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  • Men’s Body Shaving: The Complete Guide

    The MaleQ
    Loren Couse
    27 Feb 2015 | 4:01 pm
    Hair is natural.  We all have it, but that is no excuse to let things run wild.   You most likely already cut the hair on the top of your head and keep that beard in check – that is, unless you are a cave man, or a hipster from Portland, Oregon.  So why is it that so many people forget to maintain everything else? Trimmed or clean shaven.  It is really a matter of preference, but doing nothing?  Well, that’s just not cool. So stop making excuses and start looking your best, with and without your clothes. Trim the Bulk First If you are like me then your body hair is spread out…
  • Smile for the Camera: A Vibrator That Gives New Meaning to 'Selfie Stick'!

    Sex Toys Blog
    Sally
    26 Feb 2015 | 6:00 am
    Ever wondered what an orgasm looks like... from the inside? No? Neither did we, but it's now a possibility! The Svakom Gaga Intimate Selfie Camera Vibrator (£119.99) gives a whole new meaning to the 'selfie stick' and allows you to see what happens inside the vagina during climax. This toy is not for the faint-hearted - the built-in illuminated HD camera delivers remarkably-clear, internal footage which, thanks to its FaceTime compatibility, can even be shared with your partner. The vibrator itself is whisper-quiet with six speeds and patterns to choose from meaning that it's not only…
  • Coke is the real thing

    The Virginity Project
    The Virginity Project
    28 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I’ve been brewing this metaphor for years. Or perhaps the word ‘season’ might be more appropriate. Because its usually around this time of year when, in a fit of pre-winter dread and the realization that my summer short/sandal combo is going to make me look a bit simple within a matter of weeks, I panic buy an item of clothing that I am convinced is going to make me look like a French fashion editor for the entirety of winter. Only to discover shortly afterwards that 1. I hate it and 2. It doesn’t suit me. It doesn’t transform me in the way I imagined. The fashion police are not…
  • Dear Sex Toy Shops: Sex Toys are Gender Neutral. Really!

    Dangerous Lilly
    Lilly
    17 Feb 2015 | 4:00 pm
    I started a bit of a rant on Twitter but I really had to go beyond 140 characters. I’ve seen a lot of great sex toy shops and a lot of crap sex toy shops and often it has nothing to do with their selection – it’s how they list their selection. Shops that insist on gendering their wares are honestly baffling to me. I wonder though, do they have any idea that they’re alienating a large portion of the sex toy buying crowd? When I come across a store that immediately makes me choose between “For Him”, “For Her” and “For Couples” I am…
  • Top 5 Best Cock Rings

    The MaleQ
    Loren Couse
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:49 am
    Do you want to spruce up your sex life and add something new to the mix.  Toys and accessories are a great way to mix things up and add some excitement whether you are walking alone or having sex with a partner.  So why use a cock ring? First of all, they help you last longer and can let you go that extra mile.  They will also give you stronger orgasms and most importantly, make your erections rock solid.  Here are the MaleQ’s picks for the top 5 best cock rings. Best Stainless Steel Cock Ring There are a lot of reasons that Stainless steel rings are my go to option.  They are…
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  • SWERF troll letter to $pread magazine (circa 2005), before...

    23 Feb 2015 | 2:11 pm
    SWERF troll letter to $pread magazine (circa 2005), before SWERFs were called SWERFs, with torn up copy of issue 1.2 of the magazine.
  • Women's prison mass jail break after inmates in dominatrix gear handcuff male guards expecting 'mass orgy'

    10 Feb 2015 | 7:30 pm
    Women's prison mass jail break after inmates in dominatrix gear handcuff male guards expecting 'mass orgy': moresongsaboutbuildings: belcanta:theblindsilenceblogs:class-struggle-anarchism: "Police found three wardens naked and handcuffed inside the Nova Mutum public jail, near Cuiaba, central BrazilTwenty-eight inmates escaped from a Brazilian jail after three women in fantasy police costumes “seduced” prison wardens, it was reported today.Police found three wardens naked and handcuffed inside the Nova Mutum public jail, near Cuiaba, central Brazil, the morning after the mass…
  • redupnyc: We are getting ready to release issue 5 of the sex...

    29 Jan 2015 | 6:30 am
    redupnyc: We are getting ready to release issue 5 of the sex worker memoir literary journal Prose & Lore as part of a special giant book of all the stories we’ve published so far. 400+ pages, 101 stories! The official release date of the book is February 12 - sign up to win a free copy through Goodreads! And if you’re in NYC, come to our reading and launch event at Bluestockings on Thursday, February 12.
  • "I am a white woman. I am standing beside a black woman. We are facing a group of white people who..."

    7 Jan 2015 | 8:44 pm
    “I am a white woman. I am standing beside a black woman. We are facing a group of white people who are seated in front of us. We are in their workplace, and have been hired by their employer to lead them in a dialogue about race. The room is filled with tension and charged with hostility. I have just presented a definition of racism that includes the acknowledgment that whites hold social and institutional power over people of color. A white man is pounding his fist on the table. His face is red and he is furious. As he pounds he yells, “White people have been discriminated against for 25…
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  • Questions about dry/peeling/shedding labia? Not sure why.

    3 Mar 2015 | 2:43 pm
    So, for a few months now on and off I have experiences what seems like my labia shedding. Skin just peels off and sometimes creates little sore cracks, or areas where the skin has just come of so much that it's sensitive/raw feeling. I thought at first it may be recurring yeast, especially because I am doing long-term antibiotic treatment, but I take heavy duty probiotics and don't usually test positive for yeast! And when I get a yeast infection there is much more itching, discharge, and discomfort. The area that is affected is simply my outer labia/the area above and around my clitoris. Not…
  • STIs & Oral (& a Diva Cup experience)

    2 Mar 2015 | 9:52 pm
    I gave a urine sample last week for a Chlamydia & Gonorrhea test*...the problem is that I've always had protected intercourse, but I've given unprotected oral. How likely is it that I could be infected in my throat and it won't show on the urine test? Should I go back and get a throat swab? Why don't healthcare providers ask about this? I know Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are asymptomatic for a lot of people, but is it more likely to be symptomatic if it's your throat that's infected? I've never experienced a sore throat after giving oral, or anytime soon after. What happens if you don't get…
  • Having period on stacked pill BEFORE I start taking placebo pills?

    2 Mar 2015 | 6:43 pm
    I've recently started on the Pill again. I'd taken it for 4-ish years -- Yasmin, to be specific. I stacked pill packs (2 at a time) from time to time with no issue when I needed to skip a period. Then I took a 2.5-year break and started on Loryna, which is basically the same thing.I'm close to the end of my fourth pack, and I stacked the third and fourth packs. Around the middle of the fourth pack I started spotting more heavily than I ever have on the pill (I almost never did on Yasmin), but I put it down to breakthrough bleeding, especially since it was brown and like the kind…
  • Missing period; had all my usual PMS symptoms - but no bleeding!

    2 Mar 2015 | 5:21 am
    Final ETA: I've deleted my post text because when the mods addressed the misinformation posted in the comments, they changed the security on my post from members only (which I had selected and which is allowed under the comm rules) to public. This is the last thing I wanted or expected in a 'Safer Space'. I changed it back but on reflection I don't have confidence that in putting my medical info up here, and have emailed the mods to that effect. Further, nobody has responded to what I actually wrote, so I don't feel I'm going to find support here.
  • Ways to make a period come early

    2 Mar 2015 | 5:03 am
    Any tips on making your period come early? I've got some sexy times planned with a friend who's coming to visit in a month or so, and I'm trying to adjust around that. I don't want to be pmsing or on my period when he gets here, and I'd really rather not be fertile, for my own mind's sake. I've used the pressure point on my leg before and it's worked, but it takes a fair amount of attention, any other ideas?
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  • O vacanta in Timisoara, folosind o masina inchiriata

    James
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:07 am
    Trata vizuale acumulată de oameni care au de gând să luaţi o vacanţă in Timisoara nu poate fi comparat cu nimic. Timisoara are de servire ca o casa a numeroase plaje frumoase şi largă peisaje. Este bine cunoscut ca o destinaţie turistică foarte preferat de oameni in orice moment al anului. Explora locatii atractive nenumărate in Timisoara este un vis pentru majoritatea calatorilor. Câştigă o experienţă plăcută in acest teren exotice este motivul de ce vom vedea de mii de oameni flocking aproape toate oraşele luminoase in Timisoara. Sunt de planificare pentru a face un pic…
  • Comercializarea de becuri LED

    James
    3 Mar 2015 | 2:53 am
    Tipurile de becuri cu Corp iluminat stradal cu led disponibile pentru a fi utilizate în întreprinderi nu sunt mult diferite decât cele concepute pentru uz casnic. Acasă și comercial LED funcționează pe același principiu: ele contin un cip care lumineaza atunci cand este aplicat curent electric. Dimensiunea bec, utilizarea pentru care sunt destinate și aplicarea tuturor stabili unde este cel mai bine folosit. Energy Star Evaluări Programul ENERGY STAR a fost conceput pentru a ajuta oamenii să înțeleagă mai bine opțiunile lor de conservare a energiei. Evaluarea a ajuns să…
  • Alegerea unui sistem de alarma Paradox

    James
    5 Jan 2015 | 2:10 am
    Un sistem de securitate și de monitorizare sunt instalate pentru a proteja casa ta de la hoți, hoți, intruși și alte pericole, inclusiv de incendiu. Există o varietate de sisteme de alarmă acasă pentru a decide. Atunci când se analizează o pentru casa ta Amintiți-vă că acestea oferă diferite funcții operaționale cu un singur lucru în comun, ele sunt concepute pentru a proteja casa ta. Unele dintre comune tipuri de sisteme de alarmă includ circuite electrice, detectoare de mișcare, alarme infraroșu și alte soiuri care toate sunt relativ eficiente. Mai jos este mai mult…
  • Diferite tipuri de lumanari de botez

    James
    10 Dec 2014 | 2:33 am
    Nu lumânări îndoială, nu au fost într-adevăr inventate pentru multe dintre scopurile pentru care sunt utilizate, dar încă lumânări sunt identificate cu imaginea ei de utilizare multifuncțională. Parfumuri și lumânări sunt adesea conectate la o asemenea măsură încât mulți oameni uita doar că lumanari albe lungi normale sunt disponibile în piață. Există diferite tipuri de lumânări, dar lumanari de botez sunt un gen popular. Lumanari de botez, spre deosebire de cele mai multe alte produse pot fi personalizate foarte ușor. Tipuri comune de lumanari de botez disponibile…
  • Alegerea unei formatii perfecte pentru nunta ta

    James
    26 Nov 2014 | 8:24 am
    Cu muzica joacă un rol important în nunta ta, este important să vă ia în considerare opţiunile pentru cum aceasta muzica muzica nunta este jucat + fie live sau în temeiul unui sistem de sunet. Melodiile muzica nunta va fi ales cu migală de voi deci este în valoare de asigurându-vă că acestea sunt redate pentru cel mai bun efect. Aveţi o gamă largă de opţiuni atunci când vine vorba de joc vă cantece muzica nunta, în funcţie de stil şi gen de muzică ai ales. De asemenea, poate doriţi să ia în considerare stilul muzica nunta ta, atunci când luarea deciziilor…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • When I'm 64 -- I'll still have hot flashes?

    2 Mar 2015 | 9:33 am
    Some 40 percent of women 60 to 65 years old still have hot flashes. For many, the hot flashes are occasional and mild, but for some, they remain really troublesome. Sexual symptoms also remain a problem for more than half these older women. Furthermore, women bothered by these symptoms are often not getting treatment, even though treatments are available, experts say.
  • Survey of teen dating violence among US high school students

    2 Mar 2015 | 9:31 am
    A survey of US high school students suggests that 1 in 5 female students and 1 in 10 male students who date have experienced some form of teen dating violence (TDV) during the past 12 months. "These results present broader implications for TDV prevention efforts. Although female students have a higher prevalence than male students, male and female students are both impacted by TDV, and prevention efforts may be more effective if they include content for both sexes," the study concludes.
  • Postmenopausal women with VVA report improved satisfaction with VagiCap

    20 Feb 2015 | 6:48 am
    Newly released patient satisfaction survey results from a study of a novel investigational vaginal estrogen treatment show promise for improving quality of life and satisfaction for postmenopausal women who experience pain during sex and other symptoms associated with vulvar and vaginal atrophy.
  • New HPV vaccine offers greater protection against cervical cancer than current vaccine

    18 Feb 2015 | 4:18 pm
    Scientists have developed a new HPV (human papilloma virus) vaccine which protects against nine types of the virus -- seven of which cause most cases of cervical cancer. The new vaccine offers significantly greater protection than the current vaccine, which protects against only two cancer causing types of HPV.
  • HPV vaccine highly effective against multiple cancer-causing strains

    13 Feb 2015 | 1:50 pm
    According to a multinational clinical trial involving nearly 20,000 young women, the human papilloma virus vaccine, Cervarix, not only has the potential to prevent cervical cancer, but was effective against other common cancer-causing human papillomaviruses, aside from just the two HPV types, 16 and 18, which are responsible for about 70 percent of all cases. That effectiveness endured for the study's entire follow-up, of up to four years.
 
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Review: Jimmyjane Hello Touch X

    Lilly
    25 Feb 2015 | 8:21 am
    Special Note: If you are truly considering purchasing the Hello Touch X and do not have much knowledge on safe e-stim use, please read the Safety section that is in purple text. Jimmyjane does not include a decent safety guideline in their manual. It’s well-known if you read my reviews and posts that I hate Jimmyjane products and they don’t like me much either. So why do I keep reviewing them? For one, I feel that negative reviews are just as important as positive reviews and two….I hated the original Hello Touch so much that I just had to see if they listened to any…
  • Dear Sex Toy Shops: Sex Toys are Gender Neutral. Really!

