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  • Erotic Being versus Erotic Doing

    Emancipating Sexuality
    Pavini Moray
    24 Feb 2015 | 10:43 am
    I’m lying on my bed, legs spread, my lover’s mouth on my junk. And I’m not doing anything. Not tensing, not thrusting, not helping, not wiggling, not desiring. I am simply being, while my body is stimulated and pleasured. The sensation is exquisite. The pleasure builds and builds. As it builds, I feel each tiny […]
  • 5 Ways to Keep Long Distance Relationships Sexy

    MyPleasure Blog:
    14 Jul 2015 | 9:30 am
    Long distance relationships are tough on relationships, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be done successfully. If both parties are committed to each other and are willing to put the time and effort needed for the relationship to thrive when one is hundreds (or thousands) of miles away, a long distance relationship can work out better than those see each other every day. One of the biggest downfalls of long distance relationships is that loss of real intimacy since you can’t physically touch them to give them a huge, kiss, snuggle or more. However, with a creative mind and a whole lot of…
  • See you on Instagram

    25 Jul 2015 | 3:20 am
    I have a jumble of feelings as I get ready to fly to Thailand for a much-needed vacation, even though I haven't finished all the work I needed to (thank you, upcoming 21 hours of travel). Excitement, fear, guilt, missing my boyfriend even though I haven't quite left yet. This week kicked my ass in all kinds of ways, but even though I didn't do everything I wanted to, I wrote more than I ever have in my life, filing 23 pieces, pushing myself in ways I didn't think I was capable. I decided to take this trip in part to visit one of my oldest friends, and partly because my dearest hope in the…
  • Best Tips To Build Your Sexual Confidence

    Senses Private Club
    Senses Private Club
    20 Jul 2015 | 1:55 am
    So you feel the need to build your sexual confidence a bit? Think back to the last time you had a woman screaming out and gasping your name in satisfied exhaustion. What was the key? What was it that caused you to be able to let go enough to make her tell her friends about […] The post Best Tips To Build Your Sexual Confidence appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Scientists Think They’ve Figured Out What Makes a Penis Attractive

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Scientists think that they have finally figured out what makes a penis attractive to women. A paper released yesterday in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reveals the results of an experiment designed to figure out what kinds of dicks women (though not men for some reason) like to look at. The experiment, which was intended Continue reading →(Visited 33 times, 1 visits today)
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  • Vaginal cyst, ingrown hair or hpv? Please help Im desperate - picture

    27 Jul 2015 | 4:55 pm
    I have recently started dating my boyfriend and we both got blood work done which came out negative so we have decided to not use condoms since I have a nexplanon implant. Last time we had intercourse was 3 weeks ago and I've noticed a small cyst looking bump by my outer labia. I'm used to ingrown hairs so I popped it, however it didn't go away. Today as I was checking in the mirror I've noticed another cyst looking bump by my inner labia which is terrifying me. Both of them popped and a bit of liquid/pus came out. Should I be concerned? They are not painful to squeeze.
  • Irritation and (barely) itchy vagina?

    27 Jul 2015 | 3:58 pm
    I don't think it's a yeast infection, I've had one before and it doesn't feel the same... (I'm not 100% sure it's not though, so I wont rule it out if that's what any of you guys think it is.)Anyway, I finished my period about 5 days ago (it was really heavy so I had to wear really thick pads.. If that gives you any other help) , and my boyfriend and I tried some stuff for at least three hours last night. When I got home I felt a bit uncomfortable, and I don't know if it's because we "fooled around" for so long or because I have an infection or…
  • Irritation around vagina?

    27 Jul 2015 | 10:28 am
    So probably 4-6 days ago I finished my period, and yesterday (27th-7-2015) my boyfriend and I did some grinding naked, without lube (so we relied on my natural "lube" and saliva) I now have an itch above my clitoris? I've had a yeast infection before, and it doesn't feel the same so I've ruled it out (but not completely) and I've also got some random white stringy discharge around the clitoris also. I find my whole vagina to be a bit uncomfortable, but I read that it's common after sexual action? Is that true? I don't think I have another yeast infection in…
  • Less bleeding/pain with Paragard second time around?

    27 Jul 2015 | 7:59 am
    I posted a while back in search of non-hormonal birth control options.I've scheduled an appointment for a Paragard IUD insertion on Wednesday at Planned Parenthood - I'm hoping my insurance will cover it now thanks to the Affordable Care Act.My partner and I are both pretty comfortable with withdrawal, but I feel like it would be irresponsible to use withdrawal as our primary method of birth control -- largely because of the bad rap it gets. My partner and I are very careful about pulling out in time and peeing in between if we're going to have PIV sex more than once.However, I'm going to try…
  • Anyone gone to the pain clinic for vulval pain?

    26 Jul 2015 | 2:31 pm
    Hi, after a lifelong battle with vulvar pain i've been to a gymaecologist and a dermatologist who have diagnosed vulvodynia and possible lichen planus. Because we believe some of it is nerve related and connected to my back, leg and pelvic pain I have been referred to the pain clinic at my local hospital here in the UK. I was just wondering what people's experiences are, as far as what to expect from the appointment and diagnoses and treatments, if it was helpful to you etc. Any input is much appreciated :) thank you.
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  • Husbands, It’s Okay To Be Attracted To Images Of Other Women

    Shaunti Feldhahn
    27 Jul 2015 | 9:01 pm
    Within days of releasing For Women Onlybased on my research study of the inner lives of men, my husband Jeff told me it was all his male buddies wanted to talk about. Not because their wives could finally understand them… but because they could finally understand themselves. The most popular topic of discussion? The “Visual” chapter, where I explained that even the most honorable, happily-married men are confronted every day in this culture by dozens of attractive, sexualized images of other women that they don’t want to have rattling around in their brains. They have to spend time…
  • 2 Questions to Ask Yourself If You Want Your Marriage to Thrive

    Seth Taylor
    25 Jul 2015 | 9:01 pm
    When a couple gets married, they know a lot about one another. But their relationship winds up being built as much upon their lack of knowledge about one another as it is upon that existing knowledge. Couples walk into every marriage with a set of assumptions and expectations about their spouse that will inevitably bring the relationship to a fork in the road with several paths to take. How can you know which path is the right one? Ask yourself these two questions: 1. What are you protecting? If I may speak for husbands a bit (seeing that I am one), the road we most often take is the one…
  • 35 Million Marriages Could be Ruined by Hack. Worth it?

    Craig Gross
    24 Jul 2015 | 10:17 am
    News broke earlier this week about the hacking of “adultery” website Ashley Madison, where some “heroic” hackers obtained the personal information of presumably everyone who has an account on the site. Or who had an account. Because while the site’s sleaziness extends to being a hub for people who want to “discreetly” cheat on their spouses (their slogan is “Life is short, have an affair”), it’s grossness knows no bounds: they also charged a fee for people who had second thoughts and wanted to delete their accounts. At the risk of mashing two succinct clichés into one:…
  • Free me.

    XXXchurch Visitor
    24 Jul 2015 | 7:57 am
    Letter to myself: for years you have controlled me, you have driven me further and further from God and from the ministry He has called me to. No longer, by His grave will I let you win. Its time for you to die Letter from my sex addict: i want to be set free. Just as the Israelites in Exodus longed for freedom I long for freedom and only God can make me free. The post Free me. appeared first on
  • Triumph Is my Name, Temptation Will Suffer In pain

    XXXchurch Visitor
    24 Jul 2015 | 7:55 am
    Letter to myself: Letter to my food, sex and lust addict, loneliness, fear of rejection, fear of worthlessness, fear of not being able to stop. Accecpt my Fear and sin and Faith it to I make it to the promise land of Gods plan by the Goals he leads me to set. I. Victory comes through “Guarding my Temptation Quotient” 2 Cor 2:11b … I am not ignorant of Satan’s devise. (His methods, strategies and approaches) He attacks when I am weakest: ” No Right or wrong answer, Simply am where, I am.” 1 to 10 Scale determine: 1. How Physically exhausted/tired am I? Vs.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit is Coming!

    10 Jul 2015 | 10:33 am
    August 13th-16th 2015 is the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, a sexuality conference that I’ll be attending (and speaking at!!) thanks to the amazing folks at Shevibe. There’s a lot of good stuff packed into this long weekend, like workshops, academies, day-long institutes and more. The panel I’ll be on is at 10:45am on Friday (whew, not too early!) and I’ll be sharing it with a freaking stellar line-up: Caitlyn Murphy who blogs at Sexational!; Metis Black of Tantus, and Jennifer Pritchett of Smitten Kitten and I’m pretty verklempt to be in such…
  • All of My Friends Live in a Box

    16 Jun 2015 | 8:32 am
      As someone born before 1985, I am apparently part of the last generation to know life Before and After the Internet. I remember dial-up and AOL, ISCABBS and the time when we used multiple “web portals” instead of just “Googling it”. The internet was neat but it was still pretty geeky. You were a social loser if all your friends were “on the internet” and it was hard to admit to others if you met your mate through the internet. But it’s fairly normal, now, right? In fact it’s probably weird or quaint to relay a story of meeting a new,…
  • 35 Body-Safe Sex Toys Under $35

    8 Jun 2015 | 11:07 am
    One of the perks of being a sex toy reviewer is that often we are handed vibrators and dildos to review that we normally would not be able to afford purchasing on our own. I can assure you that I would never have been able to allocate the funds for the Lelo Smart Wand Large, the L’Amourose Rosa Rouge, and so on. Many others are in the same boat. And so they buy cheap (yet terrible) sex toys because it’s what they can afford. Recently though we’ve started seeing actual, real silicone dildos and silicone-covered vibrators for $50 or less so hope is on the horizon. But we…
  • Yes it’s the Cordless, Rechargeable (Hitachi) Magic Wand

    31 May 2015 | 9:25 am
    Despite what I may say in this review, I am excited about the Rechargeable Magic Wand! But first, a little back-story. I’d used vibrators for a couple of years before I started reviewing. Even the few that worked for me took awhile; longer than I sometimes had patience for. So a whopping 1 month into being an official Sex Toy Reviewer I got my hands on the Hitachi Magic Wand. And, having only tried cheap shit and a few I-feel-like-I-should-adore-this-but-it’s-too-mild Lelos, I was suitably impressed by the old Magic Wand and instructed all to go forth and buy one. Nature of the…
  • Jopen ENVY Fifteen Review – Remote Controlled Panty Vibe

    27 May 2015 | 11:55 am
    I’m reviewing the Jopen Envy Fifteen because I’m on the hunt for a decent remote-controlled vibrator; it’s what people ask for the most, it seems! The thrill of wearing a vibrator in public is a gateway kink for many people; it’s one I can get behind! But sadly when it comes to remote control sex toys the market is lacking. A really great RC vibe needs to nail down these three things:    A remote that allows the remote holder to know what’s going on – what setting the vibrator is one, basically.    A remote connection that stays through clothing, flesh…
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    The Virginity Project

  • Viva la difference

    The Virginity Project
    24 Jul 2015 | 7:36 am
    I won’t lie. Last week was a long one and the thought of cuddling up in bed on Saturday morning was infinitely more appealing than arranging to be on the Euston Road by 10.30am. But I had a ticket for the Wellcome Collection’s Symposium of Sexual Desire, so I got my shit together and I didn’t regret it one bit. This day long symposium promised to ‘delve into the complexity of sexual desire, tracing connections between history, sociology, psychology and neurophysiology’. It did so, with bells on and everything in between. Two things spring to mind when thinking about this event.
  • Masculinity 2.0

    The Virginity Project
    20 Jun 2015 | 12:23 am
    Years ago, my car mechanic, a man I’ve had many interesting conversations with sitting under the arches of his Latimer Road ‘shop’ asked me ‘but Kate, does a man even lose virginity?’ Probably not in the same way a woman does. There aren’t physical ramifications for men (don’t get me started on the ‘cultural’ ones) but one thing I do know is that men spend a lot of time thinking about it. Not so much in the ‘I’m desperate for that to happen’ way.  That’s a given. I’m talking about the multitude of anxieties and questions that go through a man’s mind as he…
  • Tell me your story...

