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  • Communicate Guys!

    The Daily Affair
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:18 am
    You’ve heard it a million times: but being able to talk openly  to your partner is crucial if you want to have a successful…
  • Jimmyjane Form 4

    Dangerous Lilly
    20 Jul 2014 | 12:02 pm
    The Jimmyjane Form 4  seems to be suffering a case of mistaken identity. Everything it claims to be, it is not.  I don’t have a good history with the brand; in fact it’s well-known that I will never recommend one of their products. I fondled their Iconic line at a Babeland a few years ago and was extremely underwhelmed. Don’t even get me started on those bumblebee-in-a-can Little Something vibes. I hated the Hello Touch and I wanted to set fire to the Form 3. The Form 6 bored me so much that I never found the fucks to give to review it. I tend to think that everything made…
  • 4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

    Sex Secrets
    Svetlana Ivanova
    17 Jul 2014 | 4:00 am
    Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.(Visited 133 times, 1 visits today)
  • Erotic Summer Experiments: Expanding the Standard Deviation

    Emancipating Sexuality
    Pavini Moray
    3 Jun 2014 | 1:21 pm
    Filed under: Blog Posts, Desire, Erotic Practice, Exploring Boundaries, fat, Genderqueer, pleasure, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Liberation, Sexuality Education
  • I wish you would stop …

    Simple Marriage
    21 Jul 2014 | 5:04 am
    Every marriage, every relationship, is fraught with perpetual problems and issues. It’s common that I will counsel a couple for several sessions, they reach their desired goals, and leave with renewed hope and energy for the marriage – then come back several years later still arguing about the same issues. While each person has changed and gained (or lost) a few pounds and wrinkles, they’re still having the same argument. Perhaps you’ve even seen this in your parent’s marriage, or in your grandparent’s. They fought about the same thing their entire life. One of the leaders in the…
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    Bound, Not Gagged

  • “SAVE” Bill would Help Traffickers and Hurt Youth, Homeless and Other Vulnerable Groups – Take Action!

    21 Jul 2014 | 4:03 pm
    Originally posted on Sex Worker Outreach Project - Chicago: Senator Kirk (IL) and Senator Feinstein (CA) recently introduced a bill (S. 2536) to the federal senate which would change requirements for placing adult advertisements, as well as record-keeping requirements for adult advertising websites. The bill, titled the “Kirk-Feinstein Stop Advertising Victims of Exploitation (SAVE) Act”  can be found here. The bill would impact any individual who places an online ad for any adult service (fetish, stripping, body rub, escort, and adult film), as well as all websites that contain…
  • Medical Survey of Human Trafficking Victims

    Amanda Brooks
    9 Oct 2013 | 10:34 am
    I’ve been asked to pass this along. The survey looks at medical care recieved by victims of human trafficking in the US during the time they were trafficked. It recognizes both sex and labor trafficking. The survey is available in English, Spanish, and Haitian Creole. The intro letter: Hello, I am an emergency medicine physician (currently at Columbia-NY Presbyterian, but still affiliated with Mount Sinai Medical Center) in NYC, conducting an anonymous survey of human trafficking survivors. The survey was designed with Dr. Susie Baldwin and the aim is learn more about survivors’…
  • Selling Consensual Sex Means Jail. Doctor Sexually Assaults 7 Women, No Jail

    31 May 2013 | 3:31 pm
    This is so wrong on so many levels.  From USA Today  31 May 2013 Seven women tearfully recounted in court how their doctor abused their trust to sexually exploit them.  Then they watched a judge sentence him to probation Thursday instead of prison. ALFRED, Maine (AP) — A Zumba fitness instructor who pleaded guilty to using her Maine studio as a front for prostitution is going to jail, bringing to an end a scandal featuring sex videos, adultery and exhibitionism. Alexis Wright was sentenced Friday under a…
  • Cleveland Kidnapping

    8 May 2013 | 10:09 am
    I understand this is a bit off topic as there hasn’t been information released, to my knowledge, isn’t inherently related to sex work. Although as sex workers we are all vulnerable to this kind of situation. Some of us have faced it first hand ourselves. But for anyone who knows me or knows of me these events obviously touch me on many levels very deeply. These girls are heroes beyond imagination. While the man who helped get them out is being called the hero and he is. His efforts still are tiny in comparison to what these girls endured for ten years. If they ever stumble on to…
  • Sex Worker Conference in Las Vegas- Register and/or Submit Your Proposal!

    7 Dec 2012 | 4:07 pm
    5th Desiree Alliance Conference-The Audacity of Health: Sex Work, Health, and Politics July 14-19, 2013 Las Vegas, NV Registration is Now Open for the 5th Desiree Alliance Conference Please read the registration details below to begin the process. Submit proposals for presentations by April 1, 2013 The Desiree Alliance is a national social justice organization that is led by current and former sex workers in coalition with health…
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  • best. dog shaming. ever.

    16 Jul 2014 | 8:34 am
    best. dog shaming. ever.
  • RedUP is hiring a PT Community Organizer in Brooklyn!

    8 Jul 2014 | 11:41 am
    RedUP is hiring a PT Community Organizer in Brooklyn!: redupnyc: The Red Umbrella Project (RedUP) is a small peer-led organization based in Brooklyn, New York, which amplifies the voices of people in the sex trades to take greater control of their lives and livelihoods through sustained and structured peer-mentoring initiatives, multimedia storytelling… Oh hey, RedUP is hiring and you should take a look, pass it on, help me find one badass person (sex workers highly preferred) in NYC who can help me keep RedUP awesome.
  • ""“The jury has the right to judge both the law as well as the fact in controversy.” And it remains..."

    7 Jul 2014 | 8:11 pm
    “"“The jury has the right to judge both the law as well as the fact in controversy.” And it remains entirely legal for a jury to acquit, regardless of the evidence, as a means of resisting unjust laws and sentencing. Juries have nullified to protest injustices throughout American history—in defense of the Boston Tea Party, against the Fugitive Slave Act, against Prohibition. Despite this proud tradition, nullification has been a well-kept secret since 1895, when the Supreme Court ruled that while juries had the right to nullify, judges were not required to inform them of this power.
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  • thekateblack: On June 21st, I broke my ankle. Like a lot of...

    1 Jul 2014 | 8:48 pm
    thekateblack: On June 21st, I broke my ankle. Like a lot of people, I live hand to mouth and have no insurance. The hospital and doctor visits are expensive. Medical devices are expensive. Cabs to/from my medical visits are expensive. Losing wages while I can’t work is expensive. Life without the mobility to do all the things I used to do to have a decent quality of life is expensive. Asking for help is depressing as fuck, and I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t have to. What I need MOST is money. If you’d like to donate, click here. I also need mobility. If you are in NYC and have a car and…
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  • Anonymous Post: Monistat interfering with period?

    25 Jul 2014 | 5:48 am
    Greetings, fellow Superstars! As you probably know, from time to time the VP Team makes posts on behalf of people who wish to remain anonymous or who do not have LJ accounts. This is one such post. Thanks in advance for your helpful comments. :)P.S. For more info on anonymous posts, see our instructions on how to make them!-- Kelseyfor the VP Teamcontact_vpi am 33 and on HBC. i had symptoms of a yeast infection for a week (no discharge, but itchy, painful intercourse, painful urination, sore to touch). the day before my period usually comes, i took monistat 1 at night. when i inserted the…
  • Brailizan bikini wax aftercare questions.

    24 Jul 2014 | 3:58 pm
    I got a brailizan bikini wax on Tuesday. I love it. I don't love the prices of the products she tried to sell me for exfolinating and ingrown hairs.  What are some cheaper options?  She told me not to use any harsh exfolinaters,  so what isn't too harsh?  Also, I have tea tree oil at home. How much/how often do I use it?  And last question, can I use Aveeno unscented lotion on that area to keep it soft?  I use to use it when I shaved there. Thanks for any answers!
  • Any ideas on what to do about shaving?

    24 Jul 2014 | 9:27 am
    I hope I'm posting this in the right area...I've come across a slight problem. I'm VERY irish so my skin is pretty fair but my mom has dark coloring and I also have dark coloring...fair skin and dark coloring, lovely mix (not). I have no problem shaving my legs or underarms or anything like that, my real problem is my bikini line. The hair extends about 1-1 1/2 inches down my thigh, so not a HUGE problem but enough to make it noticeable. I've shaved since as long as I can remember so now the skins kind of rough down there. I talked to my mom about it and she said as she was growing up she…
  • Uterine Lining Shed and a Question

    23 Jul 2014 | 6:18 pm
    Hi all! My second post in a month, but I had a very interesting experience and wanted to share/get some advice.I am on my first pack of Yaz (have been off it in over a year) and had gotten to the end of my active pills. I started having very minimal but very brown (with what looked like very, very small "shreds" of uterine material). I then continued to have very minimal but slowly turning redder bleeding in the first two days of the placebo pills. This morning I got up and removed my tampon, and a long peach-grey sac (that tapered down) seemed to come out right behind it!I was…
  • MMMMondays on Hiatus

    22 Jul 2014 | 4:53 pm
    Hi Superstars,Just a quick update to let you know that we're putting MMMMonday posts on hiatus for the summer, due to various life circumstances among the VP team. We'll keep you posted on when to look forward to them again! Meanwhile, if you'd like more VP-related reading material, check us out on Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr. Thanks!ToriFor the VP Teamcontact_vp
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    Love + Sex | Women's Lifestyle - Yahoo Shine

  • Do You Need a Heartbreak Coach?

    24 Jul 2014 | 4:29 pm
    by ScrewingTheRules Dating Coach Laurel HouseOne day you're happy, or happy enough, and the next it's over and your world feels like it has been smashed on the ground. You find yourself sobbing on the floor, noises coming out of you that sound more inhuman than your own. You're heartbroken and you don't know what to do. You can't work. You can't sleep. You can't eat (or you eat everything in your entire kitchen). You can't function. All you feel capable of doing is crying. And even that has become too exhausting.
  • #WeStillComing is Our New Favorite Wedding Crasher Hashtag

    24 Jul 2014 | 3:45 pm
    Let this be a lesson to you: Always know exactly who you're texting, or else you may give eager wedding crashers a golden opportunity, like Detroit couple Kristen and Rob did.
  • The Miami Hurricanes Mascot Walked This Bride Down the Aisle for the Sweetest Reason

    24 Jul 2014 | 3:34 pm
    Even though I'm a proud Florida State University alum, and the 'Canes are one of our biggest rivalry schools, I wouldn't be human if University of Miami alum Jennifer Sullivan's story didn't make me get a little something in my eye.
  • Did Blake Lively Show Us Her Wedding Dress in a Video Clip?

    24 Jul 2014 | 3:23 pm
    Besides offering adorable items for brides and grooms on her new lifestyle website, Preserve, Blake Lively might have let us in on another closely guarded wedding detail too: her wedding dress.
  • 9 Little Things Your Husband Never Gets Sick of Hearing

    24 Jul 2014 | 2:56 pm
    "Thank you." A study from the University of California showed that those who feel appreciated by their partners are also more appreciative of their partners-so it goes both ways. The next time your husband does something thoughtful, even if it's as tiny as remembering to put your wet beach towels in the wash instead of on the floor, say "thanks" instead of "Oh, good, you're learning!"
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    Blogul Lu' Mihai

  • Aplicații pentru iPhone

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:06 am
    Telefonul inteligent și iPhone-ul par a fi în competiție foarte strâns unele cu altele. Telefonul inteligent se pare ca este cel mai apropiat comparația cu iPhone-ul cu aspectul său, design si caracteristici. Există totuși unele caracteristici care trage cele două în afară. Cea mai tare iPhone gadget mână este, fără îndoială, cel mai bun telefon pentru toți oamenii de internet savvy din lume. Aici sunt unele dintre sfaturile de care se va adăuga doar până la distracție de a folosi acest obiect gadget extins mână. Gândiți-vă la a fi, fără a iPhone-ul de ceva timp…
  • Cum coenzima Q10 poate beneficia sanatatii tale

    24 Jul 2014 | 6:33 am
    Știați că există un supliment care poate întări inima, muschi si organe? Coenzima Q10 a început să primească o mulțime de atenție, datorită beneficiilor sale de sănătate potențiale. Cu toate acestea, mulți oameni care ar trebui să fie luat aceasta nu sunt, deoarece acestea nu au nici o idee despre efectele sale. Ce este Coenzima Q10? Înțelegerea CoQ10 va face îți dai seama cât de important această substanță este de a ajuta mentine corpul activ și sănătos. Celulele au o structură numite mitocondrii, care are grasimi si zaharuri și le transformă în energie. Este…
  • Fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz

    23 Jul 2014 | 7:21 am
    Mercedes-Benz este de fapt un producător german de automobile high-end, autobuze, camioane și autocare. Inca de la Organizatia a fost fondata in 1886, a fost o divizie a societății-mamă, Daimler AG. Mercedes-Benz este bine cunoscut din cauza calității lor și robustețe de automobile lor. Cantitatea de caracteristici tehnologice și de securitate care Mercedes a adus la industria este incomensurabil și a devenit o caracteristică necesară în aproape toate celelalte vehicule. Enumerate aici sunt unele fapte interesante despre Mercedes-Benz. Automobile Mercedes-Benz au fost observate…
  • Crește fertilitatea masculină cu plante

    23 Jul 2014 | 7:18 am
    Un număr de cupluri au conceput cu succes prin intermediul unor suplimente și extracte. Plante pot crește fertilitatea masculină prin oferirea de nutrientii necesari, precum și proprietățile energetice care sunt, uneori, lipsesc pentru productia de sperma sanatoasa si din belsug. Eficace ca unele plante ar putea fi, amintiți-vă că infertilitatea este o afectiune complexa, care poate necesita mai mult de un tip de tratament sau remediu pe bază de plante pentru a rezolva. Dacă doriți să încercați să utilizați plante pentru fertilitate îmbunătățită, este benefic pentru a…
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  • Another successful Strip Church Training in the books!

