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  • Men with 'low testosterone' have higher rates of depression

    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily
    1 Jul 2015 | 9:36 am
    Researchers found that men referred for tertiary care for borderline testosterone levels had much higher rates of depression and depressive symptoms than those of the general population.
  • Russian Nudes

    Sensual Writer
    3 Jul 2015 | 3:03 pm
    Nude Angels: Natural beauty and Super Sexy Lesbians Angels Melody and Lena in public nudes.A Sex blog dedicated to hot young girls. Russian Teen Melita: Vibrant and spontaneous, Nubile Melita is a good girl with a wild side and hot body. This flirtatious blonde cutie loves to show off her beautiful Pink Pussy and tease all the guys! Nubiles is the only place where you get to see the freshest girls on the net… and you can only see them here… There is nowhere else where you will see these girls graduate from nubile status to blossom into woman-hood! Shylina – passionate sex: Shylina…
  • Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls

    Senses Private Club
    Senses Private Club
    2 Jul 2015 | 2:22 am
    The word vacation to a single guy can mean a wide variety of things. For some, it could mean a golf outing with the boys and for others it could be an adrenaline fueled romp through the wilderness. The one constant when looking for vacation spots for single guys is the ability to meet women. […] The post Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • 10 Things That Will Make Your Breasts Look Fabulous!

    Ask Dan and Jennifer
    Kaylen Jackson
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:00 am
    Seduction involves using your natural accessories – namely, your breasts. Make the most of your breasts (and get tons of male attention) with these ten tips. Breasts are a natural accessory, much like a necklace. If you pick the right outfit (or even your birthday suit), your breasts can really put a nice bow on the package! Go Braless During The Day Your breasts deserve a break! Go braless for a day. Wear a soft t-shirt that doesn’t feel rough against your nipples and just lounge around. It’s even better if you can do this in front of your guy. Turn the air down a little so…
  • Sexy airplane reading is yours for just $1.99 this week with my book The Mile High Club

    6 Jul 2015 | 6:44 am
    Portable plane sex on my Kindle: I'm taking two flights today, from Philadelphia to Boston, then Boston to Martha's Vineyard, and I've downloaded my erotica anthology The Mile High Club: Plane Sex Stories to reread (and yes, I have a few others downloaded and packed). Get it while it's hot - the $1.99 sale runs through this Thursday! Here's where you can buy it on the cheap: KindleNookiBooksGoogle PlayWant to listen to a free sample? Let Lucy Malone, The Mile High Club audiobook narrator, serenade you. Buy the $1.99 Kindle version and get the audiobook for just $3.99!
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    Audacia Ray

  • This Is Why Everyone Cheering Gay Marriage Should Stand With the White House “Heckler” Now

    26 Jun 2015 | 9:03 am
    blackgirldangerous: While many in our community post about how Caitlyn Jenner is so courageous for transitioning, they are somehow blinded to seeing the real heroes before them. Real courage is being the lone voice in a room full of fake allies and still speaking up. Real courage is putting your immigration status and life on the line to fight for your immigrant trans sisters. Real courage is crashing a party at the White House to demand liberation for your people.READ MORE.
  • sarahgreenillustration: I’ve been seeing way too much coverage...

    21 Jun 2015 | 6:28 pm
    sarahgreenillustration: I’ve been seeing way too much coverage of the terrorist rather than of the victims, which isn’t right, so I made this. Went more realistic to get more of a resemblance, and all information is based off what I could find on the internet. Hopefully it’s all accurate, if something isn’t, please tell me. Such a horrible event. RIP. 
  • redupnyc: Red Umbrella Project does Brooklyn Pride, June 13,...

    18 Jun 2015 | 1:55 pm
    redupnyc: Red Umbrella Project does Brooklyn Pride, June 13, 2015. Photos by Gabrielle Jay. I’m still laughing about the slogans Sarah and I came up with for the posters we’re holding. Also our HOS BEFORE LITERALLY EVERYBODY t shirts. Sex worker humor is the best.
  • jmjafrx: professorfangirl: “How a group of black social media...

    16 Jun 2015 | 7:16 am
    jmjafrx: professorfangirl: “How a group of black social media activist’s built the nation’s first 21st-century civil rights movement.” Read. Read again.
  • phyrecracker: igotkimksbooty: fuckyeavanity: out of all the...

    23 May 2015 | 5:10 pm
    phyrecracker: igotkimksbooty: fuckyeavanity: out of all the protests, shutdowns and demonstrations i’ve ever done, this was the most powerful thing I’ve ever participated in!  Inspiring #femmespiration
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    NYT > Sex

  • First Comes Sex Talk With These Renegades of Couples Therapy

    4 Jul 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Offering the radical notion that couples should fix issues in the bedroom before tackling other concerns like communication.
  • Giving Consent to Sex

    4 Jul 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Readers discuss an article that was critical of requiring affirmative consent as part of an effort to reduce rapes.
  • The Appeal of Christian Piety

    4 Jul 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Why some evangelical Christian women find church sex manuals empowering.
  • Asexual and Happy

    4 Jul 2015 | 9:00 pm
    When wanting to be with someone romantically has nothing to do with sex.
  • Regulating Sex

    27 Jun 2015 | 9:00 pm
    It’s not just campuses that are challenging the definition of rape. Many states are redefining the law.
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  • When to take a pregnancy test when periods may be irregular

    6 Jul 2015 | 11:04 am
    Hello all,I'd love some advice on whether to take a pregnancy test. I had an IUD (copper) inserted on 9 Feb and my implant (Nexplanon) removed on 20th March. While on the implant my periods stopped completely. I got my first period on 22nd April (33 days later), lasted six days. I got my next period on 26th May (34 days after start of the first period), also six days. It's now 41 days after the start of my last period. I've had occasional cramps for the last week, almost like I'm about to get my period but no joy. I've had PiV sex with my partner twice since my last period, both times he…
  • Unusual, lumpy discharge?? Please help v.v

    6 Jul 2015 | 6:29 am
    About two days ago I shaved around my vagina, and to stop it getting irritated I put some moisturiser around the outside. (wrong, I know...) so that's the first thing I did that could contribute to it?Secondly, on the same day my boyfriend and I attempted to have sex, but we didn't have a condom and I was getting anxious about the pain. So we decided to grind without underwear on. (He didn't cum..)And later that night I went home, and I felt a bit uncomfortable. I checked and nothing was wrong. But the next morning (yesterday) I found some weird discharge. It didn't have a…
  • New to the IUD, just a safety question for those with experience.

    3 Jul 2015 | 2:45 pm
    I just got my Mirena IUD inserted yesterday, and though my anxiety and lack of steady breathing caused the pain of insertion to be really bad (only a few seconds though, thank god), my body has been tolerating it very well, so that's awesome!I do have a question for other IUD users though, any issues with weight on your stomach? When I google it, I get people talking about gaining weight, but what I’m talking about is whether or not having weight on your stomach and the area of your uterus is an issue.I ask because I have a nephew who I visit every few weeks and he loves climbing…
  • severe yeast infection with ulcers (WARNING Explicit photo of private parts)

    30 Jun 2015 | 8:00 pm
    Went to doctor after being on z-pack (antibiotics) for a little over a day because I began to get ulcer/canker sores on the opening to my vagina. I received a prescription but has anyone else had this? They are extremely painful and it seems like I keep getting more of the ulcers. It is creeping me out, is this just a very severe yeast infection that was left untreated?I am 100% positive it is not herpes or any other std bc I got tested. My doctor was certain its was a yeast infection, but was not sure if anyone else had a severe case like I do. It even hurts to talk with them!
  • miconazole vs tioconazole for YI?

    30 Jun 2015 | 6:07 pm
    Hey there. I have a mild yeast infection kicking in right now, and I want to get rid of it before it gets worse, especially because I am going out of town this weekend with my boyfriend. So I figured I would try a 1 day treatment. I have the 1 day Miconazole at home, but after reading horrible review "s I decided to go buy the 1 day Tioconazole... but I'm still really nervous. I've read online it tends to only burn terribly when one has BV and not yeast, but I am 99% sure I have yeast (the 1% being the absence of a test...). I get them frequently because I am on long term antibiotics, and…
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  • Letters to myself

    XXXchurch Visitor
    6 Jul 2015 | 1:50 pm
    Letter to myself: I’m tired of you controlling my life and making me feel guilty about myself. It has been way too long now. Ever since the first time I got sucked into this behavior…. I will beat you and I will not let you destroy me and my family. I will not let you make a poor example of me being a husband and a father. Letter from my sex addict: See how easily i could control you. You have no way out. It is only a matter of time and then you will get sucked back in again. I am you’re stronghold. You can keep me a secret all you want. I am powerful The post Letters to…
  • Change is good

    XXXchurch Visitor
    6 Jul 2015 | 1:49 pm
    Letter to myself: Addict, you are facing some major life challenges at the moment but I know you can do it. You are resilient. Set yourself free from your addictions. Make your life better and more fulfilling. You can’t let your urges control you and define you. Find the power of God to set you free. Walk out your divine destiny. Take the first step now. Letter from my sex addict: I’m struggling every day to refrain from watching porn. It’s right there on my computer. I can’t resist the temptation. How can I overcome this? Will I ever overcome it? Why do I feel the…
  • Double Life

    XXXchurch Visitor
    6 Jul 2015 | 1:48 pm
    Letter to myself: Well, it’s about time. You’ve dealt with this for years and now you are realizing that it’s time to move forward or choose the world. You can’t be a voice for healing and hope when you are stuck yourself. You can’t be a strong leader in the church if you are living two lives. You can’t be a godly husband if you are constantly struggling and lying to your wife. You need to find healing. You need to let go of this. If you continue on in this, you WILL lose everything or you will continue on living a double life not being effective in…
  • Crossroads

    XXXchurch Visitor
    6 Jul 2015 | 1:39 pm
    Letter to myself: Dear Sex Addict, Enough is enough. I’ve been dwelling with my sexual sin for seven years. Seven long, excruciating years that I want to put an end to once and for all. I’ve been wanting to quit for the longest time, but it seems you try to catch me when I least expect it. Believe it or not, sometimes it’s actually worked. Other times it hasn’t, which I why I can put you away once and for all. For too long I’ve questioned myself, but it’s time to take a stand. I’m better than you. I’m a child of a gracious, loving God whose…
  • 3 Things You Don’t Realize You’re Teaching Your Kids About Sex

    Shellie R. Warren
    5 Jul 2015 | 9:01 pm
    Next month, I’m going to be talking to a room full of high school juniors and seniors about sex. Hey, I’m happy to do it, but I’m going to tell you the same thing that I told the facilitators: I’d much rather be talking to their parents. Well, actually I would rather talk to their parents first and then the kids. It’s not for the reason that you might think. It’s not because I want to let the parents know how to deal with the ever-curious minds and even more raging hormones of their teenagers. No, I want to tell them that the biggest influencers of sex and sexuality to kids is the…
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • All of My Friends Live in a Box

    16 Jun 2015 | 8:32 am
      As someone born before 1985, I am apparently part of the last generation to know life Before and After the Internet. I remember dial-up and AOL, ISCABBS and the time when we used multiple “web portals” instead of just “Googling it”. The internet was neat but it was still pretty geeky. You were a social loser if all your friends were “on the internet” and it was hard to admit to others if you met your mate through the internet. But it’s fairly normal, now, right? In fact it’s probably weird or quaint to relay a story of meeting a new,…
  • 35 Body-Safe Sex Toys Under $35

    8 Jun 2015 | 11:07 am
    One of the perks of being a sex toy reviewer is that often we are handed vibrators and dildos to review that we normally would not be able to afford purchasing on our own. I can assure you that I would never have been able to allocate the funds for the Lelo Smart Wand Large, the L’Amourose Rosa Rouge, and so on. Many others are in the same boat. And so they buy cheap (yet terrible) sex toys because it’s what they can afford. Recently though we’ve started seeing actual, real silicone dildos and silicone-covered vibrators for $50 or less so hope is on the horizon. But we…
  • Yes it’s the Cordless, Rechargeable (Hitachi) Magic Wand

    31 May 2015 | 9:25 am
    Despite what I may say in this review, I am excited about the Rechargeable Magic Wand! But first, a little back-story. I’d used vibrators for a couple of years before I started reviewing. Even the few that worked for me took awhile; longer than I sometimes had patience for. So a whopping 1 month into being an official Sex Toy Reviewer I got my hands on the Hitachi Magic Wand. And, having only tried cheap shit and a few I-feel-like-I-should-adore-this-but-it’s-too-mild Lelos, I was suitably impressed by the old Magic Wand and instructed all to go forth and buy one. Nature of the…
  • Jopen ENVY Fifteen Review – Remote Controlled Panty Vibe

    27 May 2015 | 11:55 am
    I’m reviewing the Jopen Envy Fifteen because I’m on the hunt for a decent remote-controlled vibrator; it’s what people ask for the most, it seems! The thrill of wearing a vibrator in public is a gateway kink for many people; it’s one I can get behind! But sadly when it comes to remote control sex toys the market is lacking. A really great RC vibe needs to nail down these three things:    A remote that allows the remote holder to know what’s going on – what setting the vibrator is one, basically.    A remote connection that stays through clothing, flesh…
  • Real Neat Blog (plus a little life update)

    26 May 2015 | 12:09 pm
    Earlier this month I was nominated by Will and Vixenne as having a “Real Neat Blog”, which was super sweet. I am shamefully behind on blogging much of ANYTHING these days. So by the time I’ve gotten around to writing this, nearly everybody that I planned to nominate has probably already been nominated by someone else and has written their post.  Everybody told me how much “_____” it would be buying/owning a home. You think you know, but you have no idea. We have wayyyyy too much stuff, the house needed quite a bit of work (and still does in many ways) and my…
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    Susie Bright's Journal

  • The Pretender (Susie Bright)
    14 Jun 2015 | 11:42 am
    We’ve all known someone on the Rachel Dolezal spectrum. —Downward mobility as ascension, or escape. You’d rather not #AskRachel, but you can’t turn away. Just between us girls, you’ve seen more modest impersonations, right? No one wants to start grading people like eggs, applying the one-drop rule. Welcome to the...
  • Praising Bitsy Gomez (Susie Bright)
    26 Apr 2015 | 5:50 pm
    Bitsy Gomez, 1943 - 2015 I didn't want to go the Elks Club downtown anymore and deal with the boys and the police riots. I drove up from Long Beach to Crenshaw/Slauson to see Bitsy Gomez, who usually had a butch-girl-trucker solution to everything. She listened to my whole sad...
  • I Can Predict Your Reaction to "Fifty Shades of Grey" with One Simple Quiz (Susie Bright)
    12 Feb 2015 | 5:38 pm
    If you remember Love Story ... you'll like Fifty Shades of Grey— but no one's going to make you sob like the young Ryan O’Neal. If you loved The Outsiders ... you will love FSOG, because taking damaged little boys between your thighs is kinda where you live. If you...
  • Crab and Mai Tai's (Susie Bright)
    26 Jan 2015 | 5:46 pm
    Last night I made crab and Mai Tai's for dinner. That was the theme, I just woke up with it. Trader Vic, eat your heart out. Our friend Clark Magruder came over and pronounced my crab salad the "best crab dish I have ever had" — which if you knew...
  • Because The Night — June, 1979, Kansas (Susie Bright)
    24 Jan 2015 | 5:29 pm
    Patti Smith is touring the West Coast this weekend, including my little surf town, and I'm a surprised at myself that I'm not already in line for a seat. We both were so young and spontaneous the last time we "saw each other." My Patti performance history begins and ends...
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    The Virginity Project

  • Masculinity 2.0

    The Virginity Project
    20 Jun 2015 | 12:23 am
    Years ago, my car mechanic, a man I’ve had many interesting conversations with sitting under the arches of his Latimer Road ‘shop’ asked me ‘but Kate, does a man even lose virginity?’ Probably not in the same way a woman does. There aren’t physical ramifications for men (don’t get me started on the ‘cultural’ ones) but one thing I do know is that men spend a lot of time thinking about it. Not so much in the ‘I’m desperate for that to happen’ way.  That’s a given. I’m talking about the multitude of anxieties and questions that go through a man’s mind as he…
  • Tell me your story...

