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  • The Two Biggest Barriers to a Satisfying Sex Life

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    27 Aug 2014 | 11:00 pm
    Sometimes you have to confront yourself to love yourself. Betty Dodson's Bodysex workshop helps women improve their sex lives by overcoming two main barriers...
  • Sex News: Naked tasering, THC lube, Sexbot the book, metrosexuality redux

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    28 Aug 2014 | 1:25 pm
    CIA sexbots, you say? Patrick Quinlan (PQ), who recently released his new ebook Sexbot ($2.99), spoke to Future of Sex about his work and how close his tale is to becoming real. ‘Sexbot’ Author Patrick Quinlan on CIA Sexbots, Mind Downloads and Immortality (Future of Sex) Massive trigger warning for sexual abuse and trauma survivors. Federal Cybersecurity Director Timothy DeFoggi is now the sixth suspect convicted on three child porn charges in Operation Torpedo, an FBI operation that targeted three Tor-based child porn sites and that used controversial methods to unmask anonymized users.
  • What to Expect After Suffering a Stroke (From Someone Who's Been There)

    Yahoo Health
    26 Aug 2014 | 5:00 pm
    By Amir Khan Two years ago, Sebastian Baker came home from his job as a Merrill Lynch business adviser feeling sick. I dragged myself from the bathroom through the kitchen and out of my condo, and that’s where my cousin found me." The then 47-year-old​​ Jacksonville, Florida resident ​was rushed to the hospital, where he was diagnosed as having had a stroke.
  • The Secret to Holding a Plank Longer

    Yahoo Health
    27 Aug 2014 | 5:00 am
    Photo by Shutterstock By Melissa Dahl / Follow @melissadahl I used to occasionally work out with my friend Hardeep, who, when I would slow down or make noises about giving up, had a motivational tactic that never failed. Related: How I Turned My Sex Life Into an Exercise Routine The paper is published in the journal Psychology of Sport and Exercise, and psychologist Christian Jarrett summarizes the findings today at the British Psychological Society’s Research Digest.
  • 7 Heart-Healthy Perks of Dark Chocolate

    Yahoo Health
    27 Aug 2014 | 5:00 am
    Evidence is building that products of the cacao plant, especially dark chocolate, are good for your heart. Medical studies show that people who eat dark chocolate have healthier cardiovascular systems, boasting better blood circulation and lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels. Cardiologist and Everyday Health columnist T. Jared Bunch, MD, recommends chocolate as part of your strategy to keep the world’s No. 1 killer disease at bay. “Dark chocolate should be included in a life plan that includes exercise, eating healthy foods that are largely plant-based, getting adequate sleep,…
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  • thebriskconvergence: Amazing. Lifted...

    28 Aug 2014 | 4:32 am
    thebriskconvergence: Amazing. Lifted from: hbcreative: #FERGUSON      I won’t soon forget the events that took place in #ferguson…will you?

    26 Aug 2014 | 8:06 am maarnayeri: Let us be vividly clear about this. What the New York Times did to Michael Brown today was not merely slander. It wasn’t a case of a lack of journalistic integrity. Highlighting that a black teenager was “no angel” on the day he is being laid to rest after being hunted and killed by racist vigilante forces is not an unfortunate coincidence. The New York Times deliberately played into an archaic American tradition in devaluing both the value of black life and the tragedy of black…
  • Looking for an Indie Bookstore? Look No Further! : Publishing Perspectives

    22 Aug 2014 | 5:15 am
    Looking for an Indie Bookstore? Look No Further! : Publishing Perspectives: ebookporn: Writer Kate Brittain has created a one-stop database of America’s independent bookstores, Better Place to Buy Books. She estimates that there are over 2,300 indie bookstores in the USA.
  • kim-jong-chill: what a difference 50 years can make or not

    21 Aug 2014 | 7:39 am
    kim-jong-chill: what a difference 50 years can make or not
  • Woke myself from a dream to savor this moment

    8 Aug 2014 | 2:57 am
    I was running for public office and my mom came to see me debate. The woman introducing me said that I fight for the rights of workers, then someone whispered in her ear that I fight for sex workers. She turned beet red and then said to me, “I have trouble taking your concerns seriously.” My dream mom stood up and said fuck you to her. Thanks, dream mom! My mom would stand up for me like that in real life. But it felt pretty awesome in the dream.
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  • Spotting?

    29 Aug 2014 | 5:59 am
    I have been spotting for the past few days (oddly enough, I wasn't yesterday but I am again today). I have never had spotting before. I have no signs of a period coming on soon. I just am really at a loss for what could cause this. :/ No changes in diet, stress, weight, or anything like that. No penetrative sex recently. Any help is greatly appreciated.
  • Dryness

    28 Aug 2014 | 11:35 am
    Hey all,I have a concern. For the past few months I feel as if my vagina doesn't get nearly as wet or if at all anymore. I'm 22 years old and never had sex. I used to masturbate a lot and at that time I had no problems at all getting wet. Now when I do it, it's not the same. I guess I can side note and say that I don't really like masturbating anymore, I'm kinda over it. But I do get horny all the time so do you think it's an emotional thing? I've also been stressed for a long time so maybe that could play a factor. But I can't remember the last time I was extremely wet. Maybe around last…
  • Itching Nipple and Paget's?

    28 Aug 2014 | 3:42 am
    Hello to all users!A couple of months ago I began to be bothered by a somewhat irritating problem: an itchy left nipple. Earlier it seemed to be both of my little friends, now it seems to be localized to my left breast, the larger of the two! Sometimes it drives me up the wall, ESPECIALLY IN PUBLIC. TRY NIPPLE ITCHING IN PUBLIC. ITS IMPOSSIBLE.I am 22 years old, and I want to think I'm too young for it to be breast cancer or Paget's, but I also realize the danger of not taking these things seriously.Here are some of the symptoms I have: Reoccuring but not constant nipple itchOccasional…
  • lichen planus

    26 Aug 2014 | 5:48 pm
    i made a post on here months ago about a suspected case of vulvar vestibulitis. well after all this time i was finally able to see the specialist at the vulvar clinic in my city, and she diagnosed me with a very subtle case of vulvar lichen planus, meaning i don't have many open sores on my vulva but the cells are sloughing off at an abnormal rate and causing a burning, stinging sensation. the doctor was very informative and answered all of my questions at the time, and i'll be starting clobetasol ointment tonight, but after doing some research i'm rather worried. am i doomed to deal with…
  • Anonymous Post: Endometriosis, lost birth control, anything I can do?

    24 Aug 2014 | 6:00 pm
    Greetings, fellow Superstars! As you probably know, from time to time the VP Team makes posts on behalf of people who wish to remain anonymous or who do not have LJ accounts. This is one such post. Thanks in advance for your helpful comments. :)P.S. For more info on anonymous posts, see our instructions on how to make them!--Popplesfor the VP Teamcontact_vpHey all! I am on continuous birth control due to endometriosis as well as the hormone fluctuation flares another one of my chronic diseases. However, the mail order company lost my BC in the mail and can’t offer me any assistance until…
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    Yahoo Health

  • Conquer Motion Sickness This Summer

    28 Aug 2014 | 11:30 am
    Summer is the time to indulge your sense of adventure – unless the very thought of sunset cruises and roller coasters make you heave. 70 percent of people are susceptible to motion sickness, according to one study conducted by NASA. “Motion sickness is a slippery eel because it’s so profoundly subjective,” Thomas Stoffregen, a kinesiology professor at the University of Minnesota, tells Yahoo Health. The set of circumstances that trigger symptoms varies greatly, as do the symptoms themselves, which typically include nausea, pale skin, cold sweats, fatigue, headaches, saliva production,…
  • 3 Steps to a Fitter, Slimmer, Younger You

    28 Aug 2014 | 7:29 am
    By Amy Gallo Photo by David Gubert Most of us assume aging is as inevitable as a Bachelor breakup. But get this: “What we think of as growing old is just decay at a cellular level. It’s the molecular dry rot of our modern lifestyles. And it’s optional!”
  • 7 Heart-Healthy Perks of Dark Chocolate

    27 Aug 2014 | 5:00 am
    Evidence is building that products of the cacao plant, especially dark chocolate, are good for your heart. Medical studies show that people who eat dark chocolate have healthier cardiovascular systems, boasting better blood circulation and lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels. Cardiologist and Everyday Health columnist T. Jared Bunch, MD, recommends chocolate as part of your strategy to keep the world’s No. 1 killer disease at bay. “Dark chocolate should be included in a life plan that includes exercise, eating healthy foods that are largely plant-based, getting adequate sleep,…
  • The Secret to Holding a Plank Longer

    27 Aug 2014 | 5:00 am
    Photo by Shutterstock By Melissa Dahl / Follow @melissadahl I used to occasionally work out with my friend Hardeep, who, when I would slow down or make noises about giving up, had a motivational tactic that never failed. Related: How I Turned My Sex Life Into an Exercise Routine The paper is published in the journal Psychology of Sport and Exercise, and psychologist Christian Jarrett summarizes the findings today at the British Psychological Society’s Research Digest.
  • What to Expect After Suffering a Stroke (From Someone Who's Been There)

    26 Aug 2014 | 5:00 pm
    By Amir Khan Two years ago, Sebastian Baker came home from his job as a Merrill Lynch business adviser feeling sick. I dragged myself from the bathroom through the kitchen and out of my condo, and that’s where my cousin found me." The then 47-year-old​​ Jacksonville, Florida resident ​was rushed to the hospital, where he was diagnosed as having had a stroke.
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    Blogul Lu' Mihai

  • Cum sa cumperi un incarcator de laptop Dell?

    25 Aug 2014 | 7:15 am
    În cazul în care aveți deja o mână înainte laptop dell, a cumpara o baterie de laptop Dell devine foarte ușor ca sunteti deja constienti de modelul, tipul de baterie și cu toate alte detalii necesare. Pe langa toate, unul dintre factorii majori care trebuie să păstreze un ochi pe este de siguranță și de precauție pe care ar trebui să respecte în același timp, pentru cumpărare Laptop baterie. Deși Dell are produsele sale distribuite la toate magazinele electronice și companii de renume cu toate acestea, dacă vă verificați mai întâi pe site-ul Dell și întreba despre…
  • Panouri solare

    31 Jul 2014 | 6:55 am
    Un panou solar este de fapt un dispozitiv care permite colectarea și transformarea energiei solare în energie electrică sau chiar caldura. Conceptul de panouri solare Panourile solare sunt cunoscute ca panouri radiante fotovoltaice si atomii care sunt prezenti în aceste panouri sunt atrasi prin acțiunea energiei solare. Acești atomi sunt prezenți într-un strat de siliciu, care se află între două panouri cunoscute ca panouri protector. O formațiune de curent electric are loc ca urmare a acțiunii de electroni din atomii menționate anterior,  iar acestea sunt apoi utilizate de…
  • Aplicații pentru iPhone

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:06 am
    Telefonul inteligent și iPhone-ul par a fi în competiție foarte strâns unele cu altele. Telefonul inteligent se pare ca este cel mai apropiat comparația cu iPhone-ul cu aspectul său, design si caracteristici. Există totuși unele caracteristici care trage cele două în afară. Cea mai tare iPhone gadget mână este, fără îndoială, cel mai bun telefon pentru toți oamenii de internet savvy din lume. Aici sunt unele dintre sfaturile de care se va adăuga doar până la distracție de a folosi acest obiect gadget extins mână. Gândiți-vă la a fi, fără a iPhone-ul de ceva timp…
  • Cum coenzima Q10 poate beneficia sanatatii tale

    24 Jul 2014 | 6:33 am
    Știați că există un supliment care poate întări inima, muschi si organe? Coenzima Q10 a început să primească o mulțime de atenție, datorită beneficiilor sale de sănătate potențiale. Cu toate acestea, mulți oameni care ar trebui să fie luat aceasta nu sunt, deoarece acestea nu au nici o idee despre efectele sale. Ce este Coenzima Q10? Înțelegerea CoQ10 va face îți dai seama cât de important această substanță este de a ajuta mentine corpul activ și sănătos. Celulele au o structură numite mitocondrii, care are grasimi si zaharuri și le transformă în energie. Este…
  • Fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz

    23 Jul 2014 | 7:21 am
    Mercedes-Benz este de fapt un producător german de automobile high-end, autobuze, camioane și autocare. Inca de la Organizatia a fost fondata in 1886, a fost o divizie a societății-mamă, Daimler AG. Mercedes-Benz este bine cunoscut din cauza calității lor și robustețe de automobile lor. Cantitatea de caracteristici tehnologice și de securitate care Mercedes a adus la industria este incomensurabil și a devenit o caracteristică necesară în aproape toate celelalte vehicule. Enumerate aici sunt unele fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz. Automobile Mercedes-Benz au fost observate…
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  • What If You’re the One Who Cheated?