    Lilly
    17 Feb 2015 | 4:00 pm
    I started a bit of a rant on Twitter but I really had to go beyond 140 characters. I’ve seen a lot of great sex toy shops and a lot of crap sex toy shops and often it has nothing to do with their selection – it’s how they list their selection. Shops that insist on gendering their wares are honestly baffling to me. I wonder though, do they have any idea that they’re alienating a large portion of the sex toy buying crowd? When I come across a store that immediately makes me choose between “For Him”, “For Her” and “For Couples” I am…
  • 1 Month Countdown

    Lilly
    15 Feb 2015 | 10:37 am
    Everybody told me, “Buying a house is really stressful” but like the other awful club I’m part of, there’s the First-Time-Buying-a-House Club and you can’t be in it til you’re in it and other people can sympathize but they won’t understand. I DID NOT UNDERSTAND. NOW I DO. I’ve employed a few options for stress relief in the last month, and will continue to use those options liberally over the next 30 days. I’ve had more chest-pain-inducing panic attacks in the last couple weeks than my entire life. While things are not going horribly (our…
  • Vibrators, Sex, and Depression

    Lilly
    22 Jan 2015 | 6:59 am
    I need to preface this post. You won’t learn anything from this. I have no answers, no treatment plan, no quest. I have uncertainties and questions.  It isn’t an eloquent post. If you need a visual, I am huddled under a hoodie unable to make eye contact, I’m fidgety and exhausted. I’m skimming in some parts because I don’t have enough introspection to be able to elaborate. This is raw and uncomfortable and it’s not a pretty post. Like I told Reenie when I got her opinion on this post, this is a glimpse of me in therapy (and a clue as to why I don’t…
  • Lelo Mona Wave

    Lilly
    19 Jan 2015 | 6:27 am
    The Lelo Mona Wave takes the Mona and adds motion, meant to do the g-spot stroking for you. For me, sex toys don’t replace a human. They’re a great accompaniment. I love using them by myself and with a partner. But just as a penis or finger or tongue could never vibrate and nearly never achieve the orgasms (for me) that a good vibrator can, a sex toy can never feel like oral sex or the thrusting of a penis or the stroking, much-lauded “come-hither” motion of a finger or two. Yet sex toy companies, Lelo included, keep trying to create sex toys that seem to be aiming for…
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    Susie Bright's Journal

  • I Can Predict Your Reaction to "Fifty Shades of Grey" with One Simple Quiz

    susie@susiebright.com (Susie Bright)
    12 Feb 2015 | 5:38 pm
    If you remember Love Story ... you'll like Fifty Shades of Grey— but no one's going to make you sob like the young Ryan O’Neal. If you loved The Outsiders ... you will love FSOG, because taking damaged little boys between your thighs is kinda where you live. If you...
  • Crab and Mai Tai's

    susie@susiebright.com (Susie Bright)
    26 Jan 2015 | 5:46 pm
    Last night I made crab and Mai Tai's for dinner. That was the theme, I just woke up with it. Trader Vic, eat your heart out. Our friend Clark Magruder came over and pronounced my crab salad the "best crab dish I have ever had" — which if you knew...
  • Because The Night — June, 1979, Kansas

    susie@susiebright.com (Susie Bright)
    24 Jan 2015 | 5:29 pm
    Patti Smith is touring the West Coast this weekend, including my little surf town, and I'm a surprised at myself that I'm not already in line for a seat. We both were so young and spontaneous the last time we "saw each other." My Patti performance history begins and ends...
  • Susie Bright’s No-Shit-Sherlock Storm Prep

    susie@susiebright.com (Susie Bright)
    10 Dec 2014 | 12:24 pm
    "20 foot waves, massive mudslides, flash floods inundate Northern California"— Storm of the Decade arrives Thursday, December 11, 2014!" Believe it or drown in it! Below, I offer you my priceless storm preparation advice— speaking as a baby who's been woefully unprepared in past. Are you ready for the “atmospheric...
  • Transparent Behind the Scenes -- Listen Up!

    susie@susiebright.com (Susie Bright)
    29 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    Listen to the Behind-the-Scenes Features! I produced them, and they're pretty darn cool. Spoiler Alerts: Major and delicious. Watch Season 1 first, if you want to let the surprises unfold naturally-- your binge is our pleasure. Needless to say, I didn't do it alone. I'm lucky enough to produce this...
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    The Virginity Project

  • Cock-a-doodle-don't

    The Virginity Project
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:02 am
     …and then it was 2015. To kick off the New Year, I thought we’d start with something silly. The Virginity Project tends towards the serious at times. Much like impending spring time – at least we hope for impending spring time – light relief is always a good thing. ‘Laugh away’ wrote my contributor after I died laughing reading his story. Even if the sun hasn’t found its way to the UK yet, I can assure you it’s the first mention of the phrase ‘my cock was ruined’ this year. If not ever. You’re welcome. Enjoy! ‘When I was 15 years old, I stayed the night at my best…
  • 5 Dec 2014 | 9:22 am

    The Virginity Project
    5 Dec 2014 | 9:22 am
    *glowing winter sun in London at 9am this morning Telling sad stories is a tricky one and as time ticks by, I find it harder. The world is alarming enough without revealing the sad intricacies of people’s intimate lives. That said, great writing overrides that for me. Because as much as these stories might be difficult to hear, this is life and the people who capture it succinctly should have a platform. ‘Into each life a little rain falls’ as my mum once said when I moaned about losing a ring that I loved. She’s right, in the way that mums are. In the scheme of things, jewelry loss…
  • Coke is the real thing

    The Virginity Project
    28 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I’ve been brewing this metaphor for years. Or perhaps the word ‘season’ might be more appropriate. Because its usually around this time of year when, in a fit of pre-winter dread and the realization that my summer short/sandal combo is going to make me look a bit simple within a matter of weeks, I panic buy an item of clothing that I am convinced is going to make me look like a French fashion editor for the entirety of winter. Only to discover shortly afterwards that 1. I hate it and 2. It doesn’t suit me. It doesn’t transform me in the way I imagined. The fashion police are not…
  • Chicks dig nerds

    The Virginity Project
    29 Jul 2014 | 9:00 am
    ‘I stumbled across your blog today after hearing about your book on Dan Savage's podcast. I think your project is a really cool idea. I wanted to tell you my virginity loss story because it's a good one and there isn't much occasion to tell it.’ Never a truer word spoken. How often do you get the chance to regale a total stranger with the story of your first fumbling attempts at sexual intercourse?  Not often enough in my opinion. Not only that, but in another first, we feature that rarer-than-hen’s-teeth-tale today: the amusing virginity loss story. I won’t bang on…
  • What it feels like for a girl....and a boy

    The Virginity Project
    13 Jun 2014 | 6:37 am
    The Virginity Project has been away sunning itself on a Greek island again and exploring the beautiful graffited ruins of down town Athens.  Whilst it was gone, bad things happened. The Virginity Project has sat down on at least 16 different occasions to write about the so called ‘virgin shootings’ in Isla Vista and beat an uncomfortable retreat each time due to a case of severely conflicting emotions. These events have unleashed a storm of words, discussions, vitriol and verbal scraps. On balance, it’s a positive thing that we’re having these ‘discussions’. These are challenging…
 
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    Silvy
    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    Silvy
    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    Silvy
    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    Silvy
    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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    Scarleteen

  • A Guide to Having Sex While Living at Home (Draft)

    erinmckelle
    4 Mar 2015 | 11:00 am
    Author:  Erin McKelle Introduction:  N/A Living at home has a lot benefits: you have a place to stay rent-free, you have family members you can interact with, and you can probably still have your own space and at least some privacy. Most of us have to live at home until we’re an adult, but many choose to stay in the nest far beyond that point- 25% of Europeans in their late 20’s still live at home. Regardless of why you live with your immediate family, having a sex life simultaneously is often challenging. If you’re underage, your parents likely have rules about sexual…
  • Parental Controls

    Heather Corinna
    26 Feb 2015 | 1:16 pm
    I have been in a monogamous relationship with someone my age for two years. We have been sexually active for a year now. My parents are religious and conservative, and believe strongly that there is no place for sex outside of marriage and I shouldn't be committed to my boyfriend until I have graduated college, which I am attending now. I have a very close relationship with my parents and didn't want to have to keep up a facade of chastity, so I told my mom that my boyfriend and I have been having sex. She was very upset and it launched a 3 month ordeal of restructuring boundaries for my…
  • What's scariest for you to talk with others about when it comes to sex or sexuality?

    Heather Corinna
    19 Feb 2015 | 12:43 pm
  • What’s In A No?



    Heather Corinna
    2 Feb 2015 | 10:24 am
    Author:  Quinn Sjogerman Introduction:  What's so scary about asking when someone else may say no? Rejection. Read on to dial down the fear factor and learn to accept no like a pro. Sometimes even the simplest things can be scary. I think that for a lot of people, “No” is one of the scariest words there is. We sometimes avoid putting ourselves in situations where there is even a small risk of hearing no, closing doors for ourselves before we even know if they'll open for us or not. I bet if you think back, you can remember a time when you’ve avoided asking someone…
  • Jealousy: Making Friends With a Green-Eyed Monster

    Redskies
    14 Jan 2015 | 10:12 am
    Author:  Andi MacDonald Introduction:  How to tame those scary, growly feelings and use them for good. Let Jealousy be your teacher. Jealousy can lead you to the very places where you most need healing. It can be your guide into your own dark side and show you the way to total self-realization. Jealousy can teach you how to live in peace with yourself and with the whole world if you let it.  ~ Deborah Anapol, Love Without Limits I close my car door and I breathe out deeply. It’s dark. The car is lit by nothing by nothing but moonlight, but I can still see my breath.
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Wolf Hall

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    5 Mar 2015 | 12:12 am
    I had read the books and, despite being a life-long Anne Boleyn fan, I could not help liking the Thomas Cromwell depicted by Hillary Mantel. I had hoped to go to see the plays of Wolf Hall and Bring Up The Bodies in London last summer but it proved to be too expensive to do both [...]
  • Interview with a ‘Boner…

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    4 Mar 2015 | 1:03 pm
    Due to the idiosyncrasies of Haloscan, my request to be questioned by the lovely Osbasso appeared at the top of his comments box. That’s how I found myself revealing all to the infamous trombonist and custodian of HNT. The same rule applies here. The first to say in this comments box: ‘Please interrogate me, Ms [...]
  • Movie Clip Wednesday

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    1 Mar 2015 | 12:42 pm
    MCW theme for 8/18/10 ” movie I’ll stop watching when channel surfing no matter where it is the movie.” Or something like that. In my mentally weakened state, I was just a shade uncertain about MRM’s instructions for this week… but, after a while, I realised that I really couldn’t make any sense from that sentence [...]
  • I Am Not Supposed To Dream of Him

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    26 Feb 2015 | 12:32 pm
    The scent of betrayal hangs heavy in the air and my heart fights the animal lust in my body. I wake up sometimes from a half-doze and realise that he has been naked in my bed, covering me in hot kisses. Plundering and bruising my mouth with his persistent [...]
  • Sex Blog, Sex Blog, You’re A Sex Blog…

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    23 Feb 2015 | 12:21 pm
    Look, just because I have my bottom in my sidebar, I review a few vibrators and I write a bit of erotica, does that really make me a Sex Blog? I mean, I view a Sex Blog as one that purely talks about sex and sexuality or has pictures and videos of cum-guzzling vixens sucking cocks [...]
 
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 5 Little Known Female Orgasm Secrets

    Lee Jenkins
    28 Feb 2015 | 6:09 am
    The biggest mistake when it comes to “female orgasm” is focusing on the “how-to” techniques without paying proper attention to the best mind-set and strategies to make her climax. In reality, the strategies are the key to unlocking the power of the sexual techniques. You’ll understand that while sexual techniques by themselves can be effective, the noisy, wet, toe-curling orgasms lie largely in the strategy you use when applying the techniques. Mindset Your state of mind (and your partners’) can really make or break the chances of her having an orgasm. The…
  • Top 10 Female Masturbation Tips

    Jessica Perez
    26 Feb 2015 | 12:00 pm
    Whether you only have time for a quick feel-good session with yourself, or whether you have all the time in the world, the following list provides a method for every woman to maximize her benefit from a beautiful masturbation experience. Right now, take a little look-see to find out which one(s) fit your personality and schedule. Skin to Skin Contact The Pattie Cake With your pointer and middle fingers, gently pat your clitoris. Vary the pressure and the speed. Your little man in the boat will stand at attention. Your inner labia and clitoris will feel sticky sweet and warm up. The inside of…
  • 3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

    Shawna Lenee
    26 Feb 2015 | 7:00 am
    Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath! These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life. Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work. The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex…
  • 3 Dirty Sex Moves Men Crave In Bed

    Jessica Perez
    25 Feb 2015 | 7:00 am
    Every guy craves dirty sex. Most of them are hesitant about asking their partners to do certain things in bed for fear of offending the other person, or being judged. However, most  crave a few “naughty” things in between the sheets, even if they are afraid to ask for it. Spice up your sex life by anticipating the “taboo” things your man wants to do to you and give him dirty sex tonight! Orgasm Inside Your Mouth Every porn video he has ever seen contains a variation or two of this oral sex activity. Since he has spend a lot of time fantasizing about “cum in…
  • Sex Tips: The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make In Bed

    Shawna Lenee
    25 Feb 2015 | 6:00 am
    Sex tips will guide you in the right direction, but you also want to make sure you’re not actively ruining your own sex life as well. Are you ruining your sex life? Even the best lovers are often guilty of flubbing up in the bedroom, often WITHOUT ever knowing it. It’s just a fact of life. But that doesn’t mean that YOU have to be! Discover the most common issues men have in the bedroom – and what to do INSTEAD to drive your woman WILD with pleasure. Avoid these 10 sex life ruiners and you’ll have better sex the very NEXT time you make love, guaranteed! Thinking She…
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    Today

  • Kelly Clarkson has 'awesome' response to body-shaming bully

    Zach Johnson
    5 Mar 2015 | 2:03 pm
    What didn't kill her really did make her stronger!In February, Katie Hopkins — who has been dubbed the "most hated woman in Britain" — began fat-shaming Kelly Clarkson after seeing her on "The Graham Norton Show." The "Heartbeat Song" singer's fans came to her defense, and on March 3, Hopkins addressed her comments once again.
  • 'Seinfeld' reunion! Jason Alexander and Michael Richards join Jerry at charity event

    Erin Clements
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:31 pm
    These photos of Jerry, George and Kramer reuniting are real, and they're spectacular.On Wednesday afternoon, Jerry Seinfeld, Jason Alexander and Michael Richards gathered for a good cause; the trio attended a lunch to benefit Baby Buggy, a nonprofit started by Seinfeld's wife, Jessica, to provide childcare essentials to families in need.
  • Want to parent while packing heat? Mom teaches class on carrying a gun and a baby

    A. Pawlowski
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:10 pm
    Parents eager to carry both a baby and a gun on their bodies can now attend a class to show them how it’s done.A mom of three who is a certified gun safety instructor recently led an unusual three-hour workshop, titled “Babywearing and Carrying,” at the CrossRoads Shooting Sports, an indoor range in Johnston, Iowa.
  • 'I love your hair!' Mom's makeover gives her fabulous, modern look

    Matt Murray
    5 Mar 2015 | 10:15 am
    An amazing mother and and a deserving breast cancer survivor both braved a winter storm in New York City to visit the TODAY plaza, and were rewarded with fabulous Ambush makeovers.Watch the video to see the pair of makeovers that left a husband speechless, and a daughter in awe of her mom's hip new look.Check out more amazing Ambush Makeovers here.
  • Nooooooo! Which big-screen death was voted most memorable?

    Ree Hines
    5 Mar 2015 | 9:20 am
    Animated or live action, old or new — some big-screen deaths stay with audiences long after the credits have rolled and their tears have dried.Warning: Spoilers abound, for those of you who haven't been to the box office in quite some time.
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    Today

  • Kelly Clarkson has 'awesome' response to body-shaming bully

    Zach Johnson
    5 Mar 2015 | 2:03 pm
    What didn't kill her really did make her stronger!In February, Katie Hopkins — who has been dubbed the "most hated woman in Britain" — began fat-shaming Kelly Clarkson after seeing her on "The Graham Norton Show." The "Heartbeat Song" singer's fans came to her defense, and on March 3, Hopkins addressed her comments once again.
  • 'Seinfeld' reunion! Jason Alexander and Michael Richards join Jerry at charity event

    Erin Clements
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:31 pm
    These photos of Jerry, George and Kramer reuniting are real, and they're spectacular.On Wednesday afternoon, Jerry Seinfeld, Jason Alexander and Michael Richards gathered for a good cause; the trio attended a lunch to benefit Baby Buggy, a nonprofit started by Seinfeld's wife, Jessica, to provide childcare essentials to families in need.
  • Want to parent while packing heat? Mom teaches class on carrying a gun and a baby

    A. Pawlowski
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:10 pm
    Parents eager to carry both a baby and a gun on their bodies can now attend a class to show them how it’s done.A mom of three who is a certified gun safety instructor recently led an unusual three-hour workshop, titled “Babywearing and Carrying,” at the CrossRoads Shooting Sports, an indoor range in Johnston, Iowa.
  • 'I love your hair!' Mom's makeover gives her fabulous, modern look

    Matt Murray
    5 Mar 2015 | 10:15 am
    An amazing mother and and a deserving breast cancer survivor both braved a winter storm in New York City to visit the TODAY plaza, and were rewarded with fabulous Ambush makeovers.Watch the video to see the pair of makeovers that left a husband speechless, and a daughter in awe of her mom's hip new look.Check out more amazing Ambush Makeovers here.
  • Nooooooo! Which big-screen death was voted most memorable?