    The Virginity Project
    30 Apr 2015 | 4:40 am
    The Virginity Project is temporarily going in a different direction. A step on from our ‘first time’ stories, I am investigating the arc of our sexual lives for a feature for British newspaper, The Guardian. Virginity Project story tellers past and present, many of you have shared your incredible first time stories with me over the years. Would you now like to - anonymously, no real names will be used in this feature -  continue the journey and explore your years (or months) since the 'first time' and tell me about the following? When were your best experiences? Or the worst?
  • Cock-a-doodle-don't

    The Virginity Project
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:02 am
     …and then it was 2015. To kick off the New Year, I thought we’d start with something silly. The Virginity Project tends towards the serious at times. Much like impending spring time – at least we hope for impending spring time – light relief is always a good thing. ‘Laugh away’ wrote my contributor after I died laughing reading his story. Even if the sun hasn’t found its way to the UK yet, I can assure you it’s the first mention of the phrase ‘my cock was ruined’ this year. If not ever. You’re welcome. Enjoy! ‘When I was 15 years old, I stayed the night at my best…
  • 5 Dec 2014 | 9:22 am

    The Virginity Project
    5 Dec 2014 | 9:22 am
    *glowing winter sun in London at 9am this morning Telling sad stories is a tricky one and as time ticks by, I find it harder. The world is alarming enough without revealing the sad intricacies of people’s intimate lives. That said, great writing overrides that for me. Because as much as these stories might be difficult to hear, this is life and the people who capture it succinctly should have a platform. ‘Into each life a little rain falls’ as my mum once said when I moaned about losing a ring that I loved. She’s right, in the way that mums are. In the scheme of things, jewelry loss…
  • Coke is the real thing

    The Virginity Project
    28 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I’ve been brewing this metaphor for years. Or perhaps the word ‘season’ might be more appropriate. Because its usually around this time of year when, in a fit of pre-winter dread and the realization that my summer short/sandal combo is going to make me look a bit simple within a matter of weeks, I panic buy an item of clothing that I am convinced is going to make me look like a French fashion editor for the entirety of winter. Only to discover shortly afterwards that 1. I hate it and 2. It doesn’t suit me. It doesn’t transform me in the way I imagined. The fashion police are not…
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    Join Me As I Discuss Marriage And All Of The Struggles Associated With It

  • The Top Three Weirdest Wedding Celebrations

    Mary Ward
    28 Jun 2015 | 1:16 am
    While I do love a good wedding ceremony, I also have a thing for good, crazy fun. So, when a friend of mine shared an article about some of the craziest and weirdest wedding celebrations and traditions all over the world, I realized that I just had to go on a trip to experience it firsthand! The list my friend gave me was a long one, but I decided on choosing the top three wedding celebrations which I personally think are just plain crazy and weird. Of course, I had to make a lot of preparations on my own. Saving money was the first thing on my mind, so I had to cut back on useless expenses.
  • Marriage Responsibilities: Starting a Family

    Mary Ward
    27 Jun 2015 | 2:09 am
    Image Credit: Another vital part of marriage that people sometimes neglect to appreciate is the path of motherhood. This role that mothers take part in, is something as equally important as marriage. In a sense, it is the marriage of the parents, especially the mother, towards the child. Image Credit: For women, finding out that you are soon going to have a baby, is probably one of the most bittersweet moments in life. It is sweet because finally, you will have a baby to cherish and love and care for. It’s also bitter, in a good way, because you know you…
  • Types of Marriages

    Mary Ward
    17 Jun 2015 | 1:27 am
    The concept of marriage has changed over time. While this is so, it has remained a vital part in society formation and it still has its merits for those who still value it, both in its sacredness and in its emotional gravity. Image Credit: Marriage has many faces. From the generations of the past up to the present, marriage occurs for different purposes that are validated by society and by unwritten rules of life and love. One type of marriage, the most sought after kind of marriage, the marriage that is said to be ideal and is the ‘real thing’ among all marriages, is a…
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  • You Can't Test for Virginity

    Sam W
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:32 am
    Hello I'm 13 and don't plan on having sex but my mother says that when I'm 16-18 she is going to get me checked to see if I'm still a virgin because I'm religious and we believe in no sex till marriage. Even though I don't plan on having sex, does masturbation affect the test the doctors going to take? And how do they take this test? Because I don't want to masturbate and find out the doctor says I'm not a virgin. Is their even a way for the doctors to test it( because my mom could be bluffing)? P.s me and my moms relationship is good so she would trust me if I told her I didn't have sex plus…
  • Scarleteen Confidential: How “Men Suck” Messes Everybody Up

    Heather Corinna
    15 Jun 2015 | 3:02 pm
    This is part of our series for parents or guardians. To find out more about the series, click here. For our top five guiding principles for parents or guardians, click here; for a list of resources, click here. To see all posts in the series, click the Scarleteen Confidential tag here at Scarleteen, or follow the series on Tumblr at Messages parents or guardians have given our users about gender come up frequently, and often problematically. We often see the negative impacts of crummy ways some of their parents frame and talk about gender. As feminists and…
  • Scarleteen Confidental: A Resource Toolbox

    Heather Corinna
    14 Jun 2015 | 4:23 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna and Sam Wall Introduction:  Some great internet and print resources for parents and families to help everyone do their best parenting with sex and sexuality. Internet Sexuality Resources for Parents The Sex Positive Parent The Guttmacher Institute Gender Spectrum Sexplainer Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) Our Bodies, Ourselves Blog Birds + Bees+ Kids Healthy Children RH Reality Check Internet Sexuality Resources for Young People (and their families!) Scarleteen Planned Parenthood Federation of America International…
  • Scarleteen Confidential: The Big Five

    Heather Corinna
    14 Jun 2015 | 2:43 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna and Sam Wall Introduction:  If we had to pick just five central things we think are most important to parent well around sex, sexuality and relationships, these are the five we'd choose. If you take nothing else away from Scarleteen Confidential, we feel these five things are the real guiding principles when it comes to parenting well with sex and sexuality. You will hear echoes of them in all of the pieces we publish in these pieces, and if you've read other comprehensive parenting guides, they're probably also already familiar to you. Young people…
  • Scarleteen Confidential: (Better) BC Invitations

    Heather Corinna
    14 Jun 2015 | 2:18 pm
    This is part of our series for parents or guardians. To find out more about the series, click here. For our top five guiding principles for parents or guardians click here; for a list of resources, click here. To see all posts in the series, click the Scarleteen Confidential tag above, or follow the series on Tumblr at "How could i tell my mom in the best possible way i wanna be on birth control? help me plzzzz!!!! I need help with this badly." "i want to start using birth control but who do i consult with first my parents or my doctor and if my parents…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • OverRated: Call Centres

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    5 Jul 2015 | 8:41 pm
    In days gone by, Call Centres seemed to be staffed exclusively by Scotsmen who had me eating out of the palm of their hand and purchasing whatever good deal it was they had to offer. Purely because of the effect of their dulcet tones. But then things changed. The irritation of trying to communicate with … Continue reading OverRated: Call Centres
  • Pleasurists #54

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    2 Jul 2015 | 8:28 pm
    Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. Did you miss Pleasurists #53? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #55? Submit it here before Sunday November 22nd at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blog … Continue reading Pleasurists #54
  • One Month Before Heartbreak

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    29 Jun 2015 | 8:17 pm
    I received the email about One Month Before Heartbreak on Saturday and it is a campaign that I am very keen to support. Disability benefit is a much-maligned sector of our society with a variety of colourful stories of cheats and frauds. However, there are a huge number of claimants for whom it is a necessity and who have successfully navigated the fraught waters involved with just successfully completing the form
  • Movie Clip Wednesday – Who Didn’t Get An Oscar?

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    26 Jun 2015 | 8:02 pm
    MRM chose a more difficult topic for this week’s theme. Unable to think of any off the top of my head, I am indebted to the Daily Mail for providing me with this list of the top ten films that should have won an Oscar. Reading through, I am totally astonished by some of those … Continue reading Movie Clip Wednesday – Who Didn’t Get An Oscar?
  • John Forsythe – Charlie’s Angels and Dynasty

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    23 Jun 2015 | 7:47 pm
    I was sad to read the news that John Forsythe had died from complications relating to pneumonia after battling cancer for some time. I grew up with a soundtrack on which his voice was a major factor. First, disembodied and distorted through a speaker phone on the original Charlie’s Angels with Farrah Fawcett, Jaclyn Smith … Continue reading John Forsythe – Charlie’s Angels and Dynasty
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • What She Really Thinks About Your Big Penis

    Kaylen Jackson
    5 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    A big penis is something to be congratulated on, right? Being well endowed is what every guy wishes for – and what every woman supposedly wishes for. But having a huge member isn’t all it’s cracked up to be when you look at it from the female perspective. Here’s what women TRULY think about a big penis. Intercourse Yes, having a big penis can come in handy during intercourse because it has the ability to reach and stimulate the g-spot. However, a guy with a smaller member can do that also, if he just knows how to use what he’s got. So is having sex with a guy…
  • What He REALLY Thinks About During Sex With You

    He Said/She Said with John & Jenna
    4 Jul 2015 | 6:46 am
    Is there any woman who doesn’t want to know what goes on inside the male mind? If you’re like most (okay probably all) women, you’ve thought about what your man is thinking about during sex. You’ve probably been especially curious to think about what he thinks about during sex with you. Here’s What She Said About “What He Thinks About During Sex” Baseball, Star Trek, His fantasy football league, What he had for dinner, Math equations, How to change a tire, WWII. And anything else that is 
the complete opposite of what is happening to his body right now! When guys…
  • Sex Tips: The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make In Bed

    Shawna Lenee
    3 Jul 2015 | 4:00 am
    Sex tips will guide you in the right direction, but you also want to make sure you’re not actively ruining your own sex life as well. Are you ruining your sex life? Even the best lovers are often guilty of flubbing up in the bedroom, often WITHOUT ever knowing it. It’s just a fact of life. But that doesn’t mean that YOU have to be! Discover the most common issues men have in the bedroom – and what to do INSTEAD to drive your woman WILD with pleasure. Avoid these 10 sex life ruiners and you’ll have better sex the very NEXT time you make love, guaranteed! Thinking She…
  • 10 Things That Will Make Your Breasts Look Fabulous!

    Kaylen Jackson
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:00 am
    Seduction involves using your natural accessories – namely, your breasts. Make the most of your breasts (and get tons of male attention) with these ten tips. Breasts are a natural accessory, much like a necklace. If you pick the right outfit (or even your birthday suit), your breasts can really put a nice bow on the package! Go Braless During The Day Your breasts deserve a break! Go braless for a day. Wear a soft t-shirt that doesn’t feel rough against your nipples and just lounge around. It’s even better if you can do this in front of your guy. Turn the air down a little so…
  • 7 “Innocent” Words That Turn Women On

    Vin DiCarlo
    29 Jun 2015 | 5:00 am
    And in this article, you’ll find out seven “seduction” words guaranteed to get a woman thinking about sex, how to use them and exactly what you need to say to make a woman wet her panties whenever you’re around. But first… Watch this FREE video to find out how you can read any woman’s mind and immediately know exactly what she’s thinking about! (No, we’re not talking magic tricks or paranormal stuff here! This is cutting edge psychology combined with real-world application). Seduction isn’t all action – a lot of what’s…
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    Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

  • If they lie to themselves, why are they going to be honest with us?

    2 Jul 2015 | 2:34 pm
    When you really take the time to get to know you, you will find that as a result of paying attention to your feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, you are not only armed with a great deal of self-knowledge and self-awareness but you have so much more power in your life because you know your own bullsh*t (BS). As humans, we’re all prone to BS’ng ourselves to lesser and greater degrees but the great thing is that when we know our own and we own it instead of believing it, we are coming from an entirely different level of awareness to somebody who doesn’t acknowledge their…
  • The under-receiving over-giver: Are you able to receive gifts, compliments or help?

    29 Jun 2015 | 3:07 pm
    At a surprise party a few months back, I noticed something about the birthday girl: she was near having palpitations due to not being the organiser and she was visibly stressed about receiving gifts and compliments. She didn’t know how to receive. If you struggle to receive compliments, gifts, help, support etc., you have receiving issues and in actual fact, you’re also likely to be an over-giving people pleaser (over-givers tend to under-receive), possibly because each time somebody does something for you, you feel as if you have to bump up your efforts and almost prove that you…
  • Super Late: How we treat time says a lot about how much we respect other people’s time

    23 Jun 2015 | 2:40 pm
    If you’ve ever stood (or sat) around waiting for somebody who is late, you will understand how frustrating and downright awkward this can be, especially when they either don’t warn you that they’re going to be late or they have a habit of being late on the regular. Equally, if you are typically late and have received flack for it, you may struggle to understand what the problem is because from your end of things, you either feel that there are genuine reasons for your lateness or that they’re making an unnecessarily big deal out of it. A friend of mine was recently kept waiting for…
  • Are you trying to 419 me? Use your self-esteem operating system to filter out BS & shadiness

    16 Jun 2015 | 1:34 pm
    Do you remember many moons ago when the internet was shiny and new and you used to get excited about receiving an email? I remember when dating websites started and how love was blossoming all over the place. I also remember two things that most of us gradually became aware of : there are people out there who send spam designed to either wreck your computer or gain your hard earned money, and there are people online who are not what they seem. Back in the day when my friends and I used to spend our weekends in nightclubs pretending to be on a girls night out but secretly hungering for ‘Mr…
  • “No one will love you better” – what the what now?