    25 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    We had close to 20 women come from all over the country-including a couple ladies from Canada!   We always get a variety of women that have a heart for this ministry.  Some are ex-industry, while others have never even stepped foot into a strip club! This training was unique from our past trainings because we ran it in conjunction with the Exxxotica Porn Convention outreach where XXXChurch set up the famous "Jesus Loves Porn Stars" booth. The first day of training we decided last minute to take the trainees across the street to the convention since it was "ladies night.”…
  • Do You Think You’re Valuable?

    24 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    What do you find valuable? Maybe an heirloom that’s been treasured for generations in your family? Or maybe a new car, with all the latest technology in it? Or perhaps you look at something less material as valuable, like social status or popularity? Now think about this: what if I smashed your heirloom against the wall? Or drove that car off an overpass? Or gossiped about you and damaged your social status? Would you be angry? Of course! Something you found valuable was damaged in some way! So now here’s the next question: Do you think of yourself as valuable?

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  • Talking To Your Kids About Porn, Sharks, And Potty Mouths

    23 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    It’s funny how life’s little moments can serve as great teachable opportunities, especially with kids. The other day I saw a video on twitter (you may have seen it too). It was of a man in Australia who jumped off a cliff into the harbor only to land about 20 feet away from a GREAT WHITE SHARK! (watch it here) What is so awesome about this footage is that it was taken from a camera strapped on the man’s helmet so you can watch the whole thing from a 1st person point of view. Not to be a spoiler, but the man lives and at the end of the video after he swims to shore, he takes…
  • Lust in Translation - I Struggle Too

    22 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Me too. I struggle. My struggle is lusting. 
The cootie shot I was given in 4th grade wore off and I was inflicted with a disease of selfish desire. 
I developed symptoms in middle school and the more hallways I walked the more I aimlessly meandered from my healthy innocence. Without a map I got lost staring with a dropped jaw and my misguided mind led me further from where I began. 
Lusting after girls went from a bad habit to an addiction accompanied by websites, pop-up ads, and guilt filled nights. Many times I’ve tried to find remedies to cure this struggle, but before I could…
  • Nine Reasons Men Should Stay Away From Porn

    21 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Pornography has little to do with sex and everything to do with fantasy. And if not confronted, this addiction to fantasy can become a consuming fire threatening all quality of life. So before you go looking again for that woman on the screen, here are nine reasons to consider against it. 1. Porn makes you unhappy and bored.Research says that those who regularly indulge themselves in pornography are more likely to have higher levels of anxiety and depression and lower levels of self-esteem than those who don’t. The brain is to blame for this.   Apparently, as one artificially…
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    Sexual Health News -- ScienceDaily

  • Linking microbial, immune environment in semen to HIV viral load, transmission

    24 Jul 2014 | 11:42 am
    HIV infection re-shapes the relationship between semen bacteria and immune factors which in turn affects viral load, suggesting that the semen microbiome plays a role in sexual transmission of HIV, researchers report. While HIV is found in many body fluids, sexual transmission through semen is the most common route of infection.
  • Control of HIV pandemic will not be achieved without radical improvement in support for sex workers

    22 Jul 2014 | 6:17 am
    Across the world, in high- and low-income countries, women, men, and transgender people who sell sex are subjected to repressive and discriminatory law, policy, and practice, which in turn fuel human rights violations against them, including violence and discrimination. All of these factors are preventing sex workers from accessing the services which they need in order to effectively prevent and treat HIV infection, according to a major new Series on HIV and sex workers.
  • Communication about female condom vital to young adults, researchers say

    21 Jul 2014 | 11:22 am
    Communication researchers examine sexual health messages aimed at young college adults about the female condom. The first female condom was introduced in the U.S. in 1993, but drew little interest due to several reasons including mixed or negative portrayals in the media. The Food and Drug Administration approved the second version of the female condom in 2009.
  • Circumcision does not promote risky behavior by African men, study finds

    21 Jul 2014 | 6:59 am
    Men do not engage in riskier behaviors after they are circumcised, according to a study in Kenya. Three clinical trials have shown that male circumcision significantly reduces the risk of acquiring HIV in young African men. However, some experts have suggested that circumcision, if promoted as an HIV preventive, may increase promiscuity or decrease condom use. This 'risk compensation' could diminish the effectiveness of medical male circumcision programs.
  • Rate of HIV diagnosis in U.S. examined in study

    19 Jul 2014 | 1:35 pm
    The annual HIV diagnosis rate in the U.S. decreased more than 30 percent from 2002-2011, with declines observed in several key populations, although increases were found among certain age groups of men who have sex with men, especially young men, according to a study.
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    Dangerous Lilly

  • Jimmyjane Form 4

    20 Jul 2014 | 12:02 pm
    The Jimmyjane Form 4  seems to be suffering a case of mistaken identity. Everything it claims to be, it is not.  I don’t have a good history with the brand; in fact it’s well-known that I will never recommend one of their products. I fondled their Iconic line at a Babeland a few years ago and was extremely underwhelmed. Don’t even get me started on those bumblebee-in-a-can Little Something vibes. I hated the Hello Touch and I wanted to set fire to the Form 3. The Form 6 bored me so much that I never found the fucks to give to review it. I tend to think that everything made…
  • Vixen! Medium Realistic Bent vs Vixskin Tex

    16 Jul 2014 | 8:14 am
    The Medium Realistic Bent and Vixskin Tex are the same size, length and design – modeled after an average-sized cock with foreskin. The only difference between the two is that one is dual-density Vixskin and comes only in flesh tones, while the other is more firm and comes in colors like black and a gorgeous purple. I’m not a fan of super-realistic dildos, but the realistic design squick can be offset for me with non-realistic color options, hence why I chose the Medium Realistic Bent as my single-density Vixen to try out. Probably the only real issue I have with these two dildos…
  • 5 Things Every Sex Toy Reviewer Should Know

    11 Jul 2014 | 10:30 am
    This got to be a little more complicated than just 5 simple things, but more knowledge is good…right?? Right. I’ve also asked some veterans to weigh in. Epiphora made this great post for sex toy reviewers but I wanted to see if we could narrow it down and make it less about being a newbie and more about “continuing education”. So Tip #4 comes to you from Piph! I want to be clear and say that a lot of these things don’t apply to your average blogger who is just blogging to have an outlet, a writing voice, etc. That type of blogging is no less valid; you’re…
  • Contest Winners!

    10 Jul 2014 | 9:31 am
    I had anywhere from 80-140 people vying for EACH prize in the big 6 year giveaway which is awesome but sad at the same time. Why sad? Because I wish I could pick more than one winner per item. Also: Welcome newbies! Next contest, if you stick around, you won’t be a new visitor anymore and will get bonus Loyalty Points for the next giveaway. How? This past contest, one way I was able to do that was with my Google Plus page. There was a special post on there only visible to those following my page, which is something I’ll do again so if you’re not already following me on…
  • Hot Octopuss : Pulse Vibrator for Men

    6 Jul 2014 | 9:01 am
    Skeptic: Converted. I’ll admit, I was skeptical of the Pulse when it first came out – and a small part of that is the company’s name: Hot Octopuss. It doesn’t do it for me. And then somewhere along the line, it got dubbed the “Guybrator” and my eyes rolled out of my head. But I read a few positive reviews, started to rethink things and asked Lovehoney if we could review the Pulse. My cis male husband has enjoyed vibrating objects placed on and around his cock in the past, so I thought that he would at least find it decent for foreplay. What we didn’t…
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    How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk

  • 25 Ways to Tell if he’s a jerk

    7 Feb 2015 | 9:45 am
    Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not he's a jerk before it is too late. He Might Be a Jerk If He goes through your purse without permission. What is he looking for and why is he beng so secretive about it?   He purposely hangs around girls you don't like. You have told him you don't trust her. But yet he offers to dance with her. Bad sign.  He makes you feel you are overreacting
  • How to Attract a Great Man... the Real Secret!

    Ade W Hakim
    7 Oct 2013 | 10:35 am
    There are all sorts of articles, techniques, books, and experts to tell you how to attract a good man. They often miss the big secret, the one and only advice worth taking. What is it? Be your best self. That is it. Nothing more. You do not need to know some ancient manipulative tricks, how to flirt, how to dress provocatively, what is the most alluring perfume, or the sexiest lip gloss.
  • Listen to your Gut - Why I Give this Suggestion in relationships

    30 Sep 2013 | 10:41 am
    When it comes to relationships, I often suggest women "listen to their gut." If you want to know if a man is cheating... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is in love with you... listen to your gut. If you want to know if a man is honest... listen to your gut. Now, I'm not suggesting you don't analyze, review, and process information. Not at all. What I am suggesting is that our
  • What to do if a Guy Doesn't Call you Back?

    27 May 2013 | 10:19 am
    You had a great evening... you totally clicked.... he said he would give you a call tomorrow... it has been a week... he doesn't call. You call him, leave a message or two, he doesn't call back. What do you do? You get the message and move on. You learn from your mistake and create a great future for yourself without him. If a guy doesn't call back, he is giving you a message loud and clear.
  • How to Tell if a Man is Using You

    20 May 2013 | 10:16 am
    One of the most common questions I get asked is... How can a woman tell if a man is just using her? My first response is, if you are asking, you are probably feeling used. And if you are feeling used you are probably being used. There is a significant difference for most men between wanting a woman for a plaything for a night or two, and wanting a real, healthy, mature relationship. The two
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  • Words Mean Things. Specific things.

    Heather Corinna
    23 Jul 2014 | 11:19 am
    Just a brief request from us to the world-at-large, primarily with the aim of making our users lives a little easier. Secondarily, it'd also make the lives of those of us who work to help them daily in these areas easier, too, which would sure be nice. Please do us and everyone else a favor and stop using certain words with very specific meanings as general shorthand. Often some of these words and frameworks just really aren't shorthand for what you mean, and they confuse the heck out of people and make something even less clear that's already confusing enough. We do have clear, specific…
  • Represent! What are you most hoping for from your sexual life?

    Heather Corinna
    3 Jul 2014 | 8:54 am
    Welcome to our new way of polling, so you can express yourself, and get a sense of how your peers feel about certain topics, in their own words, too! We love having polls on our site so you and others can speak for yourselves -- rather than the media or older adults doing it in your stead -- and see how others feel, too. But our favourite part of the polls were always the comments, where we could all read what you had to say, rather than just seeing what short answer you chose of the options we wrote for you. So, we've swapped out the multiple-choice format and built a graffiti-wall where…
  • Everything Old is New Again: A Brief History of Casual Sex and Cultural Attitudes

    Heather Corinna
    12 Jun 2014 | 2:29 pm
    Author:  Samantha Benac and Heather Corinna Casual sex is one of those things that, so far as we know from the study of people and sex in history, people have always done. Given that for most of human history, basic survival was seriously tough, people's lives and interactions often were more brief than either are now, and many people or cultures were nomadic, it's pretty safe to say there's probably been as much, if not more, "casual" sex as "relationship" sex in all of human history. So, casual sex isn't new: it didn't only start happening in the 1960s in America or in the last five…
  • Data from the Multigenerational Experiences With and Attitudes About Casual Sex Survey (2010 - 2014)

    Heather Corinna
    6 Jun 2014 | 10:28 am
    Author:  Heather Corinna The charts below are excerpts from the far larger, ongoing Multigenerational Experiences With and Attitudes About Casual Sex Survey I have been collecting responses to since 2010. The data below reflects responses given  as of 6/8/2014. It is a broad, international survey, with the age of respondents varying from as young as 16 to over 90 years old, representing a diverse array of genders, orientations, and other kinds of identity. It includes both people who have taken part in casual sex and those who never have. At the current time, over 10,000 people have…
  • Do I need to come out as asexual?