    Ree Hines
    5 Mar 2015 | 9:20 am
    Animated or live action, old or new — some big-screen deaths stay with audiences long after the credits have rolled and their tears have dried.Warning: Spoilers abound, for those of you who haven't been to the box office in quite some time.
 
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    Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

  • If They Won’t Cosign To The Truth, It Doesn’t Invalidate It

    Natalie (NML)
    3 Mar 2015 | 1:39 pm
    I talk to so many people who feel frustrated by the fact that they see the truth but others don’t or choose not to, because it feels as if the truth isn’t the truth unless everybody agrees to it. It’s as if they’re not allowed to have their own perspective. In reality, our perspective is our own perspective based on our own experiences, outlook, beliefs, values, assumptions, education, fears, experienced etc., and theirs is theirs. It’s critical to have an authentic relationship with ourselves and to be able to distinguish between ‘image’ versus…
  • Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions

    Natalie (NML)
    26 Feb 2015 | 3:58 pm
    When we’re confronted with the realisation that our partner has done a  U-turn on previously expressed feelings and plans, it’s understandable  to feel horribly confused, disappointed, and more than a tad wounded. We may decide that it’s our fault and that something about us is unpalatable and rejectionable. We often jump to the conclusion that people don’t talk about their feelings or make plans with you unless they mean it, and then convince ourselves that we’ve provoked their current attitude and behaviour. As an initial reaction, making it about us is to be…
  • Did they just do a U-turn? When a person overestimates their level of interest or capacity for commitment

    Natalie (NML)
    22 Feb 2015 | 12:01 pm
    When we’re not boundaried with our time and we tell people what we think that they want to hear, we can end up overcommitted, over-scheduled, and overwhelmed. It’s a time management issue stemming from people pleasing – a mix of relieving tension (even if it’s due to our overactive imagination or being triggered), along with wanting to make others feel good, plus attempting to control their opinion of us. Flip that habit over to dating and relationships and there are some clues about why somebody may do a U-turn on declared feelings and intentions. Sometimes a person overestimates…
  • There’s nothing wrong with wanting love and a relationship but the path we choose to achieve our desires has its own consequences

    Natalie (NML)
    12 Feb 2015 | 1:14 pm
    I listen to people express their desire for a relationship and romantic love and there are a significant portion of these who come across embarrassed and almost apologetic. They feel as if they have to defend how they feel and what they believe, and some of these people, when confronted with romantic partners who are presenting them with something less than mutually fulfilling, will back away from their desires for the sake of keeping the peace and not wanting to appear “uptight”. Next thing, they’ve been on a permanent date for numerous years with one particular person who keeps…
  • Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

    Natalie (NML)
    4 Feb 2015 | 2:01 pm
    When I was pregnant with my first daughter, longtime readers may recall that I got into the hidden camera show ‘Cheaters’ where people who suspect their partners of cheating have them investigated and followed… and then confront them.. I know, I know, but I was signed off with a bad back at 34 weeks. Call it BR research. It fascinated me that people either wouldn’t trust the information they already had or that they would go on TV before they would communicate with their partners or make a decision. There are clues as to why you suspect your partner of cheating (or whatever it is),…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 422: Cooper's life on the swingset

    Minx
    26 Feb 2015 | 2:34 pm
    If you like Cooper Beckett on the Life on the Swingset podcast, you'll love this episode! Cooper talks about his new memoir, My Life on the Swingset, documenting his adventures in swinging and polyamory and gives us a special treat! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 421: Poly didn't work, but I still want it!

    Minx
    22 Feb 2015 | 7:06 pm
    Diva and the Don call in to share their epic poly fail, own their shit and to ask how to recover from a classic episode of poly drama due to lack of faithfulness and abundance of micromanagement. LustyGuy cohosts. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 420: New voice on poly and disabilities

    Minx
    13 Feb 2015 | 5:00 pm
    A new poly activist shares her thoughts on being poly with disabilities. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 419: Long distance relationships

    Minx
    30 Jan 2015 | 11:12 am
    Koe and Minx cohost this podcast on defining and sustaining long distance relationships. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
  • PW 418: Emotional abuse

    Minx
    23 Jan 2015 | 6:38 pm
    Shannon Perez-Derby of the Northwest Network of Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian and Gay Survivors of Abuse, shares how to recognize, survive and support both survivors and perpetrators of emotional abuse. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly
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    Sex, Etc.

  • FDA Proposes to Lift Ban on Blood Donations From Gay and Bisexual Men

    Joyce Canela
    13 Feb 2015 | 2:00 pm
    After a more than 30-year ban, gay and bisexual guys may finally be able to donate blood. During the start of the HIV/AIDS crisis, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) banned gay and bisexual men from donating blood under the assumption and fear that they would spread HIV through tainted blood donations. The ban seems unnecessary since anyone—regardless of sexual orientation—can be HIV positive and tests for HIV in donated blood are standard. The FDA is recommending partially lifting the homophobic ban after decades of backlash from LGBTQ advocacy groups, saying the ban is outdated and…
  • What If Buying Condoms Was Like Buying Birth Control?

    Kelvin Ayora
    30 Jan 2015 | 10:51 am
    Buying condoms isn’t fun. Like most teen guys, I always thought it was a hassle. What I didn’t know, or ever really consider, is that getting hormonal birth control, like the Pill, is even more inconvenient. Buzzfeed’s fictional video “If Buying Condoms Was Like Buying Birth Control” illustrates this inconvenience by showing a guy getting condoms as if they were birth control pills. The video begins by showing a young guy asking his father to see his “man doctor” in order to get a prescription for condoms. His father reluctantly agrees and then we are shown the teen at…
  • CDC Wants Male Teens to Know Benefits of Circumcision

    Sumra Alvi
    28 Jan 2015 | 7:23 am
    Recently, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) drafted a recommendation that uncircumcised teen males and their parents be counseled on the benefits of circumcision. For many, this possible recommendation may be irrelevant considering most males are circumcised as infants soon after being born in the U.S., however, there are still many who are not circumcised. Some studies have found that there may be health benefits that come with circumcision. Circumcision is when the foreskin is removed from the head of the penis. This can help reduce the risk of the transmission of…
  • Nevada Students Demand—and Deserve—Comprehensive Sex Ed

    Joyce Canela
    12 Jan 2015 | 8:55 am
    Students of Nevada’s Clark County School District are fighting for their right to have accurate and comprehensive sexuality education. The school district is under pressure to change their abstinence-only program and lessons where sex-shaming and victim-blaming is common to hear about in class. But after listening to conservative parents’ views on what is appropriate, the school district stopped their plans to update the curriculum. Students who are advocating for their right to receive comprehensive sexuality education gathered to protest the conservative board at the district meetings.
  • BuzzFeed’s “Let’s Actually Talk About Birth Control”

    Adrian Lam
    6 Jan 2015 | 11:18 am
    Recently, I watched a BuzzFeed video titled “Let’s Actually Talk About Birth Control.” It started off with the narrator asking a couple of high school students and their coworkers what they knew about birth control. Surprisingly, most people in the video had never learned about birth control in school or at home. One teen even stated, “I’m unsure about what birth control even is.” I could really relate to her because I was not taught about birth control either. I had never even seen a condom until I began writing for Sex, Etc. Later on in the video, two gynecologists were brought…
 
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    Simple Marriage

  • We have trouble communicating

    Corey
    5 Mar 2015 | 6:12 am
    The number one issue voiced by most couples … “We have trouble communicating.” It’s a common complaint. And many couples think they would benefit from some communication training. Many seem to think if they could better express themselves or if their spouse would only listen and understand what they mean then things in the marriage would dramatically improve. “Maybe if I learned to be more assertive and use more ‘I’ statements we’d have less problems.” While the thought may be genuine and the results of actually implementing some of these techniques may improve the…
  • The Two Sides of Love

    Corey
    2 Mar 2015 | 6:57 am
    This past weekend a new feature was added to the Married Life 911 Course – a Personality Test that will uncover your personality characteristics and then discuss the strengths and weaknesses of your tendencies. But that’s not the best part of this test, once both you and your spouse have completed the test and discovered your tendencies – you can then discover your relationship dynamic! There are no other personality tests that I know of offering this component. If you’re already enrolled in the course, simply log into the Dashboard and follow the link in the…
  • The Importance of Exercise for your Marriage

    guest
    25 Feb 2015 | 6:21 am
    Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Marc Zalmanoff of www.fitness-ninja.com. Although dangerous, I would assume most educated people (i.e. you reading this right now) understand the benefits of regular exercise. Primarily, it’s good for you but I won’t bore you with all the stats and details on this fact. Did you also know that regular exercise can be an integral part of a long lasting, happy marriage as well? There is something to be said about taking care of yourself. Since science has only evolved so much, the body you currently have is the only one you get!! And if you…
  • Focus on the how not the what

    Corey
    23 Feb 2015 | 9:42 am
    What is it that creates the intensity in certain conversations with your spouse? What moves a conversation between two people from the issue at hand into personal meltdown? Emotional reactivity. But this isn’t all bad, emotional reactivity also turns out to be nature’s way of informing us of where we are on the path of emotional maturity (another way of thinking about growing up and differentiation). One of the measuring tools for getting clear about how much growing up you have to do is time to reactivity – how quickly do you lose it? How easy is it to push your buttons?
  • Relationships are easy

    Corey
    17 Feb 2015 | 6:09 am
    Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn’t always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I’ve written these very words many times. You’ve probably even heard this phrase before. It is often stated as a Truism in our society, and while I understand the sentiment … I’ve reached a point where I no longer buy it. I do believe that relationships involve work, but hard work? I’m not so sure. I understand that intimacy in marriage challenges us in unique and specific ways, this is what makes marriage the people-growing machine it…
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    LUSTY LADY

  • States where I'm sending free copies of Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica

    Rachel
    5 Mar 2015 | 11:52 am
    Firstly, Happy Erotic World Book Day! I hope you're celebrating in a fun way. I celebrated by wisely changing my Houston flight to tomorrow, after coming to my senses after my momentary morning optimism, shoveling snow, getting a copy of The New York Times in print that quotes me about taxicab hookups and addressing envelopes to people in the following states: Iowa, Texas, New York, Massachusetts, Vermont, California, Tennessee, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Illinois, Utah, Alabama, North Carolina, Georgia, Washington, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Virginia, Michigan. Why? I'm sending them free books (I…
  • My sex column on STI testing and one man show Cootie Catcher by Lucas Brooks

    Rachel
    5 Mar 2015 | 4:11 am
    photo of Lucas Brooks by Cameron Cole When I saw Cootie Catcher last Monday, it was a bitterly cold night, and I'm writing this from a snowy morning as I get ready to head to JFK and hope my flight to Houston for a short but much-needed vacation pans out. This winter, the one thing I've enjoyed is shoveling snow, because it's a novelty for me as a lifelong apartment dweller before last year. But I'm ready for things to warm up. Back to my column: I timed this week's, entitled "The man behind the 'Cootie Catcher' show wants you to get tested" online (it's also in the print paper) to run while…
  • It's free book month: claim your copy of Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica by March 15th!

    Rachel
    4 Mar 2015 | 7:18 am
    I'm new to Canva, where I made this image, but I hope what I lack in skill I make up for in enthusiasm Yes, it's almost time for me to trundle off to the post office and mail lots of packages of autographed copies of Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica to Amazon.com reviewers! (U.S. only) I've got more copies left, but the deadline to sign up is March 15th (or when I reach 100 reviewers, whichever happens sooner). Interested? See below and sign up today. If these arrive by March 18th, I'll mail them then, or else I'll mail them on March 30th when I return from my events in Virginia and Maryland.
  • When The Dress comes to life as a horny gay billionaire, you get this hilarious erotica

    Rachel
    2 Mar 2015 | 7:00 am
    So of course I reviewed it for Thought Catalog. Thanks Chuck Tingle for writing Pounded By The Gay Color Changing Dress and livening up my morning. I'm still Team White and Gold, but this ebook really took the whole thing to ridiculous new heights.
  • Read my 91-year-old grandfather's Washington Post essay about veterans and PTSD

    Rachel
    28 Feb 2015 | 6:07 am
    I could not be prouder that my 91-year-old ex-POW grandfather published his essay "Meet the 91-year-old whose wartime PTSD makes him the perfect guide for today’s veterans" yesterday in the Washington Post. Please read it and, if you're so inclined, share it. It's brave and honest and offers what I've long told him is a unique perspective as someone with PTSD from WWII who is using his history to help modern veterans.
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Eye Candy: Best of Babes

    Violet Blue
    5 Mar 2015 | 2:36 am
    Halle Von, Marry Lynn – In Control (image above via) Lenai – Coredin Olivian – Amena Caprice A – Upoza Laura S – Darken Corridor Vetta – Oiled Ines S – Pure Lorena B – Cayana Xena – Melenio Deja Move, Andy A – Deja vu Anya Ivy – Happy Day (image above via) Julie Kay – Pink Bustier (image below via) Adrian Maya – Tight Fit Delilah Blue – Caught in the Gym (gallery) Summer Carter – Lesdom Orgy Party (pics) Whitney C. – Shepherd’s Daughter Penelope G. – Gentle Whisper Jane F. –…
  • Sex News: Harry Potter sex ed, Russell Brand, gaming and breast physics, #SexWorkerRightsDay

    Violet Blue
    3 Mar 2015 | 8:30 am
    Support indie erotica: Our Filthy Housewives (Amazon) is where all sales go to the authors! Pornhub is developing a wearable meant for… shaking. And beating. It’s called the Wankband, and it supposedly will help you charge your gadgets by jacking off. Finally: A Wearable That Lets You Charge Your Gadgets by Jerking Off (Gizmodo) Boston University is teaching students about safe sex and sexual health with a little bit of help from none other than wizard extraordinaire Harry Potter. “At this event, half-bloods, house-elves, and muggles alike will learn the proper way to get consent to…
  • Eye Candy: Hot New Hardcore

    Violet Blue
    28 Feb 2015 | 8:49 pm
    Before you enjoy something beautiful, sexy, and healthy (below), but notably, something that still isn’t allowed on Blogger or any Google property… Other posts have been updated, but if you missed it: On February 27 (2am PST) Google reverses porn ban on Blogger after backlash (VentureBeat) Summer Carter, Jovan Jordan – Tight Fit (image above via) Mindy, Jason X – No Interruptions Halle Von, Marry Lynn – In Control Megan Rain, Rahyndee James, Tommy Gunn – Double Dog Dare You Cabaret Desire – Chapter 1 Baby Kate, Pablo – Attention Grabber Lizzie…
  • Treats! Magazine 8 with Lydia Hearst, daughter of Patty

    Violet Blue
    26 Feb 2015 | 2:04 pm
    The new issue of Treats! Magazine is out, and their cover star is Lydia Hearst (daughter of John Waters icon, former SLA machine gun-toting, IED-making, San Francisco bank robber Patricia Hearst-Shaw, aka Patty Hearst). This is cool, especially because the circus-themed art nudes shoot they did for the issue is really fun (by photographer Tony Duran), as well as the fascinating editorial feature on the lovely Ms. Hearst written by journalist Aubrey Day. When talking about growing up, Hearst told Day, I remember at university, I believe it was my psychology course where, when I compared notes…
  • Sex News: Reddit and Blogger, porn in China, understanding male sex workers, Geeksphone sex tracker

    Violet Blue
    25 Feb 2015 | 2:07 pm
    With my new indie book Filthy Housewives (here on Amazon), all sales go to the authors! Image via longtime online friend, Unscathed Corpse. Reddit announced a change to its privacy policy on Tuesday that prohibits posting nude photos or videos of people engaged in sex acts without their prior consent to have it posted. In Privacy Update, Reddit Tightens Restrictions on Nude Photos (NYT) The American Sexual Health Association investigates the question of porn addiction. The short answer – to “Is porn addictive?” – is no. Do some people have problems regulating their use…
 