    The Virginity Project
    30 Apr 2015 | 4:40 am
    The Virginity Project is temporarily going in a different direction. A step on from our ‘first time’ stories, I am investigating the arc of our sexual lives for a feature for British newspaper, The Guardian. Virginity Project story tellers past and present, many of you have shared your incredible first time stories with me over the years. Would you now like to - anonymously, no real names will be used in this feature -  continue the journey and explore your years (or months) since the 'first time' and tell me about the following? When were your best experiences? Or the worst?
  • Cock-a-doodle-don't

    The Virginity Project
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:02 am
     …and then it was 2015. To kick off the New Year, I thought we’d start with something silly. The Virginity Project tends towards the serious at times. Much like impending spring time – at least we hope for impending spring time – light relief is always a good thing. ‘Laugh away’ wrote my contributor after I died laughing reading his story. Even if the sun hasn’t found its way to the UK yet, I can assure you it’s the first mention of the phrase ‘my cock was ruined’ this year. If not ever. You’re welcome. Enjoy! ‘When I was 15 years old, I stayed the night at my best…
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    The Virginity Project
    5 Dec 2014 | 9:22 am
    *glowing winter sun in London at 9am this morning Telling sad stories is a tricky one and as time ticks by, I find it harder. The world is alarming enough without revealing the sad intricacies of people’s intimate lives. That said, great writing overrides that for me. Because as much as these stories might be difficult to hear, this is life and the people who capture it succinctly should have a platform. ‘Into each life a little rain falls’ as my mum once said when I moaned about losing a ring that I loved. She’s right, in the way that mums are. In the scheme of things, jewelry loss…
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    Join Me As I Discuss Marriage And All Of The Struggles Associated With It

  • Limits to Do-it-Yourself Home Improvement Methods

    Mary Ward
    14 Jul 2015 | 3:26 pm
    Image Credit: People like to cut off from their everyday expenses as much as possible. That is why, when it comes to home improvement, Do-it-yourself has somehow become a trend and a motto for most people. This is of course a good way to go. When you do things yourself, you get to do it just the way you want it to go. You get to adjust, change your plans along the way, be spontaneous about what to add or omit, and do a lot more. Doing things yourself also makes you feel that you are indeed the owner of the place. Your touches and your techniques, splashed out all across the areas of…
  • A Conversation With Friends – Wedding Car of the Future?

    Mary Ward
    10 Jul 2015 | 6:33 pm
    When a company announces the development of a new concept car for one of their popular lines of vehicles, this is usually an exciting time for car aficionados and hobbyists alike. While some concept cars are never built (probably because there is a flaw in their design or the design itself is too extravagant and impossible to build and produce), their design, styling cues, and technological and engineering attributes and features are oftentimes used for upcoming new models. The same goes for people who offer wedding car services. Whenever there’s a brand new car out in the market, a lot of…
  • The Top Three Weirdest Wedding Celebrations

    Mary Ward
    28 Jun 2015 | 1:16 am
    While I do love a good wedding ceremony, I also have a thing for good, crazy fun. So, when a friend of mine shared an article about some of the craziest and weirdest wedding celebrations and traditions all over the world, I realized that I just had to go on a trip to experience it firsthand! The list my friend gave me was a long one, but I decided on choosing the top three wedding celebrations which I personally think are just plain crazy and weird. Of course, I had to make a lot of preparations on my own. Saving money was the first thing on my mind, so I had to cut back on useless expenses.
  • Marriage Responsibilities: Starting a Family

    Mary Ward
    27 Jun 2015 | 2:09 am
    Image Credit: Another vital part of marriage that people sometimes neglect to appreciate is the path of motherhood. This role that mothers take part in, is something as equally important as marriage. In a sense, it is the marriage of the parents, especially the mother, towards the child. Image Credit: For women, finding out that you are soon going to have a baby, is probably one of the most bittersweet moments in life. It is sweet because finally, you will have a baby to cherish and love and care for. It’s also bitter, in a good way, because you know you…
  • Types of Marriages

    Mary Ward
    17 Jun 2015 | 1:27 am
    The concept of marriage has changed over time. While this is so, it has remained a vital part in society formation and it still has its merits for those who still value it, both in its sacredness and in its emotional gravity. Image Credit: Marriage has many faces. From the generations of the past up to the present, marriage occurs for different purposes that are validated by society and by unwritten rules of life and love. One type of marriage, the most sought after kind of marriage, the marriage that is said to be ideal and is the ‘real thing’ among all marriages, is a…
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  • The Problem Is Not Your Performance, It's Your Boyfriend

    Sam W
    20 Jul 2015 | 7:38 am
    My boyfriend REALLY wants to have sex with me. We're both 17. I don't want to because I'm afraid to be naked around him. I have given him oral sex. But he hasn't done anything but kiss me. Though, last night he caught me in the shower and asked if he could come in and I reluctantly agreed. We had sex, but after he told me that because I was a virgin I failed my first time. He also told me that my breasts are to small and my performance was terrible. He later told me he was sorry, and we had sex again. But he told me after that time I was horrible overall. I don't know if I'm that bad. I'm…
  • You Can't Test for Virginity

    Sam W
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:32 am
    Hello I'm 13 and don't plan on having sex but my mother says that when I'm 16-18 she is going to get me checked to see if I'm still a virgin because I'm religious and we believe in no sex till marriage. Even though I don't plan on having sex, does masturbation affect the test the doctors going to take? And how do they take this test? Because I don't want to masturbate and find out the doctor says I'm not a virgin. Is their even a way for the doctors to test it( because my mom could be bluffing)? P.s me and my moms relationship is good so she would trust me if I told her I didn't have sex plus…
  • Scarleteen Confidential: How “Men Suck” Messes Everybody Up

    Heather Corinna
    15 Jun 2015 | 3:02 pm
    This is part of our series for parents or guardians. To find out more about the series, click here. For our top five guiding principles for parents or guardians, click here; for a list of resources, click here. To see all posts in the series, click the Scarleteen Confidential tag here at Scarleteen, or follow the series on Tumblr at Messages parents or guardians have given our users about gender come up frequently, and often problematically. We often see the negative impacts of crummy ways some of their parents frame and talk about gender. As feminists and…
  • Scarleteen Confidental: A Resource Toolbox

    Heather Corinna
    14 Jun 2015 | 4:23 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna and Sam Wall Introduction:  Some great internet and print resources for parents and families to help everyone do their best parenting with sex and sexuality. Internet Sexuality Resources for Parents The Sex Positive Parent The Guttmacher Institute Gender Spectrum Sexplainer Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) Our Bodies, Ourselves Blog Birds + Bees+ Kids Healthy Children RH Reality Check Internet Sexuality Resources for Young People (and their families!) Scarleteen Planned Parenthood Federation of America International…
  • Scarleteen Confidential: The Big Five

    Heather Corinna
    14 Jun 2015 | 2:43 pm
    Author:  Heather Corinna and Sam Wall Introduction:  If we had to pick just five central things we think are most important to parent well around sex, sexuality and relationships, these are the five we'd choose. If you take nothing else away from Scarleteen Confidential, we feel these five things are the real guiding principles when it comes to parenting well with sex and sexuality. You will hear echoes of them in all of the pieces we publish in these pieces, and if you've read other comprehensive parenting guides, they're probably also already familiar to you. Young people…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • When The Price Is Too High…

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    26 Jul 2015 | 9:23 pm
    I discover that my children and my ex will all be going on holiday with my sister and her family… a week before they go. Naturally, I call up to enquire of my sibling why I seem to be the last to know and try to explain that it is embarrassing and hurtful to learn … Continue reading When The Price Is Too High…
  • Casual Sex

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    23 Jul 2015 | 9:13 pm
    Thinking back to those days pre-Ruf, I was out there looking for sex. Well, actually, strictly speaking, I was looking for love. Just in all the wrong places. In those days, the only internet sites available were dating sites. Not that that meant they were not places to procure sexual encounters. It just meant that … Continue reading Casual Sex
  • Bear Meets Ruf

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    20 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
    It was a curious moment as two of the most significant men in this story met in real life. For those who may not remember Bear was the man who probably saved my life… and became the inspiration for several of my stories. He dragged me back from the brink by the scruff of my … Continue reading Bear Meets Ruf
  • VAVs – the Volcanic Ash Victims

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    17 Jul 2015 | 8:57 pm
    Over here, hospitals were in trouble this morning because so many of their staff were stranded abroad after the Easter holidays. In case you haven’t heard, thousands of travellers of all nationalities have had their plans disrupted. British air space has been declared a no-go area with planes unable to take off or land because … Continue reading VAVs – the Volcanic Ash Victims
  • e[lust] #7

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    14 Jul 2015 | 8:51 pm
    HNT Courtesy of Coy Pink Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #8? Start with the rules, check out … Continue reading e[lust] #7
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • Top 10 Best Places To Have Sex Around The House

    26 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    Sex doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom. In fact, it can be much more fun to discover other locations to go to have sex with your lover. But imagine if you could have tons of different areas to play in without ever leaving the house? You never knew how much fun sex with your significant other could be until you’ve ventured outside the bedroom….to the hall, the bathroom, and even outside! Check out these ten places that will have you wanting more. In The Swimming Pool Getting busy in the water is super hot, but sometimes you can’t always get comfortable during…
  • 3 Ways To Give Women Multiple Orgasms Without Intercourse

    Lloyd Lester
    24 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    The female orgasm is unique because girls can have MANY orgasms in one sitting. While most guys struggle to have more than one orgasm in a single sex or masturbation session, the only stopping a woman from having orgasms all night is her. Her body has the ability to keep going and going and going (does that sound familiar?) Here’s how to give your lady multiple orgasms – NO intercourse required! The vast majority of men are clueless when it comes to giving women orgasms. Many continue to think that one should bring women to a sexual climax through intercourse only. Nothing is…
  • 3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

    Shawna Lenee
    24 Jul 2015 | 4:00 am
    Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath! These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life. Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work. The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex…
  • What Your Kiss Says About You

    Serena Paige
    23 Jul 2015 | 4:00 am
    Kissing is as unique as your fingerprint. What do your techniques reveal about YOUR personality? Kissing is a part of every relationship. But what does your kiss really say about you? You can tell a lot about somebody by the way that they do it. What you do with your hands, if you keep your eyes open and how long you kiss your partner are all tells of your personality. When you are kissing your partner, you should be aware of how you come across. If you have no idea what it says about you, read on. Here is a guide on how kissing can reflect your personality. Eyes Do you kiss with your eyes…
  • How To Get Her To Reveal Her Darkest Sexual Fantasies

    Gabrielle Moore
    22 Jul 2015 | 7:00 am
    Sexual fantasies are one of the best tools in the pleasure arsenal. If you act out or talk about your partner’s fantasy during intercourse, you’re likely to amp up her arousal dramatically. Her sexual fantasies can also give you ideas about which techniques and positions she may be most open to trying. Some Sexual Fantasies Should Stay Where They Belong Remember that some fantasies are not meant to be act out. A client of mine from a few years back had a partner who fantasized about watching him receive oral sex from another woman. This was not a fantasy she wanted to…
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    Baggage Reclaim by Natalie Lue

  • Good fences make good neighbours. Respond instead of reacting.

    26 Jul 2015 | 1:07 pm
    The mistake that many make when they attempt to insert boundaries into their lives is trying to rule others with boundaries because they think that boundaries serve a purpose of controlling other people’s behaviour. They think that they’re solely or mainly about knowing and handling the things that we don’t like and accept in others. Yes, boundaries are in part about guiding and directing others about what does and doesn’t work for us but, this doesn’t need to take the form of confrontation or big talks, or trying to amend other people’s behaviour. Boundaries are an expression…
  • Is emotional unavailability all that different from incompatibility?

    22 Jul 2015 | 1:24 pm
    A lingering question when we’ve been involved in an unavailable relationship and then they appear to commit elsewhere is, Were they actually emotionally unavailable or was it that we were incompatible? We often ponder this question when despite the fact that there are signs indicating the lack of ‘presence’ in the relationship and we have the evidence of our own unhappiness and frustration, it’s almost like we want to take it to a level where we can say, “Ha! That’s what was wrong! I wasn’t ________ enough or didn’t have ________”. Of…
  • Are you afraid of being afraid?

    15 Jul 2015 | 1:09 pm
    Sometimes we can be so afraid of replicating a past relationship that we bring that relationship into our present one instead of being conscious, aware and present so that we can acknowledge the differences including our own personal growth and actually enjoy the relationship for whatever it is. We forget that we’re not that woman/man anymore. We forget that the only reason for us to fear that we are in a repeater version of a past relationship is if we have entered into this new involvement with the same thinking baggage and behaviour that we entered into prior involvement with. If we…
  • Let the pain and the fallout be your turning point

    8 Jul 2015 | 2:05 pm
    Over nine years of going to acupuncture plus osteopath and chiropractor sessions in recent years, has taught me that where we feel the pain (unless we’ve had a specific injury to that place) or what we think it’s about, isn’t necessarily the source of the pain. We might have pain in our feet but it can be coming down from back, hip and neck issues that we’ve ignored or certainly played down. Similarly, when life serves us up a series of painful lessons for us to finally heed something, there is a journey we travelled to get to that point. They don’t happen in isolation; there are…
  • If they lie to themselves, why are they going to be honest with us?

    2 Jul 2015 | 2:34 pm
    When you really take the time to get to know you, you will find that as a result of paying attention to your feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, you are not only armed with a great deal of self-knowledge and self-awareness but you have so much more power in your life because you know your own bullsh*t (BS). As humans, we’re all prone to BS’ng ourselves to lesser and greater degrees but the great thing is that when we know our own and we own it instead of believing it, we are coming from an entirely different level of awareness to somebody who doesn’t acknowledge their…
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 439: How to come out to your social circles

    27 Jul 2015 | 5:02 pm
    How and when do I come out to my social circle, especially that cute guy/gal that I like? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 438: Is poly marriage legalization next?

