitual sex and when they are in long term relationships. Sexual boredom In the American study, the researchers wanted to find out whether there is a difference…
 
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    Naughty Reenie | Naughty Reenie

  • Review: Eroscillator 2 Plus

    NaughtyReenie
    31 Oct 2014 | 9:13 am
    The Eroscillator is mind blowing. The Eroscillator is life changing. The Eroscillator is revolutionary. You need to listen to Piph’s advice and get this shit if you have a clitoris. Seriously. This is the best thing in existence, and your clitoris will forever thank you for this. I know it might be a bit hard to swallow when I’m telling you to splurge $140 on something so… I can’t even find words to describe it. But I’ve been there. I mean…I was willing to spend $170 on this shitty toy and get myself depressed when I knew about the Eroscillator. Yep…all because of how it looks.
  • Review: Exotic-Erotics Phoenix Small

    NaughtyReenie
    9 Sep 2014 | 4:31 pm
    It took me two months to finally decide to shove the Phoenix inside of me. Not because the 2” bulb was traumatising. Well, ok, maybe a little bit. But it was mainly because I’ve learned that my body was able to orgasm through penetration only. Since that day, I’ve been craving for…actually more addicted to smooth, non-textured, thrustable dicks. And the Phoenix looked like a big mood-killer with those two huge bulbs sticking out on the shaft. It looked no where even near thrustable, and so I just left it there, sitting at the corner of my desk. However, it didn’t leave me in peace.
  • Hedovibes: Roudup #55

    NaughtyReenie
    20 Aug 2014 | 8:15 am
    Photo courtesy of Property Of Potter Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition. CONTESTS Can’t Get Enough…
  • Review: Picobong Moka

    NaughtyReenie
    9 Aug 2014 | 8:18 am
    Picobong Moka spiked my curiosity when I first saw it. My mind was immediately like: “OMG! A VIBRATING LELO ELLA?! Deal! It’s mine!” But when I noticed that it required two AAA batteries to operate, my brain shoved the Moka out of my memory, and I carried on with my life. I mean… There’s no way that a toy requiring AAA battery was going to be powerful or rumbly or even feel good, right? But I was wrong. The Moka actually feels very good. So good, in fact, that I love it more than I love the Ella. The Moka is like the ultimate evolution of it – the shape is better, the curve…
  • Review: Jopen Comet Wand

    NaughtyReenie
    26 Jul 2014 | 4:52 am
    It took me eight months, eight freaking months to conquer the Comet Wand. My vagina is finally becoming a boss, but damn did it take a lot of crying, bruised vagina, and courage. It was somewhere in August 2013 when the Comet Wand entered Sextopia. Back then, the Comet Wand and I just didn’t click. I hated it: I hated how it made my body felt, I hated how it made me scared, and I hated how it made my body react. If I had published my review back then, I would have trashed it. It just didn’t work for me. The number of times I curled into a ball in tears and the number of times I just…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • Announcing “The Sexcessful Workshop Seminar: Professional Support for Sex Educators”

    Pavini Moray
    17 Nov 2014 | 10:30 am
      Starting January, 2015!  Effective Skills for Designing, Marketing and Presenting Sexuality Workshops that change the world. An eight-week online program designed to support you through the process of creating a sexuality workshop full of your uniquely brilliant content,  which is well-attended and financially sustainable! Discount for new sex educators.  Early Bird Pricing ends Dec. 15.  LEARN MOREFiled under: […]
  • Watch the Video: How I masturbated in public and became a teacher of Sexual Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    14 Oct 2014 | 10:03 am
    Here’s the video of my Mystery Box Story!  Enjoy!  Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Practice, Masturbation, Reclaiming Sexuality, Resistance, Sexual Liberation Tagged: masturbate, masturbation ritual, mystery box, sexual liberation
  • How I masturbated in public and became a teacher of Sexual Liberation: PART ONE

    Pavini Moray
    13 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    My job is walking with my clients on their path to sexual liberation.   I meet my clients where they are in terms of their sexuality, and together we discover the blocks, traumas, and limiting beliefs that stand between them and the deeper erotic life that is possible for them.   It’s a process.  Along the way, there […]
  • La Pocha Nostra Performance