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 436

    Dan Savage
    3 Mar 2015 | 1:00 am
    The Lovecast welcomes Anna Sale from WNYC's "Death, Sex & Money" podcast to pick over the nuances of Dan's thinking on non-monogamy.  We check in on a caller from last year who has recurring cancer, and a boyfriend who wasn't quite ready to marry her. Learn how she is doing, and whether they tied the knot.  Hear the tale of yet another deflowered, "abstinence-only" Christian. (It's kind of hot…)  So much. Always so much.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital…
  • Savage Love Episode 435

    Dan Savage
    24 Feb 2015 | 1:00 am
    An amputee is offended when her new boyfriend warns his brother about her disabilities. Is she being too sensitive?  A man is being ask to lie about his sister-in-law's abortion. How should he handle the complicated family dynamics?  How do gay people happen? Do mommies cause them?  On the Magnum version of the show, a very smug Dan Savage interviews Dr. Amy Muise about her recent paper which proved, (PROVED!) that being GGG is beneficial to relationships. Science says so.  A woman is horrified to discover that her boyfriend has been sending off dick pics to anyone who…
  • Savage Love Episode 434

    Dan Savage
    17 Feb 2015 | 1:00 am
    A married woman has lost all sex drive. Her husband is willing to let her be with other men. But the thought of her husband with another woman makes her so jealous that her mouth goes dry. Is this gonna work out ok? A straight man with a newly issued hall pass is having a hard time meeting ladies who will sleep with him because they know he's in a relationship. Why must it be this way? Why?!  On the Magnum, Dan chats with author Johann Hari, on our silly little drug war, and how drug abuse results from boredom and isolation, not drug availability.  And more!  206-201-2720 This…
  • Savage Love Episode 433

    Dan Savage
    10 Feb 2015 | 1:00 am
    A kinkster is worried that her feminist mother will see some bruises and assume the worst about her boyfriend. How can she explain that they are in a loving, mutually satisfying Dom/sub situation?  A woman doesn't like to swallow her boyfriend's come. Is this a rare condition?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Zoë Tersche from the website ThisWink.com about how to comport yourself at kinky play parties.  And, a man with a heart condition is sick of his lovers going easy on him in bed. Can he ethically withhold the information that the exciting sex they are about to enjoy…
  • Savage Love Episode 432

    Dan Savage
    3 Feb 2015 | 1:00 am
    Gather round, heathens: It's Bible study time! Dan and gay Evangelical Christian Matthew Vines talk about how gay Christians can help the less "affirming" churches to come around to tolerance. They also geek out about the Bible like you wouldn't believe.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% discount and free…
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    VSB

  • The Worst Part Of The DOJ’s Report On Ferguson

    Damon Young
    5 Mar 2015 | 11:08 am
    We know that the Department of Justice will continue to investigate the Ferguson Police Department. And, if Ferguson doesn’t adhere to whichever changes the DOJ orders them to make, they will face some type of consequence. We know we’ll use the empirical evidence of the systematic racism in Ferguson to continue to fuel our own feelings about race and the police, to continue to protest and demand policy changes, to push for more federal investigations of more police departments, and to win any arguments against someone who refuses to admit a system of pervasive and…
  • Ben Carson Is The Dumbest Motherfucker Alive

    Damon Young
    4 Mar 2015 | 8:54 pm
    I do not care that Benjamin Solomon Carson, Sr. graduated from Yale and became the director of pediatric neurosurgery at John Hopkins when he was 33, the youngest ever in that position. (For comparison’s sake, at 33, I was still saving my cups from Panera Bread — leaving with them instead of throwing them away, keeping them in my car, and bringing them in the next time I went there — so I wouldn’t have to buy new ones. But this is beside the point.) I do not care that he was one of the leading world authorities in hemispherectomy, a word I didn’t even know…
  • Yeah, Bill de Blasio Is Trolling The Hell Out Of Internet Conservatives

    Damon Young
    4 Mar 2015 | 12:57 pm
    Look, I’d be lying if I said I’d heard of either Eid al-Adha or Eid al-Fitr before today. But since, according to Schools Chancellor Carmen Farina, hundreds of thousands of New York City public school kids are Muslim, it makes perfect, logical, and practical sense to close schools on the days these holidays are observed. This isn’t Nicole Beharie Day — the holiday I attempted (and, unfortunately, failed) to make a thing after the first time I watched American Violet. No, these are actual holy days in an actual religion that a billion or so actual people actually…
  • A Dude’s Take on Amber Rose, Wiz Khalifa, Kanye West, Slut Shaming, and Messy Breakups

    Panama Jackson
    4 Mar 2015 | 10:00 am
    Niggas have been trippin’ a lot lately, bringing all the Louis Vuitton luggage with them. Let’s unpack, shall we? Yes, let’s. Amber Rose is having both the best and worst last few weeks ever. Now she seems built for all of this so “worst” is more of a “nuisance” than it implies she’s holed up somewhere crying over the shenanigans of former famous exes Kanye West and Wiz Khalifa. Unless you’ve been under a rock, you already know the Amber Rose vs Khloe Kardashian dustup that resulted in Kanye West stating that he had to take like 30…
  • From One Awkward Black Girl To Another, Thanks Issa Rae

    Jackie Woods
    4 Mar 2015 | 8:17 am
    When I first heard HBO ordered a pilot for Issa Rae’s hit Youtube series “Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl,” it took several rounds of “Hallelujer” and “Yes, Lordt” before reality settled in. I wondered: Would HBO pick up the series, written and produced by Rae and “The Nightly Show” host Larry Wilmore? There’s certainly a market and audience for it. Her collection of hilariously self-deprecating essays under the same title as her web series is currently sitting atop the New York Times’ bestseller list. But she’s…
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  • 2 AMAZING Truths My Husband's Death Taught Me About Marriage

    gsbinder
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:37 pm
    Just because a marriage ends with the death of a spouse does not mean the couple's love story ends there. Whether you're single, married, or lost a spouse, these two important lessons about marriage are eye-opening. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • I Was A Stripper For 10 Years — And Never Had Sex

    kiersten kollin
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:24 pm
    I thought I was saving myself for the man I loved, but I finally realized that his role in my life was just another of my unhealthy addictions. A former adult entertainer's sexy stories of love, sex and abstinence. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 5 Sad (But True) Things Guys Think About Your Dating Profile

    davidwygant
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:21 pm
    This is what's going through men's heads while scanning online dating profiles, and yes, it's a lot like what he thinks when shopping for a car. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Sleep Makes You Beautiful (Says Science): 5 Ways To Get More Zzzs

    debrasmouse
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:21 pm
    Sleep makes you beautiful according to science. With so many benefits to gain from a good night's sleep, here are 5 simple ways to make sure you're getting your Zzzzs. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 6 LAME Excuses Keeping You From Finding Love

    liveloveaspire
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:19 pm
    You might not want to hear this, but the love of your life isn't going to come knocking on your door anytime soon. Get over your excuses and go get him, girl! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
 
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  • How to Seduce a Billionaire: Lovehoney's Book of the Month with Free Vibrator!

    Nicole
    5 Mar 2015 | 7:45 am
    Step into the world of timid Jess Lockhart as she flirts with danger in the form of billionaire Ellis McKenna, her handsome but troubled boss in How to Seduce A Billionaire by Portia Da Costa. Written by the New York Times best-selling author of The Accidental Call Girl and In Too Deep, this erotic novel explores the relationship between Jess and Ellis as they struggle with his tragic past and their forbidden pleasure. Fans of Fifty Shades of Grey are bound to love this erotic tale of lust and longing between an employee and her boss. Plus, when you pick up How to Seduce a Billionaire during…
  • Take Our Dating Dilemmas Survey - WIN a Bundle Worth £100+!

    Sally
    5 Mar 2015 | 5:00 am
    It's survey time and this month we're asking you all about your dating dilemmas. So if you've ever found yourself dithering about whether to sleep with someone on the first date or wondering how long you should wait to say those three words, then we want to know! In return for taking part in our survey, you could be in with the chance of winning our Date Night Bundle which is worth over £100! Included in this month's mega bundle: Lovehoney O Force Powerful Male Vibrator (£34.99) Fifty Shades of Grey Massage Me Candle (£16.99) Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Penis Moulding Kit…
  • Smile for the Camera: A Vibrator That Gives New Meaning to 'Selfie Stick'!

    Sally
    26 Feb 2015 | 6:00 am
    Ever wondered what an orgasm looks like... from the inside? No? Neither did we, but it's now a possibility! The Svakom Gaga Intimate Selfie Camera Vibrator (£119.99) gives a whole new meaning to the 'selfie stick' and allows you to see what happens inside the vagina during climax. This toy is not for the faint-hearted - the built-in illuminated HD camera delivers remarkably-clear, internal footage which, thanks to its FaceTime compatibility, can even be shared with your partner. The vibrator itself is whisper-quiet with six speeds and patterns to choose from meaning that it's not only…
  • We Can't Believe What This Customer Sent In With Their Returned Order!

    Lovehoney
    24 Feb 2015 | 6:39 am
    As you probably know, the Lovehoney Returns Policy is pretty legendary. We're happy to go the extra inch by offering you a replacement or refund for 365 days after your purchase, for any reason. That's right! We're happy to accept your returned items even if they've been opened, worn or used, because if you're not happy, we're not happy. Customers often send in a note or letter with their returned orders explaining exactly why they want a refund or replacement, which can be hilarious, sad or (if we're honest) border on TMI. Our returns department recently received a pair of nipple clamps in…
  • The Six Week Sexual Happiness Challenge (with Sex Positions)

    Sally
    18 Feb 2015 | 3:14 am
    Here at Lovehoney, we're all about sexual happiness, so anything that can help add a little va-va-voom to your sex life is a-okay with us. It's that time of year when many people give up something, be it chocolate, smoking or alcohol, amongst many other morish foods and unhealthy habits. We think that a good sex life is just as important as a good diet, which is why we've formulated a six-step guide to help you take up something new this year. Now that New Year and Valentine's Day are out of the way, this is a great time of year to purge the things that don't contribute to a happy,…
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  • THIS IS MY TESTIMONY

    4 Mar 2015 | 8:08 pm
    New Opinion - Am Luis Joyce from Canada I have tried dozens of love spells and had no success. I was online and came across Dr ALABI Spells. I was having an issue with my partner we have both been separated for 3 months. I thought I would try one more time. I was told that my case would be done in so little time. I must admit I was a bit skeptical with my past experiences and all. Dr ALABI said your problems are solved my child However a day later after casting the spell here I am back together with my partner and we are doing better then ever.If it was not for.{alabitemple@yahoo.com } I do…
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    4 Mar 2015 | 11:46 am
    New Question - My name is Helen, I'm from California. I want to use this opportunity to thank the great Prophet Ijeja the Great who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man IJEJA brought my husband back to me after 6years of breakup in our marriage, and i already had 3 lovely kids for my husband, before he left me for another lady, because she charmed him In 2007 some years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel and some misunderstandings, life was so miserable for me, until he finally left me for the other lady. For 2years i felt my life was over and my kids…
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    4 Mar 2015 | 3:26 am
    New Opinion - How I Got My Husband Back........... My Names is Monica Brown , from United states .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called lord magida, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our…
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    4 Mar 2015 | 3:18 am
    New Answer - How I Got My Husband Back........... My Names is Monica Brown , from United states .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called lord magida, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our…
  • ULTIMATE SPELL SOLUTION MAGIC MASTER SPIRITUAL HOME..HE RESTORE MY MARRIAGE WITHIN 24 HOURS

    2 Mar 2015 | 5:16 am
    New Opinion - Welcome to Your Love Spells Your love spells are cast for you with warmth, sensitivity feelings, dedication, and of course love. I have a variety of love spells for you to choose from. All of these white magic spells have proven to be highly successful and very popular indeed. You have many to choose from. Take a look below to see if you feel that any of them would be suitable for you. Fall in Love. Do you know someone who you quite fancy and would like them to fall in love with you? This may be someone you know at work, or perhaps someone you have only seen briefly. This…
 
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  • Mona Wave

    Adriana
    2 Mar 2015 | 4:31 am
    Mona Wave $179 from Lelo Listen, guys. Lelo is trying really hard to be innovative. It’s not enough to make toys of silicone that are rechargeable. They did that. And then everyone else did that. They’ve got to get a couple steps ahead of the game. It certainly wasn’t cutting it for them to try to revamp some of their most-loved items. The sophomore versions of most toys, including the Gigi, just fell short. Perhaps the second Mona was an improvement. And Lelo took heart, maybe? Because they tried to do something completely different with Ora, which was met with disdain…
  • Five Head Wartenberg Wheel

    Adriana
    23 Feb 2015 | 9:47 pm
    Five Head Wartenberg Wheel £19.99 from UberKinky The five heads work exactly the same as a single head — except there’s more. They’ll cover a wider path and the prongs won’t line up exactly, so there will be more variation in sensation. However. they’ll all move in the same direction. The appearance of this is a little more “Wicked” than the regular pinwheel. Indeed, people who have seen this or my single Wartenberg wheel have assumed it was a tool of punishment that would make anyone squeal. They’re not quite right; although, they’re not…
  • She, Tigress

    Adriana
    22 Feb 2015 | 2:00 pm
    When my best friend talks about her marriage, it’s as though she’s describing life as a caged tiger in a zoo. But she wasn’t plucked from her homeland by hunters who wanted to make a quick buck and fast. Rather, she followed the metaphorical steak, so tantalizing that it usurped her entire field of vision, right into that cage. And she was the one who locked it tight after the door swung shut. My best friend, the tiger, spends most of her time lamenting about unhappiness inside the cage. Yet, she sees no way to make her escape. Not only has she locked the door behind her,…
  • My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory

    Adriana
    16 Feb 2015 | 11:39 pm
    My Life on the Swingset $6.99 (Kindle) from Amazon When I was initially approached by author and lifestyle swinger Cooper Beckett to review his book, My Life on the Swingset, I was interested. But I had never heard of the guy or his podcast or website before. I’m no swinger, and I’m not much into podcasts, so maybe this isn’t to be surprised. However, I said “Yes” anyway. My Life on the Swingset is a collection of edited writings from the Cooper’s blog, along with some new works by Cooper. If you’re already familiar with his previous works, then…
  • Judging His Cover

    Adriana
    15 Feb 2015 | 2:16 am
    He was plain. There was nothing special about him. He was lanky with too much gut from years of drinking. His hair was thinning prematurely, and he tried to hide it by wearing it long or, more frequently, wearing hats. He was tall enough to look awkward. All of his t-shirts looked two sizes too large. If we’re being honest, they were. It’s hard to clothe that frame. He wore glasses ill-suited to his face shape. Without anti-glare, looking at him was like looking into some sort of abyss. It was empty and soulless. Whenever he gained weight, his face ballooned out like a chipmunk…
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  • Stacey Nelkin on WPIX 11

    Stacey
    2 Mar 2015 | 12:38 pm
  • Human Desires

    Stacey
    20 Feb 2015 | 7:17 am
    Sex. Sex. Sex. It is not a dirty word, nor is having sex a dirty action. It is a very human drive that we…
  • Fifty Shades of Pink

    Stacey
    11 Feb 2015 | 10:14 am
                                FIFTY SHADES OF PINK We may all be witness to…
  • “Windows” To Our Soul

    Stacey
    6 Feb 2015 | 7:50 am
    “My eyes are here!” That was the comment made to men caught staring at my breasts rather than making eye contact. Today, those same…
  • NYC Snow Storm Warnings Fail

    Stacey
    27 Jan 2015 | 10:47 am
                You can’t fool Mother Nature, but she can sure pull the wool over our eyes – especially when…
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  • My Guy is Really Flirty… With Other Women!

