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  • 6 Sex Positions That Make You Look Good

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    Kaylen Jackson
    24 Jan 2015 | 7:00 am
    Sex positions come in all varieties, but not all of them will flatter your best body attributes. In fact, many women avoid certain sex positions because they’re afraid their lover will see the cellulite in their backside or the wrinkles in their tummies. Rest assured women, that guys aren’t usually picking apart the girl they’re scoring with. But if you really want to hide your least favorite body parts, here are six sex positions that you’ll want to try. Doggy Style If you have a flabby tummy, or your tummy just isn’t your favorite part of yourself, doggy style…
  • How I Finally Found My Best Sexual Self - and the Best Sex of My Life

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    25 Jan 2015 | 11:00 pm
    Find out how the writer learned to full own her sexuality - and you can too.
  • BuzzFeed

    Girl with a one-track mind
    27 Nov 2013 | 6:05 am
    I wrote a post for BuzzFeed, critiquing the utterly stupid sex advice found in men's magazines. (Obviously, the sex advice in women's magazines is just as awful.) It's so annoying to see this shit... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Eye Candy: Pretty Girl Sunday

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    Violet Blue
    25 Jan 2015 | 3:59 am
    Loreen A. – Enasus (above) Veselin – Autare Mia D. – Zodana Nancy A. – Rasfei (below) Vivica Johnson – Nice View (above) Anya Ivy – Slippery Babe (below) Anastasia Black – Spinning Class (above) Nedda – Discovery in Denim Paula Shy – Sexy Workout Kari, Lutro – Afternoon Delight Harmony Reigns, Kimmy Cumlots – Babydoll and Blondie ‘Asylum Debauchery/Suckerpunch Cosplay’ (above) Daniel and Paula – Through the Back Joel and Alexa – Just Watch Ana Foxxx – Gold Chains (above) Dora Z. – Premiere…
  • 6 Signs That You Are Having Great Sex

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    22 Jan 2015 | 11:00 pm
    Are you having great sex? Check out our lascivious list to signs that you are having great sex!
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    My Sex Professor

  • 5 Things You Should Know About Coregasm (Having an Orgasm While You Exercise)

    Dr. Debby Herbenick
    3 Jan 2015 | 12:47 pm
    My newest book, The Coregasm Workout, is all about coregasms – that is, exercise-induced orgasm (EIO) and also exercise-induced arousal (EIA). A lot of things have been written on the Internet about coregasms and unfortunately much of it isn’t true. That’s why I wrote the book: because I very often receive questions about this area [...]
  • My First Newsletter! It’s On Intimacy and Affection.

    Dr. Debby Herbenick
    3 Jan 2015 | 9:09 am
    On January 1, I sent out my first newsletter. Over the past few years, I’ve dedicated more of my research to understanding how sex, intimacy, and affection fit together, so it seemed fitting to share this with subscribers. If you’d like to receive occasional emails from me about sex, love, and relationships, sign up on [...]
  • Signed Copies of Sex Made Easy – GoodReads Giveaway!

    Dr. Debby Herbenick
    14 Dec 2014 | 12:21 pm
    Through December 20, 2014,  I am giving away 10 signed copies of my book, Sex Made Easy. Learn more and enter on the GoodReads website (link below). UPDATE: Over 400 people entered and, on December 24, I shipped off signed copies to the 10 winners. I wish I had more to give away! Thank you [...]
  • Meeting Dr. Ruth Again

    Dr. Debby Herbenick
    9 Dec 2014 | 9:32 pm
    Last week I was so honored to give a talk at the Center for Sex Education’s National Sex Ed Conference, held in Meadowlands, New Jersey. The Sex Ed Conference is the brainchild of sex educator Bill Taverner, who has long been something of a hero and mentor to me. So when he asked me to [...]
  • Claiming The Title Of Sex Educator

    9 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    Half a year ago, I wrote a blog post called “On Being A Sex Educator When You’re Not,” which related my experiences of acting like a sex educator when people in my life needed access to that sort of information. However, as I wrote: “I know that there are specific degree programs dedicated to training [...]
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  • "I am a white woman. I am standing beside a black woman. We are facing a group of white people who..."

    7 Jan 2015 | 8:44 pm
    “I am a white woman. I am standing beside a black woman. We are facing a group of white people who are seated in front of us. We are in their workplace, and have been hired by their employer to lead them in a dialogue about race. The room is filled with tension and charged with hostility. I have just presented a definition of racism that includes the acknowledgment that whites hold social and institutional power over people of color. A white man is pounding his fist on the table. His face is red and he is furious. As he pounds he yells, “White people have been discriminated against for 25…
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  • daveio: pervocracy: The best comedy about North Korea, far...

    3 Jan 2015 | 3:03 pm
    daveio: pervocracy: The best comedy about North Korea, far better than The Interview, was made six years ago. It’s called The Red Chapel, and it’s a documentary about two Danish-Korean comedians (and their director/manager) who go to North Korea to perform for Kim Jong Il.  The idea they had was that they would do subversive comedy, they would come up with a sketch that looked like goofy slapstick but slyly mocked the North Korean government, and it would be a hilarious slap in the face to do it right in front of Kim Jong Il.  That big silly wouldn’t even know they were making fun…
  • redupnyc: NEW YORK CITY - Wednesday, December 17 Event...

    15 Dec 2014 | 12:54 pm
    redupnyc: NEW YORK CITY - Wednesday, December 17 Event organized by Trans Women of Color Collective of Greater New York, Streetwise and Safe, GLOBE-The LGBTQ Justice Organization of Make the Road NY, VOCAL NYC, Queer Detainee Empowerment ProjectRed Umbrella ProjectPersist Health Project, and SWOP-NYC + SWANKTHE INTERNATIONAL DAY TO END VIOLENCE AGAINST SEX WORKERSA call to action and a community healing eventnear the C/E/N/R/1/F and PATH trainsAll Are Welcome | Accessible SpaceDIA INTERNACIONAL POR EL FIN DE LA VIOLENCIA CONTRA TRABAJADORES SEXUALESUn llamado de accion y in evento de…
  • micdotcom: Congressional staffers stage walk out to protest...

    11 Dec 2014 | 5:29 pm
    micdotcom: Congressional staffers stage walk out to protest police killings More than 150 congressional staffers, as well as a few elected officials, walked off the job Thursday afternoon, gathering on the steps of the Capitol to join protests in support of the families of Michael Brown and Eric Garner, two unarmed black men killed by police officers last summer.
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  • Can't orgasm?

    26 Jan 2015 | 1:09 pm
    I've been having sex with my girlfriend for over 3 years and am wondering if there are any other women out there that can't orgasm from oral sex at all? Also, I cannot orgasm at all through sex with clitoral stimulation as well as vaginal. I can orgasm from a vibrator though. I understand women have trouble with this but it's kind of frustrating.
  • possible cold sore on lips?

    25 Jan 2015 | 3:14 pm
    I got really drunk last night and had sex with this guy. I gave him oral sex, but he didn't cum or anything. We used a condom for the penetrative sex, but I don't remember seeing anything on his dick, but as I was kind of intoxicated I wasn't looking, and I didn't ask and now I'm sort of terrified because I've just noticed I've been breaking out really badly. I know this is a bad picture, but I can always try and take better ones later. My chin is breaking out, which is concerning enough, but I have this one big bump under my lip thats concerning me the most. I don't know what to do, and I'm…
  • psoriasis/eczema in pubic area?

    24 Jan 2015 | 10:00 pm
    hello vp-i posted about a week or so ago about a small hive/bump I had in my pubic area. to recap- I saw a raised spot above my clitoris where the two lips meet, but still in my pubic area if that makes sense. like right where my pubic hair area ends the bump was, then right below my clitoris and inside the lips begin ect. so the bump was itchy and I thought it was because my pubic hair was longer than usual. I shaved which usually relieves any itching I have, but it was still there. it was a flesh colored raised spot that looked more like a "patch" or never was painful or an open…
  • Pain in abdomen after sex

    23 Jan 2015 | 12:08 pm
    Hi everyone,I was wondering if anyone might be able to give me some advice. I'm a 29-year-old cis female and have been experiencing pain and discomfort after sex since I was 23-24. When it started, I went to the doctor about it and was referred for a pelvic ultrasound but they found nothing but polycystic ovaries. I went back 2-3 more times over the next few years and had 2 further ultrasounds but they again found nothing except polycystic ovaries. I didn't really know what else to do as I kept being told no reason for the pain could be found. The only thing I could think of was possible…
  • Weird bleeding

    23 Jan 2015 | 5:04 am
    I always have had semi-irregular menstrual cycles. The start dates of my last 4 periods were:9/2711/312/141/9The most recent period on the 9th of this month was strange to me. I've always been a light bleeder, don't typically wear tampons both because I don't feel like I need them and I don't like the feel. This time it was the same, normal light bleeding through about the 13th, then it tapered off into some spotting, which is also normal for me. HOWEVER, what wasn't normal, is that the spotting lasted DAYS. At least a full 5 days of spotting, which is absolutely out of the norm for my…
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  • Alegerea unui sistem de alarma Paradox

    5 Jan 2015 | 2:10 am
    Un sistem de securitate și de monitorizare sunt instalate pentru a proteja casa ta de la hoți, hoți, intruși și alte pericole, inclusiv de incendiu. Există o varietate de sisteme de alarmă acasă pentru a decide. Atunci când se analizează o pentru casa ta Amintiți-vă că acestea oferă diferite funcții operaționale cu un singur lucru în comun, ele sunt concepute pentru a proteja casa ta. Unele dintre comune tipuri de sisteme de alarmă includ circuite electrice, detectoare de mișcare, alarme infraroșu și alte soiuri care toate sunt relativ eficiente. Mai jos este mai mult…
  • Diferite tipuri de lumanari de botez

    10 Dec 2014 | 2:33 am
    Nu lumânări îndoială, nu au fost într-adevăr inventate pentru multe dintre scopurile pentru care sunt utilizate, dar încă lumânări sunt identificate cu imaginea ei de utilizare multifuncțională. Parfumuri și lumânări sunt adesea conectate la o asemenea măsură încât mulți oameni uita doar că lumanari albe lungi normale sunt disponibile în piață. Există diferite tipuri de lumânări, dar lumanari de botez sunt un gen popular. Lumanari de botez, spre deosebire de cele mai multe alte produse pot fi personalizate foarte ușor. Tipuri comune de lumanari de botez disponibile…
  • Alegerea unei formatii perfecte pentru nunta ta

    26 Nov 2014 | 8:24 am
    Cu muzica joacă un rol important în nunta ta, este important să vă ia în considerare opţiunile pentru cum aceasta muzica muzica nunta este jucat + fie live sau în temeiul unui sistem de sunet. Melodiile muzica nunta va fi ales cu migală de voi deci este în valoare de asigurându-vă că acestea sunt redate pentru cel mai bun efect. Aveţi o gamă largă de opţiuni atunci când vine vorba de joc vă cantece muzica nunta, în funcţie de stil şi gen de muzică ai ales. De asemenea, poate doriţi să ia în considerare stilul muzica nunta ta, atunci când luarea deciziilor…
  • De ce să alegeți un scaun de masaj Human Touch?

    21 Nov 2014 | 1:00 am
    După opt ore de muncă grea să te simți ca și cum dumneavoastră umeri, gât, spate și au fost complet abuzat. Care este soluția la această problemă nu pare să se termine + și nu mă refer la călători înainte și înapoi la chiropractician sau terapeut de masaj? Un drept scaun de masaj în confortul de acasă, care vă oferă senzația de atingere umană și pot fi utilizate în funcție de programările de timp, este răspunsul. Dar de ce scaun de masaj Human Touch? Scaune de masaj Human Touch sunt construite de către Interactive Sănătate și dispun de un multi-patentat Human…
  • Promovare website – afla mai multe!

    18 Nov 2014 | 2:07 am
    Inca de la creșterea în utilizarea internetului, acesta a fost de servire a utilizatorilor în multe feluri. Pentru unii, aceasta este o resursă de cunoștințe și informații, iar pentru unii este un mediu de publicitate. Este o realitate faptul că potențialii clienți caută informații legate de produs înainte de a lua decizia de cumpărare. Cei care sunt savvy internet, ei se cerceteze pe web. Acum, ea este o companie de promovare website, care se potrivește perfect în acest loc. Acest tip de organizare poate fi mai bine cunoscut sub numele de partener de afaceri de promovare.
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Risk of HIV infection in studies of African women using hormonal contraceptives

    22 Jan 2015 | 11:54 am
    Use of the injectable progestin contraceptive depot-medroxyprogesterone acetate (DMPA) is linked to an increased risk for HIV infection, according to a new article. The researchers did not find a significantly increased risk for HIV infection in women who used a different injectable progestin, norethisterone enanthate (NET-EN), nor in those who used combined oral contraceptives (COC).
  • Only about half of teenage girls receive HPV vaccine at CDC's recommended age

    21 Jan 2015 | 8:49 am
    A virus is responsible for most cases of cervical cancer, but a new study indicates that only about half of the girls receive the vaccine at the recommended age. The Human papilloma virus vaccine protects against 70 percent of cervical cancers. The CDC has recommended that girls get the vaccine when they are 11-12, because it is most effective when it is given before girls become sexually active.
  • Link found between pain during or after sexual intercourse and mode of delivery

    21 Jan 2015 | 5:46 am
    Operative birth is associated with persisting pain during or after sexual intercourse, known as dyspareunia, suggests a new study. The study aimed to investigate the contribution of obstetric risk factors, including mode of delivery and perineal trauma to postpartum dyspareunia. It also examined the influences of other risk factors, including breastfeeding, maternal fatigue, maternal depression and intimate partner abuse.
  • Long-acting drug effectively prevents HIV-like infection in monkeys

    15 Jan 2015 | 9:21 am
    HIV infection can be prevented with regimens of antiretroviral drugs, however, their effectiveness depends on a patient's ability to take the pills as prescribed. HIV researchers hope cabotegravir would make compliance easier for some by requiring only one injection every three months.
  • HIV/AIDS patients in Deep South of U.S. have lower survival rates

    14 Jan 2015 | 1:28 pm
    A nine-state region of the US South has the nation's lowest five-year survival rate among people diagnosed with HIV or AIDS, according to new research. Fifteen percent of people diagnosed with HIV and 27 percent of those diagnosed with AIDS in 2003-2004 had died within five years of diagnosis. Researchers say poverty, education, health insurance, social stigma and racism contribute.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Vibrators, Sex, and Depression

    22 Jan 2015 | 6:59 am
    I need to preface this post. You won’t learn anything from this. I have no answers, no treatment plan, no quest. I have uncertainties and questions.  It isn’t an eloquent post. If you need a visual, I am huddled under a hoodie unable to make eye contact, I’m fidgety and exhausted. I’m skimming in some parts because I don’t have enough introspection to be able to elaborate. This is raw and uncomfortable and it’s not a pretty post. Like I told Reenie when I got her opinion on this post, this is a glimpse of me in therapy (and a clue as to why I don’t…
  • Lelo Mona Wave

    19 Jan 2015 | 6:27 am
    The Lelo Mona Wave takes the Mona and adds motion, meant to do the g-spot stroking for you. For me, sex toys don’t replace a human. They’re a great accompaniment. I love using them by myself and with a partner. But just as a penis or finger or tongue could never vibrate and nearly never achieve the orgasms (for me) that a good vibrator can, a sex toy can never feel like oral sex or the thrusting of a penis or the stroking, much-lauded “come-hither” motion of a finger or two. Yet sex toy companies, Lelo included, keep trying to create sex toys that seem to be aiming for…
  • The Screaming O – First Company to Self-Test and Admit They Were Wrong?