    Pavini Moray
    9 Sep 2014 | 11:29 am
    NEW BARBARIANS 3.0:  A Pocha Nostra X-treme Fashion Show & Photo-performance karaokeSaturday, September 13th  7:00 PM. On Saturday, September 13th, I will be performing in this. La Pocha Nostra’s two-week residency at Fort Mason ends with an exciting evening public performance in two-parts. Part one will include a live “photo karaoke” session in collaboration with […]
  • Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    6 Aug 2014 | 2:19 pm
    With great pleasure that I announce: My new 40-page ebook called “Free Your Sex! Your Toolkit for Erotic Liberation” is now available for free download!    This book contains 16 of the best tools I know to help you deepen into pleasure, and get the intimacy and transformation you need in your sexuality.   I hope you […]
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    My Pleasure Box - UNDERCOVER PLEASURES

  • MyPleasureBox.com Lands 2015 XBIZ Awards Nomination

    Anida Leeds
    14 Nov 2014 | 1:52 pm
    LOS ANGELES — MyPleasureBox.com has been named for the second consecutive year, an official finalist nominee for the adult industry’s awards event of the year, the 2015 XBIZ Awards, presented by Fleshlight. MyPleasureBox.com has received a nomination in the award category Online Retailer of the Year - Pleasure Products. Nominees for the 2015 XBIZ Awards were selected based on a record 8,000 pre-nominations submitted to XBIZ by members of the industry throughout the world via XBIZ.net. My Pleasure Box is proud to have been selected for this prestigious award for the second consecutive…
  • The Best Sex Toys for Couples

    Anida Leeds
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:30 am
    Cutting edge vibrators are all the craze these days. Why keep all the fun to yourself? Here's how to play together with the best sex toys for couples. "Not only do women who use toys report a host of pleasure perks, but guys say vibes increase sexual desire, erectile and orgasmic function, and intercourse satisfaction," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a Women's Health Magazine sexuality advisor. This increase pleasure has made his-and-her vibrators the hottest trend in sexy accessories. Ready to move beyond the rabbit vibrator? These new options are fun to enjoy solo but were created…
  • Six FREE guides for better sex, by Doc Johnson

    Anida Leeds
    6 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    An informed shopper is a happy customer. We are pleased to offer Six Free Guides for your reading enjoyment. These helpful pamphlets will help you make an informed shopping decision for your adult toys, by one of the best companies in the industry, Doc Johnson. Oral Sex Guide Good-Head for Him and Ora-love for Her, The Oral Sex Guide provides tips, tricks, and product picks for satisfying your lover into absolute gratification! Complete with diagrams of the female & male anatomy 'down there', with pleasure points for hitting the spot right for a night filled with oral delight! Click to…
  • Sexual Education - 3 Steps to Sexual Success

    Anida Leeds
    25 Aug 2014 | 12:17 pm
    Summer is coming to an end and you need that last bit of advice before the crazy daze of college are here. We put together 3 steps to help fulfill your sexual desire. Follow these steps and you are sure to succeed. Step 1 - About Penis Size It’s a common misconception, and widely held fear, that large penises rule the world of sexual happiness. In the reality of biology, 90% of erect penises measure 5-7 inches in length, and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're concerned that your penis is too small, you can rest assured that you are in good company. In a land led by Texans, our media and…
  • 10 Life Hacks for Better Sex

    Anida Leeds
    11 Aug 2014 | 11:57 am
    Life hacks are everywhere. There are hacks on folding your shirts, hanging up dry clothes, etc. Those are all fine and dandy but the life hacks I enjoy are the sexual life hacks. Bellow are 10 to get you started, have your own? Let us know in the comments bellow. 1. Headphones and blindfold during oral sex. - Before going down, put on some music and put the headphones on her. Blindfold her or cover her eyes with a towel. Try turning off all the lights if its dark and keep the music going. The sensory deprivation magnifies the sensations she feels as you pleasure her. 2. It’s all about the…
 
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    The Love Hawk

  • The One Thing That Could be Preventing You from Having a Successful Relationship

    thelovehawk
    13 Nov 2014 | 10:31 am
    We all like to think of ourselves as pretty decent when it comes to relationships. We’ve been in good ones, in bad ones, in relationships that have tested our faith and our souls and other relationships that have sent us over the moon with joy. But with every different scenario we have faced in the world of dating we still can’t seem to figure out why things never seem to work out for us. While some relationships fail for reasons beyond our control, other times we don’t even let relationships begin because we’re too scared to get hurt–again. We push people away and keep them at…
  • Don’t Be an Online Dating Creep

    thelovehawk
    12 Nov 2014 | 4:30 pm
    Everyone seems to be doing the internet dating thing these days. Unfortunately, the creepers who think they’re God’s gift to the world are ruining it for the people who may be taking it seriously and looking for something real. Check out this ‘Lifestyles With Sue’ segment on 1045 Fresh FM from a couple of weeks ago about Online Dating. Listen Now: https://soundcloud.com/1045…/lifestyles-oct-23-online-dating
  • When Things Go Awry, Don’t Go Away

    thelovehawk
    19 Oct 2014 | 7:01 pm
    Writing, at first glance, seems pretty easy but in reality it takes time, thought, and a decent amount of guts. Putting yourself out there to be judged by people you know and strangers alike can be a daunting experience, and often times it takes courage and a few deep breaths to post an article you know may ruffle some feathers. My life has taken many drastic turns in the past few months and while I always thought writing was my outlet I actually found myself shying away from it. I had so many thoughts but none that I could articulate and when I was finally able to put words on paper, my…
  • Grow Some What!!?