    Lovepanky
    5 Mar 2015 | 4:37 am
    Does your boyfriend look a little too long at the sexy waitress, or spend a little too much time with his female BFF? Here’s what you can do. By Minot Pettinato-Little As females, we’ve learned at a young age how to bat our lashes, laugh at lame jokes, sizzle with sarcastic sensuality, and twirl our hair without breaking a nail, all for the sake of becoming the perfect flirt. So what happens when the tables are turned and it’s your man who can’t seem to zip his sexy lips around other girls? What do you do when harmless flirtation has crossed into the monogamy-zone? Sure,…
  • 7 Steps to Ask Your Partner for an Open Relationship

    Lovepanky
    4 Mar 2015 | 11:51 am
    Though not everyone is open to the idea of an open relationship, you can try these tactics to convince your partner to give it a shot. By Lianne Choo So what exactly is an open relationship? In a nutshell, it means that both parties are totally fine with their significant other having sexual relations with other people. Depending on the couple, this could mean just sex or even building an emotional bond with someone else. At the end of the day, all open relationships have different rules and it is totally up to you how you want to pursue this. No matter what you do, the key is to take it…
  • Sexy Tips: How to Get a Selfish Lover to Be More Giving

    Lovepanky
    3 Mar 2015 | 10:20 am
    Does he always leave you high and dry? When your partner’s being selfish, you need to muster up the courage to confront him about it! By Minot Pettinato-Little So you’ve met the cutest, funniest, most charming man you’ve met in a while and your fabulous “outside-the-bedroom” chemistry has you convinced he’s going to be great in bed. You’re finally gearing up for the big night: that fabulous first time sexual experience where you can really see what he’s made of. Turns out what he’s made of… is about two minutes tops of no-O sex.
  • 8 Reasons Getting Back with your Ex is Self-Sabotage

    Lovepanky
    2 Mar 2015 | 8:10 am
    You may think you can rekindle the fire with your past flame, but when you think of getting back with an ex, you may want to think again. By Colleen Anne Javellana Forever is a very dangerous word. We often seem to forget the concept and limitations of time. After all, time is very abstract in its meaning and has its constraints. Even something as complicated as love can be abused to the highest degree. Don’t say ‘forever’ when you mean ‘never’ When one first enters into a relationship, one cannot help but fall in love with the concept of love itself. Very often, we tend to idealize…
  • 50 Shades of Dangerous Sex: The Right Way to Get Risqué

    Lovepanky
    1 Mar 2015 | 9:40 am
    Thinking of copying your favorite scene from 50 Shades of Grey? Here’s what 50 Shades has been doing to couples in the sack and how you can join in! By Minot Pettinato-Little 50 Shades of Grey is making news all over the place: a woman getting arrested for masturbating during the film, violent sexual assaults, and hundreds of handcuff newbies resorting to 911 calls to get them out of their sticky situation. Related scandals even had the London Fire Brigade warning people of the dangers of emulating Christian and Ana’s steamy romps! The hype behind 50 Shades of Grey “Grey Fever” has…
 
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  • TWIB AFTER DARK GIVEAWAY – Flash Brown Cock!

    N'jaila
    18 Feb 2015 | 7:40 pm
    I’ll be welcoming Flash Brown (@flashbrownxxx) as a guest on Twib After Dark on Feb. 25th and to celebrate one of my favorite performers we are giving away one of his toys!  Molded from his impressive 11.5 inch penis, these toys come in several varieties, squirting vibrating and always filling.   Flash Brown hails from Memphis, and played professional basketball overseas and semi-pro basketball in the United States before entering the world of adult entertainment. His impressive 11.5” cock has made him a hit with fans around the globe, earning him an XBIZ Best Male Newcomer…
  • TWiB After Dark Returns!

    N'jaila
    8 Jan 2015 | 12:35 pm
    Its the first After Dark of the year and Aaron and I have a whole heap of fuckery to wade through.  Not only did we talk about the various sex tech debuting at CES 2015 but we talked about what apps and doodads will help your future relationship. A screengrab from Bangbro’s “Protestor Exercises Her Right to Take Cock!” because they have never been shit and they never will be. Yeah, that’s a thing that several people agreed to do. Yes, that’s a woman holding a sign with Eric Garner’s last words misspelled on them.  You can hear me flip out below These…
  • White Washing the Sex Field & 50 episodes of #TWiBAfterDark

    N'jaila
    8 Dec 2014 | 9:20 am
    I’m so excited that TWiB After Dark has made it through 50 amazing episodes! Thank you all so much for listening and supporting. We welcomed two very special guests for this episode both members of the Women of Color Sexual Health Network , Aida Manduley (@neuronbomb) and Tamara Williams Van Horn (@TamVanHorn).   We talked about the new UK porn bans, 3-D printed sex toys, and had an in depth discussion on supporting and boosting the voices of women of color in the sexual heath field and how our absence directly impacts society’s view on human sexuality. Listen Below  …
  • A Special TWIB After Dark

    N'jaila
    26 Sep 2014 | 7:27 pm
    This week I had the pleaser of co-hosting TWiB After Dark with the actress and TWIB contributor Pia Glenn!  Let me tell ya’ll about Pia, she’s awesome she is proof that we are all made of stars. ( Of course me and you are made of that trash planet from Transformers the Movie, she is made from a planet that’s all diamonds like that episode of Dr. Who)  She is genetically superior being who is gracing us with the chance to be in her presence. Not only can you be aurally pleasured by Pia’s voice on this week’s After Dark we got to speak to some of the ladies of…
  • Black Women, Sex Work & Stigma #TjhishaAndAngelia

    N'jaila
    24 Sep 2014 | 11:40 am
    When I was interviewed for an article about Black sex workers last week,  it wasn’t the story of an actress and her white boyfriend that was on my mind. It was the murders of AngeliaMangum and TjhishaBall. “the bodies of Angelia Mangum, 19, and Tjhisha Ball, 18 were spotted on the side of a road around 1 a.m. yesterday. The bodies were reportedly bound with zip ties, naked and on top of one another. Read more at EBONY Donate to the families of#TjhishaAndAngelia HERE It wasn’t just the ghastly way they were discovered or the brutal way they were murdered it the reaction of…
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  • Impotent Marketing

    Phone Sex Secrets
    28 Feb 2015 | 3:11 pm
    I am a marketing nerd. I like to read as much about marketing as I possibly can. So I approached this article by Matt Kramer regarding the magic buttons to push in selling wine eagerly. You might say I was excited to drink in the knowledge. But then I hit this bit discussing the appeal […]
  • Misleading Phone Sex Numbers

    Phone Sex Secrets
    20 Jan 2015 | 5:18 pm
    In an article about education in the UK, Students and phone sex: “Why not work as a phone sex operator and pay your way through University”, the author’s premise is “Why not work as a phone sex operator and pay your way through University to scale down the amount of debt you are left with […]
  • More PSOs Should Be Like Santa

    Phone Sex Secrets
    9 Dec 2014 | 1:50 pm
    I’ve got a long post about phone sex operators & social media in draft stages, but I just had to note this gem from Stacey Alcorn in 5 Steps to Working a Holiday Party Like Santa — and it was too long for me to tweet! Santa would never show up at a home and […]
  • Coupon Codes For Wish List Shopping For PSOs, CamGirls, Etc.

    Phone Sex Secrets
    24 Nov 2014 | 1:45 am
    Just a reminder about wishlist safety — for both clients and providers. Also, if you shop at Sexclectic, for anyone at all this holiday season, I have exclusive codes you can use to save money: * Enter code PHONESEXSECRETS and save 20% on any order. * Enter code PSSTOYS and get $10 off any order […]
  • Voice Actors & Actresses Needed For Paying Audio Erotica Gigs

    Phone Sex Secrets
    17 Nov 2014 | 8:42 am
    I’ve been contacted by a new company to give them a hand finding voice talent for their recorded erotic stories. They are looking for voice talent — especially male voice talent — to create (record) their erotic audio fantasies for women. While I’ve no experience with this company, this could be a great source of […]
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  • 5 Places to Have a Quickie

    Svetlana Ivanova
    5 Mar 2015 | 1:00 am
    If you’re not in the mood for a marathon session in the bedroom there’s always time for a quickie, Marni shares her tips on how to have an exciting fling when you’re in a hurry.(Visited 3 times, 3 visits today)
  • 5 Oral Sex Moves You’ve Never Tried

    Svetlana Ivanova
    3 Mar 2015 | 1:00 am
    If you’ve mastered Oral 101, these five moves will take you to the next level Overview For her, oral could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm, research from the Kinsey Institute shows. If Continue reading →(Visited 46 times, 6 visits today)
  • How to Find the Best Sex Position for You

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Feb 2015 | 3:00 am
    A sex position is by no means “one size fits all.” Aly Walansky reveals five ways to find the best sex positions for you. Sex is like pizza—no matter what, it’s always pretty good. But, we know, there’s always some toppings or spots that make it extra delicious. Your favorite sex position is likely the Continue reading →(Visited 58 times, 1 visits today)
  • 3 Ways to Make Your Man Ejaculate Faster

    Svetlana Ivanova
    26 Feb 2015 | 1:00 am
    While most men ejaculate during sex in less than ten minutes, there are others who take more than thirty minutes to have an orgasm. Even if that’s not an issue, sometimes you want your man to ejaculate faster for rother reasons, such asyou’re tired, you need to get up early or because you’re not really Continue reading →(Visited 201 times, 4 visits today)
  • A New Twist on 3 Old Sex Positions

    Svetlana Ivanova
    24 Feb 2015 | 3:00 am
    Laura Berman describes some new twists on three old sex positions. If your sex life is starting to feel a little too choreographed or paint-by-numbers, you’ve got two choices. One, you can add some new positions to your sexual repertoire. Hey, we can think of 45 you haven’t tried yet. Your other option is to Continue reading →(Visited 67 times, 1 visits today)
 
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  • From Sexless Wife To Sexually-Insatiable Wife

    CalleZorro
    18 Feb 2015 | 11:49 am
    I get lots of happy, glowing emails from men who I am helping turn their marriage around…but some are so special that they just have to be shared…and the following email that I received today is definitely one to be shared… Calle, I just wanted to let you know that things are going great. Incredible. Amazing. My relationship with my wife has become beautiful. I have a wonderful relationship. From a sex standpoint – incredible – 7 times in the last 4 days. She is orgasming and squirting and has become insatiable. All the skills you taught me in your program have…
  • Husband, How You Were Set Up To Fail In Your Marriage

    CalleZorro
    29 Jan 2015 | 9:30 am
    Too many husbands were set up to fail in their marriage before they ever got started. Specifically… Too many boys have grown up under a dominating mother and a passive dad…IF a dad was even in the picture. Too many boys are taught by their mother to subjugate themselves to females. Too many boys are taught by their mother to put females first and themselves last. Even worse, there are too many Dad’s who teach this to their boys…by example…and by words. Too many boys are conditioned to take their cue’s from females. Too many boys have been taught that in…
  • If Your Wife Is Not As Sexual As You Would Like For Her To Be, Then Read This…

    CalleZorro
    23 Dec 2014 | 9:29 am
    For the typical male, it is SUPER important to him that he be able to think of himself as a “stud”. The typical male has a STRONG need within himself to be able to impress a female with his ability to pleasure her sexually. IF the typical male has the “sexual prowess” needed to “impress” a female with his ability to satisfy and please her sexually, then he feels pretty good about himself. Consequently, the typical male makes it his business to find some way to learn how to properly “stimulate” a female’s sex organs…whether through…
  • Husband, How To Get Your Wife To Be More Sexual With You

    CalleZorro
    5 Dec 2014 | 10:00 am
    Have you ever seen a bored, cold, withdrawn, distant, unfriendly, closed-down woman when she was with a man she was attracted to, turned on by, and excited about? I didn’t think so! I haven’t ever seen such a woman either. Rather, when a woman is with a man she is attracted to, she is a bundle of energy, excitement, passion, vivaciousness, liveliness, animation, exuberance, cheerfulness, chirpiness, big smiles, and so on. She is quite literally a sparkling human being! And, the interesting thing is, what she is actually doing with the man she is attracted to may be the most…
  • How Do I Get My Wife To Want Sex Like She Did When We First Married?

    CalleZorro
    12 Jun 2014 | 3:49 pm
    When you and your wife first married, was the sex life the two of you shared really great? And, after a relatively short period of time, did the frequency-level and passion-level drop off significantly…such that now, the sex life the two of you share is a major source of frustration for you? If yes, then you have plenty of company. Perhaps more than any other, this is the unhappy story that I hear from married men. I frequently have men tell me that they feel so much dissatisfaction in their marriage that if they had it to do over, they would have NEVER married their wife…or any…
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  • The Darkness Within

    Molly Moore
    4 Mar 2015 | 4:11 pm
    A couple of weeks ago Remittance Girl wrote this piece; Bad Men and Why Perfectly Intelligent, Independent, Sane Women Fantasize About Them. It is a piece about female ‘fantasy demons of our erotic imaginations’. Fantasies that you know will make you cum if you think about them, the little nuanced scenes that we play out…
  • Tasteful

    Molly Moore
    28 Feb 2015 | 5:06 pm
    Feed me, I am hungry, for a taste of you…. Related Posts: To the victor go the spoils Multitude of Sins Into the woods A landscape of flesh Invincible
  • Raw Impact

    Molly Moore
    28 Feb 2015 | 3:37 pm
    “I shall have to take my belt to you if you carry on like this” Word that are guaranteed to get my attention, not just because the belt is something to be wary of but because it taps into my kink in a very powerful way. There is something so authoritarian about the act of…
  • Comfort

    Molly Moore
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:51 am
    Sometimes I am all about the heels and sometimes I am all about the comfort… Related Posts: A Rose Amongst the Thorns Playful Multitude of Sins Dress appropriately The Abyss
  • Trolling the Net #9

    Molly Moore
    27 Feb 2015 | 3:43 am
    I know it has been a while since I have written one of these round-ups but time seemed to slip away from me. However I have decided that from now on I will try to make them a weekly feature with the aim of publishing on a Friday. In case you missed the original posts…
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    Justine Cross

  • 50 Shades of Tender: Bootcamp Class at La Douleur Exquise

    Ms. Justine
    4 Mar 2015 | 3:18 pm
    You already know how much I love working out, so I was super excited to develop this bootcamp class with my friend Sam, called 50 Shades of Tender! Sam runs another class in Elysian Park called Tenderqueer that focuses on yoga, pilates, tai chi etc. but with the opening of La Douleur Exquise, we thought it was the perfect opportunity to expand fitness and fun things you can do in a dungeon! If mainstream fitness environments are always already humiliating, why not make them sexy? If you’re not sure what to do, just say “Yes Mistress!” What are you in for? We’ll be doing whole body…
  • New DTLA Dungeon: La Douleur Exquise

    Ms. Justine
    4 Mar 2015 | 2:40 pm
    Dungeon West has been so popular that I have decided to expand. I am now offering sessions in DTLA at VLa Douleur Exquise. You can expect the same high caliber BDSM furniture, professionalism and cleanliness as you have loved at Dungeon West. There is also the same level of privacy and discretion as LDE is also a single renter space. No pets, slaves or animals live at LDE. It is non-smoking. I hope this serves as a better location for those on the eastside of Los Angeles, or when Dungeon West is already booked or even just to try a new space. I look forward to playing with you there! Please…
  • Touring Dallas 3/5-3/9, Houston 3/9-3/12 and New Orleans 3/13-3/16

    Ms. Justine
    26 Feb 2015 | 9:10 am
    I am perfectly poised for you to admire. I love returning to all my grateful slaves, subbies, fetishists and masochists of the South. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? Tour Dates: UPDATED AVAILABILITY Dallas – March 5-9 Houston – March 9-12 Lafayette – March 12-13 – FULLY BOOKED New Orleans – March 13-16; I will be in NOLA until 3/20 but only accepting select appointments, outcall only. In New Orleans, I will be accepting…
  • 50 Shades of Grey Review on FKI AM 640

    Ms. Justine
    13 Feb 2015 | 9:42 am
    I was happy to be interviewed on Thompson and Espinosa Show on KFI AM 640 about BDSM as well as my opinion on 50 Shades of Grey. They were wonderful, knowledgeable hosts who asked great questions. The whole segment is worthy of your time, but you can hear my voice at the 15 minute mark. Enjoy! The post 50 Shades of Grey Review on FKI AM 640 appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • Happy Valentine’s Day to Me!