    27 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Earlier this week, Craig wrote about the hard question: “Should I stay or should I go?”  But what if you aren’t the one asking that question? What if you’re the spouse who cheated and brought the question into your marriage?  That, unfortunately, is my story. I hid my porn addiction from my wife for the majority of our marriage. When I finally did confess it to her, it was like a bomb went off in her heart. She felt hurt, betrayed, blindsided, and angry.  We began going to counseling and attempting to find ways to repair the damage I had caused. I played…
  • Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    24 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Most of you who know me know I am a sucker for bad TV, TMZ, and yes, ESPN. I even got sucked into the show True Tori earlier this year and wrote a blog about it here. This question in the title of this blog is a tough one. I think every marriage is different, and the ways each one of us are able to handle these types of large questions – especially when our marriages have deteriorated to the point where we’re asking them in the first place – depends on our relationship, our makeup, and just who we are in general. I have seen couples who got through affairs and I have seen…
  • Madyson Marquette - Memoir of a Porn Star

    22 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    One thing that we at have been so blessed to be a part of is helping women (and some men) in the adult industry start fresh. The thing for these people though is this: It’s hard. Really hard.  Have you ever had to start fresh? I mean start completely over?  Madyson Marquette has.  She was in the adult film industry for close to seven years.  During those years she hurt and was hurt by a lot of people.  Thankfully Jesus accepts us all JUST AS WE ARE (Tweet This!).   Whether we are liars, straight A students, thieves, or working in the sex…
  • My Teenager Is Making Porn… Uh, Now What?

    21 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Picture this scene: I’ve just given a talk about kids and porn and now a small line of parents forms at the front of the small auditorium. Some people want to shake my hand and say thank you while others have a follow-up question or merely want to get the last word. You know, the norm. As the room clears out, I notice a mom nervously hanging around the edges of the group. Before long the tech guy comes up and hands me my MacBook while I hand over his wireless microphone in a wordless dance I’ve done a hundred times before in a hundred different locations. A few minutes later the…
  • 5 No-Cost Gifts Dads Should Give Their Sons

    17 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    I love being a Dad.  It’s one of the hardest job I’ve ever had, but despite the diapers, tantrums, spills, stains, arguments, and backtalk, I wouldn’t trade it for the world! I love my kids more than I can describe in words, and I recognize that they are a gift from God. They bring me joy each new day, and raising them is one of the most sacred duties that could ever be entrusted to me. Because I love them, I want what’s best for them, but I’m also painfully aware of my own flaws and inadequacies. I desperately want to get fatherhood right, but we live in a…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Intimacy a strong motivator for PrEP HIV prevention

    19 Aug 2014 | 8:30 am
    Many HIV-negative gay or bisexual men in steady relationships with other HIV-negative men don't always use condoms out of a desire for intimacy. That same desire, according to a new study, makes such men more inclined to use antiretroviral medications to prevent getting HIV, a recommended practice known as PrEP.
  • White, straight women leading surge in infertility treatments

    18 Aug 2014 | 7:20 am
    Heterosexual white women are twice as likely as racial or sexual minority women to obtain medical help to get pregnant, according to a recent study. While income and lack of insurance only partially explained the lower number of racial minority women receiving fertility assistance, lack of insurance appeared to play a crucial role in whether lesbian and bisexual women received medical fertility help, especially in more recent years, according to an American study.
  • Provider, parental assumptions on teen sex yield 'missed opportunities' for HPV vaccine

    17 Aug 2014 | 10:23 pm
    Probing deeper into the complex decisions that parents and providers face regarding the human papilloma virus (HPV) vaccine, researchers found that though both parties appreciated importance of the HPV vaccine, their personal assumptions surrounding timing of administration relative to onset of sexual activity resulted in decreased vaccination rates.
  • Adults with autism at higher risk of sexual victimization, study shows

    14 Aug 2014 | 4:22 pm
    Adults with autism are at a higher risk of sexual victimization than adults without, due to lack of sex education, but with improved interventions that focus on sexual knowledge and skill building, the risk could be reduced, according to a study. 'Adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder gain more of their sexual knowledge from external sources such as the internet and the television whereas social sources would include parents, teachers and peers,' says one author.
  • Addressing the state of populations most at risk for HIV in Cape Town, South Africa

    14 Aug 2014 | 4:12 pm
    As part of an ongoing effort to reduce HIV transmission in South Africa, experts are co-hosting a policy forum to address the state of key populations at risk of HIV in the Western Cape and discuss findings from two recent prevention studies funded by the U.S. National Institutes of Health.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Ask Lilly: What IS Sil-a-gel?

    Lilly Dangeroux
    27 Aug 2014 | 1:03 pm
    Silagel or Sil-a-gel, no matter how you spell it, should be pronounced as “avoid”. It’s a confusing matter in the sex toy industry, because we apparently cling really hard to our myths. At some point, some retailer assumed that the “sil” in sil-a-gel stood for “silicone”. Not surprisingly, most toys containing sil-a-gel do look “gel-like”. This grand misconception might even be where the “silicone blend” bullshit came from; or vice versa. But I don’t feel like playing the “which sex toy myth was spread around…
  • Secret Vibe Remote Control Vibrator by Marc Dorcel

    Lilly Dangeroux
    20 Aug 2014 | 7:34 am
    “Are there any decent remote control vibrators?” is probably one of the top five questions I get asked. Since I first wrote about this in 2011, a bunch of new contenders have come on to the market. Most I discount immediately, because the first requirement of a decent remote control vibrator can be figured out just from seeing photos online and reading the description – many of the remote controlled vibrators offer only a tiny remote with a button or two and nothing to give you feedback. The Secret Vibe Remote Control Vibrator nails the first requirement. It’s why I…
  • “TPR Silicone” is a Myth

    Lilly Dangeroux
    12 Aug 2014 | 3:24 pm
    “TPR-Silicone”? Silicone blends? NOPE. Not possible. For quite some time, we used to believe that there was some bizarre “10% rule” where a manufacturer only had to create a sex toy that contained 10% silicone in order to actually call it silicone for marketing. When I learned that there are no regulations, I learned that the “rule” was a myth and companies could be lying about the material. They could use any material, and claim it to be any material. There is nothing stopping them from out and out lying. And then the lies get spread further because the…
  • PalmPower Wand Massager Review

    Lilly Dangeroux
    6 Aug 2014 | 8:42 am
    After reading a number of glowing reviews, some even saying that the PalmPower is their new favorite vibrator, I broke down and tried it. I’m not really a fan anymore of being tied down by a cord, so I had ignored this thing for awhile. PalmPower Wand Massager is made by BMS Factory, makers of that “PowerBullet” you keep seeing in Jopen, Leaf, and other vibes. I had been interested in trying out this design for some time now, back when CalEx was making it. Yes, from everything I can see, the PalmPower is the same thing as the CalExotics Couture Inspire just in a better color…
  • Free Shipping at Tantus? YES!

    Lilly Dangeroux
    1 Aug 2014 | 8:31 am
    The 1st of the month is always a busy blog day for me as I update new sales, especially the new monthly Tantus sales. Lately they’ve been knocking it out of the park with the best sales I’ve ever seen buying direct from a manufacturer – but then, that’s just one of the reasons why I love Tantus so much. EDIT: FREE SHIPPING OFFER CHANGE: I’d previously reported that everybody could get free shipping just by spending $100. Today, 8/8/14, that has been amended. Free shipping in the U.S is available at the spend-$100 mark, but free International Shipping isn’t…
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    The Virginity Project

  • Coke is the real thing

    The Virginity Project
    28 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I’ve been brewing this metaphor for years. Or perhaps the word ‘season’ might be more appropriate. Because its usually around this time of year when, in a fit of pre-winter dread and the realization that my summer short/sandal combo is going to make me look a bit simple within a matter of weeks, I panic buy an item of clothing that I am convinced is going to make me look like a French fashion editor for the entirety of winter. Only to discover shortly afterwards that 1. I hate it and 2. It doesn’t suit me. It doesn’t transform me in the way I imagined. The fashion police are not…
  • Chicks dig nerds

    The Virginity Project
    29 Jul 2014 | 9:00 am
    ‘I stumbled across your blog today after hearing about your book on Dan Savage's podcast. I think your project is a really cool idea. I wanted to tell you my virginity loss story because it's a good one and there isn't much occasion to tell it.’ Never a truer word spoken. How often do you get the chance to regale a total stranger with the story of your first fumbling attempts at sexual intercourse?  Not often enough in my opinion. Not only that, but in another first, we feature that rarer-than-hen’s-teeth-tale today: the amusing virginity loss story. I won’t bang on…
  • What it feels like for a girl....and a boy

    The Virginity Project
    13 Jun 2014 | 6:37 am
    The Virginity Project has been away sunning itself on a Greek island again and exploring the beautiful graffited ruins of down town Athens.  Whilst it was gone, bad things happened. The Virginity Project has sat down on at least 16 different occasions to write about the so called ‘virgin shootings’ in Isla Vista and beat an uncomfortable retreat each time due to a case of severely conflicting emotions. These events have unleashed a storm of words, discussions, vitriol and verbal scraps. On balance, it’s a positive thing that we’re having these ‘discussions’. These are challenging…
  • Welcome to Camden

    The Virginity Project
    15 May 2014 | 9:59 am
    This story seems fitting for several reasons. One: its teller comes from North America, home of the USA, where my book has just been published (WOOHOO) and two; he lost his virginity not 500 yards from the desk I sit at as I write this. Chalk Farm. Or the Borough of Camden to you. If you are ‘a punkish arty kid’ as Tom paints himself, there could be no more appropriate backdrop than the beer stained (amongst other things) streets of Camden Town. As an aside, I took against Camden for the longest time but I’ve come to slyly like it. As gentrification saps the life blood from London,…
  • What happens abroad probably won’t stay abroad

    The Virginity Project
    27 Apr 2014 | 10:54 am
    For once, I won’t intro a story. Ok, just a little one. Some stories you just want to chuck right out there, fresh off the press, pretty much the moment they land in your inbox and tell the world about them. A lot of shitty things happen in this world. Here is a story that doesn’t include any of them. Please listen to ‘La Isla Bonita’ for added atmosphere. ‘Dear Kate,  I'm an American almost-woman (although now maybe more woman than girl), age 21, currently studying abroad in Europe. I lost my virginity just about two weeks ago. This is how it happened:  I am what some people…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze,
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? <!-- Responsive --> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • What would/do you need to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?

    Heather Corinna
    7 Aug 2014 | 8:49 am
    Welcome to our new way of polling, so you can express yourself and get a sense of how your peers feel about certain topics in their own words, too! We love having polls on our site so you and others can speak for yourselves -- rather than the media or older adults doing it in your stead -- and see how others feel, too. But our favourite part of the polls were always the comments, where we could all read what you had to say, rather than just seeing what short answer you chose of the options we wrote for you. So, we've swapped out the multiple-choice format and built a graffiti-wall where what…
  • I Want To Be a Sex Educator. Er, How do I do That?

    Sam W
    28 Jul 2014 | 9:33 am
    I will be a junior in high school next year, and because I've been lucky to stumble on a lot of really great sex-positive resources, I've learned I have a pretty strong interest in sexuality--as in, studying it/doing something in it as a career. However, getting information about this field is much more difficult than, say, engineering or law. What are jobs within this field, what are areas in college/majors you'd advise, and what are some ways I can get involved now, as a minor? My areas of interest are not really in the medical field--I'm more interested in counseling, giving advice,…
  • Words Mean Things. Specific things.

    Heather Corinna
    23 Jul 2014 | 11:19 am
    Just a brief request from us to the world-at-large, primarily with the aim of making our users lives a little easier. Secondarily, it'd also make the lives of those of us who work to help them daily in these areas easier, too, which would sure be nice. Please do us and everyone else a favor and stop using certain words with very specific meanings as general shorthand. Often some of these words and frameworks just really aren't shorthand for what you mean, and they confuse the heck out of people and make something even less clear that's already confusing enough. We do have clear, specific…
  • How do I behave sexually without someone thinking I'm a slut?

    Heather Corinna
    13 Jul 2014 | 2:02 pm
    How do I text my significant other without coming off as a thot or a whore? read The answer | ask your own
  • Represent! What are you most hoping for from your sexual life?

    Heather Corinna
    3 Jul 2014 | 8:54 am
    Welcome to our new way of polling, so you can express yourself, and get a sense of how your peers feel about certain topics, in their own words, too! We love having polls on our site so you and others can speak for yourselves -- rather than the media or older adults doing it in your stead -- and see how others feel, too. But our favourite part of the polls were always the comments, where we could all read what you had to say, rather than just seeing what short answer you chose of the options we wrote for you. So, we've swapped out the multiple-choice format and built a graffiti-wall where…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • Sex and the City 2 Movie Review

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    28 Aug 2014 | 1:45 am
    I am quite surprised by the horrendous reviews that Sex and the City 2 seems to have received. But the media machine is the reason that I ensured I got tickets for the first night it was out. I am so fed up with trying to avoid spoilers when I want to see a movie [...]
  • Endless Love

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    25 Aug 2014 | 1:43 am
    Endless Love was the theme to a movie of the same name starring Brooke Shields. For some reason, I have it imprinted on my memory as her being some kind of teenage castaway who experiences love for the first time on a desert island. Which, of course, does not tally at all with the accompanying movie clip to the song on youtube. I never liked Brooke Shields as an actress - something to do with her huge beetly black eyebrows - so I didn't watch the Endless Love film. And, even though I love Lionel Richie and Diana Ross, the song just seemed incredibly cheesy so it was not a [...]
  • SuperMum – A New Standard in the Playground

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    22 Aug 2014 | 1:36 am
    With five girls under the age of eight, SuperMum is an absolutely wonderful and cheerful lady. Slim, confident and I have never heard her shout. I was amazed when she told me that she was pregnant again. It hardly showed and she only had four weeks to go. She was really excited because she knew [...]
  • Does Tiredness Make You Fat?