    12 Jun 2015 | 11:08 am
    I knew it was going to be one of those crazy busy weeks – I have a Baggage Reclaim stall at the Blogtacular conference tomorrow and am currently waiting for my youngest to finish her first ballet exam (she had a meltdown ten minutes beforehand – give me strength!) – and so I made another video, and this time, it’s on the subject of when somebody tells you that, “No one will love you better [than me]”, and the equally as bad, “I’m the one who loves you the most”. Talk about having a big ego! I mean – how exactly do they know what the…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 437: Talking about money

    27 Jun 2015 | 8:40 pm
    Uncomfortable talks about money. If you're the breadwinner, would you give your partner money for a date? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 436: Dating your species

    18 Jun 2015 | 10:06 pm
    Reid Mihalko, the original sex geek, shares how to date your species. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 435: Metamour fears

    11 Jun 2015 | 9:05 pm
    What do you do when you're intimidated by your unmet metamour? Meet her! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 434: Five things that suck about polyamory

    4 Jun 2015 | 9:26 am
    Let's talk about what is really tough about being polyamorous in today's modern culture: five things that suck about polyamory. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 433: Breaking up is hard to do

    24 May 2015 | 11:05 pm
    Breaking up is hard to do! How to cope with a poly breakup when losing a partner/metamour that you and your hubbie each feel differently about. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • Five Reasons Why Summer Is a Single Gal’s Best Season

    21 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    So you’re single this summer—so what? There’s no better time of year to be on your own, so celebrate your status and make the most of the season with our list.
  • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat

    20 Jun 2015 | 12:05 am
    By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including: “I look fat in this,” (a subtly aggressive form,...
  • The Top 10 Signs He’s a Keeper

    14 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    If you think you've found your loyal Colin Firth in the sea of one-night stand Colin Farrells, then you might just have a keeper. Here are the top 10 signs.
  • Business & Life Coaching for Savvy Women!

    18 May 2015 | 12:05 am
    Do you feel there's a bigger and better life you're meant to live? Is it time you made a living doing what you love or achieved a long-term goal?
  • The Single Gal's Checklist

    16 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    When I went out for cocktails the other night, I took mental notes of my single-girl night out checklist: cash, keys, lip gloss, cell phone. But what else do we need to navigate our single gal lives?
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Online Game Aims to Prevent Sexual Assault

    Jessica Yang
    23 Jun 2015 | 1:09 pm
    Online Game Aims to Prevent Sexual Assault Students in Carnegie Mellon’s “Morality Play: Laboratory for Interactive Media and Values” class created Decisions That Matter, an online interactive game that focuses on sexual harassment, sexual assault and the actions bystanders take when faced with sexual harassment and situations where sexual assault could occur. The game features a cast of diverse characters set in realistic situations with realistic reactions. Unlike most educational tools about bystander intervention, Decisions That Matter is a choose-your-own-adventure-style game where…
  • Texting Our Way to Better Contraception Use

    Sumra Alvi
    15 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    Can health care providers and patients use texting to promote more consistent birth control use? Yes, they can! Clinicians and public health advocates have discovered something interesting: phone calls, email and snail mail just don’t seem to cut it for us! Teens from across the country are using texting on their cell phones as their primary mode of communication, prompting researchers to study these habits and wonder if this could be used to promote birth control use. A recent study conducted by the Johns Hopkins Children Center examined the effectiveness of text messaging girls ages 13 to…
  • Teen Parents at YTH Live Call for Support Not Shame

    Leslie Hassanein
    28 May 2015 | 6:47 am
    From April 26th to 28th, I represented Sex, Etc. at the annual Youth Tech Health (YTH) Live conference in San Francisco. The conference gathers the young and not-so-young to present and discuss how technology is being used to provide sex ed and improve young people’s sexual and overall health. Though YTH Live has come to a close, I met some amazing people there, including two young parents who are working to change how we think about teen parents. A good majority of the people at YTH Live were college juniors and seniors looking for advice on grad school, a completely foreign idea to an…
  • Pledge to End Sexual Assault With

    Gillian Hatcher
    5 May 2015 | 10:49 am
    It started out the way you would expect a sexual assault public service announcement (PSA) to start: people were at a party, a beautiful girl was stumbling on her way out. From this point, based on all of the other sexual assault PSAs I have seen, I expected the guy to step in at any minute and take advantage of the girl. He did, just like I thought. But something was different this time. It is a campaign that encourages people to no longer be bystanders and intervene when they feel a situation might end in rape or sexual assault. When the camera moved past the guy and the girl and focused on…
  • Expedited Partner Therapy: The BOGO of STD Treatment

    Sumra Alvi
    7 Apr 2015 | 4:00 am
    There is stigma attached to getting tested for sexually transmitted disease (STDs) that tends to steer many people, especially teenagers, away from visiting the clinic. Some of the questions running through a frightened person’s head may range from “Will it hurt?” to “How much will this cost me?” to “What if my parents find out?!” These questions and fears may prevent teens from going to the clinic when they find out their partner has an STD and now they likely have it, too. This public health concern has sparked a new practice in health care called expedited partner therapy…
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    Simple Marriage

  • 4 Ways To Be A Better Listener For Your Spouse, Today

    6 Jul 2015 | 5:04 am
    Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Caleb Simonyi­-Gindele of Listening is one of those marriage skills that doesn’t come with a very sexy label. However, learning to listen well to your spouse pays huge dividends for deepening the intimacy between you. Think of listening as a gateway to your spouse’s inner world. What would it be like to truly understand your spouse? I think that would be an incredible gift you can give and one that I am sure he or she would love to reciprocate. In this post, I’d like to take four specific listening skills that are…
  • How much money makes you happy?

    29 Jun 2015 | 5:04 am
    Do you earn enough money to be happy? According to a study from Gallup, earning $75,000 a year is a magic income level in America. As salaries increased for the 450,000 people surveyed, the day-to-day level of happiness rose as well – until it reached a plateau at $75,000. Does this mean a person earning $150,000 isn’t any happier than a person earning $75,000? In both cases, the general day-to-day happiness or contentment was similar – but those who made more than $75,000 were more satisfied with their general position or status in the world. “Giving people more income beyond…
  • 10 Ways To Be More Attractive

    22 Jun 2015 | 4:07 am
    Attraction is a funny thing. Many people believe physical appearance is the driving force behind attractiveness. If you hold that belief, you’d be wrong. While physical appearance plays a role, your thoughts and how you carry yourself are the dominant power behind attractiveness. You don’t have to be dressed in the latest trends or wear the right label to be attractive. You also don’t have to lose the pounds to attain your ideal body weight. Or spend enough time at the gym to get the right definition. With the right mindset you can unveil your natural beauty. How? Be Real A…
  • I Was Wrong

    18 Jun 2015 | 6:48 pm
    Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Michael d’Esterre of Monastic Man. “Honey, you are right and I was wrong.” How often do we hear those words come out of the mouth of our spouse? It hardly comes out of my own. But its one of the things I am personally trying to incorporate into my marital vocabulary. Boy is it hard! “I was wrong.” Seems like a simple enough sentence, but the ability to utter that sentence in an emotionally weighted conversation makes it more akin to pulling a tooth. “A shot of novocaine please! Anything to kill the pain of this process!” Why is…
  • The Art of Listening

    15 Jun 2015 | 11:14 am
    It’s safe to say that most of us are interested in the quality of our lives. But what we may not remember are the following two ideas: The quality of our lives depends largely on the quality of our relationships. To a large extent, the quality of our relationships depend on the quality of our communication. I’ve stated my belief on communication before – in a committed relationship, you can not not communicate. The real issue is — how do you handle the messages sent between you? Especially the ones involving messages you don’t like, or ones with which you disagree. While I still…
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  • Sexy airplane reading is yours for just $1.99 this week with my book The Mile High Club

    6 Jul 2015 | 6:44 am
    Portable plane sex on my Kindle: I'm taking two flights today, from Philadelphia to Boston, then Boston to Martha's Vineyard, and I've downloaded my erotica anthology The Mile High Club: Plane Sex Stories to reread (and yes, I have a few others downloaded and packed). Get it while it's hot - the $1.99 sale runs through this Thursday! Here's where you can buy it on the cheap: KindleNookiBooksGoogle PlayWant to listen to a free sample? Let Lucy Malone, The Mile High Club audiobook narrator, serenade you. Buy the $1.99 Kindle version and get the audiobook for just $3.99!
  • The Mile High Club: Plane Sex Stories is just $1.99 on Kindle!

    3 Jul 2015 | 10:17 am
    Happy 4th of July (okay, 3rd) - I just found out that my erotica anthology The Mile High Club: Plane Sex Stories is just $1.99 on Kindle! I don't know how long the sale will last but probably for a week, so download it now. FYI if you've read Flying High then skip this one as they are the same (it got reissued under a new title), or give it as a gift. I love this book and will be downloading it to reread when I fly on Monday! Funny but true: I wrote "Urgent Message" right around when wifi on planes was new and only offered by a handful of airlines. Now it's become much more commonplace. I…
  • What erotica writers thought about the #AskELJames Twitter Q&A

    30 Jun 2015 | 9:23 am
    I decided to ask erotica writers what they thought about yesterday's #AskELJames Twitter chat. Their varied takes are up at The Frisky. Thanks to writers Rose Caraway, Abigail Ekue, Tamsin Flowers, Shanna Germain, Tasha L. Harrison, A.M. Hartnett, Oleander Plume and Remittance Girl for sharing their thoughts! Yes, I do have a copy of Grey, but don't think I'll be formally reviewing it, though I will be writing about BDSM and submission in real life soon. Stay tuned!
  • The kind of book reviews that truly matter to me as an anthology editor

    20 Jun 2015 | 7:50 am
    Firstly, I want to say that anyone who so much as picks up any of my books, whether you read the whole thing or not, let alone review it, get my automatic thanks. Out of the millions, possibly billions, of books out there, for someone to pick up my indie press erotica, whether in print, ebook or audiobook form, means so much to me. This is what I've been doing ever since I couldn't hack law school, and what I love about anthologies is that they are a group effort, organized by me as the editor. Without writers trusting me with their work, I'd just have a bunch of my own short stories, and I'm…
  • Why I picked it: "Jailbait Torch Song" by Valerie Alexander in Hungry for More

    17 Jun 2015 | 5:46 am
    Welcome back to Why I Picked It Wednesday, a peek into my editorial decisions when selecting stories for my erotica anthologies, and a chance to highlight some favorites I've published over the years. Here I want to talk about "Jailbait Torch Song" by Valerie Alexander in Hungry for More: Romantic Fantasies for Women, whose title already pushes the envelope. Jailbait. It's a taunting, teasing word. Are we supposed to be repulsed? Intrigued? Repulsed because we are intrigued? Yet it's the combination of the entire title that truly gives the story its meaning. As a reader, I often find it…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex - Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more.

  • Eye Candy: Pretty Pretty Porn

    Violet Blue
    6 Jul 2015 | 12:22 am
    If you loved Secretary, our new collection will make you purr: Bent Over His Desk: Hot Office Kink ($4.49). Thanks to FrolicMe for the lovely, exclusive photo above! * Naomi Nevena, Thomas Long – Desirous * Anna Rose, Figo – Tie Me Up * Kylie Kalvetti, Adriana Chechik – Blinded By Love * Elektra Rose, Markus London – Magic Fingers * Piper Perri, Kristina Bell – Ballerina Beauties * Aimee and Tatyana – Make Love to Me * Ericka – Two Dildos in the Bathtub * Satine Spark, Daisy Rock – Lesbian MILF Desire * Dunia Montenegro, gentleman friend –…
  • Sex News: Visa and Mastercard discrimination, Motörhead sex toys, Oculus about-face on porn

    Violet Blue
    4 Jul 2015 | 3:38 am
    IF you loved Secretary, this erotica will give you filthy fantasies: Bent Over His Desk: Hot Office Kink ($4.49). Visa and Mastercard have ceased to allow payments to be made to Backpage and Cracker for advertising services. This decision was made to appease some anti-sex work advocates in the United States, and impacts Australian sex workers who use Backpage and/or Cracker to legally advertise sexual services. For those that are unaware, sex work is mostly legal throughout Australia (except in South Australia). This decision by Visa and Mastercard is not only discriminatory but extremely…
  • Cult film spectacle: Rihanna’s ‘Bitch Better Have My Money’ video

    Violet Blue
    2 Jul 2015 | 11:59 am
    Above is the embed for Rihanna’s new video, Bitch Better Have My Money (a non-YouTube link is here on Vevo if you’re held back by Google’s restrictions). It comes with a sex and violence warning for readers; survivors of sexual assault and trauma will skip hitting the ‘play’ button on this one. Why? It’s a full-on, blood-drenched cult film, a reverently grindhouse-style spectacle of sex, violence and style. So it isn’t for everyone, but is certainly, definitely for me. I couldn’t decide whether to put this one in erotic art or erotic fashion,…
  • Hola y bienvenida a los lectores Chilango!