    Ms. Justine
    13 Feb 2015 | 1:29 am
    Obviously, I am going to be busy this Valentine’s Day weekend. I know you might be lonely without me, so I have added some new items to my wishlist. There are many items that I would love from Stockroom and they are having a sale, so please click the link below. See any toys you would like to use for our next session that you can add to my toy closet? For other kinky items, please peruse my list Wishpot If you would like to schedule a Valentine’s Day session as a present to Me, I have some themed ideas: *Beating you with a dozen long stemmed roses, with thorns of course *Staging a…
 
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    elust

  • Elust #68 Open for Submissions

    E[lust]
    1 Mar 2015 | 7:40 am
    Elust #68 Open for Submissions March they say, comes in like a Lion and goes out like a Lamb. Why not roar all month and send us your best post to show who is Queen (or King) of the Jungle. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as…
  • Elust #67

    E[lust]
    15 Feb 2015 | 4:33 pm
    Photo courtesy of Rebels Notes Welcome to Elust #67 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top…
  • Elust #67 Open for Submission

    E[lust]
    7 Feb 2015 | 12:25 am
    Elust #67 Open for Submissions February, the shortest month of the year, but it contains the Super Football Event of Doom and Valentines Day so why not use this as a chance to cover the full spectrum of erotic possibilities and wow all the readers with all the hard work you put in so far this year. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by…
  • Elust #66

    E[lust]
    6 Feb 2015 | 2:09 pm
    Photo courtesy of CurvaceousDee Welcome to Elust #66 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #67? Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top…
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  • Review: Afterglow

    Epiphora
    28 Feb 2015 | 10:20 pm
    I feel bad for celebrities. You’ll never hear me say that again. But they got the Afterglow in their goodie bags at the Oscars, and this is not what a good sex toy is. Not even close. Not even in the same hemisphere. (Tegan & Sara, if you’re reading this, I will personally buy each of you a Pure Wand to make up for this travesty.) It’s a gimmick: the Afterglow stimulates with vibration and light energy. That’s as simply as I can put it. If you want to thoroughly roll your eyes, here’s a video about the “science,” but the bottom line is,…
  • Blogger is leaving adult bloggers out in the cold; what now?

    Epiphora
    24 Feb 2015 | 4:10 am
    I first wrote this post on June 26, 2013, when Blogger changed its content policy in order to prohibit the monetization of adult content. At that point, they still allowed adult content as long as it was marked as such — and as long as you didn’t make a goddamn cent from it. It felt begrudging: “okay, fine, we’ll allow you heathens to exist on our platform, but not if you make any money.” In February 2015, I had to publish an updated version of this post when Google updated their content policy to disallow any blogs containing “sexually explicit”…
  • Becoming a real writer

    Epiphora
    18 Feb 2015 | 11:05 pm
    I always wanted to be a writer. I wrote e.e. cummings quotes on the inside of my closet and on the rubber of my shoes; I spent my high school nights getting high on raspberry mochas and writing bad poetry. I amassed several awards and accolades when I was younger — one time I even attended an award show in New York City — but nothing meant more to me than this Golden Author Award bestowed upon me by my fifth grade teacher. While others received frivolous awards for being class clowns, I got a swanky pen — and this. It was proof: I was destined to be a writer. I…
  • Jack-off Journal #18

    Epiphora
    11 Feb 2015 | 9:12 pm
    [Trigger warning: incest, menstrual blood, consensual non-consent.] April 2014 Sit down, friends. I would like to talk to you about incest. I’ve slyly alluded to it before, but this month marks the discovery of something glorious: New Sensations’ “Tabu Tales” series. Directed most of the time by the fantastic and nuanced Jacky St. James, this series is everything I never knew I wanted, and I LOVE IT. My obsession began with Incestuous, in a scene featuring cheerleader Riley Reid and her “stepfather” Alec Knight. Riley is a boss at playing down her…
  • Attention, Aussies: MissX rules

    Epiphora
    9 Feb 2015 | 11:31 am
    Sex toy retailers who truly care about ethics, design, the blogging community, and customer satisfaction are few and far between. Even more so when you’re looking for a retailer based in Australia. MissX ticks all of these boxes, and I’m here to tell you why you should support the crap out of them. (If this photo does not arouse you, please exit the premises immediately.) I first became aware of MissX a couple years ago. Owner Camila emailed me to thank me for all my reviews, explaining that she routinely used them to “judge” toys on whether or not to stock them in…
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  • blackout

    SexyLittleIdeas
    1 Mar 2015 | 11:47 am
    #5: BlackoutSexyLittleIdeas.com – Replica SeriesPreviously – #4 Jurassic Monday I don’t usually post on monthly prompts, but this month’s theme of senses and their stimulation/deprivation was just too perfect. Blackout depicts a woman in a state of nearly complete sensory deprivation. Her senses of sight, taste, and smell are out of the picture, and her sense of touch is restricted: she may not touch, she may only be touched. This type of restrictive play requires an immense amount of trust, and so she presents herself, blind, deaf, and mute, to be experienced and to…
  • the waaaambulance race

    SexyLittleIdeas
    21 Feb 2015 | 3:52 pm
    or Everyone’s a Little Bit Racist/SexistThis is me.I am white, male, 30 years old, born and raised overseas. For better or worse, I’ve been a victim of racial and sexual discrimination my whole life.In China, 1990s, old people call us “gwai lo” (white devils) and spit as we pass, while young people cluster around us because it’s cool to have a white friend. University students throw “American” parties where guests come as rednecks, rock stars, and other white racial stereotypes.In Pakistan, 2000s, young men glare knives at us from their dark eyes,…
  • squirting, rain, and socks: february- e[lust] 67

    SexyLittleIdeas
    19 Feb 2015 | 9:33 am
    Photo courtesy of Rebels Notes Welcome to Elust #67 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top…
  • sexy little excuses

    SexyLittleIdeas
    15 Feb 2015 | 4:21 pm
    or The Excuses We Tell Ourselves(Allow me to commit the crime of generalization to make a finer point.)He said:Let’s hang out.Come over and watch a movie.I want to show you my collection of vintage records.Let’s listen to some music at my place.Come back for a nightcap.I want to cook for you.Do you know how to play gin rummy?Baby, it’s cold outside.I have some candy in my car.Girls need ‘let’s hang out’ excuses to have sex.Putting aside long-term relationships, marriages, and women over 30 who know exactly what they want, it’s rare to find a girl who…
  • the pros and cons of sharing

    SexyLittleIdeas
    2 Feb 2015 | 11:41 am
    or Essence of BeachI don’t like sharing things that are mine.If I have worked hard to earn a thing, or lucked into it, I don’t like to diminish that good fortune or good work ethic by thinning it out among others who have worked less hard or gotten less lucky. I feel that spreading things among people who haven’t worked or lucked for them diminishes the value of the things.If I find a beautiful shell on the beach, to me it’s not only a beautiful shell. It comes with the whole experience of the sand giving way beneath my weight, of the flock of pelicans eyeing me warily…
 
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  • Seeing Double

    meisteryak
    1 Mar 2015 | 8:04 am
    Kamera no. 40 and Pagan no. 3 On the left Kamera, no. 40, by Kamera Publications, 1961 and on the right Pagan, no. 3, by Caballus Publications, date unknown. Both magazines feature Pamela Green on the cover dressed as Princess Sonmar Harricks on the set of the 8mm film Gypsy Fire — Sonmar Harricks being an anagram of Harrison Marks. The internal pages are completely different. Share
  • Two Left Feet (1963) starring Michael Crawford

    meisteryak
    29 Dec 2014 | 4:10 pm
    For a nostalgia buff like me lots of pleasure was wrested from watching the title sequence of the film Two Left Feet (1963). A young Michael Crawford visits the West End and ends up queuing to see Pamela Green in Naked as Nature Intended at the Bijou Cinema (looks like a movie set). The film is based on David Stuart Leslie’s novel In my Solitude (1960). The novel is full of observational description of the period. In the film watch out for young Mike Leigh, as a leather-jacketed gang member helping to trash a café. The title song is by Tommy Bruce and the Bruisers. It was release on DVD…
  • Good Tidings…

    meisteryak
    23 Dec 2014 | 11:44 am
    Good tidings for ye Merrie Christmas…and all that A rare George Harrison Marks Christmas card from the early ’60s. On the right Stuart Samuels, Pamela Green, and George Harrison Marks. Don’t know who the others are. Let me know if you do. Share
  • Pose and Poise

    meisteryak
    7 Dec 2014 | 4:17 am
    Below is an original scan of a Stephen Glass negative of, almost but not quite, the cover image of the 16 page Pose and Poise.  According to the forward…“When producing this booklet for Art Students the Publishers had in mind the need which many students might have for an inexpensive means to practice figure drawing. All the studies portrayed in this edition have been carefully selected by Mr. Stephen Glass, the Well-known Photographer.” No date on the magazine but I suspect mid-fifties. Stephen Glass was the brother of the more famous Zoltán Glass. I don’t have much information…
  • Naked As Nature Never Intended

    meisteryak
    24 Nov 2014 | 8:03 am
    A slight aside that I hope will raise a chuckle from my regular readers. An illustration by Willie Rushton (1937-1996), from his book The Filth Amendment, 1981. Beside being a cartoonist Rushton was a comedian, actor and co-founder of the magazine Private Eye. Naked as Nature Never Intended from the book The Filth Amendment by Willie Rushton. Share
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    Sex For Thought

  • "50 Shades of Grey" Movie Review

    Davira Rayne
    16 Feb 2015 | 5:03 pm
    This is my movie review based solely on the film and not the book. Oh "50 Shades of Grey" where to begin.. let's start with the obvious grey. For one this is an erotic film and I feel watching it they let the objectivity of 'grey' take over more than the genre itself. Eroticism is full of bold and dark colors such as red and black. Yet the idea of 'grey' took over the movie and gave it a blah feel which is the opposite of what salacious material should does. With this in mind this set the tone for the whole film. Needless to say there wasn't enough umph. I can only recall two background songs…
  • INKBOK

    Davira Rayne
    29 Mar 2014 | 1:17 pm
    Hello my sexy readers! I am sooooo excited for the launch of a new site called Inkbok. It is a social community and digital library of all literature for writers and readers. It is a great platform for us writers to get our work out there to the world. I believe this website will help to change the world and combat our issue with literacy as a whole. Not only does the site pay writers competitive royalties out of their monthly gross income, and give 10% to charity, but it also provides access to unlimited reading of material on its site for just $4.95 a month. You can buy a book for $30 and…
  • Eroticism

    Davira Rayne
    27 Feb 2014 | 5:07 pm
    Exploring every nook and cranny that encompasses ones   sexual appetiteReleasing inhibitions that lead you into another realmOpening ones’ mind to the vast world of eroticaTeasing senses sensually for an orgasmic reliefInviting feelings of unforgettable pleasureCultivating priceless memories of lustInvigorating the body, mind, and soulSeducing the spirit for a never-ending journeyMaking every sexual encounter more than just it’s name
  • It's Yours

    Davira Rayne
    29 Jan 2014 | 4:58 pm
    I can tell you that this pussy is all yoursBut would you believe me?Look at me differently then all those whoresAnd maybe, just maybe you can feel meI am not a onetime thingNor no summer or spring time flingI hold my head highBut my pussy higherI choose to say it is all for you‘Cuz there is no one else that I want to stay trueSo I’ll say it over and overUntil you know what I knowYou are my one and only loverAnd this is not some nighttime reality showWhat do I have to do to prove to you?You may not be my beau but you’re surely my booYou make claims that it’s yoursBut all of a sudden…
  • First Time

    Davira Rayne
    19 Jan 2014 | 1:44 pm
    Hello Loves,Here I have my very first written erotic poem. The name ironically suits its context. Check it out and let me know what you think.  As always be sure to follow me on Twitter @NoFilter_Davira, Instagram, and give me a K+ on Klout. Stay tuned for more great works. XOXODavira Bear with me, it’s my first timeI know you’ve probably heard that one lineBut please be mindful and take it real slowTurn this little affair into mesmerizing showMake me feel like I’m floating on a bed of flowersSerenade and praise my holy temple for hoursTeach me how it’s doneMake…
 
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    EroticZeitgeist

  • Breaking news on penis size :-)

    eroticzeitgeist
    5 Mar 2015 | 10:23 am
    In a new paper, scientifically correct measurements of penis size have been collected in order to find out what the average penis looks like once and for all. The researchers measured 15,521 men and all measurements were made by a health professional. Flaccid or erect length was measured on the upper side of the penis from the root (pubo-penile junction) to the tip of the glans (meatus), where the pre-pubic fat pad was pushed to the bone. The conclusions was as follows: The average length of the flaccid male penis is 9.16 cm +- 1.57 cm. (7.59 – 10.73) The average length of the erect pens is…
  • What attracts women and why do they want sex?

    eroticzeitgeist
    10 Jan 2015 | 8:30 am
    When you approach a woman, you must have an open body language and not be afraid of touching her. Touches make her feel that you are a dominant strong person also when you touch other men e.g on the shoulder while talking to them. Dominance is sexually attractive to most women. The way you move is also important. You must walk and dance in a coordinated way and men who have larger and more sweeping movements are more erotic. Some women actually have sex with men solely because they are good dancers. When you have moved up to a woman in a coordinated way, you must engage in conversation. Here…
  • The Swinging story – US Pilots were the first to swing

    eroticzeitgeist
    12 Dec 2014 | 11:11 am
    In the 1970s, people experimented with open marriages. The idea was that people should allow their partner to do whatever they wanted sexually, and that you did’nt own your partner. Polyamory were you can have several partners at the same time was also widely tested. These relationship types are still chosen by some people but a broader population never accepted them. Swinging on the other hand have been growing steadily during the years. Swinging focuses only on sex there is no emotional bond to the additional sex partners. Swinging couples joins the community together even though one…
  • Sexual fantasies of men and women

    eroticzeitgeist
    21 Nov 2014 | 9:44 am
    Everybody have sexual fantasies. No reason to be ashamed of that. In this blog, I will give you the main results from a study published in 2014 about the subject. One of the overall findings is that both men and women have many sexual fantasies but men have significantly more than women do. Many of the fantasies are the same but they have different popularity among men and women. Unusual fantasies Two sexual fantasies are very unusual for both men and women. That is sex with a child under the age of 12 and having sex with an animal. Besides these very rare fantasies, the study found nine…
  • This is what is sexually arousing for women

    eroticzeitgeist
    20 Nov 2014 | 10:07 am
    Women get sexually aroused when they are exposed to different cues. In general women don’t (as opposed to men) experience spontaneous feelings of sexual desire very frequently. There has to be some kind of triggers present before women get sexually aroused These triggers can both be internal and external. The different cues are divided in to four main categories: Emotional bonding cues: women respond to situations where they feel close to, and loved by a (potential) partner. Explicit erotic cues: being in a sexual situation, feeling a partner’s sexual excitement or watching/reading…
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    Naughty Reenie

  • Review: Tantus Charmer

    NaughtyReenie
    9 Feb 2015 | 6:59 am
    The Tantus Charmer is like the perfect date. The one that clicks with you instantaneously the moment you meet. The one that woos you with a single look. The one that respects you and your boundaries. In short, the perfect being you’ve only heard people talk about as they were in love. However, just like any of those way-too-perfect situations, there’s always a twist, and I need to explain this twist in a situation where we can all relate. So please be patient with me, and read on. This is a critical part to help you understand how I view the Charmer in my heart. So let’s carry on with…
  • OMG: The OZ Wand

    NaughtyReenie
    26 Jan 2015 | 9:11 pm
    OZ WAND IS COMING TO THE RESCUE DEAR AUSTRALIANS! FINALLY! You must have heard of the famous Hitachi, now named the Magic Wand right? The Cadillac of sex toys? I thought the Magic Wand was everywhere around the world. This dumb brain of mine totally ignored the fact…well, more like forgotten, that not everywhere has the same voltage standard. Heh. My brain. So I didn’t even know that Magic Wand wasn’t available in Australia. Until I got introduced to the Oz Wand. I don’t own it, nor do I think I should own it, because, well, it’s just not going to turn on with…
  • Review: Purple Blaise by A Touch of Glass

    NaughtyReenie
    5 Jan 2015 | 7:15 am
    Fifteen. That’s the number of times I screamed “BORING!” in my initial draft. It’s also the number of times I picked the Purple Blaise up just to shove it back into its storage bag within seconds. Don’t get me wrong though. I don’t hate the Purple Blaise. I mean…what is there to hate? It’s made of a beautiful glass with which I took the pleasure to play the Magical Dildozard with my partner, whom was extremely impressed by my magic until he realized that the lighting was behind all this sorcery. It also comes in a magnificent blue velvety storage bag that protects it from any…
  • OMG: The Ina & Mona Wave

    NaughtyReenie
    3 Dec 2014 | 11:13 am
    Hehehe. Look at this. LOOK AT THIS! JUST LOOK AT IT WILL YOU?! Just. Look. At. It. Flick. I’ve never been so excited about a new toy to actually write a post about it. But this? Ah! It’s impossible not to be excited! It’s THE Mona, but instead of just vibrating, it flips up and down doing that come-here come-here motion. How cool is this?! The Ina is also getting this new technology, but…MONA 1!!! I’ve been staying away from reviewing a Mona because I’m scared I’ll be disappointed with my body. EVERYONE loves it and… I’d be so sad if I didn’t. But I can’t hold it…
  • Seriously? Plus size?