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    19 Aug 2014 | 1:32 am
    There are suggestions in recent research that lack of sleep can be associated with increased risk of some cancers, heart disease and diabetes, as well as obesity. Our vital hormonal systems regulate and rest the body at night so our sleep patterns are vital to our wellbeing during the day. The National Sleep Foundation in [...]
  • Can You Make A Woman Multiple Orgasm?

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    16 Aug 2014 | 1:25 am
    This is a facet of female arousal that I've only started to fully comprehend recently, since Ruf discovered the key to making me squirt by apply a lot of friction and pressure as he rubbed the area on the front wall of my vagina. Once that area gets warmed up, I am really smokin' and, if I can just relax, the multiples will come. [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • 7 “Innocent” Words That Turn Women On

    Vin DiCarlo
    20 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    And in this article, you’ll find out seven “seduction” words guaranteed to get a woman thinking about sex, how to use them and exactly what you need to say to make a woman wet her panties whenever you’re around. But first… Watch this FREE video to find out how you can read any woman’s mind and immediately know exactly what she’s thinking about! (No, we’re not talking magic tricks or paranormal stuff here! This is cutting edge psychology combined with real-world application). WARNING: Watch the entire video - the end may SHOCK you!
  • 6 Dirty Talk Phrases That Will Make Her Dripping Wet!

    Kaylen Jackson
    19 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    Dirty talk is a great way to engage her mind in sex – learn these six sayings that will have her so wet, you’ll have to change the sheets afterwards! “You Look Stunning….” The word “stunning” will work, as will the words “gorgeous” and “beautiful.” The word “sexy” or “hot” won’t – it will just make her feel like a sex object. Tell her how gorgeous, beautiful or stunning she looks when she takes off all her clothes and you see her naked, whether it’s the first time or the thousandth…
  • “Bad Girl” Sex Tips That Will Blow His Mind

    He Said/She Said with John &#38; Jenna
    18 Aug 2014 | 4:02 am
    You’re a nice girl in real life, but that doesn’t have to extend to the bedroom. Nor should it. You don’t have to be a bad girl, just screw like one. Bad girls are masters at blowing the male mind (and other parts). Here are some bad girl sex tips you nice girls can use to blow his mind just as well as any bad girl out there. Here Are Her “Bad Girl Sex Tips” Guys are simple creatures! They wear their “hard on” on their sleeve! They lose the ability to speak when they see a boobie or even hear someone say boobie. It does not take much to blow his mind, and I by…
  • 5 Sex Fantasies She’s Dying To Try (But Will Never Tell You)

    Dan &#38; Jennifer
    17 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    Fantasies are fantasies for a reason – Especially “sex fantasies”. Everybody has them, whether they want to admit it or not, but they stay bottled up because they put you in a vulnerable place. This vulnerability is the reason that she’s never going to tell you her sex fantasies. We as a people are programmed to hate rejection and this fear is what drives her to clam up when you ask about her fantasies. Out of the crazy sex fantasies out there, there are 5 that are the most common among women. While she may never flat out tell you that it turns her on, doing it in the…
  • Married Sex: 9 Ways To Break Out Of Your Sex Rut

    Kaylen Jackson
    16 Aug 2014 | 9:00 am
    Married sex is well known for its lack of heat behind closed doors, but does that mean you should resign yourself to a sex rut just because you’re wearing a ring on your finger? Not hardly. There are lots of ways you can bring the fire back into your sexual relationship – it just takes a little effort and some imagination. Check out these 10 titillating tips to break out of a sex rut and make married sex super steamy again! Get A Make Over A woman’s self esteem in a marriage plays a big role in how sexy she feels – and as a result, how often her husband ends up getting…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Understanding why an ex is spreading misinformation about you (or building a case against you to break up)

    Natalie (NML)
    25 Aug 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Breakups, even expected and mutual ones, often feel like a kick a teeth, but a breakup feels like a mugging when it comes to light that our ex has been in effect, poisoning the waters by saying things about us that are not true or are certainly exaggerated. Why would somebody who we shared a relationship with and who we believe that we were loving to, choose to spread misinformation designed to discredit us?  There’s a common misconception that breakups only happen to ‘bad’ people or where something terrible happened, which is akin to suggesting that breakups are an…
  • Are you inadvertently dimming your light? When you have a pattern of being afraid of outshining

    Natalie (NML)
    18 Aug 2014 | 2:41 pm
    Last week I had what I refer to as a ‘punchbulb moment’ – a lightbulb moment that punches you in the head, aka an epiphany. I have them every once in a while, like when I suddenly clicked that what had happened to me with my father and his family (being frozen out and the Chinese whispers) was part of a bigger pattern that had existed before I was even born and the grief anguish dried up, or when a series of incidences related to having failed my driving test twice while pregnant with Nia along with a few work-related things, had shone a light on the fact that I am a…
  • Stop giving you a hard time for not having had the perfect or ‘right’ reaction

    Natalie (NML)
    9 Aug 2014 | 1:39 pm
    There are times in life when I’ve given myself a hard time for how I reacted to something in the moment. Note that I, like many others, have given me a far harder time for having feelings and opinions than I ever have for underreacting to boundary busting behaviour! Now of course, if I had my time over again, there’s a few things I’d do differently in the moment, but to be fair, reactions, especially 1) belated 2) cumulative, and 3) helpful ones, would not be high on my list. Underreacting has kept me in shady situations long past their sell-by-date. It’s also…
  • Happy Birthday To Me: 37 Thoughts On Relationships, Self-Esteem & Life

    Natalie (NML)
    1 Aug 2014 | 9:30 am
    It’s that time of year again – I turned 37 on Monday and we also got the keys to our new home (you can see a pic on Instagram). Exhaustion doesn’t even cover it but a very happy, looking forward to getting back to a bit of work, but not before escaping and spending the weekend at Camp Bestival. Hopefully our tent will be up by the time you read this. Have a great weekend and without further ado, here are this year’s birthday thoughts inspired by some of my own experiences this year as well as those of readers. Mistakes are growing pains but ultimately growing gains.
  • Sometimes the self-compassionate thing to do is to count your stresses so that you gain perspective

    Natalie (NML)
    25 Jul 2014 | 4:26 pm
    Over the past couple of months, I’ve become increasingly aware of counting your stresses. Sometimes we get so caught up in getting through the day to day and with the nitty gritties of the individual issues and situations, that we don’t step back and see not only the bigger picture, but also how big our stress load is. If we don’t register the magnitude of what may be high level stresses, we become acclimatised to that particular stress level until we get tipped too far. I’ve seen many a BR reader struggle with stress and it’s specifically amplified by the sense…
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    Mommy Has A Headache

  • What's all the Buzz about the Bouqs?

    9 Aug 2014 | 4:11 pm
    You may well have heard some buzz already about The Bouqs, a flower delivery company that is a little bit different, because they have caught people's attention. Firstly, unlike some other companies I could mention, they only sell really classy bouquets and not tacky multicolored bunches that leave you cross-eyed when you receive them. The Bouqs color palettes are clean, elegant and very pleasing to the eye. Their bouquets cover a whole range of gorgeous hues from deep purple to sunset pink [check em out here] which will leave you very much spoilt for choice when selecting your…
  • A Real Life Mr Darcy?

    2 Mar 2014 | 2:51 pm
    Fans of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice have always known that Mr. Darcy is a fine man. Now scientists have proof.  In scientific lingo: The pheromone that attracts female mice to the odour of a particular male has been identified. Named ‘darcin’ by researchers writing in the open access journal BMC Biology(after Darcy, the attractive hero in Jane Austen’s novel “Pride and Prejudice”), this unusual protein in a male’s urine attracts females and is responsible for learned preference for specific males. – Science DailyBut seriously, even though we can only imagine…
  • Let Me Gently Probe your Mind

    13 Feb 2014 | 6:05 pm
    We're snowed in up to our eyeballs here in Baltimore so time to switch on the computer for some light relief.So, I got challenged by another blogger to share 11 things about meMy 11 questions are:1. What advice would you give your brand new blogging self now?Don't air all your dirty laundry in public.2. What four words would you say to your 18 year old self?David Bowie is never going to marry you. 3. What three things do you think define you as either a Brit or American?Obsession with strong cups of tea  or lack thereofAbility to go for long walks in icy rain and enjoy it because it is…
  • Great Expat-ations

    9 Feb 2014 | 1:14 pm
    I was asked to contribute an expat tip for the HiFX Expat Tip page. And this got me thinking that actually I have a lot of useful info to pass on for peeps looking to move from UK to USA so here goes ....10 things to bear in mind when moving from UK to USA1. Your British accent will go down a storm. Some people even ask you to say a sentence so they can hear your accent. You will feel like a celebrity.2. You will laugh at how Americans complain about the cost of gas as it is three times cheaper than in the UK.3. The weather is a lot nicer.4. I had watched so many episodes of Jerry Springer,…
  • Diary of Popcorn the Pardoned Turkey

    30 Nov 2013 | 10:54 am
    Hi my name is Popcorn and I am a turkey living in Morven Park's Turkey Hill Farm in the good ole US of A. This is my diary from last week: Monday 25th November Minding my own business pulling my feathers out of my ginormous breast at the turkey farm. Every turkey knows that Wednesday will be their last day on earth so we're all going a bit crazy. Everyone's hysterically flapping their wings and shrieking "Carpe Diem!" I have no idea what they're talking about. Apparently some eggheaded turkey explains it means 'seize the day.' Everyone was running around like headless chickens trying to do…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • Poly Mythbusters

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:18 pm
    Your favorite myths about polyamory, busted once and for all! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 398: Poly-mono mix

    14 Aug 2014 | 5:04 pm
    How do you cope with the challenges of polyamory when you self-identify as monogamous? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 397: Relationship land mines

    29 Jun 2014 | 8:20 pm
    Minx and LustyGuy gives a few examples of relationship land mines for pre-pondering. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 396: Minx gets bawdy

    22 Jun 2014 | 8:05 pm
    LustyGuy and Minx review the one-woman poly play Lust & Marriage and discuss an article on whether women want sex; Minx shares her Seattle Bawdy Storytelling experience! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 395: Unbalanced triads

    5 Jun 2014 | 9:28 pm
    How do you cope when your triad is unbalanced, and your new lover is more into your husband than you? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Silent Porn Star

  • Helen Mirren Has Always Been Sexy

    Silent Porn Star
    20 Aug 2014 | 6:53 pm
    Helen Mirren and James Mason in Age of Consent (1969). Via; via.
  • It’s Like Magic Mushrooms, Only More Graphic Sexually (Vintage German Porn)

    Silent Porn Star
    15 Aug 2014 | 7:12 am
    Usually, I don’t find there to be a language barrier in porn. But… Well, just watch this: Via Herzog, which claims to be “the one and only original source for the famous Heidi Porn movies from the 70s and 80s.” The Scottish Mc Fizz has left the building! He searches for a special kind of […]
  • Amis Amiss?

    Silent Porn Star
    11 Aug 2014 | 4:16 am
    New York Magazine recently provided a little graphic based on data about the sleeping patterns of “geniuses” (The data came from Daily Rituals: How Artists Work, by Mason Currey.) We’re supposed to be shocked by how much creative types sleep — but I’m completely tossed by seeing Kingsley Amis on the list! Then again, I […]
  • In EROS Magazine, July 1980

    Silent Porn Star
    15 Jun 2014 | 12:21 am
    CR/LF of Sex Is AS Red-Blooded Thing wrote this for Peek-A-Boob, then when he revamped the site a few years ago, this post somehow was cut. I’m pleased to republish it as a guest post here because I think it’s quite insightful. (If you would like to guest here, contact me.) EROS magazine shows it’s […]
  • Hair Today Gone Tomorrow

    Silent Porn Star
    3 Jun 2014 | 4:32 pm
    The following is a guest post from Stephanie Taylor. Taylor is a freelance writer, blogger, and amateur photographer. She lives in Denver, CO, with her husband Nate, and their two dogs, Henry and Howie. (If you would like to guest here, contact me.) As much as some people would hate to admit it, porn has […]
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    Simple Marriage

  • An Alternative To Combat Distraction, Routine And Busyness

    28 Aug 2014 | 6:30 am
    Life is full of distraction. Everywhere you look something’s vying for your attention. Take your kids to school, ride the train to work, log onto the Internet and you’ll see things aimed at taking your money, focus, and time. One thing about a world full of attention clutter, our brain can become numb to it so we get to where we don’t even see it. But don’t kid yourself, there’s a drawback to this numbness. It also means we don’t really experience the other things in our life. Human nature seems to crave routine and structure. One way we can combat…
  • The Problem With Date Night

    24 Aug 2014 | 1:04 pm
    This is a guest post from Emma Merkas of Couples Massage Courses. We all know we should go on regular dates with our spouse, right? The same way we know we should eat more Brussels sprouts and floss our teeth every day. It’s good for us. More than that, date night is actually enjoyable (for the record, so are Brussels sprouts if you pan fry them with some lemon juice and kosher salt!) but you wouldn’t know it the way some couples manage to avoid it. The problem with date night is that we humans love the comfort of routine. Stepping outside our little daily schedules takes a bit of effort.
  • The Fun of Going on “Dress Up” Dates