    Violet Blue
    1 Jul 2015 | 3:30 pm
    If you’re visiting for the first time from Chilango’s Violet Blue: la evangelista del sexo y la tecnología, welcome to TinyNibbles! Spanish speakers will appreciate my translated sex guides, El Arte Del Sexo Oral/The Art of Oral Sex (La Felación), El Arte Del Sexo Oral II/ the Art of Oral Sex II (El cunnilingus), and Imaginación Sexual: Disfrute del sexo total (Fantasías, juegos, posturas, vestuario y fetiches) – nuevas y exitantes historias de la famosa autora de literatura erótica Alison Tyler. In addition, I had many of the sex guides I wrote for Good Vibrations…
  • Sex News: Porn addiction debunked, UK porn witch hunts, #AskELJames, FEMEN documentary

    Violet Blue
    30 Jun 2015 | 1:51 am
    IF you loved Secretary, our new collection will make you purr: Bent Over His Desk: Hot Office Kink ($4.49). The brains of those ‘addicted’ to porn bear no neurological resemblance to those of other well-documented addictions while watching it, says a new study. neuroscientists Nicole Prause (Liberos LLC at UCLA) and Vaughn Steele, and their team of researchers, have released a new study, published in the journal Biological Psychology, that reaffirms their previous findings: “porn addiction” and “sex addiction,” as we understand them, may not be real. Your Porn Addiction Isn’t…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 454

    Dan Savage
    7 Jul 2015 | 1:00 am
    While you and I danced in the streets, Dan was trapped in Australia, where marriage equality is NOT YET LEGAL. Hear his thoughts on the Supreme Court decision. A woman is attractive, accomplished and has big plans. But when potential dates start talking to her, they quickly shut down and move on. What is she doing wrong? Is her grandmother correct that she talks to much?  A woman was sexually abused by her mother. Is she obligated to explain this to her 16 year-old son?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with PhD neuroscientist and data scientist  Matthew Baggott about the therapeutic uses of…
  • Savage Love Episode 453

    Dan Savage
    30 Jun 2015 | 1:00 am
    This week we are delighted to welcome Hillary Frank, host and creator of The Longest Shortest Time podcast, to answer some questions about reclaiming your sex life after pregnancy. Also, a woman tends to date messed-up, and/or addicted guys, because she likes to try to heal them in their “time of darkness.” How can she keep doing all this groovy healing without constantly dating damaged men? A woman’s husband is bisexual. He came out to a friend at their subtly anti-gay church group and the man ran screaming. How can she help her husband to get over the loss of this friend?  And more,…
  • Savage Love Episode 452

    Dan Savage
    23 Jun 2015 | 1:00 am
    OMG it’s actual movie star famous guy celebrity JASON SCHWARTZMAN. And guess what? He’s clever, funny and super-nice. He and Dan talk about his new movie The Overnight, swinging, swastika tattoos (spoiler: he’s against them,) controlling mothers, and the famous people you want to sleep with. Don’t miss it. There’s some on the micro, and more on the Magnum.  Also, a man’s new boyfriend has the same name of a former abuser of his. How can he get over the horrible association?  And, how can an experimenting bisexual lass get “lesbian society” to take her seriously? 206-201-2720…
  • Savage Love Episode 451

    Dan Savage
    16 Jun 2015 | 1:00 am
    A divorced single mother can’t seem to get it through her lovers’ heads that she just wants casual relationships. How can she convince them that there’s no ring required?  A woman’s mouth is dick Kryptonite! Her boyfriend’s penis always goes soft when she tries to go down. What on earth is she doing wrong?  On the Magnum, Dan talks to author and bioethics professor Alice Dreger as well as documentarian Liz Canner, who created Orgasm Inc, about the hype and general scumminess surrounding the new “Female viagra”- flibanserin. And tons more.  206-201-2720 This episode of…
  • Savage Love Episode 450

    Dan Savage
    9 Jun 2015 | 1:00 am
    An 18 year-old man and his girlfriend are learning how to get it on. She can make herself come, but he can’t get her there himself. Would a vibrator be such a bad idea?  Dan welcomes comedian, writer and actress Ophira Eisenberg (host of NPR’s “Ask Me Another”) to discuss the wisdom of face tattoos and the sexiness of mansplaining.  On the Magnum, a family tiptoes around their gay son’s atrocious behavior because they’re afraid he’ll call them homophobic.  Hey penis-havers! Do you ever have aftershock orgasms when you pee after sex?  Tell us all about it.  206-201-2720 The…
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  • I Am, Officially, The Oldhead At The Hoop Court. Please Hold Me.

    Damon Young
    7 Jul 2015 | 1:12 pm
    The realization should have come in 2013. I was a regular on the court at LA Fitness in Bakery Square; showing up three times a week to play (and, usually, beat) guys who were half my age. And half my age plus 10 years. I was the shit. They’d call me Joe Johnson. Or Paul Pierce. Or literally any other NBA player who manages to be effective despite moving like their legs are stuck in a puddle of grits. And, on the days my legs were feeling good and I managed to eat a grape and shit that afternoon, I’d “show dunk” between games. “Show dunking” = not…
  • Seven Songs We Need To Retire From Cookouts, Clubs, And Other Places Colored People Congregate

    Natalie Degraffinried
    7 Jul 2015 | 6:47 am
    After years of being exposed to White parties, I’ve gained a particular appreciation for the comfort of attending a Black party and having a general idea of what to expect musically. No getting Rachel Dolezaled when you hear a Black song starting to play and it’s suddenly remixed with EDM porn music. No sir, there are Black classics that will be played, and they will be enjoyed. In Cleveland, “50 Niggaz Deep” is one of those songs. And oh, does that make me happy. Lola Damone’s verse is at least 4% of why I’m a feminist today. It should be played at every function, all the…
  • Bill Cosby, Dirty And Guilty Old Shit, Admits To Being A Dirty And Guilty Old Shit

    Damon Young
    6 Jul 2015 | 4:30 pm
    Bill Cosby actually said out his own actual mouth that he bought actual drugs to sedate actual women. Women he, in his own words, “wanted to have sex with.” He also actually admitted out his own actual mouth that he gave the actual drugs to at least one actual woman. When you sedate a person before sleeping with them, they can no longer consent. Sex without consent is rape. And he actually admitted all of this during an actual trial where he was being sued by an actual woman claiming that he also actually drugged and sexually assaulted her; a case he actually settled out of…
  • I’ve Got a Dumbass Medical Condition

    Panama Jackson
    6 Jul 2015 | 11:00 am
    Let’s just start with the punchline: the glands on my eyelids are being bitches. Actually, its just one of my eyelids. So the glands on my right eyelids? Straight bitches. I’ve got blepharitis.  Blepharitis (blef-uh-RYE-tis) is inflammation of the eyelids. Blepharitis usually involves the part of the eyelid where the eyelashes grow and affects both eyelids. Blepharitis commonly occurs when tiny oil glands located near the base of the eyelashes become clogged. This leads to irritated and red eyes. Several diseases and conditions can cause blepharitis. Blepharitis is often a…
  • A Question About Chivalry: Who’s “Supposed” To Be The Lead Walker? (…And Does It Matter?)

    Damon Young
    6 Jul 2015 | 8:27 am
    Despite much consternation (and some cheer) about its demise, I’d argue that most adults, and even most teens, are at least somewhat aware of chivalry. Specifically, the parts that concern how a male and a female human in a romantic relationship should treat each other. The people who don’t follow these rules of decorum either don’t out of political principle (i.e.: a belief they’re sexist and/or outdated) or don’t because they just reveal in being a dick. Ignorance of them is a poor excuse. Because even if you weren’t taught how to be chivalrous, after…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • Want To Make Your Love Story Into A Musical?

    7 Jul 2015 | 12:08 pm
    Evan Kaufman and Rebecca Vigil have a recurring stage show in which they take a couple from the audience, learn their love story and turn it into a 30-minute improvised musical. Sounds crazy, right? It is. And hilarious. And sweet. Along the way, Your Love, Our Musical has taught them that every love story has its own brand of strange and it's own brand of adorable. Here's why. Keywords: love story, love quotesBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 4 Reasons You Think About Your Ex—And It's Not Because You Miss Him

    7 Jul 2015 | 11:48 am
    weheartit Even years down the road, you might still find your mind drifting back to what might have been. If you’re starting to consider the idea of maybe reaching out to your ex to rekindle, pause first.  Keywords: thinking about him, after a breakup, thinking about your ex, after a breakup, moving on from a breakup, moving on from break up, moving on after a breakup, thinking about him, thinking about herBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 16 Things You Do Every. Single. Day. That TORTURE Your Skin

    7 Jul 2015 | 11:11 am
    weheartit Your skin is basically an ill-tempered five-year-old: cranky, high-maintenance, and takes things personally. Keywords: skin, Skin Care, beauty secrets, Acne, beauty tipsBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Ladies, Can We All Agree To Stop Apologizing For These 20 Things?

    7 Jul 2015 | 9:54 am
    weheartit The word “sorry,” for women, doesn’t always indicate accountability or even an apology. Keywords: apologies, unnecessary habits, habits, sorry, apologyBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • All Those In Favor Of Putting Nicki Minaj On The $10 Bill, Say 'Aye'

    6 Jul 2015 | 2:52 pm
    FLAVORWIRE Let it be a woman with the same values as those revered figures of the past, but with the added perspective of a woman living in the world right now. Keywords: nicki minaj, woman on the 10 dollar billBookmark/Share this post with: read more
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    Sensual Writer

  • Wife Self Shot

    7 Jul 2015 | 6:30 am
    Short haired wife Bate self shot: Hardcore wife enjoying herself and similar slogans are attached to most wife and girlfriend selfies these days. Most of it is just a pic, so we go back to the root and reprint some amateur reviews of sites that used to have good wife and GF material, either amateur shot, selfies or girl producers. Magic Laura Review Let’s get started: Magic Laura is one of five brand new solo girl sites (launched in January 2007) that can either be joined individually or all together for around the price of two. Each site stars a hot amateur girl and Laura, another…
  • Emily 18

    6 Jul 2015 | 3:24 am
    Nude in the dungeon: With a smile on her face and tight pants on her ass Emily 18 poses in the dungeon and looks awfully good as she strips to her white panties. Dominika Double Pleasure – There has always been a lot to admire in Dominika. Now there is so much more. Beautiful Emily 18 is wearing a red top and a denim skirt and the girl is being as adorable as possible once again. She is gifted at that and her striptease set involves some great looks at lovely young body. If you like a perky pair of tits then I heartily recommend you ogle hers. “I like traveling to exotic places…
  • AV Tower Review

    4 Jul 2015 | 1:33 pm
    Asian Video Mountain: A pile or heap with loads of Japanese videos. “We bring the videos to your computer” as they say, a slogan almost impossible to misunderstand. The tour is full of big tits otherwise, this is why I wanted to check out the rest of the site to begin with. After entering “Asian hardcore movies tits” or similar in Google and this site was listed on the first page. I find big tits in general very fascinating but whenever they’re attached to Tokyo babes, it gives good vibes. Kind of a standard preview seen here, and way too similar to the sort of…
  • Japan Hardcore Movies

    4 Jul 2015 | 3:06 am
    Only Japanese or Chinese stars are present in this aged offering, no Asian-Americans. One other thing setting it apart from many in the genre is: Movie are uncensored here. No mosaics on genitalia or pubic hair. Although many Asian surfers apparently prefer watching scrambled/censored porn. Leaves something to the imagination?) Well, you’ll have to look some place else if you seek that. is all uncensored, with no DRM protection scheme either which is so popular with Asian video sites. You know the one where you gotta stay a member to view movies you’ve…
  • Russian Nudes

    3 Jul 2015 | 3:03 pm
    Nude Angels: Natural beauty and Super Sexy Lesbians Angels Melody and Lena in public nudes.A Sex blog dedicated to hot young girls. Russian Teen Melita: Vibrant and spontaneous, Nubile Melita is a good girl with a wild side and hot body. This flirtatious blonde cutie loves to show off her beautiful Pink Pussy and tease all the guys! Nubiles is the only place where you get to see the freshest girls on the net… and you can only see them here… There is nowhere else where you will see these girls graduate from nubile status to blossom into woman-hood! Shylina – passionate sex: Shylina…
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  • Colour Me Beautiful: Lovehoney's Model of the Month

    6 Jul 2015 | 3:00 am
    The weather isn't the only thing that's been scorching hot recently! Our lovely community have amped up their efforts for our monthly modelling competition, and the results are incredible. In case you're just joining us, each month we choose our favourite user-uploaded community photo to win a £100 gift voucher to spend on whatever they like. Not bad, eh? This month's winner is Lovebirds_x with this natural and effortlessly sexy shot we just can't get enough of. The close-up photo shows off the detail of her Lovehoney Flirty Pink Lace Boyshorts perfectly. Over top, she's added the…
  • Take Our Sexy Male Underwear Survey - WIN a £120 Bundle

    2 Jul 2015 | 5:54 am
    The right pair of sexy underwear can make you look and feel amazing, but who said they were just for women? It's about time you felt sexy too chaps! We want to hear exactly what you're looking for in a pair of sexy undies. Whether it's boxers or thongs, lace or microfiber, let us know what you'd like to see in our Male Underwear category for the chance to win our Massive Male Bundle worth £120. Included in this month's mega bundle: Fantasy Excite See Through Striped Boxers (£11.99) Lovehoney O Force Powerful Male Vibrator (£34.99) Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager…
  • New Fleshlight Girls: Meet Tanya Tate, Angela White and Christy Mack

    25 Jun 2015 | 7:26 am
    It's official: Male sex toys are becoming more and more mainstream, and the Fleshlight male masturbator is now vying with the classic rabbit vibrator for the title of most famous sex toy in the world. Shaped like a torch (or Flashlight to you Americans) with a realistic vaginal opening and textured internal canal, the Fleshlight takes solo pleasure to new heights. Even better, some of the most famous adult actresses in Hollywood (and some actors, too) have granted Fleshlight access to their private parts to recreate their vaginas, butts and mouths in Fleshlight form. Our customers tell us…
  • Does Your Penis Have a Name? Take Our Poll - WIN a Cock Ring!