    NaughtyReenie
    30 Nov 2014 | 6:43 pm
    I wear size extra small in clothing, and there are times when even extra small are too big for me. However, recently, as I went shopping with a friend, something disturbing happened. As I was looking around in the SPECIAL SALE section – you know, those sections that make you feel like a tornado just passed because clothes are EVERYWHERE on the floor – I noticed a super cute dinosaur sweater. It also seemed to be the last one left because I wasn’t able to find another one. As I tried it on, I immediately fell in love with it. It gave me that puffy look that I liked, and it fitted me…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • Erotic Being versus Erotic Doing

    Pavini Moray
    24 Feb 2015 | 10:43 am
    I’m lying on my bed, legs spread, my lover’s mouth on my junk. And I’m not doing anything. Not tensing, not thrusting, not helping, not wiggling, not desiring. I am simply being, while my body is stimulated and pleasured. The sensation is exquisite. The pleasure builds and builds. As it builds, I feel each tiny […]
  • Deep Humility, in service to sacred Eros

    Pavini Moray
    19 Feb 2015 | 12:18 pm
    4 More Days LEFT! Last night I went to the Pacific Ocean, and released the Rose of Jericho plant that had sat on my altar since the full moon. This plant, and its release, were part of the magickal manifestation spell I did for this fundraiser. I stood there in the moon-dark night, waves crashing […]
  • The Birds and the Bees and the Fucking in the Trees!

    Pavini Moray
    18 Feb 2015 | 10:43 am
    When you or a loved one is looking for queer, ecosexual porn to get you hot and bothered, where do you turn? I know, right?  If you are like most of us, your poor, sad inner ecosexual don’t get much loving in the media. Nature is sexy. That’s why they call the big sex talk […]
  • No matter what, I choose to feel it

    Pavini Moray
    12 Jan 2015 | 12:33 pm
    I emailed this week with a young man living in Northern Europe.  He was curious about his sexuality, and because of a physical disability, did not have much experience.  Because of his location, he did not have much access to sexuality support.  He had found me on the internet and reached out so bravely, across […]
  • The Discomfort of Calling In

    Pavini Moray
    3 Dec 2014 | 12:26 pm
    Originally posted on rain crowe:Recently, a good friend and I shared a conversation in which they revealed a recent personal instance of public shaming. Unfortunately, the phenomena of being “called out” is all too familiar to me, and to so many of us, and as we worked through their feelings and thoughts about it,…
 
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    My Pleasure Box - UNDERCOVER PLEASURES

  • A Mans Guide to Fifty Shades of Grey

    Anida Leeds
    10 Feb 2015 | 8:50 am
    You have all heard by now how great the Fifty Shades of Grey series of books are and hopefully some of you may have the opportunity for some reenactment or role playing. We all know this weekend is special besides being Valentine’s Day but also opening weekend for the movie. So with that being said we don’t want you being left in the dark, we are providing you a guide that every man needs this holiday season. The Mans Guide to Fifty Shades will prepare you for the sexual revolution that is upon us. We’ll provide you with details of the toys so you can get the job done. Show your Dom and…
  • Top Ten Sex Toys 2014 - Part 2

    Anida Leeds
    12 Jan 2015 | 9:30 am
    Without further adieu we bring you the Top 5. The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We started off with number 10 - 6 in Part 1 of our list, and continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014 bellow. #5 Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl - PinkGet pleasure hopping with the Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl from Pipedream! This is the deluxe version of our original, best-selling Rabbit Pearl and it's loaded with…
  • Top Ten Sex Toys of 2014 - Part 1

    Anida Leeds
    6 Jan 2015 | 9:39 am
    We all seem to love Top 10 Lists. Well this is the list that will top them all, The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We start off with number 10 - 6, and will continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014. #10 Vibe Me Petite Massager Waterproof - Pastel BlueThe Synergy Erotic Vibe Me Petite is a perfect size for someone looking for discreet fun or possibly their first toy, but don't let the small size fool you, the…
  • Tis' The Season to Save

    Anida Leeds
    11 Dec 2014 | 9:00 am
    Take 15% OFF all Earthly Body products!Use Promo Code EARTHLY15, ends 12/31 The 12 Drinking Games Of ChristmasThe 12 Drinking Games of Christmas from Kheper Games are sure to help put the holiday spirit into your holiday festivities. - Because there's no better way to survive the holiday! Jingle Bells Panty & Pasty SetThe Lil' Elves at Pipedream have been busy designing sexy lingerie to heat up your holidays and get you in the mood! They know who" s been naughty and who's been nice, and this Jingle Bells Panty and Pasty Set makes the perfect gift for that special someone on your list. The…
  • MyPleasureBox.com Lands 2015 XBIZ Awards Nomination

    Anida Leeds
    14 Nov 2014 | 1:52 pm
    LOS ANGELES — MyPleasureBox.com has been named for the second consecutive year, an official finalist nominee for the adult industry’s awards event of the year, the 2015 XBIZ Awards, presented by Fleshlight. MyPleasureBox.com has received a nomination in the award category Online Retailer of the Year - Pleasure Products. Nominees for the 2015 XBIZ Awards were selected based on a record 8,000 pre-nominations submitted to XBIZ by members of the industry throughout the world via XBIZ.net. My Pleasure Box is proud to have been selected for this prestigious award for the second consecutive…
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    The Love Hawk

  • The Necessity of Closure

    thelovehawk
    7 Feb 2015 | 12:44 pm
    Doors. We walk in and out of them every day. They protect us from the weather outside and from possible intruders who could turn our houses upside down. Without doors we would all be a little less safe and a lot more cold. So why do we sometimes leave the doors of our hearts so wide open and in so much pain before we realize that we just can’t do it anymore? Why does it take us so long to shut the door on past relationships, bolt it down, and walk away. Why is closing the door on a broken heart so difficult and why don’t we seek the closure we need, when we need it? Closure is a scary…
  • 7 Internal Struggles of the Modern-Day Single Girl

    thelovehawk
    11 Jan 2015 | 3:42 pm
    This day and age, being single comes with a mass amount of internal contradictions and for the ladies in this predicament it can become a tad overwhelming. Not only do we have to worry about daily life struggles like dying to eat a whole pizza to ourselves on Friday night but also wanting to look good in a bikini for our vacation next month but now we have to worry about the dating game as well. The following is a list of struggles and thoughts that cross some (most) single girls’ minds these days: 1. I Want to Be Single but I Hate Being Alone Being an independent woman is a super sexy…
  • It’s Okay to be Single During the Holidays…or Anytime

    thelovehawk
    19 Dec 2014 | 11:28 am
    With the holiday festivities in full swing, it’s completely normal to be feeling a little lonely if you’re single these days. Don’t let being alone deter you from having a great Christmas though and always remember that being single isn’t a bad thing. Use this time to find yourself and figure out who you are and don’t give into the holiday pressure just because you don’t want to show up to Christmas dinner as the only one without a date, AGAIN! Instead, use that money you would have spent on a significant other’s presents to buy yourself something…
  • Why I Never Want to Fall in Love Again

    thelovehawk
    3 Dec 2014 | 10:47 pm
    Call me jaded. Call me scorned. Call me hurt. At the end of the day though, I really have no desire to ever fall in love again. I have no need to find a better half or search for potential suitors who will only break my heart one day. In the past, after tough break ups, I thought the answer to moving on was finding the next perfect guy to replace the one who it didn’t work out with. I would take the lessons I learned that time around and try to apply them to the next relationship so as to prevent potential future heartbreak. I would try to be smarter, try to be wiser, and try to be better.
  • “Boys Only Want Love If It’s Torture”

    thelovehawk
    1 Dec 2014 | 8:11 pm
    Taylor Swift has had many lyrics that resonate with the masses but her new song “Blank Space” really got me thinking about those crazy girls that all the nice guys seem to date. You know the kind of relationship: the guy is a total sweetheart, kind, caring, just an all-around good person while his girlfriend is the complete opposite. She’s abrasive, domineering, rude, and mean. Simply put; she’s a crazy bitch. So, maybe boys do only want love if it’s torture? It’s mind boggling really. Relationships are supposed to be based on trust, understanding, and mutual respect so why are so…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Munch Success Creates Naming Crisis

    Lazlo Toth
    5 Mar 2015 | 7:26 am
    HALIFAX, NEBRASKA The success of Halifax’s largest munch, may be causing problems. The monthly event held at TGIFridays, has grown over the past year and now has more than 100 members. “We were informed last week that we are no longer a ‘munch’ because of our size. Apparently there are rules,” said organizer Kim Lewis, 28. “One of the issues is that everyone must be able to talk to everyone else, which is impossible with a group our size.” The problem for Lewis is that they can’t call themselves a “party” either, because there is no…
  • BDSMers Create “Heat Index” to Measure Scenes

    Lazlo Toth
    4 Mar 2015 | 7:02 am
    MESA, WASHINGTON Kinksters in the local Washington scene have come up with a new metric to evaluate scenes and play quality at their local dungeons.  Previously scenes were limited to one dimensional descriptions and with the use of words like “hot” or “smoking.” Working in conjunction with local weather news teams, an enterprising group of BDSM enthusiasts have created a “heat index” which combines three factors:  the quality of the play, the physical attractiveness of the participants, and degree that the play has a sexual component. Like heat indexes…
  • BDSM Veteran Prefers Stories to Play

    Jane Jameson
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:17 am
    YUCATA, GEORGIA For old timer Mick Haffner, 68, telling stories about the good old days has actually become preferable to participating in BDSM scenes or even having sex. “What people don’t get,” says Haffner, “is how much better it used to be when I started.  I had a slave for 27 years, who was the love of my life.  We earned our leathers and we had rules.  Kids today just don’t get it.” Haffner, because of his experience is considered to be a very desirable play partner among both men and women in the scene, but no one has seen him actually play in at…
  • 50’s Household Fetish Declared “Not So Good for Minorities”

    Annie Cumswallow
    2 Mar 2015 | 7:14 am
    BOSTON, FLORIDA “It appears to be an almost entirely white thing,” said Dr. Martha Grimes, researcher and sociologist at the University of Florida. “For most minorities in America, the 1950s consisted mostly of being underpaid, discriminated against on a daily basis, and having limited opportunities for education and social mobility. Nothing really to turn into a fetish there.” While many see the gender roles of the 1950s as applicable to contemporary BDSM relationship, Master Greb Turner, 52, believes it is time we move past archaic models of gender. “Many of my…
  • BDSM Presenter Accused of Lying in Bio

    Lazlo Toth
    1 Mar 2015 | 7:35 am
    CHICAGO, NEW YORK Master Girk Levy, 32, has come under fire for what appear to be deceptive statements in his presenter’s bio at this year’s Local International Leather Celebration Fest. Though he was a relative “unknown” organizers found his credentials and class ideas extremely impressive. During the event, several attendees raised questions not only about Levy’s class material, which seemed to have been lifted from several other well known presenters, but also his biography which contained several falsehoods and including listing him as “A world famous…
 
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • What Kind of Sex is Everyone Else Having?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    18 Feb 2015 | 6:24 am
    Wonder how your sexual activities stack up against the folks next door? A recent National survey on common sexual practices tells us exactly what the Joneses are doing in the privacy of their own bedrooms. The post What Kind of Sex is Everyone Else Having? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • A Cancer Diagnosis Doesn’t Necessarily Mean an End to Sex

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    17 Feb 2015 | 7:36 am
    With increasing rates of survivorship after a cancer diagnosis, the focus is now on regaining quality of life, including quality sexual health and pleasure. Learn about common side effects of cancer treatment and diagnosis, research on treatments, and physical therapy. The post A Cancer Diagnosis Doesn’t Necessarily Mean an End to Sex appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Of Books and Bondage, Part 2: BDSM & Kink

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    11 Feb 2015 | 3:38 pm
    BDSM & Kink: Sexual Deviation or Sexual Exploration? What about ratcheting up the ante a bit more, and taking the lovemaking into actual physical restriction and discomfort aka Fifty Shades of Grey? BDSM behaviors fall on a continuum from mild to extreme, with mild versions not even identified by all involved as BDSM. The post Of Books and Bondage, Part 2: BDSM & Kink appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Of Books and Bondage, Part 1: Romance Novels & Fantasies

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    10 Feb 2015 | 3:32 pm
    Domination in sexual fantasies and romance novels: What draws normal, healthy women to these story lines of domination over them? Like many American women, I have a Fifty Shades of Grey story. Where were you when you first read Fifty Shades? The post Of Books and Bondage, Part 1: Romance Novels & Fantasies appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Andropause, the Male Menopause

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    4 Feb 2015 | 5:56 am
    As men age testosterone levels begin to decline, which can result in men feeling apathetic about sex. Male Menopause can also result in degenerative body and mind changes. The post Andropause, the Male Menopause appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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    The Sin Doll

  • e[lust] #67

    The Sin Doll
    17 Feb 2015 | 2:54 pm
    Photo courtesy of Rebels Notes Welcome to Elust #67 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the [...] The post e[lust] #67 appeared first on The Sin Doll. e[lust] #64 e[lust] #66 e[lust] #63
  • Kneel To The Cross

    The Sin Doll
    7 Feb 2015 | 3:38 pm
    Give us our bread and bury our dead And kneel to the cross on the wall Whether burnt at the stake or drunk at the wake Just kneel to the cross on the wall We’ve original sin, but we might just get in If we beg to the cross on the wall Kneel To The [...] The post Kneel To The Cross appeared first on The Sin Doll. I See You Bow Your Head Frenzy
  • I See You