    27 May 2014 | 3:43 pm
    I first learned asexuality existed around a year ago. I decided to research it simply because it was something I had never heard about and wanted to be informed. I came across AVEN and several blogs with people telling about their own experiences with asexuality and debunking myths. After some time of reading about it and kind of forgot about the matter, kept the information I had researched as something to remember when talking to people. Several months later, the Sunday newspaper featured an article about asexuality. Like before, I didn't think much beyond that it was good asexuality was…
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    Having My Cake and Eating It Too

  • e[lust]#5

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    23 Jul 2014 | 12:41 am
    Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #6? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s [...]
  • A Century At Twickenham

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    20 Jul 2014 | 12:34 am
    To the English, Twickenham is Rugby. The stadium’s first rugby match took place on October 2, 1909 between original tenants Harlequins, and Richmond. January 15, 1910 saw Twickenham’s first international, England vs Wales. To celebrate a century of English rugby at Twickenham, this afternoon, England strode out onto the famous turf to face Wales in the RBS 6 [...]
  • Naughty Meme of Sexual Firsts

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    17 Jul 2014 | 12:28 am
    As well as tinkering with her Blogbunnie web design to keep this site up to date with all the latest technological developments, Isabella has also tagged me to do the latest of her infamous sex memes. Here are the rules to Isabella’s Naughty Meme of Firsts: 1. Please post them at the beginning of your meme.2. [...]
  • Blog Action Day 2010 – Water

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    14 Jul 2014 | 12:24 am
    Petitions by|Start a Petition » The people running Blog Action Day’s Water campaign sent me these five salient facts. 1. Unsafe drinking water and lack of sanitation kills more people every year than all forms of violence, including war. Unclean drinking water can incubate some pretty scary diseases, like E. coli, salmonella, [...]
  • Cake or Coke

    Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake
    11 Jul 2014 | 12:20 am
    He rolled over and opened his eyes and looked up at me. “Are you cross with me?” After hours of pushing the dilemma around in my head, I wasn’t angry – just very very sad. The tears of disappointment and uncertainty were still wet on my cheeks. Part of me had wanted to pack my things and [...]
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    Ask Dan and Jennifer

  • How To Give Your Girl An Intense, Full-Body Orgasm That Makes Her Squirt All Over Your Bed… Guaranteed!

    Dan & Jennifer
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:29 am
    This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the type of FULL-BODY, screaming-at-the-top-of-her-lungs orgasm that no guy has EVER given her before… whether it’s your first night together or you’ve been dating for years… In this video you’re going to learn a simple trick to give any woman an orgasm so intense and so powerful,  it will dramatically increase the level of dopamine in her limbic system – causing her brain to become sexually addicted to that feeling… making her sexually addicted to you. Why This Is “The Ultimate…
  • What Women Who Can Have Multiple Orgasms Won’t Tell You

    Kaylen Jackson
    23 Jul 2014 | 7:00 am
    Multiple orgasms can be had, but only if a girl really knows how to let go. Here’s what girls who can have more than one orgasm know that you don’t! They Have Self Confidence Self confidence is a must when it comes to having multiple orgasms and you might could even say the same about just one orgasm. A girl who has multiple orgasms is very self confident – she knows she’s sexy, she knows you like what you see and she knows how to let go. She’s not worried about her cellulite during sex, and she’s most certainly not worried about her O-face, because she…
  • Are You Naughty Enough To Try These Bad-Girl Only Moves?

    Tony Sanskrit
    22 Jul 2014 | 7:00 am
    Sex tips can help good girls go naughty and your man will LOVE it! Are you bad enough to try these kinky sex tips? Every good girl knows that bad girls have the best sex ever. Every man loves a bad girl, just like girls love bad boys. But the reality of being with one or being one isn’t as good as the fantasy. So if you’re a good girl, what can you take from bad girls to spice up your life? I’ve got some bad girl only sex moves, but can you handle them? Are you ready to get that naughty? Take Him So many times men have to make the first move. And while many men enjoy being dominant and…
  • 10 Ways To TEASE A Woman

    Shawna Lenee
    22 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    Foreplay is crucial for a woman to reach orgasm. Here are ten incredible ways to tease and please your girl, so you can give her the best climax of her life! The LONGER you take to get a woman’s clothes off, and the LONGER you wait to go down on her, and the LONGER you wait to have sex with her – the MORE likely she is to have an orgasm! Why & How Women Need Foreplay We’ve all heard the phrase “women are like an oven, they need to be warmed up” – but what most guys don’t know is WHY and HOW. “Why” Foreplay Is Important Guess what…
  • 6 Ways To Be The Alpha Male She CRAVES

    Shawna Lenee
    21 Jul 2014 | 10:00 am
    Sex tips show you what techniques to use, but they won’t matter if you’re a wuss who asks permission to do anything. Here’s how to be the ALPHA MALE she wants! There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight! Take Charge! These sex tips start right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction. Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet. Tease her,…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • When someone’s imposing something upon you, they’re trying to remove your choice (and overstepping your boundaries)

    Natalie (NML)
    21 Jul 2014 | 3:15 pm
    Over the past few weeks, I’ve frequently used the terms ‘imposing’ and ‘imposed’ and it clicked that you always know that there is a major breach of boundaries and that you’re dealing with somebody who just doesn’t gel on the core values front, when they introduce something in a fashion that directly or indirectly communicates that you must do it ‘or else’, or where they try to force you to accept their inappropriate or downright shady behaviour, and when they combine these efforts to attempt to take advantage of you. I don’t like…
  • Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

    Natalie (NML)
    14 Jul 2014 | 2:58 pm
    One of the issues that many people who have felt burned by a relationship experience, especially those where the other party unfolded into something dramatically different to what they’d envisaged or believed, is that sense that due to having misjudged this person, they don’t feel that they can trust themselves. They worry that they’re going to invest trust in someone else who turns out to be a heavyweight bullsh*tter or who just quite simply cannot live up to the picture that they’ve painted in their minds. They relive the experience over and over again and beat themselves up for not…
  • Be careful of basing your self-esteem on the speed and content of text replies

    Natalie (NML)
    11 Jul 2014 | 4:08 pm
    I’ve witnessed a lot of tensions and conflicts between people due to the expectation that they should have got an immediate or fairly swift reply to text messages. When a person perceives a reply to be ‘slow’, it can trigger a spiral of anxiety where they wonder what they did wrong or start berating themselves for not being “good enough”, or they deem the person to be a bad friend or inconsiderate person. Do we have the right to expect an immediate or swift reply to our texts? I’ll hold my hands up and say that I’m not always Mrs Speedy with the ‘ole…
  • For some us, if we don’t have to hustle, we don’t feel interested

    Natalie (NML)
    7 Jul 2014 | 2:57 pm
    I feel for the men and women of this world who are bagged and tagged as ‘nice’ – a very vanilla term incidentally – and either discarded for not being ‘exciting’ (this is often fear, uncertainty, drama, ambiguity, and anxiety mislabeled ), or are held on to as passing time candidates aka fallback options. “I don’t really feel that interested in him/her and I don’t feel the chemistry / fireworks that I did with [the unavailable ex who may even have mistreated them] but I’m going to keep dating them in case I start to feel it soon and/or…
  • It’s Time To Heed The ‘Historical Data’ Instead Of Treating Shady Treatment As An Anomaly Or Something You Caused

    Natalie (NML)
    30 Jun 2014 | 3:06 pm
      A few weeks back, Em and I shared the school run together. With just under twenty minutes before we were due to leave, I hopped into the shower and he was surprised when not only was I stood at the door with the kids ready to go, but that he had to go and get himself ready…. He claimed that based on “historical data”, he hadn’t expected that I would be ready on time. My ears pricked up immediately. Historical data is something he deals with in risk software where they use the past to forecast the future including where they’re potentially exposed to risk.
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    Polyamory Weekly

  • PW 397: Relationship land mines

    29 Jun 2014 | 8:20 pm
    Minx and LustyGuy gives a few examples of relationship land mines for pre-pondering. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 396: Minx gets bawdy

    22 Jun 2014 | 8:05 pm
    LustyGuy and Minx review the one-woman poly play Lust & Marriage and discuss an article on whether women want sex; Minx shares her Seattle Bawdy Storytelling experience! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 395: Unbalanced triads

    5 Jun 2014 | 9:28 pm
    How do you cope when your triad is unbalanced, and your new lover is more into your husband than you? Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 394: Minx comes out!

    30 May 2014 | 12:04 pm
    Minx comes out! Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
  • PW 393: How to treat your metamour

    18 May 2014 | 8:34 pm
    How to treat your metamour. Email, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit or
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    Simple Marriage

  • Comfort Sex

    23 Jul 2014 | 7:09 am
    One thing that separates humans from all other species is our ability to make meaning out of things. The meaning we place on the things in our life are often more important than the things themselves. It’s not money, it’s safety from poverty or a way to get what you want. It’s not just a job, it’s a calling or it’s a means to an end. There is one area where meaning runs rampant … sex. It’s how you express love, experience pleasure, demonstrate power, connect, bond, play, submit, manage anxiety, confirm your sexiness, and on and on. So is it possible…
  • I wish you would stop …

    21 Jul 2014 | 5:04 am
    Every marriage, every relationship, is fraught with perpetual problems and issues. It’s common that I will counsel a couple for several sessions, they reach their desired goals, and leave with renewed hope and energy for the marriage – then come back several years later still arguing about the same issues. While each person has changed and gained (or lost) a few pounds and wrinkles, they’re still having the same argument. Perhaps you’ve even seen this in your parent’s marriage, or in your grandparent’s. They fought about the same thing their entire life. One of the leaders in the…
  • Marriage Help, When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested

    14 Jul 2014 | 7:51 am
    I regularly receive emails from readers looking for help with a struggle in their marriage. They disclose the issues they are having as well as their desire to work on making things better. The biggest reason many people in this type of situation fail to go to counseling is their spouse is uninterested in joining the process. Perhaps they have tried counseling before and not seen any results. Or they may have no interest in counseling since it’s only for “crazy” people. At least that’s what they think. You want to work on the marriage, but your spouse isn’t…
  • Enjoy life

    11 Jul 2014 | 5:42 am
    I had this story sent to me recently. It’s worth sharing. A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them. “Not very long,” answered the Mexican. “But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the American. The Mexican explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family. The American asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?” “I sleep late, fish a little,…
  • Commit to a path

    8 Jul 2014 | 12:04 pm
    Over the last several years I’ve invested a lot of effort in the area located between professional therapy in an office with a trained therapist and the information you would learn if you were to buy a book. The picture in my mind is like creating the Legal Zoom of the mental health/marriage therapy world. This path has involved many failures, but also several successes. Simple Marriage definitely is among the successes, as is Blow Up My Marriage, SCORE, and He Said She Said to name a few more. This summer I’m putting together all the successes in to one resource that takes all…
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  • See you tonight in Baltimore at Sugar!

    23 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    I'm on my phone again heading to Baltimore for the first stop on my mini tour so can't do links properly but wanted to post about tonight's writing workshop. If you know anyone in the Baltimore area, please let them know. Register at the door, by calling or at and get more info on Sugar's site at 23, 6:30 pmErotica 101 writing workshop, Sugar, Baltimore, MarylandProfessional erotica author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, editor of over 50 anthologies such as The Big Book of Orgasms,…
  • Best Bondage Erotica 2014 now available on audio

    23 Jul 2014 | 3:49 am
    My latest in the annual series, Best Bondage Erotica 2014, is now available as an audiobook. Sample it free by using that link (all Audible audiobooks offer a free sample; here are the rest of mine). Happy listening!
  • 8 Capital Fringe shows I'm excited about

    23 Jul 2014 | 3:24 am
    I'm off to the Washington, DC area, and for you creative types, I'll be teaching my Erotica Writing 101 workshop Saturday night at Secret Pleasures in DC, and I hope you can attend, or tell your friends who are eager to write erotica. Attendance is capped at 20 people and there are a few tickets left as of this posting. This special capital edition will include political erotica and I'll be giving lots of advice on how to get your work published and get paid. I'm also in town to attend some shows at Capital Fringe, and while I don't know if I'll make it to all of these, these are the shows…
  • Happy Kindle and Nook ebook release day, The Big Book of Submission!