    21 Aug 2014 | 5:04 am
    Not too long after we were married, my wife and I met some friends for a double date. We were doing the normal thing – dinner and a movie. Before we left the house, for some reason, we decided it would be funny to dress up like nerds. I take that back. It wasn’t dressing as nerds as much as it was finding random, wild clothes in our closet that absolutely didn’t match. We walked to the restaurant where we were meeting our friends and giggled as we saw people staring strangely at us. After all, I was wearing big work boots, 80’s shorts, a dress up shirt, and a headband while my wife…
  • Several Great Marriage Quotes

    18 Aug 2014 | 6:04 am
    Came across some great quotes in the Simple Marriage Archives. Grow old with me! The best is yet to be. ~ Robert Browning (1812 – 1889) A man is seduced by what he sees, a woman by what she hears. ~ Anonymous Smile at each other; smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at your children, smile at each other – it doesn’t matter who it is – and that will help you to grow up in greater love for each other. ~ Mother Teresa (1910-1997) As the heart is warmed, so often too the body; as the spirit is loosed, so often and with laughter, the clothes fall away. ~ Anonymous This is what…
  • Add Spice By Opening Your Eyes

    14 Aug 2014 | 6:04 am
    In case you’re new to our community, or even if you’ve been around for years, I’m part of a weekly show that airs new episodes each Wednesday called Sexy Marriage Radio. Each week Shannon Ethridge and I discuss various topics and ideas that will help you make your sex life better (or perhaps come back to life). To date, there are over two years worth of shows on Sexy Marriage Radio – many of them about how to spice things up, sort of like Spicing Things Up 101. Today, we talk about Spicing Things Up 301! I think you’ll like it. SMR#146: Spice Up Things By Opening…
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  • How to make money writing about your sex life and 5 times I did

    28 Aug 2014 | 5:58 am
    I've been writing about my sex life for over a decade, and probably will for the rest of my life. For me, it's part of how I learn about myself and my relationships and how my sexuality is impacted by the world around me. It's also part of how I make my living. It makes sense that the only place (so far) I've taught my nonfiction Sex Writing 101 workshop is at CatalystCon, because the audience for this wonderful conference is people who work in sexuality or blog about it or are somehow involved in it. Many are sex nerds, and I would bet everyone attending has something to say about sex that…
  • See you in Seattle (twice)!

    27 Aug 2014 | 4:20 am
    I'm looking forward to visiting Seattle and these two events and having a little time to walk around and explore Seattle. This tour will probably be my last book tour for a long while (though you never know!) so I am going to make the most of it. If you know anyone who'd like a free erotica reading or may get something out of an erotica writing workshop, please let them know. Below are the Facebook and Fetlife links if you care to spread the word. A reminder: my September 9th erotica writing workshop is only $23 in advance (plus a small fee) or $30 at the door, so don't dawdle if you want to…
  • Publishers Weekly praises my female fantasy erotica anthology Hungry for More!

    26 Aug 2014 | 5:39 am
    I was looking up something else about Hungry for More and found this mostly wonderful review from Publishers Weekly! I'm working on a post listing all 21 fantasies to be found in the book, but for now, I'll share this - and there's another book of fantasy erotica in the works too. I must also say that "Jailbait Torch Song" is one of my favorite stories I've ever published in all 50+ anthologies, because it takes a taboo topic and makes it vivid and real and tender and sweet and sexy all at once. I know it will push buttons, but those are about social norms, and if erotica is good at anything,…
  • My 4-week online erotica writing class from LitReactor starts October 16th

    25 Aug 2014 | 5:17 am
    Often, when I announce my erotica writing workshops (click here for details on upcoming ones in Seattle, Los Angeles, Portland (Oregon), Portland (Maine), Chicago, Milwaukee and New York), people ask me when I'll be offering an online class for people not in any of those cities. The answer is: now! Through the wonderful LitReactor, I'll be teaching an in-depth 4-week online class, Between the Sheets, designed to get you writing and submitting and learning about sex in literature and erotica. If you know anyone who might be interested, please let them know! You can take the class at any time…
  • 3 books I'm looking forward to reading

    21 Aug 2014 | 1:43 pm
    I'm planning to read these soon, and will hopefully share some more info on them when I'm done. I've read previous books by Jo Piazza and Xiaolu Guo that I enjoyed, especially Celebrity, Inc. and one of my favorite novels, A Concise Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers, which has even made it into my fiction in "Book Swap" in the newly published The Sexy Librarian's Big Book of Erotica, based on my actual reading of this book on a plane (which I'll be reading from September 15th at 7 pm at The Booksmith in San Francisco!). I'm linking to Amazon but encourage you to shop wherever books are…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Sex News: Naked tasering, THC lube, Sexbot the book, metrosexuality redux

    Violet Blue
    28 Aug 2014 | 1:25 pm
    CIA sexbots, you say? Patrick Quinlan (PQ), who recently released his new ebook Sexbot ($2.99), spoke to Future of Sex about his work and how close his tale is to becoming real. ‘Sexbot’ Author Patrick Quinlan on CIA Sexbots, Mind Downloads and Immortality (Future of Sex) Massive trigger warning for sexual abuse and trauma survivors. Federal Cybersecurity Director Timothy DeFoggi is now the sixth suspect convicted on three child porn charges in Operation Torpedo, an FBI operation that targeted three Tor-based child porn sites and that used controversial methods to unmask anonymized users.
  • Sheri and watermelon Shibari in Wolf Magazine

    Violet Blue
    25 Aug 2014 | 5:08 pm
    This set is really hot — Sheri by Nicolas Guérin for Wolf Magazine — but I’m so tickled by the watermelon in bondage that I just had to share it for the ‘food porn’ factor alone. Captive, naughty melon! It’s so cute all tied up :D Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet Blue® (R). The use of this feed on any website other than Violet Blue's Tiny Nibbles: Open Source Sex…
  • Sex worker fury, a CP frameup: NSFW sex news longreads

    Violet Blue
    24 Aug 2014 | 3:02 pm
    “This is the last fucking straw. As sex workers, we have had enough. We are sick of the public (including much of the left) clinging to the vestiges of a puritanical past. Therefore, with all due defiance and anger, we welcome you to a nuanced position on sexuality and labor: the work of sex.” Labor Intensive: In Defense of Sex Work (Red Wedge Magazine) Twitter came under criticism this summer for allegedly censoring ads for condoms or sexual health information, even though the company’s policy allows those kinds of ads. RH Reality Check reported in June about four companies and…
  • Eye Candy: Start nice, finish kinky (bad hackers get pegged)

    Violet Blue
    23 Aug 2014 | 12:58 am
    Tiffany Doll, Samantha Bentley – Need a Firm Hand? Katie – Get Dirty Ivy and Tina – Squirting for Ivy Katy, Sally, Richard – “Everybody’s Dream” Anita and Nick – Morning Romance In 1960s Paris she became known as the world’s most exclusive madam, whose client list was said to include John Kennedy, de Gaulle, Onassis, and multiple Rothschilds, and whose beautiful and cultivated girls often went on to marry wealth, power, and prestige. But among the many secrets Madame Claude kept, perhaps the greatest were her own. William Stadiem, who knew the…
  • Sex News: Dr. Who porn, male porn star myths, lesbians have more orgasms, criminal pornbots

    Violet Blue
    22 Aug 2014 | 1:31 pm
    It’s satire — but what sweet, sweet satire it is to see male rappers sexualized like female rappers. Genderflip rules. Male Rappers Pose Provocatively In Support of Nicki Minaj (Tea Breakfast) This week’s target of the largely anonymous hivemind is indie game developer Zoe Quinn, who recently released the interactive fiction novel and educational aid Depression Quest. It’s an unusual entry for the gaming genre, but its out-of-the-box thinking is not what pissed off these predominantly male communities—they claim to be mad about an alleged sex scandal wrapped in what…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 409

    Dan Savage
    26 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and his old co-host Mary Martone talk about cat jealousy, mate poaching, and have an epic, drag-out battle over fat-shaming.  This episode is brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This podcast is also brought to you by Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.
  • Savage Love Episode 408

    Dan Savage
    19 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    This week, Dan welcomes author Joan Price to talk about sexuality for older folks. Meanwhile, back in high school, a gay lad is suffering because his boyfriend has suddenly decided he's straight.  On the Magnum, Dan chats and spars with prolific freelance writer Jillian Keenan about whether kink is a sexual orientation.  And, how can a gentle giant figure out how to dominate his lady in the way she really wants?  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting…
  • Savage Love Episode 407

    Dan Savage
    12 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Take it from us, whatever you do- don't offend the adult baby.  Also, how should you respond when you get hit on by a 13 year-old?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with "Lazlo" -organizer of the Orgy Dome at Burning Man about sex at the sandy festival.   And, welcome to yet another abstinence-before-marriage train wreck.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting This episode is also brought to you by Doctor on Demand. Doctor On Demand provides…
  • Savage Love Episode 406

    Dan Savage
    5 Aug 2014 | 1:00 am
    Starting the show, Dan invites co-ranter Congressman Patrick J. Murphy to discuss why democrats treat military personnel better than the Rs.  A gay man is getting cat-called by his horn-dog neighbor. How can he politely tell him to knock it off? On the Magnum, you'll hear a "What You Got" with Sociology Professor Elizabeth Armstrong, about how rich girls slut-shame poor girls on college campuses. Also, does anybody have a lead on really great Slovakian dating sites?  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Go buy something, and be sure to enter…
  • Savage Love Episode 405

    Dan Savage
    29 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and infectious disease doctor/science writer Jonathan Golob talk about people who are anti-vaccine and whether you should have sex with them.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with YouTube sensation Arielle Scarcella about the wide, wide world of lesbians.  Also, spunk up the nose; big problem, or little problem? Also, Dan knows NOTHING about he Bible.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Savage"when you check out. This episode is also brought to you by Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • I’m 29 Years Old, And I Just Moved Back Home With My Parents

    Alex Hardy
    28 Aug 2014 | 9:38 pm
    I have been here in Hampton, Virginia, with my entire damn family for about a month. My goal here is to get my mind, body, and bank account back on track while competing for the title of America’s Next Top Mama’s Boy. My sister, nieces, the children of countless family friends and I all grew up in this house. Everyone has left and returned at least twice. For the first time in almost a decade, the whole Hardy/Avery clan is living together in our cozy, one-story peach castle. It’s a very intimate coexistence, to say the least. Six weeks is the longest I have spent in my hometown since…
  • Why 2014 Is The Best Year For Light-Skinned Black Men Ever

    Damon Young
    27 Aug 2014 | 9:31 pm
    After a 20 year dip in popularity and social capital — spearheaded by Nino Brown’s now infamous shanking of Christopher Williams’ delicate light-skinned hands in New Jack City — 2008 seemed poised to be the peak of the light-skinned Black man resurgence. Obama won the White House. Cory Booker and Deval Patrick seemed like heir apparents. Chris Brown hadn’t gone full retard. And Drake was assuredly in Toronto somewhere doing some Drake-ass shit like ordering pancakes at the Cheesecake Factory or helping the roommate of a platonic friend move a futon. But, 2008…
  • Bill O’Reilly and Megyn Kelly Argue About White Privilege, And Kelly…Surprises

    Roll Call
    27 Aug 2014 | 11:22 am
    Ladies and gentlemen, hell has frozen over. Heathens ’bout to let it go and build snowmen up in this piece. Bill O’Reilly recently invited Megyn Kelly on his show, The O’Reilly Factor, to discuss what he calls, “the White Privilege Theory.” For those of you who don’t remember her name, Megyn was the biggest advocate for Santa Clause’s Whiteness, despite the history behind his actual place of origin in folklore. To my suprise (and possibly, Bill’s), Megyn ACTUALLY went on a rant in support of White Privilege’s existence. The way she…
  • REMINISCE – Saturday, September 6 | Washington, DC

    27 Aug 2014 | 9:25 am
  • We Don’t Get It. But Somehow These Dudes Stay Gettin’ It. #D1CKTOOBOMB ALLSTARS?

    Panama Jackson
    27 Aug 2014 | 9:10 am
    It’s no secret that I’m a ratchetvision savant on these streets. No matter where I go, I watch the same shoooooows. Well this past Monday was Part 1 of the Reunion show for Love & Hip-Hop: Atlanta. Again, you need not know who these people are or watch the show or acknowledge it’s existence for any of the following words coming out of my fingers to make sense. Plus, I already told you the story of Steebie and Benzino, former friends who might actually hate one another at this point (can’t wait for Part 2 when the Puerto Rican Princess, Joseline, and Steebie go full…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • Log Off: Why Social Media Seriously Sucks During A Breakup

    29 Aug 2014 | 8:23 am
    It's just best to stay off the 'Net. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Will They Last? Jay Z & Beyonce's Marriage By The Numbers

    29 Aug 2014 | 8:17 am
    Are the rumors true? See the science of numbers behind our favorite power couple. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Super Trendy Makeup Ideas You Can Actually Pull Off

    29 Aug 2014 | 7:57 am
    You probably wear your makeup a certain way based on what you've learned about your face, skin and style over the years. You might know that a certain shade of blush brings out your eye color, or that a specific shade of lipstick gets you just the right amount of attention. Here at YourTango, we encourage you to shake up those notions with what we call beauty statements, little tweaks that encompass three things: simple, chic and (most importantly) wearable. read more
  • Hung Up On Height? 9 Reasons You Need To Date A Short Guy

    amanda chatel
    29 Aug 2014 | 7:09 am
    A new study says short guys live longer than tall ones — especially men under 5ft 2in. Let's strip you of everything you've ever thought about dating a short guy and set the record straight. Right. Now. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 14 Phobias Destined To Ruin Your Love Life

    amanda chatel
    29 Aug 2014 | 6:54 am
    According to Merriam-Webster, the definition a phobia is: "an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation." The symptoms of such an intense fear can result from anywhere from a dry mouth and shortness of breath to chest pain, a racing heart, vomiting, and even an inability to speak. Basically, it's the worst possible panic attack of your life. read more
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • 1,000 Condoms in Bournemouth: Lovehoney and raTrust Join Forces to Help Make HIV Disappear

    29 Aug 2014 | 4:10 am
    Here at Lovehoney, we think everyone should be able to enjoy a pleasurable, fun and safe sex life. That's why we were happy to donate 1,000 condoms to raTrust, an organisation working to make HIV/AIDS a thing of the past. They staged an event in Bournemouth this past weekend and made this incredible video - check it out below: [More]
  • Introducing the We-Vibe 4 Plus - The Champion of App-Controlled Orgasms. Plus, Enter Now to Win One!