    18 Jun 2015 | 6:28 am
    Long Dong Silver, The Pleasure Pump or maybe even Thor. All guys have a name for their... little friend? Right? It's okay guys, you can admit it. Even super-cool Channing Tatum owned up to calling his man-pole Gilbert this week. So if you or your partner have ever had a pet name for your trouser snake, we want to know. Take the poll and, if you feel like sharing, write your willy's name in the comment section below*. We will pick a name at random to receive a Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Vibrating Cock Ring worth £14.99. You owe it to your penis really. *Dont worry, you can still enter even…
  • Everything You Need To Know About Natural Lubricants

    17 Jun 2015 | 6:00 am
    Your skin absorbs over 60% of what you put on it. So if you're careful about what you eat, why shouldn't you be careful about what you put on your skin? Lubrication is really important for safe, comfortable sex and masturbation. It eases penetration, making vaginal and anal sex more comfortable for men and women - and for circumcised men, a personal lubricant is often necessary to help prevent friction. The vagina lubricates itself when you're aroused, but sometimes it doesn't happen. Stress, tiredness, diet and menopause can all have an impact on your body's natural lubrication - which is…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • testifier

    7 Jul 2015 | 11:51 am
    New Answer - The come and go reunion spell worked faster than i ever expected because i did not trust him from the beginning. using this post to encourage women not to give up on their love and always fight to the finish for their loved once and also to give out this great spell casters contact email: you dont need to be told anymore try the great spell caster. Thank you all. julia London UK

    7 Jul 2015 | 9:11 am
    New Answer - WOW!! This is the most wonderful thing i have ever experience and i need to share this great testimony..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 8TH MATCH 2015, And i saw a marvellous testimony of this powerful and great spell caster called DR MARVEL on the forum..I never believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before.. No body would have been able to convince me about magical spells, not until DR MARVEL did a marvellous work for me and restored my marriage of 6 years back to me and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read…

    6 Jul 2015 | 6:43 am
    New Opinion - Hi, My name is Alex Cynthia am from USA, i want testify about the good work Dr sajere has done for me is amazing that is why i want to share it with you all,i was having a marital problem with my husband for the past 3 years my husband,at first we were living happily with our kids but all of a sudden my husband change by coming home late at night,i dont like that so i confronted him but he did not listen instead we fight at night and our kids dont longer sleep well the nest day he came back from work and pack all is cloth and move out of the house he told me that he is tired of…

    6 Jul 2015 | 6:35 am
    New Opinion - Hi, My name is Alex Cynthia am from USA, i want testify about the good work Dr sajere has done for me is amazing that is why i want to share it with you all,i was having a marital problem with my husband for the past 3 years my husband,at first we were living happily with our kids but all of a sudden my husband change by coming home late at night,i dont like that so i confronted him but he did not listen instead we fight at night and our kids dont longer sleep well the nest day he came back from work and pack all is cloth and move out of the house he told me that he is tired of…
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    5 Jul 2015 | 11:29 pm
    New Answer - please if you are having any problem in your marriage or your relationship please kindly contact this great man of spell on the or +2348138156086 and get you happiness back. favoury Virginia,USA
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    of Sex and Love

  • He’s Back

    1 Jul 2015 | 2:30 pm
    Y’know, the guy on Tindr. Actually, he returned a day later. I was confused when he popped up again, but swiped right. He sent a message right away — that I didn’t see — about how he deleted his account because he was nervous. He apologized, but I played it cool. We’ve talked a lot since then. He has a lot of downtime at work, and his schedule is third shift, during which I am usually awake. We get on pretty well, but it’s been quiet for a while. And it will be while I’m back in Minnesota for an extended weekend. This means it’ll also be quiet…
  • 6 Picture Mistakes Men Make on Tinder

    24 Jun 2015 | 10:52 pm
    Having spent a little bit of time on Tinder over these last few weeks, I’ve found myself both frustrated and befuddled about some of the photos choices that guys make. And we’re not just talking about fish; although, there are plenty of those pictures to hate, too. No, it seems like guys don’t want me to swipe right — or is it left — when they do these things. 1. All of Their Photos Are Group Photos Guys do this a lot. It’s great that you’re not addicted to selfies. It’s awesome that you have friends.  And that you fish, hunt, like your…
  • Between the Shores: Erotica with Consent

    19 Jun 2015 | 2:40 pm
    Between the Shores: Erotica with Consent $7.99 from Amazon Often, in erotica, consent is implied but not necessarily discussed. In poor erotica, like Fifty Shades of Grey, it’s outright abused through force. But once thing that kinksters actually know is that consent is a must. And in Between the Shores, talented authors show us that consent can be sexy, too. This collection of erotica is therefore a little different than others. Consent may be incidental in some erotic stories, and often is when it comes to those about BDSM, but it takes front and center in this anthology,…
  • My 12-Hour Tinder “Boyfriend”

    19 Jun 2015 | 6:17 am
    I once read an article about a woman who had a boyfriend for a weekend. She met him, he came back to her place in NYC. They had sex, watched TV, played games, went for strolls and dined at the sorts of places that we don’t really have here because we’re not New York City. Then, after the weekend, he finally returned home and they never spoke again. It was interesting enough that I remembered it. It makes little sense to me that you can enjoy the company of a person that much and not make an effort to keep in touch, even if the chemistry of the weekend was a one-time-only deal.
  • Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1

    13 Jun 2015 | 11:30 pm
    Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1 $16.95 from Cleis Press Another year, another edition of Best Sex Writing. Actually, this anthology of essays, blog posts and personal tales doesn’t come out every year, but we’re fortunate to have a release this year. This is the first since Best Sex Writing 2013, and it’s a bit different from previous options due to a new editor, Jon Pressick. Thus, Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1 sounds like the first title in a brand-new series, but it’s actually not. So if you’ve read any of the previous Best Sex Writing books,…
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    The Daily Affair

  • Love & Acceptance

    1 Jul 2015 | 7:01 pm
    Love & Acceptance Same sex marriages are now legal across the country and I couldn’t be happier! I’m proud and honored to be an…
  • Saturday’s Sex Stories

    1 Jun 2015 | 6:45 am
    Okay, some I’m reading the Saturday New York Times while on the elliptical at the gym and I come across not one, not two,…

    28 May 2015 | 7:02 am
    Where do I begin?? Why is it that so many “stars” of reality television shows wind up confessing or being convicted of doing some…
  • Why Women Love Bad Boys

    21 May 2015 | 7:08 am
    We’ve all fallen for those sexy, dynamic bad boys. I guess we’re attracted to them for the same reasons some men go crazy for…
  • 5 Things You May Not Know About Your Partner

    4 May 2015 | 6:14 pm
    Before Bruce Jenner came out as transgender to the entire world, at some point during each of his marriages, he felt compelled to share…
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  • Modern Dating Woes: 20 Pitfalls of Being a Serial Dater

    Danielle Anne Suleik
    7 Jul 2015 | 12:26 pm
    Do you date a lot of people to pass the time until your find your true love? Then you might just be a serial dater. Here’s why that’s not a good idea. Sometimes, love can hit us where it really hurts, and it can happen over and over again. When we start to get sick of all the failed attempts, we give up. But then, we eventually get back up and try to do things differently. For some, they take the “collect and select” route. What is a serial dater? A serial dater is someone who dates a lot of people in a short span of time in order to weed out the ones they don’t like and find the…
  • Hot, Hot Sex – How to Turn Up Your Sexual Thermostat

    Lakeisha Ethans
    7 Jul 2015 | 12:23 pm
    Whether it’s just a slump or your sex life has always been a bit bland, turning up the heat in the bedroom is something everyone’s got to try! Sex doesn’t have to be boring or tiresome. In fact, it should be the opposite. Just as I was about to start my day, I looked outside the window and saw my neighbor, a woman in her mid-30s, waving at me. I waved back, smiled and then she gestured to meet me in 15 minutes. I wondered why she wanted to come over, but it wasn’t the first time. As I continued to prepare my coffee, I saw her husband leave for work. I suppose she saw him off and…
  • 10 Tips for Setting Boundaries with Difficult People

    Jennifer Mendez
    7 Jul 2015 | 12:21 pm
    Do you find yourself wondering how to say no or how to get people to respect you? You may need to work on setting your boundaries with other people. Everyone knows at least one person they simply don’t mesh well with, whether it’s a family member, coworker, or an ex. These are the people that don’t know how to respect your personal space, your privacy, or your life choices. What no one seems to realize often enough is that you deserve to be respected, and you are entitled to it. This means other people, no matter how difficult, need to back off when you need them to back…
  • 11 Classic Moves Guys Always Forget to Do on Dates

    Maxx Obejero
    7 Jul 2015 | 12:18 pm
    These classic effective moves have worked for ages on different women. All guys need to do on dates is do these and each date should be awesome! Dating is pretty basic. All you ever really need to do is talk to a woman, get to know her a little better, and get her to know you a bit better as well. The fancy stuff like fine dining restaurants, theme parks, and long walks along the beach are just there to facilitate a potential attraction that’s brewing between you. The problem, though, is that so many men get so caught up on wanting to impress a girl that the basics of the date are lost.
  • How to Find Closure with Yourself after a Relationship

    Colleen Anne Javellana
    6 Jul 2015 | 12:08 pm
    Everyone craves closure from a past relationship. Sadly, not everyone gets it. Here’s how to ensure you find closure after heartbreak. Breakups hurt. Heartbreak hurts even more. People come and go, and there are those who would leave footprints in our heart and leave memories that would last for a lifetime. It’s ironic, isn’t it? The one who meant so much to you at one time would become a stranger to your eyes. How does one move on from the memories of a past love? Truth be told, there is no easy way to get over them. Experience has taught me that moving on from a past love can pose a…
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  • Boys on the Sidelines

    7 Jul 2015 | 1:47 pm
    By Liz Langley A John Hopkins University study that says adolescent boys receive less less sexual health education than adolescent girls on a very important subject: contraception. According to a New York Times story fewer than 1/5 of boys had talked contraception with a health care provider whereas 2/3 of young girls had done so. In comparing the 1995 National Survey of Adolescent Males and the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth, sexual counseling for young men doesn’t seem to have improved despite recommendations that it should. The Baltimore Sun says that “The study, published…
  • Why No Woman Should Neglect Her Pap Test

    19 Mar 2015 | 1:20 pm
    Scheduling that annual Pap smear may not be at the top of your to-do list—and hey, we get it. It’s not exactly the sexiest appointment to pencil in your planner. But would you upgrade your priorities if you knew that appointment could save your life? That’s right, save your life. Women who are diagnosed with cervical cancer are more likely to survive if the cancer is caught via Pap test (compared to being detected due to symptoms), reports a recent study published in the journal BMJ. Swedish researchers monitored 1,230 women who were diagnosed with cervical cancer between 1999-2001.
  • Love Bugs

    13 Feb 2015 | 11:15 am
    Everyone says “I love you.” It’s the way you say it that makes all the difference and no one, no sky writers, no poets, no public proposers of marriage has ever come up with a more original offering than The Bronx Zoo. They have 58,000 Madagascar hissing cockroaches – on purpose – and for a piddling $10 you can name one after somebody your partner doesn’t like, Audubon Magazine reports. Your partner will get a card, festooned with artful insects, telling them of your gift, but I think the underlying sentiment what really counts: “I hate whoever you hate,” is one of the…
  • The Leaves of Fall Can Be Sexy!

    14 Oct 2014 | 12:16 pm
    We are knee deep in autumn now and for those of us who live where the leaves turn color it can be breathtaking to see the beauty in the reds, yellows and oranges. Until they fall off the tree and you have to rake them all up. There is something about the change of seasons that makes people feel sexy. There is spring when the Earth wakes up again and people start to get out and about after all that snow that makes people more sociable and want to date someone for the next season. A hot summer romance. Those steamy nights where you sweat from something else besides the heat.  Of course there…
  • Enjoy the Great Outdoors This Summer
    2 Jun 2014 | 1:34 pm
    Ah, the smells, sounds and feelings evoked from the great outdoors.  A fun way to take it all in is to find a secluded spot outdoors and go at it. There’s something about sex in nature that really ignites your senses: the smell of the ocean breeze, the taste of the salty air and the sight of the trees as they blossom into springtime. First, plan a day hike (or if you’re more ambitious a camping over night) with your lover and pack a sexy aphrodisiac filled lunch: Grab a bottle of wine: will help to relax and lower your inhibitions plus alcohol in moderation helps raise HDL cholesterol…
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    Peck and Call Girls: Modern Courtesans, Virtual Assistants Of Sex

  • A Few Words About The Power Of Sexual Taboos…

    Peck and Call Girls
    9 Jun 2015 | 9:28 pm
    Aside from experimenting with physical manipulations (toys and the like) there are two ways to intensify sexual gratification: Intimacy, with a partner, & Fantasies, with a partner or via masturbation. And, when it comes to sexual fantasies, nearly half of them are based on, or otherwise involve, taboos. This includes use of taboo words, such as “fuck,” “cock,” and “pussy,” which are labeled by society as forbidden words not to be used. Even their sanitized, medical, and culturally-cute versions (such as “making love,” “penis,”…
  • Sexual Companions Are Good For Your Health!

    Peck and Call Girls
    29 Apr 2015 | 2:24 am
    Here at Peck & Call Girls, your health matters to us. This is why we spend a lot of our (rather limited) free time exploring, among other things, health issues. We know that companionship is one vital part of a healthy lifestyle. It’s just one more reason why we are proud of what we do, the virtual courtesan services we provide. But did you know that one of the other necessary components for good health is sex? Yes, sex can actually improve your health. As with companionship, it’s not merely the pleasure factor of a satisfying sexual encounter which provides us with the…
  • Feel Free To Substitute “Detective Police Officer” With “Phone Sex Operator” *wink*

    Peck and Call Girls
    9 Nov 2014 | 2:43 pm
    “You seem to have quite a taste for discussing these horrible subjects,” she said, rather scornfully; “you ought to have been a detective police officer.” “I sometimes think I should have been a good one.” “Why?” “Because I am patient.” Mary Elizabeth Braddon, Lady Audley’s Secret
  • It’s Constitutional

    Peck and Call Girls
    10 Aug 2014 | 2:14 am
    Why, I can’t help smiling at people, and speaking prettily to them. I know I’m no better than the rest of the world; but I can’t help it if I’m pleasanter. It’s constitutional. Mary Elizabeth Braddon, Lady Audley’s Secret
  • What’s Sexiest?