    21 Jul 2014 | 6:17 am
    With some of my books, it's like two parties release date celebrations, with print and ebook. The Big Book of Submission: 69 Kinky Tales, my third anthology of erotic flash fiction stories of 1,200 words or less, following Gotta Have It and The Big Book of Orgasms, starting shipping in print recently and is out today for Kindle and Nook. It's a huge bargain: 69 stories for just $9.99 (Kindle) or $10.99 (Nook). And I get to do the very first live reading from it this Thursday at sex toy story Lotus Blooms in Alexandria, Virginia. It's absolutely free, you just have to register online. You can…
  • Free gay male erotica from The Big Book of Orgasms

    18 Jul 2014 | 6:55 am
    Not only has Unbound Box published an excerpt of "The Jeffrey Factor" by Stella Harris from The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stores, they've also given it special art. Thanks, Unbound Box! You can also hear Stella read her story live for free on Wednesday, September 10th at 7:30 pm at She Bop in Portland, Oregon! I'm excited to return to Portland, a city that in my experience loves its erotica, and She Bop has been wonderful to the book as well. They are asking that if you know you're coming for you to RSVP on Facebook so they know how many people to expect (I hope we pack the place!). I…
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    Violet Blue ® :: Open Source Sex

  • Eye Candy – Best of Busty Babes

    Violet Blue
    24 Jul 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Bella O. – Pink Caprice – Just Watch Vanea H. – Touching Myself Vanea H., Vanessa O. – Just That Good (image above via) Liza Del Sierra, gentleman friends – House of Sin (image above via) Kerry, Louise, Ebony Goddexxx – Oral power play Anissa Kate – Lip Service (image below via) Lucy – Magic Massage Megan Coxxx, Kai Taylor, Aleena Jonez – Busty milf in her first threesome Maryjane Johnson, gentleman friend – Morning Seduction Jasmine James, gentleman friend – The Club Darisha – Enjoy my pussy Connie Carter – Playing…
  • Sex News: Men who hate women’s erotica, Comic Con trans panel, polyamory study

    Violet Blue
    22 Jul 2014 | 9:08 pm
    VB note: My sweetie is running the SF Marathon this Sunday to raise money for The Trevor Project, an LGBT youth suicide prevention organization. Help us meet (or beat!) our goal! While American generals have been criticized for their handling of an epidemic of sexual assaults, Australia’s army chief, David Morrison, is getting rave reviews for a blistering video he released this week demanding, through clenched teeth, that sexists in his country’s military mend their ways or find another place to work. WATCH: Australia’s army chief demonstrates how you address sex abuse (The…
  • Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Sunday

    Violet Blue
    20 Jul 2014 | 1:19 am
    Candy S., Coco – Artist Loft Coco, Sylvia – Black and White (bondage) Bailey Bradshaw, India Summer, gentleman friend – Study session turns sexual Brandi Love, Kiera Winters, Seth – Caught With Your Pants Down Samia Duarte, others – Crossfit orgy (“Sadistic Trainer”), X-Confessions Katy, Denis and Medina – Two good reasons Lutro and Medina – Get back to me asap Megan Coxxx, Kai Taylor, Aleena Jonez – Busty milf in her first threesome Jassie Gold, Ben – Natural Beauty Jasmine James, gentleman friend – The Club Content…
  • Sex News: Airbnb’s dirty logo, TSA groper, Google and Russia censorship fallout

    Violet Blue
    19 Jul 2014 | 4:07 pm
    Airbnb unveiled its new logo, which you can see above, and the consensus on Twitter is that it looks like a vagina. I wonder if they’ll run into problems on Google AdWords, Facebook or Instagram. There’s already a Tumblr dedicated to illustrating the new Airbnb logo in compromising positions. Everyone Thinks Airbnb’s New Logo Looks Like A Vagina (Except Airbnb) [Updated] (SFist) In a dramatic reversal from hardline policy created three years ago, Google — the most powerful controller of information and identity in human history — will now allow users to use any…
  • Cosplay Deviants

    Violet Blue
    17 Jul 2014 | 11:00 am
    Cosplay and amateur nudity, what’s not to love? Cosplay Deviants is a truly delightful discovery. Sexy, fun, faithful to details, all genders, all body types, and a range from serious to tongue-in-cheek makes this community paysite a treasure. If you just feel like lurking for free, you can find Cosplay Deviants on Twitter, on their Tumblr, and other social sharing sites. Content copyright © 2013 Violet Blue ® (R) permitted for use on only. This feed is for personal, non-commercial use only and is held within federally registered trademark Violet…
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    Savage Lovecast

  • Savage Love Episode 404

    Dan Savage
    22 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan and his buddy Lucy chat about spanking, cheating, pervy cousins and sleeping with the cab driver.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting
  • Savage Love Episode 403

    Dan Savage
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    When a guy uses concert tickets to entice you to spend time with him, should you accept, even if you feel no attraction? Or would that make you mercenary?  A lesbian wonders how to let her potential employers know that she's gay during her job interview.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Japanese bondage trailblazer Midori, about getting what you want out of a kink relationship.  Also, is the X-men character Mystique bisexual or what?  And more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Go buy something, and be sure to enter SAVAGE2014 at…
  • Savage Love Episode 402

    Dan Savage
    8 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    Dan welcomes special guest ranter Martha Plimpton to talk about Hobby Lobby. A gay male couple were locked in a pattern of cheating to get revenge on each other. Now that they've cut it out, how can they bring in some trust?  On the Magnum, how much do little children remember? WIll they remember the trip to Disneyland? Will they remember their first day of kindergarten? Will they remember the home video of mommy they stumbled on where she shows her bum-bum? Also, Dan chats with perversity expert Jesse Bering on people who just LOVE animals.  And so much more.  206-201-2720…
  • Savage Love Episode 401

    Dan Savage
    1 Jul 2014 | 1:00 am
    A gay man appears to be a straight man magnet. Straight men declare their love for him more than gay men do. Why? And how can he make it stop?!  Meanwhile, in the mountains of Alaska, a couple have reached the divide where one of them wants kids and the other doesn't. One of them will win. One will lose.  On the Magnum, it's our second Second Opinion! This time, with "Ask Amy's" Amy Dickinson who braves some raunchy territory with naughty Dan Savage.  Also, Alice Dreger on talking to your kid about pornography.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by…
  • Savage Love Episode 400

    Dan Savage
    24 Jun 2014 | 1:00 am
    A woman discovers through dubious sources that her step-mother might be cheating on her father. Dan walks her through a way to deal with this unpleasantness.  A woman still living with her ex-husband and son wonders how poly people balance all those boyfriends and girlfriends.  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes philosophy professor and gay marriage diplomat John Corvino to discuss ethics and the state of the gay rights movement. And more.  This episode is brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This episode…
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    Very Smart Brothas

  • VSB Roundtable: Is It Okay To Like Your Own Pictures On Social Media?

    24 Jul 2014 | 9:47 pm
    It’s time for another VSB roundtable. This time we turned our attention towards social media and the question that possibly only Sway can answer: Is it ever okay to like your own pictures on IG or Facebook? Heeeeeeeeere we go. Social media is a narcissists playground. We post pictures of ourselves doing shit that everybody else does but somehow we’re waaaay cooler than everybody else. “Do you see the way my kale leans to the left? Bawse shit. Fuck yo kale my dude, your kale leans to the right! #takethat #kalewars…
  • VSB Events: Love Jones Cafe (7/28) | REMINSCE (8/2) | Naturalista Hair Show (8/3)

    24 Jul 2014 | 9:33 am
    In the next one of our VSB’s is going to be all over DC talking, dancing, and shuckin’ and jivin’. First up, is the Love Jones Cafe held at The Howard Theatre on Monday, July 28, from 7-10pm, where Panama Jackson will be a panelist for a conversation about love and dating alongside Mr. #Pleasantries himself, Enitan Bereola II, and model/vixen Miss Lena Chase. The capper is a performance by venerable songbird, Teedra Moses! Tickest can be purchased here —–>  NEXT UP is the best damn 90s part in DC, hands down, REMINISCE, next Saturday,…
  • GET ON UP Advanced Screening Passes (Washington, DC | Tuesday, July 29)

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:53 am
    If you’re into Black cinema, then you already know what GET ON UP is about. But on the off chance you don’t, it’s the biopic of James Brown, one of the most famous artists of all time. Starring Chadwick Boseman as the icon himself, here’s a synopsis for all you suckas that don’t know: Based on the incredible life story of the Godfather of Soul, the film will give a fearless look inside the music, moves and moods of Brown, taking audiences on the journey from his impoverished childhood to his evolution into one of the most influential figures of the 20th century.
  • Old “Bae” Becomes New Flavor For Whites

    Maya Francis
    23 Jul 2014 | 9:00 pm
    In this, the 2014th Year of Our Lord, on the 23rd day of the month of July, at 6:55 p.m. EST, TIME Magazine ran a story. It’s headline read: “This is What Bae Means.” Yes, stupid stories happen. Stupid headlines even more frequently. But TIME Magazine, once a premier weekly magazine (the first of its kind, actually), made space for 500 words under the protection of its elite-level masthead to write about the word “bae”. And I have so many questions about how this story came about. Was it pitched? Was it assigned? I’ve asked all these questions via Twitter to the piece’s…
  • On Watching Bone Thugs N Harmony’s “Crossroads” Video as an Adult

    Alex Hardy
    23 Jul 2014 | 9:00 am
    I used to rock with Bone Thugs N Harmony. I generally enjoyed bopping and inventing words to a handful of Bone Thugs songs and even copped the “Look Into My Eyes” maxi single. In fact, I learned Biggie’s verse on “Notorious Thugs” in the seventh grade to impress a girl, and well, you see how far that got me. Here are my thoughts after watching their “Tha Crossroads” video for the first time as an adult. I. When The Swoop Bang Trio opened the video with that soul-accosting rendition of “Mary Don’t You Weep,” all that repressed fear came rushing back. Their eerie vocal…
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    YourTango | The Latest Smart Talk About Love

  • '50 Shades' Friday: Dakota Johnson's New Man Is No Christian Grey

    25 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    Dakota Johnson has a new beau, Charlie Hunnam is stoked for '50 Shades' and more. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • '50 Shades' Friday: Beyonce Is Crazy In Love With The Trailer

    25 Jul 2014 | 5:00 am
    The first "50 Shades Of Grey" trailer is finally here, and it features none other than Queen Bey. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Make Love, Not War: Is Your Constant Fighting Healthy?

    24 Jul 2014 | 2:40 pm
    NDN Video ID:  26450157 Based on our own personal experiences, we can all admit that no couple gets along 100% of the time. In fact, it's completely normal to have differing opinions and for said opinions to create conflict. However, how much fighting is too much fighting? Is there a way to tell whether the arguments are covering up a bigger issue? When two people are so passionate about their relationship and each other, it only makes sense that they're willing to duke it out to get their point across. The problem lies in not knowing how to differentiate between a lover's spat and a…
  • It's Not You, It's Him: The Do's And Don't Of Rejection

    24 Jul 2014 | 1:41 pm
    The date is over, and you don't want to go out again—but he asked. Sound familiar? Or maybe you just met, and he likes you, but you don't want to go out. What do you say when he brings up that dreaded question? Expert Dina Colada is here to help. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Pieces Of Men's Jewelry Your Boyfriend Is Going To Love

    24 Jul 2014 | 1:19 pm
    Buying men's jewelry is by no means an easy task. As a girlfriend (friend, sister, whatever!) your primary concern might be finding a piece that your guy will both wear and pull off. This worry is followed by the hunt for timeless, yet utterly cool accessories. Luckily, we've done the searching for you. It's time to abandon the dog tag for good and embrace these 10 simple and classic men's pieces he'll love. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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    Sex Toys Blog

  • The First Official Fifty Shades of Grey Film Trailer

    24 Jul 2014 | 9:03 am
    Anastasia Steele stumbles out of the lift and into a world of sex, love and power play, guided and dominated by the infallibly dressed Christian Grey. The first official trailer for the Fifty Shades of Grey movie was aired this morning in the USA, and it. is. steamy. Featuring a flogger, restraint set, riding crop, and a whole lot of smouldering sexual tension, the trailer is a torturous tease for the film, due to be released Valentine's Day 2015. Until then, fans of Fifty Shades and of bondage in general have the chance to win a luxury weekend break for two in Europe's biggest ever sex…
  • Lovehoney Hits 75,000+ Sex Toy Reviews!

    24 Jul 2014 | 6:00 am
    If you're subscribed to our mailing list you'll already know that we recently hit 75,000 sex toy reviews! That's a lot of opinions on sex toys, lingerie and bondage gear! We're really excited about reaching 75,000 reviews, because we love hearing what you have to say about your latest purchase. We're very proud that Lovehoney is the biggest database of sex toy reviews, because we know that helps our customers make informed decisions about what to buy. Whether it's short and sweet or long and detailed, we love to see you submit your review of sex toys, lingerie or gifts and games. Read on for…
  • Enroll in the Official Fifty Shades of Grey Internship Program... Yes, You Read Correctly!

    22 Jul 2014 | 6:14 am
    Great news for fans of Fifty Shades of Grey this week! NBC Universal have just released an official app which allows you to get up close and personal with Christian Grey in advance of the movie release. With the free app you can register for the Fifty Shades of Grey Internship Program and "complete weekly assignments, earn badges, and unlock exclusive official content related to the upcoming Fifty Shades of Grey movie." Features of the new app include weekly assignments, photo filters inspired by the books and "exclusive rewards". Although only available on iTunes at…
  • Stone Dildos, Rectal Dilators and Olive Oil Lube: The Long History of Sex Toys

    16 Jul 2014 | 6:05 am
    The thing about working at a sex toy company is that conversations about inflatable butt plugs and vibrating cock rings become everyday occurrences, and even products as innovative as the Sqweel Go (left) become nothing out of the ordinary. Earlier this week, however, I took a moment to marvel at the sheer range and variety of products Lovehoney stocks - thousands upon thousands of dildos, butt plugs and cock rings - and it got me thinking about the human urge to seek sexual pleasure. The amount of technical expertise and hours of planning that go into developing each bullet vibrator begs the…
  • Oh là là: Top Five French Maid Costumes!