    16 Jan 2015 | 12:45 pm
    Since 2005, The Screaming O has been telling us that their products like Ringo, The Big O, The Screaming O Plus (the clear material products) were “SEBS Silicone”. After I delved into my material research, discussions with industry professionals, and flame testing, I felt pretty damn certain that there was never any silicone in these products. When an AVN article came out on January 14th talking about how The Screaming O decided to run lab tests AND quoted Anne Hodder of Hodder Media Inc, their Public Relations Spokesperson, as saying “I think we can finally put to rest the…
  • Will Screaming O Finally Drop the “SEBS Silicone” Claim?

    15 Jan 2015 | 6:35 am
    Update: This post has been edited with information I’ve been given that completely changes the narrative; information that hadn’t been made as public as their lab tests. It changes the story from one of me being angry, to me feeling like the industry is actually, slowly, getting better and getting somewhere. Update at the bottom.    For a long while now I’ve been a big critic of The Screaming O brand for one big reason: They lied about their materials. This misrepresentation of material content has continued to perpetuate firstly the myth that there is such a thing as…
  • We Need a Name for This Army

    11 Jan 2015 | 4:35 pm
    A few weeks ago I received a lovely note that reminds me why I do what I do, why I’ll never back down and shut up and why I keep on researching and thinking, testing and theorizing, why I geek out about sex toy materials. This may sound silly, but I wanted to thank you for all the information you share on your blog and on /r/sextoys. My husband asked for a BBD (big black dildo) for Christmas. I knew from previously buying plugs that we needed a good quality silicone, but was nervous about getting something online that I couldn’t really gauge the size of. So, I went to the local…
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    Susie Bright's Journal

  • Crab and Mai Tai's (Susie Bright)
    26 Jan 2015 | 5:46 pm
    Last night I made crab and Mai Tai's for dinner. That was the theme, I just woke up with it. Trader Vic, eat your heart out. Our friend Clark Magruder came over and pronounced my crab salad the "best crab dish I have ever had" — which if you knew...
  • Because The Night — June, 1979, Kansas (Susie Bright)
    24 Jan 2015 | 5:29 pm
    Patti Smith is touring the West Coast this weekend, including my little surf town, and I'm a surprised at myself that I'm not already in line for a seat. We both were so young and spontaneous the last time we "saw each other." My Patti performance history begins and ends...
  • Susie Bright’s No-Shit-Sherlock Storm Prep (Susie Bright)
    10 Dec 2014 | 12:24 pm
    "20 foot waves, massive mudslides, flash floods inundate Northern California"— Storm of the Decade arrives Thursday, December 11, 2014!" Believe it or drown in it! Below, I offer you my priceless storm preparation advice— speaking as a baby who's been woefully unprepared in past. Are you ready for the “atmospheric...
  • Transparent Behind the Scenes -- Listen Up! (Susie Bright)
    29 Sep 2014 | 8:24 am
    Listen to the Behind-the-Scenes Features! I produced them, and they're pretty darn cool. Spoiler Alerts: Major and delicious. Watch Season 1 first, if you want to let the surprises unfold naturally-- your binge is our pleasure. Needless to say, I didn't do it alone. I'm lucky enough to produce this...
  • Kate Clinton Goes Deep Inside The Sex Archives (Susie Bright)
    1 Apr 2014 | 4:14 pm
    Radclyffe Hall, "Speaking of Sex Exhibit": The Human Sexuality Collection 25th Anniversary Sometimes at fundraisers when I talk with people about another string of LGBT successes, I feel like I have been Mr. Peabody-ed into a way, wayback machine episode. It's The Beverly Hillbillies and a gobsmacked Jethro has just...
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Somewhere Only We Know

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    24 Jan 2015 | 10:41 am
    I remember my oldest schoolfriend and her teenage lover. They sometimes had huge rows which would end with one of them walking out. But they always had their ‘safe spot’. They had agreed, right at the beginning of their relationship that, if ever it all went wrong and they fell out big time, they [...]
  • You can leave your hat on

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    21 Jan 2015 | 10:31 am
    She must have seen him some time before she came over to introduce herself and shake his hand because, as she withdrew hers, he was aware of the scrap of lace pressed into his own. Crumpling the material into his palm and placing it in his pocket, he was aware of the warm dampness against [...]
  • Men and Infertility

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    18 Jan 2015 | 10:18 am
    It doesn't really matter whether the problem lies with the woman or the man, you just truly wonder why any couple would continue with this process after being unsuccessful repeatedly. [...]
  • Spartacus

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    15 Jan 2015 | 10:13 am
    It was a wet and windy Saturday here and I was waiting for a friend to come over. I had cleaned the flat and checked my emails so I was at a loose end and switched on the tv. With nothing more productive to do, I found myself flicking through the channels on [...]
  • The Tearing Asunder

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    12 Jan 2015 | 10:02 am
    It’s hard for them all because they just don’t get it. That two people can actually have a relatively amicable divorce. And that it doesn’t require the taking of sides. When you’ve been part of a family for three decades, you are no longer there purely as an ‘outlaw’. Sometimes your in-laws can actually prefer you to [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 6 Sex Positions That Make You Look Good

    Kaylen Jackson
    24 Jan 2015 | 7:00 am
    Sex positions come in all varieties, but not all of them will flatter your best body attributes. In fact, many women avoid certain sex positions because they’re afraid their lover will see the cellulite in their backside or the wrinkles in their tummies. Rest assured women, that guys aren’t usually picking apart the girl they’re scoring with. But if you really want to hide your least favorite body parts, here are six sex positions that you’ll want to try. Doggy Style If you have a flabby tummy, or your tummy just isn’t your favorite part of yourself, doggy style…
  • Female Orgasm – Squirting 101

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    23 Jan 2015 | 7:00 am
    The ability to squirt during orgasm is perhaps one of the more elusive and taboo parts of a woman’s anatomy. Squirting can be a huge turn on for guys and it can intensify an orgasm for a woman ten fold. Many people believe that squirting isn’t something women can do at all, but in recent years it has been proven that women can indeed squirt. So what is squirting anyways? What Is Squirting? Squirting for women is much like ejaculating is for a man. All women have a functioning prostate gland that starts producing fluid when a girl begins to go through puberty. This fluid is…
  • 3 Things All Men Need To Know About The Female Orgasm

    Lee Jenkins
    16 Jan 2015 | 12:12 pm
    Fortunately for women, gone are the days when it is commonplace for them to have sex and not reach an orgasm. As sex experts have started delving deeper into female sexuality, there has been more awareness about what female orgasm is all about. Today, women reach orgasms as often as men ejaculate – and they’re even luckier in the sense that they are capable of achieving multiple orgasms. A Quick Look At What Happens When A Woman Reaches Orgasm First, let us take a look at exactly what happens when a woman reaches an orgasm. This, of course, is entirely for a man’s…
  • What Women Who Can Have Multiple Orgasms Won’t Tell You

    Kaylen Jackson
    15 Jan 2015 | 7:00 am
    Multiple orgasms can be had, but only if a girl really knows how to let go. Here’s what girls who can have more than one orgasm know that you don’t! They Have Self Confidence Self confidence is a must when it comes to having multiple orgasms and you might could even say the same about just one orgasm. A girl who has multiple orgasms is very self confident – she knows she’s sexy, she knows you like what you see and she knows how to let go. She’s not worried about her cellulite during sex, and she’s most certainly not worried about her O-face, because she…
  • 4 Ways To Make Sex Better With Her

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    13 Jan 2015 | 10:03 am
    Even bringing up the fact that your girl needs to be better at sex can begin a downward spiral in every relationship. Whether your girl is terrible at giving blow jobs, kissing or she simply can’t get the rhythms right while on top, telling her outright that she needs to work on her sexual repertoire is probably not the best approach. Many guys go through long-term relationships without ever bringing up the fact that their girlfriends or wives are awful at sex. This can lead to resentment and in extreme cases, cheating. So, if your girlfriend or wife is not that great in bed, there are a…
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  • Snowed in? Make lemony chicken, 3-ingredient pasta and 6 more easy pantry meals

    Lexi Dwyer
    26 Jan 2015 | 2:17 pm
    In case you haven't noticed, there's this little old blizzard called Juno walloping the Northeast right now. And the last thing you should be doing is driving to the grocery store during white-out conditions.
  • Who is America's favorite retailer, again?

    Herb Weisbaum
    26 Jan 2015 | 12:18 pm
    When it comes to customer satisfaction, it’s hard to beat Nordstrom. The Seattle-based retailer was just named America’s favorite retailer – for the third consecutive year – by Market Force Information. Kohl’s was second, followed by T.J. Maxx, Macy’s and Dillard’s in this new nationwide survey released on Monday.
  • 4 ways to stay warm without raising your electric bill

    Alesandra Dubin
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:54 am
    With a massive storm set to pound the Northeast, keeping warm is a not just a matter of comfort, but of cost. Here are four ideas for staying warm at home without breaking the bank on that next heating bill.Make a DIY space heaterTealights and flower pots are the affordable, everyday items behind this simple solution for heating a room for mere pennies.
  • Josh Hartnett lists his Minnesota mansion

    Melissa Allison
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:45 am
    Actor Josh Hartnett is parting ways with his Minneapolis, Minnesota home, and not for a penny more than what he paid for it when he originally purchased the historic property 13 years ago. Ironically, Hartnett is selling his 1800s Victorian mansion while starring in “Penny Dreadful,” a Showtime horror series set in the same period. He’s asking $2.395 million, precisely what he paid for it in 2002.
  • See how one company is making cramped living luxurious

    Amy Eley
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:07 am
    If living in tight quarters doesn't sound like an ideal situation, one Oregon-based company might change your mind.With floor plans ranging from just 128-400 square feet, Tiny Heirloom is dedicated to making the most deluxe — and adorable — micro-homes on the market.
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  • Snowed in? Make lemony chicken, 3-ingredient pasta and 6 more easy pantry meals

    Lexi Dwyer
    26 Jan 2015 | 2:17 pm
    In case you haven't noticed, there's this little old blizzard called Juno walloping the Northeast right now. And the last thing you should be doing is driving to the grocery store during white-out conditions.
  • Who is America's favorite retailer, again?