    28 Aug 2014 | 3:00 am
    Here at Lovehoney we're always genuinely excited to discover a new product which raises the bar of sex toy excellence, and we're hugely excited to introduce the amazing We-Vibe 4 Plus. Having already created the world's number one couple's vibrator, We-Vibe have announced their upgraded version of the We-Vibe 4, which can now be controlled via your smartphone. Well, as they say, 'there's an app for that'. Perfect for both long-distance fun and for use during lovemaking, is there anything this toy can't do? Unlike remote controlled love eggs, the We-Vibe 4 Plus doesn't need to be…
  • Take The Passion Poll and Win 1 of 5 Sexy Bundles!

    27 Aug 2014 | 1:10 am
    It's time for another survey, and this time it's all about passion between the sheets. What gives you fireworks in your belly? What kills your passion in a heartbeat? We want to know the ins and outs - and of course, in return for your time we're offering not one, but five mega prizes, which means even more chances for you to win. In each bundle you'll find: Lovehoney Mains Powered Deluxe Magic Wand Vibrator Lovehoney 10 Function Dream Bullet Vibrator Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Vibrating Cock Ring Lovehoney Tease Me Bondage Tape Lovehoney Chocolate Body Paint Lovehoney Cherry Flavoured…
  • Ask the Lingerie Expert: Which is the Best Open Cup Lingerie at Lovehoney?

    26 Aug 2014 | 6:31 am
    As Lovehoney’s Lingerie Category Manager, I have the luck of being surrounded by gorgeous things day in, day out. One of the hardest questions I’m asked is, ‘what’s your favourite piece of lingerie?’ Now, I’m definitely not complaining, but it’s always so hard to pick! While I’m mentally flip-flopping (well, corsets are great, but everyone loves a matching bra set!), the one thing that seems to stick in my mind are Lovehoney’s more daring and sexy styles. Open cup lingerie is available in all sorts of styles, and it's hot hot HOT! So, here…
  • NOW Magazine NOW With Annabelle Knight!

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:56 am
    Lovehoney's resident sexpert Annabelle Knight will be spreading her knowledge on all things sex, relationships and kink with NOW magazine readers. Starting this week, our Annabelle is NOW magazine's new Sex and Relationship Expert, and we couldn't be happier! You'll recognise Annabelle from presenting many of our sex advice and product videos on LovehoneyTV. She also had a starring role in the recent Lovehoney documentary "Frisky Business" which followed the production of her exclusive range of sex toys. The Annabelle Knight Collection comprises of four vibrators designed…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • I got to meet a real spell caster face to face contact

    17 Aug 2014 | 12:46 pm
    New Answer - Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one. Well i think i found the right spell caster Metodo. I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can't get more really that what am writing now. I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am a south African…
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    of Sex and Love

  • Fetish Fantasy Gold Ben-Wa Balls

    18 Aug 2014 | 2:42 am
    Fetish Fantasy Gold Ben Wa Balls $12.51 from Of Sex and Love Store As I sit here writing this, I am awaiting one heavy, golden ball to reintroduce itself to gravity and make its way down my vaginal canal so I can finish this review and go to sleep. I am not afraid that this ball is lost forever. I have a cervix. I know that there is an end to my vagina. I am not worried. I am simply annoyed. Other people might be worried, however. They may not understand how the the female anatomy works or, perhaps. In my case, I struggled to push the small ben wa balls past my pubic bone, pinching myself…
  • And the law.. wins..?

    16 Aug 2014 | 8:37 pm
    Last year, my city began cracking down on prostitution, child porn and other “related” offenses. In the mainstream media, these sort of things get lumped together. As a person who is capable of critical thinking, I have to wonder if this should be the case. This focus on sex crimes meant a change of some laws, including newly-proposed fines for people caught providing sex for money or soliciting sex workers.  Public humiliation in the form of releasing names and photos has also been named as one of the police department’s strategies to fix sex “crimes.”…
  • Lip Products for Softer Skin and Better Oral

    14 Aug 2014 | 2:15 pm
    Smooch Me Lip Lube $7 from Good Vibes The lovely folks at Good Vibes were kind enough to send over a tin of Smooch Me Lip Lube with my last order. This it not the first time I’ve been able to try a product like that if you recall my review of Babegloss, a liquid lip gloss and lube intended to make your lips softer, tastier and wetter. Babeland has since discontinued the product, which is a shame. I like the taste and the design. I only wish I had used it more. I still have plenty left! Good Vibe’s take as such a product is a little more, dare I say, generic? It comes in a tin like…
  • Fun Factory Flora

    10 Aug 2014 | 4:43 am
    Fun Factory Flora $90 from Good Vibes A couple years ago, fun Factory released a line or two or smaller toys. These included Bubbles and the Mini line, of which  I reviewed the Ocean. They all boasted the fine craftsmanship of Fun Factory in addition to the company’s bright colors, which we all know and love. The company has come out with a new bunch of products after the Stronic Eins, and they use the same control setup. I think Fun Factory simply wanted to created some small vibes that use the same control panel type. The company does it periodically. I’ve seen a number of…
  • Two Steps Back

    6 Aug 2014 | 5:34 pm
    I find it difficult to be the person I want to be when it comes to love. While I can be a good worker, friend, sister, daughter, advice giver and supporter, the person I am when it comes to love is less than. Less than what? Less than the person I want to be, I guess. When I was with my ex-husband, reason and logic went out the window as we ushered in screaming, choking, door slamming, running out of the house, throwing our rings at each other as we threatened divorce fights. It got better, it did. Had we stayed together, I am sure we would have eventually gotten to a healthy place. I really…
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    The Daily Affair

  • Your Cheating Heart

    25 Aug 2014 | 7:13 am
                    According to a new study done by none other than Ashley Madison (the website for those…
  • Watching An Ex Move On

    20 Aug 2014 | 6:00 pm
    This week, People reported that Demi Moore isn’t taking news of ex-husband Ashton Kutcher’s romance with GQ’s hottest woman, Mila Kunis, very well.  …
  • Is Sexual Addiction a Real Disease?

    5 Aug 2014 | 2:00 am
    Hypersexuality Disorder (HD) or sexual addiction or that thing that David Duchovny admitted to having when confessing his marital infidelities might now be getting…
  • Do Men Prefer Women Without Makeup?

    1 Aug 2014 | 2:00 am
    Apparently The New York Times got tired of discussing the fiscal cliff or real gun control because in their recent “Room For Debate” series…
  • Are You In A “Greedy Marriage”?

    30 Jul 2014 | 5:00 am
    I spent the weekend trying to read my way through all of the open tabs in Google Chrome and came across an article that…
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • 10 Signs You’re Dating a Self-Obsessed Narcissist!

    28 Aug 2014 | 9:05 am
    Your partner exudes awesomeness, but do they make you feel miserable too? Read these 10 signs you’re dating a narcissist and 5 ways to get away quick! By Briallyn Smith Narcissism is commonly used as a negative character trait – a way to imply that someone is full of themselves or not considerate of others. Unfortunately, true narcissism is much more than that! People with narcissistic personality disorder can be very harmful in relationships and can severely damage the self-worth of their partners. And if you’re dating someone who’s a narcissist, at first, you may be awed by…
  • 12 Ridiculously Obvious Signs She Wants You to Ask Her Out

    27 Aug 2014 | 4:13 am
    Wondering if she’s interested? If a girl likes you, you’d have to be really thickheaded to miss these 12 obvious signs she wants you to ask her out! By Michelle Escultura Despite the age of feminism and women being more assertive in the dating world than some men, there’s still that thrill that comes when a man asks a woman who likes him out on a date. The problem with this though, is that some men can be painfully oblivious of the hints that women give out! You’re probably either one of those oblivious guys or you’re the type who wants to be absolutely sure she’s up for a date…
  • Loneliness in a Relationship – 4 Why’s and 7 Ways to Fix It

    26 Aug 2014 | 8:24 am
    Do you secretly find yourself feeling lonely in your relationship? You don’t have to feel guilty, because you aren’t alone. Understand it, and fix it! By Sarah Rogers Most people believe that once you’re in a serious relationship, you will never feel lonely again. How could you possibly feel alone when you’ve got someone on your side loving, supporting and motivating you? Yet, many people often feel more secluded in serious relationships, as time and change can put pressure on your bond and lead you to feel distant from your partner. People become lonely in relationships for many…
  • 25 Awesome Ways to Keep a Guy Hooked and Happy in Love!

    25 Aug 2014 | 11:43 am
    Want to keep a guy hooked and happy in a relationship? Six men share their thoughts on what makes them happy in love and keeps them hooked to a woman. By Lianne Choo Ever since the beginning of time, women have been looked upon as property and their sole purpose in life is to please their man. Although plenty has changed over the years, there is no denying that it is still important to keep your man happy in a relationship because when he is happy, you will be too. Feminists, please put down your arms and revel in the fact that women now have the power to call the shots and decide what makes…
  • 12 Things You Do that’ll Make Him Think You are a Stalker!

    24 Aug 2014 | 10:58 am
    So you really like a guy, but is your affection turning into a crazy obsession? Read these 12 signs and ask yourself if you’re going into stalker mode! By Erica Roberts When we women like a guy, we go overboard with our affection now and then. Sometimes, we don’t realize that our actions may actually be scaring him off! Of course, this doesn’t bode well for a future relationship. The last thing you want him to think is that you’re becoming a stalker of sorts, as people tend to actively avoid stalkers, as opposed to dating them. Sure, you’re probably not singing love…
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    Peck and Call Girls: Modern Courtesans, Virtual Assistants Of Sex

  • It’s Constitutional

    Peck and Call Girls
    10 Aug 2014 | 2:14 am
    Why, I can’t help smiling at people, and speaking prettily to them. I know I’m no better than the rest of the world; but I can’t help it if I’m pleasanter. It’s constitutional. Mary Elizabeth Braddon, Lady Audley’s Secret
  • What’s Sexiest?

    Peck and Call Girls
    13 Jun 2014 | 8:17 pm
    There was a time when men thought it was sexy to have a housewife waiting for him to come home from work in her slippers, but in modern society, I think an independent woman is even more sexy. – Katerina Graham We would ask you which one was sexist to you — but then why choose? *wink*
  • The Full Return Of Secondhand Rose

    Peck and Call Girls
    4 Apr 2014 | 4:27 pm
    Those of you have been eagerly awaiting the return of Secondhand Rose and her new blog may rejoice! She’s just launched her new website, Ruined Boudoir. Stop by and say “Hi”, why don’t you?
  • New Digs!

    Peck and Call Girls
    19 Feb 2014 | 2:51 am
    As you likely noticed, we’re updating our website! We heard your requests for a site that would be easier to read, including on mobile devices, and true to our innermost desire to meet your needs, we’re working on it! To be notified when the site is completely updated (and to keep in the loop with other Peck & Call Girls news), please sign up for our new newsletter. Yes, we’ve also fixed the newsletter issues by finding a better newsletter service. If you had subscribed to the old newsletter, you will need to resubscribe. (Sorry about that extra step.) [wysija_form…
  • Voices

    Peck and Call Girls
    6 Dec 2013 | 8:24 am
    If you have a voice like that, you should listen to our voices instead.
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    Phone Sex Secrets

  • Phone Sex Operator Advertising Sale

    Phone Sex Secrets
    23 Aug 2014 | 10:16 am
    In order to give you a last chance bump this summer to build your PR etc. for the busy phone sex season ahead, I’ve decided to run a little sale on the Tumblr ads / promotion spaces. Actually, it’s a huge sale in terms of discount; just short in length of time. I suspect I […]
  • What Do I Think Of Phone Sex Platform TalkToMe?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    16 Aug 2014 | 6:32 pm
    I am often solicited to join other phone sex platform sites — if only just to try it out & review them here at Phone Sex Secrets. But why would I create an account, market myself etc., just to get a few callers to review the platform service? That’s a lot of work for a […]
  • TalkToMe’s Unfair & Unethical Attack On NiteFlirt

    Phone Sex Secrets
    13 Aug 2014 | 7:23 am
    Clearly trying to capitalize on NiteFlirt’s latest policy announcement , TalkToMe (TTM) sent an email alert of their own members, or at least to their PSOs (called “Talkers”), entitled Your Voice, Your Choice! [Normally, I modify the font -- but since they sent their email in comic sans (which is a much mocked and even […]
  • Is NiteFlirt Really Playing Fair With Their Latest Play Fair Linking Policy?