    14 Jul 2014 | 2:00 am
    It's July 14th, which means we're wishing our neighbours across the pond a happy Bastille Day. Funnily enough, over the past few years we've noticed a spike in sales of sexy French Maid costumes around Bastille Day. It's not difficult to see the appeal of these frilly outfits: they're short, skimpy and make housework fun! We're not alone with this opinion - the French Maid has been voted Britain's favourite bedroom dress up outfit - beating sexy schoolgirl, naughty nurse and sultry secretary to the top spot. Do you own a sexy French Maid costume? Do you actually get any dusting done while…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex


    24 Jul 2014 | 10:35 pm
    New Opinion - Hello everyone am julian from Ontario Canada i will like to tell everyone the help Dr Osorba renders to me i was suffering from a long time liver cancer i met someone on the internet who tell me about a great spell caster that can help me get cured and i asked for the contact of this great spell caster and i actually did contact him because i need to get cure of this deadly disease and told him about my health and i needed cure at first i thought it would work i decided to give it a try and today am cancer free and it was all with the help of Dr Osorba he sent me the medicine…

    24 Jul 2014 | 10:33 pm
    New Question - Hello everyone am julian from Ontario Canada i will like to tell everyone the help Dr Osorba renders to me i was suffering from a long time liver cancer i met someone on the internet who tell me about a great spell caster that can help me get cured and i asked for the contact of this great spell caster and i actually did contact him because i need to get cure of this deadly disease and told him about my health and i needed cure at first i thought it would work i decided to give it a try and today am cancer free and it was all with the help of Dr Osorba he sent me the medicine…

    22 Jul 2014 | 9:41 pm
    New Answer - I am Mrs ANDERSON ANN from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband Barry Morgan, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara who en charm him with his beauty, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend Miss Rose and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to…

    21 Jul 2014 | 10:21 pm
    New Answer - I am Mrs ANDERSON ANN from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband Barry Morgan, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Clara who en charm him with his beauty, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend Miss Rose and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to…

    28 Jun 2014 | 2:52 am
    New Answer - Without DR DAHIRU a lot of people would have been dead through heart break. My case is not different from heart break, I am married woman with 3 kids and there was a time when i was having problem with my husband because he was having an affair outside our marriage and this was making me feel bad. So i tried finding solution to my problem by reading a lot of relationship tips on the internet and that was how i came in contact with DR DAHIRU contact details and through the help of DR DAHIRU my husband left the girl he was having affair with and he came back to me and our kids.
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  • 5 Weird Dildos I Totally Want to Try

    25 Jul 2014 | 4:11 am
    Yea, okay. Weird is a subjective term, especially when you’ve purchased a tentacle dildo for a friend as a Christmas gift, and you’ve use multiple glass dildos that look like undersea creatures. 1. Cthulhu Necronomicox makes the “Myths” dildo, which is everyone’s favorite creature from a horror story. This one’s made of silicone while many strange dildos I’d try are made of questionable latex. His tentacle tail is super adorable. You can get customize the dildo in one, two or three colors. Buy it for $125. The Xeno art dildo from the same company is…
  • Finding My Place In All This (Re: Not So Alone)

    20 Jul 2014 | 4:37 pm
    I have many thoughts in my head, including a fun post I want to write about weird dildos, but took took an unexpected turn on Twitter when I posted this: The loner in the crowd of sex toy reviewers — Adriana (@adriana_r) July 20, 2014 Several dozen replies, some new follows, a couple LOLs and one cuddle pile/cuddlePUDDLE (get the Liberator throe!) later, I feel reconnected with many bloggers. In fact, I think I got some perspective. Despite having done this thing for 6 years (help my celebrate by entering to win awesome sex toy prizes!), I sometimes feel like I am so not part of the…
  • 6 Year Blog Anniversary Giveaway (Multiple Prizes)

    16 Jul 2014 | 10:38 pm
    Perhaps it is fitting than for the six years I’ve been writing Of Sex and Love, I will be able to celebrate with six prizes to six different winners. It was unintentional. And I may throw in some Babeland gift cards, too. And I may get a few more sponsors before I finally post this, so it’s not that I can’t count, you guys. So, this is my way of saying thank you. For visiting. Commenting. Emailing. Following through broken domains and weird Tumblr situations. For sticking it out even when I wasn’t sure that I wanted to. Thank you for listening to me even when I…
  • Jopen Key Comet II

    14 Jul 2014 | 11:46 am
    $79.99 from Burlesque Toy Shop Have you ever just wanted something so bad? You couldn’t help but think about it? In this case, it wasn’t that I wanted the Comet and the followup, the vibrating Comet II. I wanted to love them the way that other people did. The way that people loved the Pure Wand. Perhaps I should have known better. Why wasn’t my love affair meant to be? Perhaps it’s because the curve of the Comet II is so round. I guess I prefer an angle. And the shaft is so rigid. There’s no give at all to make it work with my anatomy. There’s no give or…
  • My Favorite Red, White and Blue Sex Toys

    1 Jul 2014 | 11:07 pm
    I’m not much for celebrating our country’s Independence Day. I mean, there’s nothing wrong with firing up the grill or throwing last year’s husk of a Christmas tree into a bonfire to blaze gloriously for all of 30 seconds as your face melts off. And who doesn’t enjoy fireworks? I like the activities, but I just don’t feel the season. To each her own, eh? Anyway, I thought it would be fun if I let you guyos in on my favorite toys boasting the patriotic colors of the American (and plenty of other countries’) flags. Red Lelo’s Siri was my go-to…
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    Lovepanky | Your Guide to Better Love and Relationships

  • 5 Life Altering Lessons You Can Learn from Regret

    25 Jul 2014 | 6:40 am
    Regret can leave you wishing for ways to erase your past forever. But it can also teach you the 5 most important lessons you need for your future. By Sarah Rogers Regret is when we feel sad, ashamed and disappointed over something we’ve done, or perhaps failed to do. Regret is a negative emotion and therefore, often extremely difficult to deal with. And yet, in order to live your life to the absolute fullest, it is essential to understand what regret can teach us, and not solely dwell on its negativity. My story of regret While going through a relationship dilemma during my early twenties,…
  • 14 Dos & Don’ts of Adding Your Date on Facebook

    24 Jul 2014 | 11:56 am
    Did you come across your date on a social network? So what next? Before you go friending your date on Facebook, keep these 14 dos and don’ts in mind! By Michelle Escultura A great date can be a promise of more to come. And thanks to the internet, we no longer have to wait by our phones for our date to call us up! But with the internet comes a specific set of guidelines that we all must abide by to avoid being labeled an online stalker. It’s tempting to look through your date’s profile for little clues about what you can talk about on your next date. It’s almost equally tempting to…
  • 6 Quick and Easy Ways to Deal with Nosy Co-Workers

    23 Jul 2014 | 1:08 pm
    Are you having a hard time dealing with colleagues who can’t stop prying? Here are 6 easy ways to deal with nosy co-workers, and they’re effective too! By Erica Roberts Working with a bunch of people can be quite fun, especially if those people are close to your age and you share common interests. And chatting with co-workers can definitely liven up the day and make tedious tasks go by much more quickly. However, problems begin to arise when co-workers become excessively nosy. We always want to present the best versions of ourselves to our companies, so there are some potentially…
  • 9 Things You can’t Overlook when You Date a Single Parent

    22 Jul 2014 | 7:19 am
    Are you dating a single parent? Here are 9 things you definitely need to understand before you think of making a long-term commitment to this person. By Michelle Escultura Love doesn’t always work out the first, second or even the third time around. And when a relationship ends, sometimes kids get left behind. Now many single parents choose to pore over their child’s welfare 24/7 and are therefore out of the dating market. But there are still some single parents who crave companionship and romance. 9 ways to start a great relationship with a single parent If you find yourself in a mutual…
  • 20 Personality Traits that Make the Ideal Perfect Guy

    22 Jul 2014 | 3:52 am
    What makes a man ideal and perfect, and what are the traits you need to look for? You won’t believe where you need to look, to find that great guy! By Emma Spencer “We were not making love, we did not even kiss, but the inexplicable intimacy we shared left us wordlessly and hopelessly locked into each other’s gaze.” -Jasmine Dubroff I’m a sucker for romance, there is nothing I enjoy more, than sitting down on a night time and going on an emotional roller-coaster ride. It doesn’t matter if it’s from a book, a chick flick or just a television show. If there is a romance plot,…
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    Phone Sex Secrets

  • PSO Help: Dealing With Negative Feedback, Ratings &/or Reviews

    Phone Sex Secrets
    4 Jul 2014 | 9:27 am
    After a few months of running the phone sex review site, some things have become quite clear: some phone sex operators don’t know how to properly handle less than glowing reviews. Just as you can make the most of your positive reviews, you can make a real mess out of less than favorable reviews. In […]
  • The Problem With NiteFlirt Social Shouts

    Phone Sex Secrets
    30 Jun 2014 | 10:26 pm
    NiteFlirt has just launched Social Shouts, a way to “broadcast important NiteFlirt-related updates to your social media followers and customers.” Simply link your social media profiles with your NiteFlirt account and select the events that will trigger posts, such as availability changes and new content additions! And you can customize your posts to make them […]
  • “Are there certain fetishes that pay better?”

    Phone Sex Secrets
    19 Jun 2014 | 5:35 pm
    The best thing in this interview with a phone sex operator is this quote: Rule of thumb: fetishes pay better than vanilla. Vanilla (and female submission) don’t take a lot of brain power, presence or originality to pull off, but fetish and domination are best executed by someone who puts the effort into reading her […]
  • Phone Sex Operator Promo Opportunity

    Phone Sex Secrets
    22 May 2014 | 1:49 pm
    I was just contacted about a site that wants to feature some flash fiction erotica at their website. This is a great free opportunity for phone sex operators to get some exposure and links to their profiles, listings and websites/blogs. Contact me for details.
  • Getting Phone Sex Reviews & Making The Most Of Them

    Phone Sex Secrets
    18 Apr 2014 | 5:27 am
    As promised, I’m back with some more details regarding the phone sex review website. This is a free service. Yes, it is free to be reviewed. However, because Tom is just one man (who already has a long list of favorite PSOs), it is advised, though not required, that you offer him a few free […]
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    Sex Secrets

  • Be a Tease: Give a Lap Dance

    Svetlana Ivanova
    24 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Strap on your stilettos because it’s time for class – lap dance class. Have you ever fantasized about transfixing your guy with a slow striptease? Do you want to tap into your inner diva and master the art of seduction? As the sex experts at, we hear from men and women all over the Continue reading →(Visited 13 times, 4 visits today)
  • The 12 Different Kinds of Sex Defined

    Svetlana Ivanova
    22 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Tammy Black defines the twelve kinds of sex. I got to thinking; how many kinds of sex are there? Oh, come on, you know you were wondering too! Let us begin. First Time Sex — It’s usually clumsy at best and unless you are a good communicator (screaming God’s name doesn’t count) then you will Continue reading →(Visited 63 times, 1 visits today)
  • 4 BDSM Relationship Tips for Beginners

    Svetlana Ivanova
    19 Jul 2014 | 3:00 am
    Elizabeth Mitchell gives four BDSM relationship tips for beginners. So you devoured all three Fifty Shades of Grey books, and now you think you might be interested in a BDSM relationship yourself? Before you go out and find your very own Christian Grey, peep these tips to ensure your safety. Read more(Visited 65 times, 1 visits today)
  • 4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

    Svetlana Ivanova
    17 Jul 2014 | 4:00 am
    Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.(Visited 133 times, 1 visits today)
  • How to Finger a Girl for the First Time

    Svetlana Ivanova
    14 Jul 2014 | 4:16 am
    So, you think a girl is going to let you finger her. Fingering can be very pleasurable to a girl. It can even give her an orgasm. On the other hand, if you don’t do it correctly, nothing will happen, and you might even hurt her.  Fingering a girl isn’t rocket science, but you can’t Continue reading →(Visited 399 times, 3 visits today)
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  • Witnessed

    Molly Moore
    22 Jul 2014 | 7:59 am
    The last chance, the last wait, the last pause, the last date The last look, the last touch, the last kiss, it’s all too much The last dance, you and me, witness by this very tree . The last breath, the last word, the last goodbye, the last thing heard The last time, the last…
  • Blank Canvas

    Molly Moore
    19 Jul 2014 | 4:16 pm
    Me: Hmm I might post this for Sinful Sunday, what do you think? Him: I think it looks like a beautiful blank canvas just waiting for me to leave my mark on. Me: *whimpers What would you want to do with a blank canvas? Related Posts: Hook, Line and Spanker Halo Hand it to me…
  • Just one look

    Molly Moore
    16 Jul 2014 | 5:11 am
    I guess it all started with a selfie. As I mentioned on Twitter the other day I think I was about 36 when I took the first one using the mirror on my landing and a very crappy camera phone I had at the time. I still have the picture on my computer. I am…
  • Elust #60

    Molly Moore
    15 Jul 2014 | 8:46 am
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the…
  • Introspection

    Molly Moore
    12 Jul 2014 | 11:17 am
    “Actually, it’s nature itself that creates the most beautiful pictures, I’m only choosing the perspective.” ~ Katja Michael Related Posts: Erotic Opportunities Through The Looking Glass A Different Stile It’s not easy being green… Bouquets
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    Justine Cross

  • Nominated Best Female Dom by Bondage Awards!