    Herb Weisbaum
    26 Jan 2015 | 12:18 pm
    When it comes to customer satisfaction, it’s hard to beat Nordstrom. The Seattle-based retailer was just named America’s favorite retailer – for the third consecutive year – by Market Force Information. Kohl’s was second, followed by T.J. Maxx, Macy’s and Dillard’s in this new nationwide survey released on Monday.
  • 4 ways to stay warm without raising your electric bill

    Alesandra Dubin
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:54 am
    With a massive storm set to pound the Northeast, keeping warm is a not just a matter of comfort, but of cost. Here are four ideas for staying warm at home without breaking the bank on that next heating bill.Make a DIY space heaterTealights and flower pots are the affordable, everyday items behind this simple solution for heating a room for mere pennies.
  • Josh Hartnett lists his Minnesota mansion

    Melissa Allison
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:45 am
    Actor Josh Hartnett is parting ways with his Minneapolis, Minnesota home, and not for a penny more than what he paid for it when he originally purchased the historic property 13 years ago. Ironically, Hartnett is selling his 1800s Victorian mansion while starring in “Penny Dreadful,” a Showtime horror series set in the same period. He’s asking $2.395 million, precisely what he paid for it in 2002.
  • See how one company is making cramped living luxurious

    Amy Eley
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:07 am
    If living in tight quarters doesn't sound like an ideal situation, one Oregon-based company might change your mind.With floor plans ranging from just 128-400 square feet, Tiny Heirloom is dedicated to making the most deluxe — and adorable — micro-homes on the market.
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • A ‘connection’ or having ‘so much in common’ isn’t the same as intimacy

    Natalie (NML)
    21 Jan 2015 | 2:33 pm
    “We have an amazing connection”, said so many people who are struggling to understand why they’re not experiencing deep, committed, loving, progressing, balanced, consistent relationships with the very people that they’re referring to. “But, we have so much in common!”, said many a confused person who doesn’t share the common ground of the same perception and commitment to the relationship. All the mutual pain, admiration, shared experiences, attraction, hobbies, interests, orgasms etc., in the world, will not make a difference if when it all boils…
  • Sometimes, you just don’t have anymore energy left to explain why you’re stepping back (especially when they actually know why)

    Natalie (NML)
    14 Jan 2015 | 3:26 pm
    Sometimes we can find ourselves in the position of knowing about what someone has done and not having the energy to get into some big ‘ole thing about it. It’s not because we’re letting it slide or that we’re too afraid to deal with it; it’s more that due to what we now know, we realise that if we go down the path of trying to ‘make’ this person see our position, to express remorse, to acknowledge what they’ve done and what was so wrong about it, we’re probably going to go blue in the face from trying to make sense out of nonsense and getting caught up in he said she said…
  • Forgiveness isn’t about agreeing with or condoning the other person’s actions

    Natalie (NML)
    6 Jan 2015 | 1:57 pm
    As I continue making peace with my past and recognising younger parts of me that still hurt and remember, not only am I committed to being self-compassionate and learning from when I’m not, but I’m also committed to not letting my past and those in it get away with robbing me of my present and my peace. I’m in command of me now and I can’t give away my chance at life and my journey because it didn’t start out as I would have liked and because of pain I’ve experienced. In the end, much as I could hold certain things front and centre in my heart and mind and…
  • Everybody ‘bounces back’ at different rates

    Natalie (NML)
    30 Dec 2014 | 3:23 pm
    It can feel very bewildering and even pressured when we are wounded by something that has happened but somebody is questioning why we haven’t moved on from it yet or they’re struggling to fathom our response to whatever happened. It might be that they’re comparing what they think would be their own reaction with ours, or or it might be that they are technically the cause of the issue and feel that they’ve said or done what is needed for us to move on. It might be one of those situations where they’ve for instance, apologised but what they really want is for us to…
  • Just Because You’ve Agreed To Something Previously, It Doesn’t Mean That You ‘Should’ Do So Again

    Natalie (NML)
    16 Dec 2014 | 2:41 pm
    At this time of year, I hear from a lot of people who are battling against what they perceive as the weighty expectations of their nearest and dearest about Christmas / The Holidays  In their heart of hearts, they don’t want to do whatever is being asked (or are assuming is expected) and yet based on this notion that because they’ve for instance, gone to Aunt Flo’s every year or because they are somebody’s child hence they must do what mom and dad say even if they’re a mum and dad themselves or just old enough to be an actual adult, they don’t feel as if they have a…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 418: Emotional abuse

    23 Jan 2015 | 6:38 pm
    Shannon Perez-Derby of the Northwest Network of Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian and Gay Survivors of Abuse, shares how to recognize, survive and support both survivors and perpetrators of emotional abuse. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 417: Senior Sex with Joan Price

    15 Jan 2015 | 5:55 pm
    Senior sex kitten Joan Price shares the secrets of hot sex over 50. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 416: Growing up poly, the bad

    9 Jan 2015 | 4:49 pm
    Is growing up in a poly household bad for the kids? Join Tiana, Susie and Koe, the adult children of polyamorous homes, as they share some of the negative effects of their upbringing. For the positive effects, check out episode 415. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 415: Growing up poly, the good stuff

    1 Jan 2015 | 6:00 am
    Koe, Tiana and Susie all grew up in polyamorous households. Listen as they discuss what it was like to grow up with awareness of polyamory and as they share their insights as to the positive effects of being raised in a poly home. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 414: Meeting LustyGuy's wife and my metamour, L!

    26 Dec 2014 | 7:25 am
    LustyGuy's wife and my metamour L shares her take on non-monogamy, jealousy and the secrets to non-monogamous relationship longevity. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • 25 Universal Truths About Men

    17 Jan 2015 | 12:00 am
    Most of the time, it’s smart to stay away from making generalizations about “the unfamiliar.” But sometimes there’s truth in these statements and men can certainly fall into this category for us. That’s why Relationship Doctor Bob Grant risks being politically incorrect and reveals the 25 universal...
  • Do the Holidays Equal Relationship Doom?

    8 Dec 2014 | 12:00 am
    Yes, it's that time of year again. Thanksgiving kicks off the annual relationship freeze which lasts through the New Year. Much like government wage freezes that leave DMV workers and other civil servants with salaries stuck in 1973, the annual dating freeze cements you for three months in whatever...
  • Celebrate Your Single Self!

    6 Dec 2014 | 12:00 am
    Once upon a time, being single between the months of November and February could make a gal feel like a social misfit. Thank goodness times have changed! How to Celebrate Being Single Own your independence.Instead of dreading the office holiday party, your married-with-children friends’...
  • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience

    19 Mar 2014 | 12:05 am
    The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of sexy strangers. After we hung up, I got to thinking...
  • Why Women Feel More Attached after Sex than Men

    25 Feb 2014 | 12:00 am
    Could your hormones be the reason you feel close to him after sex? Find out what effect the hormone oxytocin could be having on your relationships and sex life.
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    Sex, Etc.

  • Nevada Students Demand—and Deserve—Comprehensive Sex Ed

    Joyce Canela
    12 Jan 2015 | 8:55 am
    Students of Nevada’s Clark County School District are fighting for their right to have accurate and comprehensive sexuality education. The school district is under pressure to change their abstinence-only program and lessons where sex-shaming and victim-blaming is common to hear about in class. But after listening to conservative parents’ views on what is appropriate, the school district stopped their plans to update the curriculum. Students who are advocating for their right to receive comprehensive sexuality education gathered to protest the conservative board at the district meetings.
  • BuzzFeed’s “Let’s Actually Talk About Birth Control”

    Adrian Lam
    6 Jan 2015 | 11:18 am
    Recently, I watched a BuzzFeed video titled “Let’s Actually Talk About Birth Control.” It started off with the narrator asking a couple of high school students and their coworkers what they knew about birth control. Surprisingly, most people in the video had never learned about birth control in school or at home. One teen even stated, “I’m unsure about what birth control even is.” I could really relate to her because I was not taught about birth control either. I had never even seen a condom until I began writing for Sex, Etc. Later on in the video, two gynecologists were brought…
  • Five Reasons Being Single for the Holidays Is the Best

    Emma Grant
    18 Dec 2014 | 8:24 am
    It’s that time again! Time to watch cliché romantic holiday movies with the cat, consume large amounts of cookies and not be kissed under the mistletoe. But you know what? Despite what some may think, it’s not too bad. There are plenty of reasons why being single during the holiday season is the best! You don’t have to buy presents for your partner. Sure, you have to get something for your mom or your best friend. But there’s no enormous expectation to live up to. You don’t have to plan for months to get that “perfect” gift, or waste your last three paychecks on one person.
  • AfterPill Brand Offers Affordable EC via Mail

    Joyce Canela
    16 Dec 2014 | 8:24 am
    Emergency contraception (EC), which can be taken to reduce the risk of pregnancy after unprotected sex, is now available online for a cheaper price than what you would get at your local pharmacy. AfterPill, a generic version of Plan B One-Step emergency contraception sold online, offers one dose of emergency contraception for $20 with an additional $5 flat rate fee for shipping, making it $25 for one dose. Meanwhile, Plan B One-Step, which is now available over-the-counter for purchase by anyone of any age, costs on average about $48 a box without a coupon. Purchasing EC over the counter can…
  • Planned Parenthood Now Offers Online Video Visits

    Kunal Arora
    9 Dec 2014 | 3:09 am
    I was so happy to find out that Planned Parenthood is doing something that is at once radical and simple: allowing virtual visits for clients in need of birth control through an app. The whole process is relatively simple. Download the app on either an Android or iOS device (sorry, Blackberry and Windows phone owners!). Login and connect with a clinician in seconds. The clinician will then talk to you about what type of birth control would best suit your needs. Then, the desired birth control will be delivered right to your doorstep—no prescription or trip to the pharmacy necessary. This…
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    Simple Marriage

  • Beware of marital drift

    26 Jan 2015 | 6:00 am
    If you’ve been married longer than a couple of years, you’ve likely experienced bouts of marital drift. Times when you both seem disconnected, apart, or simply out of sync. It’s natural that a couple will have ups and downs. Times when things are smooth and connections are deep – and times when they’re exactly the opposite. So how about now? Here’s a short quiz that will help you both discover where you are and give you ideas on what to do about it. In the last month, have you and your spouse: Kissed passionately without making love? Gone out on a date…
  • How To Take Constructive Feedback From Your Spouse, And Not Want To Kill Them

    21 Jan 2015 | 11:34 am
    This is a post from Elizabeth Davis of We’ve all been there. One moment you’re sitting together, cuddling and feeling as loved up as you could possibly be. The next moment, you’re screaming at your partner because they mentioned a flaw of yours in a passing comment. It’s not the first time it’s ever happened, and believe me, it won’t be the last. However, there’s a right way and wrong way to take that feedback and criticism. The WRONG way is to scream, shout and even physically attack your spouse; that’s definitely not…
  • 3 Ways to Surprise Your Significant Other

    19 Jan 2015 | 4:04 am
      Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from John and Wendy of Marriage Rescue Associates. Whether you’ve been together a few months or a few decades, element of surprise in a relationship is always powerful. So to keep things interesting and exciting between you and your significant other, take the initiative to surprise your spouse. Anybody can do dinner and a movie, but to truly wow the one you love, you have to think outside the box. With that in mind, below are three fun ideas for catching your husband or wife off-guard with unexpected affection. With a little strategic…
  • Create a marriage that clicks

    14 Jan 2015 | 4:09 am
    Right now, my married life is the best it’s ever been. I guess you could say we are clicking, or in the zone. My wife changed jobs to one that has her working directly with people and seeing the impact of her knowledge as it helps them with their money. I’m creating systems, training and resources to help married people like you improve the your most important relationship. We’ve worked hard to get to where we are. Full disclosure, our married life still includes times of frustration, heartache, and tension between us. What makes this different for us is the ebbs and flows…
  • 12 Ways to Improve Your Marriage in 2015

    12 Jan 2015 | 4:04 am
    Editor’s Note: This is a post from Rachel Dack of Relationships and marriages go through many stages, changes and transitions. Similar to planting, watering and caring for seeds, in order for them to blossom into flowers, a marriage calls for constant nurturing and attention. While our relationships bring us great joy, love and comfort, they also require deliberate effort and energy. As all couples experience conflict and face the ups and downs that life brings, how you handle challenges, communicate and treat each other are vital components to healthy relationships.
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    Girl with a one-track mind

  • Eleven

    1 Jan 2015 | 1:00 pm
    I realise that posting this on here today now just marks an annual event, not another of what used to be my daily writings, and I do feel sad about that. I miss having this as a regular outlet for my... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Ten

    1 Jan 2014 | 12:32 pm
    Ten years ago today, I posted my inaugural entry on this blog. It makes me feel quite old and very nostalgic to be looking back to then; a lot has changed in my life since that initial moment I... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • BuzzFeed

    27 Nov 2013 | 6:05 am
    I wrote a post for BuzzFeed, critiquing the utterly stupid sex advice found in men's magazines. (Obviously, the sex advice in women's magazines is just as awful.) It's so annoying to see this shit... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Antonia

    28 Oct 2013 | 8:27 am
    As many readers will know, before I wrote books, or even this blog, I worked in the film industry; I spent many years working as a runner and assistant director. Before that, however, I was an... If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
  • Sex ed

    3 Sep 2013 | 10:23 am
    I was annoyed by the Tories paying lip service to the Telegraph's campaign for better sex ed, so I wrote a piece for the New Statesman about it. /rant If you are not reading this at you are reading stolen content.
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  • How to write a sex column

    23 Jan 2015 | 8:14 am
    I'm gearing up to teach my nonfiction sex writing class (along with my erotica workshop) at CatalystCon March 27th in Arlington, Virginia, and also planning an online extended version of that class, along with writing sex columns for Philadelphia City Paper and DAME, so I've been thinking a lot about sex columns, sharing, getting personal and getting your words out there. To date I've written sex columns for The Village Voice, Penthouse, The Frisky, and the current two, and I've found that having the ongoing platform of a column is very different from sporadic articles and essays. In those, I…
  • A mother daughter review of my debut book Sex & Cupcakes

    22 Jan 2015 | 4:19 am
    This writer's dream is to move people with her words, so I can only say a giant thank you to Oleander Plume and her 19-year-old daughter Quinn for sharing the dialogue between them about sex, sex education and sparked by reading my ebook Sex & Cupcakes: A Juicy Collection of Essays. They also each review the book, but their truly honest, open intergenerational discussion was so enlightening. I can only hope that someday I will be in a position to raise a child in such a sex-positive, honest way. It truly made my month and I gave them a shoutout in my essay "Sorry, But I'm Not A Sexpert" at…
  • Pinch my nipples, please

    22 Jan 2015 | 4:11 am
    That's the title for this week's Philadelphia City Paper sex column, where I got some help from Jerome Stuart Nichols of If you like nipples, my column or just want to be supportive, I'd love it if you'd like, Tweet, share on G+ or anywhere else. In case you're wondering: yes, it matters, immensely. If no one was reading, my column would have ended by now. Since last week's OrgasmQuest column went viral, spawning articles on sites like Jezebel and Refinery29 and The Daily Dot, a segment on Dr. Drew's HLN show last night, I'm finding out just how important reader support is, and…
  • What it's like to be a bisexual woman in my new DAME column Shameless Sex

    19 Jan 2015 | 5:22 am
    I started a second sex column which debuted at one of my favorite sites, DAME, on Wednesday. It's called Shameless Sex and the first column is called "Why don't people take bisexuality seriously?" Salon just reprinted with the title, "Yes, bisexuality is real." Please note: DAME is a women's site so I focused on women's experiences, and yes, there is a lot more to bisexuality than I could fit in one column. The good news? I'll be there every other Wednesday and have some great topics coming up, so if you have a suggestion for me for the column, which will be focused on women and sex pretty…
  • Writing is like doing a jigsaw puzzle