    thelovehawk
    19 Oct 2014 | 6:04 pm
    Not happy in your relationship anymore? Grow some balls and get out. Listen to The Love Hawk’s advice on “Lifestyles with Sue” on 1045 Fresh FM. Hopefully this can give you or someone you know a push in the right direction. Listen Now: https://soundcloud.com/1045freshfm/lifestyles-october-9-grow-some-what-1
  • Do You Got Game?

    thelovehawk
    19 Oct 2014 | 5:56 pm
    Being successful in the dating world depends more on the confidence you have and how you carry yourself than how you look. It’s all about how you play. Do you got game? The Love Hawk is proud to be part of ‘Lifestyles with Sue’ on 1045 Fresh FM! Listen Now: https://soundcloud.com/1045freshfm/lifestyles-lept-24-the-love-hawk-get-game
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Professional Dominatrix: “It’s Not Sex”

    Lazlo Toth
    23 Nov 2014 | 7:19 am
    MADISON, WYOMING Mistress Katie Von Cruel is up in arms today at the accusation made on a popular fetish website that professional domination is a form of prostitution. “It is not sex,” Von Cruel told The Daily Flogger, “There is nothing sexual about it.  What we do is totally different from prostitutes.” While Von Cruel said she supports all forms of sex work, what she does is more akin to therapy or massage. “When I am putting clothespins on a man’s cock and balls and then tying him up and spanking his ass, it isn’t sexual. For one thing, I am…
  • Man Uncertain About Drink Order at Leather Bar

    Lazlo Toth
    22 Nov 2014 | 7:06 am
    SAN DIEGO, OHIO For James Rawson, 47, stepping into a leather bar was the culmination of years of hard work, self-acceptance, and commitment to fully embrace the “gay leather lifestyle.” “Getting to the bar was the easy part,” Rawson says. “The real dilemma came when the bartender asked me what I wanted to drink.” Rawson, who describes himself as a switch with a heavy masochistic side, said he hadn’t considered either what he wanted or what kind of signal it might send. “Scotch seemed too aggressive and just having a beer would have been to…
  • Movie Review: Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

    Emily Devonshire
    21 Nov 2014 | 7:04 am
    Hi Emily here! I was super excited about seeing the new release of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles because I grew up watching them and they hold a very special place in my heart, memories of youth, innocence and a time when things were less complicated and everything was right with the world. When I saw that the reviews for this movie were dreadful, I knew I just had to see it! I sat in anticipation in the theater wondering which of my memories would be ruined and how I would never be able to regain that youthful feeling of wonder or security I once enjoyed. I wasn’t disappointed. From the…
  • Slave Offers Class in Passive Aggressive Community Service

    Lazlo Toth
    20 Nov 2014 | 7:14 am
    JACKSONVILLE, WASHINGTON This weekend slave emily, 32, offered a first time ever seminar in what she calls “Passive Aggressive Community Service.” According to the experienced slave, “you aren’t going to get paid, or even recognized, so you might as well extract some self-worth and self-esteem the good old fashioned way, by being passive aggressive.” The theory according to slave emily is that those who commit themselves to service in the community generally burn out because they feel like they get nothing in return for all their hard work. In the seminar, she…
  • Dear Annie: Moving for My Master

    Lazlo Toth
    19 Nov 2014 | 7:30 am
    Dear Annie, I’ve met a man online who appears to be the Master of my Dreams. The only issue is that he lives almost 2000 miles away. After 3 months of online chatting he is asking me to uproot my life and move across country to live with him as his full time slave. I think it is the right thing to do, but I would really like some guidance. Timid in Tuscon Dear Timid, Pack your bags and make a change! You can always get another job, find new friends, and start over if it doesn’t work. Worst case scenario, you wind up living in a cage, eating dog food, and being a sex slave for a…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Can I please a woman with a small penis?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    21 Nov 2014 | 5:19 am
    Dr. E answers a question about how to please a woman with a small penis, tackles common concerns about penis size, and shares an important secret for pleasing women. The post Can I please a woman with a small penis? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • TTC Tips for Making Healthy Sperm