    Ms. Justine
    16 Jul 2014 | 7:36 am
    Vote for me and then crawl into your cage, where you belong! Honored that I was nominated again as Best Female Dom by the Bondage Awards! Please show your support by voting for me Best Female Dom. Spacious. Modern. Upscale. Dungeon West features over 1400 sq. ft. of space, polished concrete floors, 15′ ceilings, BDSM furniture, toys, four poster canopy queen size bed, full bathroom and kitchenette. Perfect for personal or professional rentals, photo shoots, filming, overnight stay and plays and parties. Also, my dungeon, Dungeon West got nominated as best playspace! Please vote for it…
  • Los Angeles Footnight July 24

    Ms. Justine
    15 Jul 2014 | 4:10 am
    Kiss . . . lick . . . worship I will be at Los Angeles Footnight on July 24! The theme is “”SEXY SUMMER SOLES ‘N TOES”” Any requests for what kind of sandals and attire I wear? Myself and Mistress Natalie West enjoying the hot tub and the view. I will also be attending with Mistress Natalie West and other Ladies of Dungeon West, if you can handle a double, triple . . . more?! I am always perfectly poised and pedicured. I particularly love have my feet sucked, kissed and massaged. Of course, I also enjoy trampling sessions as well! Work yourself up and check out…
  • Visiting Chicago July 10-13

    Ms. Justine
    3 Jul 2014 | 2:26 am
    I love sitting pretty while you’re kneeling, slave. I will be visiting Chicago and taking sessions at The Studio or my upscale hotel in downtown. Please contact me BEFORE I arrive in order to book a session as I tend to be fully booked upon arrival. Address Me as Mistress Justine. When would you like to make an appointment? How were you referred to Me? (i.e. what website) What about Me interested you? How long have you been playing? When was the last time? Provide references if you have them. (Yes, I check them.) Of course, if you really want to impress me, I would love a dungeon dinner…
  • Brand Spanking New Website!

    Ms. Justine
    1 Jul 2014 | 8:50 am
    It’s been a long time coming, but I am so happy to finally have my new Los Angeles dominatrix website up and running! Besides a totally new layout and design, please check out the new stuff: *Mobile and iPad optimized *More pictures on every page *New photo sets by Ed Fox, Tommy Cuellar and shoots in Dungeon West *New Dungeon West page *New About page and sub categories: —-Travel Plans —-Wishlist *Newly formatted Gallery page with larger photos and updated sub categories: —-Dungeon West —-Parties & Events —-Fetish Unicorn —-Foot Fetish *Updated…
  • The Best is Coming Through the Southwest

    Ms. Justine
    18 Jun 2014 | 9:02 am
    Next week, I will be traveling through the Southwest. My suitcase is going to be filled with delicious latex, leather, stilettos, boots, Erostek and electrodes, masks, gags and more. What do you want me to pack in my toy bag for you? I’m very much looking forward to my first time in Houston–don’t mess with Mistress! I’ve already had a very warm Texas welcome and am almost completely booked up, so please contact me ASAP if you would like to see me. From there I am traveling onto Lafayette where I am already completely booked. Then, I am ending finally in one of my…
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  • Elust #60

    15 Jul 2014 | 8:44 am
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck…
  • Elust #60 Open for Submissions

    1 Jul 2014 | 1:43 am
    Elust #60 Open for Submissions For Americans this is the month to celebrate their independence, for the rest of us it is time to watch the World Cup, or, maybe take some time and come together in a big sweaty writhing heap of smutty writing and unite in a new edition of Elust! We do hope you like the new site design and we have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers…
  • Elust #59

    15 Jun 2014 | 4:46 pm
    Photo courtesy of Frisky in the 916 Welcome to Elust #59 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Considering Cocks I Love Interrogation, or Diabolical Genius Yes all Women but Not All Men Rant ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~…
  • Elust #59 Open for Submissions

    1 Jun 2014 | 7:16 am
    Elust #59 Open for Submissions June is upon us and in the UK that means people pretend it is summertime. So even if it isn’t hot where you are, send us something to warm us up in all the right (or wrong) ways. We do hope you like the new site design and we have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.   Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month. Stop by the Submission Page and show us what…
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  • Hell Yes: kGoal

    21 Jul 2014 | 8:45 pm
    Everyone pause and bask in this moment. I have found a sex toy crowdfunding campaign that isn’t shitty. It’s a squeezable silicone bulb — er, they’re calling it a pillow — that measures the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles, and it’s called the kGoal (get it? Sounds like “kegel”? If you pronounce “kegel” that way?). It charges via USB and wirelessly communicates with an app on your phone, which serves up your exercise history, suggested workouts, and “max squeeze.” I see a community scoreboard coming on. As added…
  • The girl I call Aerie

    12 Jul 2014 | 1:38 am
    She greets me at the airport with a bouquet of hand-drawn sex toys. Eleven toys, all of them my favorites, with green pipe cleaner stems. On the romance scale, this may surpass the CD that my boyfriend made for one of our anniversaries which included a Tegan & Sara cover and 5 minutes of our cat purring into a microphone. - – - Aerie lives in a swanky condo on the third level. It has sparkling wooden floors, kitchen appliances that beep at you if you don’t do their bidding, and best of all, air conditioning. We make delicious coffee in the morning with a hand grinder and…
  • I’m teaching a class!

    25 Jun 2014 | 11:39 am
    Ever since I started speaking on panels with other lovely industry peeps, I’ve been energized to spread the gospel of the sex blog further and wider. This September, I will be doing just that in the form of my first ever online class, taught alongside the unsinkable Lauren Marie Fleming. Lauren is one of the finest people I’ve become friends in recent years. She has a really exceptional brain and enviable drive for what she does. She’s also a big deal: when I was eating a burrito at a food cart pod with her mere days ago, someone came up to us and said, “e-e-excuse…
  • Um, No: Teddy Love

    19 Jun 2014 | 10:45 pm
    This is not cute. This is not adorable. This is not acceptable. A teddy bear with a vibrating muzzle? Really? This is condescending, infantilizing, and damaging. This is not how we get over the stigma around sex toys. This product is WHY THERE IS A STIGMA AROUND SEX TOYS. Completely overlooking logistical issues such as how the fuck do you clean vag juice off it (the muzzle is made of thermoplastic elastomer, which is porous, and the body is covered in FUR), I am deeply offended that these people are expecting me, as a woman, to coo over this. It’s “inspired by every…
  • Review: Wild Stripes dildo

    17 Jun 2014 | 2:04 pm
    Finally, a manufacturer is going balls-to-the-wall with their silicone sex toy designs — and I love how flamboyant and playful they are. Spanish company BS Atelier makes a dildo for everyone: one for vegans and/or those who miss Gateway computer boxes, one for horror fans, another for people who like to splatter paint, and even one for that dude who keeps his socks on during sex. I chose none of those dildos. I chose the uncategorizable Wild Stripes, which is striped diagonally with black, white, orange, pink, purple, red, and grey. I chose it solely based on how attractive it…
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  • real bodies, shame, and sex workers: july- e[lust] 60

    24 Jul 2014 | 10:05 pm
    Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck…
  • the wasted punchline

    20 Jul 2014 | 12:48 pm
    Of the Unbearably Long JokeSo last week we realized (ha ha) that life is long and becomes tiresome.Grinds.Life is a tangled popcorn string that goes on for miles, and the happy man’s only solution/recourse is to waste it on happy little things.Don’t spend your time under an assumption of scarcity, hoarding it like a college kid’s coins. Spend it like the tower of breadcrumbs that it is. Toss it to whichever featherbrained sparrow crosses your flight of fancy; scatter it to the wind or let the pavement take it; spend it like Netflix spends its TV shows.(Life is better…
  • the unbearably long joke

    13 Jul 2014 | 10:46 am
    With No PunchlineWhen you think about it, life is extremely,Exhaustingly,Devastatingly,Long.For the intents and purposes of this thought, there are two types of people- the satisfied and the unsatisfied.If you’re a malcontent, brimming with ambition, always pushing to go further, and never satisfied about your lot in life or your rung on its ladder, life may seem short to you. There’s never enough time to do all the hurrying you want to do, to shoot for all the stars you have it in for.The malcontent’s legacy is stuck in a perennial race against his/her timeline, a mad dash…
  • nasty

    10 Jul 2014 | 9:50 am
    or The Sexual She-Beast vs. the Average Maleor Are Men Just Nastier Than Women?I want answers.The modern woman insists that she is a sexual beast. She insists that, contrary to what man has believed for so long, her sexuality and hunger rivals that of the male. That if only you knew the filthy, salacious things going through her mind, which she represses due to the role in which society tries to pigeonhole her, you would be shocked to find that she matches you in raw sexuality pound for pound.She is, in other words, just as nasty as any man.I want to believe that’s true.I, however, am…
  • how to be sex positive

    6 Jul 2014 | 11:25 am
    or A Sex Positive BibleI think some people were born monogamists, and some were born monogamish, and some were born polyamorous, and some were born gay, and some were born bi, and some were born religious, and this is all normal and okay as long as consent and respect is involved.I think pickup artists, prostitutes, feminists, and Christians alike all have their reasons for what they do, and I respect that.I think it’s possible to be an honest, respectful, sex positive (Christian, prostitute, pickup artist, feminist).It’s only when we try to use our gene-mashup to take consent out…
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  • Teri Martine (1944- )

    15 Jul 2014 | 12:01 pm
    Here’s a bit of info about the ever-popular Teri Martine. I sure lots of my readers can add to this. I think Pamela Green and Teri Martine only met once. By the time Teri was modelling for George Harrison Marks Pam had taken a back set in the business. Teri Martine was born in 1944, in Southend, Essex. In her late teens she answered a modelling ad in the local newspaper The Southend Standard. At the interview in front of the lens she felt awkward, but luckily she was very photogenic and it led to her first booking. It was an amateur camera club at the same studio she was interviewed in.
  • Pam and George

    27 May 2014 | 10:36 am
    Pamela Green and Toulouse-Lautrec (George Harrison Marks), on the set of The Window Dresser, 1961.
  • Zoltán Glass (1903-1981)

    25 May 2014 | 2:25 pm
    Self-portrait by Zoltán Glass (1903 – 1981) Pamela Green modelled for numerous photographers. My favourite by far was Zoltán Glass. He was born in Budapest on April 26, 1903. He began his career as a cartoonist and retoucher for a local newspaper, but in 1925 he moved to Berlin, where he found regular employment as the picture editor of a Berlin evening paper, before moving on to the Berliner Tagblatt as a photojournalist. Zoltán prospered and was soon able to develop a thriving freelance business as a commercial photographer and journalist. He established Reclaphot, a photographic…
  • In Loving Memory…

    7 May 2014 | 6:10 am
    In loving memory of Pamela Green who passed away four years ago. I miss her terribly. I must apologise to readers of this blog for my poor posting rate of late. Something I hope to rectify in the coming weeks. The online book of condolences is still up by the way. Pamela Green
  • Costumier Hugh Skillen

    4 Jan 2014 | 9:21 am
    Here’s another picture of Pamela Green taken by the female photographer Joan Craven. The mask is by costumier Hugh Skillen. Don’t know much about Hugh Skillen. From what I can gather he worked for the ballet and theatre in London’s West End. One of the plays he worked on was Bell, Book and Candle (1954-55). The film of which was a favourite of Pam’s. I wonder if she saw the play. You can read more about Joan Craven on my earlier post. Pamela Green by female photographer Joan Craven. Mask by costumier Hugh Skillen. Related Post Joan Craven  
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  • Seawank

    24 Jul 2014 | 7:28 am
    This post Seawank appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Good news, everyone! Not only are you now reading this in Professor Farnsworth‘s voice, but also my computer is working again! You may not have realised that it wasn’t working, but of course it’s hard to tell you on here that I can’t really make any blog posts when I can’t really make any blog posts. Sure, technically I could blog from my phone, but ew, no. Anyway, I’m back, though honestly still likely to be intermittent as this summer has really caught me in a hands-off sort of mood. Although,…
  • Nerding Out

    8 Jun 2014 | 1:29 am
    This post Nerding Out appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Have I mentioned how much I love phone cameras? Man, I love phone cameras. It’s amazing how you can get quite decent and quite sexy shots without needing, or certainly getting, professional quality. I don’t know about you, but I grew up with dial-up, so I’m used to my porn not being the most HD you can get. Like my recent Very Short Stories, it’s all about fitting blogging in where I can at the moment. Time is at a premium. In any case, here are some hopefully sexy, and yet everyday, photos of yours truly…
  • Very Short Stories – Take Me

    6 Jun 2014 | 8:17 am
    This post Very Short Stories – Take Me appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ It’s time for another of my Very Short Stories! If you haven’t read any of mine yet, I encourage you to go and check out Covered in Cream, Prometheus, If We Hadn’t Had Sex and The Quoit, if you have time. And they each fit on a single Post-It note, so I’m thinking you definitely have time. And since we’ve established that time is a thing you have, here’s another one! Just in case you can’t (or don’t want to) read my handwriting: I’m too wise to give myself…
  • My Writing Process

    12 May 2014 | 3:19 pm
    This post My Writing Process appeared first on Being Blacksilk. I’ve been tagged in a meme-style thing that’s going around at the moment by SheBoppin. And it was really fun to do! I definitely enjoyed writing about writing, even if my writing at the moment is a bit different to how it might be normally. I believe I’m supposed to tag people at the end to carry on the meme, but frankly I’ve no idea who hasn’t already done one and I’ve also always hated singling people out for stuff like this in case I leave someone out and upset them. So, if you’re…
  • Purple Worm