    16 Jan 2015 | 8:53 pm
    Recently, my boyfriend and I completed this jigsaw puzzle (of the Vincent van Gogh painting Café Terrace at Night), in about a week: Every time I wandered over to the puzzle, deciding which part I wanted to tackle, peering closely at each piece, so close I could see the brush strokes, I made this connection: doing a jigsaw puzzle is like writing. When you dig deep into it, get lost in it, you are moving piece by piece, word by word. You are breaking the process down into its most individual parts. Sometimes you are getting so deep into the trees you forget there's a forest, and that's a good…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • ‘Secretary’ re-release: Meet the original Mr. Grey

    Violet Blue
    26 Jan 2015 | 8:15 pm
    As you’d imagine, I own very few DVDs. The ones I do own are almost all because they are films, porn, or art performances made by friends. There is one huge Hollywood exception to this minimalist approach: the 2002 film Secretary. It was a gift from one of my best friends. When I saw Secretary all those years ago at a pre-release screening, I was blown away to see a mainstream film get something about outsider sexuality so right. And while the film didn’t exactly describe my fantasies, it was a huge turn-on nonetheless. Yes: “Edward Grey” is the name of James…
  • Sex News: Porn awards in Getty Images, Larry Flynt on Charlie Hebdo, polyamory on CNN, lulzy safewords

    Violet Blue
    26 Jan 2015 | 9:53 am
    With my new indie book Filthy Housewives (Amazon), all sales go to the authors! View image | The Las Vegas AVN (adult trade industry magazine) porn awards and expo are in Getty Images, and the photos are going up uncensored. 2015 AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (Getty Images) The adult content filters being rolled out by most UK internet providers under a scheme championed by David Cameron are blocking the websites of businesses and charities, as well as URLs with Sussex or Essex in them. Several of the blocked charities were offering support and services to young people escaping…
  • Eye Candy: Pretty Girl Sunday

    Violet Blue
    25 Jan 2015 | 3:59 am
    Loreen A. – Enasus (above) Veselin – Autare Mia D. – Zodana Nancy A. – Rasfei (below) Vivica Johnson – Nice View (above) Anya Ivy – Slippery Babe (below) Anastasia Black – Spinning Class (above) Nedda – Discovery in Denim Paula Shy – Sexy Workout Kari, Lutro – Afternoon Delight Harmony Reigns, Kimmy Cumlots – Babydoll and Blondie ‘Asylum Debauchery/Suckerpunch Cosplay’ (above) Daniel and Paula – Through the Back Joel and Alexa – Just Watch Ana Foxxx – Gold Chains (above) Dora Z. – Premiere…
  • Exey Pantleev’s Geeklendar 2015 (3333)

    Violet Blue
    24 Jan 2015 | 6:29 pm
    I’ve featured the work of photographer Exey Pantleev over the years here, so I’m all smiles to see his latest project Geeklendar 2015 (3333). Interestingly, a free printable .PDF version unlocks after he reaches 1000 followers on Twitter. Pantleev explains, “The new calendar contains 12 programming languages that have appeared in the 21st century, and they may conquer the world.” Nearly a year in the making, the calendar showcases 12 models. “All styles and body painting by Sveta Panteleeva. Photography by Exey Panteleev.” Below, the backstage video for the…
  • Sex News: Doorknob lickers, more UK censorship, ethical porn, democratic camming

    Violet Blue
    22 Jan 2015 | 10:07 am
    With my new indie book Filthy Housewives (Amazon), all sales go to the authors! On Twitter, Door Knob Girl (Tumblr) brings Anorak UK something they’d never thought of: a primarily Japanese fetish for pretty young girls sensuously licking doorknobs. (It’s not a new fetish.) Japan: women licking doorknobs is a fetish (Anorak) Customers of one of the U.K.’s largest ISPs, Sky, will find themselves automatically blocked from online porn. The new adult content filter will be installed over the next few days to all its 5.3 million customers, as a part of Prime Minister David…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 430

    Dan Savage
    20 Jan 2015 | 1:00 am
    It's the Getting Women to Come Show! Sometimes ladies can't come and want to. Sometimes ladies can't come and they don't want to. Dan sure talks a lot about female orgasms on this show, considering he's never been near one.  Bad Science Alert! Female Ejaculate: Is it pee? Dan speaks with fearless blogger Amy Luna Manderino about some annoying hyperventilation in response to a recent study on squirting.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Cooper Beckett from the Life on the Swingset podcast about the joys and perils of swinging. And finally, a new image will come to mind when you hear…
  • Savage Love Episode 429

    Dan Savage
    13 Jan 2015 | 1:00 am
    How can you tell when a slap to the face is welcome or unwelcome in a BDSM situation? A weepy slapper wants to know.  How much trouble can naughty photos on Tumblr cause your new boyfriend?  Chest tattoos: hot or not? Dan welcomes Heather Havrilesky of "Ask Polly" to tackle this one in a Second Opinion. And on the Magnum, does a woman have a right to ask about her new boyfriend's prescription for Cialis? Nancy weighs in!  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode…
  • Savage Love Episode 428

    Dan Savage
    6 Jan 2015 | 1:00 am
    A husband can't be bothered to bring his wife to orgasm. Why? It's too much work! His hand gets tired! A man is pretty sure his nephew is gay. The rest of the family is homophobic. How can he soften the ground with the family, and let him know he has support without outing or embarrassing him?  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes comedian Mike Birbiglia to tackle a question about REM sleep disorder. Also Annie.  A woman is willing to be a sub in the bedroom, but when her new boyfriend barks out orders in the kitchen, well, that's not cool!  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you…
  • Savage Love Episode 427

    Dan Savage
    30 Dec 2014 | 1:00 am
    A drunken lass has intellectual crushes on her professors. How can she express her "love for their intellect?"  A man is totes bummed when a date ditches him after discovering that he smokes cigarettes. Is this just what online dating is like?  One condom. Three people. Does this math add up?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with uber-lesbian author and sex educator Allison Moon about female ejaculation and the geyser that sometimes results.  And, listen to a cavalcade of remedies for PMS! This podcast is brought to you by Go buy something, and be sure to…
  • Savage Love Episode 426

    Dan Savage
    23 Dec 2014 | 1:00 am
    Come all ye faithful. It's the Lovecast Live Christmas Extravaganza!  Recorded at Seattle's Neptune Theatre, this show features singer-songwriter Rachel Lark, comedian Derek Sheen, and a suddenly recruited, unwitting therapist! And Dan uses the scientific method to prove once and for all that Christmas. Isn't. Sexy.  But you be the judge. Photos are at 206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Go buy something, and be sure to enter SAVAGE2014 at checkout. This episode is also brought to you by Naturebox: the…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • These Are The Tales, The PJ Tales, Part V

    Panama Jackson
    26 Jan 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Now, let’s be clear. Going out of town to see somebody that you don’t remember but have had some great conversations with will go one of two ways: 1) you all will have the same amazing chemistry in person that you have over the phone (I’ve been on that yacht before); or 2) it gets SUUUUUPER awkward almost immediately and both people want to bail but you paid for tickets and travelled so everybody decides to try to make the best out of it. This situation was the latter. So, I get to the airport and Tina comes to pick me up and we awkwardly hug. Here’s why: I think both…
  • Yup, I Said It: Red Velvet (Everything) Is Overrated

    Damon Young
    26 Jan 2015 | 11:46 am
    I don’t remember exactly where I was or when it was the first time I tried red velvet cake. If it was like any other of my notable firsts, it likely occurred in a Delta’s living room while debating whether the cocker spaniel Noreaga referenced at the beginning of “Superthug” was male or female. But, I don’t remember, so I don’t know. What I do remember, though, is how I felt when first trying it. Because it’s the exact same way I’ve felt after every time I’ve tried it since; a feeling that can best be described as whatever feeling you…
  • The Only Possible Comment On Yasmin Eleby, The 40-Year-Old Houston Woman Who Married Herself

    Damon Young
    26 Jan 2015 | 8:35 am
    Good for her.
  • These Are The Tales, The PJ Tales, Part IV

    Panama Jackson
    26 Jan 2015 | 7:04 am
    January 2, 2004 with my boy Calvin, one of the people who convinced me to start blogging. Did I ever tell you about the one time I went to Rochester, NY? I probably didn’t. I’ve been to Rochester, NY, one time in my life. And because I am both genius and legend, I went in February, in the dead of cold in 2004. It was so cold when I landed in the ROC that I immediately regretted my decision. And that was BEFORE the trip went to hell in a handbasket. How I ended up in Rochester is a story in and of itself. So let’s start there. After I graduated from Morehouse in May of 2001,…
  • Michelle Williams Tells Mike Huckabee “You Come At The Queen, You Best Not Miss”

    Roll Call
    23 Jan 2015 | 10:24 am
    Apparently on an episode of The View (they still make those?), Mike Huckabee appeared and theorized in his book that Jay-Z was pimping out Beyoncé. As in, Bey’s sexual expression freedom was not because she’s an independent woman and all’at, but because Jay was making her do something she apparently doesn’t need to do: express herself sexually. Michelle Williams was having NONE of that. She laid the smackdown on Huckabee, letting him know that — no, boo-boo – Bey is actually finally expressing herself as she truly is instead of trying to uphold some…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • 6 Things You MUST Know To Make Marriage Counseling Work

    26 Jan 2015 | 8:06 pm
    Is couples therapy right for you? Here's the lowdown on marriage counseling: how it works, what to expect and how to approach it. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • You Won't Find True Love Until You Do These 5 Things

    26 Jan 2015 | 8:04 pm
    Most people want to find love, but not everyone is at the point in their lives where they're ready to fully open their hearts. If these five signs sound familiar, you're well on your way to loving and being loved. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Remarkable Reasons Why Introverts Make Better Wives

    26 Jan 2015 | 4:06 pm
    Despite what Internet quizzes have been telling you, not all introverts are socially inept, painfully shy recluses. Yes introverts are known to feel some social discomfort at times but that's only because too much "small talk" feels insincere, and large groups of people are physically draining on our systems. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 11 Slacker-Proof Questions To Get Your Goals Back On Track

    26 Jan 2015 | 3:56 pm
    Have you fallen off track keeping your New Year's goals and resolutions? No worries, the year is still young. Here are 11 questions to get your goals re-activated with confidence. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • A New Film Exposes Campus Rape Culture—But Will Colleges Listen?

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    26 Jan 2015 | 3:49 pm
    This past Friday at the 2015 Sundance Film Festival, filmmaker Kirby Dick premiere his latest film, The Hunting Ground. The documentary examines the ongoing rape and sexual assault issues that women face everyday and the lack of justice that follows. Although the documentary focuses on many women, it centers around the case of Erica Kinsman who was brutally attacked and raped by Heisman Trophy winner, Jameis Winston, while they were both students at Florida State. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • Annabelle Knight Gives Relationship Advice on This Morning

    23 Jan 2015 | 3:56 am
    Ruth and Eamonn were joined in the This Morning studio today by Lovehoney's own Annabelle Knight. Annabelle was asked to give her expert relationship advice to viewers dealing with cheating partners. She spoke to two women about dealing with their partner's infidelity while pregnant. Catch up with This Morning here to see Annabelle in action. When she's not solving the nation's sex problems on live TV, Annabelle is busy presenting LovehoneyTV, and even has her own range of sex toys. Want to know more about Annabelle? Check out our Q&A with her, or check out her advice column in NOW…
  • Ever Wondered What Sex Toys Look Like In Slow Motion?

    21 Jan 2015 | 7:32 am
    We have. That's why we got a box of sex toys and a fancy slow-motion camera to find out. The result is quite majestic: Read on below for a product list. [More]
  • Thrill Me, Adore Me, Treat Me For Valentine's Day

    21 Jan 2015 | 2:30 am
    Ever since we launched Lovehoney Lingerie in October, we've been inundated with positive feedback from women all over the country. You love the flattering designs, reasonable price and, perhaps most of all, the wide range of sizes available. That why we're delighted to announce we're expanding Lovehoney Lingerie with two brand new lines, just in time for Valentine's Day. Choose from semi-sheer mesh with pink ribbon detailing in the flirty Thrill Me line, or opt for classic red microfibre and black lace detailing with Adore Me. All items are available in base and plus sizes, but on the…
  • Take Our Saucy Valentine's Survey - WIN a £185 Bundle!

    16 Jan 2015 | 6:16 am
    Love is in the air, everywhere you look around! That's right folks, it's almost Valentine's Day and we want to know what you saucy people are getting up to. If you're contemplating confessing your undying love to someone or you're planning on having pull-out-all-the-stops, blow-your-mind sex on 14th February - we want to hear from you! Take the survey below and you could be in with a chance of winning our Sex O'Clock bundle worth over £185 which includes: Lelo Mona 2 Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator (£88.99) Lovehoney Assorted Lubricant 10 Pack (£5.99) TENGA Black Flip Hole…
  • Who's The UK's Favourite Porn Star? You May Be Surprised...

    15 Jan 2015 | 5:00 am
    Adult actress Lisa Ann (left) has proven the UK's most popular porn star, according to the 2014 report by video website Pornhub. The survey analysed the viewing habits of Pornhub users, and gives quite an insight into the sexual preferences of Brits. More British people watch Lisa Ann's videos than any other adult actress, and "MILF", "British" and "Lesbian" were our most searched terms. The findings also reveal Lisa Ann's universal appeal - she topped the polls in the United Kingdom, Canada, the United States, Mexico, the Netherlands, Poland, Argentina, Egypt…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex


    26 Jan 2015 | 9:21 pm
    New Answer - I want to thank Dr.Adodo for what he has done for me, at first i taught this was not real but until i just decided to give him a try. i told him that my ex lover which i loved with all my heart left me for another, all Dr.Adodo did was to laugh and said he will be back to me within 48hours time, i taught he was lying but to my greatest surprise my lover called me within 48hours and said he want to see me, i was shocked then he came over to my place and started begging that i should forgive him, immediately i forgives him and now we are back and he his really madly in love with…

    25 Jan 2015 | 3:10 am
    New Answer - It's unbelievable how fortunate I feel after finding your website. For the past 6 months, I have been so depressed after losing my husband to another woman. My money situation worsened so much that I thought I'd have to file for bankruptcy. I had a huge amount of debt and I didn't know what to do. Out of complete and total desperation, I contacted many of those so-called individuals who promised powerful magic, witchcraft or black magic. None of them worked and none were as wonderful, affectionate and warm as Dr Marvel has been. He is definitely different from the others and I…
  • How can i get back my ex lover, contact for help today thanks.