    11 Jul 2015 | 8:06 pm
    The Supreme Court dissenters mention the slippery slope towards poly marriage as an argument against marriage equality. So is plural marriage next? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 437: Talking about money

    27 Jun 2015 | 8:40 pm
    Uncomfortable talks about money. If you're the breadwinner, would you give your partner money for a date? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 436: Dating your species

    18 Jun 2015 | 10:06 pm
    Reid Mihalko, the original sex geek, shares how to date your species. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 435: Metamour fears

    11 Jun 2015 | 9:05 pm
    What do you do when you're intimidated by your unmet metamour? Meet her! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Simple Marriage

  • This Is Water

    27 Jul 2015 | 5:04 am
    Have you heard the commencement speech given several years ago by novelist David Foster Wallace to Kenyon College? There’s a great Youtube video that uses excerpts from it, called This is Water. It is a brilliant speech that encourages us all to stop presuming we know what everyone’s motives are, to stop putting ourselves and our own outrage in the middle of everything so that we can maybe understand someone else’s story. The post This Is Water appeared first on Simple Marriage.
  • A Guardian Of Your Spouse’s Solitude

    20 Jul 2015 | 6:21 am
    One of my clients sent me this quote. It’s a great way to frame what growing up in marriage can look like. The point of marriage is not to create a quick commonality by tearing down all boundaries; on the contrary, a good marriage is one in which each partner appoints the other to be the guardian of his solitude, and thus they show each other the greatest possible trust. A merging of two people is an impossibility, and where it seems to exist, it is a hemming-in, a mutual consent that robs one party or both parties of their fullest freedom and development. But once the realization is…
  • Above The Line Or Below It

    16 Jul 2015 | 8:04 am
    This is a popular coaching tool to use when looking at your mindset. It also works with relationships. Above the line: Ownership, Accept and Responsibility. Taking ownership, accepting and taking responsibility for your attitude and actions. Below the line: Blame, Excuses and Denial. Not taking responsibility, not accepting your responsibilities and actions, and blaming others. Above the line is the mindset of champions – Row your boat where YOU want it to go. This is growing up in marriage! Below the line is the victim mentality – Make your bed and lie in it. Where are you? Above the…
  • The importance of laughter in marriage

    12 Jul 2015 | 2:24 pm
    The art of medicine consists of amusing the patient while nature cures the disease. ~ Voltaire We cannot really love anybody with whom we never laugh. ~ Agnes Repplier Have you and your spouse ever found something to be funny and you reach a point where you feed off each other? Most often this happens when you’re watching a somber play, or in the middle of church, or even during dinner at a quiet restaurant. But your giggles feed the other’s and off you go. Laughter is contagious. It’s also beneficial to life and marriage. Benefits of Laughter Reduction of stress and tension…
  • 4 Ways To Be A Better Listener For Your Spouse, Today

    6 Jul 2015 | 5:04 am
    Editor’s Note: This is a guest post from Caleb Simonyi­-Gindele of Listening is one of those marriage skills that doesn’t come with a very sexy label. However, learning to listen well to your spouse pays huge dividends for deepening the intimacy between you. Think of listening as a gateway to your spouse’s inner world. What would it be like to truly understand your spouse? I think that would be an incredible gift you can give and one that I am sure he or she would love to reciprocate. In this post, I’d like to take four specific listening skills that are…
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  • See you on Instagram

    25 Jul 2015 | 3:20 am
    I have a jumble of feelings as I get ready to fly to Thailand for a much-needed vacation, even though I haven't finished all the work I needed to (thank you, upcoming 21 hours of travel). Excitement, fear, guilt, missing my boyfriend even though I haven't quite left yet. This week kicked my ass in all kinds of ways, but even though I didn't do everything I wanted to, I wrote more than I ever have in my life, filing 23 pieces, pushing myself in ways I didn't think I was capable. I decided to take this trip in part to visit one of my oldest friends, and partly because my dearest hope in the…
  • Want to be a sex blogger? Take this online class by Epiphora and JoEllen Notte

    24 Jul 2015 | 5:47 am
    I've emphasized my love of online classes before, based on the ones I've taught for LitReactor, but today I want to share news about this class on The Business of Blogging About Sex, taught by two women who know this from many years of experience, Epiphora, whose blog's tagline is "where sex toys go to get judged" and JoEllen Notte, aka The Redhead Bedhead. I will also be contributing a segment on writing erotica. They'll cover topics such as setting up a blog, posting, making money and getting readers. While I haven't taken the class myself, I can vouch for both of them being smart…
  • What happened the last time I got hate mail

    22 Jul 2015 | 2:03 pm
    To find out, check out my first article for Contently, "5 Ways to Use Hate Mail to Your Advantage." I learned a lot from the writers who shared their hate mail stories with me (not all of them made it into the final piece) and it helped me get some perspective on my unexpected hater. I was especially pleased because I've been reading Contently's great, well, content about freelance writing and hosting a writing portfolio on their site with many of my clips, which makes it handy to pass on to editors I'm pitching. I recommend it, and they were great to work with on this piece. This also puts…
  • Why rope is better than handcuffs for bondage, according to Emily Bingham

    16 Jul 2015 | 1:58 pm
    Check out "Confessions of a 'rope fiend'" at Philadelphia City Paper to find out all about why memoirist Emily Bingham loves rope bondage so much. Here's a snippet: Bingham’s evolved from being the one solely on the receiving end to doing the trussing herself and says now she “enjoys doing the binding as much as I enjoy being bound.” Rope, especially made from hemp or jute, is her favorite tool. Handcuffs just won’t do. Bingham gets practically poetic about her favorite equipment. “There’s a wonderful texture to the natural rope that feels lovely on the skin, especially when the…
  • What does "orgasm equality" really mean?

    15 Jul 2015 | 10:03 am
    That's the question I tackled in my latest DAME column, "Is Orgasm Equality As Simple As Tit for Tat?" where I looked at recent statements by Nicki Minaj and Amy Schumer about how women should demand and go after an orgasm, and explored a few reasons why it may not be so simple. Want to read more? Check out my DAME Shameless Sex archives. Here's a snippet of this one: "n situations like this, it’s as if, rather than demanding orgasms, they are being demanded of us. Or, as author Jenny Block puts it in her forthcoming book O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm, we’ve made orgasm less of…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex - Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more.

  • Eye Candy: Weekend Best of Babes

    Violet Blue
    26 Jul 2015 | 4:46 pm
    * Jenya D. – Liedir (my favorite model is back!) * Loreen A. – Salte * Viola Bailey – Boceja * Adel C. – Iteria * Dita V. – Presenting Dita * Carolina – Code Black (gallery) * Caprice – Private Show * Violet G. – I Am On Fire * Alba O. – Purple Gift * Denisse Gomez – Afterglow, First Masturbation * Angel B. – Sunny * Leda – Showing You * Elle E. – Midnight Encore * Masuimi Max – Artemis < I'm going to guess that's Masuimi's own house, and her own shoes, and... * Marica Hase – Nude * Dillion Harper and…
  • Sex News: Sex worker killer stopped, cybersex patent troll, Pornhub on My Little Pony

    Violet Blue
    24 Jul 2015 | 11:44 am
    If you loved Secretary, our new collection will make you purr: Bent Over His Desk: Hot Office Kink ($4.49). Violence warning: An unnamed sex worker in Charleston, West Virginia, has become a hero in a particularly awful way. A serial killer who focused exclusively on sex workers contracted her for an incall; when he attempted to kill her, she shot him with his own gun during a struggle in which she fought for her life. When police arrived, they found an extensive “kill kit” in the trunk of his car, a long list of Backpage-listed sex workers. In the trunk were knives, a shovel, a machete,…
  • Sex News: Instagram bans #curvy, MSNBC’s exploitative Sex Slaves In America, porn stars on monogamy

    Violet Blue
    22 Jul 2015 | 9:37 am
    Check out the new Amazon review for Bent Over His Desk: Hot Office Kink ($4.49)! Instagram recently banned the single, evocative word “curvy” in hashtag form because it violated its policies. The issue with “curvy,” Instagram said, isn’t what it represents — often body-positive images of voluptuous figures in various states of dress and undress — but how it was being used. Instagram’s efforts, while admirable, often come across tone deaf and demonize innocuous images of female bodies. Why Did Instagram Ban ‘Curvy’? (ThinkProgress) Adult star Jiz Lee has announced a…
  • Art by Tara McPherson

    Violet Blue
    20 Jul 2015 | 9:42 am
    The incredible work of painter, illustrator and artist extraordinaire Tara McPherson first entered my sphere when I included this tweet in a sex news post: . @instagram apologized for removing this image by @taramcpherson, says painted boobs are OK. — ANIMALNewYork (@ANIMALNewYork) March 2, 2015 Now that I’ve had time to fully explore her portfolio, I’m a huge fan. She’s got all kinds of stickers, silkscreens, lithos, t-shirts, rock posters, etc. available for sale so it’s a snap to support this fab, female indie…
  • Anja Rubik and Nikolai Danielsen by Mario Testino

    Violet Blue
    20 Jul 2015 | 12:05 am
    From Vogue Paris, it’s Anja Rubik and Nikolai Danielsen by Mario Testino in a very inspiring set that includes some very nice CFNM. More here (was in the March print issue) — well worth a click. Did you know I have an erotic fashion section? :D The post Anja Rubik and Nikolai Danielsen by Mario Testino appeared first on Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex - Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more..
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 457

    Dan Savage
    28 Jul 2015 | 1:00 am
    A woman feels so insecure about the way her vagina looks, she won’t let her boyfriend near it. How can he convince her that she is beautiful all over? A disabled gay man has a boyfriend who refuses to have sex with him. His psychiatrist thinks they should stay together. Dan thinks otherwise.  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Matt Baume, author of “Defining Marriage” about the heroes of the marriage equality struggle.  Also, a pestering professor asks his former student to sleep with him, right after she asked him for a recommendation. How should she handle this bit of unpleasantness? …
  • Savage Love Episode 456

    Dan Savage
    21 Jul 2015 | 1:00 am
    After a wedding guest sat and endured some anti-gay loony talk from a bigoted pastor, a woman wonders what she could have done better. Walk out? Audibly boo? Hear a couple of calls from women who get off on lesbian porn, and the very different reactions their boyfriends have to this unspeakable perversity. Dan welcomes Joan Price, author of Naked at Our Age, to answer some calls concerning sex for the senior set. If you’re looking for sex toys for your parents or grandparents, this show is a must.  Also, hear the woeful tale of the woman whose father discovered her giving a blow job on the…
  • Savage Love Episode 455

    Dan Savage
    14 Jul 2015 | 1:00 am
    An opening rant on Zachery Anderson, who was unfairly imprisoned and put on the sex offenders registry, because an uptight judge wants you to know that hook-up apps are terribly naughty.   A man wonders if he should personally confront a guy he knows who creeps on women.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with author and rival advice columnist Tristan Taormino about reclaiming the pleasure of anal sex after an assault.  And, hear the tale of the strangest job a housecleaner has ever been offered.  206-201-2720 Please sign the petition to exonerate Zachery Anderson:…
  • Savage Love Episode 454

    Dan Savage
    7 Jul 2015 | 1:00 am
    While you and I danced in the streets, Dan was trapped in Australia, where marriage equality is NOT YET LEGAL. Hear his thoughts on the Supreme Court decision. A woman is attractive, accomplished and has big plans. But when potential dates start talking to her, they quickly shut down and move on. What is she doing wrong? Is her grandmother correct that she talks to much?  A woman was sexually abused by her mother. Is she obligated to explain this to her 16 year-old son?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with PhD neuroscientist and data scientist  Matthew Baggott about the therapeutic uses of…
  • Savage Love Episode 453

    Dan Savage
    30 Jun 2015 | 1:00 am
    This week we are delighted to welcome Hillary Frank, host and creator of The Longest Shortest Time podcast, to answer some questions about reclaiming your sex life after pregnancy. Also, a woman tends to date messed-up, and/or addicted guys, because she likes to try to heal them in their “time of darkness.” How can she keep doing all this groovy healing without constantly dating damaged men? A woman’s husband is bisexual. He came out to a friend at their subtly anti-gay church group and the man ran screaming. How can she help her husband to get over the loss of this friend?  And more,…
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  • 10 Things You Should Totally, Definitely, Absolutely Say To A Writer