    Peck and Call Girls
    13 Jun 2014 | 8:17 pm
    There was a time when men thought it was sexy to have a housewife waiting for him to come home from work in her slippers, but in modern society, I think an independent woman is even more sexy. — Katerina Graham We would ask you which one was sexist to you — but then why choose? *wink*
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  • 8 Women Describe What Anal Sex Feels Like

    Svetlana Ivanova
    7 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Eight women who have had anal sex describe what it was actually like for them. For some women out there, anal action is the cherry on top of the sex version of an ice cream sundae: a little extra delight that completes something that was already delicious on its own. But for others, it’s more like Continue reading →(Visited 3 times, 3 visits today)
  • How to Get a Man to Dominate You in Bed

    Svetlana Ivanova
    2 Jul 2015 | 3:00 am
    A reader asks porn star James Deen for tips on getting her boyfriend to dominate her in bed. Any tips on getting someone to unleash and act more dominate during sex? I want my boyfriend to fuck like you, but I don’t think showing him your work and saying “be more like him” is a Continue reading →(Visited 45 times, 1 visits today)
  • How to Make Her Sexual Fantasies Come True

    Svetlana Ivanova
    30 Jun 2015 | 3:00 am
    Want to make her sexual fantasies come true? Nicole Beland reveals how. Most women aren’t very good at asking for what they want, especially in the beginning of a relationship. And by “beginning,” I mean anywhere from the first night to the first 2 years. For one thing, we’re hopelessly romantic. We imagine that the Continue reading →(Visited 36 times, 1 visits today)
  • 13 Kinds of Sex EVERY Couple Should Have

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Jun 2015 | 2:00 am
    What kinds of sex do you and your partner still need to explore? Every couple needs to change up their sexual routine and sex positions every now and again so it doesn’t become just that: a routine. Sexual experimentation is key for keeping a long-term relationship fresh, fun and fulfilling. Opening up about your desires Continue reading →(Visited 94 times, 1 visits today)
  • 10 Rules for Being Friends with Benefits

    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Jun 2015 | 2:00 am
    If you’re interested in a friends with benefits relationship, follow these ten rules for success. Rule 1: DO think twice about hooking up with your neighbor. There are, without a doubt, many pros to having a FWB living in close proximity: Your walk of shame is substantially less embarrassing, you don’t have to worry about Continue reading →(Visited 61 times, 1 visits today)
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    Married And Happy – A System For Men

  • For The Husband Who Says, “I Want To Make My Marriage Better”

    25 Jun 2015 | 1:16 pm
    Husband, do you feel stuck and helpless in your marriage because it is less than it could be (and should be)? Do you feel like your marriage relationship is in a disappointing, frustrating rut? Are you ready for your marriage to be more than it is now…and better than it is now? Do you want the relationship you have with you wife to be more enjoyable, satisfying, and fulfilling? Do you want your wife to have the same feelings and affections towards you that you have towards her? Have you tried everything you can think of…and everything you have heard about…in an effort to…
  • How Does A Man Fix His Low-Affection, Low-Intimacy, Low-Sex Relationship?

    8 Jun 2015 | 2:40 pm
    Why is it that most men end up in low intimacy or even sexless relationships? Well, the root problem is one of ignorance … due to a lack of proactive personal development. God designed male/female relationships to be such that the man is the leader and the woman is the follower. In other words, the man is the one who creates and defines the environment and the woman responds sexually, neutrally, or non-sexually within that environment. The problem is that the typical husband has never developed himself into the caliber of man who understands how a male/female relationship really works…
  • My Wife Used To Be Very Sexual, But Now She Has Lost Interest In Me

    5 Jun 2015 | 9:49 am
    Virtually every day, I hear some variation of the following: “My wife, who in the beginning was very sexual, has lost interest in me and we cohabit like two roommates living in the same house. If I haven’t already lost her I sense her slipping even further away. When I try to suggest things that I think we could do to strengthen our marriage she interprets that as me being critical of her, of me blaming her (which I do not do) so she shuts down and refuses to even discuss it. I want to resurrect our marriage. I want a good marriage with my wife. I don’t want us living in an…
  • Two Simple Things Some Men Have Done To Cause Their Wife To Be More Sexual Than They Ever Imagined Her Being

    29 Apr 2015 | 4:47 pm
    The world over, there are husbands who wish their wife was more affectionate, intimate, and sexual with them. Let’s talk about that… In every area of life there is certain knowledge that must be possessed and certain processes that must happen in order to manifest the good we want. We all know this is universal truth that must be honored and that there are no sustainable bypasses or shortcuts. For example, what would you think of a guy who did not want to have to do anything in order to eat…a guy who just wanted all the groceries he desired to conceive themselves…grow…
  • From Sexless Wife To Sexually-Insatiable Wife

    18 Feb 2015 | 11:49 am
    I get lots of happy, glowing emails from men who I am helping turn their marriage around…but some are so special that they just have to be shared…and the following email that I received today is definitely one to be shared… Calle, I just wanted to let you know that things are going great. Incredible. Amazing. My relationship with my wife has become beautiful. I have a wonderful relationship. From a sex standpoint – incredible – 7 times in the last 4 days. She is orgasming and squirting and has become insatiable. All the skills you taught me in your program have…
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  • Touching Paradise

    Molly Moore
    4 Jul 2015 | 3:03 pm
    “When you look at me, when you think of me, I am in paradise.” ~ William Makepeace Thackeray Related Posts: The Bigger Picture Stained Mirrors Edge Strangers in the night Multitude of Sins
  • Molly in chains

    Molly Moore
    3 Jul 2015 | 12:25 pm
    If you have read my last two Wicked Wednesday posts you will know they detail my first ever kinky experience (the final part will be published next week). The man in those stories is the same man who introduced me to chains. We were sitting in a pub garden right next to the heavy thick…
  • The Main Course

    Molly Moore
    1 Jul 2015 | 12:56 pm
    If you did not read last weeks post, A Seat at the Table, you really should because this is part 2 of that story… The drive to his house took about 10 minutes, apart from him giving me direction, we barely exchanged a word. I was oddly glad to be the driver that evening, not…
  • Trolling the Net #21

    Molly Moore
    29 Jun 2015 | 5:47 am
    Oops, a few days late, but better late than never… 1. In case you missed it there is a new episode of the KissCast out featuring @ferns_ from Domme Chronicles talking about Blogging, writing, Kink and much more. This was such a fun episode to record and I am pretty sure you can tell that…
  • Play

    Molly Moore
    27 Jun 2015 | 4:37 pm
    Live, love, laugh, play. When was the last time you climbed a tree? Related Posts: Within the sin of me The Bigger Picture That lusty month of May A Spring in my step On the fence
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  • Declare your Dependence on ME

    Ms. Justine
    4 Jul 2015 | 8:24 am
    Credits Photographer: Tommy Cuellar Studio: Pillar Box Studios Latex: Syren Latex The post Declare your Dependence on ME appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • New PO BOX!

    Ms. Justine
    29 Jun 2015 | 8:31 am
    As a dominatrix, I love receiving thoughtful gifts and ones that expand our BDSM play time. I finally got a new PO Box! Now you can send presents not from my Amazon wishlist here, as well as other gifts such as cards or cash. Justine Cross 106 1/2 Judge John Aiso St. #432 Los Angeles, CA 90012 My wishlist page *Amazon wishlist *Wishpot Wishlist *Stockroom Wishlist Fill it up! The post New PO BOX! appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • Don’t Mess with Texas: Double Domination with Maitresse Renee

    Ms. Justine
    15 Jun 2015 | 8:57 am
    I will be doing doubles with Maitresse Renee at her fucking amazing dungeon June 18-21. Do you have what it takes to impress TWO badass, femdom bitches? I hope so. Only regular clients or those that have references and deposits will be considered. Are you ready to lub me up? The post Don’t Mess with Texas: Double Domination with Maitresse Renee appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • Touring Dallas June 16-18, Houston June 18-21 and New Orleans June 22-25

    Ms. Justine
    12 Jun 2015 | 6:28 am
    I love it when you try to impress me. I love returning to all my grateful slaves, subbies, fetishists and masochists of the South. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? Tour Dates: UPDATED AVAILABILITY Dallas – June 16-18 Houston – June 18-21 Lafayette – June 21-22 New Orleans – June 22-25 In New Orleans, I will be accepting doubles with Mistress Erin. Mistress Erin and I have known each other for over five years–we met at a…
  • Accepting Sessions in Glasgow June 1-3 and Edinburgh 4-7

    Ms. Justine
    19 May 2015 | 3:22 am
    Come here, my slave. Let me pick out a couple of toys for you. I will be visiting Scotland for the first time this June! I am accepting sessions in Glasgow June 1-3 in my upscale hotel. Dungeon sessions at Glasgow Dungeon. In Edinburgh, I will be accepting sessions June 4-7 either at my upscale hotel or Maison de Debauch. Of course, I am accepting doubles with Mistress Natalie West in both Glasgow and Edinburgh. Yes, we are the original Lesbian Cuckoldresses. I would love suggestions for places to eat and things to do. Some things already on my list: *Arthur’s Seat *Willow Tea Rooms…
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  • Elust #72 Open for Submissions

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:06 am
    Elust #72 Open for Submissions Happy July, as America readies for their Independence Day Celebrations and England finally gets a taste of Summer weather let us take this moment to share the Freedoms we all hold dear (until they are stripped away by our respective governments) by submitting your latest and sultriest works to Elust. Show us what real fireworks look like! After many requests I have finally written up what happens here at Elust after you make your submission. Have a read and marvel that we manage it at all. How it all happens. We have added a Category Guide page to help you…
  • Elust #71

    15 Jun 2015 | 4:49 pm
    Photo courtesy of The Shingle Beach Welcome to Elust #71 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Backyard Glory Bra Wars Versions of Ourselves ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Disabled characters: who do I write…
  • Elust #71 Open for Submissions

    1 Jun 2015 | 4:45 am
    Elust #71 Open for Submissions June has arrived and with it another Elust Submission ready and waiting for you to grace us with your amazing writing. So let’s kick the beginning of Summer off (Well for us North of the Equator anyway) with sultry, sweat inducing, heart pounding erotic writing. After many requests I have finally written up what happens here at Elust after you make your submission. Have a read and marvel that we manage it at all. How it all happens. We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on…
  • Elust #70

    15 May 2015 | 10:01 am
    Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Exposed! My Mom Knows! Flash Fiction: “A Taste” I am a Sex Blogger & I Reject Pseudonymity ~ Featured Post…
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  • Together, we form one fully functional human

    4 Jul 2015 | 1:47 pm
    Sex toy temporary tattoos and the lengths we go through to photograph them. Photo by Kate Sinclaire. 7 sex bloggers were standing outside a glass blowing studio. We’d been waiting for an hour and there was no sign of the studio owners, who’d previously agreed to a private glass dildo making session. It was clear that we’d have to reschedule with them, but how? None of us wanted to pick up the phone. Finally, Girly Juice volunteered to call the studio the next day. The rest of us sighed with relief. Girly Juice thought it was funny that we kept calling her Girly Juice.
  • I’m published in Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1!

    17 Jun 2015 | 10:47 pm
    It’s still surreal to say. I’m published. My name. Epiphora. On the pages of a book. Followed by my words — about dongs, no less. It’s not something I’ll be showing to my high school journalism teacher at his retirement party next month, but that doesn’t make it less meaningful. In fact, this book is a special sort of validation of my work as a sex writer. My mom already made me order a copy for her — and sign it. Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1 was edited by Jon Pressick, whom interviewed me flawlessly for his Sex City Radio show last…
  • Review: (Hitachi) Magic Wand Rechargeable

    26 May 2015 | 10:47 pm
    IS THAT A CORDLESS HITACHI????? —everyone on earth whenever I post a photo of the Magic Wand Rechargeable Yes. Yes, it is. The time has come, my friends. The legendary Hitachi Magic Wand, widely regarded as the most powerful vibrator of all time, now comes in a rechargeable version. It can finally be there for you during power outages. While camping. On your porch. In your treehouse. On your top bunk. Or simply when you’re too damn lazy to get up and plug something in. (Me, all the time.) The world has been holding its breath, as have I, because there are many ways this new version…
  • Um, No: BlissMe vibrators with… personalities

    20 May 2015 | 6:54 pm
    Whatever could be so offensive about vibrators that look this boring? FORT LAUDERDALE, Fla. — BlissMe founder Daniel Mederos says his new sex toy business concept is a bit different from others because the company doesn’t just market a product, it provides a service as well. “At BlissMe Vibrators we wanted to encompass the idea of infidelity being an option through our vibrators,” Mederos said. “So what we have created is a service where consumers buy our products and we provide them with an e-mail from our list of vibrators since each of our five vibrators have…
  • Review: Joyful Pleasure glass dildos

    1 May 2015 | 5:29 pm
    These glass dildos from Joyful Pleasure presented me with a few obstacles. See, I have this thing with insertable objects where I feel frustrated if I can’t conquer them. Whether it’s sheer size, extreme heft, repetitive bloops, every imaginable electrostim setting, or simply a bulge just out of reach, I feel the uncontrollable urge to experience all that a toy has to offer. Combine this with the fact that I’m a texture slut, and you have a recipe for vaginal disaster. When presented with the opportunity to review dildos from Joyful Pleasure, I of course ignored…
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  • the life, death, and subsequent reincarnation of the spanking

    4 Jul 2015 | 11:44 am
    or The Physiological Benefits of Hitting Other PeopleI think it’s funny that the more illegal and socially unacceptable spankings become as a child’s punishment, the more mainstream and typical they become as an erotic accessory.Spankings used to be something every parent did to every child and maybe three men did to their wives during sexual congress before being burned at the stake as heretics.Then they became something that only strict parents did to their children and perverts did to their wives.Soon after, they became something that only terrible parents did to their…
  • mythos

    27 Jun 2015 | 6:05 pm
    #2: – Seven Fetish SeriesPreviously – #1 Ivy Campaign: Olmos y FloresPhotographer: Ali FloresModel: I‘The Greeks made me do it,’ has been the excuse of many a mythical demigod.
  • interracial

    20 Jun 2015 | 4:23 pm
    Interracial porn is beautiful.Myriad genders and races coming together to form a prismatic collage of pleasure gives one hope that maybe just maybe the problems of the world can be beaten.Because it’s hard to hate someone when you are balls deep in them.It’s possible.But it’s hard.Consensual sex has a healing and uniting and inspiring power unrivaled by almost any other act and eclipsed by none.Heal.***Interracial porn is racist.You say it’s a bunch of black guys fucking white guys or Asians fucking Latinos, but I don’t see race or color.I only see porn in…
  • bras, glory, and squirting: june- e[lust] 71

    19 Jun 2015 | 11:08 am
    Photo courtesy of The Shingle Beach Welcome to Elust #71 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Backyard Glory Bra Wars Versions of Ourselves ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Disabled characters: who do I write them…
  • tits, ass, monogamy, and muscles

    8 Jun 2015 | 4:44 pm
    or Evolving Past Our Attraction to Procreation-Related Attributesor Large Wives, Skinny LoversA girl saying she likes monogamous men is the evolutionary equivalent of a guy saying he likes tits and ass.There women go again, evolutionarily objectifying us men.I like tits and ass.But let’s look at attraction and pleasure logically. Let’s try to look past the evolutionary lenses handed down to us by our cavemen ancestors.We all know why we like tits and ass, and respectively, monogamy and muscles. Tits meant better able to give milk to our young. Ass meant wider hips for more…
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  • Tweet and Chirp!