    22 Jan 2015 | 9:49 am
    New Question - My name is Helen,I saw different comments of people on this blogg, that's why I want to use this great opportunity to Testify how the Great prophet saved my marriage, I'm from California. I want to use this opportunity to thank the great Prophet Ijeja the Great who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man IJEJA brought my husband back to me after 6years of breakup in our marriage, and i already had 3 lovely kids for my husband, before he left me for another lady, because she charmed him In 2007 some years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel and…
  • Dr. Wakina has been tasted and trusted by many

    22 Jan 2015 | 6:38 am
    New Answer - Twila Adam: This is a special thank you message that I have been avoiding to share in public because I was ashamed to expose my affairs to the public, but I realized the promise I made to dr. wakina to prove to me why people talks more about him if he is real and I will comment about him? I told Dr. Wakina that he should show me his true power and he agreed to help me after he finished consulting his Oracle and came up with positive result. This great doctor started this work and finally proved his powers to me when my Ex came back 2days after the spell, begging and pleading for…

    22 Jan 2015 | 4:56 am
    New Opinion - Yay!! you cannot believe what this spell caster Lord Shinnok just did for me!!! Was this all a magic?? "This is totally a Christmas miracle for me lol" My mouth are short of words. “I got a divorce from my husband when I was six months pregnant with my second child. We had only been married for a short time and had another child who was 1 year old. We had been arguing and quarreling nonstop since the day our first child was conceived, no love nor trust from him anymore so he divorced. And all these whiles, I have been trying all different means to get him back, I also tried…
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  • No Pretenses

    26 Jan 2015 | 1:09 pm
    The other day I read a post by the wonderful, articulate and talented Rachel Kramer Bussel on Thought Catalog. I’ve read her tweets, her stories and plenty of collections she’s edited. In fact, I will soon be published in one of those very collections! Her recent piece “Sorry, But I’m Not A Sexpert” was as well-written as any. But it was was than that. To me, the words my eyes were absorbing were like something I could have written. I wouldn’t dare to compare myself to Rachel, who has years of experience and has done more to make a career from her love of…
  • Things That Ensure I’ll Ignore Your Online Dating Profile

    19 Jan 2015 | 12:07 am
    Maybe I’m too picky. Maybe I shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. Maybe I should understand how hard it is to write a dating profile. After all, I’ve redone mine multiples times. It might help for me to give people a chance even if there’s no immediate spark. It is the Internet, after all. I might find some diamonds in the rough. Or something. But I don’t. Maybe I can’t. I go running when people post photos full of fish. And I certainly don’t respond to messages that do any of the following: Consist only of a compliment of how I am a “beautiful…
  • The Big Book of Submission: 69 Kinky Tales

    3 Jan 2015 | 12:59 am
    The Big Book of Submission $12.85 from Amazon There’s something to be said for a good book that you can’t put down after a story/chapter or two. That’s the case with the Big Book of Submission.  I would intend to read a dozen pages, and I would finally put it down some 60 or 70 pages later. I was thoroughly enthralled and aroused, but this typically meant it took time away from sleeping or working or what-else-have-you that I should have been doing. This meant that it took only a few sittings to get through this book, which boasts an impressive 69 stories. But because I…
  • Dear Carla Alcorn

    30 Dec 2014 | 7:06 pm
    Last night, I read about how your trans daughter killed herself. Then, I read any number of incorrect articles about how your “son,” your words and the media’s, accidentally died while taking a walk. Make no mistake, it was no accident. More correctly, it was suicide, but I am many who think that you and your husband had a direct influence on your daughter’s death. I am sure this is a difficult time for you, whether or not you subscribe to the truth. But consider this. Your daughter’s entire life was difficult for her. She admits to spending a decade —…
  • 2014: The Best Of

    29 Dec 2014 | 1:00 am
    Another year. Another couple dozen reviews of sex toys. There were fewer this year than the last. This might be due to me having more sex. Or perhaps there were fewer toys that I really loved In fact, while populating this list, I worried I wouldn’t have enough best-ofs. I suppose that’s bound to happen, and I might accept the blame of trying out some toys that wouldn’t work well for me if I had looked past the shiny and read the small print. Oops. But, there’s definitely some toys I would recommend, so here they are! Vibrator Svakom is an up-and-coming company. I had…
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  • Marriage & Social Media Challenges / Stacey On WPIX 11 News!

    26 Jan 2015 | 7:33 am
    Facebook and other social media sites are runaway trains. There is no going back but we as individuals and as couples need to exercise…
  • Sisters Sticking Together

    21 Jan 2015 | 8:16 am
                    Sadly, date rape on college campuses has become such a common occurrence that possible remedies make…
  • Sexting

    13 Jan 2015 | 6:35 am
    To sext or not to sext, that is the question. Actually, according to a study of over 600 teens,if you’re a teen between the…
  • Five Parenting Tips For The New Year

    30 Dec 2014 | 7:15 am
    1. Remember How Big You Are We parents often forget how big and powerful we are in the eyes of our children – literally…
  • Divorce–It’s Never Easy

    27 Dec 2014 | 8:33 am
    Today over at the Huffington Post, I’ve published a story about how divorce is always difficult and anguishing. I wrote this in response to…
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  • 10 Answers to Dumb Questions People Ask Lesbians

    26 Jan 2015 | 10:07 am
    Don’t you just hate it when people get all up in your business when they find out you’re a lesbian? Here are the best ways to answer their questions! By Nina Rizon READ: Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against straight people. In fact, I love them so much I want to make life easier for them by writing this feature. But seriously, it is perfectly okay to ask questions, because we don’t discriminate and we are not ashamed of who we are and of what we do. However, there is a huge difference between plain, innocent questions on one hand and insensitive, arrogant, not to mention…
  • 10 Reasons Why You Feel Relieved After Breaking Up

    26 Jan 2015 | 9:47 am
    Ever felt guilty for being relieved after you’ve broken up with someone? Ditch the guilt and rationalize your feelings with these explanations. By Philip Hegarty You were in a relationship with someone, whom you believed to be your soul-mate and the love of your life, but things started to go a bit awry, and before you knew it, the relationship was hitting the stony depths of rock-bottom and separation became an imminent reality. You worked so hard at saving the last vestiges of anything that was still good about the bond you shared, but it still wasn’t enough. When the break up came,…
  • 18 Undeniable Signs that You Have Found “The One”

    25 Jan 2015 | 10:00 am
    All these movies and series are always going on about finding “The One,” but how can you be sure you’ve found yours? Here are 18 ways to find out! By Lianne Choo They say that love at first sight belongs in cheesy love songs, chick flicks and racy novels. In today’s day and age that plays host to skyrocketing divorce rates, fast paced lifestyles and predominantly online human communication, it’s far better to take a closer look. In fact, many experts agree that it is the smart thing to do. According to a blog piece published on The Economist, “Love at first sight exists, but it is…
  • 30 Foolproof Pickup Lines & 10 You Should Never Use

    24 Jan 2015 | 9:49 am
    Have you been using all the wrong pickup lines on ladies you meet? Here are 30 of the most adorable ones that are sure to get any girl’s attention! By Minot Pettinato-Little Pickup lines are notoriously associated with college guys and drunken bar-boys trying to chat up a woman. And they often come off as eye-roll inducing or overtly sexist. In fact, you can bet your bottom dollar that anything sexual or overtly cheesy is going to have your woman rolling her eyes and laughing to her girlfriends about you later. However, there are a few exceptions to the rules. Flirting with chat-up lines…
  • Suddenly Single? – 11 Things You Have to Avoid Doing!

    23 Jan 2015 | 5:36 am
    While your heartbreak is still fresh, you may be tempted to do things that will just make things worse. Here are some of the things you should avoid. By Michelle Escultura After the drama, the tears and the pain of a breakup, you may oftentimes see yourself in that numbing slump. Being single may start to feel new and almost alien to you. The “us” has been reduced to just “me,” and it can sometimes be very hard to deal with. The typical picture of a person who is suddenly single is usually a person eating spoonfuls of ice cream while watching a sad movie or downing his tenth beer in a…
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  • Protected: Thoughts and Experiences of Gender

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    26 Jan 2015 | 8:20 am
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  • Dying, Dying, Dead

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    26 Sep 2014 | 2:22 am
    I am dying. I am dying. I am dead. Pulling parts of myself away from the tangled mess I have weaved together throughout all these years. Endless pain and discomfort in the name of growth and abundance. What needs to die? What needs to be reborn? Strips of self that I have taken the time to mold out of experiences now need to be carefully separated from the rest of me, the parts that are useful stay, the parts that hold me back must go. Where do I go? My back is hurting from stress, from the weight of the words that need to come out of me, but that I am having a difficult time getting onto the…
  • Stream of Consciousness Life Thoughts

    Tai Quyn Kulystin
    14 Sep 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Instead of attempting to do a catch-up post before I write the “real” post by trying to recap all the things that have happened since the last time so many ages ago that I posted on here, I just need to write. I’ve been doing so much writing the last few years, but so little personal writing. Grad school has sucked up all my writing time and now that I’m writing my thesis I’m going a little bit insane. I am having a difficult time getting words down on the page, however, and I’m hoping that a bit of a free write will assist with that. I’m struggling.
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  • Misleading Phone Sex Numbers

    Phone Sex Secrets
    20 Jan 2015 | 5:18 pm
    In an article about education in the UK, Students and phone sex: “Why not work as a phone sex operator and pay your way through University”, the author’s premise is “Why not work as a phone sex operator and pay your way through University to scale down the amount of debt you are left with […]
  • More PSOs Should Be Like Santa

    Phone Sex Secrets
    9 Dec 2014 | 1:50 pm
    I’ve got a long post about phone sex operators & social media in draft stages, but I just had to note this gem from Stacey Alcorn in 5 Steps to Working a Holiday Party Like Santa — and it was too long for me to tweet! Santa would never show up at a home and […]
  • Coupon Codes For Wish List Shopping For PSOs, CamGirls, Etc.

    Phone Sex Secrets
    24 Nov 2014 | 1:45 am
    Just a reminder about wishlist safety — for both clients and providers. Also, if you shop at Sexclectic, for anyone at all this holiday season, I have exclusive codes you can use to save money: * Enter code PHONESEXSECRETS and save 20% on any order. * Enter code PSSTOYS and get $10 off any order […]
  • Voice Actors & Actresses Needed For Paying Audio Erotica Gigs

    Phone Sex Secrets
    17 Nov 2014 | 8:42 am
    I’ve been contacted by a new company to give them a hand finding voice talent for their recorded erotic stories. They are looking for voice talent — especially male voice talent — to create (record) their erotic audio fantasies for women. While I’ve no experience with this company, this could be a great source of […]
  • Work Your Phone Sex Blog Like A Vintage Stag Film

    Phone Sex Secrets
    13 Nov 2014 | 4:18 am
    You’ve probably heard about the old stag films, maybe even seen a few. But do you understand their magic? Naughty and even nudie films have a long history, dating back to the early 1900s. While all these forerunners of today’s porn are sometimes referred to as “blue” movies, stag films held a specific audience and […]
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  • 15 Things Men Think When Women Are on Top

    Svetlana Ivanova
    24 Jan 2015 | 3:00 am
    Frank Kobola reveals what goes through a man’s mind when a woman gets on top. 1. Please tell me you’re getting on top. I really can’t handle pumping away anymore. My butt muscles are so tight that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to poop again. 2. Don’t break my reapenis. You’ve pretty much got complete Continue reading →(Visited 44 times, 6 visits today)
  • Meet Eufrat Mai, the Woman Who Was the Vagina Model for the FleshLight

    Svetlana Ivanova
    22 Jan 2015 | 3:46 am
    Meet Eufrat Mai, the very pretty woman who was the vagina model for the FleshLight.(Visited 51 times, 2 visits today)
  • Why Men Should Love the Missionary Position

    Svetlana Ivanova
    20 Jan 2015 | 3:00 am
    The missionary position is the most popular among women. Ben Kassoy explains why men should love it too. Ok, I’ll say it: I hate missionary. Most people rarely think about it, which is weird, considering it’s the most common position. I’m not one to be too particular about sex—honestly, I’m just glad to be having Continue reading →(Visited 57 times, 2 visits today)
  • The Ultimate Guide to Having Sex in Public – Without Getting Caught

    Svetlana Ivanova
    17 Jan 2015 | 3:00 am
    If the idea of having sex in public excites you (and it probably does), Amanda Chatel reveals how to do it without being caught in flagrante delicto. I hate admitting that I even have a bucket list in the first place, but I do and there are many things on it, and I hope to Continue reading →(Visited 93 times, 2 visits today)
  • How to Perform Amazing Oral Sex on a Woman

    Svetlana Ivanova
    15 Jan 2015 | 3:00 am
    Legendary porn star Nina Hartley gives men advice on how to give a woman amazing oral sex.  (Visited 138 times, 6 visits today)
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  • February Again…

    Molly Moore
    26 Jan 2015 | 2:07 pm
    If you have been visiting here for over a year then hopefully you will remember February Photofest which was an insane idea that I concocted last year. As part of my 101 things in 1001 days list I had set myself the task of posting an image a day for a whole month. February, due…
  • Invincible

    Molly Moore
    24 Jan 2015 | 3:27 pm
    “In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.” ~ Albert Camus Related Posts: Write On… Fertile Fields Adam’s Apple Sweet Spring, Cummings Lingering
  • Dead Heat

    Molly Moore
    20 Jan 2015 | 4:15 pm
    I am utterly fascinated by graveyards and cemeteries. The more modern ones with perfect rows of headstones all lined up like soldiers and every blade of grass is trimmed to perfection don’t do it for me though. There is something too sterile about them that makes them boring to me. No, for me an interesting…
  • Admiring the View

    Molly Moore
    17 Jan 2015 | 3:27 pm
    Two Sunday’s ago I posted this image, On Point, which showed the gift I gave to @domsigns for Christmas along with my thoughts about it. A few days later I wrote another post, A Heady Union, about our kinkless Christmas due to illness and the resulting build up of tension between us as we approached…
  • Cry Baby

    Molly Moore
    16 Jan 2015 | 1:37 am
    It’s my kink, and I’ll cry if I want to Cry if I want to, cry if I want to You would cry too if kink happened to you The moment I saw this month’s prompt that song instantly leapt into my head and I couldn’t resist tinkering with the words a little. However despite…
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  • R100 Press Day at Dungeon West

    Ms. Justine
    26 Jan 2015 | 8:25 am
    R100? opens today, a movie about a man joining a mysterious club that basically has beautiful dommes randomly beating the crap out of him in visually stunning and hilarious ways–but I was happy to give a tour to press at Dungeon West
  • Winner of Footnight’s Most Fascinating & Captivating Model!