    Damon Young
    28 Jul 2015 | 11:10 am
    #Tenthingsnottosaytoawriter has been trending all day, and has produced some gems, including… “I have a great idea for a book. I just have to write it down.” #TenThingsNotToSayToAWriter — Maureen Johnson (@maureenjohnson) July 28, 2015 …and… “Can I pick your brain for free? I feel I should have the career you spent years building. Like, now” #TenThingsNotToSayToAWriter — jamilah (@JamilahLemieux) July 28, 2015 But, what do writing-ass people actually want to hear? Good question. 1. “Yeah, we definitely pay writers. Wouldn’t dare ask…
  • 10 Black Men Who Could Use Your Irrational Unconditional Support Instead Of Bill Cosby

    Damon Young
    27 Jul 2015 | 9:17 pm
    I feel you, man. I really do. You stayed on the Bill Cosby bandwagon as long as you possibly could — refusing to allow America to lynch an iconic Black man — but the ride just got too bumpy. The wheels flew off, the steering wheel broke, the seat belts got recalled, and the rotors did some rotor shit that the dudes at Pep Boys said was really bad and will cost you $986.54. So now you’re alone, without a bandwagon to ride or an illogical cause to hitch to. But you’re itching to throw all of your support behind someone — anyone — as long as they’re…
  • Those Damn Kids Today…Are Actually Much Better People Than We Were

    Damon Young
    27 Jul 2015 | 11:09 am
    Predictably, the Meek Mill/Drake feud was the main topic of conversation in my barbershop Friday. In the hour or so I was there, the following points were touched on: The importance of whether Drake has a ghostwriter This entire feud happening because Meek Mill is feeling insecure because he’s fighting above his weight with Nicki Minaj Birdman’s hands (Yeah, I don’t know why either) Darkskinned niggas acting lightskinned And then, someone said something about how this entire feud just proves how soft and wack today’s generation is in comparison to “our…
  • World Shocked That Man Named “Hulk” Who Made Living Getting Slammed On Head Said Something Offensive

    Damon Young
    24 Jul 2015 | 9:20 am
    I will never forget where I was and what I was doing the day I learned a steroid-stuffed man who named himself “Hulk” and became famous by voluntarily having his head slammed into barriers, ropes, poles, chairs, feet, knees, and livestock 30 times a day for 20 years straight said something offensive. I do not know how much further I can go on from here. Food no longer has any taste. Water just runs through me, like a dam-less creek of orphaned kitten tears. The air feels like a thousand hellbound needles pricking my spine. I try to speak words and dust comes out. And then,…
  • Shit Bougie Black People Love: 30. Jesse Williams

    Damon Young
    24 Jul 2015 | 7:59 am
    You probably know Jesse Williams as one of the guys on one of those Shonda Rhimes shows that airs before another Shonda Rhimes show. Or perhaps as the racially ambiguous guy who really, really, really, really digs Ciroc. This, however, would mean that you’re not a Bougie Black Person. Because, if you were a Bougie Black Person, Jesse Williams wouldn’t just be a TV doctor and bottle service vodka pitchman to you. If you were a Bougie Black Girl, he would be “EVERYTHING!!!” And, if you were a Bougie Black Guy, he would be the guy whose tweets you retweet and articles…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • 2 Sexy Ways To Stop Overthinking Your Big 'O' (Thank Us Later)

    28 Jul 2015 | 1:00 pm
    WeHeartIt The best way to reach orgasm is to stop focusing on it so much. Enjoy the journey to reach your ultimate, luxurious destination. Keywords: destination, sex, orgasm, reach orgasm, reach climax, overthinking sex, female orgasm, journeyBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • A 25-Year-Old Having Sex With A Teen Is Rape, Even If They're Famous

    28 Jul 2015 | 10:08 am Statutory rape still applies to famous people. No exceptions. Keywords: Khloe Kardashian, kylie jenner, tyga, rape, child abuse, statutory rape, celebrityBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Respecting Your Partner Leads To The Best Marriage—TRY IT

    28 Jul 2015 | 10:01 am
    Tips from an experienced divorce lawyer on how to succeed at making your marriage STRONGER! Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 6 Tips How To Gain the Respect of Others & Friends

    28 Jul 2015 | 9:45 am
    Feeling like you're being pushed to the side and taken advantage? Take a stand! Follow these 6 tips on how to gain respect from friends or other people.  Keywords: friends, People, respect, lifestyle, life advice, self respect, communicationBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • How To Recover From Addiction Without A 12 Step Program

    28 Jul 2015 | 9:40 am
    Addiction treatment today has a one size fits all mentality. Insurance companies will only reimburse those institutions that follow the 12-step model of Alcoholics Anonymous. If you have known anyone that has gone to a substance abuse treatment facility; you will often hear the gripe that they are being forced to partake in the 12-step model of recovery. This means joining AA or NA which for some just isn't a good fit. In many cases they are told this is the only way to truly recover. This narrow approach has failed many. Forcing an addict to do anything can be a recipe for…
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    Sensual Writer

  • Tiny Willy Loser

    28 Jul 2015 | 2:41 pm
    Sasha has booked a technician because her telephone is broken. He says he can’t repair it until he comes back the next day with some components, but he still requests his initial fee. The three ladies are less than impressed and inform him they can sort something out – but when they sit him down and begin caressing his groin seductively, they find he has virtually nothing in there! They take his clothes off against his will and then giggle at the absence of a bulge. When his boxer shorts come down they laugh even more at his small willy and Sasha even refers to it as a “Borrowers”…
  • Gefangene Frauen

    25 Jul 2015 | 5:25 am
    Gefangene Frauen (1980): Women are kidnapped from a brothel and taken to an island prison where they undertake a modest degree of insubordinate behaviour triggering obligatory punishment. This consists of having to strip and walk around naked in the prison for the rest of the entire movie. What can you say against that? What with nude wrestling, nude whipping and a nude escape project, it’s all a go-go. Aurora Snow – Timeless 2: Time In The Sun [HD]. Aunt Peg’s Fulfillment (1981): The continuing lustful sexual adventures of Hollywood producer Aunt Peg as she tries to continue with…
  • Fucked in throat and ass

    25 Jul 2015 | 4:27 am
    Melody from Salvador or Costa Rica was so petite you would think a cock stuffed in her ass would split her apart! In Panama City she sucked on his long shaft and he fucked her mouth a bit before he finally placed himself at her entrance behind the church in Bogota and stuffed his cock up her ass. She rode on top of him with his cock buried in her anus and then he left her asshole gaping as he came on her face! Naughty Trixi of Medellin had never tried anal sex before and she was scared to give it a try. He worked her muscles with his fingers and tried to stuff his cock in but she was so tight…
  • Supermodel licks anus and balls

    24 Jul 2015 | 3:31 pm
    Madison is the dirtiest whore of the entire harem. The golden blonde babe likes to chew on rectal openings. She loves to lick poop, too. Farts are her perfume. Watch her adding some salad dressing on that guys anus to lick him off. It was the hottest and most sensual butt licking session this dude had ever received. Watch him moaning & gripping onto her hair, as she inserts a tongue & finger in his bum hole … This blonde bombshell from Nebraska may look all sweet and innocent, but she is one nasty little whore. She took control and spread my ass cheeks wide, burying her soft warm…
  • Diary of a Webcam Girl

    24 Jul 2015 | 4:45 am
    I want you to look at me right now in black latex. I want to smoother you with My leather boots. I want to feel you staring at Me right now. It’s free to click on the boot sweetheart. It’s free to Have your Mistress. The ONLY question is Can you Handle Me? Come to Me now My sweet little pet. I want to wrap this pretty leather collar around your neck. Of course I want to wrap this other pretty little collar around your cock. Mistress Lorieanna wants you to play: I love it when you use sex toys. Get your kinky flesh lights and ben wa balls HERE. Every boy should own a flesh light and Every…
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • Play Safe, Stay Safe: When and Where to Use Sex Toys Safely

    28 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    While many of us love driving, comparatively fewer choose to actively pleasure ourselves in the driver's seat, as attested by the UK's poor sales figures of automatic cars. Recently, however, a lady in her thirties - identified only as "pretty fit" by the Daily Mail's baroque-tongued source - found her way into print for just that after crashing her car into the back of a fish delivery van while using her vibrator in traffic. Apparently overcome with amour as she sat at the wheel of her Mini Cooper, the frisky multitasker was spotted on camera swiftly buttoning up her trousers after…
  • Fleshlight Go: The World's Bestselling Male Sex Toy Just Got Better!

    27 Jul 2015 | 6:37 am
    Thought the bestselling Fleshlight couldn't get any better? Think again! The new Fleshlight Go is a redesigned version of the classic male masturbator that's more discreet and more compact than ever before. A new, more compact size make the Fleshlight Go easier to store and pack away for trips and overnight adventures. Measuring up 17% smaller than the classic Fleshlight, this mini version still delivers on pleasure with a divine textured canal made with super lifelike SuperSkin material. With a realistic vagina opening and lifelike bumps and ridges to stimulate your length, the Fleshlight Go…
  • Which Unusual Sex Toy Are You? Take the Quiz

    22 Jul 2015 | 6:12 am
    Do you often catch yourself thinking: "If I were an unusual sex toy, what would I be?" If your answer to that is yes (or no), then look no further! Penetrate the unknown and stimulate your adventurous side with our new quiz. Using a state-of-the-art, scientific algorithm (a quiz), we have developed a way of finding out which unusual sex toy you are based on your likes and dislikes. Don't believe us? Give it a try. It will blow your mind. Make sure you let us know which unusual sex toy you are in the comment section below. [More]
  • Fetish FAQs With Jess: "My Wife Wants Me to Dominate Her, but it Seems Wrong..."

    17 Jul 2015 | 7:12 am
    A lot of you lovely readers will already know who I am, but for those of you who don't, let me introduce myself. I'm Jess; Lovehoney's in-house Bondage Expert. With a background in burlesque, pin up modelling, fetish event promotion and being a bit of a pirate-goth hybrid, my transition to Bondage Expert has been pretty easy! As you can probaby imagine, I see a fair share of niche products, and every day have something new and fantastic on my desk. It's through personal research, experience and a keen interest in all things unusual that have led me to learn a tonne about a wide range of…
  • "Lesbian Essential": Lovehoney's Review of the Month

    16 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    If you read through some of our 110,000 sex toy reviews, you'll notice that some of our customers try out their new toys just a couple of times before they write a review, while others use them consistently for a few weeks before sending us their thoughts. However, our Review of the Month winner for June tops them all: summersun had been using (and loving!) the Tantus Realdoe Wireless Strap On Double Dildo Vibrator 7 inch for THREE YEARS before submitting her review! In her thorough review, summersun gives a great run down of why the toy works so well in her relationship, explains the…
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    of Sex and Love

  • Fun Factory Bouncer

    28 Jul 2015 | 5:04 am
    Fun Factory Bouncer $99 from SheVibe An Adriana is a weird thing, what with her ability to squirt but her lesser ability to orgasm from vaginal stimulation. In fact, G-spot stimulation is typically neutral to her and many times uncomfortable, even as it’s making her squirt. Perhaps it’s more than fitting that I set my eye on the Bouncer, one of the newest Fun Factory toys on the market. This dildo, from the outside, looks like any Fun Factory dildo. It’s got the suction cup base with triple rounded lobes. It has the same velvety texture as other FF toys, including the Boss…
  • I’m More of a Romantic Than I Make Out to Be

    24 Jul 2015 | 9:11 pm
    If you ask people who know me well, they’ll tell you that I focus on sex to the exclusion of romance. That I have no use for emotions on the whole, let alone for a romantic partner. But I like “Good morning, beautiful” texts and sleepy phone calls before bed, sometimes not even managing to hang up before you fall asleep. I want to be Facebook official and to post photos — albeit, photos in which I look good. I don’t say this because I am some special snowflake or because I am letting the world in on a secret about what women like because I know these things…
  • The Void

    17 Jul 2015 | 7:41 am
    There’s something so sad about falling out of love with someone. When you’re simply left feeling empty, without feelings and certainly without anything else to put in that void. Because even when your heart is breaking, you’re still in love. And there’s still a bit of excitement, a reminder that you’re alive. Even though there’s pain, there’s something else. But getting over someone is the absence of that something, of anything. And it’s hard because you’re no longer waiting for them to come back. You don’t think you need them to…
  • 8 Beginner Bondage Toys That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    11 Jul 2015 | 3:25 am
    In recent years, we’ve fallen head over heels for anything bondage. Whips, cuffs, floggers – you name it, we’re buying it. Could this be the Fifty Shades effect?It seems that as soon as it hit the shelves, we realised how much fun we could be having in the bedroom. So whether you’re trying to emulate what Christian and Anastasia get up to or you’re doing things at your own pace, there are a multitude of toys out there. To help you out, we’ve picked ten of our favourites. Quickie Cuffs Handcuffs are a staple of any bondage toy collection, and the Quickie Cuffs…
  • Fetish Fantasy Nipple Clamps [Comparison]