    29 Apr 2014 | 11:59 am
    This post Purple Worm appeared first on Being Blacksilk. ♦ Gosh, it’s been a while since I’ve participated in Toy With Me Tuesday, hasn’t it? I love good pictures of good sex toys and I have plenty lying around that I’d love to post as well as ideas for several more in my head. But I have, you may be surprised to learn, a relaxed schedule for this blog and whilst that includes minimum posts per time (ideally one a week, one a fortnight as an absolute low if I can’t help it), it also includes maximum posts per time. Whilst I don’t have a set number for…
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  • Top 5 Best Condoms

    2 Jul 2014 | 2:45 am
    None of these are best. They all look way to thick to me. Something I wish I was taught in school is that not all condoms are created equal.  I'm gonna talk about good condoms and bad condoms and what makes them good or bad-- and then give you my Top 5 Best Condoms List.  I'll cover recognizing the good or bad ones (the easy way is to look at the pictures of the good ones!) And hopefully this will transform your experience because sex with a good condom is WAY better. I have personally used ever single condom I mention and many many others as well...I know my shit and I'm…
  • World Pride Toronto 2014

    25 Jun 2014 | 9:27 pm
    Toronto is hosting the 4th Annual World Pride event  year from June 20-29 ...which means it is going on right now! This coming weekend looks like it will be a doozy too!  For those of you unfamiliar with it, Toronto normally hosts a yearly Pride Week that is fucking massive on any level. Millions of people come out to the gay pride parade and literally fill the streets. The parade itself goes down Yonge Street (Toronto's biggest street)  and terminates on Church Street in the middle of the Gay Village.Well, this year Toronto is not only hosting the Canada's biggest Pride…
  • You might be a masochist

    17 Jun 2014 | 5:16 pm
    *Note: Read this in the tone of Jeff Foxworthy saying, "you might be a redneck."If someone plays with your hair and you wish they'd just pull it might be a masochist.If going to hardware store gets you excited by all the evil sex toys might be a masochist.If someone nibbles on your ear and you'd prefer them clamping so purple teeth marks might be a masochist.If pain triples the intensity of your might be a masochist.If you sleep better when rolling over makes new parts might be a masochist.If you love the way fingernails leave red…
  • The Fault in Our Stars (Amputee Sex)

    12 Jun 2014 | 1:09 am
    I recently saw the movie The Fault in Our Stars by John Green. People often say the book is better than the movie and this is true here but the movie was FUCKING AWESOME! I was so impressed. It's rare that a movie engages me emotionally this much. It kicked ass, 5/5 and all that.(It currently has a 92% audience liked it on Rotten Tomatoes and 82% of critics). But that's not why I'm writing this. I'm writing this because as part of kicking ass, it included a sex scene with an amputee!! <3 -- and that's goddamn rare!Now, I've done another post on another John Green book, Looking for Alaska…
  • On Sex with Married Women

    10 Jun 2014 | 11:16 am
    I am writing this in part because a particular situation is pending.  So let's talk about married women for a bit. Is it unethical for me to date a married woman? Let's talk this one out a little. Did I ever promise not fuck anyone in particular? I don't think so. In fact, I openly admit to not being very good at being monogamous.  So if I didn't make any promises to do or not do anything, am I not a free agent who can do what I want?  This works pretty well with my polyamorous viewpoint.Well, the key element here is the girl I am considering DID make just such a promise.
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  • Sexual desire – the difference between the sexes

    17 Jul 2014 | 3:34 am
    Men and women have different expectations when it comes to sex and relationships. This has been the subject of a Norwegian study among students. In a relationship Single men and women both seek long-term partners and there is no difference between the sexes in their wish for a long-term relationship. The differences occurs when it comes to sex in the relationship. Men in long-term relationships take the initiative to sex more often than their female partners and they are less satisfied with the frequency of sex than their female partners are. Casual sex Men seek short-term partners to a…
  • Why do we have sex?

    10 Jul 2014 | 3:30 am
    People have sex for many different reasons. Meston & Buss have made a list of these reasons and this can be used for research purposes when people want to study differences between e.g. the sexes or age groups. It can also be used as a tool to consider your own or your partners reasons to have sex in different situations. You can see the full list at the end of this blog. The top 20 reasons for having sex divided on gender is in the table below (click to enlarge). Men are in general significantly more likely to have sex for pure physical reasons or simply because the opportunity presents…
  • Women prefers a fat penis

    3 Jul 2014 | 11:33 am
    A group of researchers has investigated whether women prefer a long or a wide penis. The study was based on responses from under graduate students, which means young women. However, the results could very well be the same if the study was conducted among elderly women. The overall result was that 90% preferred girth (a fat penis) to a long penis. No one said that they could not tell any difference. It is interesting that when people, in particular men, discuss penis size they usually refers to length even though the vast majority of women seem to prefer girth over length. It is not possible…
  • Monogamy – It is a choice, not a truth

    24 Jun 2014 | 10:31 am
    Woolard Weaver has made a paper were he takes us through the modern arguments for monogamy and contests their validity. I will present the essence of the discussion here. The first norm in monogamy requires two partners to refrain from any sexual activity outside the relationship. How this is interpreted is very different. In some relationships, you must refrain from any kind of physical contact with others while in other relationships you are allowed to dance, kiss, flirt etc. Often the rules are never discussed it is something you are expected to understand subconsciously. This can…
  • Are you a guy looking for casual sex? Go for a woman with a big butt

    14 May 2014 | 10:55 am
    It is well known that it is women who decide whether a sexual encounter is going to happen or not. Most men are willing if the opportunity arises. It is also well known that the waist-hip-ratio is an important indicator of the attractiveness of a woman. This ratio influences the number and quality of men available for a woman. However, women with a small hip width have a much bigger risk of getting serious problems when giving birth. You could expect that the evolutionary consequence of this is that women with a small hip width are less interested in sex because of the higher risk if they get…
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    17 Jul 2014 | 8:47 am
    I changed Doxy Massager Wand’s name to Doxy the Clown. I can’t help it. It keeps fooling me – from the moment it was born to the moment I received it, and until the moment I started using it. But our relationship isn’t pure hatred either. It’s more complicated than that. First, Doxy Massager has been marketed as THE world’s MOST powerful wand massager. Is it true? Well, if your opinion is only based on the number of Rotations Per Minute (RPM), which, on the highest speed, is approximately 9000 RPM 1, then I guess this is quite true. However, you’re a fool if you base your…

    23 Jun 2014 | 8:23 am
    Three minutes. That’s how long Shibari Halo Wand took to make me orgasm. Three tiny little minutes. If you’ve been sticking with me for long enough, you’d know that it takes me bazillion of years to just have one freaking orgasm. Three minutes is a world record for me. And I’m surprised a wand was able to make me orgasm like this. I mean, my first wand, which I bought, was shitty as hell. It broke my heart, brought me to depression, and it made me lose all hope and interest for wands. That’s why I stopped them from entering Sextopia – I was just not into wands anymore. Halo…

    14 Jun 2014 | 7:35 am
    When the Vixen Spur first showed up in my office and stood there in the middle of my desk, I freaked out. I was never a fan of skin-toned dicks, and looking at the Spur gave me chills down my spine. It looked like a small chopped off ball-less dick, and I felt a bit creeped out by it. Of course, my feelings for the Spur have changed since then. Greatly. If I had to update my Bumbook 1 relationship status with the Vixen Spur, it would have went from “Massively complicated” to “Massively in love”. But our first encounter wasn’t a great one, and Spur didn’t doubt my dislike for it.

    3 Jun 2014 | 11:22 am
    Behold my pervy non-girth loving friends! I’m bringing a rare and exciting news from Sextopia! There’s a new born baby in town! Back in August 2013, I reviewed the Hippocampus Small. However, it was a known fact that the Hippocampus Small was way too big to be actually called small. So the wonderful folks at Exotic-Erotics started researching a way to help the Hippocampus Small breed. After months of sweating and well…attempted reproducing, the new baby is now finally born! Those out there (*cough me cough*) that couldn’t handle the girth of the original Small can now enjoy the…

    27 May 2014 | 9:05 am
    Wow you guys. Wow. Thank you so much for making this giveaway so special. I had a lot of fun reading all your comments. Wait to see all the changes that are about to happen! Now, onto the winners! Doc Johnson Mood Naughty (sponsored by SexToysCanada) goes to…Black! Lelo Luna Beads (donated by Lelo) goes to…Vulva Vag! Tantus Echo (sponsored by Tantus) goes to…Sandra! Average Alien (donated by Damn Average) goes to…Poliana! Lelo Ella (sponsored by SheVibe) goes to…Meghan-Sara! Lelo Mia 2 (donated by GoodVibrations) goes to…Pete! Lelo Siri (sponsored by…
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  • Bondage isn't all whips, chains and medieval torture. Or is it?

    Anida Leeds
    15 Jul 2014 | 1:34 pm
    "Bondage" covers a very wide spectrum of sex acts, and can mean something different to every person. Whatever it is, as long as you both agree on the boundaries, anything goes. From the tame to the extreme. We are all curios about this subject from one level to another, or you wouldn't be reading right now, so let’s get started. Safety First - Although it's often more tempting to play sex games when you're feeling a bit tipsy, it's best not to try bondage when you're under the influence alcohol or drugs, as you might misjudge how tightly to tie the knots. Make sure that you keep a pair of…
  • School Is Back In Session.

    Lady Guinevere
    25 Jun 2014 | 11:01 am
    School might be out for summer, but we have some exciting tips to teach you. We put our minds to work and came up with two of the most exciting and uninformed parts of a man and women. The clitoris (women) and prostate gland (men), both unique in their own ways but similar too. The Clitoris The clitoris is often the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. The clitoris, like the head of the penis, contains numerous concentrated bundles of nerve endings that respond gratifyingly to touch and other types of stimulation. Recent research has shown that the sensitive clitoral tissue is…
  • Give him the best Father's Day ever!

    Anida Leeds
    19 May 2014 | 1:16 pm
    Some men are so easy to shop for: bow tie/six pack of beer/gift card to Home Depot and then there are the others who require days devoted to thinking of some clever and unexpected Father's Day gift ideas. Need some suggestions? We've come up with a sure fire way that will show him he's number one and how lucky he is to have you. Good Morning, wakey wakey, start the day off right for you and for him. Slide under the covers while he is still asleep and go down on him like he has never felt before. Check out the Ultimate Guide to Fellatio. Don't stop there, why let him have all the fun? Slide up…
  • 10 Best Tips for Spring

    Anida Leeds
    27 Mar 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Ice Ice Baby. Put coffee in an ice tray so when you make an ice coffee it doesn't get watered down. Jump out of bed? Don't Go Back to Sleep If You Wake Up Before Your Alarm. You will feel more refreshed if you wake up naturally. Unfriend! Clean out your social media account of people you thought were friends or just don't like to much. You know you have them. A splash of color. Update a room in your house with a new paint color, or just paint your partner. Say bye to winter blues. Change your sheets. Get rid of those warm weather wraps and slide into some satin. Breath. If you live in the…
  • 5 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues

    Anida Leeds
    10 Feb 2014 | 6:00 am
    By now most of us have had enough with winter. The cold weather, the snow and the shorter days can make the most die-hard snow bunnies beg for summer. With less than 40 days till the first day of spring, it's time for some tips to get through the end of winter and embrace the coming of spring. 5. Embrace the Season If your not looking at palm trees on a daily basis you are probably like me and hiding in your house right now. Instead of always avoiding the cold and the snow, look for the best that it has to offer! Take up a winter sport like ice skating, snowboarding, hockey, or even sledding!
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    The Love Hawk

  • Real Love Never Ends

    Shannon Ferguson
    8 Jul 2014 | 1:28 pm
    I’m convinced that most people in the world have never experienced true love. I am certain that many people are very well loved and care deeply for those in their lives but what I’m talking about is that soul mate kind of stuff. That fire. That passion. That moment when you look at someone and you are positive your heart will absolutely burst. I don’t mean the love that parents have for children or best friends have together or even the love you have for your pets. This is the feeling between two people that gives both of them butterflies and makes them goofy smile like children. They…
  • 5 Ways Dating in a Small City is Unique

    Shannon Ferguson
    10 Jun 2014 | 12:18 pm
    Growing up in a small town or city surely has its benefits: Knowing your neighbours and becoming friends with them, perusing the streets and feeling safe, and seemingly being connected to everyone in some way or another. But how does living in a smaller community affect the dating scene? Well, unlike New York, LA, or even Toronto dating around in a small city is sure to make headlines and your past is never to be forgotten. Here are five things people who live in a small city know to be true about dating. 1. There are no secrets Small cities thrive on gossip. Since most people know (or know…
  • What Would You Do For Someone You Love?