    Ms. Justine
    15 Jan 2015 | 12:15 pm
    I am pleased announce that I won the 2015 Footnight‘s Most Fascinating and Captivating Model! I have been attending Footnight for several years and have always enjoyed my time there, meeting lovely new people as well as having some of the same regulars over the years. I look forward to continuing to attend Footnight parties when I am in Los Angeles and perhaps making it to one of the others offered in different cities. Thank you to all my loyal fans and clients who have voted for me! I look forward to you worshipping my feet soon. Congratulations to my friend Mistress Lynn Pops who won…
  • Visiting Portland January 17-20

    Ms. Justine
    8 Jan 2015 | 2:32 am
    No matter the city, no matter the dungeon–you will always be expected to OBEY. I will be visiting Portland for the first time in 10 years and accepting sessions there for the first time ever! What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? I am in town for the Oregon Truffle Festival, those who have dined with me know how much I love those delightful mushrooms. Looking forward to exploring the strip clubs and Powells bookstore as well. We love to tease you while we make out. I will also be in town with Mistress Natalie West. We are also accepting doubles–we are quite the…
  • Los Angeles Dominatrix Top 10 Moments of 2014

    Ms. Justine
    3 Jan 2015 | 9:13 am
    It has been an amazing year! Never before have I traveled so much, done so many photoshoots, set new records, or been featured in so much mainstream media! There have been so many “top” moments, it was hard to narrow it down to 10, but here they are: 10. Best Female Dom – Bondage Awards 9. Raising money for Keep a Breast 8. The Naughty Show Slave Jack was a little show stealer, but I made him pay for it. 7. Naughty Circus Us circus animals need to stick together. 6. Brand Spanking New Website SO pleased with the long overdue update and I know you enjoy it too! 5. Queen…
  • Footnight Awards – Vote for Me!

    Ms. Justine
    16 Dec 2014 | 1:46 pm
    I have been going to the Los Angeles Foonight parties for many years, but never before have I been nominated for so many awards! Thank you so much to my loyal clients and fans in Los Angeles and beyond for nominating me. Now it’s time to vote for me in all these categories daily until January 8th: Los Angeles Footnight Awards 2015 Power Promoter Award Most Proficient, Loyal And Consistent Promotion of Footnight International Events. 2015 Most Fascinating & Captivating Model Award The Year’s Most Unique, Interesting And Fascinating Footnight™ Model 2015 Most Photogenic Feet The…
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  • Elust #66

    15 Jan 2015 | 7:25 am
    Photo courtesy of CurvaceousDee Welcome to Elust #66 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #67? Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top…
  • Elust #66 Open for Submissions

    1 Jan 2015 | 4:04 pm
    Elust #66 Open for Submissions Welcome to 2015 and a whole new year of ELust. 2014 was a great year for Elust and we have all of you to thank for that. We look forward to an even better 2015 and that starts right now! We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust…
  • Elust #65

    15 Dec 2014 | 4:54 pm
    Photo courtesy of SassyCat Welcome to Elust #65 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #66? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top Three…
  • Elust #65 Open for Submissions

    1 Dec 2014 | 5:06 am
    Elust #65 Open for Submissions It is almost Christmas and who cares what Santa thinks, we hope you have been very very naughty and what better way to show that than to submit proof to Elust. So don’t wait until you are snowed under, submit today! We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what…
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  • Review: Limon

    20 Jan 2015 | 8:31 pm
    I have now formed a conditioned response whenever I hover over a link and see the URL It’s a mixture of terror, disgust, and exasperation, which, upon clicking, either bubbles into rage or fizzles into mild interest, depending on the product advertised. The Minna Limon fell into the latter camp, but my initial thoughts were still mostly negative: Are we going to have to crowdfund all our vibrators now? Goddamn. “No cumbersome speed settings” — OH, OKAY. Is there some sort of rule that if you have a crowdfunding campaign for a vibrator, you must show it…
  • Movie Night: The Girl Next Door

    14 Jan 2015 | 12:15 pm
    If you ever need proof of what a little shit I was as a teenager, look no further than the 2-star review of The Girl Next Door that I wrote for my high school newspaper when it hit theaters in April 2004. “Just about everything is unrealistic,” I complained, “except maybe how horny everybody is.” I was 17, and like all 17-year-olds, I wanted to be above the inanity of this movie. But the inanity is what makes this movie great. The Girl Next Door 1 is about Matthew (Emile Hirsch), an awkward overachiever, his friends Eli (Chris Marquette) and Klitzy (Paul Dano),…
  • How I know squirting is real (and also not pee)

    10 Jan 2015 | 7:49 pm
    So I was interviewed for a piece about female ejaculation/squirting for Fusion recently. The article finally went live, and lo and behold, I’m not mentioned at all because some new bullshit study came out that had to trump everything. Also, they needed to make room for all those animated GIFs. I’m no scientist and I’m not in the business of picking apart studies, but I will say that its findings contradict several other studies which have previously shown that ejaculate contains zero or low levels of urea and creatinine. Its findings also go against several thousand…
  • Review: Ceres Lace

    7 Jan 2015 | 7:52 pm
    I believe the texture on this toy is supposed to be swanky, but my friend says it reminds him of a chain-link fence. So that’s a great association… if you’re into prison-inspired sex toys. My thought process basically went “I like texture and I like that color. Give it to me.” In hindsight, I should’ve maybe thought it through more. This is the Jopen Key Ceres Lace. The others in the Ceres line are the Ceres Original, Ceres G-Spot, and Ceres Rabbit. The entire Key line includes both battery-operated and rechargeable toys, and a few things that…
  • Epiphora’s best and worst sex toys of 2014

    30 Dec 2014 | 4:19 pm
    Oh hey, remember 2014? It was the year I was a guest on Sex Out Loud Radio, I taught a sex blogging class, I fell in love with someone new, and I bought a house. This year I coined a new catchphrase, “that’s not where my clit is,” which can be applied to any unsatisfactory experience. I shook my head in disgust at the LELO Pino, Teddy Love, and shitty G-spot articles. I hung out with my friends, bid farewell to the makers of fantastical dildos, and said hello to my new sponsors. I conducted several hugely successful giveaways, one of which netted some of the most…
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  • jurassic monday

    24 Jan 2015 | 8:51 pm
    #4: Jurassic – Replica SeriesPreviously – #3 Scream to Me This is a replica of an idea based on a study of perspective I saw in a children’s book when I was a kid, and it occurred to me that it would be awesome to make something similar. I have no idea about the original, its artist/title/whereabouts, and I don’t even really remember what it looked like. Of course, it goes without saying that dinosaurs are hella sexy.
  • small breasts, blowjobs, and meth: january- e[lust] 66

    22 Jan 2015 | 10:24 am
    Photo courtesy of CurvaceousDee Welcome to Elust #66 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #67? Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top…
  • socks and sex

    18 Jan 2015 | 10:02 am
    or The Scientific Reasoning Behind Keeping Your Socks on During SexShe kept her socks on while she had sex. She liked being naked, but she didn’t like being cold, and the socks made a world of difference.He kept his socks on during sex. In the heat she tore his shirt off, and in the passion he kicked his shoes across the room, and in the moment she peeled his pants down. But there was never a moment for the socks.She kept her socks on as she had sex. She didn’t like the way her toes looked.He kept his socks on while they had sex. He wasn’t sure what his feet smelled like,…
  • clown killers

    10 Jan 2015 | 9:24 pm
    or Abusing BackI believe most of my readers are intelligent, tasteful, wholesome, loving people who are already fully aware that when I refer to sex, I am talking about a normal, natural dance of life which should only be performed with enthusiastic mutual consent and raw honesty.I don’t believe we (writers or sex writers to be specific) should have to gear everything we say (or everything we say about sex) to the lowest element of rapists and abusers or the most fragile element of raped and abused. Yes, those things happen, and yes, they are sad. But I believe that humanity as a whole…
  • the difficult woman

    28 Dec 2014 | 10:02 am
    or A Scientific Discussion of PromiscuityWhat if women were objectively more sexually complex than men?Although the ‘men are more visual than women’ theory is currently under heated debate, one recent study showed that, while men and women found certain visual stimuli equally arousing, men experienced higher levels of activity in the amygdala – the section of the brain that controls motivation. In other words, when we see a naked woman, we men are more mentally, cavemanically compelled to do something about it.What is objectively provable is that women’s sexual organs…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • The Natural Sex Toy You Never Knew You Had

    20 Jan 2015 | 9:07 pm
    It seems like guys are willing to spend any amount of money on a sex toy just to please his woman. And many a toy is marketed more at guys than women or at least they seem that way to me. A lot of vibrator packaging has a scantily dressed woman in suggestive position on the box -- which yes, may appeal to some women in a 'I'd like to be her' sort of way. But is it for her? Or for some dude who is thinking about buying one for her?Granted, sex toys have come a long way in recent years with girl throwing sex toy parties -- which sounds soooo much more fun than tupperware parties! (Then…
  • How to Squirt, Part 2: Tell Her to Push

    6 Jan 2015 | 7:20 pm
    I was reading over my guide to how to make girls squirt and I noticed that one point, while present, is worthy of repeating: Tell her to push.This point is absolutely key as it is a conversation and both of you working together towards a common goal (even if she doesn't know what that goal is *evil grins*).  If you are going to try and make her squirt and she knows that is the goal -- but she has never squirted before, well, she could be nervous about it and all in her head. This is no good this kind of mindset does not lend itself particularly well towards orgasms of any kind. So when…
  • Sex Tip from Science: Sexy Socks

    5 Jan 2015 | 6:23 am
    Wearing socks significantly increases chance of orgasm (feeling warm and safe makes you relaxed and able to get aroused.) Yup, if you are wearing socks, you are way more likely to get off. So much for aesthetics.But then again, what is more important? And also, what looks sexier: a) a girl who is wearing a ridiculously skimpy dress who doesn't cum or b) a girl who is wearing brown socks and squirting all over the place? I am gonna put my money on option B.Ok, now how can we work with this? The answer is clearly thigh high socks that look super goddamn sexy.  Either the innocence of thigh…
  • Slutty New Years! But already happened??

    31 Dec 2014 | 12:31 pm
    New Years Eve is a great time of year. It has to be hands down the easiest evening to get kisses on.Of course there are certain events like Subspace in Toronto who had a fetish role play night on December 27th...which was really a brilliant idea. You see, New Years is always a crazy busy, expensive night for any party.  All venues charge 3x as much (at least) and it's always goddamn impossible to get a cab. Hotels in Toronto are all booked and will fuck you over too. If you have kids...try getting a new years eve babysitter!!Have you ever spent the new years eve mostly in a goddamn line…
  • The Icelandic Phallological Museum

    30 Dec 2014 | 10:55 pm
    Yes, those are testicle lampshades. Why do you ask?What is the Icelandic Phallological Museum? Why, it is only a museum devoted entirely to the male appendage.  But it is even more specific than that.  It is devoted to the dicks of Iceland.The owner, Sigurður Hjartarson originally started his penis collection as part of friends joking and giving him penis gifts because...well, that shit is funny.  You see, he originally owned a bull penis that was used as some sort of a whip (I do not include anything on bull penis whips on this site, to date. Floggers yes, bull…
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  • What attracts women and why do they want sex?

    10 Jan 2015 | 8:30 am
    When you approach a woman, you must have an open body language and not be afraid of touching her. Touches make her feel that you are a dominant strong person also when you touch other men e.g on the shoulder while talking to them. Dominance is sexually attractive to most women. The way you move is also important. You must walk and dance in a coordinated way and men who have larger and more sweeping movements are more erotic. Some women actually have sex with men solely because they are good dancers. When you have moved up to a woman in a coordinated way, you must engage in conversation. Here…
  • The Swinging story – US Pilots were the first to swing

    12 Dec 2014 | 11:11 am
    In the 1970s, people experimented with open marriages. The idea was that people should allow their partner to do whatever they wanted sexually, and that you did’nt own your partner. Polyamory were you can have several partners at the same time was also widely tested. These relationship types are still chosen by some people but a broader population never accepted them. Swinging on the other hand have been growing steadily during the years. Swinging focuses only on sex there is no emotional bond to the additional sex partners. Swinging couples joins the community together even though one…
  • Sexual fantasies of men and women

    21 Nov 2014 | 9:44 am
    Everybody have sexual fantasies. No reason to be ashamed of that. In this blog, I will give you the main results from a study published in 2014 about the subject. One of the overall findings is that both men and women have many sexual fantasies but men have significantly more than women do. Many of the fantasies are the same but they have different popularity among men and women. Unusual fantasies Two sexual fantasies are very unusual for both men and women. That is sex with a child under the age of 12 and having sex with an animal. Besides these very rare fantasies, the study found nine…
  • This is what is sexually arousing for women

    20 Nov 2014 | 10:07 am
    Women get sexually aroused when they are exposed to different cues. In general women don’t (as opposed to men) experience spontaneous feelings of sexual desire very frequently. There has to be some kind of triggers present before women get sexually aroused These triggers can both be internal and external. The different cues are divided in to four main categories: Emotional bonding cues: women respond to situations where they feel close to, and loved by a (potential) partner. Explicit erotic cues: being in a sexual situation, feeling a partner’s sexual excitement or watching/reading…
  • Can online actions be called cheating behavior?