    8 Jul 2015 | 2:31 am
    Magnetic Clamps, Tit Clamps and Clover Clamps $15 - $25 from Amazon Although I haven’t written about them before, I have tried nipple clamps. The pair I had were a generic rectangular, screw style. They were heavy enough to be noticeable, a sensation I quite like. Unfortunately, the weight combined with a very loose screw meant they didn’t like to stay in place, and you certainly couldn’t tug on them if you wanted to — and I found that I did! Pipedream was gracious enough to send me three styles of nipple clamps to try out, all from their Fetish Fantasy series. I…
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    The Daily Affair

  • Love & Acceptance

    1 Jul 2015 | 7:01 pm
    Love & Acceptance Same sex marriages are now legal across the country and I couldn’t be happier! I’m proud and honored to be an…
  • Saturday’s Sex Stories

    1 Jun 2015 | 6:45 am
    Okay, some I’m reading the Saturday New York Times while on the elliptical at the gym and I come across not one, not two,…

    28 May 2015 | 7:02 am
    Where do I begin?? Why is it that so many “stars” of reality television shows wind up confessing or being convicted of doing some…
  • Why Women Love Bad Boys

    21 May 2015 | 7:08 am
    We’ve all fallen for those sexy, dynamic bad boys. I guess we’re attracted to them for the same reasons some men go crazy for…
  • 5 Things You May Not Know About Your Partner

    4 May 2015 | 6:14 pm
    Before Bruce Jenner came out as transgender to the entire world, at some point during each of his marriages, he felt compelled to share…
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    Lovepanky - Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • My Sex Life Sucks: 8 Common Issues and Their Solutions

    Philip Hegarty
    28 Jul 2015 | 10:26 am
    When life starts to grind you down and your sex life suffers as a result, it’s time to stop resting on your laurels and do something about it! If there’s a person out there that doesn’t think sex is great, then I want to meet them! Nearly all of us enjoy it in one shape or other, nearly all of us, gender irrespective, spend a great deal of our time thinking about and pursuing it, and nearly all of us suffer when it isn’t forthcoming or when it doesn’t fulfill our needs. The importance of sex Sex plays very many roles in a relationship, besides the obvious…
  • 8 Great Reasons Online Dating is Worth a Shot

    Maxx Obejero
    28 Jul 2015 | 10:22 am
    Hesitant to give online dating a try? Still think it’s a trashy trend? Here are 8 reasons that just might change your mind about finding love online. With the advent of the internet, there arose an enormous amount of opportunity for romance, love, friendship, and excitement – all in the past decade alone. It is now much easier to meet potential partners in life, without even having to come face to face with them. Most of the time, because of the greater chances of anonymity, people tend to be more open about themselves and what they want in a relationship, compared to when they are…
  • 15 Rules Girls Intuitively Use When Looking for the One

    Danielle Anne Suleik
    28 Jul 2015 | 10:19 am
    When dating, women use intuition to help them see if the man they’re seeing is “The One.” Here are the rules they go by. Some women opt to date around before they settle down, but once they do, they start looking for different things in a man. They will still be attracted to the same things like looks, personality and other traits, but they won’t settle for good reviews on those alone. They will look deeper and further into a man’s whole repertoire. Is he a good person? Will he make a good husband? They won’t ask this outright, but they do have ways to find out. How women check…
  • 10 Bits of Love Advice from Famous Hollywood Couples

    Lianne Choo
    28 Jul 2015 | 5:58 am
    From finding love to keeping love to handling breakups, see how these stars have fared, and take the chance to learn from their experiences. Hollywood is probably the worst place that you should head to for advice on love, but there’s no denying that the plethora of hookups, breakups and everything in between make for a great case study. Just like us regular people, celebrities aren’t immune to heartbreak and romantic drama. From marriages that last for decades to tumultuous and abusive relationships, Hollywood’s inhabitants have seen it all, and as every move made is publicized, it…
  • 10 Ways to Know for Sure if Your Guy Wants to Marry You

    Michelle Escultura
    27 Jul 2015 | 11:49 am
    Do you think your man’s ready to commit? Or better yet, does he look at you as the one he wants to get married to? Here are 10 easy ways to find out! Here’s a scenario for you to think about: You’re a woman in a relationship with a great guy. He’s responsible. He’s kind. He’s great in bed. And you absolutely adore him. Your friends and family seem to think that you’re in a wonderful and loving relationship. You’ve been together for quite some time now, and you’re starting to wonder if he will be the guy you’ll be spending the rest of your life with. But there’s a…
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  • Queen of Hearts Hide & Seek
    23 Jul 2015 | 7:35 am
    Forget strip poker. Someday, when your lover isn’t home, hide playing cards around the house in tough-to-find places. Then let them know that every time they discover one of the hidden cards, you’ll grant them a sexual wish. Different cards can even have special designations. You decide the naughty meaning behind each one. But be aware, when you first tell your lover about this new treat, it might become a hurried game of Hide and Seek! However, if you hide your cards well enough, your lover may still be finding them months down the road. And that’s a lot of good lovin’.
  • Q&A Can Anal Sex Result in Stretching?
    21 Jul 2015 | 11:08 am
    Question: My co-workers and I are in a dispute over anal sex and the sphincter muscle. One woman said that the muscle will lose its ability to close if you have a lot of anal sex. I and another person argued that this muscle will always close back to its original size no matter how many times you have anal sex. Would you please settle this issue for us? Thanks. Answer: Congrats, I think you just won your bet! The anal sphincter muscle is designed to expand and contract an unlimited number of times. Stretching it will not make it any less able to constrict, just as stretching your hamstrings…
  • 5 Ways to Keep Long Distance Relationships Sexy
    14 Jul 2015 | 9:30 am
    Long distance relationships are tough on relationships, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be done successfully. If both parties are committed to each other and are willing to put the time and effort needed for the relationship to thrive when one is hundreds (or thousands) of miles away, a long distance relationship can work out better than those see each other every day. One of the biggest downfalls of long distance relationships is that loss of real intimacy since you can’t physically touch them to give them a huge, kiss, snuggle or more. However, with a creative mind and a whole lot of…
  • Boys on the Sidelines

    7 Jul 2015 | 1:47 pm
    By Liz Langley A John Hopkins University study that says adolescent boys receive less less sexual health education than adolescent girls on a very important subject: contraception. According to a New York Times story fewer than 1/5 of boys had talked contraception with a health care provider whereas 2/3 of young girls had done so. In comparing the 1995 National Survey of Adolescent Males and the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth, sexual counseling for young men doesn’t seem to have improved despite recommendations that it should. The Baltimore Sun says that “The study, published…
  • Why No Woman Should Neglect Her Pap Test

    19 Mar 2015 | 1:20 pm
    Scheduling that annual Pap smear may not be at the top of your to-do list—and hey, we get it. It’s not exactly the sexiest appointment to pencil in your planner. But would you upgrade your priorities if you knew that appointment could save your life? That’s right, save your life. Women who are diagnosed with cervical cancer are more likely to survive if the cancer is caught via Pap test (compared to being detected due to symptoms), reports a recent study published in the journal BMJ. Swedish researchers monitored 1,230 women who were diagnosed with cervical cancer between 1999-2001.
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  • What NOT to Do During Foreplay

    Svetlana Ivanova
    28 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Definitely don’t skip foreplay entirely because you think it doesn’t matter. 1. Please do not act like you’re doing her a favor. Girls can tell when you’re just doing a lot of foreplay because you feel like you want a damn medal, and when you’re doing it because you genuinely enjoy it and you genuinely want Continue reading →No visits yet
  • Scientists Think They’ve Figured Out What Makes a Penis Attractive

    Svetlana Ivanova
    25 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Scientists think that they have finally figured out what makes a penis attractive to women. A paper released yesterday in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reveals the results of an experiment designed to figure out what kinds of dicks women (though not men for some reason) like to look at. The experiment, which was intended Continue reading →(Visited 33 times, 1 visits today)
  • Giving a Woman Oral Sex

    Svetlana Ivanova
    23 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Ian Kerner gives men a no-nonsense guide to going down on their women. How often do you go down on your partner before intercourse? And intercourse aside, how often do you engage in oral sex just for the sake of… oral sex? If the numbers are low, I have to say: You and are your Continue reading →(Visited 52 times, 1 visits today)
  • 4 Steps to a Hotter Hook-Up

    Svetlana Ivanova
    21 Jul 2015 | 2:00 am
    Pull off the perfect hook-up with these smart strategies from Debby Herbenick, Ph,D. Casual sex may seem simple on the surface, but a truly great hookup requires some serious thought. Watch this video from Men’s Health Sex Professor Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., and discover the strategies you need to pull off your hottest hookup ever.  Watch video(Visited 21 times, 1 visits today)
  • Study: Booty Calls Hotter Than One-Night Stands

    Svetlana Ivanova
    18 Jul 2015 | 8:00 am
    According to science, booty calls are hotter than one-night stands. Going through a dry spell? According to a this sex study, people seeking better sex lives might consider becoming someone’s booty call. That’s right — science has found casual sex is, generally, good sex, but more so in a friends-with-benefits arrangement rather than in the context of Continue reading →(Visited 29 times, 1 visits today)
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  • And silence

    Molly Moore
    25 Jul 2015 | 4:52 pm
    “And silence. She liked the silence most of all. The silence in which the body, senses, the instincts, are more alert, more powerful, more sensitized, live a more richly perfumed and intoxication life, instead of transmuting into thoughts, words, into exquisite abstractions, mathematics of emotion in place of violent impact, the volcanic eruptions of fever,…
  • Picture This

    Molly Moore
    24 Jul 2015 | 3:35 pm
    Next weekend is the Eroticon 2015 conference and I am delivering a session on the Sunday about photography. The brief I gave Ruby for my session was fairly open and I did that on purpose as I wanted to be in a position where I could really react to the audience that turned up and…
  • Greetings and Salutations #Eroticon2015

    Molly Moore
    24 Jul 2015 | 2:12 pm
    The lovely Ruby Kiddell has asked me to host this years online Meet and Greet round-up for the Eroticon attendees. This is your chance to introduce yourself to the rest of the attendees before actually arriving in Bristol on Friday and hopefully coming along to the actual in person, real life, breathing and talking, Meet…
  • Water Baby

    Molly Moore
    21 Jul 2015 | 3:16 pm
    This is a 2 for 1 Scavenger Hunt offering to make up for the fact that I have not posted a new ones in ages and they are both relatively short, just a couple of pictures for each location. They are very different locations (I have even had that verified by Dee) but they do…
  • Bewitched or bewitcher

    Molly Moore
    18 Jul 2015 | 3:56 pm
    Bewitched or bewitcher…. Related Posts: And silence Garden Party Touching Paradise Play Je t’adore
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  • Introducing Dungeon East

    Ms. Justine
    24 Jul 2015 | 7:28 am
    It’s official. Dungeon West has a sister! Check out the new Dungeon East (formerly known as La Douleur Exquise). My new dungeon is located in DTLA, perfect for eastside clients or when Dungeon West is already booked. Perhaps you just want something different – this is the only all white dungeon, with all custom made furniture and many custom made metal bondage. Similar to the established Dungeon West, this space has many of the same features: -Playspace with BDSM furniture, toys, and cleaning supplies -Full bathroom with walk in shower, towels, and toiletries. -Private kitchen…
  • Los Angeles Footnight July 23

    Ms. Justine
    22 Jul 2015 | 8:45 am
    I love stretching out my long legs.> I will be at
  • Declare your Dependence on ME

    Ms. Justine
    4 Jul 2015 | 8:24 am
    Credits Photographer: Tommy Cuellar Studio: Pillar Box Studios Latex: Syren Latex The post Declare your Dependence on ME appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • New PO BOX!