    Phone Sex Secrets
    10 Aug 2014 | 3:02 am
    In the August edition of NiteFlirt‘s FlirtBuzz newsletter, there was an update regarding Play Fair, the phone sex platform’s department which enforces the NiteFlirt Member Agreement and NiteFlirt’s policies. Along with encouraging Flirts (& other members) to bully and report their fellow phone sex operators (as if more of that was actually needed!), the important […]
  • PSO Help: Dealing With Negative Feedback, Ratings &/or Reviews

    Phone Sex Secrets
    4 Jul 2014 | 9:27 am
    After a few months of running the phone sex review site, some things have become quite clear: some phone sex operators don’t know how to properly handle less than glowing reviews. Just as you can make the most of your positive reviews, you can make a real mess out of less than favorable reviews. In […]
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    the ch!cktionary

  • Tienes un mensaje nuevo en tu bandeja de entrada

    11 Aug 2014 | 8:37 am
    Hola, Hay un mensaje sin leer de tu amigo/a esperando por ti. Haz click aquí para ver el mensaje: Saludos, El equipo de IQ Elite
  • It still feels like 2013 never really started. That’s...

    31 May 2013 | 1:18 pm
    It still feels like 2013 never really started. That’s probably a sign that I am still fucked up. Five months into the supposedly new year, the year my life is supposed to begin anew or something like that, and I have been living in standstill since I don’t even know when. Berlin is lovely and depending on who you ask, I have been waiting weeks, months, years to be here. Moving countries wasn’t a mistake, yet I can’t shake this persistent feeling that I have arrived too late to a party thrown in my honor. The perfectionistic side of me will not relent. She says I would have been…
  • The Saudi Marathon Man : The New Yorker

    17 Apr 2013 | 12:50 pm
    The Saudi Marathon Man : The New Yorker: A twenty-year-old man who had been watching the Boston Marathon had his body torn into by the force of a bomb. He wasn’t alone; a hundred and seventy-six people were injured and three were killed. But he was the only one who, while in the hospital being treated for his wounds, had his apartment searched in “a startling show of force,” as his fellow-tenants described it to the Boston Herald, with a “phalanx” of officers and agents and two K9 units. He was the one whose belongings were carried out in paper bags as his neighbors watched; whose…
  • Boston

    15 Apr 2013 | 1:51 pm
    I couldn’t get out of Boston soon enough when I was in the midst of leaving the country in January. I wanted nothing to do with the city any longer, and I felt like there was nothing left for me there. But of course there’s something I left behind, or I wouldn’t be this upset, this much of a wreck that I interrupted a family dinner to shove a smart phone in my boyfriend’s face. Surprisingly right now, I actually miss Boston. I even wish I were there. I feel something I didn’t think I was capable of feeling anymore. Homesickness. Powerlessness. I don’t know,…
  • I wanted to let you know that your blog has been a great source of comfort to me, though I've only popped in from time to time in the last few years. I was also socially ostracized in college (on a much smaller scale) when I was unhappy. Since then, I've felt that I'll never regain the confidence that I'd need to pursue my ambition of becoming an academic, a belief that my ideas could matter. Your passion and courage are so inspiring. They make me think I could be stronger, too.

    15 Apr 2013 | 9:19 am
    I think you’ve already demonstrated your strength by sharing this story (which I have been terribly tardy in responding to - my apologies). Hopefully, in writing me this message, you can recognize that the people who ostracized you were wrong in their actions and especially in their opinion. Your ideas DO matter. This note mattered to me, and I’m sure it will matter to someone else who is reading. I have been told many times that my work and writing are passionate and courageous, but if I am brave, it is only because I am continually humbled and inspired by others who have overcome far…
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    Sex Secrets

  • Which Sex Positions Help Prevent Premature Ejaculation?

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Aug 2014 | 2:00 am
    Control is the key when you want to last longer in bed. Being in control allows you to slow things down a bit when you need to cool down. Knowing which sex positions provide the most and least stimulation will allow you to vary your sexual repertoire so you can treat yourself and your partner Continue reading →(Visited 40 times, 8 visits today)
  • A 100-Year-Old Sex Therapist Explains Why Millennials Aren’t Orgasming

    Svetlana Ivanova
    26 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex therapist Shirley Zussman reveals the most common problem with modern sexual relationships. TIME sat down recently with 100-year-old sex therapist Shirley Zussman to discuss what has changed about sex over the past millennium. She is warm, fuzzy, and wonderful and clearly knows her shit. “There’s so much less actual physical connection, so much less Continue reading →(Visited 37 times, 1 visits today)
  • 8 Surprising Ways Sex Keeps You Healthy

    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 Aug 2014 | 3:00 am
    Is sex the key to good health? Sylvia Booth Hubbard reveals eight surprising ways sex keeps you healthy. “Sex is a part of nature,” said screen legend Marilyn Monroe. “I go along with nature.” Marilyn may not have known it, but nature made sure to provide some spectacular health benefits to having sex — just Continue reading →(Visited 51 times, 1 visits today)
  • What Is the Link Between Penis Size and Great Sex?

    Svetlana Ivanova
    21 Aug 2014 | 12:00 am
    You’ve probably heard women say that penis size doesn’t matter and that it’s what you do with it that counts, but is there any truth in this? Is there any link between the size of a man’s penis and great sex? The problem with this claim is that it flies in the face of what Continue reading →(Visited 248 times, 1 visits today)
  • 5 Tips to Spice Up Married Sex

    Svetlana Ivanova
    19 Aug 2014 | 2:00 am
    If your married sex life has become ho-hum, Fawn Weaver suggests five ways to get the sexy back. Have you heard the rumor that sex in marriage is boring? Well, that’s not the case in my 11-year marriage, and it doesn’t have to be for yours either. One of the beautiful things about being with Continue reading →(Visited 96 times, 4 visits today)
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  • Born to be wild

    Molly Moore
    27 Aug 2014 | 8:09 am
    Never pick a wild flower You rape her of her beauty When severed from her roots She flourishes in her habitat Bound to her place Free to blossom And grow Wild UberKinky Hempex Synthetic Hemp Bondage Rope supplied to me free of charge in exchange for using it in my images.   Related Posts: Sit…
  • A Postcard from Brighton

    Molly Moore
    23 Aug 2014 | 3:43 pm
    Twenty something years ago I lived in Brighton. This town is full of memories for me from a time when I was just starting out in the world. I felt so grown up here, away from home for the first time in my life, free to be my own self, make my own rules, be…
  • Guts and Grit

    Molly Moore
    19 Aug 2014 | 5:29 pm
    This weeks prompt on Wicked Wednesday was written by me and was inspired by the fact that yesterday (Tuesday 29th August) was World Photo Day. I gave a varied selection of possible ideas for this prompt but I have decided to ignore all them mainly because we are currently having a mini vacation in Brighton…
  • 3rd Base

    Molly Moore
    16 Aug 2014 | 1:44 pm
    Today is our 3rd wedding anniversary The traditional gift for 3 years is leather and so I used that as an excuse to buy him a knife…. in my defense it does come with its own beautiful leather pouch To @domsigns I give you this knife as a token of our kinky love. I look…
  • Elust 61

    Molly Moore
    15 Aug 2014 | 9:28 am
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with…
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    Justine Cross

  • The Best is Coming Throught the Southwest Again!

    Ms. Justine
    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    The Southwest is my guilty pleasure. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? I am starting in Dallas–it’s my first time there, so please give me a warm Texas welcome! Then to Houston, where I already have a few eager regulars waiting for me. Finally, I am ending in one of my favorite cities, New Orleans. So if you missed me earlier, you can catch up with me in NOLA. For the first time, I will also be offering double sessions with Mistress…
  • Naughty Circus at Dungeon West

    Ms. Justine
    21 Aug 2014 | 9:15 am
    Epic. Fucking. Party. What didn’t happen would be shorter to describe this amazing night! Sienna Sinclaire, Hostess and Organizer of Naughty Guide to Los Angeles on Meet-up, out did herself for throwing an amazing party. Dungeon West was decorated and decked out like a circus! I was decked out in a Syren latex corset and thong with custom latex kitty ears by Jane Doe Latex. Meow! Sienna Sinclaire as sexy Snake Charmer and myself as a wild cat with a single tail.Food: hot dogs, popcorn, cotton candy, cracker jacks, animal crackers and candy.Body PainterWacko the MagicianSexy Bartenders…
  • Couples Corner – Interview

    Ms. Justine
    18 Aug 2014 | 4:55 am
    I was thrilled to be interviewed by a website catering to couples and fetish/BDSM retail, Couples Corner. Read an excerpt of the interview below: 9] What issues arise with couples training? I try to make sure that everyone is on the same page in terms of expectations, desires and limits so I always talk to everyone on the phone at the same time–there can be no unpleasant surprises. My protocol is to go over all these things again before beginning the session. I find most couples really excited to see me–they really want to learn the “right way” to do things the way an…
  • Kneel Before Your Goddess – Interview

    Ms. Justine
    8 Aug 2014 | 8:25 am
    I was flattered to be interviewed for a male sub’s blog, Kneel Before Your Goddess. Here is an excerpt: sbs: Can you explain what makes a man want to be a slave? What motivates them to spoil you as they do so easily and hand over absolute control to you? MJC: Haha, I do not think I will ever know what makes a man a slave anymore than anyone else will ever know nor what makes me want to be a Domme. However, I can tell you that slaves spoil me and hand over control for several reasons: * Trust – I do everything I can to establish a trusting relationship with a client. I go over…
  • Fetish Dinner Party

    Ms. Justine
    1 Aug 2014 | 9:30 am
    Hot Hostesses Sienna Sinclaire and Mistress Justine Cross What better place to host a fetish dinner party than at My private Los Angeles dungeon, Dungeon West? Sienna Sinclaire hosted an elegant Fetish Dinner Party for her meet-up group, Naughty Guide to Los Angeles. This event was a sit down dinner with a 3-course meal and chef a prepared the food for us. Everyone came dressed in their best fetish attire and brought a slave (if they had one)! This event was perfect for anyone who was looking for something kinky or just wanted to observe (be a naughty voyeur). Slaves served dinner with fetish…
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  • 7 Reasons Why “Secretary” Is 100% Better Than “50 Shades of Grey”

    Devany Wolfe
    27 Aug 2014 | 11:02 am
    By now we’re all probably at least peripherally familiar with the trio of smutty books by E. L. James featuring innocent Ana and smoldering Christian Grey. As a lover of erotica, I ate these books right up, despite the fact that they were pretty ridiculous. If you’re planning on seeing the movie when it comes out, I highly recommend seeing what could be called its predecessor, Secretary, which came out in 2002first – and these are the reasons why. 1. Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader have the most intense chemistry. They are both quirky, awkward and you can almost cut the…
  • 5 Signs He’s into You

    Devany Wolfe
    3 Jun 2014 | 5:45 am
    If a guy is into you, there are several ways to tell. Unlike women, most men are more open and obvious about their interests, so if you are paying attention, it is easy to spot a blooming romance. Here are 5 signs he’s into you. 1. If you’ve just met him, do you find that he looks at you often while you’re with your group of friends? He’s not just trying to catch a peek at you, but he’s trying to gauge what you find funny, interesting, what you laugh at – he’s analyzing what you’re taking part in socially. He wants to get to know you better so…
  • Why Spring Cleanses Are Important

    Devany Wolfe
    10 Apr 2014 | 7:07 pm
    After a long, dark winter, there’s nothing better than feeling the warm sunshine and seeing the grass emerge from beneath the snow. Everything is being rejuvenated – and it’s important to give our bodies the same cleaning as we do our houses, our cars and our wardrobes.   Why? Because most of us, if we live in cold climates, are eating a lot of heavy, carb-dense,  fatty foods for six months in order to keep warm. It is the body’s instinct, after all. Even as far as winter vegetables go – most seasonal fare comes from the root and is very starchy.   Transitional…
  • Sexting – A modern day seduction

    Devany Wolfe
    17 Mar 2014 | 9:26 am
    “The numbers that survive in my phone don’t belong to those boys and men who were best at fucking me, but the ones who were, and are, best at telling me how—and why, and where, and also in which places—they would fuck me. I know where my priorities lie; here is where they tell the truth. Good sex is a miraculously dependent and alchemic performance, never with one author. It could take more than two, but never fewer. Good sexting, though, is an uncommon skill, almost concrete, not improved by lighting or blood alcohol content or desperate circumstances or any other measures. It is…
  • How To Optimize Your Dating Profile Like an Online Marketer

    CT Moore
    6 Feb 2014 | 11:53 am
    Getting people to go to websites and then do stuff (buy something, sign up for something, or whatever) is what I do for a living. I’ve been doing for almost a decade, and I’ve gotten pretty good at it. Part of it is making sure that a website doesn’t suck, part of it is making sure that the people you’re sending to said website are the right kinds of people (us marketers call them “targeted users” or “qualified leads”), and part of it is having a whole bag of tricks to use when needed. I know, right! So when I started online dating a couple…
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  • Elust #61

    15 Aug 2014 | 8:11 am
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His &…
  • Elust #61 Open for Submissions

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:11 am
    Elust #61 Open for Submissions Welcome to the August Edition of Elust. Our dear friends from Google (and other freemail providers) have decided to make life more difficult for us in their never ending war on Spam. In spite of the fact that all the email from Elust is an opt in system they have marked us as Spam. We have moved to a domain name based email system and a different hosting server to attempt to address this issue. If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You…
  • Elust #60

    15 Jul 2014 | 8:44 am
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck…
  • Elust #60 Open for Submissions

    1 Jul 2014 | 1:43 am
    Elust #60 Open for Submissions For Americans this is the month to celebrate their independence, for the rest of us it is time to watch the World Cup, or, maybe take some time and come together in a big sweaty writhing heap of smutty writing and unite in a new edition of Elust! We do hope you like the new site design and we have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers…
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    Hey Epiphora

  • Giveaway: the great Mona summer party!