    14 Nov 2014 | 9:42 am
    In the modern world the potential temptations when it comes to other partners than the one at home is increasing. The internet has for years offered chat rooms and dating sites of all kinds and now we are also increasingly tempted by app’s on the smart phones which makes potential new partners accessible 24/7. I have written a blog before about what people regard as infidelity. This focused on the difference between emotional and physical infidelity. In a recent study, online actions are included and the difference between genders are analyzed. Definition of infidelity In The Cambridge…
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    Naughty Reenie

  • OMG: The OZ Wand

    26 Jan 2015 | 9:11 pm
    OZ WAND IS COMING TO THE RESCUE DEAR AUSTRALIANS! FINALLY! You must have heard of the famous Hitachi, now named the Magic Wand right? The Cadillac of sex toys? I thought the Magic Wand was everywhere around the world. This dumb brain of mine totally ignored the fact…well, more like forgotten, that not everywhere has the same voltage standard. Heh. My brain. So I didn’t even know that Magic Wand wasn’t available in Australia. Until I got introduced to the Oz Wand. I don’t own it, nor do I think I should own it, because, well, it’s just not going to turn on with…
  • Review: Purple Blaise by A Touch of Glass

    5 Jan 2015 | 7:15 am
    Fifteen. That’s the number of times I screamed “BORING!” in my initial draft. It’s also the number of times I picked the Purple Blaise up just to shove it back into its storage bag within seconds. Don’t get me wrong though. I don’t hate the Purple Blaise. I mean…what is there to hate? It’s made of a beautiful glass with which I took the pleasure to play the Magical Dildozard with my partner, whom was extremely impressed by my magic until he realized that the lighting was behind all this sorcery. It also comes in a magnificent blue velvety storage bag that protects it from any…
  • OMG: The Ina & Mona Wave

    3 Dec 2014 | 11:13 am
    Hehehe. Look at this. LOOK AT THIS! JUST LOOK AT IT WILL YOU?! Just. Look. At. It. Flick. I’ve never been so excited about a new toy to actually write a post about it. But this? Ah! It’s impossible not to be excited! It’s THE Mona, but instead of just vibrating, it flips up and down doing that come-here come-here motion. How cool is this?! The Ina is also getting this new technology, but…MONA 1!!! I’ve been staying away from reviewing a Mona because I’m scared I’ll be disappointed with my body. EVERYONE loves it and… I’d be so sad if I didn’t. But I can’t hold it…
  • Seriously? Plus size?

    30 Nov 2014 | 6:43 pm
    I wear size extra small in clothing, and there are times when even extra small are too big for me. However, recently, as I went shopping with a friend, something disturbing happened. As I was looking around in the SPECIAL SALE section – you know, those sections that make you feel like a tornado just passed because clothes are EVERYWHERE on the floor – I noticed a super cute dinosaur sweater. It also seemed to be the last one left because I wasn’t able to find another one. As I tried it on, I immediately fell in love with it. It gave me that puffy look that I liked, and it fitted me…
  • Review: Eroscillator 2 Plus

    31 Oct 2014 | 9:13 am
    The Eroscillator is mind blowing. The Eroscillator is life changing. The Eroscillator is revolutionary. You need to listen to Piph’s advice and get this shit if you have a clitoris. Seriously. This is the best thing in existence, and your clitoris will forever thank you for this. I know it might be a bit hard to swallow when I’m telling you to splurge $140 on something so… I can’t even find words to describe it. But I’ve been there. I mean…I was willing to spend $170 on this shitty toy and get myself depressed when I knew about the Eroscillator. Yep…all because of how it looks.
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • No matter what, I choose to feel it

    Pavini Moray
    12 Jan 2015 | 12:33 pm
    I emailed this week with a young man living in Northern Europe.  He was curious about his sexuality, and because of a physical disability, did not have much experience.  Because of his location, he did not have much access to sexuality support.  He had found me on the internet and reached out so bravely, across […]
  • The Discomfort of Calling In

    Pavini Moray
    3 Dec 2014 | 12:26 pm
    Originally posted on rain crowe:Recently, a good friend and I shared a conversation in which they revealed a recent personal instance of public shaming. Unfortunately, the phenomena of being “called out” is all too familiar to me, and to so many of us, and as we worked through their feelings and thoughts about it,…
  • Are you all in your head when it comes to sex?

    Pavini Moray
    1 Dec 2014 | 2:03 am
    What are you thinking about during sex?  How often do you share what  you are actually thinking with your partners? How often does your mind wander? What does it wander to? Today I’m writing about one of the most common complaints I hear in my practice: “I feel stuck in my head when I’m having […]
  • Announcing “The Sexcessful Workshop Seminar: Professional Support for Sex Educators”

    Pavini Moray
    17 Nov 2014 | 10:30 am
      Starting January, 2015!  Effective Skills for Designing, Marketing and Presenting Sexuality Workshops that change the world. An eight-week online program designed to support you through the process of creating a sexuality workshop full of your uniquely brilliant content,  which is well-attended and financially sustainable! Discount for new sex educators.  Early Bird Pricing ends Dec. 15.  LEARN MOREFiled under: […]
  • Watch the Video: How I masturbated in public and became a teacher of Sexual Liberation

    Pavini Moray
    14 Oct 2014 | 10:03 am
    Here’s the video of my Mystery Box Story!  Enjoy!  Filed under: Blog Posts, Erotic Practice, Masturbation, Reclaiming Sexuality, Resistance, Sexual Liberation Tagged: masturbate, masturbation ritual, mystery box, sexual liberation
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  • Top Ten Sex Toys 2014 - Part 2

    Anida Leeds
    12 Jan 2015 | 9:30 am
    Without further adieu we bring you the Top 5. The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We started off with number 10 - 6 in Part 1 of our list, and continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014 bellow. #5 Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl - PinkGet pleasure hopping with the Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl from Pipedream! This is the deluxe version of our original, best-selling Rabbit Pearl and it's loaded with…
  • Top Ten Sex Toys of 2014 - Part 1

    Anida Leeds
    6 Jan 2015 | 9:39 am
    We all seem to love Top 10 Lists. Well this is the list that will top them all, The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We start off with number 10 - 6, and will continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014. #10 Vibe Me Petite Massager Waterproof - Pastel BlueThe Synergy Erotic Vibe Me Petite is a perfect size for someone looking for discreet fun or possibly their first toy, but don't let the small size fool you, the…
  • Tis' The Season to Save

    Anida Leeds
    11 Dec 2014 | 9:00 am
    Take 15% OFF all Earthly Body products!Use Promo Code EARTHLY15, ends 12/31 Company Profile: Earthly Body is a respected, family-owned company that has been creating high-quality, natural skin and hair care products since 1994. Earthly Body is one of the pre-eminent manufacturers of hemp-based natural body and skin care products. Natural & Cruelty-Free Earthly Body uses natural ingredients - no mineral oil, dyes, sulfates, propylene glycol, phthalates or parabens. Earthly Body's products are 100% Vegan, drug-free and cruelty-free. We are on PETA's coveted and highly regarded "No Test…
  • Lands 2015 XBIZ Awards Nomination

    Anida Leeds
    14 Nov 2014 | 1:52 pm
    LOS ANGELES — has been named for the second consecutive year, an official finalist nominee for the adult industry’s awards event of the year, the 2015 XBIZ Awards, presented by Fleshlight. has received a nomination in the award category Online Retailer of the Year - Pleasure Products. Nominees for the 2015 XBIZ Awards were selected based on a record 8,000 pre-nominations submitted to XBIZ by members of the industry throughout the world via My Pleasure Box is proud to have been selected for this prestigious award for the second consecutive…
  • The Best Sex Toys for Couples

    Anida Leeds
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:30 am
    Cutting edge vibrators are all the craze these days. Why keep all the fun to yourself? Here's how to play together with the best sex toys for couples. "Not only do women who use toys report a host of pleasure perks, but guys say vibes increase sexual desire, erectile and orgasmic function, and intercourse satisfaction," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a Women's Health Magazine sexuality advisor. This increase pleasure has made his-and-her vibrators the hottest trend in sexy accessories. Ready to move beyond the rabbit vibrator? These new options are fun to enjoy solo but were created…
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    The Love Hawk

  • 7 Internal Struggles of the Modern-Day Single Girl

    11 Jan 2015 | 3:42 pm
    This day and age, being single comes with a mass amount of internal contradictions and for the ladies in this predicament it can become a tad overwhelming. Not only do we have to worry about daily life struggles like dying to eat a whole pizza to ourselves on Friday night but also wanting to look good in a bikini for our vacation next month but now we have to worry about the dating game as well. The following is a list of struggles and thoughts that cross some (most) single girls’ minds these days: 1. I Want to Be Single but I Hate Being Alone Being an independent woman is a super sexy…
  • It’s Okay to be Single During the Holidays…or Anytime

    19 Dec 2014 | 11:28 am
    With the holiday festivities in full swing, it’s completely normal to be feeling a little lonely if you’re single these days. Don’t let being alone deter you from having a great Christmas though and always remember that being single isn’t a bad thing. Use this time to find yourself and figure out who you are and don’t give into the holiday pressure just because you don’t want to show up to Christmas dinner as the only one without a date, AGAIN! Instead, use that money you would have spent on a significant other’s presents to buy yourself something…
  • Why I Never Want to Fall in Love Again

    3 Dec 2014 | 10:47 pm
    Call me jaded. Call me scorned. Call me hurt. At the end of the day though, I really have no desire to ever fall in love again. I have no need to find a better half or search for potential suitors who will only break my heart one day. In the past, after tough break ups, I thought the answer to moving on was finding the next perfect guy to replace the one who it didn’t work out with. I would take the lessons I learned that time around and try to apply them to the next relationship so as to prevent potential future heartbreak. I would try to be smarter, try to be wiser, and try to be better.
  • “Boys Only Want Love If It’s Torture”

    1 Dec 2014 | 8:11 pm
    Taylor Swift has had many lyrics that resonate with the masses but her new song “Blank Space” really got me thinking about those crazy girls that all the nice guys seem to date. You know the kind of relationship: the guy is a total sweetheart, kind, caring, just an all-around good person while his girlfriend is the complete opposite. She’s abrasive, domineering, rude, and mean. Simply put; she’s a crazy bitch. So, maybe boys do only want love if it’s torture? It’s mind boggling really. Relationships are supposed to be based on trust, understanding, and mutual respect so why are so…
  • Long Distance Dating Ain’t So Bad

    30 Nov 2014 | 12:42 pm
    These days it’s a lot easier to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn’t live close by. There are so many opportunities to help you stay in touch and to remain connected even when you’re far apart. Just remember that when you’re together it’s important to not let those special moments slip by. Listen to The Love Hawk’s segment on 1045 Fresh FM now to find out more about why being in a long distance relationship really isn’t so bad:
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    The Daily Flogger

  • BDSM Man Mistakes “Race Play” Party for NASCAR Event

    Lazlo Toth
    26 Jan 2015 | 7:05 am
    TUSCALOOSA, VERMONT Mel Grimp, 52, got the shock of his life when he walked into The Inferno, his local BDSM dungeon expecting to meet fellow NASCAR fans. Grimp, dressed in jeans and his signed Dale Earnhardt Jr t-shirt, brought pork rinds and a 12 pack of Bud Light, only to find himself surrounded by inter-racial couples engaged in bondage, whipping, and humiliation play. “I thought race play, was like a NASCAR party.  It was held on the same day as the Daytona 500, so it seemed like a good fit to me.” Jessica Jones, 24, a submissive and race play fetishist, immediately took a…
  • Shake Up at TNG Munch; Order Sparks Questions

    Lazlo Toth
    25 Jan 2015 | 7:09 am
    KICKACHAW, UTAH For the first time in two years, Orin Martin, 29, changed his order that the TNG monthly munch opting for cheese enchiladas and rice, over his typical chile verde. “I think we were all shocked,” said friend and fellow munch-goer Tiffany Kipson, 22.  “Orin has been solid for almost seven years.  At this point, he could just say ‘bring me my usual’ and they would know.  Now the wait staff is going to be confused.  Frankly, I think a lot of us are.  Enchiladas are old people food.  Ewwww.” “I question the enchiladas as a…
  • Movie Review: The Avengers

    Emily Devonshire
    24 Jan 2015 | 7:16 am
    Hi Emily here with a review of last summer’s blockbuster, The Avengers.  It should be no surprise to anyone that my favorite character in the film is Loki.  Why?  Because he is all about betrayal.  Betrayal and causing pain and suffering to others.  Just the kind of stuff that turns me on.  Plus he is a god, which is cool. All the other so-called superheroes assemble to try to stop him and I guess I knew from the beginning they would win because the whole franchise is kind of riding on it, but I was still rooting for Loki. It was bittersweet in the end, because as much as I love…
  • Woman Mixes BDSM and Drugs, Still Has “Excellent Scene”

    Annie Cumswallow
    23 Jan 2015 | 7:19 am
    SKAGWAY, ALASKA A local submissive woman, Katey Orin, 27, is under scrutiny by local BDSM safety authorities after having a scene with Master Jerome Stin, 48. The couple, who have been off and on play partners for 8 years decided to engage in a flogging scene when Orin was “really fucking high.” According to Stin, the two decided to test the long held conventional wisdom that you should never mix BDSM, alcohol, and drugs. “We scored this really choice medical marijuana and to be completely honest, Katey is kind of a pothead, so we figured wed give it a try.” For Orin,…
  • BDSM Man Tortures English Language