    3 Jul 2015 | 4:46 am
    A rather delightful rare image of a young Pamela Green getting all Disney with a budgie. As far as I know unpublished. Taken by Stephen Glass at Spielplatz around the early ’50s —  if I’m not mistaken. Pretty sure the bird is stuffed. Taken from the original negative. Pamela Green at Spielplatz by Stephen Glass Share
  • Pandora by Joan Craven

    3 Jun 2015 | 4:23 am
    Pamela Green as Pandora by Joan Craven This picture is a favourite of mine. Pamela Green as Pandora, as photographed by Joan Craven. This was a freelance job while Pamela was working at the London Casino in Old Compton Street. Pamela Green met Joan Craven when she was sent by her agent to Kinocrat House to work for the photographer Walter Bird. Joan Craven shared studios with Walter. Pamela also posed as Circe, the goddess of magic, for Joan — a picture I’ve not yet come across. For more about Joan read my earlier post Joan Craven (1897-1979) Shona Craven has started a website dedicated…
  • Beauty Queen

    28 May 2015 | 2:32 am
    Mrs. Iseult Kelly — Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain, 1955. Three judges looked carefully at 30 girls filing past them during a contest to choose the Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain. 23-year-old housewife, Mrs Iseult Kelly, mother of a six-months-old daughter, was chosen the winner. Her parents founded the Spielplatz Nudist Club at Bricket Wood, near Watford, where the contest was held on 1st August 1955. Being a member of Spielplatz, Pamela Green was friends with Iseult. Not sure of the year but Pamela Green once won a Miss Venus contest at the club. Share
  • Vicki Martin: The Unluckiest Showgirl

    24 May 2015 | 2:20 pm
    Vicki Martin was the older sister of George’s second wife Vivienne Warren. She died in a car crash in 1955 more of which you can read about here. Thanks to Casper for the following scans. Vicki Martin, the unluckiest showgirl dies in car crash number 13.Daily Mirror Jan. 10th 1955 Share
  • Out of Step (1957) – Spielplatz

    24 May 2015 | 8:56 am
    Out of Step was a documentary series made by Associated-Rediffusion in 1957. Episodes lasted approximately 15 minutes, and were shown on ITV at 10.30pm on Wednesdays. The series was presented by investigative reporter Dan Farson (who was once patted on the head by Adolf Hitler). In this episode he takes a look at nudism (the term “naturism” had yet to become commonplace). The most humorous part is the objections voiced by the infamous reactionary James Wentworth Day. What is interesting to readers of this blog, however, is that Dan visits Spielplatz Naturist Club in Bricket Wood…
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  • BDSM cyber play

    25 Jun 2015 | 2:40 am
    Real Life play is wonderful. It's exhilarating, it's fun and it can be intensely erotic. And some people are lucky enough to be able to play whenever they want. Usually though, there are limitations... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • Beautiful Domina for obedient slaves

    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    Before you visit Mistress Monica: Open your mind .. empty your thoughts and say this outloud : My kink drawer will be open, I will enjoy my spankings and look forward to obeying every command Miss... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • Mistress train you to be a money slave

    20 May 2014 | 2:51 pm
    I am your deepest desire, your secret fantasy, and of course your wildest dreams come true. I am your mistress, and I will take pleasure in you giving me everything I want. Of course with your money,... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • Webcam BDSM chat with Mistress Sandra

    10 May 2014 | 3:20 pm
    I am mistress Sandra. Enticing, beautiful, powerful and strict. The gorgeous curves that lead down from my round hips, to long sinewy legs and my pretty arched feet could be a version of heaven.The... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
  • BDSM slave session online

    4 May 2014 | 1:44 am
    If you’re trying to learn how to be a slave, you might want to know more before you get started. With online BDSM slave training, you can find out more about yourself, your desires/fantasies, and... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
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  • Highlights From the First Ever Jerkathon

    1 Jul 2015 | 12:02 pm
    Back at the beginning of May I masturbated with dildos for the second time in over a year. I spent over two hours masturbating and livetweeting it, and I hashtagged it #Jerkathon. I piled my sex toys for the night into an empty McDonald’s bag and carried all my things to the bedroom, and I was ready to begin. The Jerkathon began as so many jack-off sessions do in Sex Blogger World: With the We-Vibe Tango. I found that the Tango was actually pretty awesome once my hood piercing was removed, because it covered more of my clit and did a lot less rattling. I was blown away by how stealthy…
  • The Tantus General

    17 Jun 2015 | 4:42 pm
    The Tantus General might be one of my new favorite dildos. It’s not the biggest dildo I own (that title goes to Amsterdam, which I still haven’t managed to get into my vagina), or the biggest dildo that I’ve fucked (the T-Rex is 2.25” in diameter whereas the General is only 2” at its widest). It is, however, a dildo that has provided me with one of the most satisfying orgasms I’ve ever had. When the General was offered to me, I hadn’t given it much thought before. It looked like a nice dildo, but it only came in black (a matte black, for those who are wondering) and featured…
  • The Tantus T-Rex

    15 Jun 2015 | 12:30 pm
    I was really eager to try some giant dildos in honor of Tantus‘ Big Ass Sale, a sale of the biggest toys Tantus makes that you can put in your butt. While I don’t consider myself a size queen, I do love a good thick dildo every now and then. Sometimes you have an itch to be filled to the brim, and Tantus was kind enough to scratch it for me. Shoutout to Tantus, the real MVP of this blog post! The T-Rex has intrigued me ever since it came out. It has a very distinctive shape, a pronounced head, and some of the cutest balls I’ve ever seen on a dildo. (Seriously, I think…
  • I Know What Boys Like

    10 Jun 2015 | 5:11 pm
    Gang, I’m so fucking sick of hearing about what men want. Video not particularly related. Seriously, every time I look at media aimed at women it tells them two things: impress men and look pretty (presumably to impress the men that they missed the first go around). Don’t believe me? Have a look at all these magazine covers. Take your time. I’ll wait. If you’ve found the common thread you win a cookie. I’m not even going to begin to scratch the surface of all the problematic shit on these magazine covers. (Gender binary, fat blasting, “Could Your Man Be…
  • Überlube Über Alles

    3 Jun 2015 | 10:17 am
    It’s no secret that sex toy reviewers love lubricants. How could we not? We put many things in our cavities over the course of one toy testing/masturbation session, the ass and penis don’t self-lubricate, and everything is better when it’s wetter (except your phone). In this post I aim to educate as well as lubricate.  Let’s dive right in. The last silicone (semi-silicone?) lube I tried was Wet Synergy, a hybrid water-silicone lube that wasn’t terrible, but contained glycerin and made urethras burn… yeah, nope. Überlube, on the other hand, is a solely…
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  • Canada Day Sex Position

    1 Jul 2015 | 7:11 pm
    Happy Canada Day! It's July 1st so it's the perfect day to do it with the most patriotic Canadian sex position there is: The Poutine.Now for American's out there that don't know what poutine is (note: poutine is not coming up on spell check here!)  poutine is a French Canadian dish where french fries are covered in gravy and then melted cheese curds are melted into it.  The Brits may know this as chips and gravy with cheese...but poutine says it all.So wtf does this have to do with The Poutine Sex position?  Well, the most Canadian sex position is the poutine -- it's called…
  • Squirting: Is it real?

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:53 am
    There has been much discussion about the existence of female ejaculation for some years now. 10 Years ago it was actually in doubt. And this makes me think back to earlier days where the existence of the female orgasm was actually being debated in the medical community. The whole idea of 'is it real' and whether porn makers actually invented the entire genre is completely offensive because of this prime fact that is constantly being ignored: Women tell us it exists.  Back in the day, it wasn't considered good enough for a woman to say, 'yes, I had an orgasm' and this sexist attitude…
  • A little day

    29 Jun 2015 | 10:26 pm
    Here is a plan I had for a day with a little (doing ageplay)  that didn't go off as planned...but it's a solid plan regardless.1) The little girl arrives, but she is still wearing her big girl mindset and has the worries of a much older girl in her mind and so I order her to lay down on the couch and close her eyes.2) I speak to her gently, asking her to relax, to breathe, and to follow my voice and instructions. As she breathes, she visibly starts to relax and then, over the next 5 minutes,  I ask her to go back, back into her little girl self, to fully embody a little girl and…
  • Birthday Presents

    29 Jun 2015 | 12:20 pm
    My sexkitten today suggested a couple birthday presents for me and I am torn. Her suggestions included something I mentioned a while ago (more than a year??) and she's makes my heart sing because...she remembered!  It's an experience gift...of going to one of those giant fan freefall simulators where you fly around a room practicing for skydiving...which sounds full-on awesome to me. Who wouldn't really like that idea of indoor skydiving? (A lame-ass, that's who.)  Not that I am scared to go skydiving for real but this way I can practice doing whatever I want and flying around…
  • Slut Policing Comic

    25 Jun 2015 | 11:41 pm
    A comic on strip sluts... slut shaming, slut policing and how we use that word:
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  • Review: Bad Dragon Winstons Tail – A Personal Girth Trainer

    30 Jun 2015 | 3:14 pm
    The struggle is real. Each time the Winstons Tail is doing crazy things inside of me, all I want to do is rush to the computer and rave about how good it is as soon as I’m done. However, each time I orgasm with this thing, all I want to do is hide my head between my legs and wonder “Ugh why?! Why me?!” I seem to be cursed with this you-will-love-but-your-orgasms-will-suck spell. Now, when this happens, I normally write something in the lines of: “So if you’re looking for orgasms, go look somewhere else. There are better toys out there that get the job done better.” Sadly, this…
  • 2-Year Blogiversary Giveaway Winners!

    28 May 2015 | 2:16 pm
    Wow! Do you know there were almost 400 of you that participated in this celebration? Meaning that there are almost 400 of you that are sex nerds with sexy and healthy sexual lives. Props to you all, peeps. Seriously, props to you all. Now, before getting to the winners, I have a couple of very important announcements to make: 1) You bunch sent me a whole lot of amazing questions in the survey. Since it’s anonymous, I have no way of emailing you the answers. As a solution, for the next couple of months, or year, or however long it’s going to take me, I’m going to answer them here, in…
  • Life of a Sheltered Child: Menstrual Sex

    20 May 2015 | 7:53 am
    Menstrual sex. Is it safe? I still don’t know. I had it three times. The first time it happened to me was, well…I don’t even know what was happening to me. I was at my partner’s house and we were having our weekly fuck session. As he was repositioning himself, he looked down at his penis and he let out a loud slow gasp. I, on the other hand, was lying on the bed and I didn’t know what was going on. So I, casually, asked him “What’s wrong?” He looked at me, mouth opened wide, with a much panicked look on his face. After a moment of silence, he stuttered…
  • Achievement Unlocked: I WON AN AWARD!

    13 May 2015 | 8:46 am
    So I apparently have a Real Neat Blog – according to Insatiable Desire, Sugar Cunt, BlissfullyOrgasmic, Carnal Chameleon & Tease For Two – and these awesome bloggers have nominated me to the Real Neat Blog award! Can you believe this? This tiny little blog of mine actually got an award! Wow. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Now that I’m standing on this award stage, I have to undergo the consequences of winning an award – answering very personal questions. So here we go! THE QUESTIONS: WHY DID YOU START BLOGGING? To do something that I want to do. Since I was born, my life…
  • 2-Year Blogiversary Sex Toys Giveaway

    5 May 2015 | 9:19 pm
    Can we just pause for a moment and realize that it’s been two years already? Two years since I became King of Sextopia and started shoving things in me. Anyway, to celebrate this event, I’m forcing you all, to commemorate this date with an unforgettable giveaway of 15 toys that I personally loved during my ruling. To enter: Read about the different prizes offered. Choose your top 3 prizes (make sure it can be shipped to you). Enter the giveaway using the widget below. The giveaway ends on May 27th, 2015 at 11:59 pm EST. I also want to give a special thanks to all the companies…
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  • Sex Positions: Cowgirl

    Anida Leeds
    3 Jul 2015 | 4:44 am
    This one is dedicated to all those cowboys out there. The cowgirl sex position is one of the most helpful ways for a female to achieve her orgasms. So cowboys sit back, let your cowgirl take the bull by the horns and enjoy the ride! The Cowgirl position allows a woman to control almost everything about the ride – the speed, depth of penetration,and the angle. She can change any one of these to better position herself and achieve an orgasm. This position will allow you to better reach her g-spot and clitoral stimulation and give her a mind blowing orgasm! If she's sitting straight up, your…
  • Celebrate Your Relationship on Mother’s Day & Father’s Day

    Bonnie Morgan
    30 Apr 2015 | 10:00 am
    It takes a strong relationship to be parents, and the responsibilities of parenting can certainly take its toll on relationships. Mother's Day and Father's Day are great times to celebrate an honor each other for all the great reasons you became parents. If you're like most couples with kids - whether you have one or several - kids are priority No. 1 followed by work and taking care of the house. By the time you get done changing diapers, checking homework or staying up late making sure kids get home in time to make curfew, along with all of your other responsibilities, when do you have time…
  • 5 Ways To Be More Romantic

    Anida Leeds
    26 Mar 2015 | 7:49 am
    Romance plays a big part in any relationship, but if it wanes, you could be in trouble. Up the romance with these five simple suggestions. When you first met your partner, you probably did a lot for each other. Surprise dates combined with little gifts and dining out. Over time, the romance can take a dip and the relationship can go limp fairly quickly. I'm sure if you are still together some love still lingers, but when a night on the couch watching TV becomes the norm, it's probably time to turn the romance dial up. Here are a few tips to get you started. 5. Plan Surprise Dates Surprise…
  • A Mans Guide to Fifty Shades of Grey

    Anida Leeds
    10 Feb 2015 | 8:50 am
    You have all heard by now how great the Fifty Shades of Grey series of books are and hopefully some of you may have the opportunity for some reenactment or role playing. We all know this weekend is special besides being Valentine’s Day but also opening weekend for the movie. So with that being said we don’t want you being left in the dark, we are providing you a guide that every man needs this holiday season. The Mans Guide to Fifty Shades will prepare you for the sexual revolution that is upon us. We’ll provide you with details of the toys so you can get the job done. Show your Dom and…
  • Top Ten Sex Toys 2014 - Part 2

    Anida Leeds
    12 Jan 2015 | 9:30 am
    Without further adieu we bring you the Top 5. The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We started off with number 10 - 6 in Part 1 of our list, and continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014 bellow. #5 Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl - PinkGet pleasure hopping with the Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl from Pipedream! This is the deluxe version of our original, best-selling Rabbit Pearl and it's loaded with…
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  • South Dakota named “Kinkiest State”