    The Sin Doll
    31 Jan 2015 | 3:23 pm
      “I see you, my darling. I see you from the inside out.” Click the kiss below and see who else is participating in Sinful Sunday. The post I See You appeared first on The Sin Doll. Bow Your Head Kneel To The Cross Frenzy
  • Beg, Brat

    The Sin Doll
    26 Jan 2015 | 10:55 am
    She told him to stay away. Mark showed up on her doorstep the next day. They both sat on the couch. Anna had a huge plastic cup of water. Her breathing was labored but seemed to be settling. She was completely naked and sore. Strands of her dark hair stuck to her face and breasts. [...] The post Beg, Brat appeared first on The Sin Doll. Fuck You Panty Sniffer Pubes and Peridot
  • Bow Your Head

    The Sin Doll
    24 Jan 2015 | 6:21 pm
      I will go to my knees for you. And everywhere else that life takes us.    Click the kiss below to see others who are participating in this week’s Sinful Sunday. The post Bow Your Head appeared first on The Sin Doll. I See You Kneel To The Cross Frenzy
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    Wiz's Daily Dose

  • Snoop Dogg – Bush [Artwork] + [Release Date]

    Words by Henny
    5 Mar 2015 | 9:42 am
    Snoop Dogg’s new album is set to drop in the middle of March. Peep the album cover just released
  • B.O.Y.S. Foundation Presents: #DirtySouth Cover Shoot #BTS with @carrieqtent Carrie Michelle

    Words by Henny
    4 Mar 2015 | 8:24 pm
    B.O.Y.S. Foundation Presents : #GorgeousGoGettas | Fyne Girls Magazine Cover Shoot #BTS with Carrie Michelle Shot by: @HollywoodTarrell @BOYSFoundation Model: @CarrieQTENT Photographer: @CEOMrShawn_Darnell Magazine: @FyneGirlsMag1 To Purchase Your copy of Fyne Girls Magazine #DirtySouth Edition log onto : FYNEGIRLMODELS.NET. For Booking Carrie Michelle: BookingCarrieMichelle@gmail.com B.O.Y.S. Foundation Presents : #GorgeousGoGettas | Fyne Girls Magazine #DirtySouth Cover Shoot #BTS with Carrie Michelle from Carrie Michelle on Vimeo.
  • #Freshface Lynn @enduringrose_ featured in Blackmen Magazine

    Words by Henny
    4 Mar 2015 | 4:38 pm
    Checkout aspiring model Lynn this adorable discovery residing out of Detroit, MICH as seen gracing the pages of Blackmen Magazine on newsstands now. Follows Lynn on instagram @enduringrose_ Congratulations to The Winners of the @blackmendigital Detroit Model Search @enduringrose_ Shot by @2020photography3, styled by @marcustheeditor @tsdagency make up by @ayeredd
  • Presenting Jay Nicole @CoreModelJayNicole “in Red & Black Lingerie” images by @JustinDeanPhotos

    Words by Henny
    4 Mar 2015 | 9:24 am
    Here’s one of core models own Jay Nicole featured in Red and Black Lingerie from her recent shoot with Justin Dean Photography Model: Jay Nicole #CoreModel IG: @CoreModelJayNicole Photog: @JustinDeanPhotos JustinDeanPhotography.com
  • Janet Lissette @janet_lissette “in Red Lingerie” images by David Blazze for blazzin pix

    Words by Henny
    3 Mar 2015 | 8:03 pm
    Checkout edits of Janet Lissette from her recent shoot with David Blazze for Blazzin Pix Photography “in red lingerie”. looking adorable as usual….. Follow Janette on instagram @janet_lissette
 
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    Better Sex Blog

  • What is Flibanserin?

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    5 Mar 2015 | 10:31 am
    I think this is a great article that talks about the medication Flibanserin and the controversy surrounding FDA approval for medications to treat female sexual dysfunction. Flibanserin is a non-hormonal oral medication, with a seemingly low side effect profile, that in essence increases dopamine and noradrenalin while reducing serotonin in the brain. According to some studies, this increases the desire for sex. The medication is up for FDA approval for the third and likely last time.  I think this medication (if approved) would be a great option for women.  However, having low testosterone…
  • How to Fall In Love

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    27 Feb 2015 | 12:56 pm
    I love this article in the New York Times about how to fall in love.  I love it because it describes exactly what I see day after day in my office. I often see couples in distress when they arrive but slowly with each passing session and week, I see them often start to choose to love. It might be that they choose love for themselves. If it a match that is not working that can be a wonderful thing to see. I have seen people realize the match is not good and that by loving themselves more they will separate from this partner and find more fulfillment somewhere else. I have also seen couples…
  • Double-Standard, Double-Trouble

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    25 Feb 2015 | 1:27 pm
    A man in his late 50’s goes to see a therapist for stress. After sitting through a few sessions, he finally musters up the guts to tell her what’s really bothering him. “So, I’ve noticed that since I turned 50, my libido has slowly disappeared.” The therapist, whether trained in sexual dysfunction or not, will probably ask if he’s ever spoken to his doctor about it and had a blood workup. After all, it is common for men hitting middle age to notice a decline in their sexual dysfunction; the constant commercials these days for male sexual dysfunction treatments is a testament to…
  • A New Way of Getting to Yes

    Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW MPH PhD
    18 Feb 2015 | 1:26 pm
    Yesterday, a patient yesterday told me that she and her husband had developed a new way of communicating about sex and I thought it was so clever, I thought I’d pass it along! They have been  having some problems with their sex life and, more recently, although things were getting better, her husband was getting fed up with approaching her and having her put him off. So they developed a system. If she’s okay having sex that evening/night, she puts a sign on his pillow that says “Yes.”  If he’s in the mood too, he can approach her pretty sure that she’ll say yes. (Once in a…
  • Go Get Your Freak On

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    13 Feb 2015 | 9:15 am
    There is a lot of hype surrounding the release of 50 Shades of Grey and BDSM.  Here is some food for thought from the mouth of Esther Perel, therapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. Perel says, “I do believe that the emphasis on egalitarian and respectful sex–purged of any expressions of power, aggression, and transgression–is antithetical to erotic desire. Ironically, some of America’s best features–the belief in democracy, equality, consensus-building, compromise, fairness, and mutual tolerance–can, when…
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    Sex Talk About

  • Sexual Reassignment Surgery

    Editorial Team
    4 Mar 2015 | 4:01 pm
    Medical advances have come a long way since the first sex change operation took place in Germany in 1930, but the operation still remains complex, both on physiological and psychological levels. Picture by OpenClips Let’s Talk About (Changing) Sex Sexual reassignment surgery (SRS), or as many prefer to call it Gender Affirmation Surgery (GAS), is the blanket term for a number of medical procedures that transforms a transgender person’s appearance to that of their identified sex. While it is commonly referred to as a sex change, and the major element of the surgery is changing of the…
  • The Smart Porn of Ms. Naughty

    Editorial Team
    28 Feb 2015 | 10:31 pm
    Ms. Naughty’s movies have been awarded and nominated by movie festivals across the world Do you watch mainstream porn? If you do, you probably have noticed that one movie can be similar to a hundred others – same stories, same camera shots. You might think there is nothing bad about it. You might even like these movies. However, even the mainstream porn fans would agree that bringing new flavors to the screen now and then could trigger a welcome (and arousing) change in experience. To satisfy a huge porn audience that is always looking for that “something else”, some directors and…
  • How to Increase Testosterone Naturally

    Editorial Team
    28 Feb 2015 | 3:23 pm
    Picture by MaxStraeten Your life is doing just fine. Maybe you are doing what you love, have a hot partner, and are very happy with yourself. So what might be causing you to put the breaks on when its time to have sex? The reason can be one of many, and perhaps the only person that can help you to find the answer to your problem is your doctor or maybe a therapist. But quite often the answer is the same for both men and women: a disorder connected to the levels of testosterone in your body. If you need to increase the levels of this hormone and are wondering how to raise testosterone…
  • STI: What You Should Know About It

    Editorial Team
    28 Feb 2015 | 12:07 am
    Picture by kerryank Depending on what part of the globe you reside in, the term “sexually transmitted infection” (STI) may also be referred to as “sexually transmitted disease” (STD). No matter where you live, or what your regional term for them is, any type of infection that is spread though intimate contact is a serious matter. The following is a brief guide to the most commonly known STI.   Most Common STIs AIDS/HIV The Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) is the virus that is responsible for people developing AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome). There is no cure for HIV…
  • How to Choose a Vibrator

    Editorial Team
    18 Feb 2015 | 5:29 pm
    Picture by stux The most popular among all sex toys already created, the vibrator is literally a pleasure machine, capable of making men and women reach great orgasms with or without the help of a partner. Maybe you know all that already, but do you know how to choose a vibrator? If you are getting started in this “vibrating” world and don’t know how to choose the perfect one for you, this article can help you become an expert on vibrators in a matter of minutes. So let’s get started… Different Vibrators for Different Pleasures There are a wide variety of vibrators, and each one of…
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    Hush-Hush Adult Directory

  • Tanya Tate bares her Superhero body for Fiesta

    Anthony West
    5 Mar 2015 | 8:14 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. No stranger to slipping into a superhero costume, the popular cosplayer showed off her super bod in a skimpy bikini for the magazine’s cover. The post Tanya Tate bares her Superhero body for Fiesta appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Sexual Health Expo expands into Phoenix

    Anthony West
    4 Mar 2015 | 11:14 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The inaugural Sexual Health Expo took place last month in Los Angeles, drawing more than 2,000 attendees over the course of two days. The post Sexual Health Expo expands into Phoenix appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Ashlee Graham’s 1st Jules Jordan scene

    Anthony West
    4 Mar 2015 | 8:03 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Members of the site can not only watch the scene in a variety of resolutions on their computer or phone, but also view high-resolution photos. The post Ashlee Graham’s 1st Jules Jordan scene appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • MILF Kendra Lust gets covered for box cover

    Anthony West
    4 Mar 2015 | 7:43 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Stunning seductress Kendra Lust showcases her love of oral gratification in a hardcore scene that is sure to make viewers pop. The post MILF Kendra Lust gets covered for box cover appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Karmen Karma shows why it’s all about that bass

    Anthony West
    4 Mar 2015 | 7:23 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Having one of the best backsides in the industry, it makes sense that tatted, busty, exotic beauty Karmen Karma is one of the stars. The post Karmen Karma shows why it’s all about that bass appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
 
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    Villamere

  • CONTEST: Win a pair of tickets to the JUNO Songwriters’ Circle

    Jennifer Villamere
    4 Mar 2015 | 5:03 pm
    CBC's Tom Power hosts this amazing lineup of 2015 JUNO nominees at the JUNO Songwriters’ Circle and you could be there to see it! Emmanuel Jal Fred Penner Ian Thornley (Big Wreck) Jenn Grant Jess Moskaluke LIGHTS Matt Andersen Ryan Guldemond (Mother Mother)The JUNO Songwriters’ Circle happens at noon on Sunday, March 15 at Hamilton Place. The venue has amazing acoustics for live music and if you win this crazy contest, you’ll see some of the best Canadian singer-songwriters sharing songs and stories on…
  • The best thing in the new Anthropologie catalogue is under $100!

    Jennifer Villamere
    3 Mar 2015 | 2:21 pm
    The new catalogue was shot in India which immediately sets off colonialism alarm bells but, hey, look how nice this necklace is!The Mountain Melody necklace, $88 USD, is available in-store and online at Anthropologie.
  • Today in penis news: Average penis size, dink stuck in tape roll, Brits like drawing dicks in dirt

    Jennifer Villamere
    3 Mar 2015 | 10:24 am
    We google "penis news," so you don't have to. Today's best headlines:Study reveals average penis size for menGraphs will help doctors reassure men that the size of their penis is in the normal range. Can we get graphs of average boob, waist and thigh sizes for women so we can feel 'reassured,' too? No? We can't? Get surgery? Okay. READ MORE >>A guy on 4Chan liveblogged getting his penis stuck in a roll of tapeI'm not posting the photos because they are painful looking, but they are available if you're a weird perv. READ MORE >>Britons most likely to draw a penis on dirty…
  • Your Tuesday playlist

    Jennifer Villamere
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:40 am
    There is tonnes of great new music out today so I made you this playlist because I love you.   What's ur new fave?
  • Jared Leto cut off his gross hair: Get over it

    Jennifer Villamere
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:22 am
    Jared Leto's hair was gross because it had that look of, "Hey, I don't care, my hair's so messy and musty. Whatevs."But you could just tell that a stylist had been all over that shit perfecting the placement of every strand.Picture him at the salon getting foils for his ombre.Anyway, he cut it off to play Joker in Suicide Squad, which is a gross name for a movie I'll probably never see.Some pics from his Instagram:I miss my beard already.A photo posted by JARED LETO (@jaredleto) on Mar 2, 2015 at 11:34am PST ...#gone!A photo posted by JARED LETO (@jaredleto) on Mar 2, 2015 at 3:33pm PST…
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    The MaleQ

  • Top 5 Best Cock Rings

    Loren Couse
    3 Mar 2015 | 7:49 am
    Do you want to spruce up your sex life and add something new to the mix.  Toys and accessories are a great way to mix things up and add some excitement whether you are walking alone or having sex with a partner.  So why use a cock ring? First of all, they help you last longer and can let you go that extra mile.  They will also give you stronger orgasms and most importantly, make your erections rock solid.  Here are the MaleQ’s picks for the top 5 best cock rings. Best Stainless Steel Cock Ring There are a lot of reasons that Stainless steel rings are my go to option.  They are…
  • This One Factor Makes You Twice as Likely to be Gay

    Loren Couse
    28 Feb 2015 | 11:59 am
    If you are a man, then there is one factor that makes you way more likely to be gay.  It’s not playing with barbies or listening to too much Spice Girls as a kid (although that might help). No, it is actually something more common than that.  The real answer is something scientists have long predicted but were never able to prove until recently – that something as simple as having an older brother can drastically increase your chances of being gay. It might sound crazy but there are years of research and multiple studies which suggest that that this is actually true. Anthony…
  • Men’s Body Shaving: The Complete Guide

    Loren Couse
    27 Feb 2015 | 4:01 pm
    Hair is natural.  We all have it, but that is no excuse to let things run wild.   You most likely already cut the hair on the top of your head and keep that beard in check – that is, unless you are a cave man, or a hipster from Portland, Oregon.  So why is it that so many people forget to maintain everything else? Trimmed or clean shaven.  It is really a matter of preference, but doing nothing?  Well, that’s just not cool. So stop making excuses and start looking your best, with and without your clothes. Trim the Bulk First If you are like me then your body hair is spread out…
  • The Best Anal Relaxants

    Loren Couse
    25 Feb 2015 | 12:03 pm
    Relax.  It sounds easy on paper, but in real life its not  always the case.  Anal sex is tough enough, and learning to relax your anal muscles can be a challenge in it of itself.  Learning to control these muscles is important, and using an anal relaxant along the way can help give you that extra control to ease you into anal sex.  Below are the best anal relaxants to help make sex more enjoyable. Anal Relaxant Cream Anal Relaxants come in a number of forms: from creams, gels to sprays.  Paired with a high performing lube, these anal relaxants help to make entry easier, reduce pain and…
  • Swiss Navy Silicone Lube Review

    Loren Couse
    23 Feb 2015 | 10:21 am
    This review is actually thanks to the readers of The MaleQ.  I have done a lot of my research and testing of different types of lube in the past, but this is the MaleQ’s first review from reader recommendations.  Swiss Navy is somewhat of a community favorite, and we have had a number of readers tell us to test Swiss Navy out.  Not to mention that is has been a top seller on the MaleQ Store for a while now. Since then we decided to give it a look for ourselves.   Here are my thoughts and experiences using Swiss Navy on behalf of The MaleQ. Swiss Navy Review What I Like Great…
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