    Annie Cumswallow
    22 Jan 2015 | 7:19 am
    LOS ANGELES, FLORIDA In what continue to be a series of nearly indecipherable posts, a local man, Marvin Sattleman, 47, has taken to the Internet in an effort to express his outrage about nearly everything. According to June Morrow, 27, “he is so pompous but at the same time he is completely unable to spell or construct complete sentences. I feel embarrassed for him every time I read his posts.” In a recent debacle, where Sattleman was accused of “not being truly dominant” he replied as follows: “In domnation, the thing is you can’t say really, becuse…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Why Endocrine Disruptors in the Environment Are Bad

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    26 Jan 2015 | 10:15 am
    There is an overall “estrogenization” of our world…meaning most endocrine disruptors accumulated in our bodies act like the hormone estrogen, changing the way our bodies function. This impacts everything from fish to clouded leopards to river otters to humans. Our fertility, our sex drive and our bodies become altered—we lose our sexuality. The post Why Endocrine Disruptors in the Environment Are Bad appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • We All Desire Sexual Desire

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    22 Jan 2015 | 11:28 am
    In a global study of 12,000 women and men, the most highly valued part of sex was feeling sexual desire for one’s partner. Read that again! Not being desired, but rather feeling desire for the one we are with. The post We All Desire Sexual Desire appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • The Nitty Gritty on Orgasms

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    14 Jan 2015 | 6:06 am
    In orgasms, we feel pleasure sensations in body and brain like few other human actions can give us. Evolutionary biology suggests that somewhere in the last 300,000 years, natural selection experimented with developing the clitoris underneath our female skin as primates moved from mammalian sex during “heat” to being sexually receptive all month long. The post The Nitty Gritty on Orgasms appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Something Fishy … Understanding Bacterial Vaginosis

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    12 Jan 2015 | 7:53 am
    The most obvious symptom of Bacterial Vaginosis is a strong fishy smell that occurs after sex, during a woman’s period, or mid-cycle when she is ovulating. BV is a gynecological condition when women develop the wrong kind of bacteria in their vagina. The post Something Fishy … Understanding Bacterial Vaginosis appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Gourmet Sex Playbook – Spice It Up!

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    7 Jan 2015 | 5:38 am
    Wherever you are in your relationship, these sex tips can bring you closer, because your hormones and blood chemistry are utterly linked with sexuality. Closer-via-sex is a primary way to ensure closeness in other aspects of intimacy and marriage. The post Gourmet Sex Playbook – Spice It Up! appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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    Pantophile Panic!

  • Moka G-Vibe

    Pantophile Panic
    11 Jan 2015 | 10:10 am
    Amazing G-spot vibrator or pubic bone thumping menace? Behold, the Picobong Moka. The shape is what originally drew me towards it. It very closely resembles the LELO Ella dildo, which I also recently reviewed, so I expected that I would love it equally if not more. It is made of hard ABS plastic with a smooth silicone finish, so it is slightly less flexible than the pure silicone Ella. It is also slightly longer, with a bigger curve, and the g-spotting head has more surface area. My feelings about the Moka as a g-spotting toy are pretty mixed. Sometimes I use this vibe and find that it works…
  • Ella

    Pantophile Panic
    18 Aug 2014 | 6:13 pm
    The LELO Ella is well known in the sex blogging community. Most people have lauded it as the ultimate g-spotting tool, or the first sex toy to ever teach them how to squirt. It has helped countless people find their G-spots and learn more about their bodies in general. It is loved by many, and disliked by few. With that being said I definitely agree with the general consensus that this is one of the best G-spot massagers out there. The Ella is a luxury toy if I ever did see one. When examining it more closely the word “exquisite” comes to mind. The signature LELO box it arrives in…
  • Under the Bed Restraint System

    Pantophile Panic
    19 Jul 2014 | 1:03 am
    Confession time: even though I take my bondage very seriously I do not currently have the money to purchase an expensive set-up for restraining my partner or myself during sex. Good Vibrations saved the day for me when they sent us the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System for review. This was designed for those of us who would like to experience spread eagle style bondage without the hassle, commitment, or expense of building a fully operational sex dungeon. The UBRS is pretty simple in design. It is just a tangled up, H-shaped, polypropylene (or “backpack strap material”…
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    Nighttime Adventures

  • Going Public (I)

    12 Jan 2015 | 3:52 am
    Since I was in no mood to face the Saturday crowd in a bar, I decided that Dan would be the safest bet. Sure, we had left things off pretty awkwardly the last time we saw each other, but, in the meantime, he texted me to brag about his new car, so I had the perfect reason to call. I went home and took a long shower – I wanted to get Greg’s smell off me, I couldn’t focus on anything else as long as I was feeling it. Afterwards, I texted Dan asking if he wanted to take me for a ride in his new car. He said he was getting ready for a lazy Saturday afternoon/evening, but he would make an…
  • The Sexless Date

    5 Jan 2015 | 12:06 pm
    I don’t think I ever spent this much time preparing for a date like I did when having to meet Greg. I changed my outfit several times (including my underwear) and re-did the make-up twice. By the end of it I had figured out the perfect outfit for a date in his home: skinny jeans, a top that complimented my breasts nicely without need a deep cleavage and stilettos. Greg said there would be no sex, we would only eat and talk, but, of course, I had a hard time believing this…until I got to his place. He was almost done with dinner and had already opened a bottle of Cabernet to air it up. He…
  • Repenting for Sex Through…More Sex (IV)

    29 Dec 2014 | 6:25 am
    [Part 1 here, part 2 here, part 3 here] I love meeting Mark. Everything is uncomplicated and…awesome. Take last time: we had the most amazing time and, afterwards, he helped me clean up, asked if I had a good time and offered me a glass of whiskey. He was polite and considerate without loving me or even caring for me. So I took the glass of whiskey and sat down with him for a while just so I could pick his brain. Of course, my first question was about the “free” life versus a committed relationship. His answer: “Tried it. Several times, actually. None of them worked out, so I stop…
  • Repenting for Sex Through…More Sex (III)

    24 Dec 2014 | 3:12 am
    [Part 1 here and part 2 here] I don’t know how long it took him to come back. All I know is that I could hear him move around the room as if he were frantically searching for something. “Did you miss me?” he asked eventually. I nodded my head. The next thing I heard was the unmistakable sound of duct tape. I felt him move between my spread legs, but I couldn’t tell what he was doing. I learned soon enough though. He had placed a wand vibrator on the floor. He must have used a lot of duct tape to make it perfectly still. He turned it on and said: “You’ve been a good whore, you…
  • Repenting for Sex Through…More Sex (II)

    1 Dec 2014 | 8:14 am
    [Part 1 here] Of course, he wasn’t “right there”, as promised. Instead, he took his sweet time, letting me wait in the not-so-warm room, sitting on the bed buck-naked. After about 15 minutes he entered the room and he jumped directly at me, without any warning. He took me by the hair roughly enough to make me scream, lifted me from the bed and pushed me on my knees, then started shouting at me: “The bed, you whore? You thought you deserved to sit on my bed? You don’t! You got it? Nod if you did.” He was still holding me pretty tight, so nodding was more…
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  • Beg, Brat

    The Sin Doll
    26 Jan 2015 | 10:55 am
    She told him to stay away. Mark showed up on her doorstep the next day. They both sat on the couch. Anna had a huge plastic cup of water. Her breathing was labored but seemed to be settling. She was completely naked and sore. Strands of her dark hair stuck to her face and breasts. [...] The post Beg, Brat appeared first on The Sin Doll. Fuck You Panty Sniffer Pubes and Peridot
  • Bow Your Head

    The Sin Doll
    24 Jan 2015 | 6:21 pm
      I will go to my knees for you. And everywhere else that life takes us.    Click the kiss below to see others who are participating in this week’s Sinful Sunday. The post Bow Your Head appeared first on The Sin Doll. Frenzy Panty Dropper Just Suck It
  • Shut-Up

    The Sin Doll
    21 Jan 2015 | 12:21 pm
    Daniel slid his sunglasses off and hooked them in the “V” made perfectly by the buttons on his shirt. The sunlight was nothing but a dim shadow in the bar he regularly met his girlfriend after work. Daniel dressed well. His dark hair was messy only when it suited him. Fit and trim, standing a [...] The post Shut-Up appeared first on The Sin Doll.
  • Posies

    The Sin Doll
    18 Jan 2015 | 1:52 pm
    Ring around a Rosey Pocketful o’ posies Ashes, Ashes We all fall down. ~ The Black Plague  See who else is playing this Sinful Sunday. The post Posies appeared first on The Sin Doll. Hi, I’m a Virgin Frenzy Just Suck It
  • e[lust] #66

    The Sin Doll
    15 Jan 2015 | 3:43 pm
    Photo courtesy of CurvaceousDee Welcome to Elust #66 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #67? Start with the rules, [...] The post e[lust] #66 appeared first on The Sin Doll. e[lust] #64 e[lust] #65 e[lust] #63
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  • Presenting Michelle aka @msfourthofjuly shoots courtesy of @facetstudio

    Words by Henny
    26 Jan 2015 | 2:12 pm
    Here’s a dope release from facet studios featuring a model I need to get alittle more familiar with; checkout Michelle aka Ms 4th of July Follow her on instagram @msfourthofjuly for more info
  • Tierra @realtierra “Black one-piece” images by @TakenbyTajnyc Taj Mayne Photo

    Words by Henny
    25 Jan 2015 | 7:34 pm
    Here’s some final of model/bartender Tierra Campbell in a mean black one-piece from her shoot with Taj Mayne Photography. Look for more of Tierra featured in the premiere issue of BSAVY Magazine Follow Tierra via twitter @realtierra and you can find her on instagram @realtierra Model: @realtierra Photo Cred: @TakenbyTajnyc
  • Kendra Lachon @kendralachon Royalty – Prive Studios and Model Modele

    Words by Henny
    23 Jan 2015 | 9:11 pm
    Checkout this dope series courtesy of in collaboration with and Prive Studios featuring some of the baddest models in Houston,TX including model Kendra Lachon in the “Royalty Series” DynastySeries, Prive Studios and Model Modele bring to you the debut of the new series “Royalty,” featuring some of the most beautiful women the city of Houston has to offer, including DynastySeries own Kendra Lachon. Follow Kendra via twitter @kendralachon and you can find him on instagram @kendralachon – See more at:…
  • Presenting Chasity @chas_cash “Slim-Sexy in Teal” courtesy of @inergeestudios

    Words by Henny
    23 Jan 2015 | 7:05 pm
    Here’s a lovely submission from James Williams Jr for inergee studios, check out aspiring model Chasity residing out of Greensboro, NC in teal lingerie. Follow her on twitter @chas_cash and you can find her on instagram @chas_cash
  • Vanity Reign @Van_e_tGirl “Black Lingerie” images by @JayFKImagesINC

    Words by Henny
    23 Jan 2015 | 5:57 pm
    Some more samples of Vanity Reign shooting with JayFK images in Black Lingerie Follow model Vanity Reign via twitter @Van_e_tGirl and you can also check her out on instagram @iamvanityreign
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  • Marriage and Happiness

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    26 Jan 2015 | 10:39 am
    I recently read an interesting article in the New York Times by Claire Cain Miller called, “Study Finds More Reasons to Get and Stay Married” published on January 8, 2015.  The study found that marriage can provide more happiness for couples particularly during mid life because it is a very stressful times due to the demands of family and work.  This was not a particularly shocking finding to me because I am a couples therapist and I daily see the benefits of couples that learn to lean on each other through adversity.  The part of the article that I loved most was the focus  on…
  • Women Don’t Have a Monopoly on Sexual Insecurities

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    22 Jan 2015 | 11:00 am
    Often times relationships will have conflicts around sex that stem from misconceptions around men and sex. Here are some truths about men and sex that can be surprising for some women to hear: Men want to be held too: Many times when there is sexual dysfunction the general affection in the relationship is affected.  But just because a couple isn’t having sex doesn’t mean that the man doesn’t want to be hugged or touched, and it can be painful for men when their partners won’t touch them. Sometimes the partner is surprised to hear this, having assumed that he only really cared about…
  • The Crazy Things That Happen to Our Patients

    Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW MPH PhD
    20 Jan 2015 | 12:35 pm
    We have this great patient who should really be doing stand-up comedy. Whenever she is in our office she has some new and funny story to share. She was having significant vaginal pain when she came to see us and had been misdiagnosed by her ob/gyn so nothing was helping. Our NP picked up that her problem was actually lichen sclerosus which, to be fair to her gynecologist, is quite difficult to diagnose unless you’ve seen a bunch of cases. It’s a condition which causes white scaly patches and makes the skin in the vagina or around the vulva thin and papery and usually causes pain.  We put…
  • 36 Questions That Lead to Love

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    16 Jan 2015 | 9:44 am
    I found this article in The New York Times very interesting.  A reporter wrote about a study from 1997 by psychologist Arthur Aron.  Aron had succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory.  He had succeeded by having the two strangers ask each other a series of questions, 36 questions to be exact.  After they exchanged answers to all of the questions, he had them stare silently into each other’s eyes for 4 minutes.  The idea is that this exercise fosters closeness and mutual vulnerability.  To quote the study’s authors, “One key pattern associated with the…
  • Sex Addiction

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    12 Jan 2015 | 11:11 am
    We typically do not treat sexual addiction. However it is an issue that I have seen often in my work as a couples therapist. When an individual or spouse is struggling with sexual addiction and trying to understand what is happening I often suggest the book Out of the Shadows by Patrick Carnes. It can be incredibly helpful in understanding the roots of addiction and the many the many ways it can manifest in individuals and relationships. Treating any kind of sexual issue is often complicated to deal with because of the shame involved. Sexual addiction has specific challenges because not only…
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