    1 Aug 2014 | 3:12 pm
    Put on your sunhats, make your best lemonade, and fill up the pool, because the time has come for the greatest party of the summer. It involves ORGASMS. This is the party I’ve been wanting to throw ever since I fell in love with the LELO Mona 2 vibrator years ago. I am bringing Mona to the masses and giving away ten of them, thanks to the amazing generosity of LELO. Not only is the Mona 2 the best vibrator on earth, but this giveaway is open to everyone on earth. Yes, my dear international readers! You too! The Mona 2 is a deceptively simple-looking toy, but it succeeds…
  • Of houses and stone eggs

    30 Jul 2014 | 1:29 pm
    The stone egg of my dreams showed up at work the other day. I’ve been waiting patiently for it, ogling the eggs with each new shipment. But I knew this egg was the one the moment I laid eyes on it. Buying a house is not like that. No matter what those delusional (and/or extremely lucky) people say, you will not know a house is “the one” when you see it. You will not be filled with immense, undeniable joy. You will, instead, look around, nod, and say, “yeah, this could work.” Then spend the next week wondering if you’ve made a grave error in submitting an…
  • Hell Yes: kGoal

    21 Jul 2014 | 8:45 pm
    Everyone pause and bask in this moment. I have found a sex toy crowdfunding campaign that isn’t shitty. It’s a squeezable silicone bulb — er, they’re calling it a pillow — that measures the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles, and it’s called the kGoal (get it? Sounds like “kegel”? If you pronounce “kegel” that way?). It charges via USB and wirelessly communicates with an app on your phone, which serves up your exercise history, suggested workouts, and “max squeeze.” I see a community scoreboard coming on. As added…
  • The girl I call Aerie

    12 Jul 2014 | 1:38 am
    She greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites, with green pipe cleaner stems. On the romance scale, this may surpass the CD that my boyfriend made for one of our anniversaries which included a Tegan & Sara cover and 5 minutes of our cat purring into a microphone. - – - Aerie lives in a swanky condo on the third level. It has sparkling wooden floors, kitchen appliances that beep at you if you don’t do their bidding, and best of all, air conditioning. We make delicious coffee in the morning with a hand grinder and…
  • I’m teaching a class!

    25 Jun 2014 | 11:39 am
    Ever since I started speaking on panels with other lovely industry peeps, I’ve been energized to spread the gospel of the sex blog further and wider. This September, I will be doing just that in the form of my first ever online class, taught alongside the unsinkable Lauren Marie Fleming. Lauren is one of the finest people I’ve become friends in recent years. She has a really exceptional brain and enviable drive for what she does. She’s also a big deal: when I was eating a burrito at a food cart pod with her mere days ago, someone came up to us and said, “e-e-excuse…
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  • poly: the nuts and bolts

    24 Aug 2014 | 11:17 am
    In summary, this month:Polyamory is a lot more widespread than many think.Some form of it is practiced by about a quarter of heterosexual and lesbian couples and about 2/3rds of gay male couples.Polyphobia shames poly-oriented individuals to cheat on their partners instead of being honest about their sexual orientation.This is in part the fault of the upstanding polyphobes in Hollywood.Despite it being a normal part of nature and human nature, multi-partner union remains illegal nearly everywhere, and multi-partner attraction continues to be vilified nearly everywhere.Poly aversion therapy is…
  • touching, stunt porn, and nasty: august- e[lust] 61

    22 Aug 2014 | 3:09 pm
    Photo courtesy of Maria opens up Welcome to Elust #61 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His &…
  • how to become poly

    17 Aug 2014 | 12:47 pm
    “How do you do it?”How do I do what?“When you’re seeing a girl, how do you keep from falling madly in love with her?”I do fall madly in love with her.“So then you stop seeing other girls?”No, because I’m also madly in love with them.***I get asked this regularly.“I wanna be single, but I keep falling in love. How do you keep yourself from falling in love with just one person?”How does grass grow.How are gay men attracted to men.The answer is: you don’t do ‘it.’ There is no ‘it’ to do.You…
  • polyphobia: the new homophobia

    10 Aug 2014 | 10:43 am
    or The Other WomanLying is wrong.And bullying, assaulting, and humiliating someone because of his/her sexual orientation is worse.When you give regular, timid humans the choice between 1) coming out of their socially-unacceptable closet to face the public opinion monster and, 2) lying,They will probably choose lying.It doesn’t make lying any less wrong, but in that context, it certainly makes it more understandable.I don’t agree with cheating, but look at the context. -It’s a common movie trope where the girl finds out about her husband’s poly orientation, which he has…
  • polyphobia awareness month

    3 Aug 2014 | 12:54 pm
    polyphobia – definition: An extreme and irrational aversion, fear of or antipathy toward polyamory or polyamorists.A polyphobe is someone who hates or fears polyamorists or treats them badly.This month, let’s turn our attention to our own fear of or aversion toward the polyamorous people in our life, or the polyamorous side of our own self. Let’s see if we can make a little progress toward clearing up the centuries of hatred and misguided fear that society has directed toward people who love more than one person.Polyamorists are beautiful, loving, honest people and…
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  • Beautiful Domina for obedient slaves

    26 Aug 2014 | 4:00 am
    Before you visit Mistress Monica: Open your mind .. empty your thoughts and say this outloud : My kink drawer will be open, I will enjoy my spankings and look forward to obeying every command Miss... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
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    20 May 2014 | 2:51 pm
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  • Webcam BDSM chat with Mistress Sandra

    10 May 2014 | 3:20 pm
    I am mistress Sandra. Enticing, beautiful, powerful and strict. The gorgeous curves that lead down from my round hips, to long sinewy legs and my pretty arched feet could be a version of heaven.The... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
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    4 May 2014 | 1:44 am
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  • Let`s play a little game called Hellen....BDSM restricted

    21 Apr 2014 | 2:28 pm
    Take a look at the strict,no nonsense Online Mistress above.  She is the hardest,mos severe Mistress you will ever have the priviledge of serving. Submitting to a femdom webcam session with... Visit My new post ! BDSM and Fetish Resources are waiting for you! Check it Now!
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    Being Blacksilk

  • Flappers, Jazz and Valentino

    21 Aug 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Flappers, Jazz and Valentino appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ As you may already have heard if you follow me on Twitter, I’ve been published again! Hurrah! This marks the sixth time that’s happened, which I’m pretty certain makes me officially addicted. The book in question is Flappers, Jazz and Valentino, edited by my friend Jillian Boyd who is amazing. It’s an anthology of erotica set in and inspired by the 1920s, which is one of my favourite decades. Here’s the blurb: Step back in time to a decade full of glamour, glitz and decadent sin with…
  • Seawank

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Seawank appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Good news, everyone! Not only are you now reading this in Professor Farnsworth‘s voice, but also my computer is working again! You may not have realised that it wasn’t working, but of course it’s hard to tell you on here that I can’t really make any blog posts when I can’t really make any blog posts. Sure, technically I could blog from my phone, but ew, no. Anyway, I’m back, though honestly still likely to be intermittent as this summer has really caught me in a hands-off sort of mood. Although,…
  • Nerding Out

    8 Jun 2014 | 1:29 am
    This post Nerding Out appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Have I mentioned how much I love phone cameras? Man, I love phone cameras. It’s amazing how you can get quite decent and quite sexy shots without needing, or certainly getting, professional quality. I don’t know about you, but I grew up with dial-up, so I’m used to my porn not being the most HD you can get. Like my recent Very Short Stories, it’s all about fitting blogging in where I can at the moment. Time is at a premium. In any case, here are some hopefully sexy, and yet everyday, photos of yours truly…
  • Very Short Stories – Take Me

    6 Jun 2014 | 8:17 am
    This post Very Short Stories – Take Me appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ It’s time for another of my Very Short Stories! If you haven’t read any of mine yet, I encourage you to go and check out Covered in Cream, Prometheus, If We Hadn’t Had Sex and The Quoit, if you have time. And they each fit on a single Post-It note, so I’m thinking you definitely have time. And since we’ve established that time is a thing you have, here’s another one! Just in case you can’t (or don’t want to) read my handwriting: I’m too wise to give myself…
  • My Writing Process

    12 May 2014 | 3:19 pm
    This post My Writing Process appeared first on Being Blacksilk. I’ve been tagged in a meme-style thing that’s going around at the moment by SheBoppin. And it was really fun to do! I definitely enjoyed writing about writing, even if my writing at the moment is a bit different to how it might be normally. I believe I’m supposed to tag people at the end to carry on the meme, but frankly I’ve no idea who hasn’t already done one and I’ve also always hated singling people out for stuff like this in case I leave someone out and upset them. So, if you’re…
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    Home for Wayward Sluts

  • Bettie Page Invents the Modern Bikini

    25 Aug 2014 | 10:10 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page and the Camera Clubs]Bettie Page was completely unsatisfied with the 'unflattering swimwear' of her day. It was just 1950 and they would advertise awful things like swimsuits with built in girdles. So Bettie Page turned her high intelligence into crafting a series of unforgettable bikinis.  She invented the string bikini and numerous other bikini designs because she wanted to wear bikinis that she felt sexy in.The results helped propel her to become a pin up legend and a sex symbol. Unfortunately, inventing the design of the modern bikini is rarely credited to…
  • Bettie Page and the Camera Clubs

    20 Aug 2014 | 11:24 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page Starts Modelling]Bettie Page discovered that she loved modelling and felt alive in front of the camera. She'd wanted to model by had be shot down by the top modelling agency. So when she was approached by Art Amsie who was a member of a camera club, she was intrigued. You see, a camera club was a group of amateur photographers who couldn't really afford to hire models but would pool their funds and hire a model as a group. Well, Bettie was hooked and so were the camera club members!The camera clubs would consist of 30-40 members and 3-4 models who would take…
  • Bettie Page Starts Modelling

    18 Aug 2014 | 8:35 pm
    [Continued from Bettie Page: The Early Years]Bettie Page had practiced doing modelling poses for years with her sisters and had always dreamed of being a model since she was very young.  So when the recently divorced Bettie Page divorced her husband and went to New York it was finally time for Bettie to chase down that dream.Bettie Page started off trying to become a traditional fashion model. She went straight to the top and talked to Ford Models in New York.  They rejected her because back then you had to be at least 5'7 to be a model (it's now 5'10) and Bettie was only 5'5. Also,…
  • Bettie Page: the Early Years

    15 Aug 2014 | 3:55 pm
    This is a post on the early years of pin up legend Bettie Page (continued from this article).Bettie Page  (also commonly spelled Betty Page, Bettie Paige or Betty Paige) was born Bettie Mae Page on April 22, 1923 with long jet black hair with bangs (known as Bettie Page bangs to some) and the face of an angel. I've seen some of her legal documents and her name is spelled Bettie Page on them so I am going with that as the official spelling.  She grew up poor in Nashville, Tennessee living on "beans, fried potatoes and macaroni."  She was 1 of 7 children with 2 older…
  • Bettie Page: Queen of Pin Ups

    13 Aug 2014 | 10:34 pm
    A woman who has been an inspiration to me for years has been Bettie Page. So I'm going to tell you a bit about this 1950's pinup queen and why she is so damn awesome...and why she disappeared at her peak. And she really is awesome. She's the perfect mix of the innocent girl next door crossed with a fiery sexkitten: she is  shy yet daring, pure while being naughty.  And above all else, she's charismatic. (I have included a movie trailer of Bettie Page down below so you can see her moving...which she does so well.)  This is a woman who took the art of burlesque to it's highest…
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  • Do you want to have a truthful conversation? Get drunk!