    Ms. Justine
    29 Jun 2015 | 8:31 am
    As a dominatrix, I love receiving thoughtful gifts and ones that expand our BDSM play time. I finally got a new PO Box! Now you can send presents not from my Amazon wishlist here, as well as other gifts such as cards or cash. Justine Cross 106 1/2 Judge John Aiso St. #432 Los Angeles, CA 90012 My wishlist page *Amazon wishlist *Wishpot Wishlist *Stockroom Wishlist Fill it up! The post New PO BOX! appeared first on Justine Cross.
  • Interviewed in Playboy about KinkBnB

    Ms. Justine
    26 Jun 2015 | 2:02 am
    Both of my dungeons, Dungeon West and Dungeon East are listed on KinkBNB. KinkBnb has gotten a lot of press recently and I was interviewed by Playboy. Read an excerpt below: “I can’t use Google AdWords because they think I’m a prostitute,” said Justine Cross, an Los Angeles dominatrix and owner of Dungeon West who also was booted from AirBNB. “The more ways we have to legitimatize ourselves, it’ll start to be perceived as normal and reach more people.” Read the rest of the article here. The post Interviewed in Playboy about KinkBnB appeared first on Justine Cross.
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  • Elust #72

    15 Jul 2015 | 11:56 am
    Photo courtesy of Tabitha Rayne Welcome to Elust #72 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #73? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Broken Invisible Pride: Bi Erasure Disabled Gentleman ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Erotic Fiction:…
  • Casual dating lifestyle: Sponsored Post

    15 Jul 2015 | 10:09 am
    The casual dating lifestyle One of the greatest freedoms we have in our modern lifestyle is to decide how we want to approach the complex phenomenon which is dating. Whilst we live in a society which encourages family values via long-term commitment, our lifestyle sometimes does not give us the time for such life-lasting undertaking. This is why casual dating remains a very viable lifestyle for those of us who lack the time or are simply not interested in getting bind into such big obligation. Low commitment One of the greatest appeal about casual dating is that it asks for little commitment…
  • Elust #72 Open for Submissions

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:06 am
    Elust #72 Open for Submissions Happy July, as America readies for their Independence Day Celebrations and England finally gets a taste of Summer weather let us take this moment to share the Freedoms we all hold dear (until they are stripped away by our respective governments) by submitting your latest and sultriest works to Elust. Show us what real fireworks look like! After many requests I have finally written up what happens here at Elust after you make your submission. Have a read and marvel that we manage it at all. How it all happens. We have added a Category Guide page to help you…
  • Elust #71

    15 Jun 2015 | 4:49 pm
    Photo courtesy of The Shingle Beach Welcome to Elust #71 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Backyard Glory Bra Wars Versions of Ourselves ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Disabled characters: who do I write…
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  • Review: Geisha Plug and B Balls

    28 Jul 2015 | 10:21 am
    I can’t prove it — unless Google Talk instant message logs count as evidence — but I had this idea first. Rolly kegel balls in a butt plug? Oh yes. Years ago. You can imagine my delight when not one but two companies came out with products closely following my vision. You can imagine my despair when both of them failed me. The Marc Dorcel Geisha Plug was the first to let me down. First with the name, because NO. Second with the “diamond” base. Chintzy and laughable, it looks like one of those fake mirrors a Barbie would hold. But mostly with the sensation. The…
  • This sex toy will “rejuvenate” your pitiful vulva for just $850

    10 Jul 2015 | 11:18 pm
    Day by day, second by second, time is destroying your vulva. Your labia are deflating like a sad soufflé. Your vagina is drying up. The color is draining from your genital region. Your husband is weeping. Your dinner is burning. Your life is a farce. Enter the Lowe Aurora, a sex toy providing “low-level laser treatment” for your genitals. For your “health.” Of course. More like a massive laser pointer created solely to make you feel bad about your vulva. It’s like someone thought to themselves, how can we combine crushing beauty standards and sex toys? The…
  • Let me teach you The Business of Blogging About Sex!

    8 Jul 2015 | 3:49 pm
    I have a proposition for you, peeps. If you’ve ever wanted to start a sex blog, or take your current sex blog to a higher level of awesome… …let me teach you how! This October, I’m teaming up with expert sex writer JoEllen Notte (Redhead Bedhead) for a four-week interactive online class on the business of blogging about sex! We will spill all the insider secrets we’ve amassed in our decade of combined experience sex blogging. Having turned our one-time hobbies into profitable online businesses, we have our share of triumphs and horror stories —…
  • Together, we form one fully functional human

    4 Jul 2015 | 1:47 pm
    Sex toy temporary tattoos and the lengths we go through to photograph them. Photo by Kate Sinclaire. 7 sex bloggers were standing outside a glass blowing studio. We’d been waiting for an hour and there was no sign of the studio owners, who’d previously agreed to a private glass dildo making session. It was clear that we’d have to reschedule with them, but how? None of us wanted to pick up the phone. Finally, Girly Juice volunteered to call the studio the next day. The rest of us sighed with relief. Girly Juice thought it was funny that we kept calling her Girly Juice.
  • I’m published in Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1!

    17 Jun 2015 | 10:47 pm
    It’s still surreal to say. I’m published. My name. Epiphora. On the pages of a book. Followed by my words — about dongs, no less. It’s not something I’ll be showing to my high school journalism teacher at his retirement party next month, but that doesn’t make it less meaningful. In fact, this book is a special sort of validation of my work as a sex writer. My mom already made me order a copy for her — and sign it. Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1 was edited by Jon Pressick, whom interviewed me flawlessly for his Sex City Radio show last…
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  • brokeback – sexylittleideas

    26 Jul 2015 | 12:32 pm
    #3: – Seven Fetish SeriesPreviously – #2 Mythos Campaign: Reina DiazCampaign by: Patricia Medina, Graham Anderton for Aztex TradingModel: IIt’s like Brokeback, only straight. So just a regular cowboy then.
  • passersby, martyrs, and monogamy: july- e[lust] 72

    25 Jul 2015 | 12:39 pm
    Photo courtesy of Tabitha Rayne Welcome to Elust #72 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #73? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Broken Invisible Pride: Bi Erasure Disabled Gentleman ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Erotic Fiction:…
  • gentleman is the opposite of feminist

    21 Jul 2015 | 2:42 pm
    or A Different Kind of DisgustingA gentleman refers to women as the weaker sex. A feminist refers to women as equals.Gentlemen pay for women’s drinks. Feminists pay women a fair and equal wage for equal work.Gentlemen give women a hand so they don’t slip in their heels. Feminists don’t shoehorn women into wardrobe choices that are objectifying and damaging in the first place.Gentlemen open doors for women. Feminists open their own doors and shatter glass ceilings.A gentleman loans a woman his coat to keep her covered. A feminist frees the nipple.A gentleman always tries to…
  • victim-blaming is insulting to men

    11 Jul 2015 | 3:48 pm
    or Blaming Her, Insulting Himor The Knee-JerkShe was asking for it.If you don’t wanna get raped don’t dress provocatively.Blaming the victims of sexual aggression/assault misconstrues the crime and damages and re-traumatizes the woman. … …But it is also quite offensive to the man, and to men in general.Let’s talk about that.I have a friend who keeps a pet snake, a 5-foot western whip, for all you snake nerds out there. One day, her pet snake bit her. It was hungry or angry about some snakey little annoyance, and it struck out of nowhere and locked its jaws around…
  • the life, death, and subsequent reincarnation of the spanking

    4 Jul 2015 | 11:44 am
    or The Physiological Benefits of Hitting Other PeopleI think it’s funny that the more illegal and socially unacceptable spankings become as a child’s punishment, the more mainstream and typical they become as an erotic accessory.Spankings used to be something every parent did to every child and maybe three men did to their wives during sexual congress before being burned at the stake as heretics.Then they became something that only strict parents did to their children and perverts did to their wives.Soon after, they became something that only terrible parents did to their…
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  • Roy Pointer (1923–2004)

    26 Jul 2015 | 12:58 pm
    Roy Pointer (1923–2004), the cinematographer of Naked As Nature Intended, with Pamela Green in his arms. Roy Pointer (1923–2004), the cinematographer of Naked As Nature Intended, carrying Pamela Green in his arms. Taken on the set by Douglas Webb. See the post Lucky Devil for more about Roy or check out the book Naked as Nature Intended: The Epic Tale of a Nudist Picture to find out more about the film. Share
  • Nudist Life at Spielplatz

    24 Jul 2015 | 4:32 am
    Nudist Life at Spielplatz, the story of a modern experiment in the art of living by Charles Sennet, with an art supplement of photographs taken at the Hertfordshire nudist resort by Stephen Glass, was published by The Naturist Ltd. in 1956. The 56 page booklet is pretty rare so I was pretty surprised to come across a nice clean copy that I managed to match up with the original negative of the cover image taken by Stephen Glass. As you can see they flipped the image round for the cover. Not sure who the models are and I guess I should do a bit more research into Charles Sennet. If you know any…
  • Tweet and Chirp!

    3 Jul 2015 | 4:46 am
    A rather delightful rare image of a young Pamela Green getting all Disney with a budgie. As far as I know unpublished. Taken by Stephen Glass at Spielplatz around the early ’50s —  if I’m not mistaken. Pretty sure the bird is stuffed. Taken from the original negative. Pamela Green at Spielplatz by Stephen Glass Share
  • Pandora by Joan Craven

    3 Jun 2015 | 4:23 am
    Pamela Green as Pandora by Joan Craven This picture is a favourite of mine. Pamela Green as Pandora, as photographed by Joan Craven. This was a freelance job while Pamela was working at the London Casino in Old Compton Street. Pamela Green met Joan Craven when she was sent by her agent to Kinocrat House to work for the photographer Walter Bird. Joan Craven shared studios with Walter. Pamela also posed as Circe, the goddess of magic, for Joan — a picture I’ve not yet come across. For more about Joan read my earlier post Joan Craven (1897-1979) Shona Craven has started a website dedicated…
  • Beauty Queen

    28 May 2015 | 2:32 am
    Mrs. Iseult Kelly — Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain, 1955. Three judges looked carefully at 30 girls filing past them during a contest to choose the Nudist Beauty Queen of Britain. 23-year-old housewife, Mrs Iseult Kelly, mother of a six-months-old daughter, was chosen the winner. Her parents founded the Spielplatz Nudist Club at Bricket Wood, near Watford, where the contest was held on 1st August 1955. Being a member of Spielplatz, Pamela Green was friends with Iseult. Not sure of the year but Pamela Green once won a Miss Venus contest at the club. Share
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  • Fine Art Friday: American Gothic

    24 Jul 2015 | 3:20 am
    You still like fine art, right?  Mr. American Gothic is showcasing the Icicles No. 23 and both colors of the Icicles No. 45. You can get them all at SheVibe! The post Fine Art Friday: American Gothic appeared first on Sugarcunt Writes.
  • The Creep Factor

    15 Jul 2015 | 1:43 am
    Ella Dawson’s post titled The Boner Backlash (subtitled: STOP TELLING ME YOU WOULD STILL FUCK ME) hit home with me in a very personal way, and I imagine that anyone who writes about sex can relate, particularly if they’re perceived as women. People tend to get overly familiar when you write about sex, perform in sex, or work in the adult industry. To some degree this is fine, because many of us want to educate and are more than happy to discuss things to that end. There is a culture of sexual openness that I try to perpetuate as a sex blogger. I think we should be able to talk about sex…
  • Fine Art Friday: Statue of David

    10 Jul 2015 | 9:00 am
    I hope you appreciate fine art like I do. David is modeling a NobEssence Seduction and the Black Widow Connoisseur Harness with the Feeldoe Stout. Get the harness and feeldoe from either Tantus or SheVibe. Grab a Seduction from SheVibe! The post Fine Art Friday: Statue of David appeared first on Sugarcunt Writes.
  • Highlights From the First Ever Jerkathon

    1 Jul 2015 | 12:02 pm
    Back at the beginning of May I masturbated with dildos for the second time in over a year. I spent over two hours masturbating and livetweeting it, and I hashtagged it #Jerkathon. I piled my sex toys for the night into an empty McDonald’s bag and carried all my things to the bedroom, and I was ready to begin. The Jerkathon began as so many jack-off sessions do in Sex Blogger World: With the We-Vibe Tango. I found that the Tango was actually pretty awesome once my hood piercing was removed, because it covered more of my clit and did a lot less rattling. I was blown away by how stealthy…
  • The Tantus General

    17 Jun 2015 | 4:42 pm
    The Tantus General might be one of my new favorite dildos. It’s not the biggest dildo I own (that title goes to Amsterdam, which I still haven’t managed to get into my vagina), or the biggest dildo that I’ve fucked (the T-Rex is 2.25” in diameter whereas the General is only 2” at its widest). It is, however, a dildo that has provided me with one of the most satisfying orgasms I’ve ever had. When the General was offered to me, I hadn’t given it much thought before. It looked like a nice dildo, but it only came in black (a matte black, for those who are wondering) and featured…
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  • Frosty Figurines: Giving Action to Action Figures

    27 Jul 2015 | 12:53 pm
    Why make the boobs this big???Action figures need love too.  So give them the action they crave.Here's a porn genre I stumbled upon that I think is noteworthy just because I have not thought of it nor seen it before: cumming on figurines. That's right, you see a little plastic girl and she's like, hot, right? So what do you want to do? Cum on her.  Does it matter that she's 5 inches tall and made of plastic? Not at all.Note: I am putting some animated gifs at the bottom so it doesn't slow the page load times.Much better! <3 Small boobs! <3I will say, the girls are definitely…
  • It's hard to be a Dom

    25 Jul 2015 | 8:48 pm
    Seriously. You have to have a lot of skills to be a Dom/Domme.  A good Dom/me must have both physical, emotional, planning and command skills... and so I am going to argue that it is much more difficult to be a Dom/me than it is to be a sub.  A good Dom/me must be in command at all times and 'have their game face on' in front of their sub -- and this does take some effort (and natural inclination, of course.)  But a good Dom  (I will uses the male gender because it is shorter) must also have a wide variety of skills and he must be proficient at them in order to be…
  • Sex Improves Your Paycheck

    21 Jul 2015 | 5:32 pm
    Want to make more money? Have more sex. Yes, you read that right.  According to Cambridge business school lecturer Nick Drydakis, having sex more than 3 times a week results in a statistically significant rise in your paycheque.  Specifically, you earn on average 4.5% more (so if you earn $80k a year, your more laid colleague earns $83 600. ) Now, before you start trying to fuck your way to success, keep in mind that these figures are simply correlated and this is not a causal relationship.   Other studies have related high frequency of sex to:better skin (and less zits)lower…
  • Handy Trick to tell sub from Domme

    20 Jul 2015 | 5:22 pm
    This simple trick helps you tell Domme from sub without having to ask.  Just say, "Hold my flogger please." Then watch the response. This is the easiest way to quickly tell a sub from a Dom without advertising that you may be interested in jumping the poor submissive and making her cry for hours.Simply task them with holding your flogger. If she takes it and holds it like this:submissive holding a floggerThen she is a submissive.   Obviously, there are many less overt ways she can hold it for you than this, but generally she holds the flogger in a way that she cannot immediately use…
  • Bikini that Shows your Nipples!