    Lazlo Toth
    20 Jun 2015 | 7:04 am
    PIERRE, SOUTH DAKOTA The annual kink survey contained many surprises, but perhaps the most stunning news was naming of South Dakota as the kinkiest state in the US. “Everyone expected California,” said Dr. Andrew Williams, PI for the project which was funded by Sydney University’s School of Sociology.  “Maybe New York or Illinois, but no one saw South Dakota coming.” Careful scrutiny of the data has uncovered the reason why and his name is Paul G. Premkins of Dell Rapids, SD. Research assistant Kerri S. Watkins explained, “It was really this one guy.  He…
  • For Male Doms “Black” is “The New Black”

    Jane Jameson
    19 Jun 2015 | 7:26 am
    NEW YORK, NY For the 37th year, the Male Dominant Fashion Council met in New York City to announce the new look for this coming year. Master Fashionista, 57, leader of the Council, offered a brief statement. Black.  This year the color for Male Dominants is black.  We don’t really care much beyond that.  Black everything.  Shirts, shoes, boots, vests, belts, hats, caps, underwear, hoodies.  It all has to be black. The news comes as little surprise, as 35 of the past 36 years, the council has proclaimed black to be the color for Male Dominants. 1989 marked the one year where the…
  • Games of Thrones Theme Party Leaves Dungeon Bloody Mess

    Lazlo Toth
    18 Jun 2015 | 5:23 am
    CLEVELAND, OHIO Police were called to a Cleveland dungeon after a Game of Thrones themed play party got out of control.  Those who gathered for the play party have taken to a new form of BDSM called “Ned Stark Play” or simply “Starking,” a scene in which the submissive is actually beheaded by a large sword, halberd or axe. “They don’t bring it up as a hard limit in negotiations?  Well that’s on them,” Master Rob Snow, 52, told The Daily Flogger.  “There is nothing nonconsensual going on here.  If someone doesn’t want to be…
  • Former Fetish Model Falls Back into “Old Life”; “Old Ways”

    Karyn Paine
    15 Jun 2015 | 6:44 am
    TAMPA, FLORIDA Jessican Newhouse, 28, has seen her share of struggles, but recently, the lack of work and money has forced the aging fetish model back to what she calls her “former life” and “the job she never thought she’d have to do again.” “I spent a lot of time trying to get away from this, but with the economy struggling and the Internet making it harder and harder to earn a living as a fetish model, I didn’t have a choice.” For Newhouse, it is no longer “Fetish Goddess” or “Mistress J” for pictures, it is now…
  • BDSM Man Receives Flogging Cease and Desist Order

    Lazlo Toth
    12 Jun 2015 | 7:23 am
    SAN FERNANDO, ARIZONA Master William St. James, 38, was shocked to be handed a cease and desist letter the day following what he described as a “typical flogging session” at his local dungeon. The letter claimed that St. James’ use of two handed flogging techniques, particularly in the “Florentine style” violated several trademarks assigned to Master Matt Quinn, a 28 year old Dominant from Austin, TX. “Apparently he sends spies out to watch at dungeons nationwide and gets updates whenever someone picks up a flogger,” according to St. James.  The…
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  • What It’s Like to Have Severe Vaginismus

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    2 Jul 2015 | 1:39 pm
    Our associate medical director, Melissa Ferrara, NP was recently interviewed for an article detailing what it’s like to have severe vaginismus.  I recommend this article to anyone suffering from fear/pain with penetration. As always, you are not alone and complete resolution of your symptoms is possible.  Please do not hesitate to call us for more information on possible treatment options.
  • Sexual Dysfunction: Suffering x 2

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    30 Jun 2015 | 11:10 am
    Usually my posts explore the experience and impact that sexual dysfunction can have on a woman’s sex life, confidence, and general well-being. In this post, I’d like to shift gears to the experience of the partner, who is often suffering too and may feel stuck. If that’s you, then you  may be feeling a whole bunch of feelings, some of which may feel conflicting. Maybe you’re the one doing all the research on treatment options, but then you get pushback for a variety of different reasons. Or maybe your partner is open to help but you’re reeling from all the months/years it has been…
  • Sex is Like a Cup of Tea?

    Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW MPH PhD
    26 Jun 2015 | 10:21 am
    I must admit that all of the conversations around “consent” regarding sex have had me bewildered. It just doesn’t seem like such a complicated idea. If someone is not saying “yes”, that would seem pretty straight-forward. Well clearly Craig Carillo, the producer of this 3 minute video Understand Consent With the Help of Stick Figures and a Cup of Tea is with me on this. I thought this video was hysterical and perfect. Pass it along. Because in the end, isn’t a cup of tea exactly like sex?
  • This Teen Got Suspended After Her Amazing Sex Ed Assignment

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    22 Jun 2015 | 10:14 am
    One part of my job that I love is educating women about sex. Though we see women of all ages there are still many misconceptions about safe sexual practices. I often see women who struggle to use condoms though they know they should. Of course I understand why it is challenging but I also see women struggle with years of pain due to STI’s and other sexual issues that were preventable. I think this teenager sums up in a funny way why it is so important for women to stand up for their sexual health. See what you think.
  • Flibanserin

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    18 Jun 2015 | 9:45 am
    Dr. Steven Snyder is a sex therapist as well as a medical doctor and wrote this excellent article about Flibanserin in Psychology Today, the so-called “pink viagra” for women.  Professionals working in the field of female sexual health are anxiously awaiting the FDA’s decision on whether or not they will approve Flibanserin.  Dr. Snyder ascertains we will not know how effective the medication is until it is approved and women start using it.  Flibanserin stands to possibly help millions of women with their sexual functioning and I’m hoping we will soon have the…
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  • Types of Dildos

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:26 pm
    A dildo is the most basic form of amusement when sex toys come to mind. No battery required. No click here. No plug there (sort of). You grab it, you insert it, and what happens next, and the way it happens, is totally up to you – or you and your partner. Yes, it is basic. However, it is far from being ordinary. And that is why the adult market offers so many types of dildos for you to choose from. Confused among so many options? Don’t worry, we are going to help you to choose the right one for you. Keep reading… Size Matters When we talk about dildos, size matters. A lot!
  • Benefits of Watermelon for Your Sexual Life

    Genesis Davies
    7 Jun 2015 | 12:10 am
    By sundaecone30 Watermelon is a tasty treat that most people associate with summer and picnics. This staple of your childhood actually has a bigger purpose now that you’re an adult . . . improving your sex life. While watermelon is probably the last fruit you’d think of when it comes to sex, the juicy red fruit is packed with citrulline. This useful phyto-nutrient converts to the amino acid arginine when you ingest it. Arginine has a great effect on the circulatory system. It also increases the amount of nitric oxide in the body, which has a Viagra-like effect on the blood vessels. Nitric…
  • How to Report Internet Sex Crimes

    Michael Arangua
    25 May 2015 | 9:26 pm
    When one is watching porn, and not that we’re going to ask for a show of hands on that, the usual response is to ignore any feelings of guilt and concentrate on the taboo. But what happens when someone crosses the line? Victimizing someone is never sexy and the sad fact is that illegal pornography continues to be distributed, sometimes even against a searcher’s wishes. It might surprise you to know that the legitimate sex industry, even the amateurs, take ethical obligations seriously. All sex scenes, even the “reality” ones, are scripted, choreographed, and are made with all…
  • The Benefits of Korean Red Ginseng for Menopausal Women

    Genesis Davies
    20 May 2015 | 4:17 pm
    By Shizhao Chances are, you’ve heard that ginseng is an aphrodisiac, but it’s most often touted as being beneficial for men. If you’re a woman facing menopause or premenopause, however, Korean red ginseng could be the natural enhancement you’re looking for. Not only does it add a little zing to your food, it spices up your sex life. Common effects of menopause include vaginal dryness and a reduced interest in sex, thanks to a natural drop in estrogen produced by the body. Your doctor may prescribe estrogen to help you to combat these effects, but many women prefer to look for a…
  • X2 Orgasmatron, We Tried It!

    10 May 2015 | 3:31 pm
    The first time we saw the X2 Orgasmatron in the Orgasmatronics store, we were curious about it. X2 seemed to have a very state-of-the-art design, and was created by a PhD from Yale University. We wanted to try it, and so we did! Did it disappoint us? Keep reading to find out… X2 Orgasmatron 101 After a lot of anticipation, the X2 finally arrived. The package was composed of four items: X2 Orgasmatron was created by Doctor X. Treme User manual Polly attachment Pink Jane dildo The X2 itself, and its power cord User Manual The user manual is an illustrated booklet in English that contains all…
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  • Sexpo™ UK announce Affiliate Scheme

    Anthony West
    7 Jul 2015 | 7:37 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The Sexpo™ UK affiliate scheme has now officially launched, giving businesses and brands the opportunity to work alongside Sexpo™ UK. The post Sexpo™ UK announce Affiliate Scheme appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Tanya Tate set for signings at Comic Con!

    Anthony West
    7 Jul 2015 | 7:23 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. A prolific geek personality in her own right, the mainstream media maven has become a Comic Con mainstay over the last few years for Tanya Tate. The post Tanya Tate set for signings at Comic Con! appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Sexual Health Expo space almost sold out

    Anthony West
    7 Jul 2015 | 1:25 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. According to event organizers, available exhibitor space for the Sexual Health Expo N.Y. is now limited to three booths and table top displays. The post Sexual Health Expo space almost sold out appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Pervlens collaborate with UKAP Awards 2015

    Anthony West
    6 Jul 2015 | 2:24 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The ceremony is to be held in association with the Sex Workers Opera at Proud City Cabaret Bar, during the XBIZ London industry event. The post Pervlens collaborate with UKAP Awards 2015 appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • 2015 PRP Awards Nominees Announced

    Anthony West
    6 Jul 2015 | 2:02 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Voting is now live online at and via SMS. SMS voting details can be found on the @PRPAwards twitter page. The post 2015 PRP Awards Nominees Announced appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
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  • Seriously, if you're not wearing a brooch, why did you even bother getting dressed this morning?

    Jennifer Villamere
    29 Jun 2015 | 8:02 am
    I don't know if you noticed, but everyone is wearing brooches which means that if you aren't, this is like that dream where someone on a website you're reading points out that you are, in fact, naked.You are naked without a brooch. Go buy one now, you heathen.
  • Today in sex news: A giant, glitter-spraying penis that sneaks up on you

    Jennifer Villamere
    25 Jun 2015 | 10:25 am
    Giant glitter-spraying penis stars in Norwegian sex education advert [VIDEO]Norwegian sexual health charity hires man in giant penis costume to creep up on unsuspecting members of the public and spray them with golden confetti. Read more >>The secret lives of phone sex workersPhil Toledano tracked down US phone sex professionals, photographed them in their homes and asked them to talk through the realities of the job. From the 60-year-old with an anthropology degree to the man who plays cards while he works, the results were unexpected. Read more >>The Little Death awkwardly…
  • What to wear on Canada Day so you don't look sloppy while getting drunk

    Jennifer Villamere
    24 Jun 2015 | 10:46 am
    There's no wrong way to do Canada Day.Seriously, you do you, you big Canadian weirdos.But here is some inspiration for a real beauty of a Canada Day:Follow Jenny Villamere's board Canada Day on Pinterest.
  • Your real horoscope: June 23-29

    Jennifer Villamere
    23 Jun 2015 | 4:32 pm
    ARIES (March 21 - April 20):Uh oh. You think you may have made a huge mistake. Fret not. All will be well.TAURUS (April 21 - May 21):It’s time to break free. Sure, they’ll just keep pulling you. Back. In. But this is good practice. GEMINI (May 22 - June 21):Take it down a notch, big shot. The planets, and your ruler Mercury in particular, warn that you’ll be fucked if you shoot your wad in a big, stupid way.CANCER (June 22 - July 23):Hide under your bed for a while. Keep yourself a secret from the world. Also: deodorant. Wear it. LEO (July 24 - Aug. 23):The whole world isn’t against…
  • Here is the 2015 Polaris Music Prize Long List

    Jennifer Villamere
    16 Jun 2015 | 11:26 am
    The list ranges from the familiar (Drake, Joel Plaskett) to the familiar yet unexpected (Buffy Sainte Marie) to the peripherally exciting (Louis-Jean Cormier, Aboriginal Folk, Rock and Country, 1966-1985)Luckily, you can listen to a Spotify playlist of the Long List here.The Short List will be unveiled on July 16 at The Carlu in Toronto and the gala will happen there on September 21. will stream the gala live.The list:ABSOLUTELY FREE – Absolutely Free THE ACORN – Vieux Loup LYDIA AINSWORTH – Right From Real ALVVAYS – Alvvays ARKELLS – High Noon RICH AUCOIN – Ephemeral…
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  • Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls

    Senses Private Club
    2 Jul 2015 | 2:22 am
    The word vacation to a single guy can mean a wide variety of things. For some, it could mean a golf outing with the boys and for others it could be an adrenaline fueled romp through the wilderness. The one constant when looking for vacation spots for single guys is the ability to meet women. […] The post Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Best Erotic Vacations For Naughty Couples

    Senses Private Club
    27 Jun 2015 | 1:55 am
    The landscape of couple’s erotic vacations has changed dramatically over the past twenty years. Gone is much of the negative stigma associated with “swingers” or that type of hedonistic lifestyle. No longer do the antiquated stereotypes burn a shameful “A” into the folds of a negligée. The new world embraces these couple’s erotic vacations as […] The post Best Erotic Vacations For Naughty Couples appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • 7 Myths About Using Escort Services

    Senses Private Club
    22 Jun 2015 | 1:53 am
    Hiring an escort can be a very rewarding transaction. You get the opportunity to spend a day, weekend or an entire week with a beautiful, willing companion. You are treated the way every man fantasizes about, with the possibility of having your every desire fulfilled. Men have been enjoying escort services, and the fantasy world […] The post 7 Myths About Using Escort Services appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Best Hacks For Cheap Flights To The Dominican Republic

    Senses Private Club
    15 Jun 2015 | 1:36 pm
    So, you’re finally ready to go all out and take the adult vacation of a lifetime. Kudos. We respect that decision and know firsthand how rewarding your experience is going to be. After all, this is the reality of our daily lives. All bragging aside, we are delighted to help anyone who wishes to visit […] The post Best Hacks For Cheap Flights To The Dominican Republic appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • What a 4-Day Adult Vacation with Beautiful Girls Taught Me

    Senses Private Club
    9 Jun 2015 | 10:16 am
    I was asked by the manager at Senses Private Club if I would care to share my experience from beginning to end of my recent adult vacation with them. The idea was to perhaps give someone new to this whole thing a clue as to what may become your experience. I’ve actually been wanting to […] The post What a 4-Day Adult Vacation with Beautiful Girls Taught Me appeared first on Senses Private Club.
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