    23 Aug 2014 | 6:26 am
    We all know that we behave differently and express ourselves differently when we are drunk. Often we even use intoxication as an excuse for our behavior. Something like “I am so sorry, I didn’t want to have sex with her, but I was so drunk” or “I really don’t think your mother is a stupid bitch it was just something I said because I was drunk”. The question is whether being drunk is a valid excuse. Do we actually say or do things we didn’t really want to when we are drunk? A group of scientist have investigated this and their conclusion is clear: No, we can’t use being drunk…
  • The sexual behavior of men and women is not that different

    17 Aug 2014 | 11:56 am
    We have quit different expectations to men and women with regard to sexual behavior. Men in general are expected to be more active and women to be non-promiscuous. Men who doesn’t comply to the expectations can feel they are less masculine and women can feel pressured in to a submissive role that ultimately constrains their sexual functioning. Women who express a sexuality that is similar to what is normally expected of men can easily be stigmatized and called sluts and the like. Stigmatization based on your sexuality can be very damaging for your life. Studies find that people who feel…
  • Different types of casual sex

    12 Aug 2014 | 10:58 am
    In the recent year’s casual sex has become more widespread in particular among college students. We have seen many new expressions for casual sex and new ways of participating in casual sex. There seem to be four main types: One-night-stand. You meet someone typically in a nightclub and you decide to have sex and never see each other again. Booty call. You have an acquaintance you can call if you impulsively want to have sex and you only meet them for sex. Fuck Buddy. You have a friend who you also have sex with from time to time. Friends with benefits. You have a friend who you see on a…
  • Sexual desire across your life span

    5 Aug 2014 | 12:24 pm
    Sexual desire changes during life for both men and women. However, there are differences between the sexes. Men Almost all men younger than 50 are sexually active. After the age of 50 about 25% are fully active, 30% are partially active and 45% are not active at all. When men pass the age of 60 none are fully active. The number of men, who have no sexually activity increases from 20% in their fifties, to 69% in their sixties and to 86% in their seventies. Women For women, all who are younger than 40, are sexually active. In the forties, only 16% are fully sexually active and 14% are not…
  • Sexual desire – the difference between the sexes

    17 Jul 2014 | 3:34 am
    Men and women have different expectations when it comes to sex and relationships. This has been the subject of a Norwegian study among students. In a relationship Single men and women both seek long-term partners and there is no difference between the sexes in their wish for a long-term relationship. The differences occurs when it comes to sex in the relationship. Men in long-term relationships take the initiative to sex more often than their female partners and they are less satisfied with the frequency of sex than their female partners are. Casual sex Men seek short-term partners to a…
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    20 Aug 2014 | 8:15 am
    Photo courtesy of Property Of Potter Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition. CONTESTS Can’t Get Enough…

    9 Aug 2014 | 8:18 am
    Picobong Moka spiked my curiosity when I first saw it. My mind was immediately like: “OMG! A VIBRATING LELO ELLA?! Deal! It’s mine!” But when I noticed that it required two AAA batteries to operate, my brain shoved the Moka out of my memory, and I carried on with my life. I mean… There’s no way that a toy requiring AAA battery was going to be powerful or rumbly or even feel good, right? But I was wrong. The Moka actually feels very good. So good, in fact, that I love it more than I love the Ella. The Moka is like the ultimate evolution of it – the shape is better, the curve…

    26 Jul 2014 | 4:52 am
    It took me eight months, eight freaking months to conquer the Comet Wand. My vagina is finally becoming a boss, but damn did it take a lot of crying, bruised vagina, and courage. It was somewhere in August 2013 when the Comet Wand entered Sextopia. Back then, the Comet Wand and I just didn’t click. I hated it: I hated how it made my body felt, I hated how it made me scared, and I hated how it made my body react. If I had published my review back then, I would have trashed it. It just didn’t work for me. The number of times I curled into a ball in tears and the number of times I just…

    17 Jul 2014 | 8:47 am
    I changed Doxy Massager Wand’s name to Doxy the Clown. I can’t help it. It keeps fooling me – from the moment it was born to the moment I received it, and until the moment I started using it. But our relationship isn’t pure hatred either. It’s more complicated than that. First, Doxy Massager has been marketed as THE world’s MOST powerful wand massager. Is it true? Well, if your opinion is only based on the number of Rotations Per Minute (RPM), which, on the highest speed, is approximately 9000 RPM 1, then I guess this is quite true. However, you’re a fool if you base your…

    23 Jun 2014 | 8:23 am
    Three minutes. That’s how long Shibari Halo Wand took to make me orgasm. Three tiny little minutes. If you’ve been sticking with me for long enough, you’d know that it takes me bazillion of years to just have one freaking orgasm. Three minutes is a world record for me. And I’m surprised a wand was able to make me orgasm like this. I mean, my first wand, which I bought, was shitty as hell. It broke my heart, brought me to depression, and it made me lose all hope and interest for wands. That’s why I stopped them from entering Sextopia – I was just not into wands anymore. Halo…
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  • Sexual Education - 3 Steps to Sexual Success

    Anida Leeds
    25 Aug 2014 | 12:17 pm
    Summer is coming to an end and you need that last bit of advice before the crazy daze of college are here. We put together 3 steps to help fulfill your sexual desire. Follow these steps and you are sure to succeed. Step 1 - About Penis Size It’s a common misconception, and widely held fear, that large penises rule the world of sexual happiness. In the reality of biology, 90% of erect penises measure 5-7 inches in length, and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're concerned that your penis is too small, you can rest assured that you are in good company. In a land led by Texans, our media and…
  • 10 Life Hacks for Better Sex

    Anida Leeds
    11 Aug 2014 | 11:57 am
    Life hacks are everywhere. There are hacks on folding your shirts, hanging up dry clothes, etc. Those are all fine and dandy but the life hacks I enjoy are the sexual life hacks. Bellow are 10 to get you started, have your own? Let us know in the comments bellow. 1. Headphones and blindfold during oral sex. - Before going down, put on some music and put the headphones on her. Blindfold her or cover her eyes with a towel. Try turning off all the lights if its dark and keep the music going. The sensory deprivation magnifies the sensations she feels as you pleasure her. 2. It’s all about the…
  • Want Your Own Red Room of Pain?

    Anida Leeds
    28 Jul 2014 | 8:51 am
    The clock is ticking and this Valentines Day the 50 Shades of Grey movie will be released. Will you be ready? Restraints... Check! Nipple Clamps... Check! Pleasure Balls... Check! Leather... Check! Even if you haven't read the books yet we got you covered. Do you want to have your own red room just like Christian has? Here are some of the items you need to get that started. Delicious Pleasure Silicone Pleasure BallsToning and pleasuring your body in unison, these official Fifty Shades of Grey silver balls wriggle and jiggle inside you. Massaging your G-spot with expert skill, Delicious…
  • Bondage isn't all whips, chains and medieval torture. Or is it?

    Anida Leeds
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:34 pm
    "Bondage" covers a very wide spectrum of sex acts, and can mean something different to every person. Whatever it is, as long as you both agree on the boundaries, anything goes. From the tame to the extreme. We are all curios about this subject from one level to another, or you wouldn't be reading right now, so let’s get started. Safety First - Although it's often more tempting to play sex games when you're feeling a bit tipsy, it's best not to try bondage when you're under the influence alcohol or drugs, as you might misjudge how tightly to tie the knots. Make sure that you keep a pair of…
  • School Is Back In Session.

    Lady Guinevere
    25 Jun 2014 | 11:01 am
    School might be out for summer, but we have some exciting tips to teach you. We put our minds to work and came up with two of the most exciting and uninformed parts of a man and women. The clitoris (women) and prostate gland (men), both unique in their own ways but similar too. The Clitoris The clitoris is often the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. The clitoris, like the head of the penis, contains numerous concentrated bundles of nerve endings that respond gratifyingly to touch and other types of stimulation. Recent research has shown that the sensitive clitoral tissue is…
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  • How to Handle Her Breast Like a Real Stallion

    James Buzinko
    22 Aug 2014 | 1:19 pm
    How much do you really know about her bosom? As a man, we often stare at “twins” each lady has and daydream about them all day, but we don’t know much besides that we like the way they look. When you are handling her breasts, it is possible to make every last touch count and really get […]
  • 6 Kamasutra Books Worth Having In Your Library

    James Buzinko
    22 Aug 2014 | 8:25 am
    Sex is the essence of our existence. When you have intercourse, it is important to make it as fun and pleasure-filled as possible. There are many ways to do this, and tantric secrets have been passed down from one generation to the next. If you think you know every exotic position or way to make […]
  • 10+ Shocking Facts About Men and Their Sex Life

    James Buzinko
    22 Aug 2014 | 7:23 am
    Ever wondered how big the average penis is, or how long men really last in bed? There are without a doubt many myths circulating between guys about these issues. Therefore, I have decided to create an article dealing with some of the most disputable details from male sex health issue. These 10+ interesting facts will shock […]
  • The Best Pussy Pump Guide You Need To Read Today

    James Buzinko
    21 Aug 2014 | 10:35 am
    When it comes to sex toys, nothing is off limits. Just as men, women nowadays can enhance sensations with a vacuum pussy pump. The hand-pumping action of these devices engorges and swells up the labia, increasing sensitivity and making intercourse even more pleasurable. The question is – why to do this in the first place? In this guide, we’ll […]
  • All You Need To Know About Cock Rings

    James Buzinko
    21 Aug 2014 | 9:36 am
    Getting the utmost pleasure out of sex is something that every man wants. Whether you want to increase your own satisfaction or hers, cock rings can help. Not only are these inexpensive additions to your love life, they are comfortable and stimulate all of the right points to ensure a hard, enjoyable orgasm each and every time […]
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  • Vagina So Hot You Can Cook On It

    Jane Jameson
    29 Aug 2014 | 7:06 am
    FREDRICKSBERG, GEORGIA A Georgia woman has a special talent that is literally “lighting up” her local dungeon. Beth Markle, 24, has a vagina that is capable of spontaneous combustion. “It started around puberty and I didn’t really think much of it.  I had always heard guys talking about how ‘hot’ girls were, so I assumed they were talking about how long it took them to make their vaginas burst into flames.” The talent has caused more than a few accidents, as the 24 year old submissive can have trouble controlling things when she gets excited.
  • Local Author Plans to “Get Rich” Writing BDSM Fiction

    Lazlo Toth
    28 Aug 2014 | 7:28 am
    NEW YORK, WISCONSIN Ted “Chugger” Cormick, 25, has announced his plans to write the “next 50 Shades of Grey.” Cormick told The Daily Flogger he was unimpressed by the novel, with its shallow characters and poor writing. “I think I could do better, maybe like 10% better and if that book sold 100 million copies, I think I could sell like ten percent more than that, which is like, well it’s more than 100 million.” Cormick, who got his nickname from an uncanny ability to ingest enormous quantities of Mountain Dew soda, said he has very limited experience…
  • Man Mocked for Rope Bondage; “So Last Year”

    Lazlo Toth
    27 Aug 2014 | 7:22 am
    PEORIA, MICHIGAN A Michigan rigger is the subject of mocking and ridicule this week after performing a tie known as the “futomomo suspension.” “He might as well have been doing a yoko,” RiggerP told The Daily Flogger, “nobody who is anybody is doing that one anymore either.” The “futomomo,” a tie in which the bottom is suspended by a single thigh, enjoyed enormous popularity throughout most of 2013 and into 2014 but has been replaced by the “teppo” or “rifle tie,” experts told us. “You gotta keep up,” said…
  • Submissive Woman Teaches “Mind Reading” Class

    Lazlo Toth
    26 Aug 2014 | 7:03 am
    GREAT NECK, MICHIGAN Submissive Sofie Bork, 47, is offering a new class in her local BDSM community called “Mind Reading for the Submissive Female.” The class, which runs less than an hour, purports to teach any submissive how to “read the mind of their master or mistress.” According to Bork, the formula for pleasing a male dominant is simple.  “It all comes down to one word,” she told The Daily Flogger, “blowjob.  There is almost no dispute that can’t be settled, argument resolved, or issue straightened out, simply by wrapping your lips…
  • Phunny Fotos: A Bear Ass Cropping

    Lazlo Toth
    25 Aug 2014 | 7:10 am
    Photo credit: Athenos The post Phunny Fotos: A Bear Ass Cropping appeared first on The Daily Flogger.
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  • Sperm Count and Sperm Motility: Why You Should Care

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    29 Aug 2014 | 6:07 am
    Why should you care about the levels for sperm count and sperm motility? Find out what these numbers mean and the importance of each measurement. The post Sperm Count and Sperm Motility: Why You Should Care appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • My Big, Fat, Mixed-Orientation Marriage

    Guest Author
    26 Aug 2014 | 9:46 am
    There are an estimated 2 to 3 million spouses who have lived or who are living in a mixed orientation marriage. James Chapman shares a short summary of his mixed-orientation marriage journey and book with you in this post. The post My Big, Fat, Mixed-Orientation Marriage appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • The Very First Pre-Seed Baby

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    22 Aug 2014 | 8:20 am
    These awesome Pre-Seed onesies made me think of my favorite TTC success stories. Of course, my all time fav is right next to me in this picture. But here's another story that has always stood out for me: The post The Very First Pre-Seed Baby appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Menopause Meltdown & My Movie Making

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    21 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    When I was a featured Scientist in the National Geographic documentary “The Great Sperm Race” I was in full menopause meltdown, but I didn’t know it. I thought I had just lost my mind. The post Menopause Meltdown & My Movie Making appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Breastfeeding and Sex Can Co-Exist

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    19 Aug 2014 | 7:00 am
    Most of us love having the giant full breasts of a nursing mom, but milk leakage is part of it! Find out how breastfeeding and sex can co-exist. The post Breastfeeding and Sex Can Co-Exist appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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