    16 Jul 2015 | 11:43 am
    Why can't girls go topless on the beach? It's ridiculous and offensive.   I know my male nipples are pretty amazing and glorious...yet I feel like girls nipples are even better (personal bias) and women should be free to bare them if it pleases them. Especially at the beach -- because as far as I am concerned, people are able to swim naked with no difficulties whatsoever.However, the 'man' is still violently opposed to a worldwhere women are sexually free and empowered.  And as pointed out so effectively by the "Free the Nipple" folks,,,even though it is legal to go topless in New…
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  • Questions from Earth: Edition #1 – Lifespan of sex toys

    15 Jul 2015 | 7:40 am
    Got a question, but want to stay anonymous? Ask me here or here! How long should you keep a porous male masturbator (like a Tenga or a Fleshlight) with proper care before there’s probably way too much bacterial growth in the micropores? According to Tenga their products need to be thrown out after a year, or after 50 uses (whichever one comes first). According to Fleshlight, their products last for a lifetime. Sadly, none of these are necessarily true. My partner owned a Tenga and forgot to wash his once, and it became completely disgusting after only 10 times or so of usage. Very sad…
  • Review: Bad Dragon Winstons Tail – A Personal Girth Trainer

    30 Jun 2015 | 3:14 pm
    The struggle is real. Each time the Winstons Tail is doing crazy things inside of me, all I want to do is rush to the computer and rave about how good it is as soon as I’m done. However, each time I orgasm with this thing, all I want to do is hide my head between my legs and wonder “Ugh why?! Why me?!” I seem to be cursed with this you-will-love-but-your-orgasms-will-suck spell. Now, when this happens, I normally write something in the lines of: “So if you’re looking for orgasms, go look somewhere else. There are better toys out there that get the job done better.” Sadly, this…
  • 2-Year Blogiversary Giveaway Winners!

    28 May 2015 | 2:16 pm
    Wow! Do you know there were almost 400 of you that participated in this celebration? Meaning that there are almost 400 of you that are sex nerds with sexy and healthy sexual lives. Props to you all, peeps. Seriously, props to you all. Now, before getting to the winners, I have a couple of very important announcements to make: 1) You bunch sent me a whole lot of amazing questions in the survey. Since it’s anonymous, I have no way of emailing you the answers. As a solution, for the next couple of months, or year, or however long it’s going to take me, I’m going to answer them here, in…
  • Life of a Sheltered Child: Menstrual Sex

    20 May 2015 | 7:53 am
    Menstrual sex. Is it safe? I still don’t know. I had it three times. The first time it happened to me was, well…I don’t even know what was happening to me. I was at my partner’s house and we were having our weekly fuck session. As he was repositioning himself, he looked down at his penis and he let out a loud slow gasp. I, on the other hand, was lying on the bed and I didn’t know what was going on. So I, casually, asked him “What’s wrong?” He looked at me, mouth opened wide, with a much panicked look on his face. After a moment of silence, he stuttered…
  • Achievement Unlocked: I WON AN AWARD!

    13 May 2015 | 8:46 am
    So I apparently have a Real Neat Blog – according to Insatiable Desire, Sugar Cunt, BlissfullyOrgasmic, Carnal Chameleon & Tease For Two – and these awesome bloggers have nominated me to the Real Neat Blog award! Can you believe this? This tiny little blog of mine actually got an award! Wow. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Now that I’m standing on this award stage, I have to undergo the consequences of winning an award – answering very personal questions. So here we go! THE QUESTIONS: WHY DID YOU START BLOGGING? To do something that I want to do. Since I was born, my life…
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    Emancipating Sexuality

  • Flagging Green for Ecosexual Daddy giving redemption

    Pavini Moray
    14 Jul 2015 | 11:57 am
    “What are you flagging?” Sie asks. I follow hir green eyes down to the matching green bandana hanging off my belt. I’ve been camping for days on the gentle land of southwest Washington state, without giving a thought to the queer hanky code that relies on colored bandanas in one’s back pocket to signify sexual […]
  • Erotic Being versus Erotic Doing

    Pavini Moray
    24 Feb 2015 | 10:43 am
    I’m lying on my bed, legs spread, my lover’s mouth on my junk. And I’m not doing anything. Not tensing, not thrusting, not helping, not wiggling, not desiring. I am simply being, while my body is stimulated and pleasured. The sensation is exquisite. The pleasure builds and builds. As it builds, I feel each tiny […]
  • Deep Humility, in service to sacred Eros

    Pavini Moray
    19 Feb 2015 | 12:18 pm
    4 More Days LEFT! Last night I went to the Pacific Ocean, and released the Rose of Jericho plant that had sat on my altar since the full moon. This plant, and its release, were part of the magickal manifestation spell I did for this fundraiser. I stood there in the moon-dark night, waves crashing […]
  • The Birds and the Bees and the Fucking in the Trees!

    Pavini Moray
    18 Feb 2015 | 10:43 am
    When you or a loved one is looking for queer, ecosexual porn to get you hot and bothered, where do you turn? I know, right?  If you are like most of us, your poor, sad inner ecosexual don’t get much loving in the media. Nature is sexy. That’s why they call the big sex talk […]
  • No matter what, I choose to feel it

    Pavini Moray
    12 Jan 2015 | 12:33 pm
    I emailed this week with a young man living in Northern Europe.  He was curious about his sexuality, and because of a physical disability, did not have much experience.  Because of his location, he did not have much access to sexuality support.  He had found me on the internet and reached out so bravely, across […]
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  • Sex Positions: Cowgirl

    Anida Leeds
    3 Jul 2015 | 4:44 am
    This one is dedicated to all those cowboys out there. The cowgirl sex position is one of the most helpful ways for a female to achieve her orgasms. So cowboys sit back, let your cowgirl take the bull by the horns and enjoy the ride! The Cowgirl position allows a woman to control almost everything about the ride – the speed, depth of penetration,and the angle. She can change any one of these to better position herself and achieve an orgasm. This position will allow you to better reach her g-spot and clitoral stimulation and give her a mind blowing orgasm! If she's sitting straight up, your…
  • Celebrate Your Relationship on Mother’s Day & Father’s Day

    Bonnie Morgan
    30 Apr 2015 | 10:00 am
    It takes a strong relationship to be parents, and the responsibilities of parenting can certainly take its toll on relationships. Mother's Day and Father's Day are great times to celebrate an honor each other for all the great reasons you became parents. If you're like most couples with kids - whether you have one or several - kids are priority No. 1 followed by work and taking care of the house. By the time you get done changing diapers, checking homework or staying up late making sure kids get home in time to make curfew, along with all of your other responsibilities, when do you have time…
  • 5 Ways To Be More Romantic

    Anida Leeds
    26 Mar 2015 | 7:49 am
    Romance plays a big part in any relationship, but if it wanes, you could be in trouble. Up the romance with these five simple suggestions. When you first met your partner, you probably did a lot for each other. Surprise dates combined with little gifts and dining out. Over time, the romance can take a dip and the relationship can go limp fairly quickly. I'm sure if you are still together some love still lingers, but when a night on the couch watching TV becomes the norm, it's probably time to turn the romance dial up. Here are a few tips to get you started. 5. Plan Surprise Dates Surprise…
  • A Mans Guide to Fifty Shades of Grey

    Anida Leeds
    10 Feb 2015 | 8:50 am
    You have all heard by now how great the Fifty Shades of Grey series of books are and hopefully some of you may have the opportunity for some reenactment or role playing. We all know this weekend is special besides being Valentine’s Day but also opening weekend for the movie. So with that being said we don’t want you being left in the dark, we are providing you a guide that every man needs this holiday season. The Mans Guide to Fifty Shades will prepare you for the sexual revolution that is upon us. We’ll provide you with details of the toys so you can get the job done. Show your Dom and…
  • Top Ten Sex Toys 2014 - Part 2

    Anida Leeds
    12 Jan 2015 | 9:30 am
    Without further adieu we bring you the Top 5. The "Top Ten Adult Sex Toys Sold 2014" is a list of products everyone couldn't get enough of. From lube to double sided dongs 2014 was a sexy year. If you ever wanted to ramp up your sex life this list will surely help. We started off with number 10 - 6 in Part 1 of our list, and continue with the Top 5 Sex Toys Sold 2014 bellow. #5 Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl - PinkGet pleasure hopping with the Remote Control Thrusting Rabbit Pearl from Pipedream! This is the deluxe version of our original, best-selling Rabbit Pearl and it's loaded with…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • Shibari Woman can Have Orgasm from Just Talking About Rope

    Annie Cumswallow
    27 Jul 2015 | 6:18 am
    JUTTE, ALASKA For Shibari bottom Denise Fitz, 22, the lure of rope goes beyond tying, caressing, suspensions or floor work.  Fitz is so enamored with rope that she can find herself orgasming simply at the mention of a few shibari related words. “Whenever I hear someone say ‘futo’ I get all quivery and my knees turn to jello,” Fitz says, “and once you add other Japanese words, I just start to have orgasm after orgasm.  I used to have to hear the full ‘ushirode takate kote shibari’ to completely get off, then after a while it was just ‘takate…
  • Man Skeptical He Is Getting “Full Story” in Relationship Breakup

    Lazlo Toth
    24 Jul 2015 | 6:18 am
    CASPER, WYOMING Julius Carter, a 43 year old male switch from Casper is skeptical this morning that he getting the full story of AzRopeGrll’s breakup after reading her posting on the popular fetish website Fetlife.  In the extensive post detailing her split from MasterOfShibari, the 22 year old rope bottom and self-described “rope masochist” says some things that for Carter “just don’t add up.” “I read the post several times and I just have to ask, if he really did do the things she says, why did she stay with him for almost 3 years?  Doesn’t…
  • Mastication Couple Eager to “Eat Out”

    Nigel Slainsbottom
    23 Jul 2015 | 6:48 am
    PORTLAND, OREGON Oregon couple Stephen and Shirley Brill are part of growing fetish subculture who love “mastication play,” the chewing up and expelling of foodstuffs onto the human body, particularly the genitals. Often, mastication play ends up in “dirty sex” with the subject masticated foodstuffs involved. “This has been a part of our lives for almost a decade,” said Shirley. “But we’re ready to go out to eat.” The two have had meals together at home every night for the last six years. “We’re ready to evolve our relationship…
  • Man’s Attitude Improves with Just 3 Swats

    Jane Jameson
    22 Jul 2015 | 6:11 am
    HALIFAX, UTAH Mistress Wanda Von Kruel said her slave, Mark Pfeffer, 39, had been acting out and causing difficulties in the dungeon over the past few months.  After a stern lecture and scolding, she took her slave over her knee and began delivering bare handed spankings to his exposed ass. After 3 swats of what onlookers called “a pretty low key warm up,” Pfeffer called out “My attitude is adjusted Mistress.” “I was shocked,” the experienced Domme said.  “I usually have to really wail on their asses, but this one shaped right up.  I told him he…
  • New Chinese Made Collars Designed for Short Term Relationships

    Lazlo Toth
    21 Jul 2015 | 6:53 am
    LONDON, CHINA A new supply of what appear to be stainless steel collars has been flooding the American BDSM market.  Produced by a large factory in China, the collars are produced very inexpensively and sold to unaware customers in the US at a substantial markup. The low quality metal, however, produce an effect that has become known as “greening” where the cheap metal turns the skin on the submissive’s neck green, giving the dominant a chance to remove the collar and end the relationship. According to Master D, one of Chicago’s most well know dominants, he has been…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy, my review

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    9 Jul 2015 | 12:06 pm
     I highly recommend Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy. It is appropriate for personal relationships and for professionals who are working with couples. Learn more about Michael at   The post Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy, my review appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • How do couples stay in love for decades?