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    20 Nov 2014 | 6:23 am
    Healthy sperm (or “swimmers”) are required to make a healthy baby. Find out what limits production and TTC tips to HELP optimize sperm production. The post TTC Tips for Making Healthy Sperm appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Passive Men in the Bedroom

    Guest Author
    17 Nov 2014 | 5:38 am
    Men who are passive and always making the woman direct sex are B O R I N G to be with over the long haul. Guys, if you think you are doing her a favor by acting this way, you aren't. Here is some advice from Betty Dodson's group on this topic. The post Passive Men in the Bedroom appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Is seduction an important part of a couple’s intimacy?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    14 Nov 2014 | 5:44 am
    Dr. E answers the question "Is seduction an important part of a couple's intimacy?" and gives 4 tips to seduce your wife. The post Is seduction an important part of a couple’s intimacy? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • When a Man’s “Member” Fails Him: Erectile Dysfunction Science

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    12 Nov 2014 | 6:41 am
    Loosing, or not being able to get, an erection doesn’t happen in fairy tales, but it does in real life. Many factors can negatively impact a man’s erectile function. The post When a Man’s “Member” Fails Him: Erectile Dysfunction Science appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
 
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    Nighttime Adventures

  • Repenting for Sex Through…More Sex (I)

    sapphosophie
    5 Nov 2014 | 6:46 am
    Needless to say, my encounter with Greg took a toll on me, a bigger one than I had expected. Again, I was feeling trapped. I knew that this guy was worth much more than casual sex, but I wasn’t ready to admit it yet. So, I decided that before our next date, I should cram as much sex as I possibly could. Of course, it also had to be great sex. In order to make sure I will get my fun, I ignored Kevin’s advice and called Mark. Yes, Mark was the perfect guy to show me a great time and even teach me a thing or two. Sadly, he was busy the very night I called him, but promised to meet me…
  • First Fuck, Then Date – A Recipe for Success (II)

    sapphosophie
    31 Oct 2014 | 5:55 am
    [Part 1 here] …and I didn’t say “no”. I followed him back to his place. The anticipation of sex had never been more painful for me. My mind kept replaying scenes from our first night together all the way to his place and, by the time we reached it, I could barely control myself. On the other hand, Greg seemed completely detached, which threw me off a bit. His self-control disappeared instantly the very moment we entered his building. Without saying a word, he pushed me against the wall and kissed me with a brutality I had never felt before. He bit my lower lip hard…
  • First Fuck, Then Date – A Recipe for Success (I)

    sapphosophie
    21 Oct 2014 | 8:23 am
    I have to admit I was a bit surprised when Greg called. It had been a week since our (ahem) meeting, so I had already lost hope. But he had a very good reason, work-related, so I didn’t hold it against him. He suggested we meet for drinks in a bar, then had to a restaurant he loved a lot (Indian food). To be perfectly honest, I was hoping for this date to be a complete fail. I wanted to believe there was nothing there besides great sex. Of course, karma hates me and the guy is absolutely charming. His line of work is fascinating, he is a well-read, perfect gentleman and a sight for sore…
  • Hands Only, Please (II)

    sapphosophie
    13 Oct 2014 | 6:22 am
    [Part 1 here] His apartment was definitely the coldest home I had ever stepped into. Everything was black & white and there was a lot of glass. However, his living room suddenly seemed warmer to me when I noticed the huge piano. That’s when it all started to make sense to me. He wasn’t just a neophyte, a snobbish guy who bought a piano just to make his home look fancier. He told me he was a concert pianist for the city’s philharmonic orchestra. Hence, his skilled hands, of course. He was a man of few words, so we got down to business quite fast. He told me he had always…
  • Hands Only, Please! (I)

    sapphosophie
    6 Oct 2014 | 1:19 pm
    In my last post, I spoke about being on the wonderful subreddit called “Dirty PenPals“. The chats I had there with random people from all over the world made me want to explore even more kinks. I’m not talking about hardcore fetishes (well, not only), but also about things that are out of the ordinary. And, since the best things come to those who wait, I recently had a very pleasant surprise. Yours truly was at a bar, not necessarily looking for sex, but rather keen on observing people. Some sort of real life DPP. Just like every good story, this one also starts when a girl…
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    The Sin Doll

  • Curves

    The Sin Doll
    22 Nov 2014 | 4:39 pm
      The Husband has a thing for pictures after sex. That’s fine with me. Occasionally I’m drawn to one, like this one. Maybe it’s the curves of my ass and my back  that pulls me to the photo. Possibly, it’s my feelings that I relate to it. I know that my cunt was sore, my nipples [...] Related posts: Panty Dropper Frenzy Grace
  • e[lust] #64