    Shannon Ferguson
    3 Jun 2014 | 3:38 pm
    Love is funny isn’t it? Everyone is out searching for it like it’s the oxygen they need to keep them alive not even realizing how much love they already have in their life. We maintain that we’re independent then contradict ourselves after a few drinks at the next girl’s night when we reveal we’re actually desperate for a boyfriend. “Why can’t IIII find a good guy?”, “What’s wrong with me?”, “I haven’t got flowers from a guy in ages, I just want flowers!”, “Is it too much to ask for a nice guy for a change, one who remember the little things”. Oh yes, we’ve…
  • Stop Settling, Start Living

    Shannon Ferguson
    29 Apr 2014 | 9:30 am
    Settling. Ugh. I despise that word. Yet, it is such a common fucking trend these days. We all do it and while some of us are fine with settling for “okay” others are sick of it. I fall into the latter category. It’s like we’ve all been conditioned to live this contradictory lifestyle: they tell us we can have it all but then they scorn us when we express a desire to reach for our goals; to live our dreams. Who are “they”, you ask? “They” can be anyone who has influence in your life; a parent, a friend, a partner, even an acquaintance. These people can be fabulous human beings,…
  • Carry Each Other Through Your Darkest Days

    Shannon Ferguson
    23 Apr 2014 | 10:42 am
    It’s easy to fall into a downward spiral, sometimes. When we aren’t paying attention and we’re too consumed by the shitty things going on in our life, we somehow end up submerged in a black hole, too deep to get out of alone. Worse, we often pull those closest to us down into the hole with us making it hard for anyone to see the light ahead. Whether it be our relationships, our friendships, our families, those closest to us always seem to bear the brunt of our heartaches and see firsthand how deep those dark holes really can be. It’s no wonder so many problems arise when the dark days…
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  • How To Have A Perfect Quickie – 6 Tips And 8 Places You Need To Try Out

    James Buzinko
    21 Jul 2014 | 4:57 am
    Having a quickie can be an amazing experience, but many people do not know how to move a good one into an amazing 5 minutes of passion! While sex shouldn’t be complicated, everything has to be just perfect to make the pure pleasure of a quick passionate intercourse reach its maximum potential. Whether she is […]
  • The 10 Best Male Sex Toys That Are Worth Your Money

    James Buzinko
    21 Jul 2014 | 12:00 am
    As a man, you have probably seen a myriad of sex things dedicated for her and have been wondering, “What happened to all of the male toys?” After all, men like to have fun too – right? When your hand simply is getting too boring or your arm is killing you from overuse, there are things that […]
  • 8 Reasons Why Sex Is Good For Your Body

    James Buzinko
    19 Jul 2014 | 1:56 pm
    For most of us, sex is all about the pleasure, emotion and experience. We rarely think about any health benefits, if any, that may be associated with a good romp in the sack. Aside from the obvious physical benefits, there are many other things going on behind the scenes that are helping make our bodies […]
  • 10 Most Popular Female Sex Toys

    James Buzinko
    18 Jul 2014 | 7:11 am
    Female sex toys are meant to pleasure her and allow her to climax on her own. Whether you are simply a spectator that likes to watch her masturbate or you want these for yourself, you need to know the most popular brands on the market. When the night is cold and you have nothing to keep you […]
  • Top Penis Extenders – Do These 7 Devices Really Work?

    James Buzinko
    17 Jul 2014 | 2:51 am
    Penis extenders are just one of the many different types of penile enlargement products on the market today. These help you perform stretches and exercises that increase your size and girth. Men of all ages turn to these devices to grow their measurements. These are non-invasive, easy to use and relatively inexpensive. Extenders use traction to stretch and elongate […]
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    SEXSCI.NET » News

  • PrEP Pill Doesn’t Increase Risky Sexual Behavior, Study Says

    Rate A Condom
    23 Jul 2014 | 9:01 pm
    The Calgary Herald published a surprising statistic from the same sexual study that investigated the performance of the anti-HIV pill Truvada. And guess what? According to the results, the pill doesn’t lead to an increase of risky sexual behavior and its effective even when missing regular doses. The study noted two aspects: none of the participants […] The post PrEP Pill Doesn’t Increase Risky Sexual Behavior, Study Says appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Gummy-Tip and VivaGel Condoms To Kill STDs and Sperm

    Rate A Condom
    23 Jul 2014 | 8:46 pm
    More innovations have arrived in the condom category. While other industrial researchers are focused on improving the pleasurable aspects of condoms, two condom manufacturers are focused on two different areas: one that limits unplanned pregnancies due to condom breaks, and another that’s destroying STD-causing microorganisms. The first condom, called the Gummy-Tip condom, will hit shelves […] The post Gummy-Tip and VivaGel Condoms To Kill STDs and Sperm appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Opens Nevada Office

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    18 Jul 2014 | 10:13 pm is one company protesting the passage of AB 1576 in California. This measure requires pornography production companies to supply condoms to sexually explicit actors. Lawmakers introducing the regulation were responding to a rash of HIV positive outbreaks occurring throughout the industry in the beginning of the year. Surprisingly, some famous adult entertainment celebrities question the sincerity […] The post Opens Nevada Office appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Coming Soon: An Automated Blow Job Robot Sex Toy

    Rate A Condom
    16 Jul 2014 | 7:23 pm
    The fleshlight will soon have competition from another coveted male masturbation sex toy. What started on Indiegogo has transformed into the prospect for an interesting device that will soon hit customer homes. interviewed the creator of the AutoBlow 2 Blow Job machine. The creator, Brian Sloan, created the sex toy in response to the […] The post Coming Soon: An Automated Blow Job Robot Sex Toy appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
  • Aphrodisiac Foods That Induce Sex: Ginger, Oysters, and more!

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    13 Jul 2014 | 12:58 pm
    Apples are the newest aphrodisiac it seems, but they’re not the only sex stimulants. The following foods below are infamous for increasing your sex drive and improving performance. It’s believed that the compounds in these plant-based (and two meats) foods benefit your sex life. Ginger Ginger is thought to stimulate the excitement feelings of sex. […] The post Aphrodisiac Foods That Induce Sex: Ginger, Oysters, and more! appeared first on SEXSCI.NET. If you liked this article, please share it.
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    Inverse Field Energy Medicine » Sexual Energy Rehabilitation

  • Heal Energy Disorders by Understanding how our Parents’ Genes Affect us

    KC Avnayt
    22 Jul 2014 | 10:00 am
    Every baby conceived has his or her individual unique destiny and spirit purpose. The baby is attracted towards parents whose primal energy fields match their destiny. The following article is not so much about how we can make or break our baby’s chance of health and success, or how our parents’ genes affect us, as much as it is about the scenario a person has to negotiate when the parents’ genetics are compatible or incompatible, harmonious or clashing. In every situation, simple awareness of the truth of the situation brings healing. Where our parents’ genes go in…
  • The Scent of a Human – Hormonal Affirmation for Sexual Energy Rehabilitation

    KC Avnayt
    7 Jul 2014 | 3:15 am
    Hormonal Affirmation is what we get when we’re with people or nature that acknowledges as legitimate the hormones and pheromones we are exuding and being affected by. Hormonal Rejection or suppression is what we experience when we are in an atmosphere populated by living beings that do not acknowledge or allow as good, the natural chemicals, the smells, we are exuding. The hormones and pheromones we exude are our body’s way of speaking to other bodies around. When we are given the impression we have to suppress, hide, manipulate our emanations, its the same thing as being rudely…
  • Stop linking sexual excitement with Stress (Change the way your sexual energy flows)

    KC Avnayt
    24 Jun 2014 | 10:26 am
    Stress is a big part of our lives everyday. Perhaps it always was as survival in any environment has its hardships and conflicts. Sexual excitement was one way humans naturally de-stressed. Every scientific study ever done has demonstrated that stress has a negative effect on libido, on sexual performance, on sexual enjoyment and on the health of our sexual make-up. Strangely enough, culturally we seem to go in completely the opposite of our common sense and natural instinct. We are every day coming out with books, and movies and music that associate sex and sexual excitement with stress. Its…
  • Increase your emotional range for recovery from abuse

    KC Avnayt
    16 Apr 2014 | 3:05 am
    Snow White and the Evil Queen disguised as a country women selling apples. Emotional range happens to be one of the most important needs for recovery from abuse of any kind, whether sexual or even bullying. It specifically helps in dealing with escapist or suicidal tendencies, dissociative behavior and addiction to drugs. Fairy-tales – the old unedited versions of stories like Hansel and Grettel, Snow White, Rapunzel, they brought up generations of people who were emotionally expanded. In those old fairy tales there would be someone completely pure and beautiful, and then someone…
  • How to release pent up Sexual Tension

    KC Avnayt
    12 Apr 2014 | 6:59 am
    Pent up sexual tension is energy that has been blocked or suppressed. Its great when you are aware that you have this because you can work on releasing it. When you are unaware of pent up sexual energy, it literally burns and consumes the energy field just to stay where it is, causing a whole lot of physical and mental illnesses, metabolic and hormonal disorders. The first step to releasing pent up sexual energy is to be aware of it. Awareness begins the releasing process right there. Besides being mentally aware of having pent up sexual energy, allow yourself to physically feel the movement…
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    The Daily Flogger

  • BDSM Mistress Can “Teach Anything”

    Annie Cumswallow
    24 Jul 2014 | 5:33 am
    LINCOLN, NEBRASKA A BDSM Mistress who works under the name Mistress Melinda has the uncanny ability to teach classes on any topic, even those she has no knoweldge of or experience with. “I realized when I was giving a weekend workshop on ‘Cold Fusion’ that I had a rare gift,” Mistress Melinda told The Daily Flogger.  “I am not even sure what that is or what it means, but I did two six hour sessions on it.  Not only did no one complain, I got rave reviews.  People said I really gave them a lot to think about.” The so-called “Mistress of…
  • 96 Year Old Grandmother Killed in “Birthday Spanking” Snafu

    Lazlo Toth
    23 Jul 2014 | 5:49 am
    MIAMI, OHIO Tragedy ensued Saturday when senior citizen Martha Welsh, 96, stumbled into the Hell’s Inferno Dungeon looking for her fellow seniors to celebrate her birthday. When asked what she was doing in the dungeon, she told onlookers, “It’s my birthday.” Unbeknownst to the 96 year old woman, the dungeon has a long standing tradition of giving birthday spankings, requiring one stroke or spank for each year. It wasn’t until they were into the upper 60s that anyone realized something was wrong. “She wasn’t really dressed for it,” Mistress…
  • Do You Like Rope?

    Lazlo Toth
    22 Jul 2014 | 11:12 am
    Do you enjoy rope play? No, but I do enjoy reading the endless arguments and debates about it online. -Kip B., 57, Stunt Pilot Yes, but I spell it with an A instead of an O. -Kim Clark, 19, Advisor to the Mayor I only let people who teach classes tie me, which turns out to be everyone. -Janet P., 22, Professional Knitter Photo credits: Jasper Gregory (cc), HM Revenue & Customs (cc) The post Do You Like Rope? appeared first on The Daily Flogger.
  • Sen. Jim DeMint Shocked to Discover Rob Halford “Gay Leatherman”

    Lazlo Toth
    22 Jul 2014 | 7:45 am
    CLEMSON, SOUTH CAROLINA Conservative Former Senator Jim DeMint is reportedly “shocked and saddened” to learn that Judas Priest frontman and hard core heavy metal rocker Rob Halford is both gay and a leatherman. “I always thought he was just rocking out,” DeMint told The Daily Flogger in a phone interview.  “Before we would vote on an important piece of legislation or when we had a big debate about how to ban abortion or stop science from ruining our schools I would blast Living After Midnight or Painkiller.” Now, for DeMint, it is all tainted.  Known…
  • Man Foils Alien Invasion with BDSM Paradox

    Annie Cumswallow
    21 Jul 2014 | 6:26 am
    BILLINGS, MONTANA While many doubt the existence of UFOs or extraterrestrial life, retired Col. Nugget McFadden has a tale to tell that just might convince people otherwise.  McFadden was employed for almost a decade at the military base in Southern Nevada, commonly known as Area 51.  He described his job as being “on the front lines” and “in contact with many alien life forms.” The most threatening and dangerous he told The Daily Flogger is a race of machines known only as the Trilobots, creatures who exist in a state of pure binary logic. “Talks had broken…
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    Sex, Science & Nature

  • TTC Tips for Men: Increase Sperm Count, Quality, and Motility

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    25 Jul 2014 | 5:52 am
    Improve sperm count, quality, and motility with these tips for men in TTC couples. Dr. E shares positive life changes that may help as you are trying for a baby. The post TTC Tips for Men: Increase Sperm Count, Quality, and Motility appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • 5 Things We All Want To Make Sex Better

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    24 Jul 2014 | 6:30 am
    Many of us want the same things to make sex better. A large study of men and women, ages 33-43, paints a picture of how we all would like to change our intimate lives. The post 5 Things We All Want To Make Sex Better appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • How To Give and Receive More Oral Sex

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    22 Jul 2014 | 6:29 am
    About 60% of married Americans give and receive oral sex, but many want to more than they are getting. Find out the top 3 reasons we're not getting as much as we want, plus Dr. E shares tips on how to receive more oral sex! The post How To Give and Receive More Oral Sex appeared first on Sex, Science & Nature.
  • Hormonophobia: Media Hysteria & The War Against Hormone Therapy

    Dr. Joanna Ellington
    21 Jul 2014 | 6:53 am
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