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    1 Jun 2015 | 10:33 am
    My friend, Michael Gurian, just published a new book you might be very interested in. In it, he asks and answers this question: Why do some couples stay in love for decades, while others hardly make it past their honeymoon? The post How do couples stay in love for decades? appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Why & how to create family rules about electronics in the bedroom

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    1 Jun 2015 | 8:34 am
    Great article on why and how to create family rules about electronics in the bedroom. Try parking them in kitchen at night. The post Why & how to create family rules about electronics in the bedroom appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Cliteracy and women’s sexual satisfaction

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    27 May 2015 | 12:26 pm
    Understanding the actual anatomy and physiology of a woman's clitoris is a key step in optimizing sexual satisfaction for women. The post Cliteracy and women’s sexual satisfaction appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Safety testing and monitoring of vaginal products

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    26 May 2015 | 8:18 am
    Too many "everyday" products that are put inside the vagina have not undergone adequate safety testing or regulation by the FDA. The post Safety testing and monitoring of vaginal products appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
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    Better Sex Blog

  • Perv: Part One

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    28 Jul 2015 | 9:22 am
    I highly recommend the book Perv by Jesse Bering, The Sexual Deviant in All of Us.  Bering includes many personal stories of growing up gay in America. He also explains and explores how one’s sexual interests are often formed and how each person’s sexual proclivities are, “as unique as their fingerprints.” I think this is an important perspective because many people feel that they just want to feel “normal” sexually. I often explain to my patients that there is no normal.  I feel that the most important thing is to know yourself sexually and to feel good about who you are…
  • Botox Treatment for Vaginismus

    Tara Ford, RPA-C
    21 Jul 2015 | 1:30 pm
    We have been receiving more inquiries lately about our Botox treatment for vaginismus.  I wrote a case study article about one of our patient’s experience with the Botox procedure that was published by the Journal of Women’s Health Care in February 2014.  If you are curious about the procedure and want more information I highly encourage you to read this article. We would also be happy to speak with you to answer any questions you may have.  If you live out of town and aren’t quite sure if you are a candidate for this treatment, we have a comprehensive medical…
  • So Far Away

    Rachel Hercman, LCSW
    16 Jul 2015 | 9:32 am
    By the time many of our patients walk through our door, sex has become a sore subject in their relationships.  Feeling sexually distant from a partner can manifest in various ways, and patients have shared descriptions that tend to come down to the same idea: We live in the same place and share so much, but it feels like we are so far away from each other. The sexual distance doesn’t ensue overnight. It tends to be a gradual process where the sound of your disconnect starts out low and faint. Your busy routine drowns it out and your focus is on the louder things in your life, the tasks…
  • Something Is Wrong, I’m Not Sure What

    Bat Sheva Marcus, LMSW MPH PhD
    10 Jul 2015 | 10:24 am
    We get this all the time. Women come in to see us and they know that something is wrong with their sex life, but often they are not sure what it is. They feel silly that they can’t put their finger on the problem and that makes it doubly difficult to come to us for help. But it shouldn’t. Here’s the deal. Sex is complicated. Low desire (not wanting sex) can often be connected to not enjoying sex or not having orgasms. But it can also stand on its own. And people find that confusing. Avoiding relationships can often be a subconscious way of avoiding sex and then people get confused about…
  • Marriage Math

    Barbara Gross, LMSW
    8 Jul 2015 | 10:05 am
    John Gottman is one of the most well-known couples therapist. He has an institute in Seattle and has done enormous amounts of research on what makes couples successful. Gottman has found, “that marriages fall into the danger zone for divorce when the ratio of positive to negative interactions falls below five to one. Just by watching a videotape of a couple in the first few moments of a conversation about an area of marital contention, Gottman can predict with 94 percent accuracy which couples will later divorce.”  He says that it is not that healthy couples don’t disagree…
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    Sex Talk About

  • Introduction to Breast Bondage

    Penguin Pete
    23 Jul 2015 | 12:26 pm
    Women’s breasts are a very sensitive erotic zone. There are women who can orgasm from breast and nipple stimulation alone, and beyond that almost every woman appreciates some breast stimulation during sexual release. In the case of breast bondage, a woman need not be a masochist to appreciate some stimulation in this area. But for masochists, some attention in this area is just that much better. Like the buttocks, breasts can also take a tough beating and not have any long-term injury. However, some precautions make sense before doing any more advanced play. Here we’ll list some…
  • How to Use Kegel Balls

    Mrs. Smith
    16 Jul 2015 | 4:45 pm
    Kegel Balls have been used in one form or another since around 500 AD. While they have been called many different things over the centuries, such as Ben Wa Balls, their purpose has remained the same. When used on a regular basis, they can help re-tone, re-strengthen, and improve the overall condition of the pelvic floor muscles. Regular use of Kegel Balls can even remedy stress incontinence, which develops as the result of weakened muscles. They are available in a variety of sizes (typically 29mm to 36mm are very common ranges) and materials, which can range from simple silicon to solid…
  • Bondage for Beginners

    Penguin Pete
    10 Jul 2015 | 11:28 pm
    Thanks to recent films like Secretary and Fifty Shades of Grey, there’s renewed interest and awareness in the public about bondage. This is a good thing, as alternative relationships emerge more into the mainstream and greater acceptance of expressed sexuality make a more liberated environment for all of us. Many couples are at least curious to try it once. But before jumping into bondage, the first thing a person should be aware of is the safety concerns. It is very possible to cause injuries or medical emergencies while practicing bondage. A restrained person might experience…
  • Types of Dildos

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:26 pm
    A dildo is the most basic form of amusement when sex toys come to mind. No battery required. No click here. No plug there (sort of). You grab it, you insert it, and what happens next, and the way it happens, is totally up to you – or you and your partner. Yes, it is basic. However, it is far from being ordinary. And that is why the adult market offers so many types of dildos for you to choose from. Confused among so many options? Don’t worry, we are going to help you to choose the right one for you. Keep reading… Size Matters When we talk about dildos, size matters. A lot!
  • Benefits of Watermelon for Your Sexual Life

    Genesis Davies
    7 Jun 2015 | 12:10 am
    By sundaecone30 Watermelon is a tasty treat that most people associate with summer and picnics. This staple of your childhood actually has a bigger purpose now that you’re an adult . . . improving your sex life. While watermelon is probably the last fruit you’d think of when it comes to sex, the juicy red fruit is packed with citrulline. This useful phyto-nutrient converts to the amino acid arginine when you ingest it. Arginine has a great effect on the circulatory system. It also increases the amount of nitric oxide in the body, which has a Viagra-like effect on the blood vessels. Nitric…
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    Hush-Hush Adult Directory

  • Sexhibition, Manchester – only 24 days to go!

    Anthony West
    28 Jul 2015 | 2:26 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. Believe it or not, there are only 24 days to go until Sexhibition! Sexhibition VIP Dinner Tickets will come to an end on the 8th of August. The post Sexhibition, Manchester – only 24 days to go! appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Eva Karera signs with OC Modeling

    Anthony West
    28 Jul 2015 | 1:48 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The curvaceous, raven-haired beauty Eva Karera has been featured on countless DVD covers and worked for all the major adult studios. The post Eva Karera signs with OC Modeling appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Kayla-Jane Danger interviewed by Huff Post

    Anthony West
    28 Jul 2015 | 1:36 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. When you make a parody like this, it’s bound to get press. Huffington Post interviewed Kayla-Jane Danger for a piece in HuffPost Weird News. The post Kayla-Jane Danger interviewed by Huff Post appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Hot lesbian action in Girls Kissing Girls 17

    Anthony West
    24 Jul 2015 | 5:50 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. In Girls Kissing Girls 17 you’ll see some of the sexiest women succumbing to girlish fantasies they never knew they had, only at AEBN VOD. The post Hot lesbian action in Girls Kissing Girls 17 appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
  • Get your Sexhibition VIP tickets

    Anthony West
    24 Jul 2015 | 5:20 am
    Hush-Hush Adult Directory Hush-Hush Adult Directory - Sex news headlines, UK sex toys reviews, adult industry news, porn star interviews, adult web site reviews and adult directory. The evening's full line-up of scintillating performances and shows, can be enjoyed with a delicious 3 course gourmet meal and cabaret seating. The post Get your Sexhibition VIP tickets appeared first on Hush-Hush Adult Directory.
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  • Scott Feschuk's column on summer beer is hilarious and right on

    Jennifer Villamere
    9 Jul 2015 | 6:36 am
    Scott Feschuk is a Canadork renaissance man and my favourite kind of humorist: a versatile one.Feschuk has written for This Hour Has 22 Minutes and, presumably with a straight face, worked as the chief speechwriter for then Prime Minister Paul Martin.Weird. Are they smiling on a Greyhound bus?That’s like Obama hiring a Daily Show writer to put words into his mouth. Delicious! Friends, hosers, countrymen, lend me your ears: This is the greatest country in the world.Feschuk is one of two reasons I subscribe to Macleans Magazine, where he writes the weekly humour column (the other reason is…
  • Seriously, if you're not wearing a brooch, why did you even bother getting dressed this morning?

    Jennifer Villamere
    29 Jun 2015 | 8:02 am
    I don't know if you noticed, but everyone is wearing brooches which means that if you aren't, this is like that dream where someone on a website you're reading points out that you are, in fact, naked.You are naked without a brooch. Go buy one now, you heathen.
  • Today in sex news: A giant, glitter-spraying penis that sneaks up on you

    Jennifer Villamere
    25 Jun 2015 | 10:25 am
    Giant glitter-spraying penis stars in Norwegian sex education advert [VIDEO]Norwegian sexual health charity hires man in giant penis costume to creep up on unsuspecting members of the public and spray them with golden confetti. Read more >>The secret lives of phone sex workersPhil Toledano tracked down US phone sex professionals, photographed them in their homes and asked them to talk through the realities of the job. From the 60-year-old with an anthropology degree to the man who plays cards while he works, the results were unexpected. Read more >>The Little Death awkwardly…
  • What to wear on Canada Day so you don't look sloppy while getting drunk

    Jennifer Villamere
    24 Jun 2015 | 10:46 am
    There's no wrong way to do Canada Day.Seriously, you do you, you big Canadian weirdos.But here is some inspiration for a real beauty of a Canada Day:Follow Jenny Villamere's board Canada Day on Pinterest.
  • Your real horoscope: June 23-29

    Jennifer Villamere
    23 Jun 2015 | 4:32 pm
    ARIES (March 21 - April 20):Uh oh. You think you may have made a huge mistake. Fret not. All will be well.TAURUS (April 21 - May 21):It’s time to break free. Sure, they’ll just keep pulling you. Back. In. But this is good practice. GEMINI (May 22 - June 21):Take it down a notch, big shot. The planets, and your ruler Mercury in particular, warn that you’ll be fucked if you shoot your wad in a big, stupid way.CANCER (June 22 - July 23):Hide under your bed for a while. Keep yourself a secret from the world. Also: deodorant. Wear it. LEO (July 24 - Aug. 23):The whole world isn’t against…
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    Senses Private Club

  • What Makes Women Attractive?

    Senses Private Club
    27 Jul 2015 | 12:06 am
    All red-blooded heterosexual men have one major thing in common: a love of attractive women. Have you ever stopped to think about the qualities that actually make a woman attractive? For some men it’s all about the personality and, for others, the physical attributes might be the deciding factor. We at Senses know a thing […] The post What Makes Women Attractive? appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Best Tips To Build Your Sexual Confidence

    Senses Private Club
    20 Jul 2015 | 1:55 am
    So you feel the need to build your sexual confidence a bit? Think back to the last time you had a woman screaming out and gasping your name in satisfied exhaustion. What was the key? What was it that caused you to be able to let go enough to make her tell her friends about […] The post Best Tips To Build Your Sexual Confidence appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Do Escorts Have Orgasms With Their Clients?

    Adley S.
    13 Jul 2015 | 12:43 am
    Of course all men would love to believe they rock the world of every escort they have a sexual encounter with; the truth however is not so simple. After all, escorts are women and as a woman I can tell you that I don’t always orgasm with every man I’m with. There are also other […] The post Do Escorts Have Orgasms With Their Clients? appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Second Annual Summer White Party In August

    Senses Private Club
    10 Jul 2015 | 7:08 am
    Our second annual Summer White Party is right around the corner. The date has been set for Saturday, August 22, 2015. This will be a fantastic evening full of sexy adult entertainment and some very special surprises! White attire is required and space is limited. If you're interested, don't delay in making your reservation around […] The post Second Annual Summer White Party In August appeared first on Senses Private Club.
  • Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls

    Senses Private Club
    2 Jul 2015 | 2:22 am
    The word vacation to a single guy can mean a wide variety of things. For some, it could mean a golf outing with the boys and for others it could be an adrenaline fueled romp through the wilderness. The one constant when looking for vacation spots for single guys is the ability to meet women. […] The post Best Vacation Spots For Single Guys To Meet Girls appeared first on Senses Private Club.
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