    The Sin Doll
    19 Nov 2014 | 11:33 am
    Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust #64 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #65? Start with the [...] Related posts: e[lust] #42 e[lust] #63 e[lust] #62
  • A Back Seat To Kink

    The Sin Doll
    18 Nov 2014 | 9:53 am
    We rode in the backseat. Brian’s friend drove the van. There was plenty of room on the floor. Brian’s dick needed sucking. He was aggressive about pushing it down the back of my throat. His cock was so big, he rarely did that. I knew he didn’t want a regular blowjob. He wanted my mouth [...] Related posts: The Virginity Review Pubes and Peridot Daddy’s Little Liar
  • T.M.I. Tuesday – Night Time is the Right Time

    The Sin Doll
    17 Nov 2014 | 12:24 pm
    TMI Tuesday: Nov. 18, 2014 Posted on November 17, 2014 by TMI Tuesday blog Another Monday, another week, another TMI Tuesday posted. Enjoy Night Time is the Right Time. Fill in the blank 1. When I can’t sleep I - usually take something to knock my ass out. 2. My dream bedroom would be full of – [...] Related posts: Try again?
  • Watch Me

    The Sin Doll
    17 Nov 2014 | 9:05 am
    She grind the most powerful vibe she had against her clit. Metal sat in her ass. It clamped her nipples. It strained her tits. She liked the weight. Her hips bucked back and forth. Her body tightened from her pussy up to her lower belly. She squirted with a guttural moan. It wasn’t a pretty, sexy sound. [...] Related posts: Try again?
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    Wiz's Daily Dose

  • Jenn Stacks @JenStacks_ shoots for entertainmentworldHD @Entertainwhd images by @nuyawker Alx Guzman Photo

    Words by Henny
    23 Nov 2014 | 6:56 am
    Here’s some edits plus video footage of model Jennifer Stacks shooting with Alx Guzman Photography – entertainmentworldHD.com exclusives Follow Jennifer via twitter @JenStacks_ and you can also find her on instagram @jenstacks Jen stacks shot by Chuck Pain and Alx guzman photography for entertainmentworldhd.com’ from Hennywiz on Vimeo.
  • Nikki Giavasis @NikkiGiavasis featured in @stackmodelsinc Magazine “All White Bodysuit” shot by @urbansoulphotog

    Words by Henny
    22 Nov 2014 | 1:37 pm
    Nikki Giavasis featured in stack models inc Magazine “All White Bodysuit” shot by Urbansoul photography As seen gracing the pages if Stack Models Magazine Issue 12, checkout cover model Nikki Giavasis Executive Producer, Author 4 Published Books, Founder of GG Magazine & The Goddess Girls, CEO of Jordan Management Inc, former NFL Cheerleader, talk show host images was shot by Urbansoul Photography. Peep the first set of samples below….. Follow Nikki via twitter @NikkiGiavasis also check her out on instagram @officialnikkigiavasis Checkout the first look here…
  • Sky Marlene @SkyMarlene is NYC Sexy presented by @mixedmagazine

    Words by Henny
    22 Nov 2014 | 10:29 am
    S ky Marlene finally shoots for Mixed Magazine! It’s been over a year of trying to catch up with this Bronx booty babe and we decided to fly to Manhattan to make your dreams come true. Sky Marlene has the booty that you can’t stop looking at. It’s big, round, tan and silky smooth. Sky is a little bit shy but when she gets into the zone there is no stopping her. She loves to stay sexy and always dresses to impress. She always makes sure she has the perfect tan to bring out her baby blue eyes. She often spends time in Miami where she loves to party, model and sunbathe. But you are…
  • Presenting “Guyanese bombshell” Tina Leah @tinatucka images by @cherryimages

    Words by Henny
    21 Nov 2014 | 11:01 am
    We’re dropping another bangin for ya courtesy of Cherry images; checkout Guyanese sensation Tina Leah residing out of the ATL. aspiring you talent with curves. Stay up to date with Tina via instagram @tinatucka
  • Bria Murphy @bria_murphy – Facet Studio (Black Lingerie)

    Words by Henny
    21 Nov 2014 | 6:59 am
    These samples has been circulating heavy amongst the masses; checkout Bria Murphy collabing with Facet Studio in Black Lingerie.  Seen first at cutiecentral.com and dynastyseries.com Follow Bria via twitter @bria_murphy and you can also find her on instagram @bria_murphy
 
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